
today I’m talking about my personal story about how I discovered and pursued
story about how I discovered and pursued
story about how I discovered and pursued my passion there was one scene that
my passion there was one scene that
my passion there was one scene that totally changed my life and that he is
totally changed my life and that he is
totally changed my life and that he is becoming a mother you know before I gave
becoming a mother you know before I gave
becoming a mother you know before I gave birth to my baby I always think well I
birth to my baby I always think well I
birth to my baby I always think well I want to do something to change the world
want to do something to change the world
want to do something to change the world but actually I did nothing but when I
but actually I did nothing but when I
but actually I did nothing but when I have my baby I think wow I did something
have my baby I think wow I did something
have my baby I think wow I did something to change the world you see I bring this
to change the world you see I bring this
to change the world you see I bring this little men to the world and i really
little men to the world and i really
little men to the world and i really want to add give him the best education
want to add give him the best education
want to add give him the best education because i want to him to be a very happy
because i want to him to be a very happy
because i want to him to be a very happy man and contribute back to the society
however before I practice the education
however before I practice the education plan to my baby I was educated by the
plan to my baby I was educated by the
plan to my baby I was educated by the real life I know some ladies sitting
real life I know some ladies sitting
real life I know some ladies sitting here maybe Mother’s already and you may
here maybe Mother’s already and you may
here maybe Mother’s already and you may understand this all the hard work to
understand this all the hard work to
understand this all the hard work to raise up her kid especially in the first
raise up her kid especially in the first
raise up her kid especially in the first year i breastfeed my baby every three or
year i breastfeed my baby every three or
year i breastfeed my baby every three or four hours a day and the worst time is
four hours a day and the worst time is
four hours a day and the worst time is why go back to work of my maternity
why go back to work of my maternity
why go back to work of my maternity leave all of a sudden I cannot produce
leave all of a sudden I cannot produce
leave all of a sudden I cannot produce enough milk I’m in breast milk by myself
enough milk I’m in breast milk by myself
enough milk I’m in breast milk by myself just because I’m physically exhausted
just because I’m physically exhausted
just because I’m physically exhausted after all the meetings and the technical
after all the meetings and the technical
after all the meetings and the technical solution discussions with my colleagues
solution discussions with my colleagues
solution discussions with my colleagues and you know what my baby refused to
and you know what my baby refused to
and you know what my baby refused to drink formula milk anytime I go back
drink formula milk anytime I go back
drink formula milk anytime I go back home my parents who were taking care of
home my parents who were taking care of
home my parents who were taking care of my baby at that time tell me you see
my baby at that time tell me you see
my baby at that time tell me you see your song refused to drink anything to
your song refused to drink anything to
your song refused to drink anything to eat annecy he always cry for mom and now
eat annecy he always cry for mom and now
eat annecy he always cry for mom and now you see he’s too tired and fall asleep
you know I cried so many times in my
you know I cried so many times in my room quietly I just feels so bad I don’t
room quietly I just feels so bad I don’t
room quietly I just feels so bad I don’t think I’m a good mom and for the first
think I’m a good mom and for the first
think I’m a good mom and for the first time in my life I decided to create my
time in my life I decided to create my
time in my life I decided to create my job and all for something i can
job and all for something i can
job and all for something i can understand some of my friends who have
understand some of my friends who have
understand some of my friends who have very good education and who have great
very good education and who have great
very good education and who have great potential in your career the Queen they
potential in your career the Queen they
potential in your career the Queen they become full-time mother I thought it a
become full-time mother I thought it a
become full-time mother I thought it a waste of talent but actually it’s not I
waste of talent but actually it’s not I
waste of talent but actually it’s not I can durston them now luckily i made this
can durston them now luckily i made this
can durston them now luckily i made this woman she was the vice president of my
woman she was the vice president of my
woman she was the vice president of my company at that time cisco as a tommy
company at that time cisco as a tommy
company at that time cisco as a tommy she traveled from san jose our
she traveled from san jose our
she traveled from san jose our headquarter in California to Beijing to
headquarter in California to Beijing to
headquarter in California to Beijing to have a business meeting and as a
have a business meeting and as a
have a business meeting and as a tradition of or the executive female
tradition of or the executive female
tradition of or the executive female executives in my company they will have
executives in my company they will have
executives in my company they will have some informal gathering with the local
some informal gathering with the local
some informal gathering with the local colleagues now share some experience
colleagues now share some experience
colleagues now share some experience gave a device I’ll raise up my question
gave a device I’ll raise up my question
gave a device I’ll raise up my question I can’t balance my work and alive I
I can’t balance my work and alive I
I can’t balance my work and alive I asked her do did you feel guilty to your
asked her do did you feel guilty to your
asked her do did you feel guilty to your young kid before she said yes but I will
young kid before she said yes but I will
young kid before she said yes but I will never quit my job when your kid grew up
never quit my job when your kid grew up
never quit my job when your kid grew up she or he will be proud of you as a very
she or he will be proud of you as a very
she or he will be proud of you as a very good mom the best gift you could give it
good mom the best gift you could give it
good mom the best gift you could give it to her kid it’s not necessarily the
to her kid it’s not necessarily the
to her kid it’s not necessarily the breast milk or stay with him always the
breast milk or stay with him always the
breast milk or stay with him always the best gift is the best to you you as a
best gift is the best to you you as a
best gift is the best to you you as a mom is a better role model for your kid
well I was delighted that’s the first
well I was delighted that’s the first time in my life I’m thinking of
time in my life I’m thinking of
time in my life I’m thinking of what is the best me I think the best
what is the best me I think the best
what is the best me I think the best myself should be the one who can pursue
myself should be the one who can pursue
myself should be the one who can pursue the passion who can have a meaningful
the passion who can have a meaningful
the passion who can have a meaningful life but what is my passion I have to
life but what is my passion I have to
life but what is my passion I have to sink think of it before you know at that
sink think of it before you know at that
sink think of it before you know at that time I’m a system engineering in cisco
time I’m a system engineering in cisco
time I’m a system engineering in cisco this is just a picture I’m working with
this is just a picture I’m working with
this is just a picture I’m working with my colleagues of them up male I decided
my colleagues of them up male I decided
my colleagues of them up male I decided to be an engineer chesapeake horse in
to be an engineer chesapeake horse in
to be an engineer chesapeake horse in high school my teacher said you can get
high school my teacher said you can get
high school my teacher said you can get very good scores in math and physics you
very good scores in math and physics you
very good scores in math and physics you shouldn’t waste your talent and my mom
shouldn’t waste your talent and my mom
shouldn’t waste your talent and my mom said hey telecom and IT is there a hot
said hey telecom and IT is there a hot
said hey telecom and IT is there a hot these days it can guarantee a very good
these days it can guarantee a very good
these days it can guarantee a very good job then it becomes a car me doing
job then it becomes a car me doing
job then it becomes a car me doing system engineer you know very big
system engineer you know very big
system engineer you know very big company but it is system engineering
company but it is system engineering
company but it is system engineering networking is my true passion I don’t
networking is my true passion I don’t
networking is my true passion I don’t think so and this is what the education
think so and this is what the education
think so and this is what the education I have get has provided me it didn’t
I have get has provided me it didn’t
I have get has provided me it didn’t record encouraged me to sink deeply into
record encouraged me to sink deeply into
record encouraged me to sink deeply into my heart instead it teach me a lot of
my heart instead it teach me a lot of
my heart instead it teach me a lot of knowledge it prepared me to get high
knowledge it prepared me to get high
knowledge it prepared me to get high scores in standard examinations but it
scores in standard examinations but it
scores in standard examinations but it means the most important thing that is
means the most important thing that is
means the most important thing that is to discover the pursuit of your true
to discover the pursuit of your true
to discover the pursuit of your true passion we see 10 years past 20 years
passion we see 10 years past 20 years
passion we see 10 years past 20 years past now our society has a volute
past now our society has a volute
past now our society has a volute evolved from the industrial society to
evolved from the industrial society to
evolved from the industrial society to internet society and now intelligent the
internet society and now intelligent the
internet society and now intelligent the society and I own my own kid now and I
society and I own my own kid now and I
society and I own my own kid now and I know my kid will experience the same
know my kid will experience the same
know my kid will experience the same education as I did before I needed to do
education as I did before I needed to do
education as I did before I needed to do something but what is my true passion
something but what is my true passion
something but what is my true passion while I sit down on a deeply sink of
while I sit down on a deeply sink of
while I sit down on a deeply sink of this question
this question
this question just get out very naturally I just try
just get out very naturally I just try
just get out very naturally I just try to recall the best and the happiest
to recall the best and the happiest
to recall the best and the happiest memory I have ever had and all its
memory I have ever had and all its
memory I have ever had and all its related to human development why was in
related to human development why was in
related to human development why was in high school I established the first news
high school I established the first news
high school I established the first news agency in my school and why was he in
agency in my school and why was he in
agency in my school and why was he in university I go through the drooler area
university I go through the drooler area
university I go through the drooler area to teach English for the students there
to teach English for the students there
to teach English for the students there and why while i was working in cisco we
and why while i was working in cisco we
and why while i was working in cisco we have a special organization is called
have a special organization is called
have a special organization is called cisco connected women together with all
cisco connected women together with all
cisco connected women together with all the colleagues since it didn’t work now
the colleagues since it didn’t work now
the colleagues since it didn’t work now this might be love the colleagues and it
this might be love the colleagues and it
this might be love the colleagues and it has a core member of this organization
has a core member of this organization
has a core member of this organization we design a lot of interesting
we design a lot of interesting
we design a lot of interesting activities for our female counterparts
activities for our female counterparts
activities for our female counterparts in the company we provide them
in the company we provide them
in the company we provide them opportunities to face the leadership
opportunities to face the leadership
opportunities to face the leadership team we also connected them through
team we also connected them through
team we also connected them through video conference to their counterparts
video conference to their counterparts
video conference to their counterparts in another city or even another country
in another city or even another country
in another city or even another country with design horses to Train some great
with design horses to Train some great
with design horses to Train some great sub skills like how to effectively
sub skills like how to effectively
sub skills like how to effectively communicate with your counterparts in
communicate with your counterparts in
communicate with your counterparts in workspace all these things makes me
workspace all these things makes me
workspace all these things makes me happy I pick up after I become a mom i
happy I pick up after I become a mom i
happy I pick up after I become a mom i initiate NGO a very local NGO called mom
initiate NGO a very local NGO called mom
initiate NGO a very local NGO called mom app we have a community of the young
app we have a community of the young
app we have a community of the young professionals and also young mothers we
professionals and also young mothers we
professionals and also young mothers we can gather together to share experience
can gather together to share experience
can gather together to share experience and we can encourage each other to get
and we can encourage each other to get
and we can encourage each other to get more advanced in our career because of
more advanced in our career because of
more advanced in our career because of all the scenes i always award the young
all the scenes i always award the young
all the scenes i always award the young professional leader award in china and
professional leader award in china and
professional leader award in china and you know at that time a few when was the
you know at that time a few when was the
you know at that time a few when was the engineer i design a system for my
engineer i design a system for my
engineer i design a system for my customer which support tens of billion
customer which support tens of billion
customer which support tens of billion dollars of their business I didn’t feel
dollars of their business I didn’t feel
dollars of their business I didn’t feel I was accomplished
I was accomplished
I was accomplished but one I did a little thing related to
but one I did a little thing related to
but one I did a little thing related to human development I feel so happy have
human development I feel so happy have
human development I feel so happy have your so sufficient and yes that should
your so sufficient and yes that should
your so sufficient and yes that should be my passion but even after I have
be my passion but even after I have
be my passion but even after I have realized what he’s my true passion it is
realized what he’s my true passion it is
realized what he’s my true passion it is still very hard to quit my job as a
still very hard to quit my job as a
still very hard to quit my job as a system engineer yea big company until
system engineer yea big company until
system engineer yea big company until one day I guess do you remember that is
one day I guess do you remember that is
one day I guess do you remember that is the two years birthday of my son I was
the two years birthday of my son I was
the two years birthday of my son I was doing a test testing on customer side
doing a test testing on customer side
doing a test testing on customer side for a whole day and why come out is
for a whole day and why come out is
for a whole day and why come out is already ten o’clock in the evening it’s
already ten o’clock in the evening it’s
already ten o’clock in the evening it’s a raining day is cold I work along the
a raining day is cold I work along the
a raining day is cold I work along the way back to home I feel so lonely I’m
way back to home I feel so lonely I’m
way back to home I feel so lonely I’m trying to sinking of my true passion
trying to sinking of my true passion
trying to sinking of my true passion again I record once upon a time I have a
again I record once upon a time I have a
again I record once upon a time I have a talk with my husband I said if I can
talk with my husband I said if I can
talk with my husband I said if I can only pass on only one suggestion to my
only pass on only one suggestion to my
only pass on only one suggestion to my next generation it will be choose your
next generation it will be choose your
next generation it will be choose your chase your true passion but if this is a
chase your true passion but if this is a
chase your true passion but if this is a device I give to them why should I stay
device I give to them why should I stay
device I give to them why should I stay here why shouldn’t I give them actually
here why shouldn’t I give them actually
here why shouldn’t I give them actually instead of words what stopped me after
instead of words what stopped me after
instead of words what stopped me after that I feel so brave nothing to fear and
that I feel so brave nothing to fear and
that I feel so brave nothing to fear and I at that time I don’t know what I
I at that time I don’t know what I
I at that time I don’t know what I should do what I should start or restart
should do what I should start or restart
should do what I should start or restart my career but it’s quite clear to me
my career but it’s quite clear to me
my career but it’s quite clear to me that I should develop myself first I was
that I should develop myself first I was
that I should develop myself first I was trained to be your engineer for seven
trained to be your engineer for seven
trained to be your engineer for seven years I worked as an engineer for eight
years I worked as an engineer for eight
years I worked as an engineer for eight years that’s all together 50 years now I
years that’s all together 50 years now I
years that’s all together 50 years now I want to be educational professional I
want to be educational professional I
want to be educational professional I need more education so I want to
need more education so I want to
need more education so I want to hi is Academy of a size and to pursuit
hi is Academy of a size and to pursuit
hi is Academy of a size and to pursuit my second master degree on psychological
my second master degree on psychological
my second master degree on psychological developmental and educational science
developmental and educational science
developmental and educational science besides that I decided to travel around
besides that I decided to travel around
besides that I decided to travel around the world to see the most of the monks
the world to see the most of the monks
the world to see the most of the monks educational programs I went to Harvard
educational programs I went to Harvard
educational programs I went to Harvard to learn the social innovation and
to learn the social innovation and
to learn the social innovation and actually this professor is also the
actually this professor is also the
actually this professor is also the advisor for the President Obama i also
advisor for the President Obama i also
advisor for the President Obama i also went to MIT d lab experience the makers
went to MIT d lab experience the makers
went to MIT d lab experience the makers education there with the kids there and
education there with the kids there and
education there with the kids there and i also want to dig her out the hidden
i also want to dig her out the hidden
i also want to dig her out the hidden logic behind I’m i TS engineering
logic behind I’m i TS engineering
logic behind I’m i TS engineering education you know there is a magical
education you know there is a magical
education you know there is a magical university in the world they didn’t have
university in the world they didn’t have
university in the world they didn’t have the chem person as it didn’t have the
the chem person as it didn’t have the
the chem person as it didn’t have the classroom all your classes are online
classroom all your classes are online
classroom all your classes are online and as a treat the whole world as their
and as a treat the whole world as their
and as a treat the whole world as their classroom this is the Minerva University
classroom this is the Minerva University
classroom this is the Minerva University and I’m so curious about university that
and I’m so curious about university that
and I’m so curious about university that I went to San Francisco to meet the
I went to San Francisco to meet the
I went to San Francisco to meet the students there and I was incited to find
students there and I was incited to find
students there and I was incited to find that they have the curriculum to help
that they have the curriculum to help
that they have the curriculum to help people to redesign your sinking habit
people to redesign your sinking habit
people to redesign your sinking habit this is so cool and i also want to jab
this is so cool and i also want to jab
this is so cool and i also want to jab hers university and this university
hers university and this university
hers university and this university actually is established by a lone mask
actually is established by a lone mask
actually is established by a lone mask so i’m really curious about how our
so i’m really curious about how our
so i’m really curious about how our masks teaches the entrepreneurs to
masks teaches the entrepreneurs to
masks teaches the entrepreneurs to create the innovative ideas and make
create the innovative ideas and make
create the innovative ideas and make them happen to be a very interesting
them happen to be a very interesting
them happen to be a very interesting stat hyper companies i also went to
stat hyper companies i also went to
stat hyper companies i also went to Mexico to mingle with the students there
Mexico to mingle with the students there
Mexico to mingle with the students there to learn how they go back to learn the
to learn how they go back to learn the
to learn how they go back to learn the history and their traditional culture
history and their traditional culture
history and their traditional culture you know I am a tad fan I went to San
you know I am a tad fan I went to San
you know I am a tad fan I went to San Diago ye in California to experience the
Diago ye in California to experience the
Diago ye in California to experience the largest the tightest keys in US
largest the tightest keys in US
largest the tightest keys in US and of course pad conference I bring all
and of course pad conference I bring all
and of course pad conference I bring all the things back to China and I begin to
the things back to China and I begin to
the things back to China and I begin to design my own educational programs for
design my own educational programs for
design my own educational programs for the keys and for the young women so this
the keys and for the young women so this
the keys and for the young women so this is a event I designed with the ITU that
is a event I designed with the ITU that
is a event I designed with the ITU that is an international telecom unit that
is an international telecom unit that
is an international telecom unit that you ladies to pursue a career in IT
you ladies to pursue a career in IT
you ladies to pursue a career in IT industry so we invite the ladies
industry so we invite the ladies
industry so we invite the ladies actually the high school or college
actually the high school or college
actually the high school or college students all female students to the IT
students all female students to the IT
students all female students to the IT company so you can have what you have to
company so you can have what you have to
company so you can have what you have to talk with the female colleagues there
talk with the female colleagues there
talk with the female colleagues there and they will have a video conference
and they will have a video conference
and they will have a video conference with your counterparts in another
with your counterparts in another
with your counterparts in another country showing here they see is Beijing
country showing here they see is Beijing
country showing here they see is Beijing connected to Taiwan you know although
connected to Taiwan you know although
connected to Taiwan you know although it’s the same country but as they
it’s the same country but as they
it’s the same country but as they actually didn’t have too much
actually didn’t have too much
actually didn’t have too much communication before this is your first
communication before this is your first
communication before this is your first time to get to know each other well of
time to get to know each other well of
time to get to know each other well of the things happened thanks to my husband
the things happened thanks to my husband
the things happened thanks to my husband why I have something sometimes
why I have something sometimes
why I have something sometimes questioned myself he encouraged me do
questioned myself he encouraged me do
questioned myself he encouraged me do not set limit on yourself and a you know
not set limit on yourself and a you know
not set limit on yourself and a you know my little kid he is three years old now
my little kid he is three years old now
my little kid he is three years old now he actually accepts the formula milk
he actually accepts the formula milk
he actually accepts the formula milk later and now he accepts his new mom
later and now he accepts his new mom
later and now he accepts his new mom transformed from engineer to an
transformed from engineer to an
transformed from engineer to an education professional
I think I just skipped one slice that
I think I just skipped one slice that the but it’s okay so this slicer is the
the but it’s okay so this slicer is the
the but it’s okay so this slicer is the video conference in connecting Beijing
video conference in connecting Beijing
video conference in connecting Beijing students to the taiwan students and
students to the taiwan students and
students to the taiwan students and another interesting thing i did
another interesting thing i did
another interesting thing i did connected to TEDx that is ted has kids
connected to TEDx that is ted has kids
connected to TEDx that is ted has kids at you and Lou this is the first and the
at you and Lou this is the first and the
at you and Lou this is the first and the currently own a TEDx keys in China for
currently own a TEDx keys in China for
currently own a TEDx keys in China for this we want to the wants the kids in
this we want to the wants the kids in
this we want to the wants the kids in China to hear different voices we want
China to hear different voices we want
China to hear different voices we want them to have different experience we
them to have different experience we
them to have different experience we encourage them to speak up their own
encourage them to speak up their own
encourage them to speak up their own ideas to the home world and the most
ideas to the home world and the most
ideas to the home world and the most important thing is we wanted their
important thing is we wanted their
important thing is we wanted their parents to be together with them to
parents to be together with them to
parents to be together with them to discover the truths of the education and
discover the truths of the education and
discover the truths of the education and they see is one thing we are doing with
they see is one thing we are doing with
they see is one thing we are doing with our partners now we want to broadcast
our partners now we want to broadcast
our partners now we want to broadcast our today’s kids events to some students
our today’s kids events to some students
our today’s kids events to some students in the juror error of China they do not
in the juror error of China they do not
in the juror error of China they do not have the opportunity to come to Beijing
have the opportunity to come to Beijing
have the opportunity to come to Beijing but as they actually have the
but as they actually have the
but as they actually have the opportunity to hear the most great ideas
opportunity to hear the most great ideas
opportunity to hear the most great ideas in the world in the end I want to share
in the world in the end I want to share
in the world in the end I want to share with your story this is a beautiful
with your story this is a beautiful
with your story this is a beautiful garden in peking university when we
garden in peking university when we
garden in peking university when we finish our MBA degree one professor of
finish our MBA degree one professor of
finish our MBA degree one professor of our economics as well as a question he
our economics as well as a question he
our economics as well as a question he said you invest a lot of money and the
said you invest a lot of money and the
said you invest a lot of money and the time in your education to pursue mba and
time in your education to pursue mba and
time in your education to pursue mba and I know many of you will change your job
I know many of you will change your job
I know many of you will change your job what job you will change so some
what job you will change so some
what job you will change so some students said I will change to finance
students said I will change to finance
students said I will change to finance it earns a lot some artists said I will
it earns a lot some artists said I will
it earns a lot some artists said I will go to the coop government because is
go to the coop government because is
go to the coop government because is stable and have very great social status
stable and have very great social status
stable and have very great social status but my professor said you are wrong you
but my professor said you are wrong you
but my professor said you are wrong you need to choose the job you have true
need to choose the job you have true
need to choose the job you have true passion
passion
passion because at the end of the day you will
because at the end of the day you will
because at the end of the day you will compete with the people who have true
compete with the people who have true
compete with the people who have true passion on this job and you will never
passion on this job and you will never
passion on this job and you will never win passion is a bastard driver for
win passion is a bastard driver for
win passion is a bastard driver for success and yes this is what I want to
success and yes this is what I want to
success and yes this is what I want to share with you it’s never too late to
share with you it’s never too late to
share with you it’s never too late to discover your own passion today we are
discover your own passion today we are
discover your own passion today we are talking about time we everybody of us
talking about time we everybody of us
talking about time we everybody of us are going on a lifetime to discover our
are going on a lifetime to discover our
are going on a lifetime to discover our self is never too late thank you
self is never too late thank you
self is never too late thank you [Applause]
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