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My Crown | Ruqiya Althalmi | TEDxKids@ElCajon


do you shower with that on

do you shower with that on do you have hair under there are you

do you have hair under there are you

do you have hair under there are you bald these other type of questions I get

bald these other type of questions I get

bald these other type of questions I get when I’m wearing my a job imagine every

when I’m wearing my a job imagine every

when I’m wearing my a job imagine every time you leave your house you know you

time you leave your house you know you

time you leave your house you know you have to be ready to expect hateful and

have to be ready to expect hateful and

have to be ready to expect hateful and cruel comments thrown at you hey there

cruel comments thrown at you hey there

cruel comments thrown at you hey there i’m Makia I’m an ordinary young girl

i’m Makia I’m an ordinary young girl

i’m Makia I’m an ordinary young girl living like I am full of dreams that

living like I am full of dreams that

living like I am full of dreams that will hopefully become true I’m a hijabi

will hopefully become true I’m a hijabi

will hopefully become true I’m a hijabi that means a girl with a scarf on her

that means a girl with a scarf on her

that means a girl with a scarf on her head I came here to talk to you about my

head I came here to talk to you about my

head I came here to talk to you about my life as a hijab’ one afternoon after a

life as a hijab’ one afternoon after a

life as a hijab’ one afternoon after a long exhausting day of school I came

long exhausting day of school I came

long exhausting day of school I came home I had a feeling me they never felt

home I had a feeling me they never felt

home I had a feeling me they never felt before I felt confident and strong I was

before I felt confident and strong I was

before I felt confident and strong I was eager but at the same time proud of

eager but at the same time proud of

eager but at the same time proud of myself the feeling was so amazing words

myself the feeling was so amazing words

myself the feeling was so amazing words can’t explain it I was ready to begin a

can’t explain it I was ready to begin a

can’t explain it I was ready to begin a new journey and my life I knew it was

new journey and my life I knew it was

new journey and my life I knew it was going to be rocky but I think I was

going to be rocky but I think I was

going to be rocky but I think I was ready for the level of commitment and

ready for the level of commitment and

ready for the level of commitment and dedication I needed for this journey I

dedication I needed for this journey I

dedication I needed for this journey I was ready to begin a new chapter in my

was ready to begin a new chapter in my

was ready to begin a new chapter in my wife a couple weeks passed by and I was

wife a couple weeks passed by and I was

wife a couple weeks passed by and I was still wondering and questioning myself

still wondering and questioning myself

still wondering and questioning myself should I consider wearing it or should I

should I consider wearing it or should I

should I consider wearing it or should I just wait on a Thursday night I went to

just wait on a Thursday night I went to

just wait on a Thursday night I went to my mosque there is this really inspiring

my mosque there is this really inspiring

my mosque there is this really inspiring an emotional lecture that I heard the

an emotional lecture that I heard the

an emotional lecture that I heard the man speaking to us call they say it was

man speaking to us call they say it was

man speaking to us call they say it was telling us about how this girl got

telling us about how this girl got

telling us about how this girl got bullied but then he told us how God was

bullied but then he told us how God was

bullied but then he told us how God was still with her and that’s what made a

still with her and that’s what made a

still with her and that’s what made a strong girl that really gave me strong

strong girl that really gave me strong

strong girl that really gave me strong feelings that made me think harder

feelings that made me think harder

feelings that made me think harder at that point I was officially ready

at that point I was officially ready

at that point I was officially ready before I went ty mom I went to my older

before I went ty mom I went to my older

before I went ty mom I went to my older sister my older sister is inspiration

sister my older sister is inspiration

sister my older sister is inspiration save her struggle through hard times

save her struggle through hard times

save her struggle through hard times made me think of myself in that position

made me think of myself in that position

made me think of myself in that position seeing her happy made me happy too but

seeing her happy made me happy too but

seeing her happy made me happy too but as you know who we are siblings we don’t

as you know who we are siblings we don’t

as you know who we are siblings we don’t always get along I told her I need to

always get along I told her I need to

always get along I told her I need to talk to her she was shocked I guess

talk to her she was shocked I guess

talk to her she was shocked I guess because I don’t usually tell her I need

because I don’t usually tell her I need

because I don’t usually tell her I need to talk to you so I started off by

to talk to you so I started off by

to talk to you so I started off by saying so um do you know that about my

saying so um do you know that about my

saying so um do you know that about my age as she started acting maturing

age as she started acting maturing

age as she started acting maturing wearing the hijab well I think I’m ready

what how do you know you’re ready um

what how do you know you’re ready um hello wake up I was born ready after

hello wake up I was born ready after

hello wake up I was born ready after that conversation I was officially ready

that conversation I was officially ready

that conversation I was officially ready to tell my mom I told my mom and guess

to tell my mom I told my mom and guess

to tell my mom I told my mom and guess what she was so proud of me that tears

what she was so proud of me that tears

what she was so proud of me that tears are gathering up in your eyes there were

are gathering up in your eyes there were

are gathering up in your eyes there were tears of joy it was the first day of me

tears of joy it was the first day of me

tears of joy it was the first day of me with my head job I was not used to it

with my head job I was not used to it

with my head job I was not used to it but trust me I was going to get used to

but trust me I was going to get used to

but trust me I was going to get used to it like music to my ears someone said

it like music to my ears someone said

it like music to my ears someone said you’re pretty I felt like a queen not a

you’re pretty I felt like a queen not a

you’re pretty I felt like a queen not a princess but a queen at that time here I

princess but a queen at that time here I

princess but a queen at that time here I discovered Malala yep Malala is designed

discovered Malala yep Malala is designed

discovered Malala yep Malala is designed my one and only inspiration she makes me

my one and only inspiration she makes me

my one and only inspiration she makes me feel thankful she got shot by the

feel thankful she got shot by the

feel thankful she got shot by the Taliban just for standing up for girls

Taliban just for standing up for girls

Taliban just for standing up for girls bright I adore her quotes won’t cut the

bright I adore her quotes won’t cut the

bright I adore her quotes won’t cut the I love is one child one teacher one pen

I love is one child one teacher one pen

I love is one child one teacher one pen and a book can change the world

and a book can change the world

and a book can change the world impressive right

impressive right

impressive right she makes me feel confident and strong

she makes me feel confident and strong

she makes me feel confident and strong like right now I am standing in front of

like right now I am standing in front of

like right now I am standing in front of a big crowd explaining my life so that’s

a big crowd explaining my life so that’s

a big crowd explaining my life so that’s my story do you visit me a different way

my story do you visit me a different way

my story do you visit me a different way Oh

Oh

Oh or am I still the same I have been

or am I still the same I have been

or am I still the same I have been wearing this crown for about two and a

wearing this crown for about two and a

wearing this crown for about two and a half years I feel confident and strong

half years I feel confident and strong

half years I feel confident and strong when I get compliments trust me it

when I get compliments trust me it

when I get compliments trust me it always puts me in a good mood okay I

always puts me in a good mood okay I

always puts me in a good mood okay I know you got a mouthful of questions for

know you got a mouthful of questions for

know you got a mouthful of questions for me but just one more thing I want to say

me but just one more thing I want to say

me but just one more thing I want to say do what you believe in and never ever

do what you believe in and never ever

do what you believe in and never ever give up fighting for your rights

give up fighting for your rights

give up fighting for your rights thank you

thank you

thank you [Applause]

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