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Misconceptions are more crippling than disabilities | Cindy Edson | TEDxMustaqillikSquare


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[Applause] I’m just an ordinary person but I’ve

I’m just an ordinary person but I’ve

I’m just an ordinary person but I’ve been able to see the amazing power of

been able to see the amazing power of

been able to see the amazing power of love changed the lives of special-needs

love changed the lives of special-needs

love changed the lives of special-needs orphans and Uzbekistan it’s been a

orphans and Uzbekistan it’s been a

orphans and Uzbekistan it’s been a journey a 23 years and I am so grateful

journey a 23 years and I am so grateful

journey a 23 years and I am so grateful for the partnership the kindness and the

for the partnership the kindness and the

for the partnership the kindness and the hospitality of the Uzbek people where my

hospitality of the Uzbek people where my

hospitality of the Uzbek people where my husband and I started to work in the

husband and I started to work in the

husband and I started to work in the western region of Uzbekistan caracal

western region of Uzbekistan caracal

western region of Uzbekistan caracal Pakistan together with local I hospital

Pakistan together with local I hospital

Pakistan together with local I hospital to bring preventive I care to the people

to bring preventive I care to the people

to bring preventive I care to the people there it was a very beautiful experience

there it was a very beautiful experience

there it was a very beautiful experience and you know the really cool thing that

and you know the really cool thing that

and you know the really cool thing that I learned from these people is

I learned from these people is

I learned from these people is hospitality who is becca stan is a land

hospitality who is becca stan is a land

hospitality who is becca stan is a land of hospitality and you know after a

of hospitality and you know after a

of hospitality and you know after a after a long day of working and

after a long day of working and

after a long day of working and screening children the our friends would

screening children the our friends would

screening children the our friends would invite us to their homes and those

invite us to their homes and those

invite us to their homes and those tables there was like no place to put

tables there was like no place to put

tables there was like no place to put any more food their tables were full

any more food their tables were full

any more food their tables were full full of food and it really touched my

full of food and it really touched my

full of food and it really touched my heart that they would kill their sheep

heart that they would kill their sheep

heart that they would kill their sheep for us and/or their turkey and we would

for us and/or their turkey and we would

for us and/or their turkey and we would have you know these huge cousins of Ash

have you know these huge cousins of Ash

have you know these huge cousins of Ash and beshbarmak it’s beautiful for me

and beshbarmak it’s beautiful for me

and beshbarmak it’s beautiful for me it’s like what I learned from the Uzbek

it’s like what I learned from the Uzbek

it’s like what I learned from the Uzbek people what I receive from the Uzbek

people what I receive from the Uzbek

people what I receive from the Uzbek people was much more than what I gave to

people was much more than what I gave to

people was much more than what I gave to them it was truly beautiful I I was sooo

them it was truly beautiful I I was sooo

them it was truly beautiful I I was sooo Navi know after some time I was invited

Navi know after some time I was invited

Navi know after some time I was invited to a local

to a local

to a local can’t orphanage with children with

can’t orphanage with children with

can’t orphanage with children with special needs and this is just like

special needs and this is just like

special needs and this is just like right up my alley I really love to work

right up my alley I really love to work

right up my alley I really love to work with vulnerable children and I just

with vulnerable children and I just

with vulnerable children and I just think they’re just so beautiful because

think they’re just so beautiful because

think they’re just so beautiful because in them lies this beautiful ability

in them lies this beautiful ability

in them lies this beautiful ability impossibility they’re like these little

impossibility they’re like these little

impossibility they’re like these little flowers that are like tight but when

flowers that are like tight but when

flowers that are like tight but when they’re given that chance to be who they

they’re given that chance to be who they

they’re given that chance to be who they they were meant to be when they’re given

they were meant to be when they’re given

they were meant to be when they’re given a chance to express themselves they

a chance to express themselves they

a chance to express themselves they bloom into these beautiful little

bloom into these beautiful little

bloom into these beautiful little flowers well I was walking down the

flowers well I was walking down the

flowers well I was walking down the hallway of the orphanage and I looked

hallway of the orphanage and I looked

hallway of the orphanage and I looked into one of the play rooms there was the

into one of the play rooms there was the

into one of the play rooms there was the our eyes met it was a little boy named

our eyes met it was a little boy named

our eyes met it was a little boy named Atilla Antilla was sitting there he was

Atilla Antilla was sitting there he was

Atilla Antilla was sitting there he was looking a little bit bored and I was

looking a little bit bored and I was

looking a little bit bored and I was carrying the bag of different toys and

carrying the bag of different toys and

carrying the bag of different toys and things to distribute at the orphanage

things to distribute at the orphanage

things to distribute at the orphanage and so I thought well I’ll get him a big

and so I thought well I’ll get him a big

and so I thought well I’ll get him a big string and some large beads so that he

string and some large beads so that he

string and some large beads so that he can string them but then I as he

can string them but then I as he

can string them but then I as he unfolded his arms and he kind of pressed

unfolded his arms and he kind of pressed

unfolded his arms and he kind of pressed towards me to look at me I could see

towards me to look at me I could see

towards me to look at me I could see that he didn’t have full hands he didn’t

that he didn’t have full hands he didn’t

that he didn’t have full hands he didn’t have any he didn’t have any fingers

have any he didn’t have any fingers

have any he didn’t have any fingers except for one thumb and then one side

except for one thumb and then one side

except for one thumb and then one side of his body was kind of less developed

of his body was kind of less developed

of his body was kind of less developed than the other and he didn’t have full

than the other and he didn’t have full

than the other and he didn’t have full feet all of a sudden I had this

feet all of a sudden I had this

feet all of a sudden I had this misconception that Tillich wouldn’t put

misconception that Tillich wouldn’t put

misconception that Tillich wouldn’t put the bead on the string I thought well

the bead on the string I thought well

the bead on the string I thought well what good is that gonna do if I give him

what good is that gonna do if I give him

what good is that gonna do if I give him a bead in a string he’s so wrong so

a bead in a string he’s so wrong so

a bead in a string he’s so wrong so wrong to give these misconceptions about

wrong to give these misconceptions about

wrong to give these misconceptions about persons with disabilities but I guess so

persons with disabilities but I guess so

persons with disabilities but I guess so I gave him you I gave him the bead with

I gave him you I gave him the bead with

I gave him you I gave him the bead with the string and he started to he was

the string and he started to he was

the string and he started to he was trying to

trying to

trying to put it together and he just he couldn’t

put it together and he just he couldn’t

put it together and he just he couldn’t do it and he was trying and trying so I

do it and he was trying and trying so I

do it and he was trying and trying so I sat with him and it’s like a couple

sat with him and it’s like a couple

sat with him and it’s like a couple hours passed and he finally did it

hours passed and he finally did it

hours passed and he finally did it he finally accomplished it he put this

he finally accomplished it he put this

he finally accomplished it he put this his beads on the string and just to see

his beads on the string and just to see

his beads on the string and just to see his face in the expression on his face

his face in the expression on his face

his face in the expression on his face of joy and just being content and that

of joy and just being content and that

of joy and just being content and that he was able to do something that he had

he was able to do something that he had

he was able to do something that he had never done before in his life never had

never done before in his life never had

never done before in his life never had the opportunity to do before in his life

the opportunity to do before in his life

the opportunity to do before in his life there was such joy on his face we

there was such joy on his face we

there was such joy on his face we continued to work and we continued to by

continued to work and we continued to by

continued to work and we continued to by invitation we continued to work in that

invitation we continued to work in that

invitation we continued to work in that orphanage and open several different

orphanage and open several different

orphanage and open several different classrooms a music classroom a special

classrooms a music classroom a special

classrooms a music classroom a special education classroom sewing a sewing

education classroom sewing a sewing

education classroom sewing a sewing Center and at first you know people were

Center and at first you know people were

Center and at first you know people were just saying are you crazy or what you

just saying are you crazy or what you

just saying are you crazy or what you know what are they gonna do with what

know what are they gonna do with what

know what are they gonna do with what are they going to do with all this but

are they going to do with all this but

are they going to do with all this but you know what it’s so awesome is that

you know what it’s so awesome is that

you know what it’s so awesome is that these kids from the orphanage there’s

these kids from the orphanage there’s

these kids from the orphanage there’s 400 special-needs children in this

400 special-needs children in this

400 special-needs children in this orphanage they proved those with the

orphanage they proved those with the

orphanage they proved those with the misconceptions wrong because they can

misconceptions wrong because they can

misconceptions wrong because they can they can do what people when people say

they can do what people when people say

they can do what people when people say no you can’t do that you’ll never do

no you can’t do that you’ll never do

no you can’t do that you’ll never do that you can’t accomplish anything your

that you can’t accomplish anything your

that you can’t accomplish anything your places over here not to be seen but

places over here not to be seen but

places over here not to be seen but these children they prove them wrong

these children they prove them wrong

these children they prove them wrong they prove their misconceptions wrong

they prove their misconceptions wrong

they prove their misconceptions wrong and it’s so beautiful that are the

and it’s so beautiful that are the

and it’s so beautiful that are the children at the orphanage together with

children at the orphanage together with

children at the orphanage together with the government staff we’ve been able

the government staff we’ve been able

the government staff we’ve been able just to see incredible changes in the

just to see incredible changes in the

just to see incredible changes in the lives of these kids and see that they

lives of these kids and see that they

lives of these kids and see that they have a

have a

have a elytis that we didn’t realize before at

elytis that we didn’t realize before at

elytis that we didn’t realize before at one point we had a opportunity to have a

one point we had a opportunity to have a

one point we had a opportunity to have a presentation at the orphanage kind of to

presentation at the orphanage kind of to

presentation at the orphanage kind of to create awareness and of the abilities

create awareness and of the abilities

create awareness and of the abilities and the possibilities of the

and the possibilities of the

and the possibilities of the special-needs children in this

special-needs children in this

special-needs children in this presentation we put all of their

presentation we put all of their

presentation we put all of their classwork out on the tables their

classwork out on the tables their

classwork out on the tables their beautiful pictures on the walls and and

beautiful pictures on the walls and and

beautiful pictures on the walls and and we invited people to come and to see

we invited people to come and to see

we invited people to come and to see what they had done and I remember it was

what they had done and I remember it was

what they had done and I remember it was like such a joy for me to look at the

like such a joy for me to look at the

like such a joy for me to look at the people’s faces who came because there

people’s faces who came because there

people’s faces who came because there was surprise there was shock there was

was surprise there was shock there was

was surprise there was shock there was joy to see what these children had

joy to see what these children had

joy to see what these children had accomplished and one man he came to me

accomplished and one man he came to me

accomplished and one man he came to me he came up close to me and he had like

he came up close to me and he had like

he came up close to me and he had like kind of a stern face and I was thinking

kind of a stern face and I was thinking

kind of a stern face and I was thinking oh no what’s gonna happen what’s he

oh no what’s gonna happen what’s he

oh no what’s gonna happen what’s he gonna say to me but he was just holding

gonna say to me but he was just holding

gonna say to me but he was just holding back until he got to me and then he held

back until he got to me and then he held

back until he got to me and then he held my hand and he’s and with tears in his

my hand and he’s and with tears in his

my hand and he’s and with tears in his eyes he said I didn’t think this was

eyes he said I didn’t think this was

eyes he said I didn’t think this was ever possible I didn’t think it was

ever possible I didn’t think it was

ever possible I didn’t think it was possible for these children to ever

possible for these children to ever

possible for these children to ever learn and to do the same thing that my

learn and to do the same thing that my

learn and to do the same thing that my kids do misconceptions are more

kids do misconceptions are more

kids do misconceptions are more crippling than disabilities

you know watching these kids grow and

you know watching these kids grow and develop it was it has been it continues

develop it was it has been it continues

develop it was it has been it continues to be such a joy in my life and to work

to be such a joy in my life and to work

to be such a joy in my life and to work with such committed loving staff that

with such committed loving staff that

with such committed loving staff that truly want to see these children achieve

truly want to see these children achieve

truly want to see these children achieve their dreams and their hopes and their

their dreams and their hopes and their

their dreams and their hopes and their goals it’s just been my privilege one of

goals it’s just been my privilege one of

goals it’s just been my privilege one of the sad things for me is that when the

the sad things for me is that when the

the sad things for me is that when the children when they reached the age 17

children when they reached the age 17

children when they reached the age 17 they were gonna be moved to an adult

they were gonna be moved to an adult

they were gonna be moved to an adult institution because they aged out of the

institution because they aged out of the

institution because they aged out of the children’s institution so this was this

children’s institution so this was this

children’s institution so this was this is really hard for me because I really

is really hard for me because I really

is really hard for me because I really love these guys I love watching them

love these guys I love watching them

love these guys I love watching them grow I love being with them and I didn’t

grow I love being with them and I didn’t

grow I love being with them and I didn’t know what their future was gonna be I

know what their future was gonna be I

know what their future was gonna be I didn’t know and it was a little bit it

didn’t know and it was a little bit it

didn’t know and it was a little bit it was really hard for me and I cried and I

was really hard for me and I cried and I

was really hard for me and I cried and I remember I would come home and I would

remember I would come home and I would

remember I would come home and I would just cry and my husband’s lap and think

just cry and my husband’s lap and think

just cry and my husband’s lap and think what can we do and you know what the

what can we do and you know what the

what can we do and you know what the really wonderful a really wonderful

really wonderful a really wonderful

really wonderful a really wonderful thing happened that the government

thing happened that the government

thing happened that the government partnered with us to open a transition

partnered with us to open a transition

partnered with us to open a transition center that would give these young

center that would give these young

center that would give these young people the possibility to continue to

people the possibility to continue to

people the possibility to continue to grow to learn social skills social

grow to learn social skills social

grow to learn social skills social independent and vocational skills and

independent and vocational skills and

independent and vocational skills and that they would have a chance at

that they would have a chance at

that they would have a chance at achieving that dream of integrating into

achieving that dream of integrating into

achieving that dream of integrating into society you know all our kids they have

society you know all our kids they have

society you know all our kids they have dreams they have dreams of integration

dreams they have dreams of integration

dreams they have dreams of integration of being with everybody else having a

of being with everybody else having a

of being with everybody else having a job like everybody else having a fam

job like everybody else having a fam

job like everybody else having a fam like everybody else because they’re

like everybody else because they’re

like everybody else because they’re because they’re disabled they don’t even

because they’re disabled they don’t even

because they’re disabled they don’t even look at themselves I can say they don’t

look at themselves I can say they don’t

look at themselves I can say they don’t even look at themselves as persons with

even look at themselves as persons with

even look at themselves as persons with disabilities in fact I was listening to

disabilities in fact I was listening to

disabilities in fact I was listening to one of our young adults well why do

one of our young adults well why do

one of our young adults well why do people you know look at us the way the

people you know look at us the way the

people you know look at us the way the like were disables we can do more than

like were disables we can do more than

like were disables we can do more than they can do and it’s true it’s true

they can do and it’s true it’s true

they can do and it’s true it’s true these kids have at the transition center

these kids have at the transition center

these kids have at the transition center they have grown so much they have

they have grown so much they have

they have grown so much they have learned independent living skills they

learned independent living skills they

learned independent living skills they take care of their own apartments they

take care of their own apartments they

take care of their own apartments they write their own menus of healthy food

write their own menus of healthy food

write their own menus of healthy food they prepare their meals their own meals

they prepare their meals their own meals

they prepare their meals their own meals their self-discipline to do their

their self-discipline to do their

their self-discipline to do their homework and to get their different

homework and to get their different

homework and to get their different duties their jobs done during the day

duties their jobs done during the day

duties their jobs done during the day and then they study outside and for like

and then they study outside and for like

and then they study outside and for like a person like Atilla he had a dream to

a person like Atilla he had a dream to

a person like Atilla he had a dream to be a jewelry designer this is what

be a jewelry designer this is what

be a jewelry designer this is what Atilla me

Atilla me

Atilla me [Applause]

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has made many creative beautiful pieces

has made many creative beautiful pieces of jewelry and that is what lies in the

of jewelry and that is what lies in the

of jewelry and that is what lies in the heart of the person with disabilities

heart of the person with disabilities

heart of the person with disabilities this creativity that is like clamped up

this creativity that is like clamped up

this creativity that is like clamped up but needs to be encouraged by all of us

but needs to be encouraged by all of us

but needs to be encouraged by all of us that they could be who they were meant

that they could be who they were meant

that they could be who they were meant to be that they can have a dream and see

to be that they can have a dream and see

to be that they can have a dream and see it come true another young lady in our

it come true another young lady in our

it come true another young lady in our transition Center her name is Allah and

transition Center her name is Allah and

transition Center her name is Allah and I asked Allah like I we ask each of the

I asked Allah like I we ask each of the

I asked Allah like I we ask each of the young adults we have 15 young adults at

young adults we have 15 young adults at

young adults we have 15 young adults at the transition center and I asked all of

the transition center and I asked all of

the transition center and I asked all of all of what do you want to do with what

all of what do you want to do with what

all of what do you want to do with what you want to do what vocation do you want

you want to do what vocation do you want

you want to do what vocation do you want and she said Cindy I really want to be

and she said Cindy I really want to be

and she said Cindy I really want to be someone that does massage for others and

someone that does massage for others and

someone that does massage for others and I was thinking in my mind again like

I was thinking in my mind again like

I was thinking in my mind again like this kind of misconception like wow that

this kind of misconception like wow that

this kind of misconception like wow that is huge you know that’s huge that’s she

is huge you know that’s huge that’s she

is huge you know that’s huge that’s she has to learn a lot about the body the

has to learn a lot about the body the

has to learn a lot about the body the bones the muscles and that horror that

bones the muscles and that horror that

bones the muscles and that horror that ugly misconception that wants to kind of

ugly misconception that wants to kind of

ugly misconception that wants to kind of come in her mind and say they can’t all

come in her mind and say they can’t all

come in her mind and say they can’t all I did all are completed or Klatte she

I did all are completed or Klatte she

I did all are completed or Klatte she completed her course she was announced

completed her course she was announced

completed her course she was announced the best in her class and she does an

the best in her class and she does an

the best in her class and she does an incredible massage and she achieved her

incredible massage and she achieved her

incredible massage and she achieved her dreams love love is amazing the power of

dreams love love is amazing the power of

dreams love love is amazing the power of love and giving love is amazing and that

love and giving love is amazing and that

love and giving love is amazing and that love that reaches down into the heart

love that reaches down into the heart

love that reaches down into the heart into the lives of others where there’s

into the lives of others where there’s

into the lives of others where there’s despair where there’s misconception

despair where there’s misconception

despair where there’s misconception where there’s hurt in pain

where there’s hurt in pain

where there’s hurt in pain loneliness and that love comes and it

loneliness and that love comes and it

loneliness and that love comes and it breathes life and joy and creativity

breathes life and joy and creativity

breathes life and joy and creativity it’s the most beautiful thing to see

it’s the most beautiful thing to see

it’s the most beautiful thing to see a life that was crushed or seemingly

a life that was crushed or seemingly

a life that was crushed or seemingly crushed and then come into this place

crushed and then come into this place

crushed and then come into this place where they’re happy and functioning as

where they’re happy and functioning as

where they’re happy and functioning as any other person love sees in us what we

any other person love sees in us what we

any other person love sees in us what we can’t see in ourselves love sees in us

can’t see in ourselves love sees in us

can’t see in ourselves love sees in us what we do not see in ourselves thank

what we do not see in ourselves thank

what we do not see in ourselves thank you

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