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Mindfulness | Victor Ahipene | TEDxRuakura


I invite you all to close your eyes fill

I invite you all to close your eyes fill your body in the chair in the weight of

your body in the chair in the weight of

your body in the chair in the weight of your body in the chair and on the floor

your body in the chair and on the floor

your body in the chair and on the floor take a few deep breaths and as you do

take a few deep breaths and as you do

take a few deep breaths and as you do that feel the oxygen into your body and

that feel the oxygen into your body and

that feel the oxygen into your body and enliven it and as you breathe out feel

enliven it and as you breathe out feel

enliven it and as you breathe out feel your body relax deeper notice your feet

your body relax deeper notice your feet

your body relax deeper notice your feet on the floor and the sensations of your

on the floor and the sensations of your

on the floor and the sensations of your feet on the floor feel the back of your

feet on the floor feel the back of your

feet on the floor feel the back of your legs on the chair pressure pulsing

legs on the chair pressure pulsing

legs on the chair pressure pulsing heaviness lightness notice your back

heaviness lightness notice your back

heaviness lightness notice your back against the chair and as you do that

against the chair and as you do that

against the chair and as you do that bring your attention to your stomach

bring your attention to your stomach

bring your attention to your stomach does it feel tight or tense as you

does it feel tight or tense as you

does it feel tight or tense as you breathe out let it relax further now

breathe out let it relax further now

breathe out let it relax further now bring your attention up into your

bring your attention up into your

bring your attention up into your shoulders and arms if they feel title

shoulders and arms if they feel title

shoulders and arms if they feel title tense spit them soften and as you do

tense spit them soften and as you do

tense spit them soften and as you do that draw your attention down into your

that draw your attention down into your

that draw your attention down into your hands so clint’s is a fist or they feel

hands so clint’s is a fist or they feel

hands so clint’s is a fist or they feel tight let them soften out and finally

tight let them soften out and finally

tight let them soften out and finally bring your attention now up into your

bring your attention now up into your

bring your attention now up into your neck throat and face muscles as you

neck throat and face muscles as you

neck throat and face muscles as you breathe out let them soften and take one

breathe out let them soften and take one

breathe out let them soften and take one more breath and as you do that notice

more breath and as you do that notice

more breath and as you do that notice your body present here in the moment and

your body present here in the moment and

your body present here in the moment and as you breathe out I invite you all to

as you breathe out I invite you all to

as you breathe out I invite you all to open your eyes see if I’m back with us

open your eyes see if I’m back with us

open your eyes see if I’m back with us great I want you to cast your mind back

great I want you to cast your mind back

great I want you to cast your mind back to when you’re a child from a young age

to when you’re a child from a young age

to when you’re a child from a young age we’re all taught about how the body

we’re all taught about how the body

we’re all taught about how the body worked and how to get the best out of it

worked and how to get the best out of it

worked and how to get the best out of it but there was this area of disconnect

but there was this area of disconnect

but there was this area of disconnect and that was our brain was learning all

and that was our brain was learning all

and that was our brain was learning all this other information as well from the

this other information as well from the

this other information as well from the outside world from our teachers parents

outside world from our teachers parents

outside world from our teachers parents and our family and friends and this is

and our family and friends and this is

and our family and friends and this is where the disconnect happens you see we

where the disconnect happens you see we

where the disconnect happens you see we were taught we were learning all these

were taught we were learning all these

were taught we were learning all these things with our brain but our brain was

things with our brain but our brain was

things with our brain but our brain was never delivered

never delivered

never delivered kort how to get the best out of our

kort how to get the best out of our

kort how to get the best out of our brain but it’s not too late for all of

brain but it’s not too late for all of

brain but it’s not too late for all of this to change I’m not just talking

this to change I’m not just talking

this to change I’m not just talking about for the youth but for each and

about for the youth but for each and

about for the youth but for each and every one of us to truly understand this

every one of us to truly understand this

every one of us to truly understand this you need to meet Matt now Matt’s a 13

you need to meet Matt now Matt’s a 13

you need to meet Matt now Matt’s a 13 year old and since the age of six he was

year old and since the age of six he was

year old and since the age of six he was diagnosed with ADHD in part of his

diagnosed with ADHD in part of his

diagnosed with ADHD in part of his treatment was medication initially this

treatment was medication initially this

treatment was medication initially this worked really really well it helped it

worked really really well it helped it

worked really really well it helped it helped with a lot of underlying symptoms

helped with a lot of underlying symptoms

helped with a lot of underlying symptoms but over time Matt’s parents got more

but over time Matt’s parents got more

but over time Matt’s parents got more and more concerned that the medication

and more concerned that the medication

and more concerned that the medication was having less and less of an effect

was having less and less of an effect

was having less and less of an effect this all came to a head when Matt

this all came to a head when Matt

this all came to a head when Matt started high school and he was finding

started high school and he was finding

started high school and he was finding that natural transition to high school

that natural transition to high school

that natural transition to high school with all the new challenges just a bit

with all the new challenges just a bit

with all the new challenges just a bit too much she was spending more time and

too much she was spending more time and

too much she was spending more time and attention then he was out in the

attention then he was out in the

attention then he was out in the playground and then in the last week of

playground and then in the last week of

playground and then in the last week of his first term something happened that

his first term something happened that

his first term something happened that would change Matt’s life forever Matt

would change Matt’s life forever Matt

would change Matt’s life forever Matt got into a heated argument with his

got into a heated argument with his

got into a heated argument with his teacher and the next thing he knew he

teacher and the next thing he knew he

teacher and the next thing he knew he sprinted out of class and he climbs and

sprinted out of class and he climbs and

sprinted out of class and he climbs and nearby pine tree now when Matt’s parents

nearby pine tree now when Matt’s parents

nearby pine tree now when Matt’s parents oh sorry when Matt’s teacher and

oh sorry when Matt’s teacher and

oh sorry when Matt’s teacher and principal came out to get him down they

principal came out to get him down they

principal came out to get him down they were greeted with this arsenal of pine

were greeted with this arsenal of pine

were greeted with this arsenal of pine cones flying at the head as you can

cones flying at the head as you can

cones flying at the head as you can imagine a bunch of thirteen-year-old

imagine a bunch of thirteen-year-old

imagine a bunch of thirteen-year-old boys looking outside the class found

boys looking outside the class found

boys looking outside the class found this absolutely hilarious

this absolutely hilarious

this absolutely hilarious unfortunately Mets principal didn’t have

unfortunately Mets principal didn’t have

unfortunately Mets principal didn’t have the same sense of humor and the next

the same sense of humor and the next

the same sense of humor and the next thing you knew Matt was sitting in the

thing you knew Matt was sitting in the

thing you knew Matt was sitting in the principal’s office with his parents

principal’s office with his parents

principal’s office with his parents finding out that he was on a fast track

finding out that he was on a fast track

finding out that he was on a fast track to getting expelled if something didn’t

to getting expelled if something didn’t

to getting expelled if something didn’t drastically change so Matt’s parents

drastically change so Matt’s parents

drastically change so Matt’s parents went out there started searching high

went out there started searching high

went out there started searching high and low for what might be a solution

and low for what might be a solution

and low for what might be a solution trusted family friend put them on to a

trusted family friend put them on to a

trusted family friend put them on to a behavioral psychologist after the first

behavioral psychologist after the first

behavioral psychologist after the first session Matt’s parents came into the

session Matt’s parents came into the

session Matt’s parents came into the room and though its hold we have a plan

room and though its hold we have a plan

room and though its hold we have a plan in place obviously excited but also

in place obviously excited but also

in place obviously excited but also curious Matt’s mum said so what is it is

curious Matt’s mum said so what is it is

curious Matt’s mum said so what is it is that a new medication or is that a

that a new medication or is that a

that a new medication or is that a change to his current dosage the

change to his current dosage the

change to his current dosage the psychologist turned and paused and just

psychologist turned and paused and just

psychologist turned and paused and just said we’re not going with medication

said we’re not going with medication

said we’re not going with medication we’re going with meditation

we’re going with meditation

we’re going with meditation as you can imagine as a parent they

as you can imagine as a parent they

as you can imagine as a parent they weren’t overly buying into this

weren’t overly buying into this

weren’t overly buying into this particularly when they found out that

particularly when they found out that

particularly when they found out that they had to join in and be part of this

they had to join in and be part of this

they had to join in and be part of this as well but they were on The Last Chance

as well but they were on The Last Chance

as well but they were on The Last Chance Saloon it was either go with this plan

Saloon it was either go with this plan

Saloon it was either go with this plan or face met potentially getting expelled

or face met potentially getting expelled

or face met potentially getting expelled in the future and then Matt’s mum got

in the future and then Matt’s mum got

in the future and then Matt’s mum got that phone call that in this situation

that phone call that in this situation

that phone call that in this situation every parent would read her phone rang

every parent would read her phone rang

every parent would read her phone rang she saw it it was met school she picked

she saw it it was met school she picked

she saw it it was met school she picked it up it was Matt’s principal her heart

it up it was Matt’s principal her heart

it up it was Matt’s principal her heart sank it was until Matt’s principal

sank it was until Matt’s principal

sank it was until Matt’s principal started explaining that she just got he

started explaining that she just got he

started explaining that she just got he just got the reports back from all of

just got the reports back from all of

just got the reports back from all of Matt’s teachers and not only had he not

Matt’s teachers and not only had he not

Matt’s teachers and not only had he not been in trouble but his grades had

been in trouble but his grades had

been in trouble but his grades had improved from failing most of his

improved from failing most of his

improved from failing most of his classes to passing with flying colors

classes to passing with flying colors

classes to passing with flying colors obviously met teachers and principal

obviously met teachers and principal

obviously met teachers and principal were ecstatic about this and naturally

were ecstatic about this and naturally

were ecstatic about this and naturally so was his mum because she’d been

so was his mum because she’d been

so was his mum because she’d been noticing the same changes at home he’d

noticing the same changes at home he’d

noticing the same changes at home he’d been police argumentative more helpful

been police argumentative more helpful

been police argumentative more helpful and just a generally more pleasant

and just a generally more pleasant

and just a generally more pleasant teenager if there’s such a thing when I

teenager if there’s such a thing when I

teenager if there’s such a thing when I heard the story from Matt’s mum it

heard the story from Matt’s mum it

heard the story from Matt’s mum it really piqued my interest not because

really piqued my interest not because

really piqued my interest not because I’ve got this underlying urge to grab a

I’ve got this underlying urge to grab a

I’ve got this underlying urge to grab a pine cone and throw it passes by but

pine cone and throw it passes by but

pine cone and throw it passes by but because I’d heard of similar changes and

because I’d heard of similar changes and

because I’d heard of similar changes and focus thought patterns attention in

focus thought patterns attention in

focus thought patterns attention in cognition happening in a completely

cognition happening in a completely

cognition happening in a completely different group of people and these

different group of people and these

different group of people and these group of people worse highly successful

group of people worse highly successful

group of people worse highly successful young entrepreneurs you see I’m then in

young entrepreneurs you see I’m then in

young entrepreneurs you see I’m then in the unique position as the host of our

the unique position as the host of our

the unique position as the host of our internationally acclaimed young

internationally acclaimed young

internationally acclaimed young foreigners podcast that I get to sit

foreigners podcast that I get to sit

foreigners podcast that I get to sit down and talk to the world’s most

down and talk to the world’s most

down and talk to the world’s most inspiring and successful young

inspiring and successful young

inspiring and successful young entrepreneurs part of the show is they

entrepreneurs part of the show is they

entrepreneurs part of the show is they seek ting for the listeners what makes

seek ting for the listeners what makes

seek ting for the listeners what makes what sets them apart what makes them

what sets them apart what makes them

what sets them apart what makes them tick but one of the things we really

tick but one of the things we really

tick but one of the things we really dive into is two habits what habits give

dive into is two habits what habits give

dive into is two habits what habits give them an unfair advantage over the rest

them an unfair advantage over the rest

them an unfair advantage over the rest of us there were many constants there

of us there were many constants there

of us there were many constants there were things like the ability to think

were things like the ability to think

were things like the ability to think creatively their ability to deal with

creatively their ability to deal with

creatively their ability to deal with stressful environments and also the

stressful environments and also the

stressful environments and also the ability to overcome their fears to take

ability to overcome their fears to take

ability to overcome their fears to take on bigger risk but there was one thing

on bigger risk but there was one thing

on bigger risk but there was one thing one thing in particular there they all

one thing in particular there they all

one thing in particular there they all spoke about that not only helped amplify

spoke about that not only helped amplify

spoke about that not only helped amplify but also hone in all of those previous

but also hone in all of those previous

but also hone in all of those previous skills and it was exact same thing that

skills and it was exact same thing that

skills and it was exact same thing that was given to men and the exact same

was given to men and the exact same

was given to men and the exact same thing that you’re just experienced the

thing that you’re just experienced the

thing that you’re just experienced the power of mindfulness in the cool thing

power of mindfulness in the cool thing

power of mindfulness in the cool thing about it is it’s a mental state we can

about it is it’s a mental state we can

about it is it’s a mental state we can all achieve we do it by simply focusing

all achieve we do it by simply focusing

all achieve we do it by simply focusing our awareness on the present moment

our awareness on the present moment

our awareness on the present moment focusing on the now at the same time we

focusing on the now at the same time we

focusing on the now at the same time we accept and we acknowledge all of our

accept and we acknowledge all of our

accept and we acknowledge all of our thoughts feelings and sensations imagine

thoughts feelings and sensations imagine

thoughts feelings and sensations imagine that a treatment backed up by rigorous

that a treatment backed up by rigorous

that a treatment backed up by rigorous research one that the pharmaceutical

research one that the pharmaceutical

research one that the pharmaceutical companies can’t get their hands on and

companies can’t get their hands on and

companies can’t get their hands on and one that truly positively benefits the

one that truly positively benefits the

one that truly positively benefits the masses now I’m not here to start telling

masses now I’m not here to start telling

masses now I’m not here to start telling people to stop taking their medication

people to stop taking their medication

people to stop taking their medication but it’s a trained physiotherapist I

but it’s a trained physiotherapist I

but it’s a trained physiotherapist I read a lot of medical journals so

read a lot of medical journals so

read a lot of medical journals so naturally this is of interest to me

naturally this is of interest to me

naturally this is of interest to me particularly when I have a vested

particularly when I have a vested

particularly when I have a vested interest you see I’ve got that nice in

interest you see I’ve got that nice in

interest you see I’ve got that nice in Holmes John a and she’s 13 and is it

Holmes John a and she’s 13 and is it

Holmes John a and she’s 13 and is it uncle I naturally worry for her I worry

uncle I naturally worry for her I worry

uncle I naturally worry for her I worry about what would be the options given to

about what would be the options given to

about what would be the options given to her if she presented with similar things

her if she presented with similar things

her if she presented with similar things to men she’d be likely given a drug like

to men she’d be likely given a drug like

to men she’d be likely given a drug like adderall which is aimed to increase

adderall which is aimed to increase

adderall which is aimed to increase activity in the central nervous system

activity in the central nervous system

activity in the central nervous system basically we can on your brain and your

basically we can on your brain and your

basically we can on your brain and your nerves in the areas that work on

nerves in the areas that work on

nerves in the areas that work on hyperactivity and focus so seems pretty

hyperactivity and focus so seems pretty

hyperactivity and focus so seems pretty good it works on those underlying

good it works on those underlying

good it works on those underlying symptoms that is until you look at some

symptoms that is until you look at some

symptoms that is until you look at some of the potential side effects things

of the potential side effects things

of the potential side effects things like stomach pain nausea vomiting

like stomach pain nausea vomiting

like stomach pain nausea vomiting headaches vision problems in anxiety not

headaches vision problems in anxiety not

headaches vision problems in anxiety not to mention that it’s also part of the

to mention that it’s also part of the

to mention that it’s also part of the methamphetamine family so it also comes

methamphetamine family so it also comes

methamphetamine family so it also comes along with those potential risks that we

along with those potential risks that we

along with those potential risks that we often associate with recreational drug

often associate with recreational drug

often associate with recreational drug users like addiction and medicated

users like addiction and medicated

users like addiction and medicated tolerance abuse so some pretty powerful

tolerance abuse so some pretty powerful

tolerance abuse so some pretty powerful pros was some pretty concerning cons so

pros was some pretty concerning cons so

pros was some pretty concerning cons so how does mindfulness stack up

how does mindfulness stack up

how does mindfulness stack up researchers have deep dived into the

researchers have deep dived into the

researchers have deep dived into the brain and had a look at what happens

brain and had a look at what happens

brain and had a look at what happens when people just practice mindfulness

when people just practice mindfulness

when people just practice mindfulness once a day

once a day

once a day they saw a marked decrease in the areas

they saw a marked decrease in the areas

they saw a marked decrease in the areas of the brain that are responsible for

of the brain that are responsible for

of the brain that are responsible for controlling strong emotions things like

controlling strong emotions things like

controlling strong emotions things like fear and anger basically the area in the

fear and anger basically the area in the

fear and anger basically the area in the brain that stops you picking up that

brain that stops you picking up that

brain that stops you picking up that pinecone and throwing it at somebody but

pinecone and throwing it at somebody but

pinecone and throwing it at somebody but at the same time it markedly increased

at the same time it markedly increased

at the same time it markedly increased the area’s responsible for cognition

the area’s responsible for cognition

the area’s responsible for cognition memory social skills and focus but the

memory social skills and focus but the

memory social skills and focus but the cool thing about all of this is it

cool thing about all of this is it

cool thing about all of this is it doesn’t just have this effect on

doesn’t just have this effect on

doesn’t just have this effect on aspiring young entrepreneurs or those

aspiring young entrepreneurs or those

aspiring young entrepreneurs or those diagnosed with behavioral or attention

diagnosed with behavioral or attention

diagnosed with behavioral or attention disorders it has this effect on each and

disorders it has this effect on each and

disorders it has this effect on each and every single one of us and that’s why

every single one of us and that’s why

every single one of us and that’s why I’m excited to introduce to you a

I’m excited to introduce to you a

I’m excited to introduce to you a process that within one minute will

process that within one minute will

process that within one minute will teach you the skills to go home and

teach you the skills to go home and

teach you the skills to go home and start training your own brain but the

start training your own brain but the

start training your own brain but the simplicity of it all will allow you to

simplicity of it all will allow you to

simplicity of it all will allow you to help those closest to you to achieve the

help those closest to you to achieve the

help those closest to you to achieve the same things and you don’t have to give

same things and you don’t have to give

same things and you don’t have to give up work and become a monk and start

up work and become a monk and start

up work and become a monk and start meditating for 18 hours a day to tap

meditating for 18 hours a day to tap

meditating for 18 hours a day to tap into the benefits this can happen in as

into the benefits this can happen in as

into the benefits this can happen in as little as five minutes a day it almost

little as five minutes a day it almost

little as five minutes a day it almost sounds a bit like an AB blaster plus but

sounds a bit like an AB blaster plus but

sounds a bit like an AB blaster plus but but the results are all there so I ask

but the results are all there so I ask

but the results are all there so I ask you to be present with me in the next

you to be present with me in the next

you to be present with me in the next minute well we take those first steps

minute well we take those first steps

minute well we take those first steps towards mastery I like in mindfulness to

towards mastery I like in mindfulness to

towards mastery I like in mindfulness to a board game that I used to play it was

a board game that I used to play it was

a board game that I used to play it was called or fellow and one of the slogans

called or fellow and one of the slogans

called or fellow and one of the slogans were it’s a minute to learn in a

were it’s a minute to learn in a

were it’s a minute to learn in a lifetime to master and what you’ll find

lifetime to master and what you’ll find

lifetime to master and what you’ll find with mindfulness is is very very simple

with mindfulness is is very very simple

with mindfulness is is very very simple to pick up however over time and the

to pick up however over time and the

to pick up however over time and the different challenges you will feel

different challenges you will feel

different challenges you will feel different changes and you’ll take that

different changes and you’ll take that

different changes and you’ll take that step towards mastery when you go off

step towards mastery when you go off

step towards mastery when you go off home you’ll begin by focusing on your

home you’ll begin by focusing on your

home you’ll begin by focusing on your breathing mindfulness is about focusing

breathing mindfulness is about focusing

breathing mindfulness is about focusing on one thing in particular in this case

on one thing in particular in this case

on one thing in particular in this case it is your breathing so you’d focus on

it is your breathing so you’d focus on

it is your breathing so you’d focus on your in-breath breathing in through your

your in-breath breathing in through your

your in-breath breathing in through your nose and focusing on it coming down your

nose and focusing on it coming down your

nose and focusing on it coming down your windpipe enter your lungs in expanding

windpipe enter your lungs in expanding

windpipe enter your lungs in expanding and then doing the same as you breathe

and then doing the same as you breathe

and then doing the same as you breathe out for some of you this breath may take

out for some of you this breath may take

out for some of you this breath may take three seconds for others 10 seconds or

three seconds for others 10 seconds or

three seconds for others 10 seconds or more there’s no right

more there’s no right

more there’s no right or wrong after your first couple of

or wrong after your first couple of

or wrong after your first couple of breaths it may help to close your eyes

breaths it may help to close your eyes

breaths it may help to close your eyes to limit the distraction around you at

to limit the distraction around you at

to limit the distraction around you at the same time it’s important to

the same time it’s important to

the same time it’s important to recognize your body in the chair and the

recognize your body in the chair and the

recognize your body in the chair and the noises and sounds around you your

noises and sounds around you your

noises and sounds around you your thoughts may drift off from time to time

thoughts may drift off from time to time

thoughts may drift off from time to time that’s completely normal

that’s completely normal

that’s completely normal it’s actually one of the powerful things

it’s actually one of the powerful things

it’s actually one of the powerful things of mindfulness it’s about being present

of mindfulness it’s about being present

of mindfulness it’s about being present in this moment so when you can realize

in this moment so when you can realize

in this moment so when you can realize that your mind and your thoughts have

that your mind and your thoughts have

that your mind and your thoughts have drifted and then you can attach onto

drifted and then you can attach onto

drifted and then you can attach onto that and bring your focus back into your

that and bring your focus back into your

that and bring your focus back into your breathing you are doing it right that’s

breathing you are doing it right that’s

breathing you are doing it right that’s all it is it’s that simple

all it is it’s that simple

all it is it’s that simple focusing on one thing in this case your

focusing on one thing in this case your

focusing on one thing in this case your breathing but imagine for a second your

breathing but imagine for a second your

breathing but imagine for a second your child grandchild niece or nephew they

child grandchild niece or nephew they

child grandchild niece or nephew they went off to school each day and they

went off to school each day and they

went off to school each day and they began with five minutes of mindfulness

began with five minutes of mindfulness

began with five minutes of mindfulness practice equipping the likes have met

practice equipping the likes have met

practice equipping the likes have met with the skills from a young age to

with the skills from a young age to

with the skills from a young age to better deal with the behavior focus in

better deal with the behavior focus in

better deal with the behavior focus in learning empowering my niece jaane who’s

learning empowering my niece jaane who’s

learning empowering my niece jaane who’s growing up into an environment with more

growing up into an environment with more

growing up into an environment with more change than we’ve ever seen before

change than we’ve ever seen before

change than we’ve ever seen before more stress and more uncertainty and

more stress and more uncertainty and

more stress and more uncertainty and helping teach your children to get

helping teach your children to get

helping teach your children to get better use out of their own brain this

better use out of their own brain this

better use out of their own brain this is how I envision a bit of future where

is how I envision a bit of future where

is how I envision a bit of future where mindfulness is practice every day not

mindfulness is practice every day not

mindfulness is practice every day not only in the home but also in every

only in the home but also in every

only in the home but also in every school to learn it ourselves as simple

school to learn it ourselves as simple

school to learn it ourselves as simple to introduce it into schools and homes

to introduce it into schools and homes

to introduce it into schools and homes is simple to implement it daily for not

is simple to implement it daily for not

is simple to implement it daily for not only ourselves but those closest to us

only ourselves but those closest to us

only ourselves but those closest to us to improve our cognition our memory our

to improve our cognition our memory our

to improve our cognition our memory our focus and our attention is simple the

focus and our attention is simple the

focus and our attention is simple the results however a life-changing so I

results however a life-changing so I

results however a life-changing so I challenge you the next time you feel

challenge you the next time you feel

challenge you the next time you feel like picking up that pine cone and

like picking up that pine cone and

like picking up that pine cone and throwing it at your boss your co-workers

throwing it at your boss your co-workers

throwing it at your boss your co-workers your friends or most likely your family

your friends or most likely your family

your friends or most likely your family take these skills that you’ve just

take these skills that you’ve just

take these skills that you’ve just learned step aside for five minutes

learned step aside for five minutes

learned step aside for five minutes and practice and then introduce it to

and practice and then introduce it to

and practice and then introduce it to those people and truly spread the word

those people and truly spread the word

those people and truly spread the word so that we can all start living life

so that we can all start living life

so that we can all start living life truly in the moment

truly in the moment

truly in the moment you

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