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Mind Body Connection | Janki Vyas Ravani | TEDxGGDSDCollege


thank you for this honor it is

thank you for this honor it is absolutely fantastic to be here are we

absolutely fantastic to be here are we

absolutely fantastic to be here are we doing good so far

doing good so far

doing good so far great so I’ve lost the number of times

great so I’ve lost the number of times

great so I’ve lost the number of times that I’ve been asked how do you manage

that I’ve been asked how do you manage

that I’ve been asked how do you manage to be so happy all the time how do you

to be so happy all the time how do you

to be so happy all the time how do you always keep that smile on your face and

always keep that smile on your face and

always keep that smile on your face and I share my secret with them I forgot no

I share my secret with them I forgot no

I share my secret with them I forgot no I’m kidding

I’m kidding

I’m kidding the secret to my happiness is that I

the secret to my happiness is that I

the secret to my happiness is that I forget happily its anyways so difficult

forget happily its anyways so difficult

forget happily its anyways so difficult to hold on to all that negativity right

to hold on to all that negativity right

to hold on to all that negativity right it’s very stressful so I choose to

it’s very stressful so I choose to

it’s very stressful so I choose to happily forget five minutes of anything

happily forget five minutes of anything

happily forget five minutes of anything that happens I’ve moved on and as you

that happens I’ve moved on and as you

that happens I’ve moved on and as you can imagine that makes my husband a very

can imagine that makes my husband a very

can imagine that makes my husband a very happy man because he gets away with all

happy man because he gets away with all

happy man because he gets away with all the nonsense and I don’t even remember

the nonsense and I don’t even remember

the nonsense and I don’t even remember it so all you unmarried people and I see

it so all you unmarried people and I see

it so all you unmarried people and I see lots of you in the crowd right when

lots of you in the crowd right when

lots of you in the crowd right when you’re looking for a partner what are

you’re looking for a partner what are

you’re looking for a partner what are you gonna look for don’t go for the

you gonna look for don’t go for the

you gonna look for don’t go for the degrees or the money or the looks only

degrees or the money or the looks only

degrees or the money or the looks only okay

okay

okay go check the horoscope do a memory test

go check the horoscope do a memory test

go check the horoscope do a memory test the worse the memory the happier your

the worse the memory the happier your

the worse the memory the happier your marriage

marriage

marriage believe me learn from me okay so before

believe me learn from me okay so before

believe me learn from me okay so before we move on I want to do a quick

we move on I want to do a quick

we move on I want to do a quick cleanliness check yes cleanliness check

cleanliness check yes cleanliness check

cleanliness check yes cleanliness check I’m a swatch bharat’ supporter I’m doing

I’m a swatch bharat’ supporter I’m doing

I’m a swatch bharat’ supporter I’m doing my bit today so let me know if you do

my bit today so let me know if you do

my bit today so let me know if you do all these things every day right do you

all these things every day right do you

all these things every day right do you clean your house your car even your

clean your house your car even your

clean your house your car even your mobile phone the junk files you bathe

mobile phone the junk files you bathe

mobile phone the junk files you bathe every day right hang on why do we do

every day right hang on why do we do

every day right hang on why do we do these things we do these things so that

these things we do these things so that

these things we do these things so that we can keep our body or a home liveable

we can keep our body or a home liveable

we can keep our body or a home liveable efficient healthy right what about

efficient healthy right what about

efficient healthy right what about inside us do we clean up internally at

inside us do we clean up internally at

inside us do we clean up internally at least consciously what about here in the

least consciously what about here in the

least consciously what about here in the mind do we clean it every day no why not

mind do we clean it every day no why not

mind do we clean it every day no why not why don’t we clean up every day because

why don’t we clean up every day because

why don’t we clean up every day because we don’t even realize that we are

we don’t even realize that we are

we don’t even realize that we are collecting garbage shell

collecting garbage shell

collecting garbage shell do you think we’re collecting garbage

do you think we’re collecting garbage

do you think we’re collecting garbage yeah very good do you do anything about

yeah very good do you do anything about

yeah very good do you do anything about it no okay we don’t do anything about it

it no okay we don’t do anything about it

it no okay we don’t do anything about it because we don’t even realize that that

because we don’t even realize that that

because we don’t even realize that that garbage is becoming toxic it’s decaying

garbage is becoming toxic it’s decaying

garbage is becoming toxic it’s decaying and it’s affecting your body when we

and it’s affecting your body when we

and it’s affecting your body when we feel bad when we’re holding on to

feel bad when we’re holding on to

feel bad when we’re holding on to negative emotions definitely we were not

negative emotions definitely we were not

negative emotions definitely we were not doing so good here well you know what

doing so good here well you know what

doing so good here well you know what those negative emotions that you’re

those negative emotions that you’re

those negative emotions that you’re holding on to the hurt the guilt the

holding on to the hurt the guilt the

holding on to the hurt the guilt the shame the criticism the stress all of

shame the criticism the stress all of

shame the criticism the stress all of that is also affecting your physical

that is also affecting your physical

that is also affecting your physical body so I had a friend who came in the

body so I had a friend who came in the

body so I had a friend who came in the other day and she was telling me you

other day and she was telling me you

other day and she was telling me you know what I’ve had the stomach bug for a

know what I’ve had the stomach bug for a

know what I’ve had the stomach bug for a year now every month I fall ill stomach

year now every month I fall ill stomach

year now every month I fall ill stomach infection every other month for one

infection every other month for one

infection every other month for one whole year is that normal

whole year is that normal

whole year is that normal no she’s been to the doctors she’s been

no she’s been to the doctors she’s been

no she’s been to the doctors she’s been taking her medicines her reports are all

taking her medicines her reports are all

taking her medicines her reports are all clear so I asked her is there something

clear so I asked her is there something

clear so I asked her is there something going on in your life that you’re not

going on in your life that you’re not

going on in your life that you’re not able to digest and she said no Agyei I’m

able to digest and she said no Agyei I’m

able to digest and she said no Agyei I’m doing good

doing good

doing good there’s nothing wrong in my life there’s

there’s nothing wrong in my life there’s

there’s nothing wrong in my life there’s nothing bothering me and that is her

nothing bothering me and that is her

nothing bothering me and that is her conscious mind talking what is the

conscious mind talking what is the

conscious mind talking what is the conscious mind the conscious mind is

conscious mind the conscious mind is

conscious mind the conscious mind is that part of your mind which thinks

that part of your mind which thinks

that part of your mind which thinks analyzes needs logic takes decisions is

analyzes needs logic takes decisions is

analyzes needs logic takes decisions is organized plans thinks of the future

organized plans thinks of the future

organized plans thinks of the future looks for information takes all those

looks for information takes all those

looks for information takes all those well informed decisions to make you

well informed decisions to make you

well informed decisions to make you happy but you know what here’s the sad

happy but you know what here’s the sad

happy but you know what here’s the sad part that conscious mind is only 10 to

part that conscious mind is only 10 to

part that conscious mind is only 10 to 12 percent of your mind

12 percent of your mind

12 percent of your mind 88 to 90 percent of your mind

88 to 90 percent of your mind

88 to 90 percent of your mind is the subconscious mind we all know

is the subconscious mind we all know

is the subconscious mind we all know it’s very powerful right the power of

it’s very powerful right the power of

it’s very powerful right the power of the subconscious mind but you know what

the subconscious mind but you know what

the subconscious mind but you know what the subconscious mind doesn’t think so

the subconscious mind doesn’t think so

the subconscious mind doesn’t think so much it’s not so intelligent it just

much it’s not so intelligent it just

much it’s not so intelligent it just feels

feels

feels so for every little thing that happens

so for every little thing that happens

so for every little thing that happens your subconscious mind checks how did

your subconscious mind checks how did

your subconscious mind checks how did this event make me feel today it records

this event make me feel today it records

this event make me feel today it records every minute of your life literally

every minute of your life literally

every minute of your life literally every minute during sessions we go back

every minute during sessions we go back

every minute during sessions we go back to the time where a person was in their

to the time where a person was in their

to the time where a person was in their womb in the mother’s womb and those

womb in the mother’s womb and those

womb in the mother’s womb and those memories are troubling them today

memories are troubling them today

memories are troubling them today because they left them unresolved so

because they left them unresolved so

because they left them unresolved so your subconscious mind you think of it

your subconscious mind you think of it

your subconscious mind you think of it as a record keeper who feels so let’s

as a record keeper who feels so let’s

as a record keeper who feels so let’s see for smoking okay your conscious mind

see for smoking okay your conscious mind

see for smoking okay your conscious mind tells you smoking is bad focus here how

tells you smoking is bad focus here how

tells you smoking is bad focus here how many times have you tried to quit lost

many times have you tried to quit lost

many times have you tried to quit lost count right your conscious mind tells

count right your conscious mind tells

count right your conscious mind tells you smoking is bad it harms the body

you smoking is bad it harms the body

you smoking is bad it harms the body it’ll give you cancer it’ll even kill

it’ll give you cancer it’ll even kill

it’ll give you cancer it’ll even kill you someday but what is the subconscious

you someday but what is the subconscious

you someday but what is the subconscious mind or does the subconscious mind think

mind or does the subconscious mind think

mind or does the subconscious mind think so much the subconscious mind says how

so much the subconscious mind says how

so much the subconscious mind says how did smoking make me feel and you know

did smoking make me feel and you know

did smoking make me feel and you know what he says it says give me a kick made

what he says it says give me a kick made

what he says it says give me a kick made me look cool I’m the dude help me

me look cool I’m the dude help me

me look cool I’m the dude help me relieve my stress when I was bored and I

relieve my stress when I was bored and I

relieve my stress when I was bored and I smoked it felt good so what is that

smoked it felt good so what is that

smoked it felt good so what is that message that the record keeper writes

message that the record keeper writes

message that the record keeper writes there smoking is good which is why when

there smoking is good which is why when

there smoking is good which is why when you try to quit smoking what happens

you try to quit smoking what happens

you try to quit smoking what happens what do you think happens in the

what do you think happens in the

what do you think happens in the tug-of-war between these two no points

tug-of-war between these two no points

tug-of-war between these two no points for guessing right that’s why it’s so

for guessing right that’s why it’s so

for guessing right that’s why it’s so difficult to quit now every time you

difficult to quit now every time you

difficult to quit now every time you hold on every time you have something

hold on every time you have something

hold on every time you have something that makes you sad upset or stressed

that makes you sad upset or stressed

that makes you sad upset or stressed what happens is your subconscious mind

what happens is your subconscious mind

what happens is your subconscious mind has stored and recorded all these things

has stored and recorded all these things

has stored and recorded all these things which is why when all you young kids go

which is why when all you young kids go

which is why when all you young kids go through heartbreak or failure and all of

through heartbreak or failure and all of

through heartbreak or failure and all of us when we go through all that

us when we go through all that

us when we go through all that consciously you say forget it I’m gonna

consciously you say forget it I’m gonna

consciously you say forget it I’m gonna get over it I’m not gonna think about

get over it I’m not gonna think about

get over it I’m not gonna think about that again and let it make me sad but

that again and let it make me sad but

that again and let it make me sad but you know what that’s 10% of your mind

you know what that’s 10% of your mind

you know what that’s 10% of your mind talking 90% you see that guy there he’s

talking 90% you see that guy there he’s

talking 90% you see that guy there he’s sitting there like that not will

sitting there like that not will

sitting there like that not will to budge not willing to let go of any of

to budge not willing to let go of any of

to budge not willing to let go of any of those negative feelings you’re hurt

those negative feelings you’re hurt

those negative feelings you’re hurt criticism heartbreak guilt anger you

criticism heartbreak guilt anger you

criticism heartbreak guilt anger you have to convince him to move only then

have to convince him to move only then

have to convince him to move only then can you make that change in your life

can you make that change in your life

can you make that change in your life because that is the power of your

because that is the power of your

because that is the power of your subconscious mind now all these negative

subconscious mind now all these negative

subconscious mind now all these negative things that you hold on to is physically

things that you hold on to is physically

things that you hold on to is physically affecting your body the thoughts the

affecting your body the thoughts the

affecting your body the thoughts the feelings are intangible they are here

feelings are intangible they are here

feelings are intangible they are here they are here but they affect your body

they are here but they affect your body

they are here but they affect your body do you believe me good but you shouldn’t

do you believe me good but you shouldn’t

do you believe me good but you shouldn’t not until you get proof right remember

not until you get proof right remember

not until you get proof right remember that when you hear something you always

that when you hear something you always

that when you hear something you always want to know how to prove it is it true

so what a scientific research same and

so what a scientific research same and there’s a lot of it available or believe

there’s a lot of it available or believe

there’s a lot of it available or believe me research says that people who have

me research says that people who have

me research says that people who have emotional support in friends and a

emotional support in friends and a

emotional support in friends and a family or have a partner are at a

family or have a partner are at a

family or have a partner are at a one-third lesser risk of heart disease

one-third lesser risk of heart disease

one-third lesser risk of heart disease than others depression people who are

than others depression people who are

than others depression people who are depressed it is more dangerous the

depressed it is more dangerous the

depressed it is more dangerous the depression is more dangerous for their

depression is more dangerous for their

depression is more dangerous for their body than smoking or drinking people who

body than smoking or drinking people who

body than smoking or drinking people who meditate and keep their mind calm and

meditate and keep their mind calm and

meditate and keep their mind calm and team are at a 55% lesser risk of getting

team are at a 55% lesser risk of getting

team are at a 55% lesser risk of getting cancer than those who don’t and here’s

cancer than those who don’t and here’s

cancer than those who don’t and here’s my favorite part

my favorite part

my favorite part happy people lives seven to ten years

happy people lives seven to ten years

happy people lives seven to ten years longer than unhappy people

longer than unhappy people

longer than unhappy people so all those intangible thoughts so when

so all those intangible thoughts so when

so all those intangible thoughts so when you’re happy it’s a state of mind right

you’re happy it’s a state of mind right

you’re happy it’s a state of mind right but when you’re happy the happy hormones

but when you’re happy the happy hormones

but when you’re happy the happy hormones are released in the body which keep you

are released in the body which keep you

are released in the body which keep you healthy when you are unhappy all the

healthy when you are unhappy all the

healthy when you are unhappy all the stress hormones that are released

stress hormones that are released

stress hormones that are released actually affect your health even the

actually affect your health even the

actually affect your health even the common language that we talk will

common language that we talk will

common language that we talk will actually give you insights into this but

actually give you insights into this but

actually give you insights into this but it’s only so common that we don’t pay

it’s only so common that we don’t pay

it’s only so common that we don’t pay attention you know to Express sometimes

attention you know to Express sometimes

attention you know to Express sometimes how you say I was so scared I peed in my

how you say I was so scared I peed in my

how you say I was so scared I peed in my pants your fear is affecting the kidneys

pants your fear is affecting the kidneys

pants your fear is affecting the kidneys or when you’re hungry you say my blood

or when you’re hungry you say my blood

or when you’re hungry you say my blood is boiling

is boiling

is boiling my heart broke I can feel it in my bones

my heart broke I can feel it in my bones

my heart broke I can feel it in my bones you know you know those emotions you say

you know you know those emotions you say

you know you know those emotions you say they are affecting your body but you’re

they are affecting your body but you’re

they are affecting your body but you’re not paying attention but your body is

not paying attention but your body is

not paying attention but your body is always listening and responding to all

always listening and responding to all

always listening and responding to all those thoughts so let me share an

those thoughts so let me share an

those thoughts so let me share an example with you there was this lady in

example with you there was this lady in

example with you there was this lady in her 50s 60s of him to me

her 50s 60s of him to me

her 50s 60s of him to me with a corona case of acidity now you

with a corona case of acidity now you

with a corona case of acidity now you might be thinking that your happiness

might be thinking that your happiness

might be thinking that your happiness coach why somebody with acidity coming

coach why somebody with acidity coming

coach why somebody with acidity coming to you all right so it seems she

to you all right so it seems she

to you all right so it seems she attended one of my awareness talks where

attended one of my awareness talks where

attended one of my awareness talks where I was talking about the mind-body

I was talking about the mind-body

I was talking about the mind-body connection and she figured that she has

connection and she figured that she has

connection and she figured that she has certainty since five years every single

certainty since five years every single

certainty since five years every single day burning her from with him she had

day burning her from with him she had

day burning her from with him she had been to doctors taken out all her

been to doctors taken out all her

been to doctors taken out all her reports everything was clear there was

reports everything was clear there was

reports everything was clear there was nothing wrong physically technically

nothing wrong physically technically

nothing wrong physically technically nothing wrong but he was still going on

nothing wrong but he was still going on

nothing wrong but he was still going on and that medicines were only giving her

and that medicines were only giving her

and that medicines were only giving her temporary relief when she came to me for

temporary relief when she came to me for

temporary relief when she came to me for therapy and we started working on her

therapy and we started working on her

therapy and we started working on her she regressed to a time where she was a

she regressed to a time where she was a

she regressed to a time where she was a new mother she’s live in a joint family

new mother she’s live in a joint family

new mother she’s live in a joint family lots of housework lots of

lots of housework lots of

lots of housework lots of responsibilities and in that face she

responsibilities and in that face she

responsibilities and in that face she had neglected her child she was feeling

had neglected her child she was feeling

had neglected her child she was feeling bad about it but at that point she

bad about it but at that point she

bad about it but at that point she couldn’t do anything but that guilt she

couldn’t do anything but that guilt she

couldn’t do anything but that guilt she held on to it I’m a bad mother how can I

held on to it I’m a bad mother how can I

held on to it I’m a bad mother how can I be doing this to my child I’ve even

be doing this to my child I’ve even

be doing this to my child I’ve even spanked her so many times and that guilt

spanked her so many times and that guilt

spanked her so many times and that guilt was eating her from with him and it’s

was eating her from with him and it’s

was eating her from with him and it’s not surprising because your body is

not surprising because your body is

not surprising because your body is always listening to your thoughts so if

always listening to your thoughts so if

always listening to your thoughts so if you have that constant record going on

you have that constant record going on

you have that constant record going on in your subconscious mind which says

in your subconscious mind which says

in your subconscious mind which says your body which says I’m bad I’m bad I

your body which says I’m bad I’m bad I

your body which says I’m bad I’m bad I hate myself you’re criticizing yourself

hate myself you’re criticizing yourself

hate myself you’re criticizing yourself you’re feeling guilty you know how you

you’re feeling guilty you know how you

you’re feeling guilty you know how you say that guilt was burning me from

say that guilt was burning me from

say that guilt was burning me from within it literally was and it

within it literally was and it

within it literally was and it manifested as her acidity when we

manifested as her acidity when we

manifested as her acidity when we resolved it when we helped her make

resolved it when we helped her make

resolved it when we helped her make peace with that not surprising

peace with that not surprising

peace with that not surprising she got long term relief from that

she got long term relief from that

she got long term relief from that acidity and this is just one case there

acidity and this is just one case there

acidity and this is just one case there account

account

account clients come to me with chronic shoulder

clients come to me with chronic shoulder

clients come to me with chronic shoulder aches back aches knee pains all because

aches back aches knee pains all because

aches back aches knee pains all because they’re leaving something unresolved in

they’re leaving something unresolved in

they’re leaving something unresolved in their mind something as simple as

their mind something as simple as

their mind something as simple as worrying about the future taking too

worrying about the future taking too

worrying about the future taking too much stress about it can give you

much stress about it can give you

much stress about it can give you shoulder aches because you’re thinking

shoulder aches because you’re thinking

shoulder aches because you’re thinking of it as a burden let see the language

of it as a burden let see the language

of it as a burden let see the language of your mind is very important because

of your mind is very important because

of your mind is very important because your body is listening to those

your body is listening to those

your body is listening to those innermost thoughts that you are having

innermost thoughts that you are having

innermost thoughts that you are having every day so these unresolved thoughts

every day so these unresolved thoughts

every day so these unresolved thoughts are pretty much like those apps running

are pretty much like those apps running

are pretty much like those apps running in the background what do they do they

in the background what do they do they

in the background what do they do they train your memory they slow down your

train your memory they slow down your

train your memory they slow down your phone they don’t let your phone work

phone they don’t let your phone work

phone they don’t let your phone work efficiently right these unresolved

efficiently right these unresolved

efficiently right these unresolved thoughts are like that constantly

thoughts are like that constantly

thoughts are like that constantly running research says that we have about

running research says that we have about

running research says that we have about 50 stress responses a day so let’s look

50 stress responses a day so let’s look

50 stress responses a day so let’s look at the biology of it and this is not

at the biology of it and this is not

at the biology of it and this is not something tough eighth ninth standard

something tough eighth ninth standard

something tough eighth ninth standard bound when you have a stress response

bound when you have a stress response

bound when you have a stress response anything that makes you fearful scared

anything that makes you fearful scared

anything that makes you fearful scared angry upset the body responds the

angry upset the body responds the

angry upset the body responds the command center fires up all those

command center fires up all those

command center fires up all those neurotransmitters different parts of the

neurotransmitters different parts of the

neurotransmitters different parts of the body react differently your heart your

body react differently your heart your

body react differently your heart your liver your kidneys the adrenaline glands

liver your kidneys the adrenaline glands

liver your kidneys the adrenaline glands they release hormones in the body which

they release hormones in the body which

they release hormones in the body which help you face the situation you either

help you face the situation you either

help you face the situation you either fight flight or freeze and once the

fight flight or freeze and once the

fight flight or freeze and once the situation passes those hormones which

situation passes those hormones which

situation passes those hormones which helped your face that are released from

helped your face that are released from

helped your face that are released from the body but when you hold on to that

the body but when you hold on to that

the body but when you hold on to that over and over those hormones keep

over and over those hormones keep

over and over those hormones keep getting generated they don’t leave the

getting generated they don’t leave the

getting generated they don’t leave the body and too much of anything is toxic

body and too much of anything is toxic

body and too much of anything is toxic right that’s where it affects you even

right that’s where it affects you even

right that’s where it affects you even people with weight issues people who are

people with weight issues people who are

people with weight issues people who are not able to release their weight no

not able to release their weight no

not able to release their weight no matter how much exercise dieting

matter how much exercise dieting

matter how much exercise dieting nutritionists everything in place which

nutritionists everything in place which

nutritionists everything in place which is not losing weight

is not losing weight

is not losing weight because subconsciously they could be

because subconsciously they could be

because subconsciously they could be holding on to a memory that stops them

holding on to a memory that stops them

holding on to a memory that stops them from releasing weight like I had a

from releasing weight like I had a

from releasing weight like I had a client who who was very sensitive

client who who was very sensitive

client who who was very sensitive emotional and she was holding onto the

emotional and she was holding onto the

emotional and she was holding onto the withas insulation literally thinking

withas insulation literally thinking

withas insulation literally thinking that it would protect her from those

that it would protect her from those

that it would protect her from those emotional jives so she said becoming

emotional jives so she said becoming

emotional jives so she said becoming thick-skinned was the solution I told

thick-skinned was the solution I told

thick-skinned was the solution I told you the cart

you the cart

you the cart conscious mind is not logical it doesn’t

conscious mind is not logical it doesn’t

conscious mind is not logical it doesn’t need to make sense to anybody else but

need to make sense to anybody else but

need to make sense to anybody else but it for her body and mind that was the

it for her body and mind that was the

it for her body and mind that was the solution so that’s how it worked what is

solution so that’s how it worked what is

solution so that’s how it worked what is it that you are holding on to those are

it that you are holding on to those are

it that you are holding on to those are the things that you need to rid yourself

the things that you need to rid yourself

the things that you need to rid yourself off to be healthy not only here but

off to be healthy not only here but

off to be healthy not only here but overall so I’d like to believe that at

overall so I’d like to believe that at

overall so I’d like to believe that at least some of us would want to start

least some of us would want to start

least some of us would want to start cleaning up today right

cleaning up today right

cleaning up today right clean the mental clutter the garbage

clean the mental clutter the garbage

clean the mental clutter the garbage that you’ve been accumulating over

that you’ve been accumulating over

that you’ve been accumulating over decades I’ll tell you two simple things

decades I’ll tell you two simple things

decades I’ll tell you two simple things to do the first thing is remember that

to do the first thing is remember that

to do the first thing is remember that your mind is a private garden what do

your mind is a private garden what do

your mind is a private garden what do you do in a private garden you let

you do in a private garden you let

you do in a private garden you let anybody trample in walk on the lawn

anybody trample in walk on the lawn

anybody trample in walk on the lawn pluck flowers through garbage and litter

pluck flowers through garbage and litter

pluck flowers through garbage and litter uh-huh you tell them get out you have to

uh-huh you tell them get out you have to

uh-huh you tell them get out you have to make sure your mind is that private

make sure your mind is that private

make sure your mind is that private garden especially for all of you there

garden especially for all of you there

garden especially for all of you there are so many things happening to us every

are so many things happening to us every

are so many things happening to us every day somebody got less mark somebody got

day somebody got less mark somebody got

day somebody got less mark somebody got a scolding from their parents somebody

a scolding from their parents somebody

a scolding from their parents somebody has been told what a bad mother or

has been told what a bad mother or

has been told what a bad mother or father they are somebody has been told

father they are somebody has been told

father they are somebody has been told something by their boss or you goofed up

something by their boss or you goofed up

something by their boss or you goofed up at work all these things make you feel

at work all these things make you feel

at work all these things make you feel bad they are the emotional garbage you

bad they are the emotional garbage you

bad they are the emotional garbage you have to be aware that you don’t want to

have to be aware that you don’t want to

have to be aware that you don’t want to collect it and leave it as an unresolved

collect it and leave it as an unresolved

collect it and leave it as an unresolved memory which will cause you an illness

memory which will cause you an illness

memory which will cause you an illness later so out now the other thing that

later so out now the other thing that

later so out now the other thing that you need to do is my favorite part love

you need to do is my favorite part love

you need to do is my favorite part love yourselves actually you know what we

yourselves actually you know what we

yourselves actually you know what we have some time let’s do it right now can

have some time let’s do it right now can

have some time let’s do it right now can I request everybody just close your eyes

I request everybody just close your eyes

I request everybody just close your eyes for a minute this won’t take long

for a minute this won’t take long

for a minute this won’t take long close your eyes thank you think of all

close your eyes thank you think of all

close your eyes thank you think of all the negative things that have happened

the negative things that have happened

the negative things that have happened to you in the last one week what were

to you in the last one week what were

to you in the last one week what were those negative emotions that you felt

those negative emotions that you felt

those negative emotions that you felt the guilt criticism anger sadness grief

the guilt criticism anger sadness grief

the guilt criticism anger sadness grief pain betrayal heartbreak sadness think

pain betrayal heartbreak sadness think

pain betrayal heartbreak sadness think of all the things that have happened

of all the things that have happened

of all the things that have happened and now that you’ve thought of it own up

and now that you’ve thought of it own up

and now that you’ve thought of it own up tell yourself I chose to feel all these

tell yourself I chose to feel all these

tell yourself I chose to feel all these things because yes you have the power to

things because yes you have the power to

things because yes you have the power to choose

choose

choose you chose to feel all these things not

you chose to feel all these things not

you chose to feel all these things not somebody else they just did their job

somebody else they just did their job

somebody else they just did their job they literally but it was you who

they literally but it was you who

they literally but it was you who accepted that garbage into your mind so

accepted that garbage into your mind so

accepted that garbage into your mind so see I chose them and now that you’ve

see I chose them and now that you’ve

see I chose them and now that you’ve chosen it choose to release all the

chosen it choose to release all the

chosen it choose to release all the things throw the garbage out of your

things throw the garbage out of your

things throw the garbage out of your mind in your mind just throw it out and

mind in your mind just throw it out and

mind in your mind just throw it out and now that you’ve thrown it out tell

now that you’ve thrown it out tell

now that you’ve thrown it out tell yourself I forgive myself for feeling

yourself I forgive myself for feeling

yourself I forgive myself for feeling all these things for allowing my garden

all these things for allowing my garden

all these things for allowing my garden to be littered I forgive myself and most

to be littered I forgive myself and most

to be littered I forgive myself and most importantly I love myself when you say I

importantly I love myself when you say I

importantly I love myself when you say I love myself

love myself

love myself your body is listening your body is

your body is listening your body is

your body is listening your body is responding to the happier emotions and

responding to the happier emotions and

responding to the happier emotions and releasing those happy hormones rather

releasing those happy hormones rather

releasing those happy hormones rather than when you think I hate myself how

than when you think I hate myself how

than when you think I hate myself how can I do this I regret it I’m guilty I’m

can I do this I regret it I’m guilty I’m

can I do this I regret it I’m guilty I’m bad so when you say I love myself your

bad so when you say I love myself your

bad so when you say I love myself your body feels happier you are more generous

body feels happier you are more generous

body feels happier you are more generous with yourself you are kinder you are

with yourself you are kinder you are

with yourself you are kinder you are more patient you’re more encouraging and

more patient you’re more encouraging and

more patient you’re more encouraging and think that tomorrow I will do better

think that tomorrow I will do better

think that tomorrow I will do better tomorrow I will not get angry tomorrow I

tomorrow I will not get angry tomorrow I

tomorrow I will not get angry tomorrow I will give it a better shot tomorrow I’ll

will give it a better shot tomorrow I’ll

will give it a better shot tomorrow I’ll be more patient with my child or with my

be more patient with my child or with my

be more patient with my child or with my boss and when you do that your body is

boss and when you do that your body is

boss and when you do that your body is listening to those thoughts and becoming

listening to those thoughts and becoming

listening to those thoughts and becoming healthier so at least by doing these two

healthier so at least by doing these two

healthier so at least by doing these two things you won’t be accumulating more

things you won’t be accumulating more

things you won’t be accumulating more garbage every day for the bigger things

garbage every day for the bigger things

garbage every day for the bigger things that you’ve gone through maybe yes you

that you’ve gone through maybe yes you

that you’ve gone through maybe yes you can go to a therapist and get that

can go to a therapist and get that

can go to a therapist and get that resolved but at least the little things

resolved but at least the little things

resolved but at least the little things don’t collect the garbage every day

don’t collect the garbage every day

don’t collect the garbage every day because you know what this body this

because you know what this body this

because you know what this body this mind is yours for a lifetime it’s the

mind is yours for a lifetime it’s the

mind is yours for a lifetime it’s the only place where you have to live right

only place where you have to live right

only place where you have to live right clear up every day and make sure that

clear up every day and make sure that

clear up every day and make sure that this mind and body

this mind and body

this mind and body is your house of happiness always thank

is your house of happiness always thank

is your house of happiness always thank you

you

you [Applause]

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