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when I was six years old my parents

when I was six years old my parents thought it would be a good idea to give

thought it would be a good idea to give

thought it would be a good idea to give myself and my brother an H or another

myself and my brother an H or another

myself and my brother an H or another time a couple of domes every week to

time a couple of domes every week to

time a couple of domes every week to spend or save as we saw fit now to you

spend or save as we saw fit now to you

spend or save as we saw fit now to you this might not sound like much but was

this might not sound like much but was

this might not sound like much but was six years old a single note is the key

six years old a single note is the key

six years old a single note is the key to the infinite world possibilities a

to the infinite world possibilities a

to the infinite world possibilities a world filled with candy with toys and

world filled with candy with toys and

world filled with candy with toys and well not much else and I being the

well not much else and I being the

well not much else and I being the future accounting student did exactly

future accounting student did exactly

future accounting student did exactly what any enterprising money conscious

what any enterprising money conscious

what any enterprising money conscious young man would do I spent every single

young man would do I spent every single

young man would do I spent every single theorem I ever got in one shot the day I

theorem I ever got in one shot the day I

theorem I ever got in one shot the day I got it

got it

got it week after week without fail nothing in

week after week without fail nothing in

week after week without fail nothing in the world made me happier than walking

the world made me happier than walking

the world made me happier than walking into the store and buy myself say some

into the store and buy myself say some

into the store and buy myself say some stuffed animals I had a good years

stuffed animals I had a good years

stuffed animals I had a good years before I bought them a slinky that would

before I bought them a slinky that would

before I bought them a slinky that would be bent on shape 15 minutes after I

be bent on shape 15 minutes after I

be bent on shape 15 minutes after I bought it whatever that is and this toy

bought it whatever that is and this toy

bought it whatever that is and this toy car that I lost a week after I bought it

car that I lost a week after I bought it

car that I lost a week after I bought it you might be starting to see a pattern

you might be starting to see a pattern

you might be starting to see a pattern here I kept buying myself things I

here I kept buying myself things I

here I kept buying myself things I didn’t want things I never really needed

didn’t want things I never really needed

didn’t want things I never really needed money management be damned

money management be damned

money management be damned now this scalice spending would soon get

now this scalice spending would soon get

now this scalice spending would soon get me in a lot of trouble eventually my

me in a lot of trouble eventually my

me in a lot of trouble eventually my parents stopped giving us pocket money

parents stopped giving us pocket money

parents stopped giving us pocket money we don’t quite know why and considering

we don’t quite know why and considering

we don’t quite know why and considering that I had never before given a single

that I had never before given a single

that I had never before given a single thought to money management was quite

thought to money management was quite

thought to money management was quite shocked when my steady source of income

shocked when my steady source of income

shocked when my steady source of income was cut off you can understand how I

was cut off you can understand how I

was cut off you can understand how I felt where previously I could have

felt where previously I could have

felt where previously I could have walked into the store and bought myself

walked into the store and bought myself

walked into the store and bought myself anything I wanted all I could do now was

anything I wanted all I could do now was

anything I wanted all I could do now was stare those toys on the shelves staring

stare those toys on the shelves staring

stare those toys on the shelves staring into my empty wallet wondering what I

into my empty wallet wondering what I

into my empty wallet wondering what I did wrong

did wrong

did wrong to deserve such torment my brother on

to deserve such torment my brother on

to deserve such torment my brother on the other hand did not have any of these

the other hand did not have any of these

the other hand did not have any of these problems he had been the model of

problems he had been the model of

problems he had been the model of financial Sensibility

financial Sensibility

financial Sensibility he had spent as I estimated roughly 10%

he had spent as I estimated roughly 10%

he had spent as I estimated roughly 10% of all the money he had ever been given

of all the money he had ever been given

of all the money he had ever been given and had saved up the rest this was a

and had saved up the rest this was a

and had saved up the rest this was a source of infinite jealousy from my side

source of infinite jealousy from my side

source of infinite jealousy from my side because whenever I was most short of

because whenever I was most short of

because whenever I was most short of funds there was my brother with his fat

funds there was my brother with his fat

funds there was my brother with his fat wallet with that smug grin on his face

wallet with that smug grin on his face

wallet with that smug grin on his face veritably swimming in mountains of gold

veritably swimming in mountains of gold

veritably swimming in mountains of gold while I the mere peasant was left

while I the mere peasant was left

while I the mere peasant was left wallowing in the streets feeling the

wallowing in the streets feeling the

wallowing in the streets feeling the true depravity of my financial situation

true depravity of my financial situation

true depravity of my financial situation a bit melodramatic I know but that’s how

a bit melodramatic I know but that’s how

a bit melodramatic I know but that’s how I felt at the time it hit me hard you

I felt at the time it hit me hard you

I felt at the time it hit me hard you know because I never had money when I

know because I never had money when I

know because I never had money when I really wanted it I was so close to being

really wanted it I was so close to being

really wanted it I was so close to being able to buy myself those toys in the

able to buy myself those toys in the

able to buy myself those toys in the stores and yet so far the emptiness of

stores and yet so far the emptiness of

stores and yet so far the emptiness of my wallet mirrored the emptiness of my

my wallet mirrored the emptiness of my

my wallet mirrored the emptiness of my heart and there was nothing I could do

heart and there was nothing I could do

heart and there was nothing I could do to fill the void left by all of the

to fill the void left by all of the

to fill the void left by all of the things I used to be able to buy it

things I used to be able to buy it

things I used to be able to buy it admittedly I did eventually realize that

admittedly I did eventually realize that

admittedly I did eventually realize that money wasn’t all I needed

money wasn’t all I needed

money wasn’t all I needed and with that realization came another

and with that realization came another

and with that realization came another one the realization that I didn’t have

one the realization that I didn’t have

one the realization that I didn’t have to spend all of the money I was ever

to spend all of the money I was ever

to spend all of the money I was ever given in one shot quite the shocker

given in one shot quite the shocker

given in one shot quite the shocker isn’t it anyway by the time I was around

isn’t it anyway by the time I was around

isn’t it anyway by the time I was around 13 I had begun saving up the money I got

13 I had begun saving up the money I got

13 I had begun saving up the money I got from birthdays from doing well at school

from birthdays from doing well at school

from birthdays from doing well at school from my relatives Christmases New Year’s

from my relatives Christmases New Year’s

from my relatives Christmases New Year’s and so on not just because I was sailing

and so on not just because I was sailing

and so on not just because I was sailing you know doesn’t mean I spend it smartly

you know doesn’t mean I spend it smartly

you know doesn’t mean I spend it smartly I still kept buying myself pointless

I still kept buying myself pointless

I still kept buying myself pointless things with the only real difference

things with the only real difference

things with the only real difference being that the things I was now buying

being that the things I was now buying

being that the things I was now buying well a lot more expensive than

well a lot more expensive than

well a lot more expensive than things I used to buy when I was younger

things I used to buy when I was younger

things I used to buy when I was younger my spending habits remained this broken

my spending habits remained this broken

my spending habits remained this broken this bad for a long time

this bad for a long time

this bad for a long time but eventually as I grew older and older

but eventually as I grew older and older

but eventually as I grew older and older my idea is about money began changing I

my idea is about money began changing I

my idea is about money began changing I came to realize that money wasn’t

came to realize that money wasn’t

came to realize that money wasn’t something that just come to me for

something that just come to me for

something that just come to me for existing it was something that if I

existing it was something that if I

existing it was something that if I didn’t try to earn it and if I didn’t

didn’t try to earn it and if I didn’t

didn’t try to earn it and if I didn’t try to keep the money I had with me with

try to keep the money I had with me with

try to keep the money I had with me with me it would figuratively stop falling

me it would figuratively stop falling

me it would figuratively stop falling into my hands from the heavens

into my hands from the heavens

into my hands from the heavens you can blame this sudden change this

you can blame this sudden change this

you can blame this sudden change this new perspective or me having grown a

new perspective or me having grown a

new perspective or me having grown a little too old to one play with new toys

little too old to one play with new toys

little too old to one play with new toys every day or my burning hatred of never

every day or my burning hatred of never

every day or my burning hatred of never having any money but instead let’s just

having any money but instead let’s just

having any money but instead let’s just say it was because I was more

say it was because I was more

say it was because I was more financially responsible and mature okay

financially responsible and mature okay

financially responsible and mature okay so with this new attitude with this new

so with this new attitude with this new

so with this new attitude with this new desire to become more financially

desire to become more financially

desire to become more financially sensible what I first did is I looked

sensible what I first did is I looked

sensible what I first did is I looked around the internet to try and find ways

around the internet to try and find ways

around the internet to try and find ways I could make money as a teenager with

I could make money as a teenager with

I could make money as a teenager with lots of free time that’s how I stumbled

lots of free time that’s how I stumbled

lots of free time that’s how I stumbled upon the world of online video game

upon the world of online video game

upon the world of online video game items raining I won’t go into any

items raining I won’t go into any

items raining I won’t go into any specifics here but basically my training

specifics here but basically my training

specifics here but basically my training item for item buying a load to sell high

item for item buying a load to sell high

item for item buying a load to sell high and investing in profitable items I was

and investing in profitable items I was

and investing in profitable items I was able to make myself a decent amount of

able to make myself a decent amount of

able to make myself a decent amount of profit in a relatively short period of

profit in a relatively short period of

profit in a relatively short period of time somehow through some miracle I

time somehow through some miracle I

time somehow through some miracle I haven’t yet let this sudden influx of

haven’t yet let this sudden influx of

haven’t yet let this sudden influx of money get to me I haven’t gone and blown

money get to me I haven’t gone and blown

money get to me I haven’t gone and blown it in one shot as I would have done when

it in one shot as I would have done when

it in one shot as I would have done when I was younger I’ve only really spent any

I was younger I’ve only really spent any

I was younger I’ve only really spent any of it on things I found essential like a

of it on things I found essential like a

of it on things I found essential like a tablet when I realized that I needed to

tablet when I realized that I needed to

tablet when I realized that I needed to take my laptop to school every day or at

take my laptop to school every day or at

take my laptop to school every day or at least electronic device and I realized I

least electronic device and I realized I

least electronic device and I realized I couldn’t take my laptop school it was

couldn’t take my laptop school it was

couldn’t take my laptop school it was too heavy or perhaps headphones when my

too heavy or perhaps headphones when my

too heavy or perhaps headphones when my old pair lost half the functionality

old pair lost half the functionality

old pair lost half the functionality basically on the paint you might be

basically on the paint you might be

basically on the paint you might be wondering what exactly I did to so

wondering what exactly I did to so

wondering what exactly I did to so miraculously

miraculously

miraculously spending habits that was so broken maybe

spending habits that was so broken maybe

spending habits that was so broken maybe I took all my money

I took all my money

I took all my money and shoved it into a mattress but even I

and shoved it into a mattress but even I

and shoved it into a mattress but even I couldn’t get to it if I tried

couldn’t get to it if I tried

couldn’t get to it if I tried maybe I convinced myself that spending

maybe I convinced myself that spending

maybe I convinced myself that spending money was the ultimate sin perhaps I

money was the ultimate sin perhaps I

money was the ultimate sin perhaps I shoved it all into a savings account

shoved it all into a savings account

shoved it all into a savings account somewhere well no I knew any of those

somewhere well no I knew any of those

somewhere well no I knew any of those things what I did is a little bit more

things what I did is a little bit more

things what I did is a little bit more mundane though it did work trust me what

mundane though it did work trust me what

mundane though it did work trust me what I did is I adopted a little magic method

I did is I adopted a little magic method

I did is I adopted a little magic method let’s say a simple set of rules that I

let’s say a simple set of rules that I

let’s say a simple set of rules that I gave myself and decided to follow which

gave myself and decided to follow which

gave myself and decided to follow which would dictate how I could and could not

would dictate how I could and could not

would dictate how I could and could not use my money and this set of rules

use my money and this set of rules

use my money and this set of rules helped me fix my spending habits now

helped me fix my spending habits now

helped me fix my spending habits now before I tell you about these rules let

before I tell you about these rules let

before I tell you about these rules let me give this little magical method a

me give this little magical method a

me give this little magical method a name let’s call it my simple steps to

name let’s call it my simple steps to

name let’s call it my simple steps to spending your savings smartly it just

spending your savings smartly it just

spending your savings smartly it just rolls off the tongue doesn’t it let’s

rolls off the tongue doesn’t it let’s

rolls off the tongue doesn’t it let’s get into step number one sleep on it I

get into step number one sleep on it I

get into step number one sleep on it I know I don’t mean sleep on your cash

know I don’t mean sleep on your cash

know I don’t mean sleep on your cash what I mean is whenever you feel like

what I mean is whenever you feel like

what I mean is whenever you feel like you want to buy something give it some

you want to buy something give it some

you want to buy something give it some time don’t rush into the store and buy

time don’t rush into the store and buy

time don’t rush into the store and buy it immediately hold off until the next

it immediately hold off until the next

it immediately hold off until the next day until you’ve had enough time to

day until you’ve had enough time to

day until you’ve had enough time to think about it

think about it

think about it and until you’ve had a good night’s rest

and until you’ve had a good night’s rest

and until you’ve had a good night’s rest this way in the morning when you wake up

this way in the morning when you wake up

this way in the morning when you wake up if you still feel like you want it go

if you still feel like you want it go

if you still feel like you want it go ahead because all that thought you put

ahead because all that thought you put

ahead because all that thought you put into it proved that you do want it if

into it proved that you do want it if

into it proved that you do want it if when you wake up you realize that you

when you wake up you realize that you

when you wake up you realize that you completely forgot about the thing you

completely forgot about the thing you

completely forgot about the thing you wanted to buy then obviously don’t go

wanted to buy then obviously don’t go

wanted to buy then obviously don’t go buy it you’ve never wanted it in the

buy it you’ve never wanted it in the

buy it you’ve never wanted it in the first place

first place

first place next don’t stop your wallet what I mean

next don’t stop your wallet what I mean

next don’t stop your wallet what I mean is despite what you might have been led

is despite what you might have been led

is despite what you might have been led to believe by the TV media the internet

to believe by the TV media the internet

to believe by the TV media the internet however fat wallet is overrated never

however fat wallet is overrated never

however fat wallet is overrated never carry all your cash with you when you go

carry all your cash with you when you go

carry all your cash with you when you go outside always leave some of it at home

outside always leave some of it at home

outside always leave some of it at home now what this does is it prevents you

now what this does is it prevents you

now what this does is it prevents you from buying something

from buying something

from buying something and blowing all your money in one shot

and blowing all your money in one shot

and blowing all your money in one shot which as we all know is a mistake I made

which as we all know is a mistake I made

which as we all know is a mistake I made several times whenever you’re outside

several times whenever you’re outside

several times whenever you’re outside and you have just a little bit less

and you have just a little bit less

and you have just a little bit less money than you need to buy something

money than you need to buy something

money than you need to buy something you’d end up asking whoever you’re with

you’d end up asking whoever you’re with

you’d end up asking whoever you’re with meet your parents or your friends for

meet your parents or your friends for

meet your parents or your friends for that money with the promise of returning

that money with the promise of returning

that money with the promise of returning it later when you do this there are

it later when you do this there are

it later when you do this there are another set of eyes and ears

another set of eyes and ears

another set of eyes and ears who’ll be able to tell you if what

who’ll be able to tell you if what

who’ll be able to tell you if what you’re trying to buy is pointless

you’re trying to buy is pointless

you’re trying to buy is pointless or if you should go ahead with the

or if you should go ahead with the

or if you should go ahead with the purchase take their advice

purchase take their advice

purchase take their advice it helps next along a similar vein split

it helps next along a similar vein split

it helps next along a similar vein split your savings what this means is that

your savings what this means is that

your savings what this means is that whenever you are given any amount of

whenever you are given any amount of

whenever you are given any amount of money split it mentally into an amount

money split it mentally into an amount

money split it mentally into an amount that you’re going to allow yourself to

that you’re going to allow yourself to

that you’re going to allow yourself to spend and an amount that you’re not

spend and an amount that you’re not

spend and an amount that you’re not going for out of yourself to spend what

going for out of yourself to spend what

going for out of yourself to spend what this does is it also similar to the

this does is it also similar to the

this does is it also similar to the previous step that is prevents you from

previous step that is prevents you from

previous step that is prevents you from buying something too expensive and

buying something too expensive and

buying something too expensive and blowing all your money in one shot

blowing all your money in one shot

blowing all your money in one shot next ignored the sailors I am a little

next ignored the sailors I am a little

next ignored the sailors I am a little bit ashamed to admit how many times I’ve

bit ashamed to admit how many times I’ve

bit ashamed to admit how many times I’ve been captivated by those shiny red 75%

been captivated by those shiny red 75%

been captivated by those shiny red 75% off signs those buy one get two free

off signs those buy one get two free

off signs those buy one get two free offers I have bought things I didn’t

offers I have bought things I didn’t

offers I have bought things I didn’t need one of buy one get two free so I

need one of buy one get two free so I

need one of buy one get two free so I end up with three of them when I barely

end up with three of them when I barely

end up with three of them when I barely even needed one in the first place

even needed one in the first place

even needed one in the first place basically what you do is whenever you

basically what you do is whenever you

basically what you do is whenever you see a sale be it 95% 99% buy one get two

see a sale be it 95% 99% buy one get two

see a sale be it 95% 99% buy one get two free whatever

free whatever

free whatever when you see a sale if it’s not on

when you see a sale if it’s not on

when you see a sale if it’s not on something you really need something you

something you really need something you

something you really need something you really really want turn the other way

really really want turn the other way

really really want turn the other way never think about it again sales are the

never think about it again sales are the

never think about it again sales are the easiest way to spend all your money and

easiest way to spend all your money and

easiest way to spend all your money and finally perhaps most important of all

finally perhaps most important of all

finally perhaps most important of all when you’re saving up your money or

when you’re saving up your money or

when you’re saving up your money or trying to make a change in your spending

trying to make a change in your spending

trying to make a change in your spending habits for the better you need to give

habits for the better you need to give

habits for the better you need to give yourself a proper reason there is

yourself a proper reason there is

yourself a proper reason there is absolutely no guarantee that you’ll be

absolutely no guarantee that you’ll be

absolutely no guarantee that you’ll be able to say

able to say

able to say your money or make that change if you’re

your money or make that change if you’re

your money or make that change if you’re doing it just to show the world how

doing it just to show the world how

doing it just to show the world how financially responsible you are or just

financially responsible you are or just

financially responsible you are or just to save up money for a rainy day that

to save up money for a rainy day that

to save up money for a rainy day that might never come don’t expose yourself

might never come don’t expose yourself

might never come don’t expose yourself to the risk of cracking under the

to the risk of cracking under the

to the risk of cracking under the pressure and giving in to the temptation

pressure and giving in to the temptation

pressure and giving in to the temptation instead give yourself a more fun or more

instead give yourself a more fun or more

instead give yourself a more fun or more personal reason for doing it perhaps you

personal reason for doing it perhaps you

personal reason for doing it perhaps you can look at it the way I do don’t save

can look at it the way I do don’t save

can look at it the way I do don’t save up your money and spend it smokey just

up your money and spend it smokey just

up your money and spend it smokey just to show the world that you’re the mortal

to show the world that you’re the mortal

to show the world that you’re the mortal accountant or just to show the world how

accountant or just to show the world how

accountant or just to show the world how smart and financially responsible you

smart and financially responsible you

smart and financially responsible you are No

are No

are No save up your money and spend it smartly

save up your money and spend it smartly

save up your money and spend it smartly just to stick it to all those older

just to stick it to all those older

just to stick it to all those older brothers of the world who’d happily Lord

brothers of the world who’d happily Lord

brothers of the world who’d happily Lord their wealth over you if only they were

their wealth over you if only they were

their wealth over you if only they were given the chance thank you

given the chance thank you

given the chance thank you [Applause]

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