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I love noon before I start I just want

I love noon before I start I just want to quote a very famous guy who said this

to quote a very famous guy who said this

to quote a very famous guy who said this can you guys read everybody right it

can you guys read everybody right it

can you guys read everybody right it says if you have a crick in the neck let

says if you have a crick in the neck let

says if you have a crick in the neck let everyone know ok and this was said by me

everyone know ok and this was said by me

everyone know ok and this was said by me in the morning today because I have a

in the morning today because I have a

in the morning today because I have a crick in my neck and if you see me

crick in my neck and if you see me

crick in my neck and if you see me turning beard Lee that’s probably

turning beard Lee that’s probably

turning beard Lee that’s probably because of that so I just want to let

because of that so I just want to let

because of that so I just want to let you know right so this is not how I

you know right so this is not how I

you know right so this is not how I normally move around but today I am

normally move around but today I am

normally move around but today I am alright just to just to begin the entire

alright just to just to begin the entire

alright just to just to begin the entire show you know there was this nice

show you know there was this nice

show you know there was this nice introduction out here about me coming

introduction out here about me coming

introduction out here about me coming from the corporate life I’m going to

from the corporate life I’m going to

from the corporate life I’m going to give you a flavor of what happened after

give you a flavor of what happened after

give you a flavor of what happened after I quit my job left corporate life in a

I quit my job left corporate life in a

I quit my job left corporate life in a sense it was this what had happened to

sense it was this what had happened to

sense it was this what had happened to me what you see up back on the slide for

me what you see up back on the slide for

me what you see up back on the slide for 44 years after being born I was

44 years after being born I was

44 years after being born I was attempting to be somebody right went to

attempting to be somebody right went to

attempting to be somebody right went to college did my MBA started working got

college did my MBA started working got

college did my MBA started working got my promotions kept working kept for more

my promotions kept working kept for more

my promotions kept working kept for more money better recognition etc for 44

money better recognition etc for 44

money better recognition etc for 44 years that happened till last year where

years that happened till last year where

years that happened till last year where in one night I decided to drop

in one night I decided to drop

in one night I decided to drop everything and become an absolute nobody

everything and become an absolute nobody

everything and become an absolute nobody alright and that happened because I went

alright and that happened because I went

alright and that happened because I went and watch this movie called tamasha I

and watch this movie called tamasha I

and watch this movie called tamasha I don’t know why they make such movies I

don’t know why they make such movies I

don’t know why they make such movies I really don’t know but they shouldn’t but

really don’t know but they shouldn’t but

really don’t know but they shouldn’t but I saw that movie and the way next day I

I saw that movie and the way next day I

I saw that movie and the way next day I went to office and I design right to

went to office and I design right to

went to office and I design right to follow my passion and this is what I’m

follow my passion and this is what I’m

follow my passion and this is what I’m going to talk about in the next few

going to talk about in the next few

going to talk about in the next few minutes would be about what happened

minutes would be about what happened

minutes would be about what happened after that

after that

after that after becoming an absolute nobody hoping

after becoming an absolute nobody hoping

after becoming an absolute nobody hoping then to become somebody in life at the

then to become somebody in life at the

then to become somebody in life at the age of 44 45 I’m gonna use a weird kind

age of 44 45 I’m gonna use a weird kind

age of 44 45 I’m gonna use a weird kind of slide so just bear with me I’m gonna

of slide so just bear with me I’m gonna

of slide so just bear with me I’m gonna use a lot of dates again so this is Jan

use a lot of dates again so this is Jan

use a lot of dates again so this is Jan 18 2016 this was the first day after I

18 2016 this was the first day after I

18 2016 this was the first day after I had left my company I picked up my bag

had left my company I picked up my bag

had left my company I picked up my bag in the morning as I used to always but

in the morning as I used to always but

in the morning as I used to always but then I didn’t have a job so I went to a

then I didn’t have a job so I went to a

then I didn’t have a job so I went to a coffee shop and I sat there and I said

coffee shop and I sat there and I said

coffee shop and I sat there and I said okay this is the start of my startup

okay this is the start of my startup

okay this is the start of my startup life so to say and you know I’ve been to

life so to say and you know I’ve been to

life so to say and you know I’ve been to that coffee shop many times ok many

that coffee shop many times ok many

that coffee shop many times ok many times in my corporate life I’ve been

times in my corporate life I’ve been

times in my corporate life I’ve been there and done meetings etc but I went

there and done meetings etc but I went

there and done meetings etc but I went there and I went to the counter and I

there and I went to the counter and I

there and I went to the counter and I asked I asked that lady I said can I

asked I asked that lady I said can I

asked I asked that lady I said can I have a cappuccino please

have a cappuccino please

have a cappuccino please and she said of course and I said how

and she said of course and I said how

and she said of course and I said how much and she said 175 rupees and I was

much and she said 175 rupees and I was

much and she said 175 rupees and I was like what you know this was the first

like what you know this was the first

like what you know this was the first time I realized the cost of a cappuccino

time I realized the cost of a cappuccino

time I realized the cost of a cappuccino not that I couldn’t pay but I had

not that I couldn’t pay but I had

not that I couldn’t pay but I had suddenly become a startup guy okay so I

suddenly become a startup guy okay so I

suddenly become a startup guy okay so I was worried about everything and I was

was worried about everything and I was

was worried about everything and I was like I’m supposed to sit here every day

like I’m supposed to sit here every day

like I’m supposed to sit here every day now and I’m gonna be having 175 rupees

now and I’m gonna be having 175 rupees

now and I’m gonna be having 175 rupees coffee every single day and that was

coffee every single day and that was

coffee every single day and that was that was really really weird for me that

that was really really weird for me that

that was really really weird for me that was the first moment and I still

was the first moment and I still

was the first moment and I still remember that moment very vividly

remember that moment very vividly

remember that moment very vividly because that’s the first time I realized

because that’s the first time I realized

because that’s the first time I realized I am a startup nobody’s gonna pay money

I am a startup nobody’s gonna pay money

I am a startup nobody’s gonna pay money to me now I’m not gonna get a salary

to me now I’m not gonna get a salary

to me now I’m not gonna get a salary anymore I you know I need to do

anymore I you know I need to do

anymore I you know I need to do something for money to come in right and

something for money to come in right and

something for money to come in right and I didn’t know at that point of time

I didn’t know at that point of time

I didn’t know at that point of time really what I was supposed to do so a

really what I was supposed to do so a

really what I was supposed to do so a quick one for you on on how I left

quick one for you on on how I left

quick one for you on on how I left Microsoft I knew that I would be on

Microsoft I knew that I would be on

Microsoft I knew that I would be on stage I knew that I would somehow be

stage I knew that I would somehow be

stage I knew that I would somehow be related to the entertainment industry

related to the entertainment industry

related to the entertainment industry but on this day when I went to Starbucks

but on this day when I went to Starbucks

but on this day when I went to Starbucks I had no idea what I’m gonna do my

I had no idea what I’m gonna do my

I had no idea what I’m gonna do my entire business plans honestly speaking

entire business plans honestly speaking

entire business plans honestly speaking no exaggeration my business plan read

no exaggeration my business plan read

no exaggeration my business plan read like this let’s do something in

like this let’s do something in

like this let’s do something in entertainment space okay without any

entertainment space okay without any

entertainment space okay without any understanding or knowledge okay so when

understanding or knowledge okay so when

understanding or knowledge okay so when that one 75 rupees happen it kind of hit

that one 75 rupees happen it kind of hit

that one 75 rupees happen it kind of hit me really really hard but then I start

me really really hard but then I start

me really really hard but then I start sitting there okay and I said sitting

sitting there okay and I said sitting

sitting there okay and I said sitting there I said you know first order of

there I said you know first order of

there I said you know first order of business was to write because as a

business was to write because as a

business was to write because as a comedian you should write comedy okay so

comedian you should write comedy okay so

comedian you should write comedy okay so I started writing and I start writing

I started writing and I start writing

I started writing and I start writing this web series I don’t know why I

this web series I don’t know why I

this web series I don’t know why I thought that suddenly I will go and

thought that suddenly I will go and

thought that suddenly I will go and produce this web series and I will

produce this web series and I will

produce this web series and I will become very very famous I thought that

become very very famous I thought that

become very very famous I thought that was the easiest part to do it so I

was the easiest part to do it so I

was the easiest part to do it so I started writing these web series and I

started writing these web series and I

started writing these web series and I spent many many months and weeks there

spent many many months and weeks there

spent many many months and weeks there just sitting at Starbucks every single

just sitting at Starbucks every single

just sitting at Starbucks every single day for about six seven hours I would

day for about six seven hours I would

day for about six seven hours I would sit observe people and write the web

sit observe people and write the web

sit observe people and write the web series so I had written a character the

series so I had written a character the

series so I had written a character the character was based on my life

character was based on my life

character was based on my life you know so simple but a guy who left

you know so simple but a guy who left

you know so simple but a guy who left corporate life to become a comedian and

corporate life to become a comedian and

corporate life to become a comedian and I said let’s do a web series around that

I said let’s do a web series around that

I said let’s do a web series around that all right so I started doing that well

all right so I started doing that well

all right so I started doing that well the interesting thing that happened

the interesting thing that happened

the interesting thing that happened during that time was that I used to

during that time was that I used to

during that time was that I used to initially in the first two weeks I guess

initially in the first two weeks I guess

initially in the first two weeks I guess I would get calls from a lot of my ex

I would get calls from a lot of my ex

I would get calls from a lot of my ex colleagues or my friends right would

colleagues or my friends right would

colleagues or my friends right would call up and ask me how things are but as

call up and ask me how things are but as

call up and ask me how things are but as I went along in the third week fourth

I went along in the third week fourth

I went along in the third week fourth week next month those calls stopped

week next month those calls stopped

week next month those calls stopped coming okay because suddenly I was

coming okay because suddenly I was

coming okay because suddenly I was irrelevant in the scheme of things and

irrelevant in the scheme of things and

irrelevant in the scheme of things and that’s the harsh reality of it right I

that’s the harsh reality of it right I

that’s the harsh reality of it right I wasn’t working anywhere nobody had any

wasn’t working anywhere nobody had any

wasn’t working anywhere nobody had any business with me and those calls really

business with me and those calls really

business with me and those calls really stopped coming and then I would just sit

stopped coming and then I would just sit

stopped coming and then I would just sit alone and I was wonder where I would get

alone and I was wonder where I would get

alone and I was wonder where I would get my first two rupee from without knowing

my first two rupee from without knowing

my first two rupee from without knowing how the industry actually works

how the industry actually works

how the industry actually works that was my second learning right second

that was my second learning right second

that was my second learning right second learning about the craft of stand-up

learning about the craft of stand-up

learning about the craft of stand-up comedy in terms of understanding the

comedy in terms of understanding the

comedy in terms of understanding the audiences Friday was a different

audiences Friday was a different

audiences Friday was a different audience

audience

audience they got my jokes Tuesday was a very

they got my jokes Tuesday was a very

they got my jokes Tuesday was a very different audience that came right and

different audience that came right and

different audience that came right and that’s when I realized that you can’t

that’s when I realized that you can’t

that’s when I realized that you can’t just write material and go perform it

just write material and go perform it

just write material and go perform it everywhere and anywhere right you have

everywhere and anywhere right you have

everywhere and anywhere right you have to write Universal material the material

to write Universal material the material

to write Universal material the material needs to be tested a hundred times

needs to be tested a hundred times

needs to be tested a hundred times before you go up on the show to be

before you go up on the show to be

before you go up on the show to be confident that that material would work

confident that that material would work

confident that that material would work right that was my second learning then

right that was my second learning then

right that was my second learning then oh so this was May last year and then I

oh so this was May last year and then I

oh so this was May last year and then I start performing I start getting my ten

start performing I start getting my ten

start performing I start getting my ten minutes slots on a regular basis I would

minutes slots on a regular basis I would

minutes slots on a regular basis I would sometimes get about 15 to 20 minutes to

sometimes get about 15 to 20 minutes to

sometimes get about 15 to 20 minutes to perform it somebody else’s show in Jan

perform it somebody else’s show in Jan

perform it somebody else’s show in Jan 2017 Jan 2017 I was given an opportunity

2017 Jan 2017 I was given an opportunity

2017 Jan 2017 I was given an opportunity to go and perform at canvas slav Club in

to go and perform at canvas slav Club in

to go and perform at canvas slav Club in Mumbai now that’s the mecca of stand-up

Mumbai now that’s the mecca of stand-up

Mumbai now that’s the mecca of stand-up comedy okay it’s a room which is like

comedy okay it’s a room which is like

comedy okay it’s a room which is like 320 seater room and that’s where comedy

320 seater room and that’s where comedy

320 seater room and that’s where comedy was born in this country so to say this

was born in this country so to say this

was born in this country so to say this kind of comedy okay so I was given an

kind of comedy okay so I was given an

kind of comedy okay so I was given an opportunity to perform and I spoke to a

opportunity to perform and I spoke to a

opportunity to perform and I spoke to a few comedian friends and I was on the

few comedian friends and I was on the

few comedian friends and I was on the lineup so I was on the poster okay along

lineup so I was on the poster okay along

lineup so I was on the poster okay along with two other comedians one of them was

with two other comedians one of them was

with two other comedians one of them was a guy called Daniel Fernandez right so

a guy called Daniel Fernandez right so

a guy called Daniel Fernandez right so if you would have heard about him now

if you would have heard about him now

if you would have heard about him now Daniel Fernandez is one of the big

Daniel Fernandez is one of the big

Daniel Fernandez is one of the big comedians in the country and he’s very

comedians in the country and he’s very

comedians in the country and he’s very very famous he’s also very young guy and

very famous he’s also very young guy and

very famous he’s also very young guy and he has a huge fan following so a bunch

he has a huge fan following so a bunch

he has a huge fan following so a bunch of comedians in the deli circuit told me

of comedians in the deli circuit told me

of comedians in the deli circuit told me that you will

that you will

that you will be killed on stage because all of them

be killed on stage because all of them

be killed on stage because all of them have come to watch Daniel Fernandez

have come to watch Daniel Fernandez

have come to watch Daniel Fernandez alright and you are like 40-plus and the

alright and you are like 40-plus and the

alright and you are like 40-plus and the crowd there will be almost 18 to 20 and

crowd there will be almost 18 to 20 and

crowd there will be almost 18 to 20 and they will not understand what you’re

they will not understand what you’re

they will not understand what you’re saying and you’re gonna have the worst

saying and you’re gonna have the worst

saying and you’re gonna have the worst week possible okay I was performing

week possible okay I was performing

week possible okay I was performing every night for a week along with Daniel

every night for a week along with Daniel

every night for a week along with Daniel Fernandez and rightly so I went there

Fernandez and rightly so I went there

Fernandez and rightly so I went there the first evening we have this show I

the first evening we have this show I

the first evening we have this show I went up on stage before Daniel Fernandez

went up on stage before Daniel Fernandez

went up on stage before Daniel Fernandez obviously but I went up on stage and I

obviously but I went up on stage and I

obviously but I went up on stage and I was very very conscious very conscious

was very very conscious very conscious

was very very conscious very conscious okay because I knew I saw the crowd

okay because I knew I saw the crowd

okay because I knew I saw the crowd there all young kids sitting there with

there all young kids sitting there with

there all young kids sitting there with starry-eyed waiting for Daniel Fernandez

starry-eyed waiting for Daniel Fernandez

starry-eyed waiting for Daniel Fernandez to come right and I was very conscious

to come right and I was very conscious

to come right and I was very conscious and for some reason I don’t know why I

and for some reason I don’t know why I

and for some reason I don’t know why I changed the way I was delivering I

changed the way I was delivering I

changed the way I was delivering I started using words which were not in my

started using words which were not in my

started using words which were not in my set just to connect with the younger

set just to connect with the younger

set just to connect with the younger audience right and rightly so I bombed

audience right and rightly so I bombed

audience right and rightly so I bombed okay dramatically a few people were

okay dramatically a few people were

okay dramatically a few people were laughing but I bombed overall a bomb by

laughing but I bombed overall a bomb by

laughing but I bombed overall a bomb by the way now in our in our industry is

the way now in our in our industry is

the way now in our in our industry is when you have a really bad show light

when you have a really bad show light

when you have a really bad show light dead silence kind of a show so anyway I

dead silence kind of a show so anyway I

dead silence kind of a show so anyway I bombed I went back to the hotel that

bombed I went back to the hotel that

bombed I went back to the hotel that night and I was thinking to myself I

night and I was thinking to myself I

night and I was thinking to myself I said what went wrong I was doing fine

said what went wrong I was doing fine

said what went wrong I was doing fine I’ve done this material before in daily

I’ve done this material before in daily

I’ve done this material before in daily circuit and people were laughing what

circuit and people were laughing what

circuit and people were laughing what went wrong here and then I realized my

went wrong here and then I realized my

went wrong here and then I realized my third big learning in this entire piece

third big learning in this entire piece

third big learning in this entire piece that I wasn’t being myself on stage how

that I wasn’t being myself on stage how

that I wasn’t being myself on stage how many times have we gotten up on stage

many times have we gotten up on stage

many times have we gotten up on stage and realized that you try to be somebody

and realized that you try to be somebody

and realized that you try to be somebody else you try to talk like somebody else

else you try to talk like somebody else

else you try to talk like somebody else because you’re on stage and that’s what

because you’re on stage and that’s what

because you’re on stage and that’s what I was doing because I was worried that

I was doing because I was worried that

I was doing because I was worried that the fan base is all Daniel Fernandez fan

the fan base is all Daniel Fernandez fan

the fan base is all Daniel Fernandez fan base right and the next day next year I

base right and the next day next year I

base right and the next day next year I decided that irrespective of who’s

decided that irrespective of who’s

decided that irrespective of who’s sitting in 18 year old or a 14 year old

sitting in 18 year old or a 14 year old

sitting in 18 year old or a 14 year old I will do the material the way I want to

I will do the material the way I want to

I will do the material the way I want to do it right the way I have practiced it

do it right the way I have practiced it

do it right the way I have practiced it for hours together and I went ahead and

for hours together and I went ahead and

for hours together and I went ahead and did that

did that

did that and I killed that show killed means I

and I killed that show killed means I

and I killed that show killed means I had a great show that evening then I had

had a great show that evening then I had

had a great show that evening then I had a great show next evening ok brilliant

a great show next evening ok brilliant

a great show next evening ok brilliant show for the same crowd and this is what

show for the same crowd and this is what

show for the same crowd and this is what happened with Daniel Fernandez this is

happened with Daniel Fernandez this is

happened with Daniel Fernandez this is what he tweeted on the third day and for

what he tweeted on the third day and for

what he tweeted on the third day and for those who can’t read it

those who can’t read it

those who can’t read it he said just going to say how cool it is

he said just going to say how cool it is

he said just going to say how cool it is that Anshu Moore who is just six months

that Anshu Moore who is just six months

that Anshu Moore who is just six months into his comedy career is killing it at

into his comedy career is killing it at

into his comedy career is killing it at canvas love love right that was my third

canvas love love right that was my third

canvas love love right that was my third learning just being myself

learning just being myself

learning just being myself was so important to the craft that I was

was so important to the craft that I was

was so important to the craft that I was getting into and frankly in every stage

getting into and frankly in every stage

getting into and frankly in every stage of life that you would be whether you’re

of life that you would be whether you’re

of life that you would be whether you’re a student or working or in corporate

a student or working or in corporate

a student or working or in corporate life or wherever right being yourself is

life or wherever right being yourself is

life or wherever right being yourself is the best that you can possibly do right

the best that you can possibly do right

the best that you can possibly do right and that was my huge learning that

and that was my huge learning that

and that was my huge learning that happened there the recognition in the

happened there the recognition in the

happened there the recognition in the and and the stuff that you get from the

and and the stuff that you get from the

and and the stuff that you get from the audiences the love that you get it’s

audiences the love that you get it’s

audiences the love that you get it’s almost like a drug okay you take that

almost like a drug okay you take that

almost like a drug okay you take that away for a day and you feel very very

away for a day and you feel very very

away for a day and you feel very very weird and I was not used to it in any

weird and I was not used to it in any

weird and I was not used to it in any case right it’s not that I was born in

case right it’s not that I was born in

case right it’s not that I was born in this industry I was just not used to it

this industry I was just not used to it

this industry I was just not used to it and I went into this very deep cycle at

and I went into this very deep cycle at

and I went into this very deep cycle at that point of time trying to figure out

that point of time trying to figure out

that point of time trying to figure out how do I come out of it and suddenly I

how do I come out of it and suddenly I

how do I come out of it and suddenly I couldn’t for days and weeks together I

couldn’t for days and weeks together I

couldn’t for days and weeks together I was getting up on shows I was refusing

was getting up on shows I was refusing

was getting up on shows I was refusing shows imagine I’d worked so hard to get

shows imagine I’d worked so hard to get

shows imagine I’d worked so hard to get these shows I was refusing because

these shows I was refusing because

these shows I was refusing because suddenly I was not confident I did a

suddenly I was not confident I did a

suddenly I was not confident I did a corporate show where there was dead

corporate show where there was dead

corporate show where there was dead silence in the room a corporate show

silence in the room a corporate show

silence in the room a corporate show which used to be my forte because I was

which used to be my forte because I was

which used to be my forte because I was from that world right so I would do good

from that world right so I would do good

from that world right so I would do good comedy for them because they in that and

comedy for them because they in that and

comedy for them because they in that and Mixon was completely missing for me and

Mixon was completely missing for me and

Mixon was completely missing for me and that’s the time when I started looking

that’s the time when I started looking

that’s the time when I started looking at myself okay very very deep because I

at myself okay very very deep because I

at myself okay very very deep because I had lots of time you know in any case so

had lots of time you know in any case so

had lots of time you know in any case so I started thinking about what I was

I started thinking about what I was

I started thinking about what I was doing why I was doing it and that’s when

doing why I was doing it and that’s when

doing why I was doing it and that’s when I realized another big learning stand-up

I realized another big learning stand-up

I realized another big learning stand-up comedy was not about being a celebrity

comedy was not about being a celebrity

comedy was not about being a celebrity okay stand-up comedy was about getting

okay stand-up comedy was about getting

okay stand-up comedy was about getting up on stage and saying things that are

up on stage and saying things that are

up on stage and saying things that are deep and personal to you stand-up comedy

deep and personal to you stand-up comedy

deep and personal to you stand-up comedy is baring your soul on stage and making

is baring your soul on stage and making

is baring your soul on stage and making people laugh and for that brief

people laugh and for that brief

people laugh and for that brief one-month period I had taken my eye off

one-month period I had taken my eye off

one-month period I had taken my eye off that ball

that ball

that ball and I had started looking at stand-up

and I had started looking at stand-up

and I had started looking at stand-up comedy as this whole celebrity status

comedy as this whole celebrity status

comedy as this whole celebrity status that I would achieve very very soon

that I would achieve very very soon

that I would achieve very very soon right and that was a huge huge learning

right and that was a huge huge learning

right and that was a huge huge learning for me in May and June I spent two

for me in May and June I spent two

for me in May and June I spent two months I stopped doing everything I

months I stopped doing everything I

months I stopped doing everything I almost gave up all my shows and this is

almost gave up all my shows and this is

almost gave up all my shows and this is this May and June I gave up all my shows

this May and June I gave up all my shows

this May and June I gave up all my shows I was doing a bit of consultancy with a

I was doing a bit of consultancy with a

I was doing a bit of consultancy with a few agencies just helping them with

few agencies just helping them with

few agencies just helping them with stuff that you know they would pay me

stuff that you know they would pay me

stuff that you know they would pay me money for I stopped all of that I bent

money for I stopped all of that I bent

money for I stopped all of that I bent back I bought a diary a very big diary

back I bought a diary a very big diary

back I bought a diary a very big diary and I went back and I said I’m gonna

and I went back and I said I’m gonna

and I went back and I said I’m gonna write comedy one more time right so I

write comedy one more time right so I

write comedy one more time right so I gave up whatever I had done till then I

gave up whatever I had done till then I

gave up whatever I had done till then I released all that material on YouTube

released all that material on YouTube

released all that material on YouTube which meant that I couldn’t perform it

which meant that I couldn’t perform it

which meant that I couldn’t perform it again and I had to write a new one or

again and I had to write a new one or

again and I had to write a new one or special now again to give you a context

special now again to give you a context

special now again to give you a context with most of the comedians writing a

with most of the comedians writing a

with most of the comedians writing a one-hour special means about six to

one-hour special means about six to

one-hour special means about six to seven months of work okay but I decided

seven months of work okay but I decided

seven months of work okay but I decided that by June I would be back on stage

that by June I would be back on stage

that by June I would be back on stage saying things in a very different way

saying things in a very different way

saying things in a very different way the way I want to say it as a comedian

the way I want to say it as a comedian

the way I want to say it as a comedian not as a celebrity not as somebody who’s

not as a celebrity not as somebody who’s

not as a celebrity not as somebody who’s getting photographed and you know

getting photographed and you know

getting photographed and you know appearing in newspapers but somebody who

appearing in newspapers but somebody who

appearing in newspapers but somebody who would want to really say things and

would want to really say things and

would want to really say things and that’s when I spent tremendous amount of

that’s when I spent tremendous amount of

that’s when I spent tremendous amount of hours just writing non-stop I would

hours just writing non-stop I would

hours just writing non-stop I would write sometimes for 7 to 8 hours in a

write sometimes for 7 to 8 hours in a

write sometimes for 7 to 8 hours in a day

day

day I just keep writing not typing not

I just keep writing not typing not

I just keep writing not typing not dictating writing on a notebook right

dictating writing on a notebook right

dictating writing on a notebook right kept writing kept writing just to work

kept writing kept writing just to work

kept writing kept writing just to work on my material and in June I came up

on my material and in June I came up

on my material and in June I came up with my new special called wait there’s

with my new special called wait there’s

with my new special called wait there’s more okay and the whole idea of naming

more okay and the whole idea of naming

more okay and the whole idea of naming the special wait there’s more was first

the special wait there’s more was first

the special wait there’s more was first it kind of resonates with my surname

it kind of resonates with my surname

it kind of resonates with my surname second the idea was that whatever I have

second the idea was that whatever I have

second the idea was that whatever I have done if you thought that was good enough

done if you thought that was good enough

done if you thought that was good enough then please wait right there is more

then please wait right there is more

then please wait right there is more now the comedian is coming out all right

now the comedian is coming out all right

now the comedian is coming out all right so I was when I turned reinventing

so I was when I turned reinventing

so I was when I turned reinventing reimagining or read whatever I couldn’t

reimagining or read whatever I couldn’t

reimagining or read whatever I couldn’t think of a third word so I just put it

think of a third word so I just put it

think of a third word so I just put it up there but I was reinventing and

up there but I was reinventing and

up there but I was reinventing and that’s that was my last learning right I

that’s that was my last learning right I

that’s that was my last learning right I mean till date at least which was about

mean till date at least which was about

mean till date at least which was about finding your voice who are you and this

finding your voice who are you and this

finding your voice who are you and this is not about stand-up comedy think of

is not about stand-up comedy think of

is not about stand-up comedy think of your sphere right whether you are a

your sphere right whether you are a

your sphere right whether you are a student or Ian’s corporate life who are

student or Ian’s corporate life who are

student or Ian’s corporate life who are you what do you represent when you walk

you what do you represent when you walk

you what do you represent when you walk into a room what do people look at and

into a room what do people look at and

into a room what do people look at and think about you not in terms of an

think about you not in terms of an

think about you not in terms of an impression but what would come out of

impression but what would come out of

impression but what would come out of your mouth what is that brain thing that

your mouth what is that brain thing that

your mouth what is that brain thing that would come out that people would

would come out that people would

would come out that people would associate with and it is such a huge

associate with and it is such a huge

associate with and it is such a huge thing and it is ironic that I had spent

thing and it is ironic that I had spent

thing and it is ironic that I had spent 18 years in corporate life without

18 years in corporate life without

18 years in corporate life without knowing who I was 18 years can you

knowing who I was 18 years can you

knowing who I was 18 years can you imagine 18 years because I was just

imagine 18 years because I was just

imagine 18 years because I was just pushing for next promotion and the

pushing for next promotion and the

pushing for next promotion and the bigger job and a bigger salary and a

bigger job and a bigger salary and a

bigger job and a bigger salary and a bigger car but I wasn’t really

bigger car but I wasn’t really

bigger car but I wasn’t really introspecting of who I was and it took

introspecting of who I was and it took

introspecting of who I was and it took me two months to sit down write about

me two months to sit down write about

me two months to sit down write about myself I wrote about things that you

myself I wrote about things that you

myself I wrote about things that you know about me like just about how I

know about me like just about how I

know about me like just about how I think why do I think like that why do I

think why do I think like that why do I

think why do I think like that why do I behave like this and I wrote all of that

behave like this and I wrote all of that

behave like this and I wrote all of that just to figure out who I am to represent

just to figure out who I am to represent

just to figure out who I am to represent that person on stage and this is what

that person on stage and this is what

that person on stage and this is what happened when I came up with the next

happened when I came up with the next

happened when I came up with the next special wait there’s more now I’m on a

special wait there’s more now I’m on a

special wait there’s more now I’m on a tour doing this special again and again

tour doing this special again and again

tour doing this special again and again now

now

now and kind of going well so in summary

and kind of going well so in summary

and kind of going well so in summary very quickly these are my learnings okay

very quickly these are my learnings okay

very quickly these are my learnings okay these are my learnings and I just go one

these are my learnings and I just go one

these are my learnings and I just go one by one and just kind of relate it back

by one and just kind of relate it back

by one and just kind of relate it back to whatever I mentioned the first one

to whatever I mentioned the first one

to whatever I mentioned the first one was when I sat in Starbucks it was about

was when I sat in Starbucks it was about

was when I sat in Starbucks it was about running my own shop okay and this is

running my own shop okay and this is

running my own shop okay and this is very important especially for those who

very important especially for those who

very important especially for those who are in corporate life even for students

are in corporate life even for students

are in corporate life even for students out here

out here

out here this was my huge learning running my own

this was my huge learning running my own

this was my huge learning running my own shop can you imagine if you have a kid

shop can you imagine if you have a kid

shop can you imagine if you have a kid on Aikido Khan and that is your duquan

on Aikido Khan and that is your duquan

on Aikido Khan and that is your duquan right that is your shop would you not do

right that is your shop would you not do

right that is your shop would you not do everything possible to run that shop you

everything possible to run that shop you

everything possible to run that shop you would you won’t blame a manager you

would you won’t blame a manager you

would you won’t blame a manager you won’t say the company policy is bad you

won’t say the company policy is bad you

won’t say the company policy is bad you won’t say I am demotivated because my

won’t say I am demotivated because my

won’t say I am demotivated because my manager is bad you would just run the

manager is bad you would just run the

manager is bad you would just run the setup and analyze this is what I was

setup and analyze this is what I was

setup and analyze this is what I was doing with my entire life now I didn’t

doing with my entire life now I didn’t

doing with my entire life now I didn’t have anybody that I could blame I would

have anybody that I could blame I would

have anybody that I could blame I would get up in the morning and I had to move

get up in the morning and I had to move

get up in the morning and I had to move the needle right so one big learning

the needle right so one big learning

the needle right so one big learning second just staying focused that list of

second just staying focused that list of

second just staying focused that list of 10 things trust me just try it I would

10 things trust me just try it I would

10 things trust me just try it I would just love everyone to do this you know

just love everyone to do this you know

just love everyone to do this you know if you can just make that list go back

if you can just make that list go back

if you can just make that list go back to that list every single time put it on

to that list every single time put it on

to that list every single time put it on your phone if you have to right but go

your phone if you have to right but go

your phone if you have to right but go back to that list and just focus on that

back to that list and just focus on that

back to that list and just focus on that 10 things the simplest 10 things that

10 things the simplest 10 things that

10 things the simplest 10 things that will help you in your job or whatever

will help you in your job or whatever

will help you in your job or whatever profession you are in right that was the

profession you are in right that was the

profession you are in right that was the second big learning third was just

second big learning third was just

second big learning third was just learning the art and craft right from

learning the art and craft right from

learning the art and craft right from writing jokes to performing jokes I have

writing jokes to performing jokes I have

writing jokes to performing jokes I have just you know I have tried to learn from

just you know I have tried to learn from

just you know I have tried to learn from people who are like 21 year old

people who are like 21 year old

people who are like 21 year old comedians I’ve tried to learn from 16

comedians I’ve tried to learn from 16

comedians I’ve tried to learn from 16 year old comedians I wouldn’t have done

year old comedians I wouldn’t have done

year old comedians I wouldn’t have done that in my corporate life actually you

that in my corporate life actually you

that in my corporate life actually you know because I had reached a certain

know because I had reached a certain

know because I had reached a certain stage sure I was heading a business if a

stage sure I was heading a business if a

stage sure I was heading a business if a young kid from college came and joined

young kid from college came and joined

young kid from college came and joined the company he was supposed to learn

the company he was supposed to learn

the company he was supposed to learn from me not the other way round right

from me not the other way round right

from me not the other way round right and that’s the mentality you build in

and that’s the mentality you build in

and that’s the mentality you build in corporate life but here I was learning

corporate life but here I was learning

corporate life but here I was learning from even a 16 or 17 year old coming up

from even a 16 or 17 year old coming up

from even a 16 or 17 year old coming up on stage I would look at something that

on stage I would look at something that

on stage I would look at something that he did and I’m like why can’t I do this

he did and I’m like why can’t I do this

he did and I’m like why can’t I do this why can’t I think like that how did he

why can’t I think like that how did he

why can’t I think like that how did he construct a joke

construct a joke

construct a joke how was he we know moving around and

how was he we know moving around and

how was he we know moving around and stuff like that right so that was the

stuff like that right so that was the

stuff like that right so that was the other thing that I learned of taking

other thing that I learned of taking

other thing that I learned of taking risk whether announcing a solo or

risk whether announcing a solo or

risk whether announcing a solo or announcing or show off your own or just

announcing or show off your own or just

announcing or show off your own or just doing what you know I started doing

doing what you know I started doing

doing what you know I started doing another big thing and I would I always

another big thing and I would I always

another big thing and I would I always keep saying this right in today’s world

keep saying this right in today’s world

keep saying this right in today’s world it’s very very different from what it

it’s very very different from what it

it’s very very different from what it used to be 20 years ago today you can

used to be 20 years ago today you can

used to be 20 years ago today you can pick up whatever you like you will make

pick up whatever you like you will make

pick up whatever you like you will make money in it hundred percent you remember

money in it hundred percent you remember

money in it hundred percent you remember when I mean a lot of you are very very

when I mean a lot of you are very very

when I mean a lot of you are very very young but when b1 in school in college

young but when b1 in school in college

young but when b1 in school in college length which is like two three decades

length which is like two three decades

length which is like two three decades ago you know people used to say that a

ago you know people used to say that a

ago you know people used to say that a good party Nina to check you to con

good party Nina to check you to con

good party Nina to check you to con colligate that’s what they used to say

colligate that’s what they used to say

colligate that’s what they used to say today there is a child somebody said hi

today there is a child somebody said hi

today there is a child somebody said hi a child I am a cold at all

a child I am a cold at all

a child I am a cold at all that guy is multi-million dollar

that guy is multi-million dollar

that guy is multi-million dollar fundings right now right so you can pick

fundings right now right so you can pick

fundings right now right so you can pick up and do whatever you want just the

up and do whatever you want just the

up and do whatever you want just the ability to take risk and not worry about

ability to take risk and not worry about

ability to take risk and not worry about where your next EMI would come from or

where your next EMI would come from or

where your next EMI would come from or where you would make money from just

where you would make money from just

where you would make money from just forget all that just jump into it you

forget all that just jump into it you

forget all that just jump into it you will make money that’s the world we live

will make money that’s the world we live

will make money that’s the world we live in staying sane you know if every time

in staying sane you know if every time

in staying sane you know if every time somebody would come and take a selfie I

somebody would come and take a selfie I

somebody would come and take a selfie I would really you know I would think I’m

would really you know I would think I’m

would really you know I would think I’m like Shahrukh Khan or somebody seriously

like Shahrukh Khan or somebody seriously

like Shahrukh Khan or somebody seriously you know if people would stop me saying

you know if people would stop me saying

you know if people would stop me saying you know I I’ve seen you except when it

you know I I’ve seen you except when it

you know I I’ve seen you except when it used to go to your head it does even in

used to go to your head it does even in

used to go to your head it does even in corporate life it does right every time

corporate life it does right every time

corporate life it does right every time you do a great presentation you get the

you do a great presentation you get the

you do a great presentation you get the next you know next big appraisal or you

next you know next big appraisal or you

next you know next big appraisal or you get that promotion or the next level it

get that promotion or the next level it

get that promotion or the next level it goes to your head you suddenly start

goes to your head you suddenly start

goes to your head you suddenly start thinking you’re very big bigger than the

thinking you’re very big bigger than the

thinking you’re very big bigger than the rest of the folks you are with and

rest of the folks you are with and

rest of the folks you are with and that’s such a huge mistake

that’s such a huge mistake

that’s such a huge mistake because you really are not like none of

because you really are not like none of

because you really are not like none of us is bigger than the next guy who’s

us is bigger than the next guy who’s

us is bigger than the next guy who’s sitting you know next to you then we are

sitting you know next to you then we are

sitting you know next to you then we are not and that was a huge learning finding

not and that was a huge learning finding

not and that was a huge learning finding my voice again keep saying that finding

my voice again keep saying that finding

my voice again keep saying that finding the voice is so so important in my field

the voice is so so important in my field

the voice is so so important in my field obviously it is the most important thing

obviously it is the most important thing

obviously it is the most important thing but in every other field just looking at

but in every other field just looking at

but in every other field just looking at what what you represent right who are

what what you represent right who are

what what you represent right who are you is so important and that gives

you is so important and that gives

you is so important and that gives clarity of thought in terms of where you

clarity of thought in terms of where you

clarity of thought in terms of where you want to be in the first place line and

want to be in the first place line and

want to be in the first place line and as you would have seen this entire

as you would have seen this entire

as you would have seen this entire presentation was a little haphazard and

presentation was a little haphazard and

presentation was a little haphazard and that’s because I made the presentation

that’s because I made the presentation

that’s because I made the presentation in the morning and that’s been my last

in the morning and that’s been my last

in the morning and that’s been my last learning the latest learning has been

learning the latest learning has been

learning the latest learning has been next time you’re doing TEDx prepare

next time you’re doing TEDx prepare

next time you’re doing TEDx prepare better all right so that’s it for me

better all right so that’s it for me

better all right so that’s it for me thank you so much

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