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Make Giving In Again | Mariem ELTagoury | TEDxMSAUniversity


good evening so me giving in again let

good evening so me giving in again let me start with social media and I know

me start with social media and I know

me start with social media and I know you might be thinking what are social

you might be thinking what are social

you might be thinking what are social media got to do with giving but bear

media got to do with giving but bear

media got to do with giving but bear with me to the end social media has

with me to the end social media has

with me to the end social media has become a vital part of our daily lives

become a vital part of our daily lives

become a vital part of our daily lives there’s no denying that we look to

there’s no denying that we look to

there’s no denying that we look to social media for motivation inspiration

social media for motivation inspiration

social media for motivation inspiration even life lessons one of the most

even life lessons one of the most

even life lessons one of the most popular trends are motivational quotes

popular trends are motivational quotes

popular trends are motivational quotes or texts I brought a couple with me for

or texts I brought a couple with me for

or texts I brought a couple with me for us to read together today check out this

us to read together today check out this

us to read together today check out this one remember to take care of yourself

one remember to take care of yourself

one remember to take care of yourself sometimes you get so busy taking care of

sometimes you get so busy taking care of

sometimes you get so busy taking care of others that you forget that you are

others that you forget that you are

others that you forget that you are important to sometimes use bright colors

important to sometimes use bright colors

important to sometimes use bright colors to grab your attention so that one might

to grab your attention so that one might

to grab your attention so that one might far-right falling in love with yourself

far-right falling in love with yourself

far-right falling in love with yourself first doesn’t make you vain or selfish

first doesn’t make you vain or selfish

first doesn’t make you vain or selfish it makes you indestructible this one in

it makes you indestructible this one in

it makes you indestructible this one in a sort of red cell flow is asking

a sort of red cell flow is asking

a sort of red cell flow is asking yourself what you need every day and

yourself what you need every day and

yourself what you need every day and then making sure you receive it this

then making sure you receive it this

then making sure you receive it this last one respect yourself enough to walk

last one respect yourself enough to walk

last one respect yourself enough to walk away from anything that no longer serves

away from anything that no longer serves

away from anything that no longer serves you grows you or makes you happy the

you grows you or makes you happy the

you grows you or makes you happy the thing is that we’re usually presented

thing is that we’re usually presented

thing is that we’re usually presented with these on singular basis so you read

with these on singular basis so you read

with these on singular basis so you read one today the other tomorrow and yes

one today the other tomorrow and yes

one today the other tomorrow and yes they spark motivation but when these

they spark motivation but when these

they spark motivation but when these messages are brought together you start

messages are brought together you start

messages are brought together you start to see the negative arrogant vibe of the

to see the negative arrogant vibe of the

to see the negative arrogant vibe of the message they bring out and it’s not just

message they bring out and it’s not just

message they bring out and it’s not just social media modern media as a whole

social media modern media as a whole

social media modern media as a whole there is this constant glamorization of

there is this constant glamorization of

there is this constant glamorization of self love in the media having an

self love in the media having an

self love in the media having an attitude or arrogance is Percy

attitude or arrogance is Percy

attitude or arrogance is Percy that’s cool like in the movie Mean Girls

that’s cool like in the movie Mean Girls

that’s cool like in the movie Mean Girls criminals are tied to awesomeness like

criminals are tied to awesomeness like

criminals are tied to awesomeness like in shows like breaking bad that line

in shows like breaking bad that line

in shows like breaking bad that line between good and evil

between good and evil

between good and evil it gets blurred there is this constant

it gets blurred there is this constant

it gets blurred there is this constant diminishing of the idea of giving

diminishing of the idea of giving

diminishing of the idea of giving specifically giving love kindness and

specifically giving love kindness and

specifically giving love kindness and respect

respect

respect we are constantly fed the message that

we are constantly fed the message that

we are constantly fed the message that the selfless die in vain and that the

the selfless die in vain and that the

the selfless die in vain and that the children’s stories that we used to hear

children’s stories that we used to hear

children’s stories that we used to hear about the good and evil

about the good and evil

about the good and evil they’re just fairy tales you don’t exist

they’re just fairy tales you don’t exist

they’re just fairy tales you don’t exist in the modern world we are

in the modern world we are

in the modern world we are subconsciously being educated that in

subconsciously being educated that in

subconsciously being educated that in order to evolve into better stronger

order to evolve into better stronger

order to evolve into better stronger indestructible individuals we have to

indestructible individuals we have to

indestructible individuals we have to transcend into people who care only for

transcend into people who care only for

transcend into people who care only for ourselves and regardless of other

ourselves and regardless of other

ourselves and regardless of other people’s interests but is this the right

people’s interests but is this the right

people’s interests but is this the right way

way

way are we transcending the right way today

are we transcending the right way today

are we transcending the right way today I’d like to narrate to you three stories

I’d like to narrate to you three stories

I’d like to narrate to you three stories the first is the story of love it’s the

the first is the story of love it’s the

the first is the story of love it’s the story of a mother who was living in

story of a mother who was living in

story of a mother who was living in Great Britain she had just received her

Great Britain she had just received her

Great Britain she had just received her child and from the arrival of that child

child and from the arrival of that child

child and from the arrival of that child she vowed to give every ounce of effort

she vowed to give every ounce of effort

she vowed to give every ounce of effort care and love to raise a well-informed

care and love to raise a well-informed

care and love to raise a well-informed caring individual in this society she

caring individual in this society she

caring individual in this society she sacrificed her PhD exam her night shifts

sacrificed her PhD exam her night shifts

sacrificed her PhD exam her night shifts even the opportunity to travel to

even the opportunity to travel to

even the opportunity to travel to further her career all that for that

further her career all that for that

further her career all that for that child and in spite of the mockery of her

child and in spite of the mockery of her

child and in spite of the mockery of her husband and other people she would spend

husband and other people she would spend

husband and other people she would spend hundreds of pounds on children’s books

hundreds of pounds on children’s books

hundreds of pounds on children’s books she’d get through the mail and she

she’d get through the mail and she

she’d get through the mail and she constantly read to that child from an

constantly read to that child from an

constantly read to that child from an age as young as six months old she saw

age as young as six months old she saw

age as young as six months old she saw in that child’s eyes the hunger for

in that child’s eyes the hunger for

in that child’s eyes the hunger for knowledge and she believed strongly in

knowledge and she believed strongly in

knowledge and she believed strongly in the seed that she had sown the second

the seed that she had sown the second

the seed that she had sown the second story is the story of kindness it is the

story is the story of kindness it is the

story is the story of kindness it is the story of a young woman who had just

story of a young woman who had just

story of a young woman who had just graduated from med school upon her

graduated from med school upon her

graduated from med school upon her graduation her father who was well-off

graduation her father who was well-off

graduation her father who was well-off decided to buy a private clinic for her

decided to buy a private clinic for her

decided to buy a private clinic for her so she’d have her own business like most

so she’d have her own business like most

so she’d have her own business like most doctors here in Egypt but that was an

doctors here in Egypt but that was an

doctors here in Egypt but that was an offer she rejected she wanted to go into

offer she rejected she wanted to go into

offer she rejected she wanted to go into public service she believed that the

public service she believed that the

public service she believed that the human soul is weak and she didn’t want

human soul is weak and she didn’t want

human soul is weak and she didn’t want to be lured away from the humane path

to be lured away from the humane path

to be lured away from the humane path that she had chosen by money she wanted

that she had chosen by money she wanted

that she had chosen by money she wanted to help those in pain but most of all to

to help those in pain but most of all to

to help those in pain but most of all to help those in need the third story is a

help those in need the third story is a

help those in need the third story is a story of respect it’s a story of a

story of respect it’s a story of a

story of respect it’s a story of a freshman who sacrificed her just budding

freshman who sacrificed her just budding

freshman who sacrificed her just budding career resigned from her job and decided

career resigned from her job and decided

career resigned from her job and decided to stay at home and care for her mother

to stay at home and care for her mother

to stay at home and care for her mother who was just diagnosed with pancreatic

who was just diagnosed with pancreatic

who was just diagnosed with pancreatic cancer that mother was deemed inoperable

cancer that mother was deemed inoperable

cancer that mother was deemed inoperable in Egypt they had to travel abroad for

in Egypt they had to travel abroad for

in Egypt they had to travel abroad for surgery and finances seemed difficult at

surgery and finances seemed difficult at

surgery and finances seemed difficult at first but then an insurance that they

first but then an insurance that they

first but then an insurance that they weren’t aware of appeared out of the

weren’t aware of appeared out of the

weren’t aware of appeared out of the blue and travelling was made possible

blue and travelling was made possible

blue and travelling was made possible the mother all she wanted was to spend

the mother all she wanted was to spend

the mother all she wanted was to spend more time with her daughter she felt

more time with her daughter she felt

more time with her daughter she felt hard she fought bravely pancreatic

hard she fought bravely pancreatic

hard she fought bravely pancreatic cancer patients are usually given a

cancer patients are usually given a

cancer patients are usually given a maximum of two years survival that

maximum of two years survival that

maximum of two years survival that mother she survived for two and a half

mother she survived for two and a half

mother she survived for two and a half years I’m not sure if you noticed or not

years I’m not sure if you noticed or not

years I’m not sure if you noticed or not but these stories they’re sort of

but these stories they’re sort of

but these stories they’re sort of connected the young lady who graduated

connected the young lady who graduated

connected the young lady who graduated from med school who chose public service

from med school who chose public service

from med school who chose public service that’s her at my far right

that’s her at my far right

that’s her at my far right she is the pancreatic patient in the

she is the pancreatic patient in the

she is the pancreatic patient in the story of respect when she needed surgery

story of respect when she needed surgery

story of respect when she needed surgery her public service earnings would have

her public service earnings would have

her public service earnings would have never surfaced such a trip but

never surfaced such a trip but

never surfaced such a trip but God lent a hand like she had done for so

God lent a hand like she had done for so

God lent a hand like she had done for so many people in need before and that

many people in need before and that

many people in need before and that daughter who sacrificed her budding

daughter who sacrificed her budding

daughter who sacrificed her budding careers who care for her mother who had

careers who care for her mother who had

careers who care for her mother who had cancer that daughter is the baby in the

cancer that daughter is the baby in the

cancer that daughter is the baby in the story of love because when you sow the

story of love because when you sow the

story of love because when you sow the seed of love and sacrifice you are bound

seed of love and sacrifice you are bound

seed of love and sacrifice you are bound to reap that harvest of love and

to reap that harvest of love and

to reap that harvest of love and sacrifice with the same amount and the

sacrifice with the same amount and the

sacrifice with the same amount and the same love and sacrifice and you remember

same love and sacrifice and you remember

same love and sacrifice and you remember how she used to read to that baby

how she used to read to that baby

how she used to read to that baby well she developed a strong passion for

well she developed a strong passion for

well she developed a strong passion for words writing especially and she would

words writing especially and she would

words writing especially and she would found her own magazine and it wouldn’t

found her own magazine and it wouldn’t

found her own magazine and it wouldn’t be just about advertisements and

be just about advertisements and

be just about advertisements and sponsors and articles and so on but it

sponsors and articles and so on but it

sponsors and articles and so on but it would be a platform so other young

would be a platform so other young

would be a platform so other young talents would be able to expose their

talents would be able to expose their

talents would be able to expose their work and build portfolios so they could

work and build portfolios so they could

work and build portfolios so they could further the career in writing and the

further the career in writing and the

further the career in writing and the creative industry that baby that

creative industry that baby that

creative industry that baby that daughter that is me this is the story of

daughter that is me this is the story of

daughter that is me this is the story of my mother I have had the honor to live

my mother I have had the honor to live

my mother I have had the honor to live with a woman who set an example every

with a woman who set an example every

with a woman who set an example every day by living a life of giving love

day by living a life of giving love

day by living a life of giving love kindness and respect who proved to me

kindness and respect who proved to me

kindness and respect who proved to me with every breath and every moment that

with every breath and every moment that

with every breath and every moment that yes it is worth giving and yes what we

yes it is worth giving and yes what we

yes it is worth giving and yes what we give to this world will come back to us

give to this world will come back to us

give to this world will come back to us in the forum and at the time that we

in the forum and at the time that we

in the forum and at the time that we needed the most

[Applause]

[Applause] [Music]

[Music]

[Music] [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] in a world filled with meanness and

in a world filled with meanness and

in a world filled with meanness and hatred and evil in a world where

hatred and evil in a world where

hatred and evil in a world where disrespect wins cheers and votes we are

disrespect wins cheers and votes we are

disrespect wins cheers and votes we are in desperate need of more love and more

in desperate need of more love and more

in desperate need of more love and more giving and I know when we look around

giving and I know when we look around

giving and I know when we look around and our country is going through some

and our country is going through some

and our country is going through some through some really rough times but if

through some really rough times but if

through some really rough times but if we look back we’ll realize that we’ve

we look back we’ll realize that we’ve

we look back we’ll realize that we’ve passed through worse we have gone from

passed through worse we have gone from

passed through worse we have gone from occupation to occupation we have passed

occupation to occupation we have passed

occupation to occupation we have passed through droughts through famine and yet

through droughts through famine and yet

through droughts through famine and yet we have survived we have survived with

we have survived we have survived with

we have survived we have survived with what love kindness and respect we have

what love kindness and respect we have

what love kindness and respect we have had for one another so how can we keep

had for one another so how can we keep

had for one another so how can we keep that to ensure a better future how can

that to ensure a better future how can

that to ensure a better future how can we make giving love kindness and respect

we make giving love kindness and respect

we make giving love kindness and respect a norm let’s start with baby steps let

a norm let’s start with baby steps let

a norm let’s start with baby steps let us promise one another today you and I

us promise one another today you and I

us promise one another today you and I let us promise that the next time we’re

let us promise that the next time we’re

let us promise that the next time we’re in a supermarket queue to notice the

in a supermarket queue to notice the

in a supermarket queue to notice the person with less items and give them our

person with less items and give them our

person with less items and give them our spots so that they can get some things

spots so that they can get some things

spots so that they can get some things done faster let’s promise that the next

done faster let’s promise that the next

done faster let’s promise that the next time we have rubbish in our hands let’s

time we have rubbish in our hands let’s

time we have rubbish in our hands let’s not throw it on the sidewalk and blame

not throw it on the sidewalk and blame

not throw it on the sidewalk and blame the government for not cleaning up after

the government for not cleaning up after

the government for not cleaning up after us the next time you go into a store

us the next time you go into a store

us the next time you go into a store notice who is there first instead of

notice who is there first instead of

notice who is there first instead of lunging into the chaos and believing

lunging into the chaos and believing

lunging into the chaos and believing that is going to get things done faster

that is going to get things done faster

that is going to get things done faster let us promise to respect each other’s

let us promise to respect each other’s

let us promise to respect each other’s lifestyle decisions whether she’s

lifestyle decisions whether she’s

lifestyle decisions whether she’s wearing a veil or a mohawk or a boat or

wearing a veil or a mohawk or a boat or

wearing a veil or a mohawk or a boat or he’s wearing a bow tie or has tattoos or

he’s wearing a bow tie or has tattoos or

he’s wearing a bow tie or has tattoos or whether they are liberal or conservative

whether they are liberal or conservative

whether they are liberal or conservative let us promise to respect one another’s

let us promise to respect one another’s

let us promise to respect one another’s personal space let us make giving in

personal space let us make giving in

personal space let us make giving in again let us transcend into givers

again let us transcend into givers

again let us transcend into givers because remember

because remember

because remember all the love kindness and respect that

all the love kindness and respect that

all the love kindness and respect that you give away will find its way back to

you give away will find its way back to

you give away will find its way back to you in the form and at the time that you

you in the form and at the time that you

you in the form and at the time that you need it the most thank you

need it the most thank you

need it the most thank you [Applause]

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