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Lorsque la fragilité nous invite à la fraternité | laurent De Chérisey | TEDxLorient


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in this room one in ten people has

received one day a call these shots of

wire we get a little early in the morning or

a little late at night and that make us

to move beyond our certainties the

certainty one second before the stroke of

is that life is good is that

the world of accident dramas

disability is for others who

have no skin and a second after

well we switch to discover that it is

also for oneself in our society that

philosophers call post modern

one where we summarize the meaning of life to

efficiency and performance

know it see it want it power

also appear with the networks

social

the challenge is major the major challenge because

that people who live these

accidents

forty thousand people each year in

France for 15 thousand of them

people who have a car accident

it’s the 15 25 years it’s faster on

the roads faster in the sports of

the extreme also as if life was

a great race

and then for 40 years and over and the

stroke

it’s the consequences of modern life

with the stress the sedentariness the

junk food and the consequences are the

same is that the brain that is the

command post and well am

not then this shock by this accident

vascular there are so-called

brain damage and its lesions

have a triple punishment

people wake up after

several weeks or months of

coma

forty thousand that makes a lot of people

and wakes up with handicap jeans

physical

many are wheelchair some

staggering

the other day fabien was telling me in the

street every day twice three times one

wonder if I have drunk too much

cognitive the cognitive impairment what is it

well it’s malfunctions on

the word about memory in our

simon houses of cyrene a lot of

people remember very well that they

were before the accident

they have trouble remembering this

that they did two hours ago they

have trouble speaking in a society of

the speech is complicated and then

perhaps the most complicated is the

psychic handicap the psyche celam who

Am I

who is the other who is our society

what is the meaning of my life and then

maybe behind that a question

fundamental that comes all of us

to challenge is the question of who is

the human being his amazing jacket because

that it is said that there were 130 billion

of human beings on earth

the previous 120 billion he had a

reality that was eminently local

for the most part of them a reality

from his village it was already 10 km

an adventure

today we are in a world village

where we are connected through the

social networks of information one is

connected to each other to 7 billion others

the time of a click and there arises a

fundamental question is the question

who is the human being

and you and this question of who l be

human she comes to put our society

in tension link us and it is the other

is so different the host is

so close and so different

is not there a risk for this

which is not a danger and we see I

are part of the generation that saw

young adults the berlin wall

collapsed

remember at the end we said end to

the time we were saying end of the story and

today I was reading recently we did not

never built so many walls

that today why are we

builds walls

because the great civilizational challenge

which we all face

but especially our children this is the

question of who is the man who is

the other who am I

and as long as we do not respond to this

question well there is a threat

most

it’s the threat of my own fear the

afraid of not being able to face

the other because if I do not know who

it is if I do not know who I am

then there is danger

so we are tempted to run on walls on

sees them build geopolitically

but maybe also walls to

inside itself as if

to protect oneself against the person

who wakes up after these long months of

coma I told you forty thousand

people

it’s a fairly recent figure it’s due to

the implantation of samu in the years

80 this implantation of samuel is

fascinating

let’s stop by second she’s

fascinating why she is fascinating

because by implanting the samu our

society makes the political choice

economic human scientist to say

your life is worth living

even when you are seriously injured

it’s so worth it that I

may have lived that I’m going to put

thousands of

people on standby

it costs billions every year to

our country at our taxes i’m going to put

thousands of

people on standby so that if I

get a call to say that you

have a stroke kills

a cranial trauma

within ten minutes a truck of

firefighter see a helicopter will arrive

to keep alive is brought to samu

ensues weeks or months of

coma the samu are implanted in the

80s it means forty thousand

people by thirty years one million two

a hundred thousand people then his entourage

immediate

six million people 10% of

French one in ten people in this

room and the question is latent

the question is aunt why is this

that we keep alive we are entitled to

ask it

the first person who does this is

the one who wakes up with his disability

and who was up to 17 years old up to 48

years old olivier 48 years old doctor in physics

nuclear

boss of a subsidiary of a large group

industrial dad of two children accident

cerebrovascular explosion of the

cell

family loneliness memory loss

social eschewing the net is fine

fragile and sends us back to all these challenges

which we face as if

reminded us that in a society that

tells us that our

the meaning of our life our successful life

it will be the performance and profitability

and know it and have it and olive well

the others come to remind us that we

know it with our children the 25

first years of our life are

fragile we know it with our elders the

Last 15-20 years of life are

fragile

it’s already 40 50 years of fragility and

the thirty years in the middle a breakup

emotional about 2 7 million people

disabled 10 million poorly housed 8

millions of unemployed or jobs

insecure

is not it so much that the

society is reconciled with fragility

is when we like that led

with this phone call that our certainties

explodes well we hear on waking

the disabled person does not turn but

Why

in a nutshell why did you tell me

keep alive why is that the

society makes the choice to keep me in

life for what meaning

for what reasons do we keep

life if you keep me alive that’s what

I hear in the lyrics groups

I still had one just now

it’s a guard alive for me to be

an object of care and that me

start the company

I must disconnect better than I can

to hear in people’s mouths

older ones too is there and well there is like

a prophetic rocker

you know he is prophet in our

noisy society the prophet is the one

who is able to shout to society there

where human dignity is flouted and

this prophetic word is that of

the most fragile person who is

wake up and who tells us why and its

second request

it’s a demand for power

incredible it’s a revolution

planetary

when she tells us I need

of you and all of a sudden in this

fragile person who tells me I need

of you

she just revealed that me who have

scared me building walls that me

I’m afraid of an eligible quest for ducey

this performance one day to be put into

walk because I’m going slower

this person there

10 but not afraid – is not so fast

I need you

I trust you you are able to

I am capable of you and there we

come to discover a fantastic

promises is that this value

citizen of the fraternity that is us

so expensive in France

it’s a value that when you’re in

a society that fights a totalitarianism

on performance a value that we

take to the fratricide

if you are only in the performance you

are a danger to me

the other is a danger to me in a

company that has been educated or since the

childhood notebook we are told

must be first class this risk

fratricide is major when listening

the word of this fragile person the

handicap for simon of cyrene the

older people for other excesses that

tell us I need you

well she comes to give me the audacity to

the relationship the audacity of otherness

otherness is the other the taste of

the other being able to hear each other

the other tell me together we can go

further and that’s what did germyn

and this project houses share simon

of shared house cyrene that were

mediatized because our president

honor philippe pozzo di borgo de

untouchable film made France dream

why did we arrive with this

movie but we did not dream what happens there

what is happening in our homes

share men and women

disabled people with disabilities

social or other social

when they are no longer afraid of each other

more afraid of fragility more afraid of

the difference discovers that conjugate our

differences is to make life spring

is bring out the boldness is doing

gushing from severe ajoie springs from taste

to live and ultimately is this what

taste of the other is not in our lives

pressed what’s left in the sieve at the

end of the day

maybe at the end of our lives what

rest it’s what happened is

all these moments we dared this relationship

trust to each other is that it’s

because of the end and what we

do well

so we have gathered a number of

people with disabilities and valid

people who became friends because they

were in the hospital after this accident

and then I listened to them

we listened to them tell us but you

know me since I’m disabled

my greatest suffering is through the

disability the greatest suffering and the

loneliness in a society that goes fast

loneliness is the big challenge of

each of us when we become a little

more fragile a little slower than the

other

we are all at risk

the good news we all are concerned

we go all ages or be able to say

to the other I need you fantastic

this breath that breath there is the know

not so old in the 30s

someone said there are races

higher and lower races that

said that we want to say hitler not du

it’s one of the greatest humanists

winston churchill you realize

the incredible evolution of consciousness

of the human being

what has happened and for

it only took ten years later

this awareness there happen to allow

the death camps

hiroshima the other different merit

to be exterminated and at that time

burst of consciousness of humanity in

1948 universal choice of the declaration

universal human rights

equality of human beings

thirty years later a man had a

prophetic echo in his first cry of

Pope John Paul II when he said

everywhere human dignity is flouted

we must feel concerned what

fantastic call for globalization

will be concerned with all the dignity

but is not crazy and and thirty years older

late the most powerful man in the world

is black but it’s not the end of

history because we see how much

risks of identity withdrawal how much

what the risk of putting back walls

come back soon

does not it belong to everyone

we to hear the word of the one who

tells us I need you and our

simon groups of cyrene nest these little

friendship groups where we discover everything

it just makes us feel good

hear the other say my suffering and the

solitude then under disabilities and where

we want together to meet for

simply animated in the cities

informal times friendship times

tables of hosts

we do not know who does not have any more

importance we let ourselves be called I

need you it makes me feel good that the

taste

and we see a little scene

untouchable Saturday after Saturday

day after day

today we have twelve associations in

France nearly 2000 people who taste

how good it is to be called by

his name to know how much our life has

sense

when one opens up to otherness and that

well we once dreamed together dreaming

left the medical-social institution that

is so necessary but that we have

want to leave because we are not

at home

and today all the professionals

accompany this movement there and

when you arrive home is there

people tell us I’m dying of

solitude

Manu was telling me at home it’s big

it’s beautiful but me alone and she has

melted into tears and there and well actually

have created these houses it’s housing

social is actually cohabiting with

disabled people and people

valid

everyone at his studio a bit like a

species of big guesthouses is a

couple of others and then a big living room

dining room kitchen and in those in

these places cohabit people

disabled young people sales to a

civic service

the other day geoffrey told me that

I was looking for years

a 19 year old here I got

found and he answered he cédric in

his wheelchair that said here I

am an extraordinary living of power

sprout these social places where

each of us cripple frail elderly

will be able to say I’m a living and this

project was valued because it was

laureate of the prize France undertakes to

the elysée which earned us the first

Prime Minister’s visit to one of

our houses in May that came

spend two hours saying it takes

houses everywhere like that in France

even in Lorient and when Fabien was

invited to the Elysee can we have been together

receive this high price the ten ministers

there were the 500 people that’s

even more impressive today

and he had this extraordinary word

he watched everyone

he said I ‘ll tell you an answer to

a question you dare not ask yourself

do not dare ask me what is my

handicap to my handicap

it is I am

but you know slowness it’s not

always a handicap when I

walks I walk slowly but when

I am with a friend the hard drive

Longer

and when we eat in our homes

share simon mermaid with our friends i

eat slowly but the party lasts longer

long time

and when I speak I speak long but

you do not listen better then fabien thank you

to you for your prophetic word and

I want to echo it I want

invite us to think each one for myself

finally say how does everyone

rather than denouncing a society that

is going too fast that is inhuman

how does everyone in his talents

in his skills where the city

call before each year we become

actor of a more fraternal society

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