the few times I met a
wife
I talked to her for a long time and
she told me she did not have any
desire she had no desire anymore
for her husband she also told me that
before for her sex
good it did not bother too much but that
now she really did like
that and then a little further in the
discussion
she told me that you actually had
never had an orgasm and that during
reports she had relatively little
pleasure
so me in turn I’m going to talk about
lubrication point of clitoris g
let go and orgasm what I
have not told you yet is that this
woman she is seventy years old then there
you may be in the process of
say and how come he
comes to discuss these things with
a woman of 70 years and ben me I you
will say why not but in fact
know that it’s my daily life
my job
in fact I am a gynecologist and
sexologist
so even though most women
can agree that a report
sex without orgasm can be
satisfying all those who have
experienced will also tell you that
it’s nice that it’s pretty good
it’s relaxing and then bah it
waste nothing quite the contrary and that it
even call to return
most of my fellow sex therapists
today agree that the
male sexuality may be
not as simple as we want the
say but that female sexuality
may not be as complex and
mysterious that is implied
for a long time happily some
years back when I was
medecine studient
most of my loved ones came to me
ask for advice advice about their
sores or grandmother’s disease
all that is normal
I passed the competition of internat
and I specialized in
obstetric gynecology and the ball
is girlfriend coming to ask me questions
about pregnancy giving birth their
rules or mycoses buddies them
was much more interested in
anecdotes of guard rooms after
the internat ben I chose to
to orient myself towards the medicine of the
reproduction to make
in vitro fertilizations and I complied
that with two andrology andrology
it’s all the difficulties for man
infertile the diploma of andrologist
it’s a year of reproduction
male and a year of sexuality
male and so I became
obstetrician gynecologist capable of
treat erectile dysfunction or
premature ejaculation but
totally incompetent in management
female sexual dysfunction
so here to remedy this problem
but I chose to do the diploma
inter university of sexology and with
two colleagues from the hospital in
which I was working on, well, we said we
wants to embark on this beginning and there
I learned a lot of things
I learned a lot of things that my
parents had not taught me to
now was this their role I
learned a lot that the teachers of
nat sciences or the all too rare
sexual health workers that
I could cross did not have me
learned I learned a lot of things that
my medical classes did not have me
learned and finally I learned a lot of
things that the city had not yet
learned our classes were held on Tuesday
evening and every Wednesday around 10am at the
coffee break with the set makes the
good debrief service have their
tell what we had learned the day before
the oddly it was great
interested he found it exciting
he asked lots of questions and then bah
they were learning a lot of things in the end
3rd year of this degree I
introduce yourself memory and I did
under the direction of the doctor of vaud a
memory about women fountains and
female ejaculation
it’s a very serious subject that makes
2000 we asked ourselves the question
but what was the origin of the
source all of this comes and thanks to
ultrasounds I did and at the dosage
biochemical biochemicals and well ben
advanced on the subject and that we have
published we made an article
in a major American magazine that
refers to
sexual medicine and I was expecting it
not but it made an incredible buzz
I was asked by the
journalists to do interviews
I was asked to write articles
in addition I participated in
reports and I even wrote a
book on the subject I was asked
to go talk in congresses and
I met lots of people full of
interested people full of people
interesting who taught me
lots of things about sexuality and about
the pleasure and in fact it’s a little bit
those things that I want to share
with you tonight sexuality exists
since the dawn of time
otherwise we would not be here to talk about it
but for a very long time she has
been advised reproductive a little dominated
by male pressure centered on
penetration and especially under the
diktat of religion that said that a
woman had to have a maximum of children
and a minimum of orgasm and especially not
the opposite in 1956 an American the
doctor gregory pincus created the
contraceptive pill and that was it
the beginning of the sexual revolution and
of the emancipation of the woman she has
been authorized in France in 1967
thanks to Lucien Neuwirth and
it was broadcast in the
population as you know
today than in the 80s
it’s relatively new but this
spread of contraception has allowed
to separate sexuality in two
parties a reproductive sexuality for
to make babies with his partner and
a recreational sexuality to pass
a good time with your partner (s)
good hundred years ago the doctor sigmund freud
the father of psychoanalysis said
that the only real orgasm of the
woman and vaginal orgasm that of the
mature and fulfilled woman and that
clitoral orgasm was that of the
immature little girl neuroses and
complexed with no penis
good even though at the end of his life he has
stated that after 30 years of having
studied female psychology
he still had not answered the
big question but what do they want
really and that for him sexuality
feminine remain the black continent
this little denigrating clitoris sentence
did a lot a lot a lot of trouble
to many women who had a
Pleasant pleasant sexuality with
orgasms but obtained by stimulation
clitoris
so let’s talk a little bit about anatomy
now is what you are I can
Do not be an affront to yourself
ask where is the clitoris is
what you know how big is it
clitoris is what anyone knows
it’s someone who dares to get wet
yeah I did not hear the clitoris measure
between 8 and 12 cm I’ll show you
3d in real size
here is a clit outside you
have the glans that will measure between 5 and
10 mm and inside the loss
submerged from the iceberg with the bodies
lateral cavernous bodies and
spongy bulbous bah actually
anatomically it’s the same thing
that a penis in brio logically it has
the same origin
except that the penis and in length a
clit is arched on each side
of the vagina hold you let me do you
circulate
take care it’s a clitoris it’s
fragile and it’s sensitive you can
circulate
she’s an Australian doctor
Helene O’Connell who in two in 1998
described anatomy of the clitoris such as
I wanted to show you have
heard 1980 18 it was yesterday
it is in 2010 that the French odile
bush
a gynecologist described the mechanics
of the clitoris his movements and his
stimulation during sexual intercourse
again it’s very recent
work on the clitoris
it ‘s not going to interest big people
for a long time since it’s a
organ only dedicated to pleasure
feminine and that is a little bit of
pathologies
know for information that this is in
2017
this year in September that for the
first time the clitoris has been
represented in its entirety in
textbooks for courses of svt at
middle School
this year 2010 is then today
clearly we came back from the debate
Freudian on clitoral and
vaginal we know that sexual pleasure
women go through the clitoris
now want to make a woman a day
without her clitoris
in fact it would be like wanting
try to make a man play on his
penis it’s not impossible but it’s
not the simplest
in practice the clitoris can be
stimulated in three different ways
first of all live on the glans with
rubbing the pubis the finger the
language or period genders that go
vibrate at high frequency and know that
in terms of the clitoris there are between six and
eight thousand nerve endings on the
penis glans that is a lot to him
wider in has only four thousand so
it’s relatively sensitive it’s
relatively effective then the
penetration movements the
Penis penetration movements
that comes and goes and that will stretch from
small lips
and if you look well in water the
little lips finished on the brake of the
clitoris and splits to do the
hood of the clitoris and so these
rubbing movements bah that can
to walk too
and finally there is the lateral stretching the
lateral distension of the vagina which makes
will rub the spongy body
the bulbs and cavernous and who are going
give a different simulation
interesting news and not
unpleasant
so you understood it the clitoris has
really a central role in the
female sexuality but clearly
today it is under used it is
underused I told you about
some figures 66% of women
heterosexuals or claim to have
systematically or very
regularly orgasms during
reports
it’s not bad but we’re still
far from the 95 % of men is more
interesting if we are interested in
homosexual women
they are 86% in this category
so we could ask ourselves the question
of why then some will say that
yeah a woman know better
the anatomy of the woman so she knows
what to do and more right more
dext hockey others will say that ben the
women use sex toys and as I
told you they were perfectly
profit of the games super well used and
Well, it can work
okay but maybe the real reason
is that actually when two women are
together they take the time they
take the time to take care of one of
the other and that they are in no hurry and
that they do not live the pressure of the
penetration about 30% of women
only happens to have an orgasm by
exclusive vaginal penetration
so you understand that the
penetration it was not necessarily the
best tool when it is used
alone to give pleasure to a woman
if clitoris is a major component of the
female pleasure
he’s not alone in the 19th century
a scottish alexander what she has
describes small glands around
the urethra called them the glands of
skene a hundred years later
mylan zawiah zikin yugoslav in 1990 to
re-study his glands and in fact he has
showed that l had exactly the same
composition that it was exactly the
same tissue as the prostate that the
prostate in humans and so the concept
of female prostate appeared this has
even been recognized by the federation
international anatomy and therefore the
un prostate women who will do between 2
and 5 grams while it’s between 20
and 40 grams in the man she is
perfectly functional
she is able to ejaculate she is
able to emit a small balance
whitish less than one thousand liters
very discreet and that contains the same
thing that in man except of course
spermatozoa
now do not confuse a
it was jacut let go the woman has nothing
to do with the liquid emission of
women fountains and has nothing to do
with lubrication
do you know where the
lubrication
in fact contrary to what many
think there are no glands
so yes here there are the glands of
bartholin at the entrance of the vagina
fork level down but
they are very accessory she
lubricates a little bit actually
during sexual arousal
we have a hyper pressure there is an influx
of blood around the organs that will create
in fact a pressure in
capillaries and we’re going to have a leak from
plasma so that’s actually the whole of
vagina which 30 south and it’s thanks to this
transfer to that low lubrication that
the report can slide etc it’s
nice for both partners
so I told you about clitoris
lubrication vagina prostate
how not to talk about sexuality
feminine without mentioning the point g is
what there is
is that a myth then actually
everything starts in 1950 when the doctor
ernest grafenberg published a paper on
the role of the urethra in pleasure
feminine is in fact he takes over
testimonials from patients who tell him
that when we stimulate the wall
anterior vagina
well it’s nice it’s good it’s
voluptuous it gives pleasure
article 2 grafenberg had little echo
at the time and his thirty years later
lindigo when he worked on
female ejaculation
to find this anterior wall
as a trigger zone and so he has
called the grafenberg spot the point of
grafenberg the g point so in fact we have
tried to search to find out what
what was behind that we had
searched for what is an organ what has
something but in fact we have nothing
found did not find an organ
instead we found the meeting of
several organs that I just got from you
describe the clitoris arching the urethra
the prostate around and below the
vagina and its shape today the
Clit curtain complex a retro
prostate to vaginal we will say the point
g to do that and so this point g ba
isse locates or but in fact it is on
the anterior wall at 2.3 cm it has a
consistency a little bit different a
little bit more granular and when we
snorkel it’s nice
so I replaced some
anatomical landmarks that will
may have helped some women to
get to know each other or some men
to be a little less lost and in
any case for a woman to enjoy
for her to have orgas
are some prerequisites
first of all, they will have to
know she’ll have to she
know his anatomy his intimacy his
physiology his answer to the
sexual stimulation and that clearly
it’s an invitation to the car
exploration and masturbation
then she will have to free herself
it will have to be released from 2000
years of Judeo Christian education or
of a family education a little bit
strict in which the pleasure
feminine and the female desire was
taboo room we see you even repressed
finally for a woman to enjoy
she’ll have to be able to
let go they are able
to disconnect a small area in the
brain that’s right here in the cortex
orbitofrontal making it the area of the
what will we say
and so if she gets to disconnect
this area eh well she can let herself
to invade by all the sensations
nice and voluptuous that go
mount the simulation of his organs
but to be able to disconnect this
zone to let go the quality of
the relationship with the partner is
essential
then the partner him he must be
informed patients interested in his
partner before him
altruistic but movement of the
sexual mechanics that will give some
pleasure to men are not
necessarily those who will give
pleasure to the woman is not the same
movements it’s not the same mechanics
and as we know that the woman can be
multi orgasmic she may have
several orgasms in the same report
in the same evening but that the
report usually ends when
sir enjoyed squirting you have it
including gentlemen take the time to
to interest you in your wives agree
give them pleasure and they will be
you make it today it’s time
to think outside the box
fall our ancestral patterns of a
sexuality too classic to test innovate
play and have fun
so to go back to the patient that
I had seen in consultation
I told him everything I told you
said tonight
finally almost almost early she was
surprise but also curious
interested and she told me to have
learned lots of things
and before leaving she asked me if
she could come back with her husband for
that I give him the same information
Maybe that’s where it came from
the idea of making you this evening I
gave you a lot of information
tonight maybe you learned from
things maybe not if it’s the case
is that you are experts I you
thank you for your attention
let enjoy the latest topo and
then bah is doing very well and have fun
good
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