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Life tells you who you are. Take the time to listen. | Alun Be | TEDxWanChaiSalon


it was cold and I was in Denmark

it was cold and I was in Denmark Copenhagen and I was lost completely

Copenhagen and I was lost completely

Copenhagen and I was lost completely lost lost with myself lost in my career

lost lost with myself lost in my career

lost lost with myself lost in my career and lost mostly with my own definition I

and lost mostly with my own definition I

and lost mostly with my own definition I didn’t know who I was anymore

didn’t know who I was anymore

didn’t know who I was anymore and here was far away from everything

and here was far away from everything

and here was far away from everything that I know trying to figure out who I

that I know trying to figure out who I

that I know trying to figure out who I am or rather who do I want to be you see

am or rather who do I want to be you see

am or rather who do I want to be you see I studied architecture for eight years

I studied architecture for eight years

I studied architecture for eight years not because I wanted to but because my

not because I wanted to but because my

not because I wanted to but because my parents thought that the safest plan for

parents thought that the safest plan for

parents thought that the safest plan for me was to draw plans for the rest of my

me was to draw plans for the rest of my

me was to draw plans for the rest of my life for other people as an architect

life for other people as an architect

life for other people as an architect but in their defense I was like I was

but in their defense I was like I was

but in their defense I was like I was one of those kids that uh when they

one of those kids that uh when they

one of those kids that uh when they asked me so son what you want to do when

asked me so son what you want to do when

asked me so son what you want to do when you grow up I was like hmm I want to be

you grow up I was like hmm I want to be

you grow up I was like hmm I want to be like Michael Jackson James Brown and my

like Michael Jackson James Brown and my

like Michael Jackson James Brown and my dad was like we need to talk we need to

dad was like we need to talk we need to

dad was like we need to talk we need to talk sit down I’ll give you two option

talk sit down I’ll give you two option

talk sit down I’ll give you two option easy option one I help you I help you

easy option one I help you I help you

easy option one I help you I help you get an education in architecture in the

get an education in architecture in the

get an education in architecture in the finest school in America etc etc and

finest school in America etc etc and

finest school in America etc etc and option two I help you not no need to

option two I help you not no need to

option two I help you not no need to tell you which option I choose but then

tell you which option I choose but then

tell you which option I choose but then again fast-forward 10 years later Here I

again fast-forward 10 years later Here I

again fast-forward 10 years later Here I am in Copenhagen asking myself the same

am in Copenhagen asking myself the same

am in Copenhagen asking myself the same question what do I want to do when I

question what do I want to do when I

question what do I want to do when I grew up wait a minute there’s a lot of

grew up wait a minute there’s a lot of

grew up wait a minute there’s a lot of facial hair on my face like I’m no Peter

facial hair on my face like I’m no Peter

facial hair on my face like I’m no Peter Pan what do I want to do now and I think

Pan what do I want to do now and I think

Pan what do I want to do now and I think we all ask ourselves that question at

we all ask ourselves that question at

we all ask ourselves that question at some point in time in our life

some point in time in our life

some point in time in our life luckily there was this man his name is

luckily there was this man his name is

luckily there was this man his name is Hayden Hayden Knox from New York

Hayden Hayden Knox from New York

Hayden Hayden Knox from New York 75 years old he was living in my

75 years old he was living in my

75 years old he was living in my building and it tells me I mean I didn’t

building and it tells me I mean I didn’t

building and it tells me I mean I didn’t know him I would just like run into him

know him I would just like run into him

know him I would just like run into him in the building see how it was always

in the building see how it was always

in the building see how it was always nice smiling at all and one day I bump

nice smiling at all and one day I bump

nice smiling at all and one day I bump into him in the staircase and he tells

into him in the staircase and he tells

into him in the staircase and he tells me alone you’re an architect maybe a

me alone you’re an architect maybe a

me alone you’re an architect maybe a lawyer but I think you’re an architect

lawyer but I think you’re an architect

lawyer but I think you’re an architect but it was not your choice it was your

but it was not your choice it was your

but it was not your choice it was your father’s choice but you know what the

father’s choice but you know what the

father’s choice but you know what the good news is and the bad news is you’re

good news is and the bad news is you’re

good news is and the bad news is you’re not is deep down and you will not be

not is deep down and you will not be

not is deep down and you will not be able to get away from it I looked at him

able to get away from it I looked at him

able to get away from it I looked at him and I was like how do you know that and

and I was like how do you know that and

and I was like how do you know that and he looked at me straight in the eyes and

he looked at me straight in the eyes and

he looked at me straight in the eyes and he said because that’s the story of my

he said because that’s the story of my

he said because that’s the story of my life at this very moment that man Hayden

life at this very moment that man Hayden

life at this very moment that man Hayden planted the seed of confidence and

planted the seed of confidence and

planted the seed of confidence and evidence that I should just do what I

evidence that I should just do what I

evidence that I should just do what I wanted to do in my life and I started

wanted to do in my life and I started

wanted to do in my life and I started immediately I took a portrait of him but

immediately I took a portrait of him but

immediately I took a portrait of him but I didn’t stop there

I didn’t stop there

I didn’t stop there I went full force into it I started

I went full force into it I started

I went full force into it I started taking pictures of people like you

taking pictures of people like you

taking pictures of people like you people on the street like not

people on the street like not

people on the street like not necessarily people that had thought that

necessarily people that had thought that

necessarily people that had thought that were photogenic but people that were

were photogenic but people that were

were photogenic but people that were charismatic that had a story to tell and

charismatic that had a story to tell and

charismatic that had a story to tell and I could read those stories on their

I could read those stories on their

I could read those stories on their faces I would like talk to strangers on

faces I would like talk to strangers on

faces I would like talk to strangers on the streets in the subway I got a lot of

the streets in the subway I got a lot of

the streets in the subway I got a lot of knows a lot of Oh creepy but I got a few

knows a lot of Oh creepy but I got a few

knows a lot of Oh creepy but I got a few yes and it lit up a little people

yes and it lit up a little people

yes and it lit up a little people started to like those photos and people

started to like those photos and people

started to like those photos and people started contacting me oh I want to

started contacting me oh I want to

started contacting me oh I want to portrait like that one that you did

portrait like that one that you did

portrait like that one that you did there and next thing I know I’m making a

there and next thing I know I’m making a

there and next thing I know I’m making a living out of this actually a lot more

living out of this actually a lot more

living out of this actually a lot more than I was doing when I was an architect

than I was doing when I was an architect

than I was doing when I was an architect strangely enough but at my change you

strangely enough but at my change you

strangely enough but at my change you know they say architecture is the old

know they say architecture is the old

know they say architecture is the old man’s profession so I’m I switch my

man’s profession so I’m I switch my

man’s profession so I’m I switch my vinyls you know in the long run you know

vinyls you know in the long run you know

vinyls you know in the long run you know anyway so things are going great people

anyway so things are going great people

anyway so things are going great people are calling me until this one day my

are calling me until this one day my

are calling me until this one day my phone rings and it’s the UN it calling

phone rings and it’s the UN it calling

phone rings and it’s the UN it calling me they’re like mr. Allenby I’m like me

me they’re like mr. Allenby I’m like me

me they’re like mr. Allenby I’m like me yes yes sir

yes yes sir

yes yes sir we want to work with you we saw your

we want to work with you we saw your

we want to work with you we saw your work and we think it’s great we want to

work and we think it’s great we want to

work and we think it’s great we want to tell the stories of 10 women from Africa

tell the stories of 10 women from Africa

tell the stories of 10 women from Africa from Senegal which is my birthplace by

from Senegal which is my birthplace by

from Senegal which is my birthplace by the way and we think that your honors

the way and we think that your honors

the way and we think that your honors photography could your great candidate

photography could your great candidate

photography could your great candidate to tell the stories of those woman so I

to tell the stories of those woman so I

to tell the stories of those woman so I went to Africa to my back home and I

went to Africa to my back home and I

went to Africa to my back home and I worked and I had the chance to tell the

worked and I had the chance to tell the

worked and I had the chance to tell the stories of those amazing woman who

stories of those amazing woman who

stories of those amazing woman who started from nothing and built not

started from nothing and built not

started from nothing and built not kingdoms but kingdoms they just made it

kingdoms but kingdoms they just made it

kingdoms but kingdoms they just made it she was made

she was made

she was made she was earning less than $100 a month

she was earning less than $100 a month

she was earning less than $100 a month and she had a baby and her husband was

and she had a baby and her husband was

and she had a baby and her husband was like you’re not gonna go to school she

like you’re not gonna go to school she

like you’re not gonna go to school she left her husband took her baby on her

left her husband took her baby on her

left her husband took her baby on her back went to school and today she has

back went to school and today she has

back went to school and today she has two master’s degree and a company with

two master’s degree and a company with

two master’s degree and a company with 40 employees so I had the chance to tell

40 employees so I had the chance to tell

40 employees so I had the chance to tell the stories of those woman because after

the stories of those woman because after

the stories of those woman because after that that’s the cherry on the cake for

that that’s the cherry on the cake for

that that’s the cherry on the cake for my first exhibition to present his

my first exhibition to present his

my first exhibition to present his project they took me to the World Expo

project they took me to the World Expo

project they took me to the World Expo the universal Expo of Milan were

the universal Expo of Milan were

the universal Expo of Milan were exhibited my work for the first time in

exhibited my work for the first time in

exhibited my work for the first time in front of millions not thousands but

front of millions not thousands but

front of millions not thousands but millions of people and it was my first

millions of people and it was my first

millions of people and it was my first exhibition and I was like that is the

exhibition and I was like that is the

exhibition and I was like that is the sign that’s it

sign that’s it

sign that’s it this is good okay okay it’s on and

this is good okay okay it’s on and

this is good okay okay it’s on and people started calling me I was I had

people started calling me I was I had

people started calling me I was I had the chance to show this work tell the

the chance to show this work tell the

the chance to show this work tell the stories of this woman in many many

stories of this woman in many many

stories of this woman in many many countries I travel a lot but one thing

countries I travel a lot but one thing

countries I travel a lot but one thing was still missing I knew that I was

was still missing I knew that I was

was still missing I knew that I was doing what I loved but I didn’t know

doing what I loved but I didn’t know

doing what I loved but I didn’t know what it meant it was only one at

what it meant it was only one at

what it meant it was only one at that worked at a shot in Senegal and

that worked at a shot in Senegal and

that worked at a shot in Senegal and that I took it back to Senegal for the

that I took it back to Senegal for the

that I took it back to Senegal for the PNL of the car that it all made sense I

PNL of the car that it all made sense I

PNL of the car that it all made sense I had an art opening there I was very

had an art opening there I was very

had an art opening there I was very excited it was important for me because

excited it was important for me because

excited it was important for me because they are the most concern of the stories

they are the most concern of the stories

they are the most concern of the stories that I’m telling and I wanted to see how

that I’m telling and I wanted to see how

that I’m telling and I wanted to see how they would react and so good news it’s a

they would react and so good news it’s a

they would react and so good news it’s a it’s a full house lots of people are

it’s a full house lots of people are

it’s a full house lots of people are here

here

here everything’s great I’m happy but then

everything’s great I’m happy but then

everything’s great I’m happy but then somewhere in the middle there a group of

somewhere in the middle there a group of

somewhere in the middle there a group of students just come and out of them there

students just come and out of them there

students just come and out of them there was at least like 30 young woman and it

was at least like 30 young woman and it

was at least like 30 young woman and it just goes straight to my photos and they

just goes straight to my photos and they

just goes straight to my photos and they mesmerized by it and it just they stay

mesmerized by it and it just they stay

mesmerized by it and it just they stay there and they’re looking at it for like

there and they’re looking at it for like

there and they’re looking at it for like a good ten minutes and I’m like wow what

a good ten minutes and I’m like wow what

a good ten minutes and I’m like wow what is this and then the director of that

is this and then the director of that

is this and then the director of that school comes to me and tells me we’ve

school comes to me and tells me we’ve

school comes to me and tells me we’ve been to a lot of exhibitions and it’s

been to a lot of exhibitions and it’s

been to a lot of exhibitions and it’s the first time that I see them that

the first time that I see them that

the first time that I see them that focus and it hit me it hit me so hard

focus and it hit me it hit me so hard

focus and it hit me it hit me so hard they sing little pieces of themself in

they sing little pieces of themself in

they sing little pieces of themself in those photograph just like that man

those photograph just like that man

those photograph just like that man Hayden so a piece of himself in me back

Hayden so a piece of himself in me back

Hayden so a piece of himself in me back in Denmark see we all mirror to

in Denmark see we all mirror to

in Denmark see we all mirror to societies we all like mirrors to

societies we all like mirrors to

societies we all like mirrors to societies and in the quest of finding

societies and in the quest of finding

societies and in the quest of finding ourselves instead of telling the world

ourselves instead of telling the world

ourselves instead of telling the world with a lot of force and struggle instead

with a lot of force and struggle instead

with a lot of force and struggle instead of telling the world who we are maybe we

of telling the world who we are maybe we

of telling the world who we are maybe we should stop and listen because the world

should stop and listen because the world

should stop and listen because the world is already telling us or we are thank

is already telling us or we are thank

is already telling us or we are thank you

you

you [Applause]

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