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Life after Tragedy – A Garden of Hope | Amy Eden | TEDxJCUCairns


[Applause]

[Applause] the purpose of life is not to be happy

the purpose of life is not to be happy

the purpose of life is not to be happy is to be useful to be honorable to be

is to be useful to be honorable to be

is to be useful to be honorable to be compassionate to have it make some

compassionate to have it make some

compassionate to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived

difference that you have lived and lived

difference that you have lived and lived well I lived on Murray Street Cannes

well I lived on Murray Street Cannes

well I lived on Murray Street Cannes North Queensland Australia a street and

North Queensland Australia a street and

North Queensland Australia a street and area marred by strongly held negative

area marred by strongly held negative

area marred by strongly held negative perception a street when I give my

perception a street when I give my

perception a street when I give my address to the taxi driver he would

address to the taxi driver he would

address to the taxi driver he would screw up his face and say Murray Street

screw up his face and say Murray Street

screw up his face and say Murray Street a street that bus drivers used to avoid

a street that bus drivers used to avoid

a street that bus drivers used to avoid a street that people say don’t live in

a street that people say don’t live in

a street that people say don’t live in don’t walk down at night just don’t well

don’t walk down at night just don’t well

don’t walk down at night just don’t well we were told more than once not to buy

we were told more than once not to buy

we were told more than once not to buy in the ghetto to stay away from the west

in the ghetto to stay away from the west

in the ghetto to stay away from the west side but the thing is I just really

side but the thing is I just really

side but the thing is I just really loved where we lived I mean it’s close

loved where we lived I mean it’s close

loved where we lived I mean it’s close to the city great parks and my sister

to the city great parks and my sister

to the city great parks and my sister was a hop and skip away it was never as

was a hop and skip away it was never as

was a hop and skip away it was never as bad as people made out and how would

bad as people made out and how would

bad as people made out and how would they know anyway they didn’t live there

they know anyway they didn’t live there

they know anyway they didn’t live there my life was normal

my life was normal

my life was normal uneventful as in Groundhog Day a series

uneventful as in Groundhog Day a series

uneventful as in Groundhog Day a series of events on repeat every morning I’d

of events on repeat every morning I’d

of events on repeat every morning I’d pull out of the drive at 8:20 I’d close

pull out of the drive at 8:20 I’d close

pull out of the drive at 8:20 I’d close my date and I’d wave to my sister who

my date and I’d wave to my sister who

my date and I’d wave to my sister who was closing her gate and then again in

was closing her gate and then again in

was closing her gate and then again in the afternoon I’d pull into the drive at

the afternoon I’d pull into the drive at

the afternoon I’d pull into the drive at 5:20 open my day

5:20 open my day

5:20 open my day and again wave to my sister who was

and again wave to my sister who was

and again wave to my sister who was opening her gate when I reflect on what

opening her gate when I reflect on what

opening her gate when I reflect on what my life he used to be like the song

my life he used to be like the song

my life he used to be like the song little boxes by Peter Seeger comes to

little boxes by Peter Seeger comes to

little boxes by Peter Seeger comes to mind identical houses identical routines

mind identical houses identical routines

mind identical houses identical routines no connection mindless instead of

no connection mindless instead of

no connection mindless instead of mindful living

mindful living

mindful living security in my little box they say one

security in my little box they say one

security in my little box they say one door closes another will open a social

door closes another will open a social

door closes another will open a social worker by trade and at the mercy of the

worker by trade and at the mercy of the

worker by trade and at the mercy of the newly elected government I was one of

newly elected government I was one of

newly elected government I was one of the stats I was made redundant my door

the stats I was made redundant my door

the stats I was made redundant my door had shut my identity my self value gone

December 19 2014

December 19 2014 I received a panicked call from my

I received a panicked call from my

I received a panicked call from my friend in Sydney where are your children

friend in Sydney where are your children

friend in Sydney where are your children where are your children where are your

where are your children where are your

where are your children where are your children oh my god can you see them can

children oh my god can you see them can

children oh my god can you see them can you see them are they okay

you see them are they okay

you see them are they okay a horrific tragedy involving the loss of

a horrific tragedy involving the loss of

a horrific tragedy involving the loss of local children it’s a date and an event

local children it’s a date and an event

local children it’s a date and an event itched in all of our hearts all with

itched in all of our hearts all with

itched in all of our hearts all with different memories of what we were doing

different memories of what we were doing

different memories of what we were doing of how we found out yet all united in

of how we found out yet all united in

of how we found out yet all united in grief and disbelief

grief and disbelief

grief and disbelief according to Tim Moore an expert in

according to Tim Moore an expert in

according to Tim Moore an expert in placemaking

placemaking

placemaking a child’s well-being is affected by

a child’s well-being is affected by

a child’s well-being is affected by their perception of their neighbourhood

their perception of their neighbourhood

their perception of their neighbourhood so what Tim Moore is saying is the

so what Tim Moore is saying is the

so what Tim Moore is saying is the neighbourhood that is generally

neighbourhood that is generally

neighbourhood that is generally characterized by community neglect like

characterized by community neglect like

characterized by community neglect like my community minora negatively affects a

my community minora negatively affects a

my community minora negatively affects a child’s outcome over and above that of

child’s outcome over and above that of

child’s outcome over and above that of their family socioeconomic status so

their family socioeconomic status so

their family socioeconomic status so here we were as a community dealing with

here we were as a community dealing with

here we were as a community dealing with these negative perceptions for decades

these negative perceptions for decades

these negative perceptions for decades and for decades these negative

and for decades these negative

and for decades these negative perceptions have been holding back our

perceptions have been holding back our

perceptions have been holding back our children our leaders of tomorrow from

children our leaders of tomorrow from

children our leaders of tomorrow from reaching their potential and now and now

reaching their potential and now and now

reaching their potential and now and now we had to deal with the tragedy I wasn’t

we had to deal with the tragedy I wasn’t

we had to deal with the tragedy I wasn’t sure how we would get past it how would

sure how we would get past it how would

sure how we would get past it how would we cope so nearly unemployed

we cope so nearly unemployed

we cope so nearly unemployed feeling dejected despondent and

feeling dejected despondent and

feeling dejected despondent and disconnected from my community I decided

disconnected from my community I decided

disconnected from my community I decided to use my social work skills knowledge

to use my social work skills knowledge

to use my social work skills knowledge connection and passion to help rebuild

connection and passion to help rebuild

connection and passion to help rebuild my community I decided to step out of my

my community I decided to step out of my

my community I decided to step out of my little box to look beyond my Groundhog

little box to look beyond my Groundhog

little box to look beyond my Groundhog Day existence I decided to open a new

Day existence I decided to open a new

Day existence I decided to open a new door because I believe you reap what you

door because I believe you reap what you

door because I believe you reap what you sow so our lives our community are like

sow so our lives our community are like

sow so our lives our community are like a garden and like a garden

a garden and like a garden

a garden and like a garden they don’t come readily made you have to

they don’t come readily made you have to

they don’t come readily made you have to grow them they require hard work elbow

grow them they require hard work elbow

grow them they require hard work elbow grease roll up the sleeves approach they

grease roll up the sleeves approach they

grease roll up the sleeves approach they require planning patience nutrients

require planning patience nutrients

require planning patience nutrients water they require love committed and

water they require love committed and

water they require love committed and invested to harvest positive change in

invested to harvest positive change in

invested to harvest positive change in our community

our community

our community a handful of residents banded together

a handful of residents banded together

a handful of residents banded together and the manure community garden seed was

and the manure community garden seed was

and the manure community garden seed was planted once an unused parcel of land in

planted once an unused parcel of land in

planted once an unused parcel of land in the locally known back streets of Cannes

the locally known back streets of Cannes

the locally known back streets of Cannes unutilized an untapped potential just

unutilized an untapped potential just

unutilized an untapped potential just sitting there gorgeous mature trees that

sitting there gorgeous mature trees that

sitting there gorgeous mature trees that provide cooling shades from the warm

provide cooling shades from the warm

provide cooling shades from the warm tropical Sun it was ripe with

tropical Sun it was ripe with

tropical Sun it was ripe with possibility my community is a community

possibility my community is a community

possibility my community is a community that ranks in the 4th percentile

that ranks in the 4th percentile

that ranks in the 4th percentile nationally for social disadvantage a

nationally for social disadvantage a

nationally for social disadvantage a community suspicious of any government

community suspicious of any government

community suspicious of any government intervention a community spurred out of

intervention a community spurred out of

intervention a community spurred out of its boxes by tragedy and two years on

its boxes by tragedy and two years on

its boxes by tragedy and two years on we’re a community that has begin to

we’re a community that has begin to

we’re a community that has begin to sprout flourish growing in numbers

sprout flourish growing in numbers

sprout flourish growing in numbers strength and firm friendships

through positive action we have created

through positive action we have created 40 garden beds we have planted seven

40 garden beds we have planted seven

40 garden beds we have planted seven varieties of chili I mean come on how

varieties of chili I mean come on how

varieties of chili I mean come on how hot is that tropical delights mango

hot is that tropical delights mango

hot is that tropical delights mango avocado passion fruit and dragon fruit

avocado passion fruit and dragon fruit

avocado passion fruit and dragon fruit Island staples cassava taro Abeka

Island staples cassava taro Abeka

Island staples cassava taro Abeka eggplant pumpkin and the classics of

eggplant pumpkin and the classics of

eggplant pumpkin and the classics of citrus tomato mulberry pawpaw and so

citrus tomato mulberry pawpaw and so

citrus tomato mulberry pawpaw and so much more more did the garden build

much more more did the garden build

much more more did the garden build itself no one neighbor at a time we

itself no one neighbor at a time we

itself no one neighbor at a time we started to check in with one another we

started to check in with one another we

started to check in with one another we started to weave the fabric of our

started to weave the fabric of our

started to weave the fabric of our community into something stronger we

community into something stronger we

community into something stronger we started to believe the soil of our

started to believe the soil of our

started to believe the soil of our foundation had been turned and so we

foundation had been turned and so we

foundation had been turned and so we began changing the perception of our

began changing the perception of our

began changing the perception of our reality get involved it’s easy we have a

reality get involved it’s easy we have a

reality get involved it’s easy we have a range of roles

range of roles

range of roles no matter your skill set your time or

no matter your skill set your time or

no matter your skill set your time or your interest there’s always something

your interest there’s always something

your interest there’s always something you can contribute take me for example

you can contribute take me for example

you can contribute take me for example I’m extremely poor in daylight hours

I’m extremely poor in daylight hours

I’m extremely poor in daylight hours I’ve recently gained a day job I have

I’ve recently gained a day job I have

I’ve recently gained a day job I have two small children and a husband who

two small children and a husband who

two small children and a husband who works away for half the year but I have

works away for half the year but I have

works away for half the year but I have evenings that allow me to contribute so

evenings that allow me to contribute so

evenings that allow me to contribute so I’m not out there swinging a shovel and

I’m not out there swinging a shovel and

I’m not out there swinging a shovel and planting produce but I’m planting money

planting produce but I’m planting money

planting produce but I’m planting money trees writing funding applications

trees writing funding applications

trees writing funding applications vision ideas when I stop and reflect on

vision ideas when I stop and reflect on

vision ideas when I stop and reflect on the fruits of our labor

the fruits of our labor

the fruits of our labor I can see beyond the fresh and tasty

I can see beyond the fresh and tasty

I can see beyond the fresh and tasty produce connected outside the typical

produce connected outside the typical

produce connected outside the typical circle the identification and

circle the identification and

circle the identification and development of community leaders an

development of community leaders an

development of community leaders an increased sense of pride ownership

increased sense of pride ownership

increased sense of pride ownership stewardship accomplishment

stewardship accomplishment

stewardship accomplishment yes these fruits have been bountiful so

yes these fruits have been bountiful so

yes these fruits have been bountiful so the courage to step outside my little

the courage to step outside my little

the courage to step outside my little box

box

box well this courage has the auditor

well this courage has the auditor

well this courage has the auditor harvest of unintended outcomes I could

harvest of unintended outcomes I could

harvest of unintended outcomes I could never have imagined I feel connected to

never have imagined I feel connected to

never have imagined I feel connected to my community like no other

my community like no other

my community like no other I can’t articulate to you what that

I can’t articulate to you what that

I can’t articulate to you what that connection feels like and what it means

connection feels like and what it means

connection feels like and what it means out of the work force for over three

out of the work force for over three

out of the work force for over three years the garden fruited the job of my

years the garden fruited the job of my

years the garden fruited the job of my dreams and touchingly my neighbors my

dreams and touchingly my neighbors my

dreams and touchingly my neighbors my community they cheered me on

community they cheered me on

community they cheered me on my success was our success we had become

my success was our success we had become

my success was our success we had become a village invested in one another I’d

a village invested in one another I’d

a village invested in one another I’d like to introduce you to John Galt son

like to introduce you to John Galt son

like to introduce you to John Galt son John has been a fixture of Murray Street

John has been a fixture of Murray Street

John has been a fixture of Murray Street for the past 20 years

for the past 20 years

for the past 20 years his affectionately referred to as the

his affectionately referred to as the

his affectionately referred to as the mayor of Murray Street and for very good

mayor of Murray Street and for very good

mayor of Murray Street and for very good reason he knows everybody and everybody

reason he knows everybody and everybody

reason he knows everybody and everybody knows John g’day John how’s it going

knows John g’day John how’s it going

knows John g’day John how’s it going mate now the pride that John feels about

mate now the pride that John feels about

mate now the pride that John feels about our garden is palpable he walks taller

our garden is palpable he walks taller

our garden is palpable he walks taller he wakes each day with purpose and he

he wakes each day with purpose and he

he wakes each day with purpose and he has carefully collected every news

has carefully collected every news

has carefully collected every news clipping and sent them to relatives near

clipping and sent them to relatives near

clipping and sent them to relatives near and far and offer a pat on the back in a

and far and offer a pat on the back in a

and far and offer a pat on the back in a good job mate John is the very essence

good job mate John is the very essence

good job mate John is the very essence and backbone of our garden he is growing

and backbone of our garden he is growing

and backbone of our garden he is growing hope and optimism that things are

hope and optimism that things are

hope and optimism that things are changing and then there’s Andre John’s

changing and then there’s Andre John’s

changing and then there’s Andre John’s honorary garden son now Andres always

honorary garden son now Andres always

honorary garden son now Andres always had an interest in sustainable living

had an interest in sustainable living

had an interest in sustainable living however renting he’s never had an

however renting he’s never had an

however renting he’s never had an opportunity to get in and get his hands

opportunity to get in and get his hands

opportunity to get in and get his hands dirty when Andre said he first

dirty when Andre said he first

dirty when Andre said he first discovered the garden he became obsessed

discovered the garden he became obsessed

discovered the garden he became obsessed he said I feel like I found my purpose I

he said I feel like I found my purpose I

he said I feel like I found my purpose I cannot describe the pride and

cannot describe the pride and

cannot describe the pride and satisfaction I feel from building

satisfaction I feel from building

satisfaction I feel from building planting out and harvesting a bed of

planting out and harvesting a bed of

planting out and harvesting a bed of great food let alone eat it we’ve come

great food let alone eat it we’ve come

great food let alone eat it we’ve come along

along

along since the first turning of the soil

since the first turning of the soil

since the first turning of the soil we’ve got relationships with our

we’ve got relationships with our

we’ve got relationships with our neighboring schools and organizations

neighboring schools and organizations

neighboring schools and organizations we’ve celebrated with community

we’ve celebrated with community

we’ve celebrated with community gatherings in the garden and we’ve

gatherings in the garden and we’ve

gatherings in the garden and we’ve raised funds but most importantly and

raised funds but most importantly and

raised funds but most importantly and most fortunately we have found ourselves

most fortunately we have found ourselves

most fortunately we have found ourselves an absolute legend we have found

an absolute legend we have found

an absolute legend we have found ourselves a garden champion a gardening

ourselves a garden champion a gardening

ourselves a garden champion a gardening icon the hairy host the king of compost

icon the hairy host the king of compost

icon the hairy host the king of compost kosta now Casta ignited hope and

kosta now Casta ignited hope and

kosta now Casta ignited hope and excitement into the hearts of the ninety

excitement into the hearts of the ninety

excitement into the hearts of the ninety smiling faces that attended our garden

smiling faces that attended our garden

smiling faces that attended our garden opening and he passionately preached

opening and he passionately preached

opening and he passionately preached inclusion is community and he spoke

inclusion is community and he spoke

inclusion is community and he spoke about the garden as a structure to grow

about the garden as a structure to grow

about the garden as a structure to grow a lot more than produce he said if we

a lot more than produce he said if we

a lot more than produce he said if we share the recipes then we share the

share the recipes then we share the

share the recipes then we share the health and fusion and we need to infuse

health and fusion and we need to infuse

health and fusion and we need to infuse health on all levels mentally physically

health on all levels mentally physically

health on all levels mentally physically and emotionally from one harvest to one

and emotionally from one harvest to one

and emotionally from one harvest to one casual afternoon ngata

casual afternoon ngata

casual afternoon ngata to one fruiting tree the hum of

to one fruiting tree the hum of

to one fruiting tree the hum of positivity is undeniable through shared

positivity is undeniable through shared

positivity is undeniable through shared experiences we are weaving an emotional

experiences we are weaving an emotional

experiences we are weaving an emotional yarn in much stronger than any

yarn in much stronger than any

yarn in much stronger than any individual box we previously felt safe

individual box we previously felt safe

individual box we previously felt safe in so get involved expand your network

in so get involved expand your network

in so get involved expand your network meet people you would ordinarily never

meet people you would ordinarily never

meet people you would ordinarily never have an opportunity to me grow your

have an opportunity to me grow your

have an opportunity to me grow your sense of belonging connect through

sense of belonging connect through

sense of belonging connect through people and place through shared

people and place through shared

people and place through shared experiences remember your perception is

experiences remember your perception is

experiences remember your perception is your reality

well they say gardening is good for the

well they say gardening is good for the soul and we have certainly found at the

soul and we have certainly found at the

soul and we have certainly found at the manure community garden it to be good

manure community garden it to be good

manure community garden it to be good for the whole one seed one plant at a

for the whole one seed one plant at a

for the whole one seed one plant at a time we have living proof that

time we have living proof that

time we have living proof that communities are resilient

communities are resilient

communities are resilient there is growth after tragedy there is

there is growth after tragedy there is

there is growth after tragedy there is hope now all my Emerson said the purpose

hope now all my Emerson said the purpose

hope now all my Emerson said the purpose of life is not to be happy well I have

of life is not to be happy well I have

of life is not to be happy well I have found that by living honorably by living

found that by living honorably by living

found that by living honorably by living with compassion that happiness blooms we

with compassion that happiness blooms we

with compassion that happiness blooms we used to garden what will you use to

used to garden what will you use to

used to garden what will you use to reinvigorate your community

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