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Life After Trafficking: The Bridge From Trauma to Triumph | Yolanda Schlabach | TEDxWilmingtonWomen


this Maryland man is guilty of

this Maryland man is guilty of trafficking a fifteen year old girl

trafficking a fifteen year old girl

trafficking a fifteen year old girl after bringing her into Delaware he

after bringing her into Delaware he

after bringing her into Delaware he along with this woman brought their

along with this woman brought their

along with this woman brought their victim to a hotel after injecting her

victim to a hotel after injecting her

victim to a hotel after injecting her several times with heroin to sell her

several times with heroin to sell her

several times with heroin to sell her for sex

for sex

for sex this man is also trafficker he forced

this man is also trafficker he forced

this man is also trafficker he forced two individuals to live together in a

two individuals to live together in a

two individuals to live together in a tin shack behind his home his victims

tin shack behind his home his victims

tin shack behind his home his victims for an adult male and a female team they

for an adult male and a female team they

for an adult male and a female team they were forced into labor and during that

were forced into labor and during that

were forced into labor and during that same time period the 14 year old girl

same time period the 14 year old girl

same time period the 14 year old girl was sexually abused by the adult male

was sexually abused by the adult male

was sexually abused by the adult male victim traffic victims are both male and

victim traffic victims are both male and

victim traffic victims are both male and female and the same is true for

female and the same is true for

female and the same is true for perpetrators this man forced two adult

perpetrators this man forced two adult

perpetrators this man forced two adult women and a sex work at a string of

women and a sex work at a string of

women and a sex work at a string of hotels and was sentenced in Maryland to

hotels and was sentenced in Maryland to

hotels and was sentenced in Maryland to 145 years in prison this criminal is now

145 years in prison this criminal is now

145 years in prison this criminal is now behind bars but the question that begs

behind bars but the question that begs

behind bars but the question that begs an answer is what’s happened to all of

an answer is what’s happened to all of

an answer is what’s happened to all of the survivors we’re recognizing the

the survivors we’re recognizing the

the survivors we’re recognizing the large gap between the needs and the

large gap between the needs and the

large gap between the needs and the resources demanding the building of a

resources demanding the building of a

resources demanding the building of a bridge for its survivors from trauma to

bridge for its survivors from trauma to

bridge for its survivors from trauma to a safe haven to build that bridge of

a safe haven to build that bridge of

a safe haven to build that bridge of hope there has to be something brighter

hope there has to be something brighter

hope there has to be something brighter on the other side we cannot ask victims

on the other side we cannot ask victims

on the other side we cannot ask victims to risk their lives by testifying in a

to risk their lives by testifying in a

to risk their lives by testifying in a courtroom we cannot ask them to

courtroom we cannot ask them to

courtroom we cannot ask them to sacrifice family members safety in

sacrifice family members safety in

sacrifice family members safety in exchange for the truth and we cannot

exchange for the truth and we cannot

exchange for the truth and we cannot expect them to leave when we cannot

expect them to leave when we cannot

expect them to leave when we cannot offer accessible alternatives in long

offer accessible alternatives in long

offer accessible alternatives in long term housing shelters are often filled

term housing shelters are often filled

term housing shelters are often filled to capacity and when there’s no safe and

to capacity and when there’s no safe and

to capacity and when there’s no safe and abiding Haven victims have no recourse

abiding Haven victims have no recourse

abiding Haven victims have no recourse and traffickers often visit shelters

and traffickers often visit shelters

and traffickers often visit shelters looking for vulnerable people who will

looking for vulnerable people who will

looking for vulnerable people who will have nowhere to go when they leave or

have nowhere to go when they leave or

have nowhere to go when they leave or perhaps one of the John’s that just

perhaps one of the John’s that just

perhaps one of the John’s that just bought them for sex could be housed in

bought them for sex could be housed in

bought them for sex could be housed in the very next room on the TEDx stage

the very next room on the TEDx stage

the very next room on the TEDx stage last year I noted there were 13,000

last year I noted there were 13,000

last year I noted there were 13,000 animal shelters in our country we have

animal shelters in our country we have

animal shelters in our country we have less than 700 beds in America for our

less than 700 beds in America for our

less than 700 beds in America for our trafficked population here are the

trafficked population here are the

trafficked population here are the results from Manaus

results from Manaus

results from Manaus you’ll survey for residential programs

you’ll survey for residential programs

you’ll survey for residential programs for survivors now data is very hard to

for survivors now data is very hard to

for survivors now data is very hard to obtain but this study estimated nearly

obtain but this study estimated nearly

obtain but this study estimated nearly 200 thousand juvenile victims every year

200 thousand juvenile victims every year

200 thousand juvenile victims every year so this does not even include adults and

so this does not even include adults and

so this does not even include adults and we have less than 700 beds to support

we have less than 700 beds to support

we have less than 700 beds to support all of them only 16 states have

all of them only 16 states have

all of them only 16 states have facilities and 28 have none with no

facilities and 28 have none with no

facilities and 28 have none with no plans to open any and our male

plans to open any and our male

plans to open any and our male population remains grossly underserved

population remains grossly underserved

population remains grossly underserved and unrecognized now in 2017 many states

and unrecognized now in 2017 many states

and unrecognized now in 2017 many states have inadequate comprehensive services

have inadequate comprehensive services

have inadequate comprehensive services and no long term housing designed for

and no long term housing designed for

and no long term housing designed for traffic victims they often live in

traffic victims they often live in

traffic victims they often live in conditions like this I’d like to quote

conditions like this I’d like to quote

conditions like this I’d like to quote part of Rachel Lloyd’s book girls like

part of Rachel Lloyd’s book girls like

part of Rachel Lloyd’s book girls like us when girls escape they can’t take

us when girls escape they can’t take

us when girls escape they can’t take anything with them starting from scratch

anything with them starting from scratch

anything with them starting from scratch is frightening and struggling in the

is frightening and struggling in the

is frightening and struggling in the first few months to feed and clothe

first few months to feed and clothe

first few months to feed and clothe yourself can exacerbate any existing

yourself can exacerbate any existing

yourself can exacerbate any existing depression also problematic is that law

depression also problematic is that law

depression also problematic is that law enforcement service providers hospital

enforcement service providers hospital

enforcement service providers hospital staff and family members have such a

staff and family members have such a

staff and family members have such a lack of understanding of the impact of

lack of understanding of the impact of

lack of understanding of the impact of trauma on these girls that they often

trauma on these girls that they often

trauma on these girls that they often consider them inherently damaged girls

consider them inherently damaged girls

consider them inherently damaged girls are labeled difficult and resistant even

are labeled difficult and resistant even

are labeled difficult and resistant even by people within the anti-trafficking

by people within the anti-trafficking

by people within the anti-trafficking field and there’s a lot of frustration

field and there’s a lot of frustration

field and there’s a lot of frustration when they return to their abusers

when they return to their abusers

when they return to their abusers rescuing trafficking victims may sound

rescuing trafficking victims may sound

rescuing trafficking victims may sound like a fantastic idea but talk to any

like a fantastic idea but talk to any

like a fantastic idea but talk to any service provider that has worked with

service provider that has worked with

service provider that has worked with these children in youth and you’ll hear

these children in youth and you’ll hear

these children in youth and you’ll hear the realities a lot more complex victims

the realities a lot more complex victims

the realities a lot more complex victims rarely rush gratefully into your open

rarely rush gratefully into your open

rarely rush gratefully into your open arms they’re not immediately compliant

arms they’re not immediately compliant

arms they’re not immediately compliant with shelter regulations they don’t

with shelter regulations they don’t

with shelter regulations they don’t trust the people trying to help them

trust the people trying to help them

trust the people trying to help them they’re tired and traumatized and

they’re tired and traumatized and

they’re tired and traumatized and hurting and lonely and scared and

hurting and lonely and scared and

hurting and lonely and scared and depressed and to them missing the life

depressed and to them missing the life

depressed and to them missing the life is as normal as breathing healing is a

is as normal as breathing healing is a

is as normal as breathing healing is a messy complicated process that’s rarely

messy complicated process that’s rarely

messy complicated process that’s rarely linear girls require intense amounts of

linear girls require intense amounts of

linear girls require intense amounts of support love and patience

support love and patience

support love and patience without someone there to honors

without someone there to honors

without someone there to honors and explained that their feelings are a

and explained that their feelings are a

and explained that their feelings are a normal reaction to an abnormal situation

normal reaction to an abnormal situation

normal reaction to an abnormal situation without practical resources like food

without practical resources like food

without practical resources like food and shelter and clothing without

and shelter and clothing without

and shelter and clothing without constant reassurance that leaving was

constant reassurance that leaving was

constant reassurance that leaving was the right thing to do and that it’s

the right thing to do and that it’s

the right thing to do and that it’s going to get better eventually

going to get better eventually

going to get better eventually and without counseling and even

and without counseling and even

and without counseling and even psychiatric care for depression and PTSD

psychiatric care for depression and PTSD

psychiatric care for depression and PTSD and the support of people that truly get

and the support of people that truly get

and the support of people that truly get it girls struggle and the alternative

it girls struggle and the alternative

it girls struggle and the alternative seems more and more attractive every day

seems more and more attractive every day

seems more and more attractive every day end quote we’re in desperate need of

end quote we’re in desperate need of

end quote we’re in desperate need of three types of shelter crisis

three types of shelter crisis

three types of shelter crisis transitional and long-term

transitional and long-term

transitional and long-term rehabilitative we need trauma-informed

rehabilitative we need trauma-informed

rehabilitative we need trauma-informed and trafficking trained staff at detox

and trafficking trained staff at detox

and trafficking trained staff at detox centers in education foster care and

centers in education foster care and

centers in education foster care and state agencies clinics hospitals and

state agencies clinics hospitals and

state agencies clinics hospitals and emergency staff must receive training

emergency staff must receive training

emergency staff must receive training and adopt protocols to respond to

and adopt protocols to respond to

and adopt protocols to respond to victims of trafficking encountered in

victims of trafficking encountered in

victims of trafficking encountered in health care facilities we need case

health care facilities we need case

health care facilities we need case managers and trauma therapists and legal

managers and trauma therapists and legal

managers and trauma therapists and legal support and advocates and all of this

support and advocates and all of this

support and advocates and all of this takes money and it’s the greatest

takes money and it’s the greatest

takes money and it’s the greatest barrier to building the necessary system

barrier to building the necessary system

barrier to building the necessary system yet the money that we do have in

yet the money that we do have in

yet the money that we do have in Delaware is being contracted out of

Delaware is being contracted out of

Delaware is being contracted out of state to the tune of hundreds of

state to the tune of hundreds of

state to the tune of hundreds of thousands of dollars every year we’ve

thousands of dollars every year we’ve

thousands of dollars every year we’ve been sending our miners to a neighboring

been sending our miners to a neighboring

been sending our miners to a neighboring state instead of keeping that money here

state instead of keeping that money here

state instead of keeping that money here to help build our own system so how do

to help build our own system so how do

to help build our own system so how do we build a system to support the needs

we build a system to support the needs

we build a system to support the needs of survivors how can such a monumental

of survivors how can such a monumental

of survivors how can such a monumental infrastructure be funded and what can

infrastructure be funded and what can

infrastructure be funded and what can you do the help perhaps you can invite

you do the help perhaps you can invite

you do the help perhaps you can invite training and discussion of protocols to

training and discussion of protocols to

training and discussion of protocols to your agencies for example are you a

your agencies for example are you a

your agencies for example are you a prosecutor would you be willing to

prosecutor would you be willing to

prosecutor would you be willing to explore the possibility of seeking fines

explore the possibility of seeking fines

explore the possibility of seeking fines and asset forfeiture in order to build a

and asset forfeiture in order to build a

and asset forfeiture in order to build a system that reaches beyond the state

system that reaches beyond the state

system that reaches beyond the state level and is dedicated only to

level and is dedicated only to

level and is dedicated only to trafficking survivors or perhaps you

trafficking survivors or perhaps you

trafficking survivors or perhaps you could become a licensed foster care

could become a licensed foster care

could become a licensed foster care parent willing to obtain specialized

parent willing to obtain specialized

parent willing to obtain specialized training needed to care for trafficked

training needed to care for trafficked

training needed to care for trafficked miners or you could be a mentor for a

miners or you could be a mentor for a

miners or you could be a mentor for a miner or provide transportation for

miner or provide transportation for

miner or provide transportation for adults and

adults and

adults and network of community support are you

network of community support are you

network of community support are you part of a church or a faith-based

part of a church or a faith-based

part of a church or a faith-based organization Civic and community

organization Civic and community

organization Civic and community organizations all across our country can

organizations all across our country can

organizations all across our country can make a powerful impact by joining

make a powerful impact by joining

make a powerful impact by joining leaders like The Salvation Army and the

leaders like The Salvation Army and the

leaders like The Salvation Army and the rotary who are part of the abolitionist

rotary who are part of the abolitionist

rotary who are part of the abolitionist movement

movement

movement partnerships are much more powerful than

partnerships are much more powerful than

partnerships are much more powerful than independent effort so with each of us

independent effort so with each of us

independent effort so with each of us and with each entity coming to the table

and with each entity coming to the table

and with each entity coming to the table to place our piece into the puzzle the

to place our piece into the puzzle the

to place our piece into the puzzle the result becomes a complete picture and

result becomes a complete picture and

result becomes a complete picture and speaking of pictures I want this to

speaking of pictures I want this to

speaking of pictures I want this to become more personal no more talk of

become more personal no more talk of

become more personal no more talk of modes of delivery or system challenges

modes of delivery or system challenges

modes of delivery or system challenges we’re going to look at pictures that

we’re going to look at pictures that

we’re going to look at pictures that keep the survivor front and center we’re

keep the survivor front and center we’re

keep the survivor front and center we’re going to look at what it’s pulled me up

going to look at what it’s pulled me up

going to look at what it’s pulled me up on the stage in the first place

these are brandings these tattoos show

these are brandings these tattoos show ownership and mark them as property to

ownership and mark them as property to

ownership and mark them as property to be bought and sold as commodities making

be bought and sold as commodities making

be bought and sold as commodities making escape difficult

escape difficult

escape difficult here’s melissa from the time of lore

here’s melissa from the time of lore

here’s melissa from the time of lore through a horrific journey of commercial

through a horrific journey of commercial

through a horrific journey of commercial sexual exploitation these mug shots were

sexual exploitation these mug shots were

sexual exploitation these mug shots were taken over a period of five to seven

taken over a period of five to seven

taken over a period of five to seven years and you can see the declination

years and you can see the declination

years and you can see the declination due to drug abuse and rape and complex

due to drug abuse and rape and complex

due to drug abuse and rape and complex compound trauma

they began just like other children and

they began just like other children and then are sold by a parent for drugs or

then are sold by a parent for drugs or

then are sold by a parent for drugs or monthly rent or lured by a boyfriend

monthly rent or lured by a boyfriend

monthly rent or lured by a boyfriend making promises or as a runaway learn

making promises or as a runaway learn

making promises or as a runaway learn about survival sex just when a

about survival sex just when a

about survival sex just when a perpetrator offers protection their

perpetrator offers protection their

perpetrator offers protection their bridge from vulnerability and

bridge from vulnerability and

bridge from vulnerability and victimization to a wholesome and

victimization to a wholesome and

victimization to a wholesome and productive life can be built through

productive life can be built through

productive life can be built through hope hope that includes more than what

hope hope that includes more than what

hope hope that includes more than what has been done and in spite of what has

has been done and in spite of what has

has been done and in spite of what has been left undone this kind of hope

been left undone this kind of hope

been left undone this kind of hope entails providing and delivering long

entails providing and delivering long

entails providing and delivering long term housing and support services to

term housing and support services to

term housing and support services to survivors in your community and mine and

survivors in your community and mine and

survivors in your community and mine and together we become a voice for the

together we become a voice for the

together we become a voice for the voiceless

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