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Letter to my Unborn Child | Sneha Mehta | TEDxYouth@CAJCS


I was on the place in my pregnancy where

I was on the place in my pregnancy where my baby was the size of an avocado yes

my baby was the size of an avocado yes

my baby was the size of an avocado yes pregnant women do things like that they

pregnant women do things like that they

pregnant women do things like that they follow the embryonic development with

follow the embryonic development with

follow the embryonic development with what size of fruit their child is and I

what size of fruit their child is and I

what size of fruit their child is and I knew no better so I did the same anyway

knew no better so I did the same anyway

knew no better so I did the same anyway we were back from Dubai from an amazing

we were back from Dubai from an amazing

we were back from Dubai from an amazing wedding and we were standing in the

wedding and we were standing in the

wedding and we were standing in the immigration line obviously for non US

immigration line obviously for non US

immigration line obviously for non US citizens like me which takes hours to

citizens like me which takes hours to

citizens like me which takes hours to get out of the airport we went to the

get out of the airport we went to the

get out of the airport we went to the baggage claim took our bags and just as

baggage claim took our bags and just as

baggage claim took our bags and just as a normal day I was in love with my

a normal day I was in love with my

a normal day I was in love with my avocado with my life with my husband and

avocado with my life with my husband and

avocado with my life with my husband and things as usual we started walking up

things as usual we started walking up

things as usual we started walking up and I told my husband I’ll see you at

and I told my husband I’ll see you at

and I told my husband I’ll see you at Starbucks upstairs and just as we were

Starbucks upstairs and just as we were

Starbucks upstairs and just as we were walking to this place where we could

walking to this place where we could

walking to this place where we could potentially blow up we heard one huge

potentially blow up we heard one huge

potentially blow up we heard one huge blast and then another and then the

blast and then another and then the

blast and then another and then the roofs just started falling down on us we

roofs just started falling down on us we

roofs just started falling down on us we looked at each other we threw our bags

looked at each other we threw our bags

looked at each other we threw our bags we didn’t know any better we held each

we didn’t know any better we held each

we didn’t know any better we held each other’s hands and we just ran out of the

other’s hands and we just ran out of the

other’s hands and we just ran out of the place we saw people shocked panicking

place we saw people shocked panicking

place we saw people shocked panicking and crying hysterically we saw people

and crying hysterically we saw people

and crying hysterically we saw people crouching behind cars in the parking lot

crouching behind cars in the parking lot

crouching behind cars in the parking lot we saw injured body is being taken out

we saw injured body is being taken out

we saw injured body is being taken out of the ambulance and it wasn’t easy I’m

of the ambulance and it wasn’t easy I’m

of the ambulance and it wasn’t easy I’m a survivor of a terrorist attack that

a survivor of a terrorist attack that

a survivor of a terrorist attack that happened on the 22nd of March 2016 last

happened on the 22nd of March 2016 last

happened on the 22nd of March 2016 last year and my son who is now a 10 month

year and my son who is now a 10 month

year and my son who is now a 10 month old boy happens to be the youngest

old boy happens to be the youngest

old boy happens to be the youngest survivor of this terror attack

survivor of this terror attack

survivor of this terror attack I guess t-minus six months is a very

I guess t-minus six months is a very

I guess t-minus six months is a very young age to be he was the youngest so

young age to be he was the youngest so

young age to be he was the youngest so what can non-combatants citizens like us

what can non-combatants citizens like us

what can non-combatants citizens like us do in a situation like this no one

do in a situation like this no one

do in a situation like this no one whether you’re a teacher a student a

whether you’re a teacher a student a

whether you’re a teacher a student a friend a diner

friend a diner

friend a diner Hetalia a friend’s fan none of us can

Hetalia a friend’s fan none of us can

Hetalia a friend’s fan none of us can escape such a situation if it happens to

escape such a situation if it happens to

escape such a situation if it happens to us so don’t get me wrong

us so don’t get me wrong

us so don’t get me wrong this is not a practical guide to survive

this is not a practical guide to survive

this is not a practical guide to survive a terror attack this is more like

a terror attack this is more like

a terror attack this is more like surviving a terror attack 101 where you

surviving a terror attack 101 where you

surviving a terror attack 101 where you should learn how to keep calm and carry

should learn how to keep calm and carry

should learn how to keep calm and carry on and by the way the keep calm and

on and by the way the keep calm and

on and by the way the keep calm and carry on poster was a campaign created

carry on poster was a campaign created

carry on poster was a campaign created by the British government in 1939 as a

by the British government in 1939 as a

by the British government in 1939 as a response to world war 1 and today is the

response to world war 1 and today is the

response to world war 1 and today is the public morale in awareness so I guess

public morale in awareness so I guess

public morale in awareness so I guess this is my version of keep calm and

this is my version of keep calm and

this is my version of keep calm and carry on but you should all know

carry on but you should all know

carry on but you should all know there is a way to live when you see that

there is a way to live when you see that

there is a way to live when you see that so closely my first point is explore

so closely my first point is explore

so closely my first point is explore admit to your biases and don’t be swayed

admit to your biases and don’t be swayed

admit to your biases and don’t be swayed by them

by them

by them look at this picture how likely do you

look at this picture how likely do you

look at this picture how likely do you think you are to die of a shark attack

think you are to die of a shark attack

think you are to die of a shark attack if you go swimming in the ocean should I

if you go swimming in the ocean should I

if you go swimming in the ocean should I give you a fact you’re far more likely

give you a fact you’re far more likely

give you a fact you’re far more likely to die of a coconuts falling on your

to die of a coconuts falling on your

to die of a coconuts falling on your head while you’re just lying on the

head while you’re just lying on the

head while you’re just lying on the beach this is what we do and this is how

beach this is what we do and this is how

beach this is what we do and this is how our mind works we charge the frequency

our mind works we charge the frequency

our mind works we charge the frequency or the probability of something

or the probability of something

or the probability of something happening to us by the image that it

happening to us by the image that it

happening to us by the image that it creates in our mind so of course this

creates in our mind so of course this

creates in our mind so of course this looks far more likely to kill us

looks far more likely to kill us

looks far more likely to kill us than something like this we make

than something like this we make

than something like this we make illogical inferences and miss

illogical inferences and miss

illogical inferences and miss calculations based on irrational

calculations based on irrational

calculations based on irrational judgments of the situation depending on

judgments of the situation depending on

judgments of the situation depending on how the information was given to us in

how the information was given to us in

how the information was given to us in the first place this is called cognitive

the first place this is called cognitive

the first place this is called cognitive bias the master of tapping into our

bias the master of tapping into our

bias the master of tapping into our cognitive bias is President Donald Trump

cognitive bias is President Donald Trump

cognitive bias is President Donald Trump I know this creates a lot of stir all

I know this creates a lot of stir all

I know this creates a lot of stir all the time but the truth is this man is a

the time but the truth is this man is a

the time but the truth is this man is a mastermind trying to tell us that

mastermind trying to tell us that

mastermind trying to tell us that banning seven muslim-dominated country

banning seven muslim-dominated country

banning seven muslim-dominated country travel to his nation which is America he

travel to his nation which is America he

travel to his nation which is America he has created this rhetoric that somehow

has created this rhetoric that somehow

has created this rhetoric that somehow claims that Muslim equal terrorists

claims that Muslim equal terrorists

claims that Muslim equal terrorists terrorists equal threat and threat equal

terrorists equal threat and threat equal

terrorists equal threat and threat equal can’t make America great again so let’s

can’t make America great again so let’s

can’t make America great again so let’s keep them out he’s done the same with

keep them out he’s done the same with

keep them out he’s done the same with undocumented immigrants he’s done the

undocumented immigrants he’s done the

undocumented immigrants he’s done the same with Mexicans and his ridiculous

same with Mexicans and his ridiculous

same with Mexicans and his ridiculous ideas of creating a wall around this

ideas of creating a wall around this

ideas of creating a wall around this country which we all recognize is

country which we all recognize is

country which we all recognize is ridiculous but the truth is we don’t

ridiculous but the truth is we don’t

ridiculous but the truth is we don’t know the numbers that don’t support this

know the numbers that don’t support this

know the numbers that don’t support this the truth is there’s been 96 deaths of

the truth is there’s been 96 deaths of

the truth is there’s been 96 deaths of radical Islamic terror in America since

radical Islamic terror in America since

radical Islamic terror in America since September 9/11 in the same span of time

September 9/11 in the same span of time

September 9/11 in the same span of time there’s been more than 300,000 deaths of

there’s been more than 300,000 deaths of

there’s been more than 300,000 deaths of gonn attacks done by Americans to their

gonn attacks done by Americans to their

gonn attacks done by Americans to their own people but how few of us step back

own people but how few of us step back

own people but how few of us step back to think about this this leads me

to think about this this leads me

to think about this this leads me immediately into my next point it’s

immediately into my next point it’s

immediately into my next point it’s funny to think that you actually might

funny to think that you actually might

funny to think that you actually might choke and die more likely than be in a

choke and die more likely than be in a

choke and die more likely than be in a terror attack so I mean I would

terror attack so I mean I would

terror attack so I mean I would recommend that you really chew your food

recommend that you really chew your food

recommend that you really chew your food and for

and for

and for more than worried about being a part of

more than worried about being a part of

more than worried about being a part of something like this but news is news for

something like this but news is news for

something like this but news is news for a reason it’s because negativity sells

a reason it’s because negativity sells

a reason it’s because negativity sells because people think that it’s far more

because people think that it’s far more

because people think that it’s far more true and profound when your

true and profound when your

true and profound when your representation of an event is negative

representation of an event is negative

representation of an event is negative for example as soon as I was safe from

for example as soon as I was safe from

for example as soon as I was safe from this a very dear friend put up on her

this a very dear friend put up on her

this a very dear friend put up on her Twitter account that my friend pregnant

Twitter account that my friend pregnant

Twitter account that my friend pregnant has ran out of the airport and is now

has ran out of the airport and is now

has ran out of the airport and is now safe about 15 to 20 news networks

safe about 15 to 20 news networks

safe about 15 to 20 news networks contacted me about 10 followed up just

contacted me about 10 followed up just

contacted me about 10 followed up just to wrote an article on me because

to wrote an article on me because

to wrote an article on me because everything that I discussed with them

everything that I discussed with them

everything that I discussed with them was positive it was my hope for the

was positive it was my hope for the

was positive it was my hope for the future it was what I wanted for my child

future it was what I wanted for my child

future it was what I wanted for my child and it was exactly what I wanted to say

and it was exactly what I wanted to say

and it was exactly what I wanted to say and how I perceived the event but it was

and how I perceived the event but it was

and how I perceived the event but it was not negative unfortunately I got no

not negative unfortunately I got no

not negative unfortunately I got no airtime for it I was never on TV and

airtime for it I was never on TV and

airtime for it I was never on TV and nobody was interested in this because of

nobody was interested in this because of

nobody was interested in this because of course news has a certain way of

course news has a certain way of

course news has a certain way of functioning the other way in which news

functioning the other way in which news

functioning the other way in which news functions is that worth change our

functions is that worth change our

functions is that worth change our memories of the situation for example

memories of the situation for example

memories of the situation for example this article that said bloodbath in

this article that said bloodbath in

this article that said bloodbath in Brussels was of course highly

Brussels was of course highly

Brussels was of course highly exaggerated and my mother for example

exaggerated and my mother for example

exaggerated and my mother for example who was sitting in India had a mental

who was sitting in India had a mental

who was sitting in India had a mental breakdown thinking of what trauma I went

breakdown thinking of what trauma I went

breakdown thinking of what trauma I went through this isn’t to take away from the

through this isn’t to take away from the

through this isn’t to take away from the fact that 34 people died at Brussels

fact that 34 people died at Brussels

fact that 34 people died at Brussels Airport but truthfully speaking more

Airport but truthfully speaking more

Airport but truthfully speaking more people died in Bombay locals every week

people died in Bombay locals every week

people died in Bombay locals every week do we call that a bloodbath or a ticket

do we call that a bloodbath or a ticket

do we call that a bloodbath or a ticket to hell no we don’t recognizing this as

to hell no we don’t recognizing this as

to hell no we don’t recognizing this as propaganda is one thing we all do but

propaganda is one thing we all do but

propaganda is one thing we all do but the only way to save ourselves from it

the only way to save ourselves from it

the only way to save ourselves from it truthfully is step back and detox from

truthfully is step back and detox from

truthfully is step back and detox from media now in a world that’s so connected

media now in a world that’s so connected

media now in a world that’s so connected we need a real solution cutting

we need a real solution cutting

we need a real solution cutting ourselves off from all media is not

ourselves off from all media is not

ourselves off from all media is not really an option for any of us so what

really an option for any of us so what

really an option for any of us so what do you do I recommend you read reading

do you do I recommend you read reading

do you do I recommend you read reading is a powerful tool that teaches you

is a powerful tool that teaches you

is a powerful tool that teaches you about things in far greater depth and

about things in far greater depth and

about things in far greater depth and increases your corpus of knowledge in a

increases your corpus of knowledge in a

increases your corpus of knowledge in a more stable way than for example

more stable way than for example

more stable way than for example watching the news one of the most

watching the news one of the most

watching the news one of the most influential books I read after the

influential books I read after the

influential books I read after the attacks that has completely changed my

attacks that has completely changed my

attacks that has completely changed my worldview is Steven Pinker as the better

worldview is Steven Pinker as the better

worldview is Steven Pinker as the better angels of our nature

angels of our nature

angels of our nature I urge all of you to read that book it

I urge all of you to read that book it

I urge all of you to read that book it just made me realize that too

just made me realize that too

just made me realize that too as far as the real numbers go violence

as far as the real numbers go violence

as far as the real numbers go violence has gone down social justice has gone up

has gone down social justice has gone up

has gone down social justice has gone up rape has gone down women’s rights have

rape has gone down women’s rights have

rape has gone down women’s rights have gone up think about all of you women

gone up think about all of you women

gone up think about all of you women sitting here in the audience today I am

sitting here in the audience today I am

sitting here in the audience today I am giving a TED talk you’re here at an

giving a TED talk you’re here at an

giving a TED talk you’re here at an intellectual event 50 years ago you were

intellectual event 50 years ago you were

intellectual event 50 years ago you were not a part of intellectual discussion 70

not a part of intellectual discussion 70

not a part of intellectual discussion 70 years ago it was odd if you studied

years ago it was odd if you studied

years ago it was odd if you studied science or math hundred years ago you

science or math hundred years ago you

science or math hundred years ago you had no say in any corpus of governance

had no say in any corpus of governance

had no say in any corpus of governance outside your house and 200 years ago you

outside your house and 200 years ago you

outside your house and 200 years ago you were just territory that was conquered

were just territory that was conquered

were just territory that was conquered from one man to another this made me

from one man to another this made me

from one man to another this made me realize that yeah I am actually living

realize that yeah I am actually living

realize that yeah I am actually living in the best possible scenario or the

in the best possible scenario or the

in the best possible scenario or the best possible time in human history to

best possible time in human history to

best possible time in human history to actually make a difference and no matter

actually make a difference and no matter

actually make a difference and no matter what the news says the world is a

what the news says the world is a

what the news says the world is a remarkable place to be here and now this

remarkable place to be here and now this

remarkable place to be here and now this brings me to my third point which is

brings me to my third point which is

brings me to my third point which is explore your religious beliefs I am a

explore your religious beliefs I am a

explore your religious beliefs I am a jail and for all of you who don’t know

jail and for all of you who don’t know

jail and for all of you who don’t know what Jainism made it is Jainism is one

what Jainism made it is Jainism is one

what Jainism made it is Jainism is one of the most nonviolent religions in the

of the most nonviolent religions in the

of the most nonviolent religions in the world to the extent that we don’t want

world to the extent that we don’t want

world to the extent that we don’t want to create harm or cause harm to even the

to create harm or cause harm to even the

to create harm or cause harm to even the smallest life form on this planet around

smallest life form on this planet around

smallest life form on this planet around the same time as the attacks a 13 year

the same time as the attacks a 13 year

the same time as the attacks a 13 year old girl embarked on a 68 day fast where

old girl embarked on a 68 day fast where

old girl embarked on a 68 day fast where she had no food and only water

she had no food and only water

she had no food and only water she was celebrated she was encouraged I

she was celebrated she was encouraged I

she was celebrated she was encouraged I made calls to her she was family on the

made calls to her she was family on the

made calls to her she was family on the 70th day after she finished this fast

70th day after she finished this fast

70th day after she finished this fast she passed away it occurred to me that

she passed away it occurred to me that

she passed away it occurred to me that there is a problem with religion and I

there is a problem with religion and I

there is a problem with religion and I became a New Age atheist what is the New

became a New Age atheist what is the New

became a New Age atheist what is the New Age a theist a new age a theist to

Age a theist a new age a theist to

Age a theist a new age a theist to somebody who realizes that religion

somebody who realizes that religion

somebody who realizes that religion today as we practice it is perhaps not

today as we practice it is perhaps not

today as we practice it is perhaps not as relevant as it used to be and if it

as relevant as it used to be and if it

as relevant as it used to be and if it can’t move with the times we can’t move

can’t move with the times we can’t move

can’t move with the times we can’t move ahead even modern reiative educated

ahead even modern reiative educated

ahead even modern reiative educated individuals like us sometimes take

individuals like us sometimes take

individuals like us sometimes take things with a pinch of salt we take a

things with a pinch of salt we take a

things with a pinch of salt we take a leap of faith this leap of faith becomes

leap of faith this leap of faith becomes

leap of faith this leap of faith becomes our worldview and at this at some point

our worldview and at this at some point

our worldview and at this at some point this worldview becomes an action the

this worldview becomes an action the

this worldview becomes an action the action could have catastrophic

action could have catastrophic

action could have catastrophic sequences on the world ranging from the

sequences on the world ranging from the

sequences on the world ranging from the death of one child to a suicide bomber

death of one child to a suicide bomber

death of one child to a suicide bomber attacking 100 people at one time this is

attacking 100 people at one time this is

attacking 100 people at one time this is not my endeavor to tell you to be an

not my endeavor to tell you to be an

not my endeavor to tell you to be an atheist like me in fact I want to urge

atheist like me in fact I want to urge

atheist like me in fact I want to urge you to see the humanity in religion but

you to see the humanity in religion but

you to see the humanity in religion but I want to remind you that having done

I want to remind you that having done

I want to remind you that having done this we also need to keep open candid

this we also need to keep open candid

this we also need to keep open candid conversations and dialogue about how

conversations and dialogue about how

conversations and dialogue about how deep-rooted the conflict between reason

deep-rooted the conflict between reason

deep-rooted the conflict between reason and faith is and we should be able to

and faith is and we should be able to

and faith is and we should be able to discern as more than an average human

discern as more than an average human

discern as more than an average human being what rational and irrational is

being what rational and irrational is

being what rational and irrational is within religion and faith my fourth

within religion and faith my fourth

within religion and faith my fourth point is empathize with people it’s so

point is empathize with people it’s so

point is empathize with people it’s so easy for example when somebody read the

easy for example when somebody read the

easy for example when somebody read the CNN article on Twitter she reached out

CNN article on Twitter she reached out

CNN article on Twitter she reached out to me she was an Irish lawyer sitting in

to me she was an Irish lawyer sitting in

to me she was an Irish lawyer sitting in Ireland and she decided that this story

Ireland and she decided that this story

Ireland and she decided that this story was somebody’s story who she could

was somebody’s story who she could

was somebody’s story who she could connect with and reach out to she wrote

connect with and reach out to she wrote

connect with and reach out to she wrote to me and said I resonate with you tell

to me and said I resonate with you tell

to me and said I resonate with you tell me more about yourself tell me where you

me more about yourself tell me where you

me more about yourself tell me where you come from tell me what you do tell me

come from tell me what you do tell me

come from tell me what you do tell me what your fears are and she’s my friend

what your fears are and she’s my friend

what your fears are and she’s my friend today she even went to the extent of

today she even went to the extent of

today she even went to the extent of sending me a painting of the ultrasound

sending me a painting of the ultrasound

sending me a painting of the ultrasound of my unborn child home from Ireland to

of my unborn child home from Ireland to

of my unborn child home from Ireland to Belgium I mean this just reminded me

Belgium I mean this just reminded me

Belgium I mean this just reminded me simply that humanity is phenomenal and

simply that humanity is phenomenal and

simply that humanity is phenomenal and the human to human contact is

the human to human contact is

the human to human contact is irreplaceable

irreplaceable

irreplaceable I mean reach out to people harness the

I mean reach out to people harness the

I mean reach out to people harness the power of social media like their posts

power of social media like their posts

power of social media like their posts share their stories show them support

share their stories show them support

share their stories show them support let them know that there is a human

let them know that there is a human

let them know that there is a human consciousness beyond your own life where

consciousness beyond your own life where

consciousness beyond your own life where we all connect no matter how

we all connect no matter how

we all connect no matter how disconnected we might be in the larger

disconnected we might be in the larger

disconnected we might be in the larger picture don’t forget the favor

picture don’t forget the favor

picture don’t forget the favor I mean don’t forget the power of the

I mean don’t forget the power of the

I mean don’t forget the power of the smallest gesture I remember when I got

smallest gesture I remember when I got

smallest gesture I remember when I got out of the airport airport authorities

out of the airport airport authorities

out of the airport airport authorities had swept into assertive actions

had swept into assertive actions

had swept into assertive actions immediately they weren’t running and

immediately they weren’t running and

immediately they weren’t running and scampering around trying to save their

scampering around trying to save their

scampering around trying to save their lives they were trying to save as many

lives they were trying to save as many

lives they were trying to save as many other lives as they could when we ran

other lives as they could when we ran

other lives as they could when we ran onto the highway there were taxi drivers

onto the highway there were taxi drivers

onto the highway there were taxi drivers which is pretty uncommon on a highway to

which is pretty uncommon on a highway to

which is pretty uncommon on a highway to stop but people were stopping to talk to

stop but people were stopping to talk to

stop but people were stopping to talk to strangers who are crying and stranded on

strangers who are crying and stranded on

strangers who are crying and stranded on the street and give them rides home

the street and give them rides home

the street and give them rides home people even opened up their houses for

people even opened up their houses for

people even opened up their houses for people who were stranded with Brussels

people who were stranded with Brussels

people who were stranded with Brussels Airport

Airport

Airport actions that humanity do we think are

actions that humanity do we think are

actions that humanity do we think are small will actually ask anyone around

small will actually ask anyone around

small will actually ask anyone around you in moments of adversity the way

you in moments of adversity the way

you in moments of adversity the way mankind comes together today is not the

mankind comes together today is not the

mankind comes together today is not the same as any other time in the history of

same as any other time in the history of

same as any other time in the history of mankind and use this power to empathize

mankind and use this power to empathize

mankind and use this power to empathize and reach out and do your bit this

and reach out and do your bit this

and reach out and do your bit this brings me to my last point learn how to

brings me to my last point learn how to

brings me to my last point learn how to synthesize happiness now Dan Gilbert a

synthesize happiness now Dan Gilbert a

synthesize happiness now Dan Gilbert a Harvard psychologist has explained that

Harvard psychologist has explained that

Harvard psychologist has explained that a happy life is not about getting what

a happy life is not about getting what

a happy life is not about getting what you want it’s about learning what how to

you want it’s about learning what how to

you want it’s about learning what how to enjoy what you don’t get for example we

enjoy what you don’t get for example we

enjoy what you don’t get for example we have no control over things there are

have no control over things there are

have no control over things there are external factors so how can we base our

external factors so how can we base our

external factors so how can we base our happiness on things like that

happiness on things like that

happiness on things like that you should instead learn how to

you should instead learn how to

you should instead learn how to synthesize your happiness because it’s

synthesize your happiness because it’s

synthesize your happiness because it’s more in your control and it’s more

more in your control and it’s more

more in your control and it’s more something that you can apply with

something that you can apply with

something that you can apply with discipline and practice all along this

discipline and practice all along this

discipline and practice all along this terrorist attack has been a metaphor for

terrorist attack has been a metaphor for

terrorist attack has been a metaphor for any adversity any loss any hate crime

any adversity any loss any hate crime

any adversity any loss any hate crime any irrational people which sometimes

any irrational people which sometimes

any irrational people which sometimes are far worse than any terrorists you’ll

are far worse than any terrorists you’ll

are far worse than any terrorists you’ll ever encounter it’s been a metaphor to

ever encounter it’s been a metaphor to

ever encounter it’s been a metaphor to tell you that life does really go on

tell you that life does really go on

tell you that life does really go on fast forward a yoke and and this is my

fast forward a yoke and and this is my

fast forward a yoke and and this is my son a healthy happy 10 month old baby

son a healthy happy 10 month old baby

son a healthy happy 10 month old baby and I think like all parents do that he

and I think like all parents do that he

and I think like all parents do that he is beyond brilliant and exceptionally

is beyond brilliant and exceptionally

is beyond brilliant and exceptionally raised very normal and it just really

raised very normal and it just really

raised very normal and it just really made me reflect that avocados become

made me reflect that avocados become

made me reflect that avocados become pears pears become melons melons become

pears pears become melons melons become

pears pears become melons melons become watermelons and then they become

watermelons and then they become

watermelons and then they become beautiful babies and life really goes on

beautiful babies and life really goes on

beautiful babies and life really goes on all you have to do is keep calm and

all you have to do is keep calm and

all you have to do is keep calm and carry on and apply this survival of

carry on and apply this survival of

carry on and apply this survival of terrorism 101 that I have just discussed

terrorism 101 that I have just discussed

terrorism 101 that I have just discussed which means explore your biases do a

which means explore your biases do a

which means explore your biases do a media detox explore your religious

media detox explore your religious

media detox explore your religious beliefs harness the power of social

beliefs harness the power of social

beliefs harness the power of social media and empathize with people

media and empathize with people

media and empathize with people synthesize your own happiness and move

synthesize your own happiness and move

synthesize your own happiness and move on I’d like to leave you guys with a

on I’d like to leave you guys with a

on I’d like to leave you guys with a letter that I had written at the time

letter that I had written at the time

letter that I had written at the time now is published

so this is to all of you I don’t know

so this is to all of you I don’t know hi sweetheart I don’t know if we already

hi sweetheart I don’t know if we already

hi sweetheart I don’t know if we already acknowledged this with you in person but

acknowledged this with you in person but

acknowledged this with you in person but when you were 16 weeks old mom and dad

when you were 16 weeks old mom and dad

when you were 16 weeks old mom and dad were in an explosion and Brussels

were in an explosion and Brussels

were in an explosion and Brussels Airport and no matter where humanity is

Airport and no matter where humanity is

Airport and no matter where humanity is today I just want to tell you that life

today I just want to tell you that life

today I just want to tell you that life is a wonderful thing and the world is

is a wonderful thing and the world is

is a wonderful thing and the world is really full of remarkable people you

really full of remarkable people you

really full of remarkable people you didn’t just give mom and dad the faith

didn’t just give mom and dad the faith

didn’t just give mom and dad the faith and reason to live you gave us the

and reason to live you gave us the

and reason to live you gave us the awareness and presence of mind like

awareness and presence of mind like

awareness and presence of mind like never before I felt more alive than I

never before I felt more alive than I

never before I felt more alive than I ever have and I knew I had to protect

ever have and I knew I had to protect

ever have and I knew I had to protect you so I was calm composed and fully

you so I was calm composed and fully

you so I was calm composed and fully aware that we will survive when we reach

aware that we will survive when we reach

aware that we will survive when we reach Saint Augustine as emergency and saw you

Saint Augustine as emergency and saw you

Saint Augustine as emergency and saw you oblivious sucking at your thumb in the

oblivious sucking at your thumb in the

oblivious sucking at your thumb in the ultrasound all the mistrust Haythe and

ultrasound all the mistrust Haythe and

ultrasound all the mistrust Haythe and angst for the terrorist attacks

angst for the terrorist attacks

angst for the terrorist attacks vaporized

vaporized

vaporized I do hope with all my heart that you are

I do hope with all my heart that you are

I do hope with all my heart that you are born into a better world and if not then

born into a better world and if not then

born into a better world and if not then you do your absolute best to make it

you do your absolute best to make it

you do your absolute best to make it that you’re precious to us then have

that you’re precious to us then have

that you’re precious to us then have already been a hero today and I guess

already been a hero today and I guess

already been a hero today and I guess the world has sent so much love and hope

the world has sent so much love and hope

the world has sent so much love and hope your way that you owe your life to

your way that you owe your life to

your way that you owe your life to reciprocating this goodness may you

reciprocating this goodness may you

reciprocating this goodness may you always be brave and healthy we love you

always be brave and healthy we love you

always be brave and healthy we love you beyond words mom and dad this is my wish

beyond words mom and dad this is my wish

beyond words mom and dad this is my wish for all of you here not just in thank

for all of you here not just in thank

for all of you here not just in thank you

you

you [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] [Music]

[Music]

[Music] [Applause]

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