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Meiyappan save the lab for last now in
Meiyappan save the lab for last now in my experience as a psychologist love is
my experience as a psychologist love is
my experience as a psychologist love is one of the reasons why people seek
one of the reasons why people seek
one of the reasons why people seek counseling services love drives us to to
counseling services love drives us to to
counseling services love drives us to to sacrifice ourselves love drives us to
sacrifice ourselves love drives us to
sacrifice ourselves love drives us to kill ourselves love drives us to kill
kill ourselves love drives us to kill
kill ourselves love drives us to kill other people love can build temples in
other people love can build temples in
other people love can build temples in even United Nations love can make us
even United Nations love can make us
even United Nations love can make us instant poets in in a second we can do
instant poets in in a second we can do
instant poets in in a second we can do hashtag who got lines right and love is
hashtag who got lines right and love is
hashtag who got lines right and love is a reason why we have late night in
a reason why we have late night in
a reason why we have late night in newman sessions my graduate research
newman sessions my graduate research
newman sessions my graduate research thesis init na was about love in the
thesis init na was about love in the
thesis init na was about love in the first time when we are asked to do a
first time when we are asked to do a
first time when we are asked to do a thesis i knew that i was going to do
thesis i knew that i was going to do
thesis i knew that i was going to do love and when i talk to this about my
love and when i talk to this about my
love and when i talk to this about my friends and to my colleagues they were
friends and to my colleagues they were
friends and to my colleagues they were they were saying love sure do can you
they were saying love sure do can you
they were saying love sure do can you spin can assume one teacher in acuña
spin can assume one teacher in acuña
spin can assume one teacher in acuña man why not ha ha
but in the end um they would whisper a
but in the end um they would whisper a no-knock warrants a result sir if your
no-knock warrants a result sir if your
no-knock warrants a result sir if your pick up during even good story but first
pick up during even good story but first
pick up during even good story but first 2222 my passion a psychologist we love
2222 my passion a psychologist we love
2222 my passion a psychologist we love asking questions so let me ask this
asking questions so let me ask this
asking questions so let me ask this question first which face comes closest
question first which face comes closest
question first which face comes closest to how you feel about your love life is
to how you feel about your love life is
to how you feel about your love life is it a 1 a 4 a 6 or a 7 minutes comes a 7
it a 1 a 4 a 6 or a 7 minutes comes a 7
it a 1 a 4 a 6 or a 7 minutes comes a 7 or broken hearted then Walt and good see
or broken hearted then Walt and good see
or broken hearted then Walt and good see ya hands up can you show your figures 1
ya hands up can you show your figures 1
ya hands up can you show your figures 1 then on 470 north we live in an arch
then on 470 north we live in an arch
then on 470 north we live in an arch haha so if it is a five six or seven
haha so if it is a five six or seven
haha so if it is a five six or seven hopefully this talk will make you become
hopefully this talk will make you become
hopefully this talk will make you become better lovers in the future or have is
better lovers in the future or have is
better lovers in the future or have is it a 1 2 or 3 i’m hopefully it will
it a 1 2 or 3 i’m hopefully it will
it a 1 2 or 3 i’m hopefully it will confirm that what you are doing is right
confirm that what you are doing is right
confirm that what you are doing is right hey but love is a very personal topic to
hey but love is a very personal topic to
hey but love is a very personal topic to me because growing up I thought that
me because growing up I thought that
me because growing up I thought that love I had an impression that I love
love I had an impression that I love
love I had an impression that I love differently now for those people who do
differently now for those people who do
differently now for those people who do not know me too well and if my tie is
not know me too well and if my tie is
not know me too well and if my tie is not yet giving out the the reason I like
not yet giving out the the reason I like
not yet giving out the the reason I like men hey I get attracted to men I fall in
men hey I get attracted to men I fall in
men hey I get attracted to men I fall in love with men I stay in committed
love with men I stay in committed
love with men I stay in committed relationships with men and going up I
relationships with men and going up I
relationships with men and going up I thought that my love is not normal my
thought that my love is not normal my
thought that my love is not normal my love is immoral my love is sinful my
love is immoral my love is sinful my
love is immoral my love is sinful my love always end up in in tragic endings
love always end up in in tragic endings
love always end up in in tragic endings and and and research have shown that
and and and research have shown that
and and and research have shown that Filipino people view really view gay and
Filipino people view really view gay and
Filipino people view really view gay and lesbian lesbian relationships to be like
lesbian lesbian relationships to be like
lesbian lesbian relationships to be like this so I asked just like a true
this so I asked just like a true
this so I asked just like a true psychologist I research I asked gay and
psychologist I research I asked gay and
psychologist I research I asked gay and lesbian couples if they fall in love and
lesbian couples if they fall in love and
lesbian couples if they fall in love and how if they stay in long-term
how if they stay in long-term
how if they stay in long-term relationships and the result shows next
relationships and the result shows next
relationships and the result shows next piece that Filipino gay men and lesbian
piece that Filipino gay men and lesbian
piece that Filipino gay men and lesbian women he form deep emotional attachments
women he form deep emotional attachments
women he form deep emotional attachments they maintain and stay in long-term
they maintain and stay in long-term
they maintain and stay in long-term relationships and their
relationships and their
relationships and their satisfied with their relationships
satisfied with their relationships
satisfied with their relationships similar to heterosexual couples I had I
similar to heterosexual couples I had I
similar to heterosexual couples I had I had friends who are 13 years together
had friends who are 13 years together
had friends who are 13 years together and had one lesbian participant who were
and had one lesbian participant who were
and had one lesbian participant who were who are 21 years together and when we
who are 21 years together and when we
who are 21 years together and when we translate that in gay relationship ears
translate that in gay relationship ears
translate that in gay relationship ears we multiply it by three because we
we multiply it by three because we
we multiply it by three because we suffer more stigma discrimination and
suffer more stigma discrimination and
suffer more stigma discrimination and there’s no support in the family or
there’s no support in the family or
there’s no support in the family or friends or even the country so for my
friends or even the country so for my
friends or even the country so for my gay friends there are 13 years together
gay friends there are 13 years together
gay friends there are 13 years together x 3 that is 39 gay relationship years
x 3 that is 39 gay relationship years
x 3 that is 39 gay relationship years for this lesbian couple 21 years hey x 3
for this lesbian couple 21 years hey x 3
for this lesbian couple 21 years hey x 3 that’s actually 63 gay relationship
that’s actually 63 gay relationship
that’s actually 63 gay relationship years isn’t that amazing right so it
years isn’t that amazing right so it
years isn’t that amazing right so it works it really works but my question
works it really works but my question
works it really works but my question was how did they maintain the
was how did they maintain the
was how did they maintain the relationship hey so my research my
relationship hey so my research my
relationship hey so my research my thesis was actually about conflict
thesis was actually about conflict
thesis was actually about conflict resolution strategies and how couples
resolution strategies and how couples
resolution strategies and how couples fight now and in my research I found out
fight now and in my research I found out
fight now and in my research I found out that gay men actually use more positive
that gay men actually use more positive
that gay men actually use more positive problem-solving skills compared to their
problem-solving skills compared to their
problem-solving skills compared to their heterosexual counterparts isn’t that
heterosexual counterparts isn’t that
heterosexual counterparts isn’t that amazing hey now my knowledge of conflict
amazing hey now my knowledge of conflict
amazing hey now my knowledge of conflict resolution strategies got tested a year
resolution strategies got tested a year
resolution strategies got tested a year after I finish writing my thesis from
after I finish writing my thesis from
after I finish writing my thesis from Manila at the nail I went back here in
Manila at the nail I went back here in
Manila at the nail I went back here in Cebu and I met Linda Carlos Linden
Cebu and I met Linda Carlos Linden
Cebu and I met Linda Carlos Linden Carlos
Carlos
Carlos [Applause]
[Applause]
[Applause] okay I have 18 minutes to do this Linden
okay I have 18 minutes to do this Linden
okay I have 18 minutes to do this Linden carless is my boyfriend my partner my
carless is my boyfriend my partner my
carless is my boyfriend my partner my significant other and my Reese my
significant other and my Reese my
significant other and my Reese my personal research love laboratory and
personal research love laboratory and
personal research love laboratory and this is the first picture I saw of him
this is the first picture I saw of him
this is the first picture I saw of him and my belief system when I saw this
and my belief system when I saw this
and my belief system when I saw this picture in facebook while pretty boy
picture in facebook while pretty boy
picture in facebook while pretty boy Tycho felony Tom see pretty boy belong
Tycho felony Tom see pretty boy belong
Tycho felony Tom see pretty boy belong well any data type and geeky jobs like
well any data type and geeky jobs like
well any data type and geeky jobs like me no pero I’m a lucky man and I’m a
me no pero I’m a lucky man and I’m a
me no pero I’m a lucky man and I’m a worthy man geeky chops Paula untied me
worthy man geeky chops Paula untied me
worthy man geeky chops Paula untied me pretty boy Linda deny fight a lot we
pretty boy Linda deny fight a lot we
pretty boy Linda deny fight a lot we fight about unmet expectations we fight
fight about unmet expectations we fight
fight about unmet expectations we fight about attention we fight about our
about attention we fight about our
about attention we fight about our facial expressions and we also fight
facial expressions and we also fight
facial expressions and we also fight about the places to eat no I said Tom
about the places to eat no I said Tom
about the places to eat no I said Tom allowed restaurant e equaling bahala Oct
allowed restaurant e equaling bahala Oct
allowed restaurant e equaling bahala Oct areata restaurant e I meralco I you
areata restaurant e I meralco I you
areata restaurant e I meralco I you restaurant be I can sum up menia
restaurant be I can sum up menia
restaurant be I can sum up menia restaurant see Ike warm in the oven and
restaurant see Ike warm in the oven and
restaurant see Ike warm in the oven and that are gone dominating me never a
that are gone dominating me never a
that are gone dominating me never a beautiful visa and whenever we have a
beautiful visa and whenever we have a
beautiful visa and whenever we have a conflict and this is a the conflict
conflict and this is a the conflict
conflict and this is a the conflict resolution strategy that I’ve been
resolution strategy that I’ve been
resolution strategy that I’ve been struggling over the years now every time
struggling over the years now every time
struggling over the years now every time you have a heated argument I stand up
you have a heated argument I stand up
you have a heated argument I stand up and I run away next please hey um I use
and I run away next please hey um I use
and I run away next please hey um I use this research I use this conflict
this research I use this conflict
this research I use this conflict resolution strategies in the early parts
resolution strategies in the early parts
resolution strategies in the early parts of our relationship and a heated
of our relationship and a heated
of our relationship and a heated argument I stand up and literally run
argument I stand up and literally run
argument I stand up and literally run away I remember one time we were having
away I remember one time we were having
away I remember one time we were having dinner with friends and um we were
dinner with friends and um we were
dinner with friends and um we were clearly having an argument I stood up
clearly having an argument I stood up
clearly having an argument I stood up left him behind and my friends were shot
left him behind and my friends were shot
left him behind and my friends were shot whereas he was embarrassed wait and over
whereas he was embarrassed wait and over
whereas he was embarrassed wait and over the years I realized that this was not
the years I realized that this was not
the years I realized that this was not helping the relationship hey I was
helping the relationship hey I was
helping the relationship hey I was hurting him I was sending a message that
hurting him I was sending a message that
hurting him I was sending a message that of abandonment and rejection he did say
of abandonment and rejection he did say
of abandonment and rejection he did say he did ask me to not do it again and yes
he did ask me to not do it again and yes
he did ask me to not do it again and yes I’m very proud of it over the years it
I’m very proud of it over the years it
I’m very proud of it over the years it lessened in frequency in fact I don’t
lessened in frequency in fact I don’t
lessened in frequency in fact I don’t even remember when was the last time I
even remember when was the last time I
even remember when was the last time I walk away or run away ah
now Linden’s favorite arm next please
now Linden’s favorite arm next please Linden’s favorite a conflict resolution
Linden’s favorite a conflict resolution
Linden’s favorite a conflict resolution strategy is tuning out okay whenever we
strategy is tuning out okay whenever we
strategy is tuning out okay whenever we have a discussion he would just put a
have a discussion he would just put a
have a discussion he would just put a wall between us and it makes me crazy I
wall between us and it makes me crazy I
wall between us and it makes me crazy I asked but he did not want to answer
asked but he did not want to answer
asked but he did not want to answer anything hey but over the years he
anything hey but over the years he
anything hey but over the years he learned how because you know I learned
learned how because you know I learned
learned how because you know I learned how to express my needs he also learned
how to express my needs he also learned
how to express my needs he also learned how to to reciprocate that expression of
how to to reciprocate that expression of
how to to reciprocate that expression of need he he would answer he would he
need he he would answer he would he
need he he would answer he would he would not he would paraphrase what I was
would not he would paraphrase what I was
would not he would paraphrase what I was seeing and at the same time would touch
seeing and at the same time would touch
seeing and at the same time would touch my hand or even call my name and that
my hand or even call my name and that
my hand or even call my name and that really liked my heart hey so the first
really liked my heart hey so the first
really liked my heart hey so the first lesson really is a processor that I’m
lesson really is a processor that I’m
lesson really is a processor that I’m going to share to you is learn how to
going to share to you is learn how to
going to share to you is learn how to fight well but away move barrow but our
fight well but away move barrow but our
fight well but away move barrow but our way up our own hey there is a saying
way up our own hey there is a saying
way up our own hey there is a saying that Lex please a smooth sea never made
that Lex please a smooth sea never made
that Lex please a smooth sea never made a scale for sailor we need to be we need
a scale for sailor we need to be we need
a scale for sailor we need to be we need to embrace conflict in our relationship
to embrace conflict in our relationship
to embrace conflict in our relationship because really relationship is dirty
because really relationship is dirty
because really relationship is dirty it’s effortful there are a lot of things
it’s effortful there are a lot of things
it’s effortful there are a lot of things in between it’s uncertain there is no
in between it’s uncertain there is no
in between it’s uncertain there is no formula there is no recipe for a
formula there is no recipe for a
formula there is no recipe for a relationship so we need to embrace armed
relationship so we need to embrace armed
relationship so we need to embrace armed conflict in our relation now we need to
conflict in our relation now we need to
conflict in our relation now we need to learn how to fight and we need to learn
learn how to fight and we need to learn
learn how to fight and we need to learn how to fight well instead of flight
how to fight well instead of flight
how to fight well instead of flight running away along the years I learned
running away along the years I learned
running away along the years I learned how to park arguments and change topics
how to park arguments and change topics
how to park arguments and change topics when we are in a heated argument I
when we are in a heated argument I
when we are in a heated argument I learned also to soothe myself okay and I
learned also to soothe myself okay and I
learned also to soothe myself okay and I learned also to express my need okay now
learned also to express my need okay now
learned also to express my need okay now God man one of the relationship experts
God man one of the relationship experts
God man one of the relationship experts in the u.s. said that learning how to
in the u.s. said that learning how to
in the u.s. said that learning how to fight well is not enough that’s only
fight well is not enough that’s only
fight well is not enough that’s only fifty percent of the formula the other
fifty percent of the formula the other
fifty percent of the formula the other half is to repair your relationship
half is to repair your relationship
half is to repair your relationship whenever you have a fight you repair it
whenever you have a fight you repair it
whenever you have a fight you repair it and when he studied 700 couples he
and when he studied 700 couples he
and when he studied 700 couples he interviewed these couples and 15 minutes
interviewed these couples and 15 minutes
interviewed these couples and 15 minutes he would notice the couples who would
he would notice the couples who would
he would notice the couples who would break up
break up
break up and the couples who would live forever
and the couples who would live forever
and the couples who would live forever and he noticed that the couples who live
and he noticed that the couples who live
and he noticed that the couples who live forever happily now use this
forever happily now use this
forever happily now use this relationship skill he he says I repair
relationship skill he he says I repair
relationship skill he he says I repair at em hey what is this repair attempt
at em hey what is this repair attempt
at em hey what is this repair attempt repair attempt is any statement or
repair attempt is any statement or
repair attempt is any statement or action that prevents negativity from
action that prevents negativity from
action that prevents negativity from escalating out of control during
escalating out of control during
escalating out of control during conflict hey our first travel abroad was
conflict hey our first travel abroad was
conflict hey our first travel abroad was in Hong Kong and next please ah and it
in Hong Kong and next please ah and it
in Hong Kong and next please ah and it was a time of Occupy Hong Kong Central
was a time of Occupy Hong Kong Central
was a time of Occupy Hong Kong Central and it was a busy busy street and we
and it was a busy busy street and we
and it was a busy busy street and we were walking and dining in Mong Kok and
were walking and dining in Mong Kok and
were walking and dining in Mong Kok and Holden be and what happened we had a
Holden be and what happened we had a
Holden be and what happened we had a fight and guess what I ran away in Hong
fight and guess what I ran away in Hong
fight and guess what I ran away in Hong Kong without an international phone but
Kong without an international phone but
Kong without an international phone but good thing Weiss Keisha he stayed where
good thing Weiss Keisha he stayed where
good thing Weiss Keisha he stayed where he was no and I returned back and when I
he was no and I returned back and when I
he was no and I returned back and when I returned back and I’m gonna walk tongue
returned back and I’m gonna walk tongue
returned back and I’m gonna walk tongue me duty to sell for Mossad up on Holly
me duty to sell for Mossad up on Holly
me duty to sell for Mossad up on Holly and when I returned Nick a towel and
and when I returned Nick a towel and
and when I returned Nick a towel and shot okely anyone whenever a
shot okely anyone whenever a
shot okely anyone whenever a packet delivery on ionno Google pocket
packet delivery on ionno Google pocket
packet delivery on ionno Google pocket cutie good so good papi upon emo
but in the end we stood up we walk
but in the end we stood up we walk around Montauk and we shop away as if
around Montauk and we shop away as if
around Montauk and we shop away as if nothing really happened okay most of our
nothing really happened okay most of our
nothing really happened okay most of our arguments Willie is inside the car and
arguments Willie is inside the car and
arguments Willie is inside the car and kwanzaa Putin cosas potenza no Canelo go
kwanzaa Putin cosas potenza no Canelo go
kwanzaa Putin cosas potenza no Canelo go pack a leaky ligna hui sagina and on OK
pack a leaky ligna hui sagina and on OK
pack a leaky ligna hui sagina and on OK ROCK are knocking I’m difficult ekdum I
ROCK are knocking I’m difficult ekdum I
ROCK are knocking I’m difficult ekdum I or holding hands next please that is I
or holding hands next please that is I
or holding hands next please that is I repair attempt a next please so what are
repair attempt a next please so what are
repair attempt a next please so what are other examples of repair attempts taking
other examples of repair attempts taking
other examples of repair attempts taking a break during fight parking the heated
a break during fight parking the heated
a break during fight parking the heated topic and changing it to a less serious
topic and changing it to a less serious
topic and changing it to a less serious topic being affectionate even if both of
topic being affectionate even if both of
topic being affectionate even if both of you are disagreeing and the use of
you are disagreeing and the use of
you are disagreeing and the use of endearment during fight ok now these
endearment during fight ok now these
endearment during fight ok now these repair attempts these gestures of
repair attempts these gestures of
repair attempts these gestures of reassurance and love put a break to the
reassurance and love put a break to the
reassurance and love put a break to the impending flood of negativity that can
impending flood of negativity that can
impending flood of negativity that can hijack the couple who are arguing which
hijack the couple who are arguing which
hijack the couple who are arguing which in turn paralyzes the positive
in turn paralyzes the positive
in turn paralyzes the positive problem-solving discussion in their
problem-solving discussion in their
problem-solving discussion in their conflict but godman’s added that it is
conflict but godman’s added that it is
conflict but godman’s added that it is not only making repair that’s important
not only making repair that’s important
not only making repair that’s important it’s also receiving repair a thus my
it’s also receiving repair a thus my
it’s also receiving repair a thus my lesson number two is to make repair and
lesson number two is to make repair and
lesson number two is to make repair and receive repair hey what does that mean
receive repair hey what does that mean
receive repair hey what does that mean with a capacity interviewed the
with a capacity interviewed the
with a capacity interviewed the emotionally intelligent couples did not
emotionally intelligent couples did not
emotionally intelligent couples did not determine tamannaah creative Allah Moana
determine tamannaah creative Allah Moana
determine tamannaah creative Allah Moana repairs but what does the most important
repairs but what does the most important
repairs but what does the most important thing was that the repair was received
thing was that the repair was received
thing was that the repair was received by the partner hey so in my agenda ba
by the partner hey so in my agenda ba
by the partner hey so in my agenda ba the smiles on Epoque Paris Angus Nibhana
the smiles on Epoque Paris Angus Nibhana
the smiles on Epoque Paris Angus Nibhana no or a pogrom o holy and hunt apostle
no or a pogrom o holy and hunt apostle
no or a pogrom o holy and hunt apostle and eatonton then we would be a disaster
and eatonton then we would be a disaster
and eatonton then we would be a disaster couple oh so this is a very example of
couple oh so this is a very example of
couple oh so this is a very example of palembang is a perfect example of
palembang is a perfect example of
palembang is a perfect example of repairing and receiving repair right but
repairing and receiving repair right but
repairing and receiving repair right but glam big that’s very pinoy and in fact
glam big that’s very pinoy and in fact
glam big that’s very pinoy and in fact in my thesis I actually have a
in my thesis I actually have a
in my thesis I actually have a mathematical diagram for this one
mathematical diagram for this one
mathematical diagram for this one because in life mostly all you can do in
because in life mostly all you can do in
because in life mostly all you can do in love is repair how you
love is repair how you
love is repair how you good up hey that’s from one of the
good up hey that’s from one of the
good up hey that’s from one of the things that I saw ok now but it does not
things that I saw ok now but it does not
things that I saw ok now but it does not end there hey forgot man relationships
end there hey forgot man relationships
end there hey forgot man relationships are based on friendship happy couples
are based on friendship happy couples
are based on friendship happy couples happy relationships are based on deep
happy relationships are based on deep
happy relationships are based on deep friendship so with Linden I know up to
friendship so with Linden I know up to
friendship so with Linden I know up to be able to be a friend it means that you
be able to be a friend it means that you
be able to be a friend it means that you know the dislikes the likes and then the
know the dislikes the likes and then the
know the dislikes the likes and then the quirks no I know that Linden is very
quirks no I know that Linden is very
quirks no I know that Linden is very busy I’m every MWF so Delia como call it
busy I’m every MWF so Delia como call it
busy I’m every MWF so Delia como call it an Indian dad now I know the deletion
an Indian dad now I know the deletion
an Indian dad now I know the deletion ganahan Duke suka ok so come on Holly
ganahan Duke suka ok so come on Holly
ganahan Duke suka ok so come on Holly BBQ hon asuka separate i’m patty satalia
BBQ hon asuka separate i’m patty satalia
BBQ hon asuka separate i’m patty satalia separate I know his dreams that you want
separate I know his dreams that you want
separate I know his dreams that you want to take PhD hey he also knows where I am
to take PhD hey he also knows where I am
to take PhD hey he also knows where I am come dead bat min Doha the makita miss
come dead bat min Doha the makita miss
come dead bat min Doha the makita miss Ayala monarto lunch at national
Ayala monarto lunch at national
Ayala monarto lunch at national bookstore or fully booked or any toy
bookstore or fully booked or any toy
bookstore or fully booked or any toy shop did Pokemon y apaga town k ball
shop did Pokemon y apaga town k ball
shop did Pokemon y apaga town k ball poach on sarcoma no worries and fears
poach on sarcoma no worries and fears
poach on sarcoma no worries and fears being a friend is really to be intimate
being a friend is really to be intimate
being a friend is really to be intimate in the maps of the love maps of the
in the maps of the love maps of the
in the maps of the love maps of the person and that is my third lesson be
person and that is my third lesson be
person and that is my third lesson be each other’s friends another important
each other’s friends another important
each other’s friends another important team are aiming to be friends because
team are aiming to be friends because
team are aiming to be friends because when we are friends you are a tune to
when we are friends you are a tune to
when we are friends you are a tune to the person’s feelings you are tuned that
the person’s feelings you are tuned that
the person’s feelings you are tuned that something is amiss yay and you yours
something is amiss yay and you yours
something is amiss yay and you yours when your friends are certain that the
when your friends are certain that the
when your friends are certain that the other person will not abandon you hey
other person will not abandon you hey
other person will not abandon you hey and then when you fight ok the other
and then when you fight ok the other
and then when you fight ok the other person repair and then your you will you
person repair and then your you will you
person repair and then your you will you are a tune to to receive that prepare a
are a tune to to receive that prepare a
are a tune to to receive that prepare a and a good thing about being friends
and a good thing about being friends
and a good thing about being friends it’s not only building positive of
it’s not only building positive of
it’s not only building positive of energy but it also creates positive
energy but it also creates positive
energy but it also creates positive memories and positive experiences and
memories and positive experiences and
memories and positive experiences and they’ve been government found the couple
they’ve been government found the couple
they’ve been government found the couple and happy couples narrate how excited
and happy couples narrate how excited
and happy couples narrate how excited they feel when they met a remember event
they feel when they met a remember event
they feel when they met a remember event so finally we’re us unhappy couples they
so finally we’re us unhappy couples they
so finally we’re us unhappy couples they would narrate all the bad things that
would narrate all the bad things that
would narrate all the bad things that happen to them just a moment ago at us
happen to them just a moment ago at us
happen to them just a moment ago at us are willing animal get ova dub 09
are willing animal get ova dub 09
are willing animal get ova dub 09 amiguitos aback economy get to Cesana
amiguitos aback economy get to Cesana
amiguitos aback economy get to Cesana know so being friends really talks about
know so being friends really talks about
know so being friends really talks about positive memories now leads
positive memories now leads
positive memories now leads positive memories so I have this
positive memories so I have this
positive memories so I have this favorite definition of love and
favorite definition of love and
favorite definition of love and according to Barbara Fredrickson love is
according to Barbara Fredrickson love is
according to Barbara Fredrickson love is a micro moment of emotional positive
a micro moment of emotional positive
a micro moment of emotional positive connection with someone a and it’s not
connection with someone a and it’s not
connection with someone a and it’s not only necessary romantic love is with me
only necessary romantic love is with me
only necessary romantic love is with me and my knees feeling serenity reading
and my knees feeling serenity reading
and my knees feeling serenity reading together a book love is between me and
together a book love is between me and
together a book love is between me and my students are interested in being
my students are interested in being
my students are interested in being amused at a certain topic love is right
amused at a certain topic love is right
amused at a certain topic love is right now you listening to me and me feeling
now you listening to me and me feeling
now you listening to me and me feeling this high and you enjoy my top nah so
this high and you enjoy my top nah so
this high and you enjoy my top nah so what does what does it mean to be a full
what does what does it mean to be a full
what does what does it mean to be a full time lover for me to be a full time
time lover for me to be a full time
time lover for me to be a full time lover it means to collect positive
lover it means to collect positive
lover it means to collect positive experiences positive loving experiences
experiences positive loving experiences
experiences positive loving experiences and that is my my fourth lesson and for
and that is my my fourth lesson and for
and that is my my fourth lesson and for Linda and I I am a full time lover by
Linda and I I am a full time lover by
Linda and I I am a full time lover by collecting positive experiences like for
collecting positive experiences like for
collecting positive experiences like for example going on chasing waterfalls in
example going on chasing waterfalls in
example going on chasing waterfalls in Northern Mindanao or next please or
Northern Mindanao or next please or
Northern Mindanao or next please or dining out with my family and dining out
dining out with my family and dining out
dining out with my family and dining out with his family and giving exchanging
with his family and giving exchanging
with his family and giving exchanging gifts and basking in the Sun going out
gifts and basking in the Sun going out
gifts and basking in the Sun going out to the beach traveling to places you
to the beach traveling to places you
to the beach traveling to places you have to do this though marni I had to do
have to do this though marni I had to do
have to do this though marni I had to do this you did not do this now I studying
this you did not do this now I studying
this you did not do this now I studying together and really just driving around
together and really just driving around
together and really just driving around the city so in summary these are my for
the city so in summary these are my for
the city so in summary these are my for my for lessons fight well make and
my for lessons fight well make and
my for lessons fight well make and receive repair attempts be each other’s
receive repair attempts be each other’s
receive repair attempts be each other’s friend collect+ and loving experiences
friend collect+ and loving experiences
friend collect+ and loving experiences tomorrow August 21 2016 Linden and I
tomorrow August 21 2016 Linden and I
tomorrow August 21 2016 Linden and I will be celebrating 15 gay relationship
will be celebrating 15 gay relationship
will be celebrating 15 gay relationship years together
years together
years together um that’s actually five years though in
um that’s actually five years though in
um that’s actually five years though in normal years so chamber what’s the
normal years so chamber what’s the
normal years so chamber what’s the aspiration of course the aspiration is
aspiration of course the aspiration is
aspiration of course the aspiration is gay marriage why not I really want to be
gay marriage why not I really want to be
gay marriage why not I really want to be married hey because married a big
married hey because married a big
married hey because married a big marriage is the highest form of
marriage is the highest form of
marriage is the highest form of commitment okay nope no details yet is
commitment okay nope no details yet is
commitment okay nope no details yet is it in the beach or in the info you know
it in the beach or in the info you know
it in the beach or in the info you know in a forest or no no details yet but for
in a forest or no no details yet but for
in a forest or no no details yet but for sure I want my family I want my friends
sure I want my family I want my friends
sure I want my family I want my friends I want his family and his friends to be
I want his family and his friends to be
I want his family and his friends to be there to celebrate with us because maybe
there to celebrate with us because maybe
there to celebrate with us because maybe someday someday there’s a place for us
someday someday there’s a place for us
someday someday there’s a place for us sometime place for us peace and quiet
sometime place for us peace and quiet
sometime place for us peace and quiet and open air wait for us somewhere
and open air wait for us somewhere
and open air wait for us somewhere someday this is my story this is my
someday this is my story this is my
someday this is my story this is my liberation now it’s your turn thank you
liberation now it’s your turn thank you
liberation now it’s your turn thank you very much
very much
very much you
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