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Leadership and Innovation | Dr. Mariam Matar | TEDxIMTDubai


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[Music] smelly man Rahim good morning everyone

smelly man Rahim good morning everyone

smelly man Rahim good morning everyone again this is a great pleasure for me to

again this is a great pleasure for me to

again this is a great pleasure for me to be a monk you today and share with you

be a monk you today and share with you

be a monk you today and share with you so and share with you my journey which

so and share with you my journey which

so and share with you my journey which was not possible without my great team

was not possible without my great team

was not possible without my great team who are involved and especially my

who are involved and especially my

who are involved and especially my assistants real end of the day so being

assistants real end of the day so being

assistants real end of the day so being an American woman and being a part of

an American woman and being a part of

an American woman and being a part of the golden years of United Arab Emirates

the golden years of United Arab Emirates

the golden years of United Arab Emirates I consider myself so lucky I cannot say

I consider myself so lucky I cannot say

I consider myself so lucky I cannot say that we as an Emirati women we are

that we as an Emirati women we are

that we as an Emirati women we are smarter or brighter or more pretty than

smarter or brighter or more pretty than

smarter or brighter or more pretty than any other woman in the region but

any other woman in the region but

any other woman in the region but confidently I can say that we are

confidently I can say that we are

confidently I can say that we are luckier we are lucky because we have a

luckier we are lucky because we have a

luckier we are lucky because we have a great leaders who believes in women and

great leaders who believes in women and

great leaders who believes in women and he literally made sure every leader or

he literally made sure every leader or

he literally made sure every leader or whoever planning anything in this run

whoever planning anything in this run

whoever planning anything in this run and yet project they also believe in

and yet project they also believe in

and yet project they also believe in that and they make sure that they have

that and they make sure that they have

that and they make sure that they have gave a woman a quite equal chance to

gave a woman a quite equal chance to

gave a woman a quite equal chance to show herself and to contribute

show herself and to contribute

show herself and to contribute effectively in the development of the

effectively in the development of the

effectively in the development of the country

in the field of genetics if he will go

in the field of genetics if he will go through my career and my career

through my career and my career

through my career and my career development he will notice that I’ve

development he will notice that I’ve

development he will notice that I’ve been in more than one position mainly

been in more than one position mainly

been in more than one position mainly related to human development area in

related to human development area in

related to human development area in health care or in community development

health care or in community development

health care or in community development and those opportunity was given to me

and those opportunity was given to me

and those opportunity was given to me and I was I can say that I was not asked

and I was I can say that I was not asked

and I was I can say that I was not asked if I would like to take those posts or

if I would like to take those posts or

if I would like to take those posts or not but again I believe in the big

not but again I believe in the big

not but again I believe in the big powerful man and when allah Saffiano

powerful man and when allah Saffiano

powerful man and when allah Saffiano Italian and something for us we believe

Italian and something for us we believe

Italian and something for us we believe that it is the best and believe me that

that it is the best and believe me that

that it is the best and believe me that what I realize in the end of my journey

what I realize in the end of my journey

what I realize in the end of my journey in each position and when we talk about

in each position and when we talk about

in each position and when we talk about metric today we talked about the gene we

metric today we talked about the gene we

metric today we talked about the gene we talked about different things again we

talked about different things again we

talked about different things again we go back to a very particular journey

go back to a very particular journey

go back to a very particular journey within ourself is your genetics is your

within ourself is your genetics is your

within ourself is your genetics is your DNA which you grant from your parents

DNA which you grant from your parents

DNA which you grant from your parents and again with the luck and the weight

and again with the luck and the weight

and again with the luck and the weight of a lot it depends which part of that

of a lot it depends which part of that

of a lot it depends which part of that you talk it over and in the in the early

you talk it over and in the in the early

you talk it over and in the in the early talk with my dear colleague mr. Bhanu I

talk with my dear colleague mr. Bhanu I

talk with my dear colleague mr. Bhanu I would like to say something related to

would like to say something related to

would like to say something related to genetics and women as a woman I’m so so

genetics and women as a woman I’m so so

genetics and women as a woman I’m so so happy to be a woman believe me and we

happy to be a woman believe me and we

happy to be a woman believe me and we are so lucky to be a woman we are the

are so lucky to be a woman we are the

are so lucky to be a woman we are the main reason of humanity to be continued

main reason of humanity to be continued

main reason of humanity to be continued we have to have confident than that and

we have to have confident than that and

we have to have confident than that and when we see a boy who’s smart enough to

when we see a boy who’s smart enough to

when we see a boy who’s smart enough to compete with a calculator that simply

compete with a calculator that simply

compete with a calculator that simply goes back to his X chromosome and you

goes back to his X chromosome and you

goes back to his X chromosome and you know the Gina the genetics and the

know the Gina the genetics and the

know the Gina the genetics and the chromosome parts which responsible of

chromosome parts which responsible of

chromosome parts which responsible of human intelligence is located

human intelligence is located

human intelligence is located X chromosome so if the boy is a smart

X chromosome so if the boy is a smart

X chromosome so if the boy is a smart 99.9% all the crooked all the credit

99.9% all the crooked all the credit

99.9% all the crooked all the credit goes back to his mother and her father

goes back to his mother and her father

goes back to his mother and her father he’s there to take care of both of them

he’s there to take care of both of them

he’s there to take care of both of them so at the woman we are born to be

so at the woman we are born to be

so at the woman we are born to be special we are born to be smart we are

special we are born to be smart we are

special we are born to be smart we are going to be responsible of whole

going to be responsible of whole

going to be responsible of whole humanity because of that I as humanity

humanity because of that I as humanity

humanity because of that I as humanity woman my name is Miriam Helmick for my

woman my name is Miriam Helmick for my

woman my name is Miriam Helmick for my mother and you can if you know that

mother and you can if you know that

mother and you can if you know that usually in our country woman’s mother a

usually in our country woman’s mother a

usually in our country woman’s mother a woman’s name always will be followed

woman’s name always will be followed

woman’s name always will be followed with all those gentlemen who were the

with all those gentlemen who were the

with all those gentlemen who were the reason of her excess so my name is

reason of her excess so my name is

reason of her excess so my name is Miriam my father’s name is hemant my

Miriam my father’s name is hemant my

Miriam my father’s name is hemant my grandfather his name is mother and one

grandfather his name is mother and one

grandfather his name is mother and one of the things which I come early back to

of the things which I come early back to

of the things which I come early back to tooth in 2000 when I graduated from

tooth in 2000 when I graduated from

tooth in 2000 when I graduated from Medical College I drove my plant in 2050

Medical College I drove my plant in 2050

Medical College I drove my plant in 2050 and one of the climb which I would like

and one of the climb which I would like

and one of the climb which I would like to achieve where I will have where I

to achieve where I will have where I

to achieve where I will have where I will start lobbying and I already

will start lobbying and I already

will start lobbying and I already started to in 2000 not being that very

started to in 2000 not being that very

started to in 2000 not being that very soon and United Arab Emirates when a

soon and United Arab Emirates when a

soon and United Arab Emirates when a woman’s or male name officially would be

woman’s or male name officially would be

woman’s or male name officially would be mentioned in any official document the

mentioned in any official document the

mentioned in any official document the hill name would be his mother name and

hill name would be his mother name and

hill name would be his mother name and because of that always if you will come

because of that always if you will come

because of that always if you will come and visit my office my name of the table

and visit my office my name of the table

and visit my office my name of the table is million payment for my mother I make

is million payment for my mother I make

is million payment for my mother I make sure that the name of my mother

I would like to have a humble request

I would like to have a humble request from all of you if you start signing a

from all of you if you start signing a

from all of you if you start signing a book or you are allowed to put your name

book or you are allowed to put your name

book or you are allowed to put your name on your table on your disk or have a

on your table on your disk or have a

on your table on your disk or have a social media name please

social media name please

social media name please Brad try to remember this lovely woman

Brad try to remember this lovely woman

Brad try to remember this lovely woman who made sure that you carry a good gene

who made sure that you carry a good gene

who made sure that you carry a good gene which will help you to maintain a good

which will help you to maintain a good

which will help you to maintain a good humanity throughout the coming JV of

humanity throughout the coming JV of

humanity throughout the coming JV of human being

human being

human being so please next time will you introduce

so please next time will you introduce

so please next time will you introduce yourself don’t forget to mention your

yourself don’t forget to mention your

yourself don’t forget to mention your mother name if it is not the second make

mother name if it is not the second make

mother name if it is not the second make sure it is the first if it’s as possible

sure it is the first if it’s as possible

sure it is the first if it’s as possible so going back to genetics in 2000 when I

so going back to genetics in 2000 when I

so going back to genetics in 2000 when I graduated from the Medical College

graduated from the Medical College

graduated from the Medical College from the body Medical College I had my

from the body Medical College I had my

from the body Medical College I had my rotation in Latifa Hospital particularly

rotation in Latifa Hospital particularly

rotation in Latifa Hospital particularly a very senior center and during those

a very senior center and during those

a very senior center and during those rotation I used to see the blame and

rotation I used to see the blame and

rotation I used to see the blame and suffering and the guilt feeling which

suffering and the guilt feeling which

suffering and the guilt feeling which shared between both parents when they

shared between both parents when they

shared between both parents when they see their child coming every three weeks

see their child coming every three weeks

see their child coming every three weeks for a blood transfusion and every 12

for a blood transfusion and every 12

for a blood transfusion and every 12 hour per day a whole machine is on his

hour per day a whole machine is on his

hour per day a whole machine is on his tummy to help him to callate extra iron

tummy to help him to callate extra iron

tummy to help him to callate extra iron overload in his body I went back home

overload in his body I went back home

overload in his body I went back home and I searched about this particular

and I searched about this particular

and I searched about this particular disease and at that time Cyprus were

disease and at that time Cyprus were

disease and at that time Cyprus were celebrating 11 years with no single

celebrating 11 years with no single

celebrating 11 years with no single child was born with thalassemia they had

child was born with thalassemia they had

child was born with thalassemia they had no magic stick simply what they had they

no magic stick simply what they had they

no magic stick simply what they had they had a very constructive enforcement of a

had a very constructive enforcement of a

had a very constructive enforcement of a law which doesn’t allow to carry out the

law which doesn’t allow to carry out the

law which doesn’t allow to carry out the disease to get married and the church

disease to get married and the church

disease to get married and the church would not approve that marriage and in

would not approve that marriage and in

would not approve that marriage and in the end of the day if they insist to go

the end of the day if they insist to go

the end of the day if they insist to go ahead with this

ahead with this

ahead with this relation the government will not be

relation the government will not be

relation the government will not be responsible or the government will not

responsible or the government will not

responsible or the government will not pay from their lips money to cure their

pay from their lips money to cure their

pay from their lips money to cure their children so from that time people will

children so from that time people will

children so from that time people will having a healthier generation and a more

having a healthier generation and a more

having a healthier generation and a more stable community I went back to the

stable community I went back to the

stable community I went back to the hospital

hospital

hospital and I went to the most senior person in

and I went to the most senior person in

and I went to the most senior person in the hospital with two-page summary of my

the hospital with two-page summary of my

the hospital with two-page summary of my plan in my lovely country and I do

plan in my lovely country and I do

plan in my lovely country and I do remember till today is uncertain me

remember till today is uncertain me

remember till today is uncertain me Marion you just graduate from medical

Marion you just graduate from medical

Marion you just graduate from medical college leave this task for the ministry

college leave this task for the ministry

college leave this task for the ministry leave this task for the people who are

leave this task for the people who are

leave this task for the people who are on the chair and they would make sure

on the chair and they would make sure

on the chair and they would make sure this slow will be in a place I went back

this slow will be in a place I went back

this slow will be in a place I went back home and like every day I was not so

home and like every day I was not so

home and like every day I was not so much heavy my mother she told me Marion

much heavy my mother she told me Marion

much heavy my mother she told me Marion what’s wrong with you today

what’s wrong with you today

what’s wrong with you today I told her mom why this might happen I

I told her mom why this might happen I

I told her mom why this might happen I want to do a change but I’m looking

want to do a change but I’m looking

want to do a change but I’m looking forward to graduate from my medical

forward to graduate from my medical

forward to graduate from my medical college and be someone one day where I

college and be someone one day where I

college and be someone one day where I can contribute Imogen my lovely mother

can contribute Imogen my lovely mother

can contribute Imogen my lovely mother she’s illiterate

she’s illiterate

she’s illiterate she cannot write and read she came back

she cannot write and read she came back

she cannot write and read she came back after half an hour telling me a momma

after half an hour telling me a momma

after half an hour telling me a momma Marion here in Dubai as you know on

Marion here in Dubai as you know on

Marion here in Dubai as you know on Friday we in our neighborhood from 9:00

Friday we in our neighborhood from 9:00

Friday we in our neighborhood from 9:00 to 11:00

to 11:00

to 11:00 woman they gathered for gossiping and

woman they gathered for gossiping and

woman they gathered for gossiping and sharing canoe recipes of food so my

sharing canoe recipes of food so my

sharing canoe recipes of food so my mother she asked me mama this time what

mother she asked me mama this time what

mother she asked me mama this time what about this Friday are calling our

about this Friday are calling our

about this Friday are calling our neighbour who their son is getting

neighbour who their son is getting

neighbour who their son is getting married to our other neighbor daughter

married to our other neighbor daughter

married to our other neighbor daughter let them come over and try to explain to

let them come over and try to explain to

let them come over and try to explain to them how important it is to be screened

them how important it is to be screened

them how important it is to be screened and to give

and to give

and to give some more knowledge about this step so

some more knowledge about this step so

some more knowledge about this step so we started on Friday and from that day

we started on Friday and from that day

we started on Friday and from that day imagine from my mother from our house

imagine from my mother from our house

imagine from my mother from our house then from the neighbor then I started to

then from the neighbor then I started to

then from the neighbor then I started to be called over and different

be called over and different

be called over and different organization to talk about a common

organization to talk about a common

organization to talk about a common genetic disorders of heresy Mia and I

genetic disorders of heresy Mia and I

genetic disorders of heresy Mia and I love one of my clan was to become a

love one of my clan was to become a

love one of my clan was to become a plastic surgeon I love myself

plastic surgeon I love myself

plastic surgeon I love myself I love beauty my my nightmare is the

I love beauty my my nightmare is the

I love beauty my my nightmare is the wrinkle around my eyes and unfortunately

wrinkle around my eyes and unfortunately

wrinkle around my eyes and unfortunately I have to change my major simply to be

I have to change my major simply to be

I have to change my major simply to be able to go in the morning in one of the

able to go in the morning in one of the

able to go in the morning in one of the community tailoring and in the afternoon

community tailoring and in the afternoon

community tailoring and in the afternoon to go and have my duty in one of the

to go and have my duty in one of the

to go and have my duty in one of the primary health care clinic and United

primary health care clinic and United

primary health care clinic and United Arab Emirates imagine because of that

Arab Emirates imagine because of that

Arab Emirates imagine because of that small support from my mother an idea

small support from my mother an idea

small support from my mother an idea from her very soon

from her very soon

from her very soon Amanda we started at in 2000 and in 2004

Amanda we started at in 2000 and in 2004

Amanda we started at in 2000 and in 2004 I started the whole campaign called you

I started the whole campaign called you

I started the whole campaign called you aft sarracenia 2012 and the whole

aft sarracenia 2012 and the whole

aft sarracenia 2012 and the whole mission and the objective of this

mission and the objective of this

mission and the objective of this campaign was to enforce an advocate for

campaign was to enforce an advocate for

campaign was to enforce an advocate for a loan which obligatory will force

a loan which obligatory will force

a loan which obligatory will force anybody who’s willing to get married in

anybody who’s willing to get married in

anybody who’s willing to get married in my country to be screened for most

my country to be screened for most

my country to be screened for most common genetic disorder in this country

common genetic disorder in this country

common genetic disorder in this country as well as to be tailor-made according

as well as to be tailor-made according

as well as to be tailor-made according to their family history and by March

to their family history and by March

to their family history and by March 2006 hello were approved by the Cabinet

2006 hello were approved by the Cabinet

2006 hello were approved by the Cabinet can you imagine that

so that symmetric that symmetric which

so that symmetric that symmetric which happen only United Arab Emirates and

happen only United Arab Emirates and

happen only United Arab Emirates and from there I was no need to take another

from there I was no need to take another

from there I was no need to take another step forward to improve the quality of

step forward to improve the quality of

step forward to improve the quality of the new generation of United Arab

the new generation of United Arab

the new generation of United Arab Emirates and when I see a generation of

Emirates and when I see a generation of

Emirates and when I see a generation of United Arab Emirates I mean both he

United Arab Emirates I mean both he

United Arab Emirates I mean both he morality and nany Marathi people who is

morality and nany Marathi people who is

morality and nany Marathi people who is helping us to develop our country we

helping us to develop our country we

helping us to develop our country we care about their children and I hope

care about their children and I hope

care about their children and I hope most of you will know if not I would

most of you will know if not I would

most of you will know if not I would like to share with you another fact

like to share with you another fact

like to share with you another fact which my government is doing it has a

which my government is doing it has a

which my government is doing it has a very simple way to thank all of you for

very simple way to thank all of you for

very simple way to thank all of you for what you are doing in this man I don’t

what you are doing in this man I don’t

what you are doing in this man I don’t know if you know or not

know if you know or not

know if you know or not that anybody who is born in the land of

that anybody who is born in the land of

that anybody who is born in the land of United Arab Emirates they would be

United Arab Emirates they would be

United Arab Emirates they would be provided screening for five common

provided screening for five common

provided screening for five common genetic disorder which will help your

genetic disorder which will help your

genetic disorder which will help your children if we diagnose them early

children if we diagnose them early

children if we diagnose them early enough to have a healthier life and you

enough to have a healthier life and you

enough to have a healthier life and you are not paying for that additional to

are not paying for that additional to

are not paying for that additional to that any child will be enrolled in great

that any child will be enrolled in great

that any child will be enrolled in great one in United Arab Emirates they will be

one in United Arab Emirates they will be

one in United Arab Emirates they will be screened for one of the most common

screened for one of the most common

screened for one of the most common genetic disorder which might impair the

genetic disorder which might impair the

genetic disorder which might impair the curve indication and performance of the

curve indication and performance of the

curve indication and performance of the boy in particular additional to that and

boy in particular additional to that and

boy in particular additional to that and in college student who will be admitted

in college student who will be admitted

in college student who will be admitted in any university United Arab Emirates

in any university United Arab Emirates

in any university United Arab Emirates they will be screened for three common

they will be screened for three common

they will be screened for three common genetic disorder unless they would not

genetic disorder unless they would not

genetic disorder unless they would not have admission that’s all done for all

have admission that’s all done for all

have admission that’s all done for all of your children and generation and

of your children and generation and

of your children and generation and simply because of the systems and

simply because of the systems and

simply because of the systems and because of these laws which are in place

because of these laws which are in place

because of these laws which are in place we look forward by

we look forward by

we look forward by thousand 23 to have a new newborn

thousand 23 to have a new newborn

thousand 23 to have a new newborn generation of United Arab Emirates with

generation of United Arab Emirates with

generation of United Arab Emirates with a better quality of gene and immediately

a better quality of gene and immediately

a better quality of gene and immediately I was given another chance as a first in

I was given another chance as a first in

I was given another chance as a first in Marathi woman at that time I was only 27

Marathi woman at that time I was only 27

Marathi woman at that time I was only 27 years old where I became the first

years old where I became the first

years old where I became the first American woman to take the post of

American woman to take the post of

American woman to take the post of undersecretary for public health and

undersecretary for public health and

undersecretary for public health and primary health care and while I was the

primary health care and while I was the

primary health care and while I was the single woman among a very senior in

single woman among a very senior in

single woman among a very senior in Marathi gentleman who really were the

Marathi gentleman who really were the

Marathi gentleman who really were the great help for me to progress well and

great help for me to progress well and

great help for me to progress well and to be able to give back to this lovely

to be able to give back to this lovely

to be able to give back to this lovely country

allow me to share with you some of my

allow me to share with you some of my strengths which I believe it’s one of

strengths which I believe it’s one of

strengths which I believe it’s one of the strengths which any one of you can

the strengths which any one of you can

the strengths which any one of you can acquired and admitted to his life during

acquired and admitted to his life during

acquired and admitted to his life during his journey throughout a career

his journey throughout a career

his journey throughout a career development or a family in any way of

development or a family in any way of

development or a family in any way of your life development so it goes back

your life development so it goes back

your life development so it goes back the way I see myself even when I am in a

the way I see myself even when I am in a

the way I see myself even when I am in a stage I don’t see myself a woman or a

stage I don’t see myself a woman or a

stage I don’t see myself a woman or a thrifty lady do you agree yes with a

thrifty lady do you agree yes with a

thrifty lady do you agree yes with a bright cutter I always imagined myself

bright cutter I always imagined myself

bright cutter I always imagined myself as a drop of water and I mean that

as a drop of water and I mean that

as a drop of water and I mean that literally

literally

literally drop water has a huge characteristic

drop water has a huge characteristic

drop water has a huge characteristic which makes it really the most essential

which makes it really the most essential

which makes it really the most essential particle in the slide and this planet

particle in the slide and this planet

particle in the slide and this planet for any human life any life to be

for any human life any life to be

for any human life any life to be existing as a drop of water I tried to

existing as a drop of water I tried to

existing as a drop of water I tried to make myself transparent enough for the

make myself transparent enough for the

make myself transparent enough for the person who was in front of me and that

person who was in front of me and that

person who was in front of me and that transparency depend on the level of the

transparency depend on the level of the

transparency depend on the level of the communication or the subject which we

communication or the subject which we

communication or the subject which we are talking about and at the same time

are talking about and at the same time

are talking about and at the same time if I am working within a team I’ll make

if I am working within a team I’ll make

if I am working within a team I’ll make sure that I am flexible enough to be

sure that I am flexible enough to be

sure that I am flexible enough to be around the team regardless of their

around the team regardless of their

around the team regardless of their personality regardless of their approach

personality regardless of their approach

personality regardless of their approach but at least to be flexible enough to be

but at least to be flexible enough to be

but at least to be flexible enough to be surrounded with those team or I surround

surrounded with those team or I surround

surrounded with those team or I surround myself with him

myself with him

myself with him and at the same time if we go back to a

and at the same time if we go back to a

and at the same time if we go back to a drop of water I always remember that

drop of water I always remember that

drop of water I always remember that even if I’ll fall down in any step of my

even if I’ll fall down in any step of my

even if I’ll fall down in any step of my life like a drop of water one day it

life like a drop of water one day it

life like a drop of water one day it will evaporate and go back to the sky

will evaporate and go back to the sky

will evaporate and go back to the sky and have a lovely cloud somewhere where

and have a lovely cloud somewhere where

and have a lovely cloud somewhere where I’ll make sure I start something else

I’ll make sure I start something else

I’ll make sure I start something else somewhere in another place again will if

somewhere in another place again will if

somewhere in another place again will if you go back to a drop of water drop of

you go back to a drop of water drop of

you go back to a drop of water drop of water as you know and we here earlier

water as you know and we here earlier

water as you know and we here earlier about the vibe

about the vibe

about the vibe about the energy and I’m sure most of

about the energy and I’m sure most of

about the energy and I’m sure most of your understand and value how water is

your understand and value how water is

your understand and value how water is really strong and for any vibration of

really strong and for any vibration of

really strong and for any vibration of any energy month you need the water to

any energy month you need the water to

any energy month you need the water to maintain the energy as sustainable

maintain the energy as sustainable

maintain the energy as sustainable source of empowering any particular

source of empowering any particular

source of empowering any particular machine for a human being of even a

machine for a human being of even a

machine for a human being of even a structure which is existing in this

structure which is existing in this

structure which is existing in this planet as a drop of hold her I make sure

planet as a drop of hold her I make sure

planet as a drop of hold her I make sure that when I got married before by the

that when I got married before by the

that when I got married before by the way I’m so lucky again to be to be

way I’m so lucky again to be to be

way I’m so lucky again to be to be surrounded by smart gentlemen I mean

surrounded by smart gentlemen I mean

surrounded by smart gentlemen I mean gentlemen not a male as you know there

gentlemen not a male as you know there

gentlemen not a male as you know there is a male mosquito and a male donkey and

is a male mosquito and a male donkey and

is a male mosquito and a male donkey and a male human being and there is a lot of

a male human being and there is a lot of

a male human being and there is a lot of human being who are in a shape of a male

human being who are in a shape of a male

human being who are in a shape of a male but not necessarily to be a gentleman

but not necessarily to be a gentleman

but not necessarily to be a gentleman and we and me I’m lucky enough to be

and we and me I’m lucky enough to be

and we and me I’m lucky enough to be surrounded with a ring and gentlemen

surrounded with a ring and gentlemen

surrounded with a ring and gentlemen starting from my leader from my father

starting from my leader from my father

starting from my leader from my father and from my health and living for my

and from my health and living for my

and from my health and living for my husband I was lucky enough to have him

husband I was lucky enough to have him

husband I was lucky enough to have him as my partner and probably say my

as my partner and probably say my

as my partner and probably say my husband is number 27 of my proposal

husband is number 27 of my proposal

husband is number 27 of my proposal fiance don’t people who plan came

fiance don’t people who plan came

fiance don’t people who plan came forward to propose for me and I’ll tell

forward to propose for me and I’ll tell

forward to propose for me and I’ll tell you he takes all the credit for all the

you he takes all the credit for all the

you he takes all the credit for all the 26 people who came earlier simply

26 people who came earlier simply

26 people who came earlier simply because they had to condition for

because they had to condition for

because they had to condition for whoever is planning to get married with

whoever is planning to get married with

whoever is planning to get married with me and to be latina is he need to write

me and to be latina is he need to write

me and to be latina is he need to write in the marriage

in the marriage

in the marriage he needs to accept to write in the

he needs to accept to write in the

he needs to accept to write in the marriage contract that he is not allowed

marriage contract that he is not allowed

marriage contract that he is not allowed to stop me from continuing my study and

to stop me from continuing my study and

to stop me from continuing my study and he’s not allowed to stop me from

he’s not allowed to stop me from

he’s not allowed to stop me from continuing my career

continuing my career

continuing my career imagine all the 26 male they refuse to

imagine all the 26 male they refuse to

imagine all the 26 male they refuse to do that as a documentation but they

do that as a documentation but they

do that as a documentation but they would keep it as a promise and as you

would keep it as a promise and as you

would keep it as a promise and as you know we have too many male who saved the

know we have too many male who saved the

know we have too many male who saved the promise and they never keep it and this

promise and they never keep it and this

promise and they never keep it and this gentleman who happen to be who happened

gentleman who happen to be who happened

gentleman who happen to be who happened to be my lovely husband his name is

to be my lovely husband his name is

to be my lovely husband his name is Karim and he is a great guy he is the

Karim and he is a great guy he is the

Karim and he is a great guy he is the best first the best gentleman after my

best first the best gentleman after my

best first the best gentleman after my father and it was lucky enough to get

father and it was lucky enough to get

father and it was lucky enough to get him on board

him on board

him on board so he’s the one who really helped me to

so he’s the one who really helped me to

so he’s the one who really helped me to believe in male and to respect a male

believe in male and to respect a male

believe in male and to respect a male human being even if he is not a

human being even if he is not a

human being even if he is not a gentleman so that goes back to the shape

gentleman so that goes back to the shape

gentleman so that goes back to the shape and Rockwater when Ellie was still in my

and Rockwater when Ellie was still in my

and Rockwater when Ellie was still in my parents house the whole approach was

parents house the whole approach was

parents house the whole approach was different

different

different I cannot say right and wrong but when I

I cannot say right and wrong but when I

I cannot say right and wrong but when I got married to this lovely guy the real

got married to this lovely guy the real

got married to this lovely guy the real gentleman

gentleman

gentleman I had to reshape myself it was not easy

I had to reshape myself it was not easy

I had to reshape myself it was not easy but always imagining myself as a drop of

but always imagining myself as a drop of

but always imagining myself as a drop of water I used to take over this energy by

water I used to take over this energy by

water I used to take over this energy by imagining the drop of water in any

imagining the drop of water in any

imagining the drop of water in any situation I’ve been in and that helped

situation I’ve been in and that helped

situation I’ve been in and that helped me a lot to be flexible enough to take

me a lot to be flexible enough to take

me a lot to be flexible enough to take the new shape of the environment which

the new shape of the environment which

the new shape of the environment which I’m living in and with his support I was

I’m living in and with his support I was

I’m living in and with his support I was able to maintain my transparency as well

able to maintain my transparency as well

able to maintain my transparency as well as to keep my Terrace characteristic as

as to keep my Terrace characteristic as

as to keep my Terrace characteristic as being a water but

being a water but

being a water but different different shape of a glass or

different different shape of a glass or

different different shape of a glass or a container so as a woman I’m finished

a container so as a woman I’m finished

a container so as a woman I’m finished as a woman

as a woman

as a woman please respect and believe in yourself

please respect and believe in yourself

please respect and believe in yourself and always imagine yourself as a drop of

and always imagine yourself as a drop of

and always imagine yourself as a drop of water thank you very much

water thank you very much

water thank you very much [Applause]

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