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Good afternoon everyone
Well first I have to make a reservation
the presenter before the previous video
has said
Then talk to Michael Angel Jenner and what
you are going to have a great time I said wait
paper wrong because I do not
I pretend we have a good time what
I intend to reflect between
all of us to think that we dream that we
imagine and that we get excited and that
is what I’m going to try to do now in
these minutes with the company also from
a person that I am going to present now I
I’ve been traveling the world for fifteen years
with my cameras or fifteen years has
travel three quarters of the world
I have seen and the known many stories
and has told some of them also of
people who have shown me that
origin does not have to determine the
future that was stet nobody of us
the ejido where born as born in what
terms
in what socio-economic social situation
politics and most of us is
true that we are caught by those
circumstances throughout
our life and we are conditioned and no longer
we know how to escape, but as I said
in all these trips I have seen so many and
so many people who had escaped
that I began to reflect to understand
to try to understand what will be
those variables and they all had
all absolutely all a denominator
there is someone in the room right now
I could say that he does not feel afraid
you are welcome
if someone says they feel they do not have
afraid of anything not raise your hand
is afraid of nothing because you have to
take advantage of it to teach us all
but it is indeed the exception
we are all afraid we are all afraid
they have instilled us since we were little
sometimes with sense but many times without
he
so we ‘re growing up with a lot of
fears but here we are afraid because
first we fear our own fear
We are afraid to feel afraid of anyone
like to feel afraid
except those four that say that the
horror movies
if you are going to see them but it’s really
lie because they know it’s a movie
it’s very scary
at that time but then everything is
normal we are afraid our way to
fulfill our dreams so that our
origin does not determine our destiny
We are afraid of not being determined
not being able to not believe enough
ourselves to say I’m going to
be able to get to that place that
I mean an uncle of mine who died
two years since we were children to my
cousins and he told us
look what a man does what another man does
and he was right suddenly there is someone who
is able to do a task to whatever
in a week and maybe we
we need a month or six months or a year
but the reality is that most of
the things that one proposes is capable of
do them and as my mother says, says son
nobody will never ask you how much
time it takes to do something or how much
effort how much sacrifice how many hours
you had to put people in there
matter this really matters to you if you
you have achieved or not therefore as
What’s really good is that you go
on the road where you want to say
fight is why he wants
hear
do it, we are very afraid of not having that
determination
we are afraid of rejection
many of us are afraid of rejection but the
question we should ask ourselves is what
rejected we are afraid
of course we will not feel the
people who love us because if people
who love us reject us who loves us
therefore it is good to learn that
sooner
we can think that we have a friend and
before a specific situation has
rejected but it’s not true
a friend can not refuse you is that
was your friend how good we know
but also says schalke to the rejection of
the society of the rest of the people
We live in a world in which all
people think of us in a better way
or worse intentional
everyone gives us advice all the
world criticizes us all the world thinks of
our life but you know how much should
really care about that you know how much
does that matter to all the people who
are able to make their origin
do not determine your destiny anything and the
reflection that we should do is the
next if we were to die
tomorrow we all die tomorrow
you know what they would do tomorrow
all those people who have allowed themselves
to think about our life that they have
allowed to give us advice that has been
allowed to judge us
you know what had happened tomorrow to continue
with his life so calm therefore
I always tell the whole world
if I’m going to die tomorrow and it’s not
willing to bury me with you not
dare to say about my life do not you
dare to judge me
do not give me advice that I do not ask
that’s exactly why we say to the
people who reject if we
we die does not care
it does not make sense we are afraid of
failure
that’s why we do not undertake many tasks
in our life but it turns out that it says is
What is failure? Failure is not having
managed to get to the place where he wants
to arrive not to have had that
achieve this achievement that you intended
Well, the reality is that not all
people who have tried to do things
in life although they have not got them
they do not feel any sense of failure
because the truth is that failure and
real feeling of failure is had
when you try and all the
people who are capable of changing their
origins and that does not determine your destiny
have been able to overcome that fear of
failure
we are afraid of not having the commitment
enough with what we have
said that we want to do with that
we want to get it but fix it I’m going to
tell how this works
the normal sequence that we all think
because they have told us this is that
first the desire of any
thing and then the will appears is
say I want to buy a new car
I want to buy a new car and then
I decide what I’m going to do everything I need to do
I’m going to work on weekends
bojan
dining out to save money
to buy that car
this is the logical model we have been told
that this is so but it is a lie
the reality is that the volitional act
will is prior to desire
it means that by the time we
we want something deeply it ‘s because
intimately we have already committed
ourselves do everything
necessary to achieve it
look how is the paradigm change
this means that when we have a
deep desire
let’s not stop trying to fulfill it because
is going to meet there is already a commitment
internal inside of us to do everything
necessary
and this is so it is a very powerful weapon and
all the people who are capable of
make its origin does not determine its
future they know it and therefore what
they run we are afraid
obviously surrender on the way to
we are all very embarrassed not only
for us it’s not what they think
others but before we explained that
you care about the fear of rejection of
rejection of who to surrender to whom
before ourselves
I can try I would love to do a
triathlon I have my radio my knee
damaged I know I can not do it but
I was listening to third mate and
it has bitten me it has bitten it gave then hey
I will try and I will stay for the
I do not give anything, I gave up, I did not arrive
as far as I could go to where
could my strength because sometimes not
we have the ability to control everything
but I have not given up and then we have
a huge fear to trust but it turns out
which is an irrational fear because look
we started by trusting politicians
so if we trust the
politicians from there since we have
afraid to trust but we trust in the
bus driver when we get on
we trust the pilot of the plane
when we get on we trust in our
heart that does not stop beating but
that I realize that most of
we trust those things
that we can not control and over which
we can not make decisions
I have no choice but to trust
that my heart keeps beating because no
I can do nothing to do it or not
do it so the jump that the
people who are capable of changing their
destiny to change the destiny that your
origin is had predetermined is that
they are people who trust they have given the
jump and they have realized that
we trust in so many things because we do not
there is no other choice than why not trust
in ourselves because he does not trust
The magic of life
why not trust in our heart and
they go through the jungle
once a guide and a girl in a
expedition and they had already entered eight
hours
I was on that expedition in India and
Suddenly she realized that
we were very far from civilization and
he asked the guide he said hey if now
I’m bitten by a snake
what would you do
the question is powerful let’s see what
the guide says no and the day told him what
next told me look at all the
problems or the whole solution to the
problems and all the answers to all
the questions we have loved
humans are contained in space
what if we stretch the arm and turn
about ourselves 360 degrees in this
space
are all the answers and he said
the bigger the problem the
space is getting shorter and if the problem
is very serious really told him the
solution is here touching the heart
all the people who are capable of
leave that destiny that they had
predetermined have done one thing that is
put the heart and trust this I what
I call being able to jump fear
because life with capital letters
is really on the other side of fear
to this one on this side is survival
is the one that we work to eat
is that we do everyday things
but I do not know if this has to do with
what one really feels with what
really one dreams and the reality is that
the only obligation we have for
ourselves humans because
We have obligations with everyone
with our parents with our family
with coworkers with the
friends with society with montoro with
we all have obligations but with
we only have one that is
pursue our dreams is the only
obligation that we have and of course it is
normal that someone think and I asked
but maybe chasing dreams is going to
give happiness
the answer is very clear of course
that can not give you the un
what I am sure is that
chasing them will give you unhappiness
it does not matter if we get it or if
we get it or not it does not matter if we
we were on the way we have been
able to jump to the other side of fear
and I ‘m going to introduce you to a person who
represents all this that I just
explain now but before I want that
Let’s do a little exercise during
ten seconds to try to understand the
dimension of this person that I
I will present now and I would like
we cover our eyes with hands
this position with the eyes covered
we will also be silent 10
seconds
and
you can open your eyes
imagine that these ten seconds that
we just lived was simple for
always
we do not see and we do not hear and that also
we have seen and we have never heard
and in that situation
this person is able to have won
the fear of fear of stopping having
afraid of whether you are going to have determination or
that he does not care about the rejection of him
It does not matter if you commit to
pursue your dreams of knowing that you are going to
fight until your last strength not
give up and also trust
I’m shooting the movie of life
of this person and we are going to put a video
two minutes for you to see the
world to me is like a deep ocean
this endless silence the way I am in
the way but it’s the address is my
place in the world
[Music]
I am blind and deaf
I can not talk and I do not have the fato but
if I want to have a voice
[Music]
I will always need hands to take me
who will love me for sergio was 1984
there was a lot of hunger in ethiopia
many children without future
the nuns were overflowing and there would be
been of me if she had not appeared
and now mom been to herself sometimes in
I remember spots of light but I lose them
it can not get us any further
I know it is there someday I would go back to
loop
I have learned how small we are
they are also fragile people
that they can see and hear or that sometimes
difficulties my problems not those that
bayo for being like it was
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which is the same
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the woman sex I would like to experience it
but I’m afraid
life is hard for everyone but also
it can be an exciting journey of each
one of us depends
I bet for living genete time
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[Music]
Jeannette was born in Ethiopia 37 years ago
in a very nomadic pastoralist family
poor decided their biological parents
with four more brothers who could not
take care of her
miriam heard before and immersion to the
story and they realized that if you
they were with her her daughter was going to die
unfailingly so they did 400
kilometers to get here and you know
it goes from the town where they lived and
after trying to see if there was
solution if you could retrieve the view or
hearing when they said no to the
hospital father the father understood that
he could not go home with her and she
delivered at an orphanage of the mother
Teresa of Calcutta at that time in
ethiopia there was a terrifying famine
they died millions of people died
that one at that time she
miraculously the nuns came out alive
The only thing they could do was give him a
plate of food to the children who were
there when I had supported him to do
nothing else were overflowing and when
everything seemed lost
the weaker girl the weaker girl
in worse health
appears a Spanish woman who had gone
to visit her daughter to addis abeba arrived
to this orphanage by chance or because
he also did not want to accept that his origin
and to determine your destiny already
you will understand when you see the movie
there he met bennett he was shocked and what
it’s going to be a trip in ethiopia of two
weeks became three years
that woman Carmen corcuera mom
adoptive de benet no longer left and
when he did it he went back to spain what
did with her adopted and rené arrived with
nine years here without any kind of
intellectual stimulation because they could not
to do it the nuns nobody knew how
communicate with her in africa they did not have
knowledge for it and she started
here an academic development that made
that at 21 years old
you entered the institute when you started
study with 11 and that 45 years ago
It will be licensed and has become the
first deaf blind man of birth
all europe in getting a title
academic
If I had not been able, as explained
before overcoming all those fears to
all those things that we have gone
analyzing then she would not be here today
being what it is
I would like tamara to tell aa
Bennett tell us how he has done
how did he go to go jumping to go
overcoming all the fears that he has gone
having throughout his life
at the beginning seer mind many
situations I was afraid for example to
the time of the university did not want
because I was scared that situation is going to
be closed blind and I felt that I did not have
that ability and I also knew that I was going to
be hard a hard situation for me
then find support my mother and with
she was able to overcome that fear and access
the university and I got get the
Title
in addition to the confiscation clear force then
also for example the fear of feeling
fear of whether or not it was going to be integrated
with the rest of the classmates because
I knew that no one was going to know at one time
and they could not communicate with me
then that’s where the idea came from
of count count of using the tablet of
communication to communicate with me
partner also the figure of the
mediator of the interpreter mediator
I had her in high school too
then that gives me more peace of mind and
he could win he lived in that sense and little
little already joined to communicate with
my partner did not need me
Half an hour came the time of the
exams for example from that of the
selectivity for example also gives me
very much fear is very nervous but
I finally got a good grade
and finally access the university as
I wanted
at its time in 12 it is true that it has
a lot of fear during my life but thank you
to my mother who supported me in that
felt and gave me a lot of tranquility
because I know that I am a person
deafblind and I have many more
difficulties and once and she
died then I looked for that kind of
support in other institutions not in
different institutions have gone
helping throughout my academic life
in my normal life and that has been what
It has also helped me that they are afraid
disappear that set and transform into
the life struggle to be able to go
getting everything what what I
I propose how is a day in your life
normal
I am currently living here in
seville independently
together with my dog also to explain them
what the dog and doing makes me a little
Support also in nearby locations
because before I did not have the clear dog
then he has been very calm is
ok but I was not afraid I was
used to living alone because already in
madrid I had that experience when I passed away
my mother then it is also true that
I have received different technical support
for for my independence and as I already
once my mother died, I stayed
without family and also I had to move to
that seville was kind of supports what
I kept finding here then it has
helped to have a much more life
clear independent I have met the
people new friendships and many times
were oy I think every time we go
more
in that sense every time we’re
meeting people
then also with the figure of the
personal assistant
he also gives me another kind of
tranquility at the time of moving
because it is true that in locations
close as I said before I can
move pretty well on my own and yes but
Obviously clear if I can have the
option to communicate with that
person I feel much calmer the
I know the area near my house
so in that sense I’m calm
because I can move easily with
tranquility but I think that out of that
of that scope field
I find myself a little more with more
difficulty but good I think I’m going to
I have something of it
she lives in madrid and suddenly she
his mother dies the woman he adopted
he gets work and he decides that he is coming
to sevilla being deafblind that gives
just leaves everything around the fear that
would any of us do when
they tell us that we have to change
city that we have that she lives alone
who does not see does not hear and has no smell
therefore it almost does not like when
I did the first time in the movie
cook frying iron as a person
completely normal and in the course
of the movie giving surprises that we’re going
incorporating that we have been incorporating
and one of them was the dog
clear one sees a blind deaf dog and
think it is a guide dog no no no
she has adopted a dog that they were going to
sacrifice a kennel
the dog is a guide dog a blind deaf
but I can not tell you today then
is that I have a friend a kennel is
a conversation that will sacrifice a
dog says I’m going or I stay and go out
walk with the dog and she takes out the dog
to walk or the important cider detailed
true that is not that it is a guide dog not
is that she does these things then
For example, we take the
surprise that goes to the Sahara the
refugee camps to give courses to
teachers who work with people
deafblind to educate them about how
he has to work with children who are deafblind
and does not say no to anything when you see in
the film all that we have done
do comprises six up to what point e
she is jumping the fears but to be fixed
It says no I’m afraid
obviously the same as any of
us but nevertheless the goes
jumping one behind another one behind
of another one after another that is the most
ask him what is the most important thing for
she in life
the most important thing to you in your life that
is the most important thing is to feel happy and
feel calm, feel good
having change in my present life and I
it felt good to feel calm that gives
fear now gave him the future
I ‘m not afraid, I do not think I do not have
the experience of having felt fear in
another occasion then I feel
quiet in that sense I have people to
around me
I’m not alone I know certain
solutions for certain problems
that may arise in 12 finds
Quiet to tell us please say
that to finish so they do not quarrel
what would be the message that she
would like to leave all attendees
who are here today this afternoon
[Music]
I want that with the movie that follows
participating with Miguel Lage and see the
evolution that the person may have
deafblind with this movie that
He also reported that society knows
what the deafblindness that neither example
serve as an example to follow in that
sense that the federal form is known
to this disability and that the
society open your eyes in that sense it
realize that deafblind can
do everything independently
we have capacity and we can be equal
deaths that any other person
that the most important thing for me is
disclose what society knows what
which it is what brings deafblindness
that are surprised to know you of
know what this disability entails
and that they also know that we are capable
to do anything
during daily life like any
another person and what would his advice be
the people to any of us
that we have so many fears but that
we have no disability that looks
what would be the message
[Music]
regardless of whether there is
disability or not fear should leave it
outside of leaving it out should prioritize
feel good about you from here there are things
that it is worthwhile for me to benefit and that
are you in that sense first thing
that you are aware that I am capable
of doing anything with your with
disability or without it so
exactly like any other
person will not feel less for seeing
less able to do anything
but on the contrary encourage our
capacity that surely it has it then
tell him to say goodbye as he wants you
love to be here that many
thank you for listening not delighted
meet all the people I met in
that many thanks to life for others
Thank you
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me
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