life breeding mallows has gone on a trip
go to the other neighborhood until heard
finish in the pine box
how many laps we give to say a
single word truth the its the
we avoid saying in ways
indecipherable everything not to say death
and I say it because I was working on
an insurer in travel assistance
and in one of the calls a woman does not
I realized that I was processing a
repatriation by death until the
after ten minutes and when the
intuitive
I asked him to clarify it and he told me
it has happened not like we sometimes say
death or we say the word three times
as it reaches us before
but you know not everywhere
death is dressed in black or is a
taboo when traveling to india with the
Hinduism speak of death from
small because what they do in rise
will impact on his reincarnation and that
day when the day of his death arrives
everyone wears colorful flowers and
it smells like incense and that kind of like
It came out a bit because I think
when I have to go to the funeral home not so
cold and I have that broken person of plant
my broken pain and I do not know what
tell you at that time I do not know if it has
past what are you looking for phrases
reassuring how he had a life
happy or at least you did not suffer you do not have
to cheer you up who would not like to see you
well or and now very old and the other
person should be thinking if but
even if my mother had died with 200
years would still be my mother not and the
pain was still indescribable but
Of course, what do I do if I do not say that?
I also asked and with my
training in social education and with
selling I realized that really not
say nothing
best option to respect silence give
the hand a hug offer a handkerchief
he has simply done it
just being is what really
No, but above all, what I
I dedicate professionally is to accompany
the end of life because many times
this taboo that I’m talking about does not
let’s do that does not leave us aside
say goodbye and on the other hand
reconcile
for example my grandmother and my mother two
because I’ve been living with my whole life
she was very sick and when I was
admitted the doctors told us hours
then they told us three days later we
they said he will not leave the hospital
fortunately he recovered and now
it’s fine but at that time we had
to do an exercise and this exercise
It was to say goodbye because we also
they gave very little time then in that
clear moment
You think, nobody has taught me anyone
has educated me to manage a moment
well and disguised why do you think that
without speaking it will be protecting the other
and the other person who is in the end
of the life
he does not want to talk about it either, for not doing
suffer but my grandmother who is very smart and
He knows that I had been undertaking
a project to accompany through
artistic expression put me homework
I guess you want to know what they are
He said queues did not tell me
Nicolae told me that what do you do
mount photos and what did you do to me once
this one and he did not tell me he did not tell me one to
each person that is specified
special for her
clear as my grandmother right now
not at the same time medicine advances a lot and
with it the end of life also
lengthens sometimes painful conditions
and not only because of the physical pain but
also mostly because of the pain
emotional
then needs arise
to feel heard understood from
express feelings or like my grandmother
to leave a legacy because with the collage
what she wanted to do
was to tell those special people
that he loved them and that he did not want
they will forget about it because this was one of
the reasons for me to dedicate myself to
accompany the end of life with the
artistic expression because the
artistic expression is a great
tool because you do not need to know
many techniques or be a great artist
only with one activity and ones
basic materials
you can do giant things I want
talk about everything about the first patient
that I had in the pilot test of
terrassa hospital because the first
patient as that makes a lot and good
was Antonio was 90 years old
at that time and he was recovering
of a very hard fall and the first day
that I entered the room although I
I found lying on the bed and he said
‘I am very lazy and I have no desire to
do anything just explained to me everything
that had been what before
had done and like now I do not
it was worth it then we chose a
cardboard
he chose the color because you are
small decisions are very important
to give autonomy at that time and in
that card we made a line
chronological of the songs that had
marked in your life then we carry
listening to the songs
he was telling me the memories that he
they arose from those songs were coming out
nice stories sad stories
but all are part of the
next session
I recommended that you keep thinking about
songs and it was very beautiful because when
I got to the next one
he had finished the line
chronological together with his son
they had been creating beautiful memories
and had been enjoying the present
that Antonio had not done
that and less in a hospital than sometimes
it’s more delicate not for the next
session
Antonio invented a song and yola
transcribed and this song
we also recorded it and not only this one
but we recorded all the songs of his
life in chronological order and also the
that he composed in a cd lapuerta
we left empty because he decided that
she wanted her granddaughters to paint her
then the last day when I
I was
when the elevator started listening to
someone singing and it was antonio for the
hallway with the taca taca singing the
song and of course that for me was a lot
more success than any question
there was satisfaction that I could spend
after the sessions with this
this is just an example me with this what
What I want to say is that sometimes
very little is needed to give a little while
nice when really the
possibilities and skills and
capabilities at that time allow you
for example, the simple act of thinking
make the person think in a moment
happy and write a poem of that do
a drawing of that is to paint over that or
Write your name in its color
favorite and that from each letter take one
an adjective if it can be positive because
sometimes not like it costs a little more
or for example make a mandala paint it
of bright colors and give it to
someone
these are also some examples
and sometimes it’s not like a bit of fear
the fact that he has not painted
I have not written for a long time, I do not know if
I will do well what matters
it’s really the process, not him
the end not me with would be super
satisfied with that one of you who
you are here today I left here and
out running to be with his mother
grandfather father grandma aunt and will listen
a song from his youth and he will create a
I remember pretty and if in the future
we can order at the hospital
support through
artistic expression
then this talk would have been valid
very much worth it because really what
means that with that taboo of the
death that spoke to you is not so much for the
fact of dying but by how to die and
also for those who accompany us
and above all that we do not waste everything
what we can do when that
person is still with us and not that
we regret everything we have not
done not then that we regret
what we have been able to do
thank you very much the
me
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