Hello good afternoon
I am ruth, I am 66 years old
I’m married to Antonio, he should be
I have five children and actually I am
a robot but they gave me the routine
deposited the name of my mom who
it had an important cost because it touched me
to me
Billy as if it were an extension of
her but not only they put me on
my mom’s name they put a
camperita a camperita that has a
very special plot and a framework that
is formed by beliefs by mandates
loyalties by norms and customs
secrets by memories and they did not put me
so camps and rita put me a
camperita rosita because the girls we
they put little pink bells that also
has its own entrance to the americas
no appointment
we have to be more obedient goodies
responsible female scholars and
fundamentally the bell baby
rosita
we have to be submissive and quiet
so I could never get it out
because without it he took out he stopped being
wanted or accepted but was a babe and
this camperita was very heavy
It was very comfortable for a baby and
too much for a babe
however, I do not have the right powder
take it out and that’s how it grew and
called the point that I have the little bell
Rosita and I have a girl does not turn me on
upset
and that I was trying to accommodate myself but
I was uncomfortable
then one day almost without realizing
later realizing to me to take the
ive I took it out I put it back because
it felt guilt is not finished and
vélez returned to take out and I turned to
put until suddenly I was giving
account and every time I take it out and go
recovering my voice recovered my essence
my voice my my word and it was so joyful
discover that I had a voice of my own
that almost without realizing
and maybe as a decision
I decided to take out the campaign but it’s
well having the bag of my voice and of
be about to get rid of this camperita
that when it was cold I did not wrap up and
when it’s hot I suffocated no longer
I was
he has to continue being there with
everything that was on top then almost
without noticing
and maybe also as you say
I decided that I did not love her and I started
destejer sometimes without realizing
he wove energy in other ways
reflective and yogi bear unraveling
beliefs and prejudices loyalties norms
sometimes that of weaving with anger with
a lot of anger guards you because I gave
mind that I do not love her I do not need her
and it did not surprise him and it was very important
it was not a great relief machine of joy
to recover the voice but suddenly
I started in the cold then almost without
realize and also as a
decision
I started to knit my own coat with a
new story with the colors that I
I want or the texture that I want
with the point that I choose I was
deciding where they were going to make from
from now my belief my values and my
guidelines that had dismantled had
to contribute and in bz the book ‘the daughter
because I am very diverse
it did not bother me I had all the diversity
that I want for my life but this does not
It was also enough because I left
realize that this was not really
something that happened to me only
is pink camperita this stereotype of
woman that universally has to be
quiet submissive and without a word in the root
of so much social violence and in the streak
and the anchor of the macho violence that
not know us
Cordoba how much damage and how much pain and
how sometimes causes death before the
seriousness of this when becoming aware of
the seriousness of this and then some
learning many experiences
I promised myself to my daughters to
my children and in memory of albanian lennon
that nacho lived corseted in color
rose that everything that was in my
scope to be able to reverse this was
available
so 25 years ago 26 melted what
today is association association voice
‘voices a time and a place for
circulate the word for the purpose of
eradicate violence in relationships
it is a time and a space and a sharing
with classmates
experiential learning knowledge
commitment and militancy in pursuit of
eradicate violence in relationships
and that all of us can live in a
world of law
in this vox association there is a space
privileged that that group of women
the group of women for us is a
treasure is a time and a place where
the women who are
survivors of violent situations
and they arrive very sad they do not arrive without
voice without finding a word or a
space to show pain loneliness
the isolation the lack of response
times of justice before theirs and a
privileged space where the word
circulates not only because of the pain
being a speaker of this jerí
prejudices are being woven and
preconceptions and they are building a
new model of appropriate woman of
law
I told each volunteer and another
day I remembered a funny anecdote
not because in reality the group and day
very sad not what ideas and experiences
of life very painful some even cruel
it is very painful for us
to the hostages whose mothers are victims
of femicide there is no day that they are very
bad but not everything is done and remember
that one day several years ago 20 as the
mother’s day and usually the
Dilemma Mother ‘s Day Mother In Law
of one’s mother on Friday
so do not go back to matt and dance
Everyone’s soup wants a lot of fun
the mate’s mother avoids women
they danced and laughed joyfully says
daughter
these are from women who suffer as if
it was incompatible thing not the pain with
the joyful one the space with the group
of women from a space where it circulates
the word to eradicate violence and
to build a new life project
and power to mean victory
personal rights that were made
heat of a mate and also to the heat of
a hug
the embrace of art and loudness
loudness is this voice of women
united to protect themselves that is dedicated to
the sexist violence but they know that
this also did not reach a 50 percent
what are you for you
males that when they were born later in
a little blue camper
what did he say good macho had to
being has to be dominant
controllers always have certainties not
be afraid to be strong but nobody counted
aguirre warned that this camperita not
can deprive of deep things can not
deprive of tenderness the fear of power
express tenderness not fear
insecurity is the doubts the loneliness the
lack of love and there is no space with this
campaign invites for the male
I have a word and can express these
shortcomings
you know you are not to blame for this
camperita de macho that you have put on
dominated but they are absolutely
responsible for what they are going to do with this
what kind of men want to be that
masculinity they read build for
access affective relationships
healthier egalitarian
I do not know if they are going to be happy but they do
can have peace
this macho violence this time
they are killing all of you the
males is killing him with punches and
kicks on the court know what he got
saying that he is not killing
one every 18 hours
look how serious they are
harmless excellent camperi terrosita
the stereotypes of male and female
They have made us and we
the invitation is to be able to get rid of
that little campaign and being able to wrap up
that one wants with the values that govern
the point is where do we start with the
starting point to eradicate this
violence
cheetah I understand that many do not like
the expression but there is no other
there is a starting point that may
It was striking that disobedience
there are situations in which
personal ethics does not encourage spawning of
sada and when we talk about disobeying
he automatically spoke of disobedience
and I have that I have a step here what
it implies obedience to become aware
of our obedience is to take
our conscience are our
submissions of our omissions but
the tc plenitudes to prejudices
you are used to consumerism and worse than that
It does not make us aware that we are
below why we who obey
fear always below he understands
bad always for this has to
discern regional obediences of
the irrational because an obedience
absolute
a submissive person makes me a
absolute disobedience at least one
rebel a rebel that does not lead to
nowhere
what is the turning point
they are movements that do not first make doubt
doubt what they tell me what to doubt because
play perfectly everything that I
they say and I have more than two fingers
front and secondly do not lose that
sense like losing common sense
so complicated
apart I would say raise your hand
who ever disobeyed
today decides more on the history of
humanity starts with that
science with the liega our history
begins with disobedience and denies it
9 aware of his past went to
world
disobeying we do not put in a
world of love we can make mistakes and
it’s worth it because we learn and
we grow and disobeying us
we open a path to freedom
very interesting electrical media
disobedience makes me free but if
I do not have freedom, I can not disobey
it’s a continuum
the idea is to think that by disobeying and
disobeying we can be
the builders of our ideal of
life of our life project the
protagonist of our own history
and responsible for it and finally
to be able to live being the best version of
ourselves subjects
[Applause]
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