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La beauté au coeur du corps | Marion Querol | TEDxNarbonne


who among you is beautiful

go ahead and raise your hand among you

is not beautiful raise your hand too

good full kanaker hesitate on the answer

and others that I do not seem to know

whether or not they are

for my part, my vision of beauty has

much evolved and what is certain is

that today I find you all very

beautiful when I was a teenager I dreamed of

look like a star

the spice girls fascinated clothing

colorful and flashy shoes at

Vertiginous heels impeccable hairstyle

excessive makeup glitter rhinestones

the total nothing was left to chance

everything seems so perfect and it’s

exactly what I was looking for months the

perfection good it must be said for that

I was at least as organized as a

pilot who would proceed to the ultimate

verification to the small takeoff

flashback we are projected 14 years

earlier in my teen room it’s 6

hours my alarm clock rings we are at a

Way of the Cross before the beginning of classes

I clearly have more than a minute to lose

if I want to get to college mind

quiet

so that’s gone meteo consult and the

the day before, it’s going to be sunny today

so that means I can finally m ma

all new skirt she is blue she

is beautiful although as I put

with what and panic I see parade

a thousand and one possibilities of outfits in

my head it makes me dizzy good I

tests a big one for fittings

I’m slowly going down the hall

searched but I do not know how many

pairs of shoes that I line up in front

the mirror that I class by style by

color by author by preference

the wardrobe I catch four or five

clothes that just held a

balance we do not really know how

do I have and this is after x go back

in front of the mirror with a word then a

other canton of the heels of the sneakers

here is a beautiful glittery fabric makes me

of the eye is there but I do not believe it

it’s exactly the same block as the one

of my skirt water buckets

good i’ll let you imagine the step

accessories with these color reminders

the hairstyle where each wick is at its

square

makeup is impossible to get out

without makeup

I was going to forget the varnish this expensive

varnish that I remove and that I put back

every morning the exact color and I

say that’s correct about my outfit is not a

half tone lighter to darker 1

otherwise my whole day is

spoiled oula oula

it’s 8:35 am there will have to be there

go the ultimate parade in front of the mirror

not bad

with a few more hours it would have

been perfect but a little it will go for

today

why there is always such

satisfaction

I can not do more than that

here I am that outside

deep down I want to live with a

mirror I have in front of me for

make sure everything is in its place when

nothing goes beyond

and that my showcase is up to this

I want to send but it’s not

possible then I go out my mirror of

pocket and I check

I check I check again and I

recheck why I’m so addicted to

detail why everything is so complicated

in my head

I come to college is she a star

who would go down the red carpet at

Cannes film festival

I advance not to ensure the head up

the smile on your lips

perfect the illusion is there everyone

do not think me on two – extroverted then

that in reality if he knew well I would

lets guess at the moment of

vocational guidance to what

I went go I listen to you and ben

yes the aesthetics

beauty institute change of scenery

but now, bathing in everything

a bunch of crem products perfumes jean

but the showcase idea but no longer the

this time that of others

here customers come to see me

men of women are waiting for my advice

my care my look

for me who used to erect

a wall of make-up between the others and

me but here is obliged to take care of

the other because for the other it is

much more than a simple appointment at

the beautician is his sacred moment

it’s like all of a sudden I

realized the common points between them

and me that all the efforts that I

were doing to beautify my showcase

my image my appearance was

maybe not so light anodyne

no name what makes this

young woman so beautiful so flirtatious happens

at the institute headlong and passes all

the session to ask me how I

find merkel see herself not she is

sublime

the mountain paris and between icy and I

have to spend the whole session at the

reassure and reassure her for small to

little see it open a little bit my

certainties crumbles 1

it’s really the moment of taking

consciousness

and if we were much more than our

body and if we were much more than

windows with different facades

stay on the surface become me

now impossible my flat vision

superficial illusory and meaningless

beauty is like evaporated

my place is no longer in the window but at

heart of the human it’s bubbling in my

head it sparkles in my heart a wind

liberator

new change of scenery

but now in the middle

hospital and more particularly in

oncology background certainly

much more different than before

but strangely I feel very good

well I feel in my place I am

now socio beautician I you

hear from the social what socio

beautician to explain you with

me neither sting nor infusion neither pain nor

treatment or medication

it’s a little parenthesis of

gentle comfort for all those who

cross this tornado which is the

sickness disease

that’s a word that impresses because

two diseases stem from the treatments

treatments stem from the effects

secondary hair loss decides

eyebrows nails that blacken and who

falls dehydration of dull skin

gray and tired and ill-being

pain mutilation impotence loneliness

the list is long and it is all

longer than the illness at this funny

power than to go back to the

surface to bring out and do

scroll through all those who were buried

hitherto the milestones the

accumulated pain the anxieties the

wounds of the past all spring so

how to keep moving forward in this

tornado

how to stay the course

when all of a sudden the estimated the

self-confidence flies away the reflection of

mirror become unbearable

the gaze of others also rape there and

my mission

my reason to act and my passion to wake up

this spark two beauty quotes

deep that I perceive at the bottom of

every person in every look is

as if I were connected this

spark is there and she asks that

to be revived and for that I have several

tools it can be a facial

hand care to overcome the

dehydration treatments a

massage a makeup to learn to

draw eyelashes and eyebrows a sophro

relaxation a foot reflexology

I do not really have a limit on

content of my sessions each person

is different

so I do not care about anything

freeze never scheduled anything to

in advance everything is possible because

everything happens in the moment with for

only goal the best be but before

any body care or relaxing I begin

always my sessions by a simple and

little question how are you

him to fork to yourself

starts at 20 who has this gift to crack

the shells the masks the sails

we could go to touch

the essential heart to this heart when we

spent his whole life to stay afloat

when we know for so long

forgotten we have trouble listening to it

so this is the moment of confidences the

moment to make a point

a self- assessment of his life and if

precisely the disease was this

alarm bell that allows me to

listen to me

this alarm bell that allows you to

wake up to reconnect to oneself

know platon said it 2500 years ago

we can not seek to heal the

body without seeking to heal the soul well

I understood that was hounding

wrapped only the envelope the

body does not make sense

in fact it’s a bit like cinema

you watch a movie and all of a sudden

the picture is getting confused

do you think the solution

is to change the screen

or do we have to go back to the level

the projector to see and understand this

that goes well by grasping that the

body is just this projection

outside of everything that’s happening to

interior

everything becomes different and from that

right now my job my practice my

care takes on a whole new dimension

a more subtle dimension more sensitive

more empathetic

I do not speak to patients anymore but

I address myself I do not touch

more than the body but I touch the

beauty in the heart of the body I hope that

now you will see each other

as I learned to see it and that

you can see yourself as I am

see in your beauty a beauty well

deeper of far more durable than

your only facade

so I rest you the question that

among you feels beautiful

[Applause]

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