
what is missing in our life today what is missing in your life today it is
is missing in your life today it is
is missing in your life today it is actually something called sensitivity
actually something called sensitivity
actually something called sensitivity caution sensitivity caution is the thing
caution sensitivity caution is the thing
caution sensitivity caution is the thing that’s missing in our life today and why
that’s missing in our life today and why
that’s missing in our life today and why the internet does the internet connect
the internet does the internet connect
the internet does the internet connect us or the internet disconnect us and
us or the internet disconnect us and
us or the internet disconnect us and this is what happened when you go around
this is what happened when you go around
this is what happened when you go around you see everyone on your handphone and
you see everyone on your handphone and
you see everyone on your handphone and the next thing you see is where people
the next thing you see is where people
the next thing you see is where people said how come I don’t know when there’s
said how come I don’t know when there’s
said how come I don’t know when there’s a sweet sight or there for someone and
a sweet sight or there for someone and
a sweet sight or there for someone and you said how come I don’t know he or she
you said how come I don’t know he or she
you said how come I don’t know he or she is going through the depression why why
is going through the depression why why
is going through the depression why why did they kill themselves it’s because
did they kill themselves it’s because
did they kill themselves it’s because we’re not sensitive to the people around
we’re not sensitive to the people around
we’re not sensitive to the people around us anymore so internet actually brings
us anymore so internet actually brings
us anymore so internet actually brings the people who are closer to you who are
the people who are closer to you who are
the people who are closer to you who are far away on Facebook my friends who are
far away on Facebook my friends who are
far away on Facebook my friends who are in New York Canada London and we are
in New York Canada London and we are
in New York Canada London and we are connected but yet it brings the people
connected but yet it brings the people
connected but yet it brings the people next to you
next to you
next to you furthest away from you and why is that
furthest away from you and why is that
furthest away from you and why is that so for example as you are sitting here
so for example as you are sitting here
so for example as you are sitting here how many of you would have said hello to
how many of you would have said hello to
how many of you would have said hello to the person on your right and to the
the person on your right and to the
the person on your right and to the person on your left
person on your left
person on your left how many knows your neighbor how many of
how many knows your neighbor how many of
how many knows your neighbor how many of you would have known their name and the
you would have known their name and the
you would have known their name and the depth of who they are and what they’re
depth of who they are and what they’re
depth of who they are and what they’re doing so sensitivity caution for family
doing so sensitivity caution for family
doing so sensitivity caution for family and friends and recently we started some
and friends and recently we started some
and friends and recently we started some restaurants and you know what all the
restaurants and you know what all the
restaurants and you know what all the time I see children on your handphone
time I see children on your handphone
time I see children on your handphone and in our restaurant we see parents
and in our restaurant we see parents
and in our restaurant we see parents putting the iPhone or the technology in
putting the iPhone or the technology in
putting the iPhone or the technology in for iPad in front of the child and the
for iPad in front of the child and the
for iPad in front of the child and the child is eating but the eyes and the
child is eating but the eyes and the
child is eating but the eyes and the mind is actually on a handphone and all
mind is actually on a handphone and all
mind is actually on a handphone and all they do is they open and close your
they do is they open and close your
they do is they open and close your mouth because their helper is feeding
mouth because their helper is feeding
mouth because their helper is feeding them so actually they are there but they
them so actually they are there but they
them so actually they are there but they are not there physically they are there
are not there physically they are there
are not there physically they are there with you but they are not there at the
with you but they are not there at the
with you but they are not there at the same time and last week this is a
same time and last week this is a
same time and last week this is a picture I picked up from my friend’s
picture I picked up from my friend’s
picture I picked up from my friend’s Facebook this is called a cousin’s
Facebook this is called a cousin’s
Facebook this is called a cousin’s gathering
gathering
gathering and everyone’s on handphone so it’s
and everyone’s on handphone so it’s
and everyone’s on handphone so it’s actually it brings us further apart even
actually it brings us further apart even
actually it brings us further apart even though we’re there so it is actually
though we’re there so it is actually
though we’re there so it is actually about quality of time not the quantity
about quality of time not the quantity
about quality of time not the quantity of time so actually if we are with your
of time so actually if we are with your
of time so actually if we are with your family your friends your loved ones put
family your friends your loved ones put
family your friends your loved ones put your phone aside and spend time with
your phone aside and spend time with
your phone aside and spend time with them and that is important to connect
them and that is important to connect
them and that is important to connect with them sq8 workplace since it’s a
with them sq8 workplace since it’s a
with them sq8 workplace since it’s a video caution at workplace so I read
video caution at workplace so I read
video caution at workplace so I read this article about the stewardess on
this article about the stewardess on
this article about the stewardess on flight and she was walking up and down
flight and she was walking up and down
flight and she was walking up and down and she noticed a girl sitting there a
and she noticed a girl sitting there a
and she noticed a girl sitting there a bit messy but have fear in her eyes but
bit messy but have fear in her eyes but
bit messy but have fear in her eyes but she was sitting seated next to a guy who
she was sitting seated next to a guy who
she was sitting seated next to a guy who was well-groomed but because of a
was well-groomed but because of a
was well-groomed but because of a sensitivity coefficient she noticed that
sensitivity coefficient she noticed that
sensitivity coefficient she noticed that something was wrong she kind of signaled
something was wrong she kind of signaled
something was wrong she kind of signaled to the girl to go to the toilet because
to the girl to go to the toilet because
to the girl to go to the toilet because she left a pen and paper in a toilet and
she left a pen and paper in a toilet and
she left a pen and paper in a toilet and then to her horror she went in and she
then to her horror she went in and she
then to her horror she went in and she found this what helped and the
found this what helped and the
found this what helped and the stewardess notified the pilot the pilot
stewardess notified the pilot the pilot
stewardess notified the pilot the pilot who caught the police and when the plane
who caught the police and when the plane
who caught the police and when the plane landed they arrested the men and her
landed they arrested the men and her
landed they arrested the men and her Eskew actually saved the girl from human
Eskew actually saved the girl from human
Eskew actually saved the girl from human trafficking so it’s actually your
trafficking so it’s actually your
trafficking so it’s actually your sensitivity caution at your workplace
sensitivity caution at your workplace
sensitivity caution at your workplace are you sensitive enough at your
are you sensitive enough at your
are you sensitive enough at your workplace to see things to get it done
workplace to see things to get it done
workplace to see things to get it done so back to my restaurant so I have a
so back to my restaurant so I have a
so back to my restaurant so I have a share for 30 years and I said we’re
share for 30 years and I said we’re
share for 30 years and I said we’re gonna launch this dish called the
gonna launch this dish called the
gonna launch this dish called the lobster I missed you can you do it and
lobster I missed you can you do it and
lobster I missed you can you do it and can we take a picture of it so he said
can we take a picture of it so he said
can we take a picture of it so he said ok here it is boss here is the lobster
ok here it is boss here is the lobster
ok here it is boss here is the lobster stew and then I looked at it and said
stew and then I looked at it and said
stew and then I looked at it and said where’s the lobster it says there so I
where’s the lobster it says there so I
where’s the lobster it says there so I said I’ll look again I said I can’t
said I’ll look again I said I can’t
said I’ll look again I said I can’t really see it you say why stay so how’s
really see it you say why stay so how’s
really see it you say why stay so how’s the time when we go to work when we need
the time when we go to work when we need
the time when we go to work when we need something a lot of us just give it
something a lot of us just give it
something a lot of us just give it half-hearted that what we do is half a
half-hearted that what we do is half a
half-hearted that what we do is half a turn he just put everything in a on the
turn he just put everything in a on the
turn he just put everything in a on the plate and then he gives it and he shows
plate and then he gives it and he shows
plate and then he gives it and he shows it on a pot and I said can you do a bit
it on a pot and I said can you do a bit
it on a pot and I said can you do a bit better than that can we see the lobster
better than that can we see the lobster
better than that can we see the lobster he says sure so he came up with this and
he says sure so he came up with this and
he says sure so he came up with this and I said wow that’s a lobster but it looks
I said wow that’s a lobster but it looks
I said wow that’s a lobster but it looks terrible so I said can you do something
terrible so I said can you do something
terrible so I said can you do something with it again can you make it a bit
with it again can you make it a bit
with it again can you make it a bit better and I say okay hear this he said
better and I say okay hear this he said
better and I say okay hear this he said I can’t open lobster
I can’t open lobster
I can’t open lobster so it looks you can see the flesh I say
so it looks you can see the flesh I say
so it looks you can see the flesh I say no can you put your heart into it not
no can you put your heart into it not
no can you put your heart into it not just your eyes but your heart into what
just your eyes but your heart into what
just your eyes but your heart into what you do and after some time he came up
you do and after some time he came up
you do and after some time he came up with this and this is where his work of
with this and this is where his work of
with this and this is where his work of 30 years experience is put in to cook
30 years experience is put in to cook
30 years experience is put in to cook and show the most delicious dish caught
and show the most delicious dish caught
and show the most delicious dish caught the armies to Lobster I missed you so
the armies to Lobster I missed you so
the armies to Lobster I missed you so it’s actually about seeing things with
it’s actually about seeing things with
it’s actually about seeing things with your heart and not just with your eyes a
your heart and not just with your eyes a
your heart and not just with your eyes a lot of us see things but we don’t put
lot of us see things but we don’t put
lot of us see things but we don’t put our heart to use to make it better so
our heart to use to make it better so
our heart to use to make it better so when you see a problem and get or you
when you see a problem and get or you
when you see a problem and get or you see something that you need to do in
see something that you need to do in
see something that you need to do in your company your office or among your
your company your office or among your
your company your office or among your loved ones you add values with the
loved ones you add values with the
loved ones you add values with the things that you do and you take action
things that you do and you take action
things that you do and you take action and put excellence into it and you have
and put excellence into it and you have
and put excellence into it and you have positive outcome and that’s a promise
positive outcome and that’s a promise
positive outcome and that’s a promise and so I talked about one of my staff
and so I talked about one of my staff
and so I talked about one of my staff this guy came from a construction worker
this guy came from a construction worker
this guy came from a construction worker and he came to help me because we need
and he came to help me because we need
and he came to help me because we need to renovate and scale our businesses and
to renovate and scale our businesses and
to renovate and scale our businesses and he came and I said you know we need to
he came and I said you know we need to
he came and I said you know we need to renovate the shop he said no problem I
renovate the shop he said no problem I
renovate the shop he said no problem I help you with a renovation so he did
help you with a renovation so he did
help you with a renovation so he did everything then we said we need tables
everything then we said we need tables
everything then we said we need tables we need gothic looking tables for our
we need gothic looking tables for our
we need gothic looking tables for our fashion accessories he said I can make
fashion accessories he said I can make
fashion accessories he said I can make them so he’s a maker he saw we make them
them so he’s a maker he saw we make them
them so he’s a maker he saw we make them and a gothic looking table date you
and a gothic looking table date you
and a gothic looking table date you can’t find it in a picture and then we
can’t find it in a picture and then we
can’t find it in a picture and then we said we need someone to help us to go
said we need someone to help us to go
said we need someone to help us to go and buy the menswear as well he says ok
and buy the menswear as well he says ok
and buy the menswear as well he says ok he went and he helped us with buying and
he went and he helped us with buying and
he went and he helped us with buying and became a merchandiser and buyer as well
became a merchandiser and buyer as well
became a merchandiser and buyer as well for fashion and then he all even went on
for fashion and then he all even went on
for fashion and then he all even went on to make a rack for me because I have a
to make a rack for me because I have a
to make a rack for me because I have a lot of jackets he made a wreck for me to
lot of jackets he made a wreck for me to
lot of jackets he made a wreck for me to hang my jackets and he make it a
hang my jackets and he make it a
hang my jackets and he make it a portable bar counter for my office so
portable bar counter for my office so
portable bar counter for my office so that we can serve drinks during break
that we can serve drinks during break
that we can serve drinks during break time and everything that we needed he
time and everything that we needed he
time and everything that we needed he was there for us and he put the effort
was there for us and he put the effort
was there for us and he put the effort to do it well and you know what today
to do it well and you know what today
to do it well and you know what today he’s a business owner back in his own
he’s a business owner back in his own
he’s a business owner back in his own country and because he put excellence he
country and because he put excellence he
country and because he put excellence he at value and he put the best of what he
at value and he put the best of what he
at value and he put the best of what he can do and that attitude has given him
can do and that attitude has given him
can do and that attitude has given him the edge among the better than the rest
the edge among the better than the rest
the edge among the better than the rest of the people so he’s about putting your
of the people so he’s about putting your
of the people so he’s about putting your heart into what you do and soon you will
heart into what you do and soon you will
heart into what you do and soon you will see the difference and how you impact
see the difference and how you impact
see the difference and how you impact your life and the lives of others so ask
your life and the lives of others so ask
your life and the lives of others so ask you among that your surrounding and this
you among that your surrounding and this
you among that your surrounding and this is where is around you right so I think
is where is around you right so I think
is where is around you right so I think your most of the time you see this
your most of the time you see this
your most of the time you see this nowadays when you go out and something
nowadays when you go out and something
nowadays when you go out and something happen
happen
happen everyone flips up the phone and take
everyone flips up the phone and take
everyone flips up the phone and take videos and photos of it some when
videos and photos of it some when
videos and photos of it some when something happened and this is true
something happened and this is true
something happened and this is true because recently there was a boy 12
because recently there was a boy 12
because recently there was a boy 12 years old who went to help the victim’
years old who went to help the victim’
years old who went to help the victim’ accident because he said the adults were
accident because he said the adults were
accident because he said the adults were busy filming and nobody responded to
busy filming and nobody responded to
busy filming and nobody responded to help
help
help so are we adding values to the people
so are we adding values to the people
so are we adding values to the people around us and to everything that we do
around us and to everything that we do
around us and to everything that we do so sq is about you putting the effort
so sq is about you putting the effort
so sq is about you putting the effort the excellence into the things you do
the excellence into the things you do
the excellence into the things you do and changemakers are people who actually
and changemakers are people who actually
and changemakers are people who actually have high Eskew because when they see
have high Eskew because when they see
have high Eskew because when they see things they see the problem within their
things they see the problem within their
things they see the problem within their heart they find a solution and they do
heart they find a solution and they do
heart they find a solution and they do their best to solve it and these are
their best to solve it and these are
their best to solve it and these are changemakers and all of you can be
changemakers and all of you can be
changemakers and all of you can be change makers and I talked about going
change makers and I talked about going
change makers and I talked about going out of your job school a lot of us it is
out of your job school a lot of us it is
out of your job school a lot of us it is our job school this is my teacher Miss E
our job school this is my teacher Miss E
our job school this is my teacher Miss E and she realized that I was actually a
and she realized that I was actually a
and she realized that I was actually a student and without focus and without
student and without focus and without
student and without focus and without purpose and she came up to me and she
purpose and she came up to me and she
purpose and she came up to me and she said what is your vision and I came out
said what is your vision and I came out
said what is your vision and I came out with a story and said oh I want to be an
with a story and said oh I want to be an
with a story and said oh I want to be an entrepreneur by 21 start my business 21
entrepreneur by 21 start my business 21
entrepreneur by 21 start my business 21 be a millionaire by 25 and retire at 45
be a millionaire by 25 and retire at 45
be a millionaire by 25 and retire at 45 but you know every year she will ask me
but you know every year she will ask me
but you know every year she will ask me what is your vision are you getting
what is your vision are you getting
what is your vision are you getting there like you know even way after I
there like you know even way after I
there like you know even way after I finished school I went to London I came
finished school I went to London I came
finished school I went to London I came back every year she would buy me my
back every year she would buy me my
back every year she would buy me my Christmas lunch my favourite chicken
Christmas lunch my favourite chicken
Christmas lunch my favourite chicken rice and she asked me are you achieving
rice and she asked me are you achieving
rice and she asked me are you achieving my your dreams and I would love to tell
my your dreams and I would love to tell
my your dreams and I would love to tell her I have a chief every part of the
her I have a chief every part of the
her I have a chief every part of the dream that I shared with her but the
dream that I shared with her but the
dream that I shared with her but the only thing is she died in a sewer air
only thing is she died in a sewer air
only thing is she died in a sewer air crashed
crashed
crashed I never able to tank her for it but you
I never able to tank her for it but you
I never able to tank her for it but you know what I carry on her spirit of
know what I carry on her spirit of
know what I carry on her spirit of giving and I’m mentoring as many youth
giving and I’m mentoring as many youth
giving and I’m mentoring as many youth as I can because that belief that she
as I can because that belief that she
as I can because that belief that she has put in me is the belief I’ll put
has put in me is the belief I’ll put
has put in me is the belief I’ll put into every youth because you can do it
into every youth because you can do it
into every youth because you can do it if you put your sensitivity caution to
if you put your sensitivity caution to
if you put your sensitivity caution to it and put your excellence to what you
it and put your excellence to what you
it and put your excellence to what you do so when I started this 15 minutes
do so when I started this 15 minutes
do so when I started this 15 minutes change because I was inspired by this
change because I was inspired by this
change because I was inspired by this young guy I met I met him in an event at
young guy I met I met him in an event at
young guy I met I met him in an event at a f-1 event and there was about seven
a f-1 event and there was about seven
a f-1 event and there was about seven eight years ago I looked at him and said
eight years ago I looked at him and said
eight years ago I looked at him and said hey young man what are you doing at this
hey young man what are you doing at this
hey young man what are you doing at this event
event
event he said I’m a part-time waiter at the f1
he said I’m a part-time waiter at the f1
he said I’m a part-time waiter at the f1 paddle area I said good I said you look
paddle area I said good I said you look
paddle area I said good I said you look young what do you hope to be what is
young what do you hope to be what is
young what do you hope to be what is your dream it’s the same thing as my
your dream it’s the same thing as my
your dream it’s the same thing as my teacher
teacher
teacher ask me what is your dream he said well I
ask me what is your dream he said well I
ask me what is your dream he said well I hope to be an actor a host as well as
hope to be an actor a host as well as
hope to be an actor a host as well as stand-up comedian and then seven eight
stand-up comedian and then seven eight
stand-up comedian and then seven eight years have passed I met him at the sg50
years have passed I met him at the sg50
years have passed I met him at the sg50 event and he came up to me and said hi
event and he came up to me and said hi
event and he came up to me and said hi Ellen remember me I’m the guy who met
Ellen remember me I’m the guy who met
Ellen remember me I’m the guy who met you at the f1 event my name is fast and
you at the f1 event my name is fast and
you at the f1 event my name is fast and you know what I came to thank you
you know what I came to thank you
you know what I came to thank you because the 15 minutes you’d spend time
because the 15 minutes you’d spend time
because the 15 minutes you’d spend time talking to me about showing me direction
talking to me about showing me direction
talking to me about showing me direction and what I can do with my life because
and what I can do with my life because
and what I can do with my life because he showed he told me that he’s actually
he showed he told me that he’s actually
he showed he told me that he’s actually a street kid and that he is not highly
a street kid and that he is not highly
a street kid and that he is not highly educated and I took 15 minutes to share
educated and I took 15 minutes to share
educated and I took 15 minutes to share with him how he can make his life better
with him how he can make his life better
with him how he can make his life better and he said because you have your 15
and he said because you have your 15
and he said because you have your 15 minutes my life is changed today I’m a
minutes my life is changed today I’m a
minutes my life is changed today I’m a ward winning actor stand-up comedian and
ward winning actor stand-up comedian and
ward winning actor stand-up comedian and host and you know what
host and you know what
host and you know what it only takes 15 minutes of my time and
it only takes 15 minutes of my time and
it only takes 15 minutes of my time and today I hope you take 15 minutes of your
today I hope you take 15 minutes of your
today I hope you take 15 minutes of your time to spend time to the person next to
time to spend time to the person next to
time to spend time to the person next to you and because of him I’ve decided to
you and because of him I’ve decided to
you and because of him I’ve decided to start the 15 minutes change so if you
start the 15 minutes change so if you
start the 15 minutes change so if you can leave here what do you want to do is
can leave here what do you want to do is
can leave here what do you want to do is to leave here and take an idea with you
to leave here and take an idea with you
to leave here and take an idea with you right is to take 15 minutes a day to
right is to take 15 minutes a day to
right is to take 15 minutes a day to spend time with people around you if you
spend time with people around you if you
spend time with people around you if you can’t do it 15 minutes a day once a week
can’t do it 15 minutes a day once a week
can’t do it 15 minutes a day once a week once a month once a year to spend time
once a month once a year to spend time
once a month once a year to spend time asking the person around you how are you
asking the person around you how are you
asking the person around you how are you and spend time with them and impact them
and spend time with them and impact them
and spend time with them and impact them if you can so s Q is for changemakers
if you can so s Q is for changemakers
if you can so s Q is for changemakers you are here because you want to take an
you are here because you want to take an
you are here because you want to take an idea with you you are here because you
idea with you you are here because you
idea with you you are here because you want to be a change maker and change
want to be a change maker and change
want to be a change maker and change makers have hi s Q and for that you
makers have hi s Q and for that you
makers have hi s Q and for that you can’t make this world a better place so
can’t make this world a better place so
can’t make this world a better place so to me I think s q could be the secret to
to me I think s q could be the secret to
to me I think s q could be the secret to success and I believe that if everyone
success and I believe that if everyone
success and I believe that if everyone take up their spirit of that sensitivity
take up their spirit of that sensitivity
take up their spirit of that sensitivity caution you add value to your life and
caution you add value to your life and
caution you add value to your life and to the life of others you put excellence
to the life of others you put excellence
to the life of others you put excellence to all the things that you do you know
to all the things that you do you know
to all the things that you do you know what you will be above the rest of the
what you will be above the rest of the
what you will be above the rest of the people you’ll be successful because all
people you’ll be successful because all
people you’ll be successful because all my friends that are successful in their
my friends that are successful in their
my friends that are successful in their life and in a career in their business
life and in a career in their business
life and in a career in their business in their home in their families all have
in their home in their families all have
in their home in their families all have this sq quotient in them and I hope that
this sq quotient in them and I hope that
this sq quotient in them and I hope that you will actually build an awakened sq
you will actually build an awakened sq
you will actually build an awakened sq in you to make the difference for
in you to make the difference for
in you to make the difference for yourself for the people around you
yourself for the people around you
yourself for the people around you as well as creating impact for this
as well as creating impact for this
as well as creating impact for this world to be a better place to live in
world to be a better place to live in
world to be a better place to live in thank you
thank you
thank you [Applause]
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