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what are your first memories of United

what are your first memories of United States politics maybe you remember going

States politics maybe you remember going

States politics maybe you remember going to the polls with your parents on

to the polls with your parents on

to the polls with your parents on Election Day maybe your first memories

Election Day maybe your first memories

Election Day maybe your first memories come from something you learned in

come from something you learned in

come from something you learned in school a picture you saw in a textbook

school a picture you saw in a textbook

school a picture you saw in a textbook or something one of your teachers or

or something one of your teachers or

or something one of your teachers or classmates said maybe politics wasn’t

classmates said maybe politics wasn’t

classmates said maybe politics wasn’t something that was talked about in your

something that was talked about in your

something that was talked about in your family and your knowledge of US politics

family and your knowledge of US politics

family and your knowledge of US politics came from something you saw on TV or

came from something you saw on TV or

came from something you saw on TV or read in the newspaper when I think of my

read in the newspaper when I think of my

read in the newspaper when I think of my first memories of u.s. politics three

first memories of u.s. politics three

first memories of u.s. politics three specific memories come to mind the first

specific memories come to mind the first

specific memories come to mind the first is the 2000 presidential election at the

is the 2000 presidential election at the

is the 2000 presidential election at the turn of the century I was five years old

turn of the century I was five years old

turn of the century I was five years old and I do remember actually being pretty

and I do remember actually being pretty

and I do remember actually being pretty excited to find out who the next

excited to find out who the next

excited to find out who the next president would be I remember sitting at

president would be I remember sitting at

president would be I remember sitting at the foot of my parents bed watching the

the foot of my parents bed watching the

the foot of my parents bed watching the election results roll in on TV I was

election results roll in on TV I was

election results roll in on TV I was pretty thrilled to find out who the

pretty thrilled to find out who the

pretty thrilled to find out who the winner would be but I was suddenly

winner would be but I was suddenly

winner would be but I was suddenly pretty bummed when I found out I had to

pretty bummed when I found out I had to

pretty bummed when I found out I had to go to sleep early we actually wouldn’t

go to sleep early we actually wouldn’t

go to sleep early we actually wouldn’t know who the president would be until a

know who the president would be until a

know who the president would be until a few days later that year spoiler alert

few days later that year spoiler alert

few days later that year spoiler alert Al Gore does not win my second memory

Al Gore does not win my second memory

Al Gore does not win my second memory comes from around the same time when I

comes from around the same time when I

comes from around the same time when I was four or five years old before I was

was four or five years old before I was

was four or five years old before I was old enough to go to school I would eat

old enough to go to school I would eat

old enough to go to school I would eat my breakfast and lunch on a placemat

my breakfast and lunch on a placemat

my breakfast and lunch on a placemat very similar to this one a placemat of

very similar to this one a placemat of

very similar to this one a placemat of the presidents of the United States of

the presidents of the United States of

the presidents of the United States of America I would eat my grilled cheese

America I would eat my grilled cheese

America I would eat my grilled cheese sandwich and tomato soup lunches with

sandwich and tomato soup lunches with

sandwich and tomato soup lunches with the eyes of 42 middle-aged or older

the eyes of 42 middle-aged or older

the eyes of 42 middle-aged or older white men staring at me this was more

white men staring at me this was more

white men staring at me this was more than just a placemat this was my first

than just a placemat this was my first

than just a placemat this was my first exposure to our nation’s issue with

exposure to our nation’s issue with

exposure to our nation’s issue with representation in politics I was not yet

representation in politics I was not yet

representation in politics I was not yet even five years old and I was already

even five years old and I was already

even five years old and I was already thinking well maybe if you aren’t white

thinking well maybe if you aren’t white

thinking well maybe if you aren’t white and you aren’t a man you aren’t even

and you aren’t a man you aren’t even

and you aren’t a man you aren’t even allowed to

allowed to

allowed to the president a few years later when I

the president a few years later when I

the president a few years later when I was 11 or 12 in the fifth or sixth grade

was 11 or 12 in the fifth or sixth grade

was 11 or 12 in the fifth or sixth grade I was at my best friend’s house when her

I was at my best friend’s house when her

I was at my best friend’s house when her grandma asked me Hilary what do you want

grandma asked me Hilary what do you want

grandma asked me Hilary what do you want to be when you grow up well naturally

to be when you grow up well naturally

to be when you grow up well naturally like all elementary schoolers I said I

like all elementary schoolers I said I

like all elementary schoolers I said I think I want to be a politician her

think I want to be a politician her

think I want to be a politician her response was not what I was expecting to

response was not what I was expecting to

response was not what I was expecting to hear she said you don’t really want to

hear she said you don’t really want to

hear she said you don’t really want to be like one of those crooked politicians

be like one of those crooked politicians

be like one of those crooked politicians do you I had no idea what to say or to

do you I had no idea what to say or to

do you I had no idea what to say or to think I was hurt I was upset because in

think I was hurt I was upset because in

think I was hurt I was upset because in my mind at that age a politician was a

my mind at that age a politician was a

my mind at that age a politician was a leader someone who wanted to make a

leader someone who wanted to make a

leader someone who wanted to make a difference in their communities and to

difference in their communities and to

difference in their communities and to help others

help others

help others these memories from my childhood so

these memories from my childhood so

these memories from my childhood so early on helped me to form my opinions

early on helped me to form my opinions

early on helped me to form my opinions and my beliefs related to leadership

and my beliefs related to leadership

and my beliefs related to leadership politics and government

politics and government

politics and government you see growing up we are constantly

you see growing up we are constantly

you see growing up we are constantly absorbing information from our

absorbing information from our

absorbing information from our surroundings from the people in our

surroundings from the people in our

surroundings from the people in our households our family and friends our

households our family and friends our

households our family and friends our teachers and our classmates

teachers and our classmates

teachers and our classmates trust me this is no different for kids

trust me this is no different for kids

trust me this is no different for kids today in my free time I volunteer at

today in my free time I volunteer at

today in my free time I volunteer at elementary schools talking to kids about

elementary schools talking to kids about

elementary schools talking to kids about voting and the democratic process

voting and the democratic process

voting and the democratic process six-year-olds talk to me about the

six-year-olds talk to me about the

six-year-olds talk to me about the current administration’s proposed border

current administration’s proposed border

current administration’s proposed border wall fifth graders tell me that when

wall fifth graders tell me that when

wall fifth graders tell me that when they are someday elected to office that

they are someday elected to office that

they are someday elected to office that they will end the drug epidemic in West

they will end the drug epidemic in West

they will end the drug epidemic in West Virginia these kids are so in tune with

Virginia these kids are so in tune with

Virginia these kids are so in tune with the problems in our communities and

the problems in our communities and

the problems in our communities and what’s happening in the world today and

what’s happening in the world today and

what’s happening in the world today and it’s not just because of what they see

it’s not just because of what they see

it’s not just because of what they see on TV but also because of the

on TV but also because of the

on TV but also because of the conversations we have when we are around

conversations we have when we are around

conversations we have when we are around them full-time I work for a nonpartisan

them full-time I work for a nonpartisan

them full-time I work for a nonpartisan nonprofit organization called inspire us

nonprofit organization called inspire us

nonprofit organization called inspire us we work to support high school students

we work to support high school students

we work to support high school students to register their peers to vote and get

to register their peers to vote and get

to register their peers to vote and get them out to the polls students as young

them out to the polls students as young

them out to the polls students as young as 14 and 15 years old are registering

as 14 and 15 years old are registering

as 14 and 15 years old are registering their peers to vote because they see

their peers to vote because they see

their peers to vote because they see voting as a responsibility

voting as a responsibility

voting as a responsibility yet when they log on to Facebook or

yet when they log on to Facebook or

yet when they log on to Facebook or Twitter or whatever social media

Twitter or whatever social media

Twitter or whatever social media platform kids use these days they see

platform kids use these days they see

platform kids use these days they see politics portrayed as destructive

politics portrayed as destructive

politics portrayed as destructive divisive and us-versus-them aside from

divisive and us-versus-them aside from

divisive and us-versus-them aside from just working with young people look at

just working with young people look at

just working with young people look at me I’m a young person myself I’m 23

me I’m a young person myself I’m 23

me I’m a young person myself I’m 23 years old a millennial and part of the

years old a millennial and part of the

years old a millennial and part of the new largest voter eligible age group in

new largest voter eligible age group in

new largest voter eligible age group in the United States as a young voter I

the United States as a young voter I

the United States as a young voter I want to see adults and older generations

want to see adults and older generations

want to see adults and older generations setting a better example for the types

setting a better example for the types

setting a better example for the types of conversations we need to be having

of conversations we need to be having

of conversations we need to be having about politics and the ways that we are

about politics and the ways that we are

about politics and the ways that we are engaging in politics and our communities

engaging in politics and our communities

engaging in politics and our communities and as an adult I love to see kids and

and as an adult I love to see kids and

and as an adult I love to see kids and young people inspired and empower to

young people inspired and empower to

young people inspired and empower to talk about politics and empower to be

talk about politics and empower to be

talk about politics and empower to be leaders in their communities so that’s

leaders in their communities so that’s

leaders in their communities so that’s why my big idea my idea worth sharing is

why my big idea my idea worth sharing is

why my big idea my idea worth sharing is that we must spearhead a shift in our

that we must spearhead a shift in our

that we must spearhead a shift in our political culture to change the way we

political culture to change the way we

political culture to change the way we view and talk about politics so that we

view and talk about politics so that we

view and talk about politics so that we are encouraging each other not deterring

are encouraging each other not deterring

are encouraging each other not deterring one another from getting involved in

one another from getting involved in

one another from getting involved in politics right now we are living in a

politics right now we are living in a

politics right now we are living in a very divided political climate now is

very divided political climate now is

very divided political climate now is not the time to neglect your civic

not the time to neglect your civic

not the time to neglect your civic health or the Civic health of the young

health or the Civic health of the young

health or the Civic health of the young people in your lives lucky for you all

people in your lives lucky for you all

people in your lives lucky for you all I’ve developed an easy three-step not

I’ve developed an easy three-step not

I’ve developed an easy three-step not planned but dream in the words of dr.

planned but dream in the words of dr.

planned but dream in the words of dr. Martin Luther King jr. to change the way

Martin Luther King jr. to change the way

Martin Luther King jr. to change the way you think about talk about and

you think about talk about and

you think about talk about and participate in politics

participate in politics

participate in politics step one change the way you perceive

step one change the way you perceive

step one change the way you perceive politics we often see politics as black

politics we often see politics as black

politics we often see politics as black and white or rather blue and red many of

and white or rather blue and red many of

and white or rather blue and red many of us find a party we tend to agree with

us find a party we tend to agree with

us find a party we tend to agree with and then tend to stick to that side

and then tend to stick to that side

and then tend to stick to that side public distrust in our governor

public distrust in our governor

public distrust in our governor is at an all-time high some of this has

is at an all-time high some of this has

is at an all-time high some of this has to do with legislative gridlock and

to do with legislative gridlock and

to do with legislative gridlock and politicians unwillingness to compromise

politicians unwillingness to compromise

politicians unwillingness to compromise but what if we as citizens and as

but what if we as citizens and as

but what if we as citizens and as constituents change that narrative what

constituents change that narrative what

constituents change that narrative what if we start talking about politics as

if we start talking about politics as

if we start talking about politics as issue based and not party based what if

issue based and not party based what if

issue based and not party based what if the conversation wasn’t about who was a

the conversation wasn’t about who was a

the conversation wasn’t about who was a Democrat and who is a Republican but

Democrat and who is a Republican but

Democrat and who is a Republican but about the problems we see in our

about the problems we see in our

about the problems we see in our communities and how we can actually work

communities and how we can actually work

communities and how we can actually work together to compromise and to solve them

together to compromise and to solve them

together to compromise and to solve them honestly I’ve never met a single person

honestly I’ve never met a single person

honestly I’ve never met a single person whose ideals and morals are 100%

whose ideals and morals are 100%

whose ideals and morals are 100% completely defined by one party or

completely defined by one party or

completely defined by one party or another so let’s not pigeonhole

another so let’s not pigeonhole

another so let’s not pigeonhole ourselves let’s open up our minds to

ourselves let’s open up our minds to

ourselves let’s open up our minds to talking about the issues not just the

talking about the issues not just the

talking about the issues not just the parties step two evolve the way we

parties step two evolve the way we

parties step two evolve the way we discuss politics I know it’s so taboo to

discuss politics I know it’s so taboo to

discuss politics I know it’s so taboo to even imagine talking about politics in

even imagine talking about politics in

even imagine talking about politics in the workplace even though that is where

the workplace even though that is where

the workplace even though that is where some of us spend a majority of our time

some of us spend a majority of our time

some of us spend a majority of our time I previously mentioned this divided

I previously mentioned this divided

I previously mentioned this divided political climate because of that we

political climate because of that we

political climate because of that we aren’t eager to have these uncomfortable

aren’t eager to have these uncomfortable

aren’t eager to have these uncomfortable conversations but if we aren’t talking

conversations but if we aren’t talking

conversations but if we aren’t talking about current events and we aren’t

about current events and we aren’t

about current events and we aren’t talking about the news what type of

talking about the news what type of

talking about the news what type of example are we setting for our kids our

example are we setting for our kids our

example are we setting for our kids our grandkids our students and our siblings

grandkids our students and our siblings

grandkids our students and our siblings everyone has that friend or that family

everyone has that friend or that family

everyone has that friend or that family member who posts so fervently on social

member who posts so fervently on social

member who posts so fervently on social media about their political opinions

media about their political opinions

media about their political opinions it’s so awkward because you know they

it’s so awkward because you know they

it’s so awkward because you know they completely disagree with you you just

completely disagree with you you just

completely disagree with you you just want to avoid them at all costs at a

want to avoid them at all costs at a

want to avoid them at all costs at a family gathering but I challenge you to

family gathering but I challenge you to

family gathering but I challenge you to take that step to actually spark a

take that step to actually spark a

take that step to actually spark a conversation related to politics step

conversation related to politics step

conversation related to politics step one when talking politics is to listen

one when talking politics is to listen

one when talking politics is to listen to their perspective sometimes it can be

to their perspective sometimes it can be

to their perspective sometimes it can be hard but to foster productive civil

hard but to foster productive civil

hard but to foster productive civil discourse we have to lend our ears step

discourse we have to lend our ears step

discourse we have to lend our ears step two is to be engaged try to actually

two is to be engaged try to actually

two is to be engaged try to actually understand where they’re coming from

understand where they’re coming from

understand where they’re coming from what experiences have you had that

what experiences have you had that

what experiences have you had that have led you to believe this or believe

have led you to believe this or believe

have led you to believe this or believe this or think this way step three is to

this or think this way step three is to

this or think this way step three is to present your point of view when you’re

present your point of view when you’re

present your point of view when you’re sharing opinions you have every right to

sharing opinions you have every right to

sharing opinions you have every right to contribute to the conversation as well

contribute to the conversation as well

contribute to the conversation as well so don’t be afraid to share your

so don’t be afraid to share your

so don’t be afraid to share your experiences and the last step is

experiences and the last step is

experiences and the last step is definitely the most important it’s to

definitely the most important it’s to

definitely the most important it’s to find common ground

find common ground

find common ground having civil discourse talking about

having civil discourse talking about

having civil discourse talking about politics talking to someone who

politics talking to someone who

politics talking to someone who disagrees with you is not necessarily to

disagrees with you is not necessarily to

disagrees with you is not necessarily to agree with them but to realize that we

agree with them but to realize that we

agree with them but to realize that we all have different backgrounds and we

all have different backgrounds and we

all have different backgrounds and we all have differing opinions but I

all have differing opinions but I

all have differing opinions but I believe deep down that many of us all

believe deep down that many of us all

believe deep down that many of us all want the same things for ourselves for

want the same things for ourselves for

want the same things for ourselves for our families and for our societies

our families and for our societies

our families and for our societies having these conversations is not

having these conversations is not

having these conversations is not necessarily to agree but to acknowledge

necessarily to agree but to acknowledge

necessarily to agree but to acknowledge that we’re all different

step three is probably the most

step three is probably the most important

important

important everyone knows the saying that actions

everyone knows the saying that actions

everyone knows the saying that actions speak louder than words I don’t think it

speak louder than words I don’t think it

speak louder than words I don’t think it could be more important when it comes to

could be more important when it comes to

could be more important when it comes to politics we participate in our

politics we participate in our

politics we participate in our communities in different ways but some

communities in different ways but some

communities in different ways but some of us feel as though our voices don’t

of us feel as though our voices don’t

of us feel as though our voices don’t matter in fact that’s a huge battle I

matter in fact that’s a huge battle I

matter in fact that’s a huge battle I have when going into high schools kids

have when going into high schools kids

have when going into high schools kids say that their vote doesn’t make a

say that their vote doesn’t make a

say that their vote doesn’t make a difference when in reality it does there

difference when in reality it does there

difference when in reality it does there are elections all the time that are

are elections all the time that are

are elections all the time that are determined by a single vote in our

determined by a single vote in our

determined by a single vote in our communities there’s actually a recent

communities there’s actually a recent

communities there’s actually a recent story out of Virginia I’m not sure if

story out of Virginia I’m not sure if

story out of Virginia I’m not sure if any of you heard or read about this but

any of you heard or read about this but

any of you heard or read about this but in Virginia in the November election in

in Virginia in the November election in

in Virginia in the November election in a single House District the Democratic

a single House District the Democratic

a single House District the Democratic candidate won by a single vote then a

candidate won by a single vote then a

candidate won by a single vote then a ballot was found and on that ballot the

ballot was found and on that ballot the

ballot was found and on that ballot the voter had voted for the Republican

voter had voted for the Republican

voter had voted for the Republican candidate a panel of judges ruled this

candidate a panel of judges ruled this

candidate a panel of judges ruled this ballot to be valid and so accounted in

ballot to be valid and so accounted in

ballot to be valid and so accounted in the race bringing this race to an even

the race bringing this race to an even

the race bringing this race to an even tie and in Virginia in the case of a tie

tie and in Virginia in the case of a tie

tie and in Virginia in the case of a tie you pull a name out of a bowl so they

you pull a name out of a bowl so they

you pull a name out of a bowl so they pulled the name out of the bowl and the

pulled the name out of the bowl and the

pulled the name out of the bowl and the Republican candidate won now this this

Republican candidate won now this this

Republican candidate won now this this isn’t just any race the Virginia House

isn’t just any race the Virginia House

isn’t just any race the Virginia House race in which a name was drawn out of a

race in which a name was drawn out of a

race in which a name was drawn out of a bowl it determined whether

bowl it determined whether

bowl it determined whether but the house would stay in Republican

but the house would stay in Republican

but the house would stay in Republican control or if it would break 50-50 so

control or if it would break 50-50 so

control or if it would break 50-50 so now it’s 51 to 49 and the Republicans

now it’s 51 to 49 and the Republicans

now it’s 51 to 49 and the Republicans are in control in Virginia this is the

are in control in Virginia this is the

are in control in Virginia this is the power of one vote of your voice I

power of one vote of your voice I

power of one vote of your voice I realize that some people don’t

realize that some people don’t

realize that some people don’t participate in politics and that we all

participate in politics and that we all

participate in politics and that we all have different ways that we want to get

have different ways that we want to get

have different ways that we want to get involved 2018 is an election year so I

involved 2018 is an election year so I

involved 2018 is an election year so I encourage you if you do vote please take

encourage you if you do vote please take

encourage you if you do vote please take a child or a young person with you and

a child or a young person with you and

a child or a young person with you and show them how the process works I work

show them how the process works I work

show them how the process works I work with high school students who honestly

with high school students who honestly

with high school students who honestly don’t understand sometimes and sometimes

don’t understand sometimes and sometimes

don’t understand sometimes and sometimes it takes an older person just teaching

it takes an older person just teaching

it takes an older person just teaching them the process and talking to them

them the process and talking to them

them the process and talking to them about voting

about voting

about voting perhaps you’re very politically active

perhaps you’re very politically active

perhaps you’re very politically active and you want to attend a rally or

and you want to attend a rally or

and you want to attend a rally or volunteer on a campaign these are also

volunteer on a campaign these are also

volunteer on a campaign these are also great opportunities to engage young

great opportunities to engage young

great opportunities to engage young people in these activities maybe you

people in these activities maybe you

people in these activities maybe you choose to protest or petition these are

choose to protest or petition these are

choose to protest or petition these are your rights and it’s so important that

your rights and it’s so important that

your rights and it’s so important that we talk to our young people about those

we talk to our young people about those

we talk to our young people about those rights that we have in the United States

rights that we have in the United States

rights that we have in the United States and if you don’t want to participate in

and if you don’t want to participate in

and if you don’t want to participate in any of these ways you can always watch a

any of these ways you can always watch a

any of these ways you can always watch a debate or stay up to date in the news

debate or stay up to date in the news

debate or stay up to date in the news and encourage conversation ask those

and encourage conversation ask those

and encourage conversation ask those kids in your lives in your lives what

kids in your lives in your lives what

kids in your lives in your lives what did you think about this event or what

did you think about this event or what

did you think about this event or what do you think about this issue I’m around

do you think about this issue I’m around

do you think about this issue I’m around kids all the time and trust me they are

kids all the time and trust me they are

kids all the time and trust me they are always eager to give you their opinion

always eager to give you their opinion

always eager to give you their opinion and their ideas I know it might seem

and their ideas I know it might seem

and their ideas I know it might seem trivial and I know that some of you

trivial and I know that some of you

trivial and I know that some of you might not apply any of this to your life

might not apply any of this to your life

might not apply any of this to your life some of you might give this a second

some of you might give this a second

some of you might give this a second thought when you leave tonight but I

thought when you leave tonight but I

thought when you leave tonight but I encourage you to change the way you

encourage you to change the way you

encourage you to change the way you participate in politics by just a bit in

participate in politics by just a bit in

participate in politics by just a bit in this election year engage a child or a

this election year engage a child or a

this election year engage a child or a young person in your family or someone

young person in your family or someone

young person in your family or someone you know in these important sometimes

you know in these important sometimes

you know in these important sometimes uncomfortable conversations you never

uncomfortable conversations you never

uncomfortable conversations you never know a young kid a young person in your

know a young kid a young person in your

know a young kid a young person in your life that you know might someday want to

life that you know might someday want to

life that you know might someday want to be on a placemat themselves

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