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I’m A Villain In Disguise | Kim Kessler | TEDxRichland


everyone loves a good story a story that

everyone loves a good story a story that transports us that transcends space and

transports us that transcends space and

transports us that transcends space and time stories that speak the universal

time stories that speak the universal

time stories that speak the universal language of humanity that crosses

language of humanity that crosses

language of humanity that crosses borders and boundaries and creates

borders and boundaries and creates

borders and boundaries and creates connections stories that make us laugh

connections stories that make us laugh

connections stories that make us laugh cry scream ache story is that slice

cry scream ache story is that slice

cry scream ache story is that slice inside us and excavate the deep truths

inside us and excavate the deep truths

inside us and excavate the deep truths that are hidden there and brings them to

that are hidden there and brings them to

that are hidden there and brings them to light stories are powerful and stories

light stories are powerful and stories

light stories are powerful and stories teach powerful lessons I am a student of

teach powerful lessons I am a student of

teach powerful lessons I am a student of story I am a writer and over the last

story I am a writer and over the last

story I am a writer and over the last year I’ve had the biggest education of

year I’ve had the biggest education of

year I’ve had the biggest education of my life I wrote my first novel it was

my life I wrote my first novel it was

my life I wrote my first novel it was one of the most stretching seasons I’ve

one of the most stretching seasons I’ve

one of the most stretching seasons I’ve ever endured full of many midnight

ever endured full of many midnight

ever endured full of many midnight moments those bleak and hopeless times

moments those bleak and hopeless times

moments those bleak and hopeless times when I questioned the worthiness of my

when I questioned the worthiness of my

when I questioned the worthiness of my pursuit the value of my message and if I

pursuit the value of my message and if I

pursuit the value of my message and if I would even survive the process but there

would even survive the process but there

would even survive the process but there were many and likely more moments of

were many and likely more moments of

were many and likely more moments of sweet bright revelation where in the

sweet bright revelation where in the

sweet bright revelation where in the creation and study of story I stumble

creation and study of story I stumble

creation and study of story I stumble upon a truth a truth that’s bigger than

upon a truth a truth that’s bigger than

upon a truth a truth that’s bigger than my story and bigger than myself now one

my story and bigger than myself now one

my story and bigger than myself now one such truth may at first seem dark but

such truth may at first seem dark but

such truth may at first seem dark but it’s one that’s too important to ignore

it’s one that’s too important to ignore

it’s one that’s too important to ignore and embracing it has brought me hope and

and embracing it has brought me hope and

and embracing it has brought me hope and the truth is I am a villain and this is

the truth is I am a villain and this is

the truth is I am a villain and this is my story I’ll give you guys a breather

my story I’ll give you guys a breather

my story I’ll give you guys a breather from the scary face so I compared

from the scary face so I compared

from the scary face so I compared writing a novel to getting an education

writing a novel to getting an education

writing a novel to getting an education but it’s less like kindergarten and more

but it’s less like kindergarten and more

but it’s less like kindergarten and more like a crucible because story is not a

like a crucible because story is not a

like a crucible because story is not a very kind teacher she doesn’t hold hands

very kind teacher she doesn’t hold hands

very kind teacher she doesn’t hold hands or gently affirm you along the way she’s

or gently affirm you along the way she’s

or gently affirm you along the way she’s like an ancient warrior that drops you

like an ancient warrior that drops you

like an ancient warrior that drops you in the woods arms you with a knife and

in the woods arms you with a knife and

in the woods arms you with a knife and tells you to find your own way out

tells you to find your own way out

tells you to find your own way out she makes you wander through the trees

she makes you wander through the trees

she makes you wander through the trees circling back around that same spot over

circling back around that same spot over

circling back around that same spot over and over and over and when you do get

and over and over and when you do get

and over and over and when you do get something right like the perfect line of

something right like the perfect line of

something right like the perfect line of dialogue or an amazing twist in the plot

dialogue or an amazing twist in the plot

dialogue or an amazing twist in the plot you finally slay the Beast of self-doubt

you finally slay the Beast of self-doubt

you finally slay the Beast of self-doubt and actually share your work you hoist

and actually share your work you hoist

and actually share your work you hoist your arms to the sky and scream and

your arms to the sky and scream and

your arms to the sky and scream and victory story looks up from her book

victory story looks up from her book

victory story looks up from her book takes a sip of tea and gives you a

takes a sip of tea and gives you a

takes a sip of tea and gives you a single pleased nod she doesn’t know

single pleased nod she doesn’t know

single pleased nod she doesn’t know about my love language or care so I’m

about my love language or care so I’m

about my love language or care so I’m writing my novel and I’m also a

writing my novel and I’m also a

writing my novel and I’m also a stay-at-home mom of three kids two

stay-at-home mom of three kids two

stay-at-home mom of three kids two things that don’t easily coexist with

things that don’t easily coexist with

things that don’t easily coexist with one another they’re in constant conflict

one another they’re in constant conflict

one another they’re in constant conflict pulling me in opposite directions

pulling me in opposite directions

pulling me in opposite directions sometimes from the inside out because

sometimes from the inside out because

sometimes from the inside out because you know writing a novel doesn’t just

you know writing a novel doesn’t just

you know writing a novel doesn’t just happen when you’re sitting in front of a

happen when you’re sitting in front of a

happen when you’re sitting in front of a computer it’s always happening your

computer it’s always happening your

computer it’s always happening your brain becomes so invaded with characters

brain becomes so invaded with characters

brain becomes so invaded with characters that you know the brain cells that

that you know the brain cells that

that you know the brain cells that aren’t you know keeping you alive in

aren’t you know keeping you alive in

aren’t you know keeping you alive in breathing or over here immersed in the

breathing or over here immersed in the

breathing or over here immersed in the story and it’s awesome and exhausting

story and it’s awesome and exhausting

story and it’s awesome and exhausting and impossibly hard to balance with the

and impossibly hard to balance with the

and impossibly hard to balance with the needs of everyday life like showering

needs of everyday life like showering

needs of everyday life like showering and feeding your kids by the way this is

and feeding your kids by the way this is

and feeding your kids by the way this is like the most put together I’ve been in

like the most put together I’ve been in

like the most put together I’ve been in a year and it feels really weird to be

a year and it feels really weird to be

a year and it feels really weird to be wearing makeup a real bra and something

wearing makeup a real bra and something

wearing makeup a real bra and something that is not yoga pants you know pursuing

that is not yoga pants you know pursuing

that is not yoga pants you know pursuing the deeply internal process of writing a

the deeply internal process of writing a

the deeply internal process of writing a story with the extreme extraversion of

story with the extreme extraversion of

story with the extreme extraversion of three kids ages six years and under can

three kids ages six years and under can

three kids ages six years and under can get a little bit crazy at our house

get a little bit crazy at our house

get a little bit crazy at our house there’s many a day when we have clicked

there’s many a day when we have clicked

there’s many a day when we have clicked yes we’re still watching on Netflix

yes we’re still watching on Netflix

yes we’re still watching on Netflix three too many times and we haven’t made

three too many times and we haven’t made

three too many times and we haven’t made it to the grocery store in a while so

it to the grocery store in a while so

it to the grocery store in a while so the kids and mom are melting down

the kids and mom are melting down

the kids and mom are melting down because our favorite beverage isn’t in

because our favorite beverage isn’t in

because our favorite beverage isn’t in the fridge

the fridge

the fridge and I’m all work they’re all play and

and I’m all work they’re all play and

and I’m all work they’re all play and together we create a critical mass for

together we create a critical mass for

together we create a critical mass for an epic finale that could rival the

an epic finale that could rival the

an epic finale that could rival the shining that’s when our family goes for

shining that’s when our family goes for

shining that’s when our family goes for a drive I load the kids up in the van I

a drive I load the kids up in the van I

a drive I load the kids up in the van I throw a visual story on the DVD player

throw a visual story on the DVD player

throw a visual story on the DVD player and I pray that one out of three maybe

and I pray that one out of three maybe

and I pray that one out of three maybe even two out of three will fall asleep

even two out of three will fall asleep

even two out of three will fall asleep and mommy can get some much-needed

and mommy can get some much-needed

and mommy can get some much-needed storytime the day I discovered I and the

storytime the day I discovered I and the

storytime the day I discovered I and the villain was one of these days

villain was one of these days

villain was one of these days so we’re driving and I’m thinking about

so we’re driving and I’m thinking about

so we’re driving and I’m thinking about my story and I’m blocking out the

my story and I’m blocking out the

my story and I’m blocking out the dialogue dialogue of Ice Age that I now

dialogue dialogue of Ice Age that I now

dialogue dialogue of Ice Age that I now know by heart and I’m thinking about a

know by heart and I’m thinking about a

know by heart and I’m thinking about a character specifically a bad guy in my

character specifically a bad guy in my

character specifically a bad guy in my story and I’m thinking about why he’s

story and I’m thinking about why he’s

story and I’m thinking about why he’s coming across as more like a cardboard

coming across as more like a cardboard

coming across as more like a cardboard cutout and not this three dimensional

cutout and not this three dimensional

cutout and not this three dimensional you know real person that I need him to

you know real person that I need him to

you know real person that I need him to be and in this moment I remember a quote

be and in this moment I remember a quote

be and in this moment I remember a quote that I had read by george RR martin

that I had read by george RR martin

that I had read by george RR martin nobody is a villain in their own stories

nobody is a villain in their own stories

nobody is a villain in their own stories we are all heroes of our own stories

we are all heroes of our own stories

we are all heroes of our own stories and then it happened it was like a

and then it happened it was like a

and then it happened it was like a curtain being pulled back from my mind

curtain being pulled back from my mind

curtain being pulled back from my mind and I saw a truth not about my story or

and I saw a truth not about my story or

and I saw a truth not about my story or this character but about my real life

this character but about my real life

this character but about my real life and the world around me we are all

and the world around me we are all

and the world around me we are all heroes the villains in my life are the

heroes the villains in my life are the

heroes the villains in my life are the heroes of their own stories but if

heroes of their own stories but if

heroes of their own stories but if they’re heroes what if I am a villain in

they’re heroes what if I am a villain in

they’re heroes what if I am a villain in someone else’s story I am a villain and

someone else’s story I am a villain and

someone else’s story I am a villain and from that moment I saw things

from that moment I saw things

from that moment I saw things differently revelation is like that it

differently revelation is like that it

differently revelation is like that it can happen in an instant often out of

can happen in an instant often out of

can happen in an instant often out of nowhere and suddenly you see something

nowhere and suddenly you see something

nowhere and suddenly you see something you can’t unsee and you know something

you can’t unsee and you know something

you can’t unsee and you know something you can’t unknow and it changes you and

you can’t unknow and it changes you and

you can’t unknow and it changes you and you become accountable for what you know

you become accountable for what you know

you become accountable for what you know and what you have seen we are all heroes

and what you have seen we are all heroes

and what you have seen we are all heroes think about it in a story a hero is the

think about it in a story a hero is the

think about it in a story a hero is the main character the one we follow along

main character the one we follow along

main character the one we follow along on their journey we get to know them we

on their journey we get to know them we

on their journey we get to know them we care about them we root for them we want

care about them we root for them we want

care about them we root for them we want them to win but it’s not because they’re

them to win but it’s not because they’re

them to win but it’s not because they’re perfect

perfect

perfect far from it our favorite heroes full of

far from it our favorite heroes full of

far from it our favorite heroes full of flaws those are the ones we really like

flaws those are the ones we really like

flaws those are the ones we really like because we can relate so think about

because we can relate so think about

because we can relate so think about your favorite stories a book or a movie

your favorite stories a book or a movie

your favorite stories a book or a movie and think about the hero really perfect

and think about the hero really perfect

and think about the hero really perfect Luke Skywalker he’s known as being a

Luke Skywalker he’s known as being a

Luke Skywalker he’s known as being a little bit whiny a little impatient and

little bit whiny a little impatient and

little bit whiny a little impatient and you know in Iron Man Tony Stark we all

you know in Iron Man Tony Stark we all

you know in Iron Man Tony Stark we all know him as a total narcissist The

know him as a total narcissist The

know him as a total narcissist The Hunger Games Katniss Everdeen you know

Hunger Games Katniss Everdeen you know

Hunger Games Katniss Everdeen you know a little bit frosty not really a people

a little bit frosty not really a people

a little bit frosty not really a people eat people person but we don’t care we

eat people person but we don’t care we

eat people person but we don’t care we love them just the way they are they’re

love them just the way they are they’re

love them just the way they are they’re heroes think about some of your favorite

heroes think about some of your favorite

heroes think about some of your favorite people in real life are they perfect do

people in real life are they perfect do

people in real life are they perfect do you love them anyway what about

you love them anyway what about

you love them anyway what about strangers are you a little less

strangers are you a little less

strangers are you a little less forgiving with their flaws there’s

forgiving with their flaws there’s

forgiving with their flaws there’s something about knowing someone about

something about knowing someone about

something about knowing someone about closing that distance between our eyes

closing that distance between our eyes

closing that distance between our eyes and our hearts that makes us care about

and our hearts that makes us care about

and our hearts that makes us care about them and makes us not only forgive their

them and makes us not only forgive their

them and makes us not only forgive their flaws but celebrate them strangers are

flaws but celebrate them strangers are

flaws but celebrate them strangers are just heroes you don’t know yet so in a

just heroes you don’t know yet so in a

just heroes you don’t know yet so in a story the hero has a goal that drives

story the hero has a goal that drives

story the hero has a goal that drives the story forward and it could be

the story forward and it could be

the story forward and it could be anything you know save the world get the

anything you know save the world get the

anything you know save the world get the girl get a glass of water and we don’t

girl get a glass of water and we don’t

girl get a glass of water and we don’t care what it is as long as there’s

care what it is as long as there’s

care what it is as long as there’s believable motivation and this

believable motivation and this

believable motivation and this motivation comes from backstory so

motivation comes from backstory so

motivation comes from backstory so backstory as I’m sure you’re familiar

backstory as I’m sure you’re familiar

backstory as I’m sure you’re familiar with is everything that happened before

with is everything that happened before

with is everything that happened before the story began it’s everything in

the story began it’s everything in

the story began it’s everything in history from the beginning of time

history from the beginning of time

history from the beginning of time forward their ancestors lives forward

forward their ancestors lives forward

forward their ancestors lives forward their own life forward it’s everything

their own life forward it’s everything

their own life forward it’s everything that influences them events personality

that influences them events personality

that influences them events personality nature nurture all of it so think about

nature nurture all of it so think about

nature nurture all of it so think about your own life and your own backstory

your own life and your own backstory

your own life and your own backstory what sort of things motivate you or

what sort of things motivate you or

what sort of things motivate you or shapes you you know influences your

shapes you you know influences your

shapes you you know influences your goals what gives you your why so story

goals what gives you your why so story

goals what gives you your why so story we’ve got a hero they’ve got a goal they

we’ve got a hero they’ve got a goal they

we’ve got a hero they’ve got a goal they go after it they get the goal the end

go after it they get the goal the end

go after it they get the goal the end right know in a story a story is not a

right know in a story a story is not a

right know in a story a story is not a story without conflicts enter the

story without conflicts enter the

story without conflicts enter the villain so the villain or the antagonist

villain so the villain or the antagonist

villain so the villain or the antagonist is the opposing force it’s the one who’s

is the opposing force it’s the one who’s

is the opposing force it’s the one who’s going at you gets in the way of the hero

going at you gets in the way of the hero

going at you gets in the way of the hero reaching their goal but it’s not some

reaching their goal but it’s not some

reaching their goal but it’s not some arbitrary thing it’s because the villain

arbitrary thing it’s because the villain

arbitrary thing it’s because the villain also has a goal it just happens to be in

also has a goal it just happens to be in

also has a goal it just happens to be in direct conflict with the hero’s goal the

direct conflict with the hero’s goal the

direct conflict with the hero’s goal the two goals oppose one another and create

two goals oppose one another and create

two goals oppose one another and create this conflict but even the villain has

this conflict but even the villain has

this conflict but even the villain has to have a why behind their goal a why

to have a why behind their goal a why

to have a why behind their goal a why that comes from backstory now an author

that comes from backstory now an author

that comes from backstory now an author is the gatekeeper of that back

is the gatekeeper of that back

is the gatekeeper of that back story and they’ll sprinkle in bits and

story and they’ll sprinkle in bits and

story and they’ll sprinkle in bits and pieces of backstory as the story

pieces of backstory as the story

pieces of backstory as the story requires but the author knows way more

requires but the author knows way more

requires but the author knows way more about a character and their backstory

about a character and their backstory

about a character and their backstory than the reader or viewer ever gets to

than the reader or viewer ever gets to

than the reader or viewer ever gets to know JRR Tolkien wrote the Lord of the

know JRR Tolkien wrote the Lord of the

know JRR Tolkien wrote the Lord of the Rings and entire anthologies of history

Rings and entire anthologies of history

Rings and entire anthologies of history for middle-earth and JK Rowling has the

for middle-earth and JK Rowling has the

for middle-earth and JK Rowling has the entire Pottermore website dedicated to

entire Pottermore website dedicated to

entire Pottermore website dedicated to all of that cool extra stuff that she

all of that cool extra stuff that she

all of that cool extra stuff that she knows about the Harry Potter world there

knows about the Harry Potter world there

knows about the Harry Potter world there is always more so much more to a

is always more so much more to a

is always more so much more to a character than just what is on the page

character than just what is on the page

character than just what is on the page so often what you find what you get to

so often what you find what you get to

so often what you find what you get to find out in a story comes down to point

find out in a story comes down to point

find out in a story comes down to point of view the vehicle through which the

of view the vehicle through which the

of view the vehicle through which the story is told and you can see how

story is told and you can see how

story is told and you can see how depending on which character is telling

depending on which character is telling

depending on which character is telling the story greatly influences how we

the story greatly influences how we

the story greatly influences how we experience the story what we learn think

experience the story what we learn think

experience the story what we learn think and feel point of view determines how we

and feel point of view determines how we

and feel point of view determines how we perceive the heroes and the villains to

perceive the heroes and the villains to

perceive the heroes and the villains to be there’s been some cool recent movies

be there’s been some cool recent movies

be there’s been some cool recent movies and stories retold from the villains

and stories retold from the villains

and stories retold from the villains perspective right like Maleficent from

perspective right like Maleficent from

perspective right like Maleficent from Sleeping Beauty or wicked which features

Sleeping Beauty or wicked which features

Sleeping Beauty or wicked which features the Wicked Witch of the West or one of

the Wicked Witch of the West or one of

the Wicked Witch of the West or one of my favorites the show on ABC once upon a

my favorites the show on ABC once upon a

my favorites the show on ABC once upon a time that’s a great great show for

time that’s a great great show for

time that’s a great great show for seeing villains and heroes and all the

seeing villains and heroes and all the

seeing villains and heroes and all the intricate backstories we love these

intricate backstories we love these

intricate backstories we love these these movies and these these different

these movies and these these different

these movies and these these different ways because they show us these

ways because they show us these

ways because they show us these characters in a whole new way and now

characters in a whole new way and now

characters in a whole new way and now these characters we get to know them we

these characters we get to know them we

these characters we get to know them we care about them in a new way and they

care about them in a new way and they

care about them in a new way and they become heroes nobody is a villain in

become heroes nobody is a villain in

become heroes nobody is a villain in their own story we are all heroes of our

their own story we are all heroes of our

their own story we are all heroes of our own stories the villains in your life

own stories the villains in your life

own stories the villains in your life are the heroes of their own stories with

are the heroes of their own stories with

are the heroes of their own stories with huge complex backstories so much more

huge complex backstories so much more

huge complex backstories so much more than you can see on the page that

than you can see on the page that

than you can see on the page that motivates them shapes them gives them

motivates them shapes them gives them

motivates them shapes them gives them their goals just like you think of

their goals just like you think of

their goals just like you think of someone that you love someone that you

someone that you love someone that you

someone that you love someone that you know better than anybody else and think

know better than anybody else and think

know better than anybody else and think of everything that you know about them

of everything that you know about them

of everything that you know about them but then think how much more is there to

but then think how much more is there to

but then think how much more is there to know about this person how much more

know about this person how much more

know about this person how much more doesn’t show up on the page now go ahead

doesn’t show up on the page now go ahead

doesn’t show up on the page now go ahead think of a villain in your life someone

think of a villain in your life someone

think of a villain in your life someone who has gotten

who has gotten

who has gotten way of your goals created conflict for

way of your goals created conflict for

way of your goals created conflict for you who has wronged you

you who has wronged you

you who has wronged you maybe even hurt you try to read their

maybe even hurt you try to read their

maybe even hurt you try to read their story with them as the hero what do you

story with them as the hero what do you

story with them as the hero what do you see

see

see what’s their motivation their goals what

what’s their motivation their goals what

what’s their motivation their goals what has influenced them in their backstory

has influenced them in their backstory

has influenced them in their backstory can you see them any differently do you

can you see them any differently do you

can you see them any differently do you feel yourself resisting even to try now

feel yourself resisting even to try now

feel yourself resisting even to try now flip it back on yourself if the villains

flip it back on yourself if the villains

flip it back on yourself if the villains in my life are the heroes of their own

in my life are the heroes of their own

in my life are the heroes of their own stories what if you are a villain in

stories what if you are a villain in

stories what if you are a villain in someone else’s story we are all villains

someone else’s story we are all villains

someone else’s story we are all villains and when this happened to me in my van

and when this happened to me in my van

and when this happened to me in my van it was shockingly not hard to think of

it was shockingly not hard to think of

it was shockingly not hard to think of instances and times in my life where I

instances and times in my life where I

instances and times in my life where I had been a villain

had been a villain

had been a villain they were crystal clear in my mind

they were crystal clear in my mind

they were crystal clear in my mind moments with my family with my mom

moments with my family with my mom

moments with my family with my mom growing up as adults with my husband

growing up as adults with my husband

growing up as adults with my husband definitely with my kids and then you

definitely with my kids and then you

definitely with my kids and then you know what about the other people I’ve

know what about the other people I’ve

know what about the other people I’ve interacted with in my sphere what about

interacted with in my sphere what about

interacted with in my sphere what about strangers and then my my mind went

strangers and then my my mind went

strangers and then my my mind went bigger and further what about people of

bigger and further what about people of

bigger and further what about people of other races what about people of other

other races what about people of other

other races what about people of other languages people of other sexual

languages people of other sexual

languages people of other sexual orientations or nationalities people of

orientations or nationalities people of

orientations or nationalities people of other religions people of other belief

other religions people of other belief

other religions people of other belief systems and I realized it’s so much

systems and I realized it’s so much

systems and I realized it’s so much easier to be a villain when someone is

easier to be a villain when someone is

easier to be a villain when someone is other than me it’s so easy to get caught

other than me it’s so easy to get caught

other than me it’s so easy to get caught up in our own stories so focused on our

up in our own stories so focused on our

up in our own stories so focused on our own goals and pursuits that we become

own goals and pursuits that we become

own goals and pursuits that we become blind to the adversity we caused in the

blind to the adversity we caused in the

blind to the adversity we caused in the stories of others how has our own

stories of others how has our own

stories of others how has our own ignorance or apathy or denial made us

ignorance or apathy or denial made us

ignorance or apathy or denial made us villains if you read the story of your

villains if you read the story of your

villains if you read the story of your life from another character’s point of

life from another character’s point of

life from another character’s point of view what do you see can you see where

view what do you see can you see where

view what do you see can you see where you have been a villain are you still I

you have been a villain are you still I

you have been a villain are you still I hear the cries of defense in my own

hear the cries of defense in my own

hear the cries of defense in my own heart but I didn’t mean it I wasn’t

heart but I didn’t mean it I wasn’t

heart but I didn’t mean it I wasn’t trying to it was a misunderstanding I

trying to it was a misunderstanding I

trying to it was a misunderstanding I thought I was doing the wrong the right

thought I was doing the wrong the right

thought I was doing the wrong the right thing you

thing you

thing you they’re too sensitive they overreacted

they’re too sensitive they overreacted

they’re too sensitive they overreacted they other than me was I trying to be a

they other than me was I trying to be a

they other than me was I trying to be a villain on purpose no were you I hope

villain on purpose no were you I hope

villain on purpose no were you I hope not but intention does not determine

not but intention does not determine

not but intention does not determine results and we are all responsible for

results and we are all responsible for

results and we are all responsible for our results now admitting we are

our results now admitting we are

our results now admitting we are villains will not miraculously solve

villains will not miraculously solve

villains will not miraculously solve everything

everything

everything we are still flawed but relatable

we are still flawed but relatable

we are still flawed but relatable characters with our own goals pursuits

characters with our own goals pursuits

characters with our own goals pursuits and values that will not align with

and values that will not align with

and values that will not align with everyone around us but it helps it makes

everyone around us but it helps it makes

everyone around us but it helps it makes us aware it makes us more conscious of

us aware it makes us more conscious of

us aware it makes us more conscious of our effect on the world around us more

our effect on the world around us more

our effect on the world around us more aware of the adversity we create and it

aware of the adversity we create and it

aware of the adversity we create and it makes us evaluate our ignorance our

makes us evaluate our ignorance our

makes us evaluate our ignorance our apathy our denial and it makes us

apathy our denial and it makes us

apathy our denial and it makes us intentional with our words our actions

intentional with our words our actions

intentional with our words our actions are giving our love our vote and it

are giving our love our vote and it

are giving our love our vote and it makes us admit where we were wrong where

makes us admit where we were wrong where

makes us admit where we were wrong where we misspoke where we made an assumption

we misspoke where we made an assumption

we misspoke where we made an assumption where we didn’t understand and where we

where we didn’t understand and where we

where we didn’t understand and where we acted like villains and it helps us be

acted like villains and it helps us be

acted like villains and it helps us be better to the heroes of the stories

better to the heroes of the stories

better to the heroes of the stories around us we are all heroes and we are

around us we are all heroes and we are

around us we are all heroes and we are all villains acknowledging this truth is

all villains acknowledging this truth is

all villains acknowledging this truth is not condemnation it is the way forward

not condemnation it is the way forward

not condemnation it is the way forward something powerful happens inside the

something powerful happens inside the

something powerful happens inside the human spirit

human spirit

human spirit when rather than ignored a person is

when rather than ignored a person is

when rather than ignored a person is seen when rather than dismissed a voice

seen when rather than dismissed a voice

seen when rather than dismissed a voice is heard showing empathy seeking

is heard showing empathy seeking

is heard showing empathy seeking understanding this is the way towards

understanding this is the way towards

understanding this is the way towards true justice towards peace and harmony

true justice towards peace and harmony

true justice towards peace and harmony with one another with our planet with

with one another with our planet with

with one another with our planet with all living things we must make the

all living things we must make the

all living things we must make the choice to step outside the pages of our

choice to step outside the pages of our

choice to step outside the pages of our own paradigms and experiences and read

own paradigms and experiences and read

own paradigms and experiences and read one another’s stories I hope you’ll join

one another’s stories I hope you’ll join

one another’s stories I hope you’ll join me happy reading

me happy reading

me happy reading you

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