the little girl on the bench does not play from
a lot of time when suddenly
his trainer turns around and says warmed up
she gets up, gets her tail and enters the
couple is in this bare house without
dim lighting
but suddenly she starts there
wait there we could put one
library and here we could put the
red sofa and maybe the small table for
the children
the 55-year-old man is at the fourth interview of
I do not have much work of the day
trust in what may happen but
suddenly opens a door is one
elegant woman says well we decided
that we take her what unites us all
these stories but above all what
it unites us one thing and it is that everyone
we want to be happy but this
word happiness is a strange word it is
an unusual word difficult something
insolent is a word that we recite
with great care as if it were a
made intimate as if we had not
really dare to tell us that there
I would like to be happy
yet I would like to do this in the next
seven minutes talk maybe even a bit
shamelessly of happiness because the
happiness is anything but a fact
theoretical and is like a bit like one
space mission that has to take off
need two conditions the first
condition is very simple to be
we must be happy, that is
we must be a network we must be
together and we must be together in
so that one plus one face 3
this is almost trivial to say but I am
even tremendous studies have been done in the
passed on this subject comes to mind
federico ii federico ii ordino alle
valleys and taking children
born to feed them with lice to eat
to wash them dress them but not to talk to him
because he wanted to know these children that
language they would have used in the absence
to test all these children well
they died before adolescence
because man alone does not live man
needs clarity needs
affectivity needs others and
I repeat this , we know it every so often
we should remind berton a russell
tells us that happy who comes out of himself
and happy those who do not want to get
immediately something in exchange but
because in giving it finds a modality of
realization of a simple theme yet with
how fast we have passed since
open railing houses in which you
he shared the salad the chicken at
armored doors in which relationships
that we have with others are often
mediated by lawyers here is the first
so condition is to be
together but together to do what and here
we appeal to another scholar
Indian daily appathurai that tells us
well the second condition to be
happy aspire to the future that is
re-install life projects e
to desire this important theme too
the future the future is one of three times
in reality the times would be so many
but those we are used to are
three the past the present the future
these times are still there, perhaps
not too much
think of the past the past is a bit
disappeared because we do not have the time
to investigate it then each of us here at
his passions had many books
I like music and I like movies
every now and then he goes from home and I look at mine
books my films me de ski but in Rome the
time to see me aimag had rice
the time to feel me touches half of
read me canetti the answer is no and me
it’s not about it
and I look at them this because of the weather
that we live is compressed in that
that which calls from a gallant galasso
presentism
vision the ability to live
the instant but perhaps the ability to stay
only closed in the instant we are
become dg brakes c is the word is
very nice but you know what the dg fra
nina is a simple test concerns us
in many of giffoni and this imagine
that you are doing anything
while you are making teams heard
an email what you do finish what
you are going to see who they are
writes
let’s go see who writes but while
we went to see who wrote to us
we are at the third line if we hear the
whatsapp whistle what we do
let’s see immediately who
figure but here is this eterodirection
in which our moments are not
more governed by us is another
news of what we live
but beware, I’m not saying that
both worse than before and only different
we live a different time only that in
this different time is important for
many of us take back the hand
own future
what are called life projects
here we are hundreds of people but without
hands up
how many of us sincerely have
life projects , that is, things they see
that are stuck in a future time
that I know in 2031 2040 how many of us
they are studying saving for things
that they want to do 10 15 years
few that we should recover
just this we imagine we have one
po of creating an agenda of the future in the
which we are not only expiring
boiler maintenance but
the then school of sons
the journeys we want to do this ourselves
we have to re-learn to do it
perspective that these are multi-annual
but they are conditions such as psychologists
almost psychological and not enough for
be happy there are also gods
very concrete objective conditions that
they are called well-being but also here that
what is wellness, the history of
There are very exciting wellbeing
you are and there are infinite reasoning and
studies on wellness that vary
also culturally in Asia the son
gross domestic happiness or bill the
gross domestic well-being to work
on the wellbeing index the United Nations
so many studies deal with being in
Italy and we use the best of staff
that fair and sustainable well-being
I think a very simple thing but
also very concrete because it tells us that
basically to give wellbeing to
collectivity
it would be enough to have images while twelve
chapters and are twelve chapters that
they say that if people are able
to take care of making their own study
sons
if we have work in case I
we lose it we find it if the relationships
we are social if we have stability
economic if all this happens in one
country in which the institutions have a
good relationship with us
the landscape is decent the air
breathable the water deri bile and there is
research into the future and services well
we could be well and then these
twelve chapters that are interesting
not only in itself but also because they are
measurable make us think of
this point that maybe the relationships
social
the aspiration of the future and of the
indicators could become
attention of two places and what are the
two places in which you can create the
happiness is a first place is simple
and it is the public happiness is also
a theme of public administration that
should have at the center of their own
policies
the well-being of people thought for
a moment to the cities in which
we live there are cities in which there
they are assessorati to public parks
sports and youth cemeteries as you can
put together such different things
and produce results then the first
very simple idea if well-being at
center of public attention
we create a public organization
divided by chapter of well-being not
It hurts nobody
everything is measurable
and we can transparently understand if
the territory we live in is
making progress however this is the
public then we are there and we are
important in the construction of its own
wellbeing and our happiness e
we should also do things there
things we have to do are not
there are so many, and even this is enough
simple first thing we will have to re learn
to be curious and therefore be
aware of where we are and to take
contact with our situation
knowledge reduces the risk this
it means understanding if we are protected
understand where we want to go understand the
our work end and understand what
I want to be a grown-up, I’m very big
according to you, but I have already mentioned it
we install the future, that is, re-ignite
life projects
this, however, also on the level
affective is a huge motor of
well-being for the people who are there
side and the third thing this is more
hard we have to re-learn a bit
decide why when you walk on
eggs of the times it seems difficult
decide but if the world is running and you are
firm the distance you make the world grows
continuously and this is something that does not
we can afford these little ones
cues of a small intervention but ma
to finish it and then to return to the
our life and therefore know how we too
basically we will have to get out of here with
some easy questions I allow myself to
tell you this evening when you come home
in the hotel you pay to ask me some questions
it’s the first simple question like it
I imagine in ten years where I think to say
to be with someone who can do what that
what is the me that I place in 2027
second question what can I do for
the personal ones I love and that
what people want it
that’s where I’m taking them and if not them
I’m bringing because I do not have to
accompany them let me accompany you in
somewhere and the third question is there
someone who can give me a hand to
realize my projects because nothing
it is more tremendous than privatization
of anxieties and desires and nothing more
liberating that to put it in common with
the others
thank you
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