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If you leave your children one thing, make it this | Robert Gardner | TEDxWandsworth


I’ve got an idea I want to share which

I’ve got an idea I want to share which was my experience but I think it will

was my experience but I think it will

was my experience but I think it will help others and it begins here in

help others and it begins here in

help others and it begins here in Argentina in 1985 that is me and I still

Argentina in 1985 that is me and I still

Argentina in 1985 that is me and I still have those shorts so my idea is this

have those shorts so my idea is this

have those shorts so my idea is this that financial responsibility and

that financial responsibility and

that financial responsibility and teaching our children financial literacy

teaching our children financial literacy

teaching our children financial literacy is as important as ever and growing up

is as important as ever and growing up

is as important as ever and growing up in Argentina was a tough country we just

in Argentina was a tough country we just

in Argentina was a tough country we just moved there from the UK my mum and dad

moved there from the UK my mum and dad

moved there from the UK my mum and dad were teachers earning a salary and pesos

were teachers earning a salary and pesos

were teachers earning a salary and pesos the local currency which proved to be

the local currency which proved to be

the local currency which proved to be challenging but it was this challenging

challenging but it was this challenging

challenging but it was this challenging experience that meant my sister and I’d

experience that meant my sister and I’d

experience that meant my sister and I’d learned an invaluable lesson and

learned an invaluable lesson and

learned an invaluable lesson and experienced about money which I’d love

experienced about money which I’d love

experienced about money which I’d love to share with all of you the first of it

to share with all of you the first of it

to share with all of you the first of it was how to earn it so at the time

was how to earn it so at the time

was how to earn it so at the time Argentina was a poor country through an

Argentina was a poor country through an

Argentina was a poor country through an almost non-existent middle-class my

almost non-existent middle-class my

almost non-existent middle-class my sister and I had no pocket money and yet

sister and I had no pocket money and yet

sister and I had no pocket money and yet every day I’d come home from school with

every day I’d come home from school with

every day I’d come home from school with a few pesos in my pocket how did I do it

a few pesos in my pocket how did I do it

a few pesos in my pocket how did I do it at lunchtime I’d wait for the older boys

at lunchtime I’d wait for the older boys

at lunchtime I’d wait for the older boys and girls to finish drinking their

and girls to finish drinking their

and girls to finish drinking their coca-cola bottles and Fanta bottles and

coca-cola bottles and Fanta bottles and

coca-cola bottles and Fanta bottles and just before the school bell rang I’d go

just before the school bell rang I’d go

just before the school bell rang I’d go over and collect them all up because I

over and collect them all up because I

over and collect them all up because I knew if I took them back to the

knew if I took them back to the

knew if I took them back to the shopkeeper giving him those bottles he’d

shopkeeper giving him those bottles he’d

shopkeeper giving him those bottles he’d give me just a few pesos and that was my

give me just a few pesos and that was my

give me just a few pesos and that was my first lesson how to earn it the truth is

first lesson how to earn it the truth is

first lesson how to earn it the truth is there are opportunities everywhere to

there are opportunities everywhere to

there are opportunities everywhere to earn money

earn money

earn money we just need to spot them and work hard

we just need to spot them and work hard

we just need to spot them and work hard for them so I think and I believe that

for them so I think and I believe that

for them so I think and I believe that financial responsibility and financial

financial responsibility and financial

financial responsibility and financial literacy is as important as maths and we

literacy is as important as maths and we

literacy is as important as maths and we need to start teaching our children now

need to start teaching our children now

need to start teaching our children now so once we figured out how to earn money

so once we figured out how to earn money

so once we figured out how to earn money many of us struggle how to keep it and

many of us struggle how to keep it and

many of us struggle how to keep it and my experience of keeping it was born out

my experience of keeping it was born out

my experience of keeping it was born out of my experience in Argentina so at the

of my experience in Argentina so at the

of my experience in Argentina so at the time the economy was really struggling

time the economy was really struggling

time the economy was really struggling what this meant was the prices were

what this meant was the prices were

what this meant was the prices were going up every single day

going up every single day

going up every single day prices were going up 30% a month but my

prices were going up 30% a month but my

prices were going up 30% a month but my sister and I experienced it in a

sister and I experienced it in a

sister and I experienced it in a different way because at the end of the

different way because at the end of the

different way because at the end of the month on pay day my mom and dad would

month on pay day my mom and dad would

month on pay day my mom and dad would round us up and drive to the supermarket

round us up and drive to the supermarket

round us up and drive to the supermarket and we play what we would call

and we play what we would call

and we play what we would call Argentinian supermarket sweep because my

Argentinian supermarket sweep because my

Argentinian supermarket sweep because my mum would give me and my sister a

mum would give me and my sister a

mum would give me and my sister a shopping list we’d have to run round the

shopping list we’d have to run round the

shopping list we’d have to run round the supermarket as quickly as possible to

supermarket as quickly as possible to

supermarket as quickly as possible to get hold of all the goods we needed

get hold of all the goods we needed

get hold of all the goods we needed before the prices went up that day when

before the prices went up that day when

before the prices went up that day when we got home that night and we done all

we got home that night and we done all

we got home that night and we done all the shopping we needed for the month

the shopping we needed for the month

the shopping we needed for the month my dad would meet up with his best

my dad would meet up with his best

my dad would meet up with his best friend and drive to a black market

friend and drive to a black market

friend and drive to a black market dealer to exchange those pesos for

dealer to exchange those pesos for

dealer to exchange those pesos for dollars because if we didn’t we risk

dollars because if we didn’t we risk

dollars because if we didn’t we risk losing all of our money to the ravages

losing all of our money to the ravages

losing all of our money to the ravages of inflation I still remember my dad

of inflation I still remember my dad

of inflation I still remember my dad saying to me

saying to me

saying to me Rob Argentina isn’t a country where you

Rob Argentina isn’t a country where you

Rob Argentina isn’t a country where you fall asleep on your money because if you

fall asleep on your money because if you

fall asleep on your money because if you if you wake up it might not be there

if you wake up it might not be there

if you wake up it might not be there that experience has stuck with me

that experience has stuck with me

that experience has stuck with me forever and it was my second lesson how

forever and it was my second lesson how

forever and it was my second lesson how to keep it I believe we need to teach

to keep it I believe we need to teach

to keep it I believe we need to teach all of our children how to keep hold of

all of our children how to keep hold of

all of our children how to keep hold of our money because the truth is there

our money because the truth is there

our money because the truth is there were things outside of our control

were things outside of our control

were things outside of our control working against us to take away our

working against us to take away our

working against us to take away our money but I wasn’t to learn the magic of

money but I wasn’t to learn the magic of

money but I wasn’t to learn the magic of the third lesson until a decade later I

the third lesson until a decade later I

the third lesson until a decade later I was lucky I got a job working in a

was lucky I got a job working in a

was lucky I got a job working in a Bureau DeShawn’s in the south of France

Bureau DeShawn’s in the south of France

Bureau DeShawn’s in the south of France and it was with this experience I was

and it was with this experience I was

and it was with this experience I was fortunate enough to get a job here in

fortunate enough to get a job here in

fortunate enough to get a job here in the city advising companies on how to

the city advising companies on how to

the city advising companies on how to manage their foreign exchange risks just

manage their foreign exchange risks just

manage their foreign exchange risks just a few years later I graduated to

a few years later I graduated to

a few years later I graduated to advising those same companies on how to

advising those same companies on how to

advising those same companies on how to look after their pension funds and here

look after their pension funds and here

look after their pension funds and here I learned that magical skill how to grow

I learned that magical skill how to grow

I learned that magical skill how to grow it what people call in the city

it what people call in the city

it what people call in the city compound interest Albert Einstein

compound interest Albert Einstein

compound interest Albert Einstein supposedly called compound interest the

supposedly called compound interest the

supposedly called compound interest the 8th wonder of the world and he said this

8th wonder of the world and he said this

8th wonder of the world and he said this he who understands it earns it he who

he who understands it earns it he who

he who understands it earns it he who doesn’t pays it think about it

doesn’t pays it think about it

doesn’t pays it think about it do you understand compound interest

do you understand compound interest

do you understand compound interest are you earning it or maybe you don’t

are you earning it or maybe you don’t

are you earning it or maybe you don’t and maybe you’re paying it more

and maybe you’re paying it more

and maybe you’re paying it more importantly what about your children

importantly what about your children

importantly what about your children wouldn’t you want your children to learn

wouldn’t you want your children to learn

wouldn’t you want your children to learn about the eighth wonder of the world

about the eighth wonder of the world

about the eighth wonder of the world compound interest how to grow money how

compound interest how to grow money how

compound interest how to grow money how to make money from money so it was with

to make money from money so it was with

to make money from money so it was with this experience of growing up in

this experience of growing up in

this experience of growing up in Argentina that my sister and I learned

Argentina that my sister and I learned

Argentina that my sister and I learned how to earn it how to keep it and how to

how to earn it how to keep it and how to

how to earn it how to keep it and how to grow it but how many of us got any

grow it but how many of us got any

grow it but how many of us got any financial education at school and the

financial education at school and the

financial education at school and the reason why I think it’s so important

reason why I think it’s so important

reason why I think it’s so important right now is that because without these

right now is that because without these

right now is that because without these skills we have a real problem just a few

skills we have a real problem just a few

skills we have a real problem just a few months ago the UK government announced

months ago the UK government announced

months ago the UK government announced that there were 25 million adults in the

that there were 25 million adults in the

that there were 25 million adults in the UK who are financially vulnerable that’s

UK who are financially vulnerable that’s

UK who are financially vulnerable that’s probably some of us in this room and let

probably some of us in this room and let

probably some of us in this room and let me really spell out what financially

me really spell out what financially

me really spell out what financially vulnerable means 17 million of us adults

vulnerable means 17 million of us adults

vulnerable means 17 million of us adults don’t have a hundred pounds in savings

don’t have a hundred pounds in savings

don’t have a hundred pounds in savings which means one overdue bill a broken

which means one overdue bill a broken

which means one overdue bill a broken down washing machine pushes us over into

down washing machine pushes us over into

down washing machine pushes us over into debt four million of us are one month

debt four million of us are one month

debt four million of us are one month away from bankruptcy this problem is

away from bankruptcy this problem is

away from bankruptcy this problem is compounded further because it turns out

compounded further because it turns out

compounded further because it turns out that money is a taboo subject and we

that money is a taboo subject and we

that money is a taboo subject and we don’t like talking about it and parents

don’t like talking about it and parents

don’t like talking about it and parents would rather talk to their children

would rather talk to their children

would rather talk to their children about sex than about money

so if financial and educational is so

so if financial and educational is so important why have we been so bad at it

important why have we been so bad at it

important why have we been so bad at it I have three reasons the first is when

I have three reasons the first is when

I have three reasons the first is when we do teach it we make it too boring

we do teach it we make it too boring

we do teach it we make it too boring until Victorian the second reason is

until Victorian the second reason is

until Victorian the second reason is it’s just too complicated and we make it

it’s just too complicated and we make it

it’s just too complicated and we make it too complicated and the third reason is

too complicated and the third reason is

too complicated and the third reason is we don’t start early enough so a few

we don’t start early enough so a few

we don’t start early enough so a few years ago at a charity we found they

years ago at a charity we found they

years ago at a charity we found they called red starts which teaches children

called red starts which teaches children

called red starts which teaches children financial literacy we thought how can we

financial literacy we thought how can we

financial literacy we thought how can we go about designing a game that gives

go about designing a game that gives

go about designing a game that gives those children the experience the

those children the experience the

those children the experience the emotions of earning money of keeping

emotions of earning money of keeping

emotions of earning money of keeping money we even get them to lose some

money we even get them to lose some

money we even get them to lose some money and crucially the magic of growing

money and crucially the magic of growing

money and crucially the magic of growing their money and I wanted to share what

their money and I wanted to share what

their money and I wanted to share what that experience looked like I wanted to

that experience looked like I wanted to

that experience looked like I wanted to share with you

share with you

share with you money matters so all of the children are

money matters so all of the children are

money matters so all of the children are given 500 pounds and they’ve got to play

given 500 pounds and they’ve got to play

given 500 pounds and they’ve got to play this game and there are opportunities

this game and there are opportunities

this game and there are opportunities everywhere there’s a station called

everywhere there’s a station called

everywhere there’s a station called fighting fit where literally they get

fighting fit where literally they get

fighting fit where literally they get down and do 20 press ups or a few star

down and do 20 press ups or a few star

down and do 20 press ups or a few star jumps and just like that they can earn

jumps and just like that they can earn

jumps and just like that they can earn money because that’s the first lesson

money because that’s the first lesson

money because that’s the first lesson the ability to spot how to earn money

the ability to spot how to earn money

the ability to spot how to earn money and learn that through hard work they

and learn that through hard work they

and learn that through hard work they can earn more money but my favorite game

can earn more money but my favorite game

can earn more money but my favorite game is when I get a call from rich Ricky

is when I get a call from rich Ricky

is when I get a call from rich Ricky bare with me yeah yeah good news

bare with me yeah yeah good news

bare with me yeah yeah good news Rick’s Ricky has an offer to make to all

Rick’s Ricky has an offer to make to all

Rick’s Ricky has an offer to make to all of you he has promised that if you

of you he has promised that if you

of you he has promised that if you invest with him right now

invest with him right now

invest with him right now he will double your money by the end of

he will double your money by the end of

he will double your money by the end of the game at this point loads of kids

the game at this point loads of kids

the game at this point loads of kids hands go up this is a trap we are

hands go up this is a trap we are

hands go up this is a trap we are scamming your children rich Ricky is a

scamming your children rich Ricky is a

scamming your children rich Ricky is a scam yes you heard me

scam yes you heard me

scam yes you heard me we are deliberately scamming your

we are deliberately scamming your

we are deliberately scamming your children a bit later he calls back

children a bit later he calls back

children a bit later he calls back investments have been going really

investments have been going really

investments have been going really really well in fact he needs more money

really well in fact he needs more money

really well in fact he needs more money and he needs it now who wants to double

and he needs it now who wants to double

and he needs it now who wants to double their money by the end of the game

their money by the end of the game

their money by the end of the game something magical happens the

something magical happens the

something magical happens the conversation starts can we trust rich

conversation starts can we trust rich

conversation starts can we trust rich Ricky who is rich Ricky one wise boy

Ricky who is rich Ricky one wise boy

Ricky who is rich Ricky one wise boy comes up to me and says is it a Ponzi

comes up to me and says is it a Ponzi

comes up to me and says is it a Ponzi scheme

sadly for that poor boy the lure of

sadly for that poor boy the lure of doubling his money was too much and just

doubling his money was too much and just

doubling his money was too much and just a bit later he comes to me really

a bit later he comes to me really

a bit later he comes to me really excited and he pulls me down he says Rob

excited and he pulls me down he says Rob

excited and he pulls me down he says Rob I figured out how to win the game and he

I figured out how to win the game and he

I figured out how to win the game and he gives me all of his money to rich Ricky

gives me all of his money to rich Ricky

gives me all of his money to rich Ricky sadly I get another call it’s rich Ricky

sadly I get another call it’s rich Ricky

sadly I get another call it’s rich Ricky again the investments haven’t gone so

again the investments haven’t gone so

again the investments haven’t gone so well he’s not coming back all the money

well he’s not coming back all the money

well he’s not coming back all the money is gone the kids are devastated that

is gone the kids are devastated that

is gone the kids are devastated that poor boy is on the verge of tears and

poor boy is on the verge of tears and

poor boy is on the verge of tears and yet I promise you he learned the most

yet I promise you he learned the most

yet I promise you he learned the most valuable lesson that day the ability to

valuable lesson that day the ability to

valuable lesson that day the ability to spot are too good to be true scam and

spot are too good to be true scam and

spot are too good to be true scam and the reason why this is important is

the reason why this is important is

the reason why this is important is every single day including today we lose

every single day including today we lose

every single day including today we lose two million pounds to financial scams

two million pounds to financial scams

two million pounds to financial scams and fraud

and fraud

and fraud wouldn’t you rather we taught your kids

wouldn’t you rather we taught your kids

wouldn’t you rather we taught your kids the experience of rich Ricky rather than

the experience of rich Ricky rather than

the experience of rich Ricky rather than waiting until they graduate from school

waiting until they graduate from school

waiting until they graduate from school or university and meet a real-life rich

or university and meet a real-life rich

or university and meet a real-life rich Ricky but the magical station is one

Ricky but the magical station is one

Ricky but the magical station is one called built to last and here the

called built to last and here the

called built to last and here the children if they spot it have the

children if they spot it have the

children if they spot it have the opportunity to invest fifty pounds to

opportunity to invest fifty pounds to

opportunity to invest fifty pounds to play and the game is simple you build a

play and the game is simple you build a

play and the game is simple you build a tower out of blocks of wood the taller

tower out of blocks of wood the taller

tower out of blocks of wood the taller the tower the more interest you earn

the tower the more interest you earn

the tower the more interest you earn they have two strategies one strategy is

they have two strategies one strategy is

they have two strategies one strategy is to build a really tall tower and earn

to build a really tall tower and earn

to build a really tall tower and earn lots and lots of interest another

lots and lots of interest another

lots and lots of interest another strategy is to play it safe

strategy is to play it safe

strategy is to play it safe build a smaller Tower collect the

build a smaller Tower collect the

build a smaller Tower collect the interest and go again earning interest

interest and go again earning interest

interest and go again earning interest on your interest what do you think the

on your interest what do you think the

on your interest what do you think the kids do I wonder what would you do well

kids do I wonder what would you do well

kids do I wonder what would you do well most of the kids fall for the trap of

most of the kids fall for the trap of

most of the kids fall for the trap of building the taller tower because just

building the taller tower because just

building the taller tower because just as you go to put that brick on top you

as you go to put that brick on top you

as you go to put that brick on top you risk

risk

risk knocking down all the blocks of woods

knocking down all the blocks of woods

knocking down all the blocks of woods and losing everything because actually

and losing everything because actually

and losing everything because actually building smaller towers is easier it’s

building smaller towers is easier it’s

building smaller towers is easier it’s less risky and once you start to build

less risky and once you start to build

less risky and once you start to build and on top of each other you start to

and on top of each other you start to

and on top of each other you start to this magic feeling of growing your money

this magic feeling of growing your money

this magic feeling of growing your money or earning interest and crucially the

or earning interest and crucially the

or earning interest and crucially the more you practice the better you get

more you practice the better you get

more you practice the better you get so we’ve played money matters now with

so we’ve played money matters now with

so we’ve played money matters now with over 500 pupils and the results are

over 500 pupils and the results are

over 500 pupils and the results are fascinating over half of the children

fascinating over half of the children

fascinating over half of the children end up with less money than they started

end up with less money than they started

end up with less money than they started a handful of them like that poor boy I

a handful of them like that poor boy I

a handful of them like that poor boy I mentioned earlier end up losing almost

mentioned earlier end up losing almost

mentioned earlier end up losing almost all their money and yet every time we

all their money and yet every time we

all their money and yet every time we have a handful of winners and we’ve had

have a handful of winners and we’ve had

have a handful of winners and we’ve had 20 to 30 pupils who’ve more than doubled

20 to 30 pupils who’ve more than doubled

20 to 30 pupils who’ve more than doubled their money to get a thousand pounds how

their money to get a thousand pounds how

their money to get a thousand pounds how did they do it turns out that these

did they do it turns out that these

did they do it turns out that these young boys and girls they’re not Richard

young boys and girls they’re not Richard

young boys and girls they’re not Richard Branson

Branson

Branson I want to taught them the rules to the

I want to taught them the rules to the

I want to taught them the rules to the game they experienced it they learnt it

game they experienced it they learnt it

game they experienced it they learnt it they watched other boys and girls losing

they watched other boys and girls losing

they watched other boys and girls losing money to rich Ricky putting money in the

money to rich Ricky putting money in the

money to rich Ricky putting money in the bank

bank

bank playing built to last building a tall

playing built to last building a tall

playing built to last building a tall tower and figuring out that that doesn’t

tower and figuring out that that doesn’t

tower and figuring out that that doesn’t work but there’s enough time in the game

work but there’s enough time in the game

work but there’s enough time in the game to figure out the rules of the game now

to figure out the rules of the game now

to figure out the rules of the game now wouldn’t you want your children to know

wouldn’t you want your children to know

wouldn’t you want your children to know the rules of the game to feel confident

the rules of the game to feel confident

the rules of the game to feel confident about managing their money well I’m a

about managing their money well I’m a

about managing their money well I’m a dad and I have two young daughters and

dad and I have two young daughters and

dad and I have two young daughters and this is me playing built to last with my

this is me playing built to last with my

this is me playing built to last with my three and a half year old daughter now

three and a half year old daughter now

three and a half year old daughter now just a week ago we had some friends over

just a week ago we had some friends over

just a week ago we had some friends over and they bought her a cupcake and it

and they bought her a cupcake and it

and they bought her a cupcake and it made me very proud because about halfway

made me very proud because about halfway

made me very proud because about halfway through she stopped eating her cupcake

through she stopped eating her cupcake

through she stopped eating her cupcake and she said daddy I’ve had enough I

and she said daddy I’ve had enough I

and she said daddy I’ve had enough I want to keep it till later now delayed

want to keep it till later now delayed

want to keep it till later now delayed gratification is a foundational habit to

gratification is a foundational habit to

gratification is a foundational habit to financial responsibility and financial

financial responsibility and financial

financial responsibility and financial literacy and we can start at a young age

literacy and we can start at a young age

literacy and we can start at a young age but my contention is this let’s not wait

but my contention is this let’s not wait

but my contention is this let’s not wait for the government to put financial

for the government to put financial

for the government to put financial education on the school syllabus let’s

education on the school syllabus let’s

education on the school syllabus let’s start having a conversation with our

start having a conversation with our

start having a conversation with our children now about money let

children now about money let

children now about money let not finding fun and engaging ways to

not finding fun and engaging ways to

not finding fun and engaging ways to allow our children to experience how to

allow our children to experience how to

allow our children to experience how to earn it how to keep it and how to grow

earn it how to keep it and how to grow

earn it how to keep it and how to grow it because it turns out I was very lucky

it because it turns out I was very lucky

it because it turns out I was very lucky growing up in Argentina because I got to

growing up in Argentina because I got to

growing up in Argentina because I got to experience things that most people don’t

experience things that most people don’t

experience things that most people don’t and I had parents who taught me about

and I had parents who taught me about

and I had parents who taught me about budgeting and saving because it turns

budgeting and saving because it turns

budgeting and saving because it turns out we learn on money saving habits by

out we learn on money saving habits by

out we learn on money saving habits by the age of seven

the age of seven

the age of seven so I dare you to take action and have a

so I dare you to take action and have a

so I dare you to take action and have a conversation with a child or a

conversation with a child or a

conversation with a child or a grandchild because I promise you this

grandchild because I promise you this

grandchild because I promise you this will have an impact that will compound

will have an impact that will compound

will have an impact that will compound forever thank you

forever thank you

forever thank you [Applause]

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