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Identifier ses ressources pour vivre plus heureux | Tanja Bellier Teichmann | TEDxMartigny


you trust me I mean

really confident this month right now

that’s where I had listened

my natural inclination I would be

gladly stayed home tonight

it would have saved me some jitters

before going on stage here but I

decided to activate half a resources

it’s the taste of challenges and the

curiosity also in your opinion what

percentage the population knows

really his resources his skills

his personal talents

you have an idea the answer is

less than a third of people

it means that between you and me here

tonight

less than one in three people only

really knows his skills not

huge but how come we

know as badly our resources

the brain of the human being is actually

programmed to focus more

on the negative

the problems the flaws the dangers

lurking and it is moreover

functional this is what allowed

evolution if prehistoric man

had not been paying attention to all

dangers that awaited him everywhere without

doubt he would not have survived

let’s take a more concrete example

imagine that you are in the process of

take a walk in this magnificent

forest in canada admire you beauty

azure lake color of trees

mountains you hear in the distance the

birds singing you feel the

pleasant sensation of sun heat

on your skin when suddenly

appears in front of you a grill j

good this one still looks

relatively friendly but let’s imagine

that he approaches you and makes you

face threateningly

at this moment you are going

Feel the fear or even the

panic at this moment your field

of attention your behaviors your

thoughts will be restricted to themselves

focus on one dimension your

survival and in this specific example where

your life is in danger

it’s obviously a good thing that

you are concentrating on your survival

only and not admiring the

beauty of the azure lake or

to listen to the song of birds

on the other hand if permanently in your

everyday every moment you are

constantly focused on

problems the dangers that await you

so that would be a lot less

positive unless you have grizzlies

who’s watching you on every street corner

do we ever know

what psychology researchers in

actually found is that when we feel

a negative emotion like fear

from the sadness of anger

then indeed our field of attention

shrinks itself narrows and focuses

on one dimension

what is interesting is that

the opposite when you feel a

positive emotion as joy of the

pride of well being then that

inverse that occurs

our attention show is growing

widens one becomes more creative more

flexible more concretely what that

means that if you have a

problem to solve in your

daily and that you get to put

humor or a positive emotion

in this situation then you

find solutions more easily

to your problems because you

take into account all

possible dimensions

not so easy so to enjoy

full of the beauty of this landscape

are the true dangers to us

but there is also the emotional state

in which we are

at the time of the ride if we imagine that

you were fired the day before

of your ride there is a good chance

so that instead of subjugated by the

beauty of the landscape you are rather in

brooding over ruminating your

termination

imagine now for a second

what people who suffer from

anxiety depression of alcoholism

could perceive in this landscape there is

high chances that a person

suffering from depression instead of seeing

the beauty of these mountains she saw

rather this ones or even if it goes

very bad

she may see this as to

the person

anguished even before the arrival of

first grizzlies it could be that she

see and already that about the person

suffering from alcoholism and lacking

alcohol at the time of the ride

it may be that instead of seeing

mountains and saw it a sweet

mix as a psychologist

I then asked myself a question these

people who are suffering from depression

of anxiety about alcoholism or

schizophrenia know such their

resources do their skills have they

confidence in it not sure all the more

that in psychiatric hospitals we

is generally more interested in

symptoms of patients to their

problems in the idea of ​​reducing them

to diminish them

but suddenly we’re not interested

so much to their resources their

skills in the idea of ​​them

increase

amplify them

and yet recent studies in

psychology have shown that when

consider the resources the

skills in a patient

then these symptoms decrease more

quickly here besides how does the

who defines health as in a state of

complete mental physical well-being and

social and not just the absence of

pathology or infirmity if the

first part the sentence can

look a bit utopian or difficult

to reach for everyone

finally what interests me here is

especially the second part be in

healthy

it’s not fair to have no more angoise

no more depressed it is also and

Above all, feeling a state of well-being

pleasant positive emotions that’s

for that reason I decided to

to be interested more in

symptoms of my patients but also to

their skills and so I

decided to develop a new tool

who gives us a kind of photograph

the most complete possible of all

resources in a patient at the moment

where I started in this

adventure

I was pretty naive or so very

optimistic it’s according to anyway

I was sure there was already

full of tools the kind reality has

been very different

this kind of tool are very rare

even nonexistent then on what is this

that I based myself to be able to

develop my new tool I got

based on empirical research that

is about happiness happiness you

tell me what is it that the

vast happiness indeed subject science

psychology tried to answer to

this question and found that for

to be happy it takes three dimensions

essential

the first is what is called the

nice life for that you have to increase

maximize the positive emotions the

pleasant sensations in your life and

we must minimize said

meaney and the negative emotions the

suffering the problem there are two

in fact

the first is that if I give you to

enjoy one of these succulent chocolates

the first one likes to tell you my incredible

the fourth I’ll give you for

is nice and when you eat

the whole box you will have a

indigestion

we get used very quickly to this kind of

happiness and the second problem it’s

that there is pain suffering

whose lives that are part of

the existing is that we can not just

decided to remove then this dimension

if it’s one of the dimensions of happiness

it’s the least important of the three

it’s a little icing on the cake

so what are the other two

dimensions to be happy the

second this is called the

committed city for his imagine you

be someone funny of creative of

curious then it will already take

awareness identify its resources in

you and then use them in your

work your leisure your relationships

social

your daily life as often as possible

and thanks to that you will feel

more passion commitment

the third dimension is life

full of meaning for that it takes friends

a family a job that makes sense

to your life who correspond to who

you really are to your values ​​my

tool derive from these three dimensions

it is based on a deck of cards for

keep a playful aspect that motivates

Indeed, patients have found that

classic questionnaires are not

always adapted to patients

psychiatric

on the one hand they are not very motivating

to fill in and secondly for

patients who have difficulties

cognitive or linguistic it’s not

always very suitable then no one

offers them to make a card game

they sort the cards according to the

resources that correspond to them

so what exactly is measured

in this tool we measure 30 is a

different resource

the first are the qualities

personal as being

curious funny optimistic the second this

are the hobbies the passions like the

sport creative activities

the music is the third it’s the

external resources like friends the

family nature once my tool

created I went to the hospital

psychiatric to test it and there I

I came all happy with my

tool under the arm and I have disillusioned

because most of the patients that I

met me told me where it’s used to

nothing to do this tool with me me

I have only symptoms

I have no resources and yet the

most patients will let themselves

to convince is let take to the game and

at the end of the interview these same

people were telling me ah yeah you

were right it’s resources of

skills that I have in me is

things that I saw even more but there

now I see then how is this

we were going to help

patients to identify their resources

they were actually offered to do three

sort of different cards in their

evidence the first one was given them

all the cards say tell them among

these resources

which are present in your life

for example, I met eve who told me

tell me I am someone very

brave with all the events

difficult traumatic that I lived

in my existence

if I had no courage I would be more

here today to talk to you about it

then I suggested to aig to make a

second sort of cards

I kept all the resources that

was present in his life and I him

asked if resources how much

do they contribute to your

establishment

when really you go wrong at what

point she helps you feel

better

the sap told me without hesitation the

gratitude she told me you know

I have already been hospitalized eight

time

psychiatric hospital my husband my

children could have given up since

a very long time but they are there they me

support

he encourages me and that’s what gives me

a second chance

that’s what helps me get up every

morning then I suggested to aig from

make a third card sort

I took the resources that was

present in his life the one that was

absent and I told him among those

resources

is there any that you would like

to develop or strengthen further

total we passed this tool to more

of 200 patients who were suffering from

extremely psychic troubles

severe chronic and results

achieved are incredible patients

that had the most sufferings

heavy the symptoms the most dif

difficult to treat had also

many resources

here are the resources that she is more

present in the qualities

personal

recognition the humor and the

curiosity and here are the resources he

wanted to develop the most

self- confidence

hope is being more

listening to their bodies the other

thing we’ve seen is that a

once patients have taken

awareness of their resources

so after an hour of talk they

have had more confidence in themselves they get

have felt more serene more satisfied

from their lives he had the feeling that

their lives made more sense but especially

he felt happier it’s thanks

to these results obtained that a

twenty psychiatric hospitals in

Switzerland and France began to

use this new tool for

to focus more on

symptoms of their patients but also

to their resources

besides this tool is suitable for any

one each

it was also tested on people from

the general population who have us

said ah yeah that’s right this tool has me

allowed to become aware of quality

skills that I did not even know

that I had besides you all

received

a resource card that actually

hidden under the back of your chair

I give you time to discover it

ask the question there now

is it a resource that

you have or have a hobby that you have

in your life if yes is that it’s

something that you activate that you

use in difficult times

when it’s really bad

does it help you feel

better and if it’s a resource you

do not have is it a

skill you would like

develop further strengthen

if one day you went through a storm

as it can happen to anyone

or just that you doubt yourselves

take the time to identify if

resources his skills his talents

who are yours who are like a

treasure just waiting to be

activated to make you feel more

serene happy and happy

thank you

[Applause]

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