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Humanise my Knitting Club | Tamara Turki | TEDxYouth@ACSAmman


my name is Simona Turkey and I’m a

my name is Simona Turkey and I’m a Palestinian and I come from a family of

Palestinian and I come from a family of

Palestinian and I come from a family of Palestinian refugees my father’s family

Palestinian refugees my father’s family

Palestinian refugees my father’s family fled to Lebanon in the 1940s on refugee

fled to Lebanon in the 1940s on refugee

fled to Lebanon in the 1940s on refugee travel documents it wasn’t until he was

travel documents it wasn’t until he was

travel documents it wasn’t until he was 12 that my father was given the Austrian

12 that my father was given the Austrian

12 that my father was given the Austrian citizenship and because of that here

citizenship and because of that here

citizenship and because of that here stands a perfect image of a privileged

stands a perfect image of a privileged

stands a perfect image of a privileged teenage girl who’s never struggled with

teenage girl who’s never struggled with

teenage girl who’s never struggled with the realities of the real world I’ve

the realities of the real world I’ve

the realities of the real world I’ve never needed to worry about paying for

never needed to worry about paying for

never needed to worry about paying for my school or having a roof over my head

my school or having a roof over my head

my school or having a roof over my head and I’ve certainly never had to go to

and I’ve certainly never had to go to

and I’ve certainly never had to go to bed fearing for my life but you see the

bed fearing for my life but you see the

bed fearing for my life but you see the two million Palestinians living in the

two million Palestinians living in the

two million Palestinians living in the West Bank and the 1.5 Palestinian

West Bank and the 1.5 Palestinian

West Bank and the 1.5 Palestinian refugees are not as fortunate as I am it

refugees are not as fortunate as I am it

refugees are not as fortunate as I am it breaks my heart to see that my people my

breaks my heart to see that my people my

breaks my heart to see that my people my community are being dehumanized in a

community are being dehumanized in a

community are being dehumanized in a sense that millions are being killed or

sense that millions are being killed or

sense that millions are being killed or deprived from their basic necessities

deprived from their basic necessities

deprived from their basic necessities and I think to myself how society been

and I think to myself how society been

and I think to myself how society been able to turn a blind eye through the

able to turn a blind eye through the

able to turn a blind eye through the brutal mistreatment of Palestinians

brutal mistreatment of Palestinians

brutal mistreatment of Palestinians rings occupation how society been able

rings occupation how society been able

rings occupation how society been able to belittle the importance of

to belittle the importance of

to belittle the importance of Palestinian human lives to an extent

Palestinian human lives to an extent

Palestinian human lives to an extent where no one intervenes through the

where no one intervenes through the

where no one intervenes through the bloodshed and terror of this conflict

bloodshed and terror of this conflict

bloodshed and terror of this conflict and only few who are lucky like me get

and only few who are lucky like me get

and only few who are lucky like me get to lead normal healthy lives I wanted to

to lead normal healthy lives I wanted to

to lead normal healthy lives I wanted to look at this concept of dehumanization

look at this concept of dehumanization

look at this concept of dehumanization on a large scale to understand the

on a large scale to understand the

on a large scale to understand the situation was back and when I did I

situation was back and when I did I

situation was back and when I did I realize it a signal peace in all parts

realize it a signal peace in all parts

realize it a signal peace in all parts of the world 130 thousand thousand

of the world 130 thousand thousand

of the world 130 thousand thousand Mexicans have been slot in the Mexican

Mexicans have been slot in the Mexican

Mexicans have been slot in the Mexican drug war four hundred and seventy

drug war four hundred and seventy

drug war four hundred and seventy thousand Syrians have been killed in the

thousand Syrians have been killed in the

thousand Syrians have been killed in the Civil War and one thousand and five

Civil War and one thousand and five

Civil War and one thousand and five hundred Sudanese have been slaughtered

hundred Sudanese have been slaughtered

hundred Sudanese have been slaughtered in the ongoing turmoil I’m stating all

in the ongoing turmoil I’m stating all

in the ongoing turmoil I’m stating all these numbers but what do they really

these numbers but what do they really

these numbers but what do they really mean well they mean that 130,000

mean well they mean that 130,000

mean well they mean that 130,000 Mexicans who look like this

four hundred and seventy thousand

four hundred and seventy thousand Syrians who look like this and one

Syrians who look like this and one

Syrians who look like this and one thousand and five thousand Sudanese who

thousand and five thousand Sudanese who

thousand and five thousand Sudanese who look like this how are the people

look like this how are the people

look like this how are the people responsible for these killings able to

responsible for these killings able to

responsible for these killings able to justify themselves so many died in the

justify themselves so many died in the

justify themselves so many died in the most gruesome ways and it seems that

most gruesome ways and it seems that

most gruesome ways and it seems that little or no action has been taken by

little or no action has been taken by

little or no action has been taken by any world leaders to seek justice and

any world leaders to seek justice and

any world leaders to seek justice and peace for these people because the some

peace for these people because the some

peace for these people because the some they’re viewed as less important and

they’re viewed as less important and

they’re viewed as less important and this dehumanization of people can

this dehumanization of people can

this dehumanization of people can structures for a skin color systemic

structures for a skin color systemic

structures for a skin color systemic racism has degraded the human value of

racism has degraded the human value of

racism has degraded the human value of African Americans in the u.s. to an

African Americans in the u.s. to an

African Americans in the u.s. to an extent that campaign seeking justice

extent that campaign seeking justice

extent that campaign seeking justice loudly need to tell you that black lives

loudly need to tell you that black lives

loudly need to tell you that black lives matter self about these global issues I

matter self about these global issues I

matter self about these global issues I wanted to understand why the

wanted to understand why the

wanted to understand why the humanization occurred according to

humanization occurred according to

humanization occurred according to Social Psychology people recognized two

Social Psychology people recognized two

Social Psychology people recognized two kinds of social groups an in-group and

kinds of social groups an in-group and

kinds of social groups an in-group and an out-group an in-group is a social

an out-group an in-group is a social

an out-group an in-group is a social group in which people identify

group in which people identify

group in which people identify themselves to and the out group being

themselves to and the out group being

themselves to and the out group being vice versa and people can have multiple

vice versa and people can have multiple

vice versa and people can have multiple in groups according to race age

in groups according to race age

in groups according to race age nationality and so on so for example my

nationality and so on so for example my

nationality and so on so for example my in groups would be Middle Easterners

in groups would be Middle Easterners

in groups would be Middle Easterners seventeen-year-olds or if I liked it it

seventeen-year-olds or if I liked it it

seventeen-year-olds or if I liked it it then the girls for my knitting club

then the girls for my knitting club

then the girls for my knitting club these would be the group of people in

these would be the group of people in

these would be the group of people in which I feel I belong to and the out

which I feel I belong to and the out

which I feel I belong to and the out group would be everybody else such as

group would be everybody else such as

group would be everybody else such as Russian Olympic gymnast so a bunch of

Russian Olympic gymnast so a bunch of

Russian Olympic gymnast so a bunch of eight-year-olds in Timbuktu and so

eight-year-olds in Timbuktu and so

eight-year-olds in Timbuktu and so dehumanization occurs because our brains

dehumanization occurs because our brains

dehumanization occurs because our brains tend to view the out-group as less of

tend to view the out-group as less of

tend to view the out-group as less of humans and this doesn’t necessarily

humans and this doesn’t necessarily

humans and this doesn’t necessarily motivate people to be cruel but what it

motivate people to be cruel but what it

motivate people to be cruel but what it rather does is stimulate a moral

rather does is stimulate a moral

rather does is stimulate a moral indifference in which we recognize that

indifference in which we recognize that

indifference in which we recognize that something is terribly wrong yet we say

something is terribly wrong yet we say

something is terribly wrong yet we say or do nothing subject to this bias for

or do nothing subject to this bias for

or do nothing subject to this bias for an in-group over our out group you see I

an in-group over our out group you see I

an in-group over our out group you see I never realize how true this was until

never realize how true this was until

never realize how true this was until last week I want miss trip to Cambodia

last week I want miss trip to Cambodia

last week I want miss trip to Cambodia I’ve met our tour guide and he was such

I’ve met our tour guide and he was such

I’ve met our tour guide and he was such a lovely man he’s very sweet and we had

a lovely man he’s very sweet and we had

a lovely man he’s very sweet and we had just arrived after our 12-hour trip from

just arrived after our 12-hour trip from

just arrived after our 12-hour trip from here to Cambodia and oh here’s the thing

here to Cambodia and oh here’s the thing

here to Cambodia and oh here’s the thing they lost our luggage they lost our

they lost our luggage they lost our

they lost our luggage they lost our luggage we’re on our way to our hotel

luggage we’re on our way to our hotel

luggage we’re on our way to our hotel and our tour guide so it’s talking to us

and our tour guide so it’s talking to us

and our tour guide so it’s talking to us about the Cambodian genocide that ended

about the Cambodian genocide that ended

about the Cambodian genocide that ended in 80s

in 80s

in 80s and how his father was killed in it now

and how his father was killed in it now

and how his father was killed in it now I was thinking oh god this must be

I was thinking oh god this must be

I was thinking oh god this must be horrible but I can’t really think about

horrible but I can’t really think about

horrible but I can’t really think about this right now I mean the airport just

this right now I mean the airport just

this right now I mean the airport just lost my luggage and how soon can I get

lost my luggage and how soon can I get

lost my luggage and how soon can I get deodorant because I’m sure I smell

deodorant because I’m sure I smell

deodorant because I’m sure I smell disgusting and so you see I sympathize

disgusting and so you see I sympathize

disgusting and so you see I sympathize with this man but I didn’t really feel

with this man but I didn’t really feel

with this man but I didn’t really feel any form of deep pain for him but as the

any form of deep pain for him but as the

any form of deep pain for him but as the days went on I started to feel this

days went on I started to feel this

days went on I started to feel this sense of guilt as I am Pereira Lee

sense of guilt as I am Pereira Lee

sense of guilt as I am Pereira Lee integrated into the Cambodian community

integrated into the Cambodian community

integrated into the Cambodian community on our third day all right tour guide

on our third day all right tour guide

on our third day all right tour guide took us to a killing field where

took us to a killing field where

took us to a killing field where thousands of Cambodians were slaughtered

thousands of Cambodians were slaughtered

thousands of Cambodians were slaughtered in the Cambodian genocide and as he was

in the Cambodian genocide and as he was

in the Cambodian genocide and as he was talking about the history you could hear

talking about the history you could hear

talking about the history you could hear the pain in his voice and see the tears

the pain in his voice and see the tears

the pain in his voice and see the tears in his eyes and in that moment I knew

in his eyes and in that moment I knew

in his eyes and in that moment I knew that what he was feeling is exactly what

that what he was feeling is exactly what

that what he was feeling is exactly what I feel towards the palestinian-israeli

I feel towards the palestinian-israeli

I feel towards the palestinian-israeli conflict later that day he took us to a

conflict later that day he took us to a

conflict later that day he took us to a prison where they kept victims in the

prison where they kept victims in the

prison where they kept victims in the genocides and we actually got to meet

genocides and we actually got to meet

genocides and we actually got to meet one of the victims as he was sharing his

one of the victims as he was sharing his

one of the victims as he was sharing his story I felt my heart drop as he was

story I felt my heart drop as he was

story I felt my heart drop as he was sharing these his awful memories in

sharing these his awful memories in

sharing these his awful memories in details and so you see my reaction to

details and so you see my reaction to

details and so you see my reaction to the Cambodian genocide was much

the Cambodian genocide was much

the Cambodian genocide was much different than it was in the beginning

different than it was in the beginning

different than it was in the beginning of the trip

of the trip

of the trip I built this empathy through learning

I built this empathy through learning

I built this empathy through learning something new about this nation and in

something new about this nation and in

something new about this nation and in the end I didn’t look at their pain as

the end I didn’t look at their pain as

the end I didn’t look at their pain as any less than the pain of my people who

any less than the pain of my people who

any less than the pain of my people who suffer back home not everyone is able to

suffer back home not everyone is able to

suffer back home not everyone is able to travel halfway across the world to

travel halfway across the world to

travel halfway across the world to empathize with a different nation and

empathize with a different nation and

empathize with a different nation and not everyone has to do

not everyone has to do

not everyone has to do we’re also concerned for looking off our

we’re also concerned for looking off our

we’re also concerned for looking off our in-group that we tend to forget that the

in-group that we tend to forget that the

in-group that we tend to forget that the odd group are people too but if we all

odd group are people too but if we all

odd group are people too but if we all tried a little harder to educate

tried a little harder to educate

tried a little harder to educate ourselves about these different parts of

ourselves about these different parts of

ourselves about these different parts of the world then there will start to

the world then there will start to

the world then there will start to become this mentality in which we

become this mentality in which we

become this mentality in which we identify with everyone reading a book or

identify with everyone reading a book or

identify with everyone reading a book or an article or just simply watching a

an article or just simply watching a

an article or just simply watching a documentary can go a long way that’s why

documentary can go a long way that’s why

documentary can go a long way that’s why having different skin colors different

having different skin colors different

having different skin colors different gods and different traditions there will

gods and different traditions there will

gods and different traditions there will always be commonalities between us and

always be commonalities between us and

always be commonalities between us and if we just took the time to discover

if we just took the time to discover

if we just took the time to discover them then I can assure you our abilities

them then I can assure you our abilities

them then I can assure you our abilities to empathize will stretch much further

to empathize will stretch much further

to empathize will stretch much further ladies and gentlemen in the end of the

ladies and gentlemen in the end of the

ladies and gentlemen in the end of the day we’re all part of the same in-group

day we’re all part of the same in-group

day we’re all part of the same in-group which is being human thank you

which is being human thank you

which is being human thank you [Applause]

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