wow wow what emotion that makes us
there are three things that I would like
you should hear this talk other
concepts
awakening the connection with the sar and
the diamond
ok let’s see if we can do that
surely go you are something your day
have had an experience where
Suddenly something owed it can be
casual facts like watching a movie
it happened to me with the matrix movie
the year 99 leisure or a phrase from a book
or also because it ‘s a song that
we listen to songs we listen to them but
one day listen to the lyrics and exhaust
they can also be made not so
pleasant to more painful something more
difficult in my case at 32 years
he had a huge family loss that
and he hits the stomach and left me
like breathless
I had as an awakening as well as without
anesthesia
Now that means I woke up
means that I asked myself questions that
I have never done for example before
ask how I am and who does not but I
I want to go
is this what he said for my life I will be
living in automatic that I want to
me, who am I really the
more questions that lead to stir the
past what they helped me was to
question that country rye to challenge
this present
chrysler realize what my
present that moment at that age not
I had that abrupt discard
I have an ideal life, it was a book
I lived in a very nice and Nazi area
in fact curiously at 10 juan 1015
square here there was a school for the
zone a school also very good
I had many friends I was a sportsman
so it has gained a lot of humidity
fast soccer later goal be in
that time I’m doing well with the girl be
a handsome guy so he did not have
problem had studied after
business administration in the
Buenos Aires’ University
and at 26 I went to Boston to do a
postgraduate in harvard
wow what else could 3 did not have everything
even after I started working on
one of the most important banks in
world
I finally got married a woman
wonderful of four great children the
home silver cars travel everything everything
they told me that I had to have to
be happy but they know that I do not
I felt like I did not feel like me
They said that I would feel once
the man and have all that and in addition
I could not escape this either
dissatisfaction was somehow
nor for other questions that obviously
I did not have any
answer
so I said let’s go to the search
and started a search a search
inside
so deep intense and the first thing that
I realized that in that voice when I
I looked and I gave to all those who were
around me that most and we’re going
by the same path
as well as for a path all equal and
I put it in an equation I said doing for
get to do it does not give an idea of
the number of almost daily situations
that we live under this formula and
we actually learned almost from the
cradle
I remember when they told me if I
You’re good, I’m going to give you a prize
then you are a good son wow be a
good son depended on what he does
but good is the formula then
we keep moving forward and get the
adolescence I cut my hair fashion
to obtain acceptance or not of the group
and then be recognized in the pack and
as the formula of success
I followed and then I did a graduate
to get a title for the day of
tomorrow to be a managing director now
how curious I do not look at this this
equation it does not seem strange to him that being
is that at the end of the performance
how can it be that I need to do
something and get something to be someone
also if the pse is at the end who
did who got all these questions
obviously very philosophical no more
abstract then ship as four
well earthly questions is well
concrete ways to help find a
exit to these and other concerns that
have awakened in 2004 question well
the first test was that
I want to achieve what goals I want
reach the second who I am and who
I want to go to the third relationship team
I want to have it with us and the fourth
I want to learn from those experiences
that I play live playing with you are in
a time became 42 the
four points of a geometric figure
and they realize the common factor of
four is the I me of all of us
after the time determined by the
diamond and is what is called the day of
today
now we reviewed a little bit had a
tool now had something for
start concrete well to find a
departure
now you will wonder why
I put a
to objectives and achievements not that for
reach and it was obvious because as a boy I
They said to be happy
thing that with that we do not all want what
we are looking for an incredible way
but to be happy as we achieve things
I had to achieve things like that then
what I did I did not realize that the biggest
amount of energy and effort
my diary was so that to get
that’s because happiness was at stake
then one way the other aspects
of my life they were covered
they were like hidden media
If you like, imagine that these are a
ice see the yesterday well that 90 by
a hundred they have are say of their mass
is below the line of
floatation
let’s imagine that it is one is to see then
what does this mean the lift does not like
use these three important parts of
mean they are literally underwater
they’re drowned out why because the
effort is put in getting things
up and if we do not go down to the reality that
means that these things are
drowned
neither more nor less as the majority I in
most of those who were around
mine felt at that moment
pursuing that he managed to achieve the
success
I felt anguish 2 worried wanting
control all stressed contracturados
it was good then putting it back
to revise that non -social form can
be that there will be a different way to
live from it
what I know is that first not at
end of my life
and that’s where I came across the
the phrase of July cortázar that said
it can not be that we are here for not
could be there had good then I said
you know that I take first changed the
formula and now the formula is for
do to first get that
I want to connect with me to be
happy happy and excited with desire to
live and eager to fulfill all my
wishes and honors my values for example
because from there I go to the world passes
I go to work except the school
saved football
I come to this talk to live neither more nor
less
the achievements and what I get will be
a consequence
besides I do not control then beyond
of what I should be not that famous the
must be cultural
the big question is who do I want to be
asked once you get you
take inside and for example I said
I want to be someone who is more
connected with your emotions feel a
little more what happens but listen not
so to evaluate them make a judgment
how we usually do the big ones when we
say the boys
men do not cry or how can it be
that you feel that stays with connecting
with my emotions to validate them
to be able to feel is to say what I do with
this hour
what message is an emotion
I also wanted to have the body
says that sometimes it seems that only
He has his head and I was saying the body
I’m probably passing a message
why not listen to it because not
register it
I remember a while ago that I smelled
achilles tendon
then I asked myself will not it be that I’m
doing more what I can and what he does
the tendon that go
and that makes me a lot because when
I discovered that I realized and it helped me
at that moment because of fini that no
always more the best but in that
moment I said – the best luck of
listen to the body and then by
example I also want to be is it is not
that I did not play so much the masistas you all
the time wanting to change others
also wanting to be like me either
that behaves as I want because
they saw that every time we do that
we had a hard time we were disappointed in fact
ever wanted to win someone how
it was
gave no sense if I can not
control and also something else that
to legislate was to connect with those who
I had power and what I could
modify and stop worrying about what
that I could not control
in fact they give you a more present example
that this possible this talk I here I
I tell you that I do this many
You give me a stage years ago and it did not stop
I have moved a lot, however, I do not
I can move from this carpet
so the question is I can complain
I can not accept reality and leave
from here I can choose I want to go inside
of this carpet
that depends on me also happens to me that
when all the programs and talks
I connected a lot with people I feel
people need
however I do not see them and the question of
new complaint or I will choose I want to be
without being able to see them and in fact I feel
connected without seeing us and the most difficult
discount
the most difficult challenge was to give this
talk in which I speak now about this
days or weeks
dallas 10 minutes no more than 10 minutes
now I ‘m going to complain I go to the turn that
who wants to use
with those 10 minutes I can always choose
and that’s the wonder because it does not matter
the challenge always because I can I have
free will to choose what you want
do in every situation
then we go a little bit to the caller
this tool and I told him that I
helped a lot to find this
the habitat more in me that avoid more
imagine what we have to close
with a concrete example imagine that
has a discussion a disagreement not a
conflict with someone couple parents to a
friend
then they decide to have a conversation
with that person if then previously
this wonder that I found this
You can use the diamond tool
previously to any situation to
anyone
so yes I do have that conversation
in two days
I can to previously before the
conversation ask me four questions and
surely everything changes the first
what are the concrete objectives that
I want to have in that conversation
second
I want to be me in that conversation that
it’s quiet I want to keep in mind
to the other who accept their point of view
to be at peace with nova de la
third question conversation even
in relation to him or her
in that conversation you would like
listen to him do empathy understand his
point of view and accept what I wanted and
finally I want to learn for the
future of that conversation is to say me
like to learn for example that
When you have another conflict, have more
tools to solve it from a
more human way of the self as you will see
this wonderful tool
are four very specific questions
now the answers to a battle
different answers and it’s a wonder
the answer will not be with you
I have done what I want directly
is at this moment how I want to live
Experiences you experience
when what is life but I know that
I want to feel how I love myself
I want to dream or less is going to tell
with you and that is wonderful and
In addition to the complexities live
true that it’s not worth being here and
can not be not thank you very much
[Applause]
[Music]
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