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How to make everyday an adventure | Callum Fairhurst | TEDxUniversityofEastAnglia


imagine you’ve only been given a week

imagine you’ve only been given a week left to live what would you do would you

left to live what would you do would you

left to live what would you do would you fly somewhere that you’ve never been

fly somewhere that you’ve never been

fly somewhere that you’ve never been before would you meet a celebrity that

before would you meet a celebrity that

before would you meet a celebrity that you’ve always wanted to meet would you

you’ve always wanted to meet would you

you’ve always wanted to meet would you do something daring something a bit

do something daring something a bit

do something daring something a bit different

different

different jump out of a plane perhaps well over

jump out of a plane perhaps well over

jump out of a plane perhaps well over the next 10 minutes I’m gonna try and

the next 10 minutes I’m gonna try and

the next 10 minutes I’m gonna try and convince you why I would spend the last

convince you why I would spend the last

convince you why I would spend the last week of my life by living an adventure

week of my life by living an adventure

week of my life by living an adventure and it all starts with a boy a boy named

and it all starts with a boy a boy named

and it all starts with a boy a boy named Liam Liam was 10 years old when he was

Liam Liam was 10 years old when he was

Liam Liam was 10 years old when he was diagnosed with cancer and Liam changed

diagnosed with cancer and Liam changed

diagnosed with cancer and Liam changed my life he was my brother he was my

my life he was my brother he was my

my life he was my brother he was my friend

friend

friend my best friend actually and he was the

my best friend actually and he was the

my best friend actually and he was the most amazing person that I ever met in

most amazing person that I ever met in

most amazing person that I ever met in the entire world and in 2005 when he was

the entire world and in 2005 when he was

the entire world and in 2005 when he was 10 and I was a doctors told him he had

10 and I was a doctors told him he had

10 and I was a doctors told him he had synovial sarcoma a cancer in his left

synovial sarcoma a cancer in his left

synovial sarcoma a cancer in his left leg and he was given after a year well

leg and he was given after a year well

leg and he was given after a year well after a year he was his friend sadly

after a year he was his friend sadly

after a year he was his friend sadly passed away at a similar age a friend

passed away at a similar age a friend

passed away at a similar age a friend that he met in hospital that’s when it

that he met in hospital that’s when it

that he met in hospital that’s when it became apparent to me to Liam and to a

became apparent to me to Liam and to a

became apparent to me to Liam and to a whole family that the same could happen

whole family that the same could happen

whole family that the same could happen to him and Liam wasn’t invincible

to him and Liam wasn’t invincible

to him and Liam wasn’t invincible and shortly after Liam’s cancer was cast

and shortly after Liam’s cancer was cast

and shortly after Liam’s cancer was cast his terminal doctors gave Liam just one

his terminal doctors gave Liam just one

his terminal doctors gave Liam just one week left to live much like that

week left to live much like that

week left to live much like that scenario opposed to you earlier

scenario opposed to you earlier

scenario opposed to you earlier imagine being 11 years old and only

imagine being 11 years old and only

imagine being 11 years old and only having a week left to live what would

having a week left to live what would

having a week left to live what would you do Liam decided that rather than

you do Liam decided that rather than

you do Liam decided that rather than being sad and sitting in a corner and

being sad and sitting in a corner and

being sad and sitting in a corner and crying for the last week of his life he

crying for the last week of his life he

crying for the last week of his life he wanted to help people he wanted to do

wanted to help people he wanted to do

wanted to help people he wanted to do great things he wanted to help people

great things he wanted to help people

great things he wanted to help people like him and like his friend who passed

like him and like his friend who passed

like him and like his friend who passed away and then a week went by and Liam

away and then a week went by and Liam

away and then a week went by and Liam was still here and people going hot on

was still here and people going hot on

was still here and people going hot on him probably shouldn’t be here not that

him probably shouldn’t be here not that

him probably shouldn’t be here not that they weren’t that mean about it

they weren’t that mean about it

they weren’t that mean about it but for the sake of the narrative they

but for the sake of the narrative they

but for the sake of the narrative they were and they were like this is so

were and they were like this is so

were and they were like this is so confusing why are you still here and

confusing why are you still here and

confusing why are you still here and then another week went by and then

then another week went by and then

then another week went by and then another couple of weeks went by doctors

another couple of weeks went by doctors

another couple of weeks went by doctors told Liam he wouldn’t live to his

told Liam he wouldn’t live to his

told Liam he wouldn’t live to his twelfth birthday he proved them wrong

twelfth birthday he proved them wrong

twelfth birthday he proved them wrong Liam was told that it would never be

Liam was told that it would never be

Liam was told that it would never be able to walk again because of the cancer

able to walk again because of the cancer

able to walk again because of the cancer in his leg he proved them wrong time and

in his leg he proved them wrong time and

in his leg he proved them wrong time and time again

time again

time again Liam defied all odds until sadly on the

Liam defied all odds until sadly on the

Liam defied all odds until sadly on the 30th of June 2009 the impostor way he

30th of June 2009 the impostor way he

30th of June 2009 the impostor way he was aged as 14 years old and his promise

was aged as 14 years old and his promise

was aged as 14 years old and his promise he made to himself in that last week of

he made to himself in that last week of

he made to himself in that last week of his life was to try and help people and

his life was to try and help people and

his life was to try and help people and he ended up raising millions of pounds

he ended up raising millions of pounds

he ended up raising millions of pounds for charity and he proved to me that you

for charity and he proved to me that you

for charity and he proved to me that you can do anything if you believe that you

can do anything if you believe that you

can do anything if you believe that you can do it and I remember many things

can do it and I remember many things

can do it and I remember many things about the day he passed away I remember

about the day he passed away I remember

about the day he passed away I remember the time remember the weather and I

the time remember the weather and I

the time remember the weather and I bought was on TV I remember what I ate

bought was on TV I remember what I ate

bought was on TV I remember what I ate but my most – poignant memories for the

but my most – poignant memories for the

but my most – poignant memories for the two promises that I made to Liam firstly

two promises that I made to Liam firstly

two promises that I made to Liam firstly that I would try and help other people

that I would try and help other people

that I would try and help other people in some way however I could and secondly

in some way however I could and secondly

in some way however I could and secondly I think this is a promise that we should

I think this is a promise that we should

I think this is a promise that we should all make to everyone at anytime is that

all make to everyone at anytime is that

all make to everyone at anytime is that I would live a great life and I decided

I would live a great life and I decided

I would live a great life and I decided to do that by living every week of my

to do that by living every week of my

to do that by living every week of my life as an adventure it started in

life as an adventure it started in

life as an adventure it started in January of 2015 and I saw these nutters

January of 2015 and I saw these nutters

January of 2015 and I saw these nutters going around the world on a bicycle they

going around the world on a bicycle they

going around the world on a bicycle they were either trying to beat a world

were either trying to beat a world

were either trying to beat a world record or they were trying to spend

record or they were trying to spend

record or they were trying to spend years and years just cycling around and

years and years just cycling around and

years and years just cycling around and doing amazing things and meeting really

doing amazing things and meeting really

doing amazing things and meeting really cool people I was like I really really

cool people I was like I really really

cool people I was like I really really want this challenge so I decided that I

want this challenge so I decided that I

want this challenge so I decided that I would just do it

would just do it

would just do it so my first kind of point about trying

so my first kind of point about trying

so my first kind of point about trying to live your life as an adventure and

to live your life as an adventure and

to live your life as an adventure and how you should is just to do it to go

how you should is just to do it to go

how you should is just to do it to go out there and do something I decided

out there and do something I decided

out there and do something I decided with some little savings that I had I

with some little savings that I had I

with some little savings that I had I would spend all my money on perching

would spend all my money on perching

would spend all my money on perching purchasing a flight to Australia and I

purchasing a flight to Australia and I

purchasing a flight to Australia and I purchased the flight so I had to go

purchased the flight so I had to go

purchased the flight so I had to go there and cycle around the world and

there and cycle around the world and

there and cycle around the world and then

upon thousands of miles nine months on a

upon thousands of miles nine months on a saddle that’s 5% of my life and loads of

saddle that’s 5% of my life and loads of

saddle that’s 5% of my life and loads of Vaseline I started to realize it wasn’t

Vaseline I started to realize it wasn’t

Vaseline I started to realize it wasn’t actually about the challenge it wasn’t

actually about the challenge it wasn’t

actually about the challenge it wasn’t about the number of miles I covered on

about the number of miles I covered on

about the number of miles I covered on my bicycle it wasn’t about the really

my bicycle it wasn’t about the really

my bicycle it wasn’t about the really really tough times and I was trying to

really tough times and I was trying to

really tough times and I was trying to climb up a hill it was about the people

climb up a hill it was about the people

climb up a hill it was about the people I met it wasn’t the challenge

I met it wasn’t the challenge

I met it wasn’t the challenge it was the adventure it was the

it was the adventure it was the

it was the adventure it was the adventure of doing something different

adventure of doing something different

adventure of doing something different and I was told before I left on my ride

and I was told before I left on my ride

and I was told before I left on my ride and even during the ride that everything

and even during the ride that everything

and even during the ride that everything will go wrong I was told I remember

will go wrong I was told I remember

will go wrong I was told I remember friends specifically telling me we’re in

friends specifically telling me we’re in

friends specifically telling me we’re in a month

a month

a month Calem you’re gonna die this isn’t good I

Calem you’re gonna die this isn’t good I

Calem you’re gonna die this isn’t good I don’t really want to be doing this and

don’t really want to be doing this and

don’t really want to be doing this and and then I was after a month went bars

and then I was after a month went bars

and then I was after a month went bars that oh yeah I’m doing all right here

that oh yeah I’m doing all right here

that oh yeah I’m doing all right here I’ve only almost been hit by a few cars

I’ve only almost been hit by a few cars

I’ve only almost been hit by a few cars it’s not going too bad but everyone was

it’s not going too bad but everyone was

it’s not going too bad but everyone was telling me I’d be marked that didn’t

telling me I’d be marked that didn’t

telling me I’d be marked that didn’t happen everyone was telling me I’d be

happen everyone was telling me I’d be

happen everyone was telling me I’d be stabbed that didn’t happen everyone was

stabbed that didn’t happen everyone was

stabbed that didn’t happen everyone was telling me I’d be invited into strangers

telling me I’d be invited into strangers

telling me I’d be invited into strangers houses and something would go wrong that

houses and something would go wrong that

houses and something would go wrong that didn’t happen and I started to realize

didn’t happen and I started to realize

didn’t happen and I started to realize that it would all be okay and I was in

that it would all be okay and I was in

that it would all be okay and I was in Malaysia I just so I could free

Malaysia I just so I could free

Malaysia I just so I could free Singapore and Indonesia and Australasia

Singapore and Indonesia and Australasia

Singapore and Indonesia and Australasia and everything was being fine but I was

and everything was being fine but I was

and everything was being fine but I was sat down by someone in Malaysia who was

sat down by someone in Malaysia who was

sat down by someone in Malaysia who was really worried that I was about to enter

really worried that I was about to enter

really worried that I was about to enter into Thailand he said in Thailand

into Thailand he said in Thailand

into Thailand he said in Thailand everyone has a gun and it sounds stupid

everyone has a gun and it sounds stupid

everyone has a gun and it sounds stupid because it is not everyone has a gun no

because it is not everyone has a gun no

because it is not everyone has a gun no one wants to hurt you either people

one wants to hurt you either people

one wants to hurt you either people don’t care you’re there or they’re

don’t care you’re there or they’re

don’t care you’re there or they’re really excited by the idea that you’re

really excited by the idea that you’re

really excited by the idea that you’re living your life as an adventure and

living your life as an adventure and

living your life as an adventure and rather than being greeted by people who

rather than being greeted by people who

rather than being greeted by people who didn’t want to help me or didn’t want to

didn’t want to help me or didn’t want to

didn’t want to help me or didn’t want to support instead over 400 cyclists join

support instead over 400 cyclists join

support instead over 400 cyclists join me within a week I was actually I was

me within a week I was actually I was

me within a week I was actually I was actually greeted by police cars who

actually greeted by police cars who

actually greeted by police cars who would take me through cities and towns

would take me through cities and towns

would take me through cities and towns and close off roads that loads and loads

and close off roads that loads and loads

and close off roads that loads and loads of people would stop their cars and

of people would stop their cars and

of people would stop their cars and cheer me on this stranger who didn’t

cheer me on this stranger who didn’t

cheer me on this stranger who didn’t speak their language who had never been

speak their language who had never been

speak their language who had never been to Thailand before but was greeted by

to Thailand before but was greeted by

to Thailand before but was greeted by people it will all be okay some people

people it will all be okay some people

people it will all be okay some people are scared about going on adventures

are scared about going on adventures

are scared about going on adventures they’re scared of doing something a bit

they’re scared of doing something a bit

they’re scared of doing something a bit different

different

different I was iced

I was iced

I was iced sometimes but have to remember there are

sometimes but have to remember there are

sometimes but have to remember there are actually people aren’t there to hurt you

actually people aren’t there to hurt you

actually people aren’t there to hurt you people are excited by the fact that

people are excited by the fact that

people are excited by the fact that you’re doing something different and

you’re doing something different and

you’re doing something different and then my other point is that everyone has

then my other point is that everyone has

then my other point is that everyone has a story this is something I think we can

a story this is something I think we can

a story this is something I think we can remember every day there everyone around

remember every day there everyone around

remember every day there everyone around us everyone in this audience every

us everyone in this audience every

us everyone in this audience every single one of you has a story that’s

single one of you has a story that’s

single one of you has a story that’s worth shouting about there’s worth

worth shouting about there’s worth

worth shouting about there’s worth hearing and less about the challenge of

hearing and less about the challenge of

hearing and less about the challenge of cycling a bike around the world it more

cycling a bike around the world it more

cycling a bike around the world it more became about hearing what people have to

became about hearing what people have to

became about hearing what people have to say and hearing these incredible stories

say and hearing these incredible stories

say and hearing these incredible stories I met a man in France his name was Tom

I met a man in France his name was Tom

I met a man in France his name was Tom he was 75 years old he was an English

he was 75 years old he was an English

he was 75 years old he was an English guy I was having a really really tough

guy I was having a really really tough

guy I was having a really really tough day there was a headwind the whole way

day there was a headwind the whole way

day there was a headwind the whole way it was raining I was feeling fed up I

it was raining I was feeling fed up I

it was raining I was feeling fed up I was in the middle of France in December

was in the middle of France in December

was in the middle of France in December in winter the worst time to cycle

in winter the worst time to cycle

in winter the worst time to cycle through Europe and then I started

through Europe and then I started

through Europe and then I started speaking to him and he was telling me

speaking to him and he was telling me

speaking to him and he was telling me about his life story he started off in

about his life story he started off in

about his life story he started off in the Navy because he wanted to go on an

the Navy because he wanted to go on an

the Navy because he wanted to go on an adventure he wanted to see different

adventure he wanted to see different

adventure he wanted to see different things they’d never seen before I he

things they’d never seen before I he

things they’d never seen before I he quit the Navy decided to go traveling

quit the Navy decided to go traveling

quit the Navy decided to go traveling and then he kept doing things up until

and then he kept doing things up until

and then he kept doing things up until that day I met him aged 60 he crossed

that day I met him aged 60 he crossed

that day I met him aged 60 he crossed the Amazon rainforest in a canoe aged 65

the Amazon rainforest in a canoe aged 65

the Amazon rainforest in a canoe aged 65 he he took a camel across the Sahara

he he took a camel across the Sahara

he he took a camel across the Sahara Desert aged 70 he went across the Great

Desert aged 70 he went across the Great

Desert aged 70 he went across the Great Wall of China without telling his wife

Wall of China without telling his wife

Wall of China without telling his wife that he was going to be going away for a

that he was going to be going away for a

that he was going to be going away for a few weeks and that inspired me I was

few weeks and that inspired me I was

few weeks and that inspired me I was like if Tom can do this for his whole

like if Tom can do this for his whole

like if Tom can do this for his whole life

life

life why can’t I so I set about thinking

why can’t I so I set about thinking

why can’t I so I set about thinking about the next adventure

about the next adventure

about the next adventure I didn’t have much time and I didn’t

I didn’t have much time and I didn’t

I didn’t have much time and I didn’t have much money but the next time that

have much money but the next time that

have much money but the next time that can actually do something adventurous

can actually do something adventurous

can actually do something adventurous was in between my first year at

was in between my first year at

was in between my first year at university and the start the second year

university and the start the second year

university and the start the second year so summer three months so I decided

so summer three months so I decided

so summer three months so I decided let’s take an Indian took took around

let’s take an Indian took took around

let’s take an Indian took took around every single European Union country

every single European Union country

every single European Union country because why not

because why not

because why not 28 countries in a little Indian free

28 countries in a little Indian free

28 countries in a little Indian free wheeler

wheeler

wheeler it started off me just being excited by

it started off me just being excited by

it started off me just being excited by the novelty of an Indian took took

the novelty of an Indian took took

the novelty of an Indian took took breaks it happened and it doesn’t matter

breaks it happened and it doesn’t matter

breaks it happened and it doesn’t matter about the way you voted in or out I

about the way you voted in or out I

about the way you voted in or out I realized that not many people actually

realized that not many people actually

realized that not many people actually know much about our 27 neighboring

know much about our 27 neighboring

know much about our 27 neighboring European Union countries I didn’t know

European Union countries I didn’t know

European Union countries I didn’t know anything about them I’d been to France a

anything about them I’d been to France a

anything about them I’d been to France a couple of times so why not actually

couple of times so why not actually

couple of times so why not actually learn about them speak to people by

learn about them speak to people by

learn about them speak to people by taking a little took took through all of

taking a little took took through all of

taking a little took took through all of those countries and after going through

those countries and after going through

those countries and after going through these 28 countries on the tik-tok I

these 28 countries on the tik-tok I

these 28 countries on the tik-tok I started to realize actually every day is

started to realize actually every day is

started to realize actually every day is an adventure it’s not about just these

an adventure it’s not about just these

an adventure it’s not about just these moments where you’re taking a bike

moments where you’re taking a bike

moments where you’re taking a bike around the world or a tuk-tuk around the

around the world or a tuk-tuk around the

around the world or a tuk-tuk around the European Union or you’re running a

European Union or you’re running a

European Union or you’re running a marathon or you’re doing something

marathon or you’re doing something

marathon or you’re doing something different every single day is some kind

different every single day is some kind

different every single day is some kind of adventure even on the bad days in

of adventure even on the bad days in

of adventure even on the bad days in that took – we still met different

that took – we still met different

that took – we still met different people we still heard incredible stories

people we still heard incredible stories

people we still heard incredible stories we still got to see things that we had

we still got to see things that we had

we still got to see things that we had never seen before and then I relate that

never seen before and then I relate that

never seen before and then I relate that to these days like I walk through campus

to these days like I walk through campus

to these days like I walk through campus and I see a a new thing that I’ve never

and I see a a new thing that I’ve never

and I see a a new thing that I’ve never seen before I take a different route to

seen before I take a different route to

seen before I take a different route to walk to university or a different way to

walk to university or a different way to

walk to university or a different way to cycle and you get to see different

cycle and you get to see different

cycle and you get to see different things and by making every little bit

things and by making every little bit

things and by making every little bit more and more adventurous it just makes

more and more adventurous it just makes

more and more adventurous it just makes life that little bit better so I hope

life that little bit better so I hope

life that little bit better so I hope I’ve encouraged people in some way to

I’ve encouraged people in some way to

I’ve encouraged people in some way to think how can I make not just the last

think how can I make not just the last

think how can I make not just the last week of my life like an adventure how

week of my life like an adventure how

week of my life like an adventure how can I make every day an adventure so I

can I make every day an adventure so I

can I make every day an adventure so I challenge you and I challenge me this –

challenge you and I challenge me this –

challenge you and I challenge me this – actually that when you leave today take

actually that when you leave today take

actually that when you leave today take a different route home walk somewhere

a different route home walk somewhere

a different route home walk somewhere different drive somewhere different stop

different drive somewhere different stop

different drive somewhere different stop off and look at what’s around you and

off and look at what’s around you and

off and look at what’s around you and spend five minutes just exploring speak

spend five minutes just exploring speak

spend five minutes just exploring speak to someone that you’ve never spoken to

to someone that you’ve never spoken to

to someone that you’ve never spoken to before because everyone has a story

before because everyone has a story

before because everyone has a story our lives are one big adventure so let’s

our lives are one big adventure so let’s

our lives are one big adventure so let’s make them a little bit more adventurous

make them a little bit more adventurous

make them a little bit more adventurous thank you

thank you

thank you you

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