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Brendan slow down now I get that to

Brendan slow down now I get that to statement very often because I chew very

statement very often because I chew very

statement very often because I chew very specialist for power now every time I go

specialist for power now every time I go

specialist for power now every time I go up for lunch or dinner with my friends

up for lunch or dinner with my friends

up for lunch or dinner with my friends before the foot comes my friend or say

before the foot comes my friend or say

before the foot comes my friend or say Brendan it’s slow because there is no

Brendan it’s slow because there is no

Brendan it’s slow because there is no vacuum up my food now stealing their

vacuum up my food now stealing their

vacuum up my food now stealing their food then focus it Brendan

food then focus it Brendan

food then focus it Brendan can you just be quiet now my two special

can you just be quiet now my two special

can you just be quiet now my two special unique ability is that I need to fast

unique ability is that I need to fast

unique ability is that I need to fast and I talk too much

and I talk too much

and I talk too much [Music]

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[Music] so when children get the basic random

so when children get the basic random

so when children get the basic random condition I’m here on the magic of

condition I’m here on the magic of

condition I’m here on the magic of communication I say dude

communication I say dude

communication I say dude sure so you want someone who talk too

sure so you want someone who talk too

sure so you want someone who talk too much to talk about talking and do his

much to talk about talking and do his

much to talk about talking and do his talking in that in less than 18 minutes

talking in that in less than 18 minutes

talking in that in less than 18 minutes then sounds tougher to ask me to be

then sounds tougher to ask me to be

then sounds tougher to ask me to be still me so guys do me a favor if I talk

still me so guys do me a favor if I talk

still me so guys do me a favor if I talk too much in the next 15 minutes

too much in the next 15 minutes

too much in the next 15 minutes Shh I think I’d like to regeneration you

Shh I think I’d like to regeneration you

Shh I think I’d like to regeneration you and I younger generation we tend to look

and I younger generation we tend to look

and I younger generation we tend to look up to speed it up as a sign of strength

up to speed it up as a sign of strength

up to speed it up as a sign of strength within the thing spitting up is simple

within the thing spitting up is simple

within the thing spitting up is simple of intelligence how often do you see

of intelligence how often do you see

of intelligence how often do you see someone when he or she say something

someone when he or she say something

someone when he or she say something loud and proud subconsciously you’re

loud and proud subconsciously you’re

loud and proud subconsciously you’re Michaels at this person I must know what

Michaels at this person I must know what

Michaels at this person I must know what he or she is he or she might be

he or she is he or she might be

he or she is he or she might be really good now speeding up is good

really good now speeding up is good

really good now speeding up is good until you overdo it

until you overdo it

until you overdo it I’ll give you an example one my

I’ll give you an example one my

I’ll give you an example one my colleague she’s doing her finale with

colleague she’s doing her finale with

colleague she’s doing her finale with one of the most prestigious

one of the most prestigious

one of the most prestigious now open that you were just choosing me

now open that you were just choosing me

now open that you were just choosing me as a Brendan I just want to finish my

as a Brendan I just want to finish my

as a Brendan I just want to finish my moment goal

moment goal

moment goal she has custody and that philosophy is

she has custody and that philosophy is

she has custody and that philosophy is called elegantly now out there is a

called elegantly now out there is a

called elegantly now out there is a champion in the castle

champion in the castle

champion in the castle Elvin is always the captain will first

Elvin is always the captain will first

Elvin is always the captain will first races as a professor I’ve something to

races as a professor I’ve something to

races as a professor I’ve something to say and the last to put his hand out

say and the last to put his hand out

say and the last to put his hand out because it read of density so got

because it read of density so got

because it read of density so got something you have a friend that I’ll be

something you have a friend that I’ll be

something you have a friend that I’ll be in your class now I see nothing wrong

in your class now I see nothing wrong

in your class now I see nothing wrong with tend to say the safety three times

with tend to say the safety three times

with tend to say the safety three times five different leaves so most of that

five different leaves so most of that

five different leaves so most of that will end up confusing himself and

will end up confusing himself and

will end up confusing himself and confuse the hell of the rest of everyone

confuse the hell of the rest of everyone

confuse the hell of the rest of everyone else but my first class attribute 25 the

else but my first class attribute 25 the

else but my first class attribute 25 the sake of the month to speaking up guess

sake of the month to speaking up guess

sake of the month to speaking up guess how many months do you think of the

how many months do you think of the

how many months do you think of the skull for coming both women speaking up

skull for coming both women speaking up

skull for coming both women speaking up my guess is closer to inside right now

my guess is closer to inside right now

my guess is closer to inside right now what am I telling you the story about it

what am I telling you the story about it

what am I telling you the story about it they said I used to be an old I was

they said I used to be an old I was

they said I used to be an old I was about my my tribe I was two speakers

about my my tribe I was two speakers

about my my tribe I was two speakers speak speak first and think later right

speak speak first and think later right

speak speak first and think later right how do we know we have a friend to just

how do we know we have a friend to just

how do we know we have a friend to just big boys would be sense

big boys would be sense

big boys would be sense I was one of them I used to making noise

I was one of them I used to making noise

I was one of them I used to making noise to mark my attendance

to mark my attendance

to mark my attendance I used meeting noise to tell people read

I used meeting noise to tell people read

I used meeting noise to tell people read literature are you speaking noise to get

literature are you speaking noise to get

literature are you speaking noise to get your attention but follow this voice is

your attention but follow this voice is

your attention but follow this voice is not voice right so I got this the more

not voice right so I got this the more

not voice right so I got this the more noise like me

noise like me

noise like me the more my friends Shh the more they

the more my friends Shh the more they

the more my friends Shh the more they just ignore me the board is just future

just ignore me the board is just future

just ignore me the board is just future me denies the motor noise I beat the

me denies the motor noise I beat the

me denies the motor noise I beat the wall I already hear about myself I

wall I already hear about myself I

wall I already hear about myself I already own up with noisy money in my

already own up with noisy money in my

already own up with noisy money in my head and because when you only hear

head and because when you only hear

head and because when you only hear yourself how do you call it again I was

yourself how do you call it again I was

yourself how do you call it again I was a lousy community noise is not voice I

was in my twenties right my net are

was in my twenties right my net are really not so good noise speaking

really not so good noise speaking

really not so good noise speaking communication down with people because I

was very much to my life I always

was very much to my life I always [Music]

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[Music] probably everything I think I write

probably everything I think I write

probably everything I think I write everything that this person thing so I

everything that this person thing so I

everything that this person thing so I never see eye to eye with this person we

never see eye to eye with this person we

never see eye to eye with this person we always have to write and speak with this

always have to write and speak with this

always have to write and speak with this person is I said to me to warn someone

person is I said to me to warn someone

person is I said to me to warn someone every time we start a conversation I

every time we start a conversation I

every time we start a conversation I wouldn’t read a defensive wound in my

wouldn’t read a defensive wound in my

wouldn’t read a defensive wound in my mind I was I was waiting for him to

mind I was I was waiting for him to

mind I was I was waiting for him to finish his sentence so then I can apply

finish his sentence so then I can apply

finish his sentence so then I can apply to prove him wrong we were talking but

to prove him wrong we were talking but

to prove him wrong we were talking but we definitely

we definitely

we definitely nice I was frustrated I was angry and I

nice I was frustrated I was angry and I

nice I was frustrated I was angry and I was tired right is talking to the top

was tired right is talking to the top

was tired right is talking to the top and not communicating you gotta listen

and not communicating you gotta listen

and not communicating you gotta listen to people they don’t listen to you and

to people they don’t listen to you and

to people they don’t listen to you and you don’t listen to them right it’s some

you don’t listen to them right it’s some

you don’t listen to them right it’s some ID I decided to I’ll stop I’ll just stop

ID I decided to I’ll stop I’ll just stop

ID I decided to I’ll stop I’ll just stop that talking and the communication so

that talking and the communication so

that talking and the communication so whatever for the next few years after

whatever for the next few years after

whatever for the next few years after them our communication become very

them our communication become very

them our communication become very became very mechanical you asked me have

became very mechanical you asked me have

became very mechanical you asked me have you eaten

you eaten

you eaten I’ll say yes they’ve got vanilla I used

I’ll say yes they’ve got vanilla I used

I’ll say yes they’ve got vanilla I used a bit one come on come home early

a bit one come on come home early

a bit one come on come home early our trouble now buddy interesting as

our trouble now buddy interesting as

our trouble now buddy interesting as well that interested isn’t this person

well that interested isn’t this person

well that interested isn’t this person here she never stopped sleeping my

here she never stopped sleeping my

here she never stopped sleeping my Newtons I wouldn’t wanna come home at

Newtons I wouldn’t wanna come home at

Newtons I wouldn’t wanna come home at night and he also never forget the few

night and he also never forget the few

night and he also never forget the few up the petrol my car every week when I

up the petrol my car every week when I

up the petrol my car every week when I go home my home I studied you hear my

go home my home I studied you hear my

go home my home I studied you hear my singing about guess who this person just

singing about guess who this person just

singing about guess who this person just you can’t mention how in the next 30

you can’t mention how in the next 30

you can’t mention how in the next 30 years

but because and I just we need to stop

but because and I just we need to stop and you guys so what always and one my

and you guys so what always and one my

and you guys so what always and one my mom say son can I talk to you why not

yeah you should be fun Derek if I must

yeah you should be fun Derek if I must say come as I talk to you to see my not

say come as I talk to you to see my not

say come as I talk to you to see my not so we want to clock off airport in so I

might not be the best month of the world

might not be the best month of the world nor am I the smartest Bollywood but I

nor am I the smartest Bollywood but I

nor am I the smartest Bollywood but I try

but it doesn’t to you to send me the

but it doesn’t to you to send me the message it was a very simple message but

message it was a very simple message but

message it was a very simple message but you can imagine it took me a few years

so actually because I think about their

so actually because I think about their relationship the communication right I

relationship the communication right I

relationship the communication right I wasn’t meaning as the Sun did not reach

wasn’t meaning as the Sun did not reach

wasn’t meaning as the Sun did not reach out to my dad to see my work universe

out to my dad to see my work universe

out to my dad to see my work universe why he has a son did not reach out to

why he has a son did not reach out to

why he has a son did not reach out to with that to try to communicate to the

with that to try to communicate to the

with that to try to communicate to the interest

interest

interest why didn’t being a son reached out my

why didn’t being a son reached out my

why didn’t being a son reached out my hand instead it first

hand instead it first

hand instead it first truth be told when I try father and son

truth be told when I try father and son

truth be told when I try father and son mother got them trust me you guys are

mother got them trust me you guys are

mother got them trust me you guys are not so different after all so that live

not so different after all so that live

not so different after all so that live experience taught me something important

experience taught me something important

experience taught me something important about complications to visitors

about complications to visitors

about complications to visitors communication is not so much about how

communication is not so much about how

communication is not so much about how to speak what talk the language we use

to speak what talk the language we use

to speak what talk the language we use body language

I knew this to listen to people think

I knew this to listen to people think that as my job is to advise occupation

that as my job is to advise occupation

that as my job is to advise occupation my job as approach is really to just

my job as approach is really to just

my job as approach is really to just shut up and listen I get emails or

shut up and listen I get emails or

shut up and listen I get emails or questions like this very often and this

questions like this very often and this

questions like this very often and this came from the real person and the name

came from the real person and the name

came from the real person and the name is because I’m a woman if you were to

is because I’m a woman if you were to

is because I’m a woman if you were to Brendan what initiative

Brendan what initiative

Brendan what initiative what did you listen I was pretty sure

what did you listen I was pretty sure

what did you listen I was pretty sure the real stories that she wanted to tell

the real stories that she wanted to tell

the real stories that she wanted to tell me if listen carefully we move up in

me if listen carefully we move up in

me if listen carefully we move up in years it’s not in the spoken words

years it’s not in the spoken words

years it’s not in the spoken words so Anna I do

some people you’re asked a question you

some people you’re asked a question you listen when they listen to reply the

listen when they listen to reply the

listen when they listen to reply the reason to give you some people just like

reason to give you some people just like

reason to give you some people just like to listen to judge you this way you know

to listen to judge you this way you know

to listen to judge you this way you know you’re good you’re right

a true business you’re gonna me grow up

a true business you’re gonna me grow up we were born to be great communicators

we were born to be great communicators

we were born to be great communicators the Express the idea so Brendan knew how

the Express the idea so Brendan knew how

the Express the idea so Brendan knew how to communicate better than 18 years of

to communicate better than 18 years of

to communicate better than 18 years of Redmond and the 28 years of Redmond

Redmond and the 28 years of Redmond

Redmond and the 28 years of Redmond sometimes as you grow up we just forget

sometimes as you grow up we just forget

sometimes as you grow up we just forget how to communicate we replace the

how to communicate we replace the

how to communicate we replace the communication response that we tell

communication response that we tell

communication response that we tell ourselves with excuse resplendence and

ourselves with excuse resplendence and

ourselves with excuse resplendence and why is what that I’m telling you today

why is what that I’m telling you today

why is what that I’m telling you today important to you my friends because the

important to you my friends because the

important to you my friends because the world is a noisy place you’ll be the

world is a noisy place you’ll be the

world is a noisy place you’ll be the most politically the Wabash party

most politically the Wabash party

most politically the Wabash party because the world is full too many judge

because the world is full too many judge

because the world is full too many judge and the beta and no enough he rescues

and the beta and no enough he rescues

and the beta and no enough he rescues many conflicts that we have

many conflicts that we have

many conflicts that we have complication breakdown could have been

complication breakdown could have been

complication breakdown could have been prevented if you and I were to just shut

prevented if you and I were to just shut

prevented if you and I were to just shut up and listen now one thing the world

up and listen now one thing the world

up and listen now one thing the world would be love to you you are going to be

would be love to you you are going to be

would be love to you you are going to be someone else’s boss someone else’s clean

someone else’s boss someone else’s clean

someone else’s boss someone else’s clean someone else’s girlfriend boyfriend and

someone else’s girlfriend boyfriend and

someone else’s girlfriend boyfriend and eventually will be someone else Paris

eventually will be someone else Paris

eventually will be someone else Paris when you do I want to ask a favor to you

when you do I want to ask a favor to you

when you do I want to ask a favor to you the noisy world favor to listen because

the noisy world favor to listen because

the noisy world favor to listen because when you listen good things happen

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