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How One Can Live a Happy Life | Cameron Desnoes | TEDxLawrencevilleSchool


hi my name is Cameron and I’m here to

hi my name is Cameron and I’m here to talk about how to live a happy life so

talk about how to live a happy life so

talk about how to live a happy life so when I was a freshman in high school

when I was a freshman in high school

when I was a freshman in high school that wasn’t very long ago I went to a

that wasn’t very long ago I went to a

that wasn’t very long ago I went to a Jesuit School in California and there I

Jesuit School in California and there I

Jesuit School in California and there I kind of learned more about religion I

kind of learned more about religion I

kind of learned more about religion I was never really that religious my

was never really that religious my

was never really that religious my family maybe went to church once or

family maybe went to church once or

family maybe went to church once or twice a month that I didn’t really know

twice a month that I didn’t really know

twice a month that I didn’t really know much and I kind of just assumed things

much and I kind of just assumed things

much and I kind of just assumed things to be true but going through religion

to be true but going through religion

to be true but going through religion classes at that school I learned that a

classes at that school I learned that a

classes at that school I learned that a lot of things in religion required faith

lot of things in religion required faith

lot of things in religion required faith I thought to myself how can people

I thought to myself how can people

I thought to myself how can people dedicate their whole lives to things

dedicate their whole lives to things

dedicate their whole lives to things that solely require faith priests

that solely require faith priests

that solely require faith priests religious teachers monks they they live

religious teachers monks they they live

religious teachers monks they they live their whole lives dedicating to

their whole lives dedicating to

their whole lives dedicating to something that that is believing in

something that that is believing in

something that that is believing in something and I thought what’s the point

something and I thought what’s the point

something and I thought what’s the point of that what’s their goal what are they

of that what’s their goal what are they

of that what’s their goal what are they trying to get out of that and it led me

trying to get out of that and it led me

trying to get out of that and it led me to to one thought with what was the

to to one thought with what was the

to to one thought with what was the point of life and I know that sounds

point of life and I know that sounds

point of life and I know that sounds like I was trying to be like edgy or

like I was trying to be like edgy or

like I was trying to be like edgy or like I was just a little strange I was a

like I was just a little strange I was a

like I was just a little strange I was a freshman in high school and I was I was

freshman in high school and I was I was

freshman in high school and I was I was over there thinking what is the point of

over there thinking what is the point of

over there thinking what is the point of life but it really got me thinking and I

life but it really got me thinking and I

life but it really got me thinking and I think a lot of people sometimes are

think a lot of people sometimes are

think a lot of people sometimes are doing things and they wonder why am I

doing things and they wonder why am I

doing things and they wonder why am I doing this what’s my purpose and I would

doing this what’s my purpose and I would

doing this what’s my purpose and I would do that I’d be at soccer practice or I’d

do that I’d be at soccer practice or I’d

do that I’d be at soccer practice or I’d be doing homework and I’d think like

be doing homework and I’d think like

be doing homework and I’d think like what is my end goal what am I trying to

what is my end goal what am I trying to

what is my end goal what am I trying to do from this and why would someone do

do from this and why would someone do

do from this and why would someone do something over something else and the

something over something else and the

something over something else and the one answer I got from this was happiness

one answer I got from this was happiness

one answer I got from this was happiness a goal in life is to be happy and that

a goal in life is to be happy and that

a goal in life is to be happy and that makes it seem like it’s really simple

makes it seem like it’s really simple

makes it seem like it’s really simple but it’s really not very simple at all

but it’s really not very simple at all

but it’s really not very simple at all or else everyone here everyone would be

or else everyone here everyone would be

or else everyone here everyone would be completely happy what I found is that

completely happy what I found is that

completely happy what I found is that you can divide happiness into two

you can divide happiness into two

you can divide happiness into two different things one is momentary

different things one is momentary

different things one is momentary pleasure and the other is more of a

pleasure and the other is more of a

pleasure and the other is more of a long-term happiness and I figured that

long-term happiness and I figured that

long-term happiness and I figured that to achieve true happiness you had to

to achieve true happiness you had to

to achieve true happiness you had to decide or be able to differ between the

decide or be able to differ between the

decide or be able to differ between the two and so I thought about an analogy

two and so I thought about an analogy

two and so I thought about an analogy what what I could because I could say to

what what I could because I could say to

what what I could because I could say to distinguish momentary pleasure and

distinguish momentary pleasure and

distinguish momentary pleasure and long term happiness so I imagined you

long term happiness so I imagined you

long term happiness so I imagined you you give a man a money she in the

you give a man a money she in the

you give a man a money she in the unlimited budget for a meal he can go to

unlimited budget for a meal he can go to

unlimited budget for a meal he can go to a restaurant have the best food best

a restaurant have the best food best

a restaurant have the best food best chef bring his friends an amazing night

chef bring his friends an amazing night

chef bring his friends an amazing night and she at the end of the day says Wow

and she at the end of the day says Wow

and she at the end of the day says Wow like that was awesome that was a great

like that was awesome that was a great

like that was awesome that was a great time but that was momentary pleasure

time but that was momentary pleasure

time but that was momentary pleasure that is not something that’s sustainable

that is not something that’s sustainable

that is not something that’s sustainable that was something that was just in the

that was something that was just in the

that was something that was just in the moment and then you look at the flipside

moment and then you look at the flipside

moment and then you look at the flipside imagine the chef who made that meal

imagine the chef who made that meal

imagine the chef who made that meal let’s pretend that was his passion his

let’s pretend that was his passion his

let’s pretend that was his passion his life goal was to be that chef and to be

life goal was to be that chef and to be

life goal was to be that chef and to be at this top restaurant making his food

at this top restaurant making his food

at this top restaurant making his food for these people he’s really living a

for these people he’s really living a

for these people he’s really living a long-term happiness because she’s doing

long-term happiness because she’s doing

long-term happiness because she’s doing something he’s passionate about and he’s

something he’s passionate about and he’s

something he’s passionate about and he’s being the best at something that he

being the best at something that he

being the best at something that he loves and so once you can do that you

loves and so once you can do that you

loves and so once you can do that you can focus on something you’re passionate

can focus on something you’re passionate

can focus on something you’re passionate about you can stray from things that

about you can stray from things that

about you can stray from things that aren’t sustainable that are

aren’t sustainable that are

aren’t sustainable that are materialistic you can stop living day to

materialistic you can stop living day to

materialistic you can stop living day to day from just a momentary feeling of

day from just a momentary feeling of

day from just a momentary feeling of pleasure and I know everyone’s probably

pleasure and I know everyone’s probably

pleasure and I know everyone’s probably heard of this saying before but it’s

heard of this saying before but it’s

heard of this saying before but it’s like it’s like the saying if you give a

like it’s like the saying if you give a

like it’s like the saying if you give a man a fish you feed him for a day if you

man a fish you feed him for a day if you

man a fish you feed him for a day if you teach a man to fish you feed him for a

teach a man to fish you feed him for a

teach a man to fish you feed him for a lifetime that’s the same with happiness

lifetime that’s the same with happiness

lifetime that’s the same with happiness you have to focus on on getting a

you have to focus on on getting a

you have to focus on on getting a happiness which you can sustain rather

happiness which you can sustain rather

happiness which you can sustain rather than just a momentary happiness so my

than just a momentary happiness so my

than just a momentary happiness so my message is you get anything from this

message is you get anything from this

message is you get anything from this talk at all is basically just find

talk at all is basically just find

talk at all is basically just find something that you’re passionate about

something that you’re passionate about

something that you’re passionate about find something you love and that you

find something you love and that you

find something you love and that you want to do and be the best you can

want to do and be the best you can

want to do and be the best you can possibly be at that and don’t let anyone

possibly be at that and don’t let anyone

possibly be at that and don’t let anyone anyone stop you don’t let anything

anyone stop you don’t let anything

anyone stop you don’t let anything derail you don’t let momentary pleasure

derail you don’t let momentary pleasure

derail you don’t let momentary pleasure stop you from this this ultimate

stop you from this this ultimate

stop you from this this ultimate happiness can always keep in mind how

happiness can always keep in mind how

happiness can always keep in mind how you can differ long term happiness which

you can differ long term happiness which

you can differ long term happiness which is momentary pleasure thank you

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