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How Meditation Makes You Unhappy – Temporarily | Nicolas Hartmann | TEDxFS


imagine your insight of really old dirty

imagine your insight of really old dirty dusty house it’s pitch-black inside the

dusty house it’s pitch-black inside the

dusty house it’s pitch-black inside the windows are covered with a thick firm of

windows are covered with a thick firm of

windows are covered with a thick firm of crime you want to clean the house and

crime you want to clean the house and

crime you want to clean the house and you start with a thick brush on the

you start with a thick brush on the

you start with a thick brush on the windows it doesn’t take you long under

windows it doesn’t take you long under

windows it doesn’t take you long under the first bits of light to stream in and

the first bits of light to stream in and

the first bits of light to stream in and you uncover the enormous mess old dusty

you uncover the enormous mess old dusty

you uncover the enormous mess old dusty furniture everywhere sometimes even

furniture everywhere sometimes even

furniture everywhere sometimes even stacked on top of each other the windows

stacked on top of each other the windows

stacked on top of each other the windows are still dirty but they’re just windows

are still dirty but they’re just windows

are still dirty but they’re just windows so you go ahead and work on the rest of

so you go ahead and work on the rest of

so you go ahead and work on the rest of the house takes a lot of work much more

the house takes a lot of work much more

the house takes a lot of work much more than you originally expected and much

than you originally expected and much

than you originally expected and much more than the initial window cleaning

after a while you know you notice that

after a while you know you notice that the house got dark again some of the

the house got dark again some of the

the house got dark again some of the dust settled on the windows again so you

dust settled on the windows again so you

dust settled on the windows again so you go back to the windows with the finer

go back to the windows with the finer

go back to the windows with the finer clean more light shines in and now you

clean more light shines in and now you

clean more light shines in and now you uncover all the little things in the

uncover all the little things in the

uncover all the little things in the corner the whole decorations and so on

corner the whole decorations and so on

corner the whole decorations and so on so you start getting rid of the stuff

so you start getting rid of the stuff

so you start getting rid of the stuff and redo this process over and over

and redo this process over and over

and redo this process over and over until the house finally starts feeling

until the house finally starts feeling

until the house finally starts feeling comfortable and spacious now it’s a

comfortable and spacious now it’s a

comfortable and spacious now it’s a house you enjoy being the host is your

house you enjoy being the host is your

house you enjoy being the host is your mind in cleaning the windows is

mind in cleaning the windows is

mind in cleaning the windows is meditation practicing meditation has

meditation practicing meditation has

meditation practicing meditation has changed my life more than any other

changed my life more than any other

changed my life more than any other habit I’ve ever built when I was 18 I

habit I’ve ever built when I was 18 I

habit I’ve ever built when I was 18 I went to India to study yoga and

went to India to study yoga and

went to India to study yoga and meditation I was very young and I was

meditation I was very young and I was

meditation I was very young and I was very naive I’m very curious for myself

very naive I’m very curious for myself

very naive I’m very curious for myself up to education in north of India where

up to education in north of India where

up to education in north of India where state and local ashram you can picture

state and local ashram you can picture

state and local ashram you can picture an ashram as a very basic monastery so

an ashram as a very basic monastery so

an ashram as a very basic monastery so limited electricity no showers just

limited electricity no showers just

limited electricity no showers just buckets of water food was always soft at

buckets of water food was always soft at

buckets of water food was always soft at the same times

the same times

the same times always the same food was physically

always the same food was physically

always the same food was physically physically tough in the first month

physically tough in the first month

physically tough in the first month alone I lost 10 kilograms but apart from

alone I lost 10 kilograms but apart from

alone I lost 10 kilograms but apart from the physical struggle I was really also

the physical struggle I was really also

the physical struggle I was really also mentally one of the toughest experiences

mentally one of the toughest experiences

mentally one of the toughest experiences of my life it was I still to this day

of my life it was I still to this day

of my life it was I still to this day remember very vividly when I was sitting

remember very vividly when I was sitting

remember very vividly when I was sitting there cross-legged on my meditation

there cross-legged on my meditation

there cross-legged on my meditation pillow eyes closed and I realized all

pillow eyes closed and I realized all

pillow eyes closed and I realized all the madness going on in my mind was that

the madness going on in my mind was that

the madness going on in my mind was that moment when the first bits of light

moment when the first bits of light

moment when the first bits of light shine into the house and you uncovered

shine into the house and you uncovered

shine into the house and you uncovered this enormous mess that moment is

this enormous mess that moment is

this enormous mess that moment is everything but Pleasant you know I pride

everything but Pleasant you know I pride

everything but Pleasant you know I pride myself of being in control of

myself of being in control of

myself of being in control of controlling my own destiny but yet my

controlling my own destiny but yet my

controlling my own destiny but yet my mind I had seemingly zero control over

that was a tough moment but but still I

that was a tough moment but but still I believe it fundamentally made me who I

believe it fundamentally made me who I

believe it fundamentally made me who I am today and I’m extremely grateful that

am today and I’m extremely grateful that

am today and I’m extremely grateful that I embarked on this journey of meditation

but fondant

but fondant fundamentally I’d like to share a

fundamentally I’d like to share a

fundamentally I’d like to share a thought today with you on how many

thought today with you on how many

thought today with you on how many patient infected me and I think there

patient infected me and I think there

patient infected me and I think there are many things we can all share about

are many things we can all share about

are many things we can all share about them or can be said about meditation and

them or can be said about meditation and

them or can be said about meditation and with many we don’t even know what the

with many we don’t even know what the

with many we don’t even know what the real impact is so I’d like to focus on

real impact is so I’d like to focus on

real impact is so I’d like to focus on one specific aspect that changed me the

one specific aspect that changed me the

one specific aspect that changed me the most

meditation can truly show you what you

meditation can truly show you what you what you really want in life it enables

what you really want in life it enables

what you really want in life it enables you to bring some light into this house

you to bring some light into this house

you to bring some light into this house and it enables you to to look past all

and it enables you to to look past all

and it enables you to to look past all the distractions and to strip away the

the distractions and to strip away the

the distractions and to strip away the background noise

background noise

background noise the study I’d like to mention which made

the study I’d like to mention which made

the study I’d like to mention which made me which I was particularly fascinated

me which I was particularly fascinated

me which I was particularly fascinated about was conducted at the Harvard

about was conducted at the Harvard

about was conducted at the Harvard Medical School was a study that focused

Medical School was a study that focused

Medical School was a study that focused on the changes in the physical structure

on the changes in the physical structure

on the changes in the physical structure of the brain 16 people meditated for 56

of the brain 16 people meditated for 56

of the brain 16 people meditated for 56 days every day for 30 minutes on their

days every day for 30 minutes on their

days every day for 30 minutes on their breath the results were astonishing

breath the results were astonishing

breath the results were astonishing after only 56 days all participants saw

after only 56 days all participants saw

after only 56 days all participants saw a significant reduction in the size of

a significant reduction in the size of

a significant reduction in the size of the amygdala an area of the brain that

the amygdala an area of the brain that

the amygdala an area of the brain that is related to fear the amygdala is also

is related to fear the amygdala is also

is related to fear the amygdala is also known for our survival response in acute

known for our survival response in acute

known for our survival response in acute stress situations the so called

stress situations the so called

stress situations the so called fight-or-flight response the

fight-or-flight response the

fight-or-flight response the fight-or-flight response was designed to

fight-or-flight response was designed to

fight-or-flight response was designed to protect us from the proverbial Sabbath

protect us from the proverbial Sabbath

protect us from the proverbial Sabbath Tigers that once looked around in the

Tigers that once looked around in the

Tigers that once looked around in the woods and fields around us to threaten

woods and fields around us to threaten

woods and fields around us to threaten our physical survival back in a day at

our physical survival back in a day at

our physical survival back in a day at times when our physical survival is

times when our physical survival is

times when our physical survival is threatened there’s no greater response

threatened there’s no greater response

threatened there’s no greater response to have on our site than the

to have on our site than the

to have on our site than the fight-or-flight response it causes the

fight-or-flight response it causes the

fight-or-flight response it causes the search of adilyn and other stress

search of adilyn and other stress

search of adilyn and other stress hormones to rush through our body and

hormones to rush through our body and

hormones to rush through our body and this search is the force responsible

this search is the force responsible

this search is the force responsible behind mother’s lifting cars of their

behind mother’s lifting cars of their

behind mother’s lifting cars of their tribe children of firemen heroic ly

tribe children of firemen heroic ly

tribe children of firemen heroic ly running into blazing houses to saved

running into blazing houses to saved

running into blazing houses to saved endangered victims it boozes with

endangered victims it boozes with

endangered victims it boozes with heroism and courage at times when we are

heroism and courage at times when we are

heroism and courage at times when we are called upon to protect and defend the

called upon to protect and defend the

called upon to protect and defend the lives and values we cherish

lives and values we cherish

lives and values we cherish today’s saber-toothed Tigers a

today’s saber-toothed Tigers a

today’s saber-toothed Tigers a non-physical feeis such as missing a

non-physical feeis such as missing a

non-physical feeis such as missing a deadline needing to meet certain

deadline needing to meet certain

deadline needing to meet certain expectations having an argument with

expectations having an argument with

expectations having an argument with your bars and so on basically they are

your bars and so on basically they are

your bars and so on basically they are all around our intense daily lives they

all around our intense daily lives they

all around our intense daily lives they produce toxic stress hormones and

produce toxic stress hormones and

produce toxic stress hormones and fundamentally limit your thinking you

fundamentally limit your thinking you

fundamentally limit your thinking you are focused because of adrenaline

are focused because of adrenaline

are focused because of adrenaline because of deadlines because of stress

because of deadlines because of stress

because of deadlines because of stress and not because you can control your

and not because you can control your

and not because you can control your mind

nevertheless nevertheless I think the

nevertheless nevertheless I think the fundamental fight I had always was um it

fundamental fight I had always was um it

fundamental fight I had always was um it meditation brought me to this moment

meditation brought me to this moment

meditation brought me to this moment where I thought I really knew what what

where I thought I really knew what what

where I thought I really knew what what I was really about it it gave me the

I was really about it it gave me the

I was really about it it gave me the feeling that um that I could look past

feeling that um that I could look past

feeling that um that I could look past this and I could get to the point where

this and I could get to the point where

this and I could get to the point where I could focus on a way that there was

I could focus on a way that there was

I could focus on a way that there was not driven by stress or more that after

not driven by stress or more that after

not driven by stress or more that after these 56 days the physical side of the

these 56 days the physical side of the

these 56 days the physical side of the amygdala decreases meaning you’re more

amygdala decreases meaning you’re more

amygdala decreases meaning you’re more independent of these stress hormones and

independent of these stress hormones and

independent of these stress hormones and this focus by and this focus through the

this focus by and this focus through the

this focus by and this focus through the outer line I’d like to I’d like to share

outer line I’d like to I’d like to share

outer line I’d like to I’d like to share one moment I had personally on this

one moment I had personally on this

one moment I had personally on this meditation journey I said it helps me to

meditation journey I said it helps me to

meditation journey I said it helps me to truly show me who I but practically it

truly show me who I but practically it

truly show me who I but practically it means whenever that’s a big decision

means whenever that’s a big decision

means whenever that’s a big decision coming up in my life it enables me to go

coming up in my life it enables me to go

coming up in my life it enables me to go one step deeper to look past these short

one step deeper to look past these short

one step deeper to look past these short term worries to judge without all of

term worries to judge without all of

term worries to judge without all of these hidden fears that are so

these hidden fears that are so

these hidden fears that are so predominant in our lives but this it

predominant in our lives but this it

predominant in our lives but this it fundamentally impacted my life but it

fundamentally impacted my life but it

fundamentally impacted my life but it was not only in a positive way and I’ll

was not only in a positive way and I’ll

was not only in a positive way and I’ll give you an example for example I’m a

give you an example for example I’m a

give you an example for example I’m a big believer in that environment and the

big believer in that environment and the

big believer in that environment and the people around you shape significantly

people around you shape significantly

people around you shape significantly who you are at times it was very obvious

who you are at times it was very obvious

who you are at times it was very obvious to me I was in the wrong wrong

to me I was in the wrong wrong

to me I was in the wrong wrong environment however changing this is a

environment however changing this is a

environment however changing this is a whole nother story

whole nother story

whole nother story and if you don’t change it then you get

and if you don’t change it then you get

and if you don’t change it then you get constantly reminded of this discrepancy

constantly reminded of this discrepancy

constantly reminded of this discrepancy between your life and what you think is

between your life and what you think is

between your life and what you think is right for you it is is if you shine

right for you it is is if you shine

right for you it is is if you shine light into your house without cleaning

light into your house without cleaning

light into your house without cleaning up the mess however I believe it is

up the mess however I believe it is

up the mess however I believe it is fundamentally the right journey it is

fundamentally the right journey it is

fundamentally the right journey it is fundamentally the journey to a cleaner

fundamentally the journey to a cleaner

fundamentally the journey to a cleaner house it is fundamentally a journey to

house it is fundamentally a journey to

house it is fundamentally a journey to life another life driven by fears and

life another life driven by fears and

life another life driven by fears and that’s why I’d like to challenge you

that’s why I’d like to challenge you

that’s why I’d like to challenge you today I’d like to challenge you today to

today I’d like to challenge you today to

today I’d like to challenge you today to go on this journey with you I’d like to

go on this journey with you I’d like to

go on this journey with you I’d like to challenge you today to start this

challenge you today to start this

challenge you today to start this journey now how often do you think you

journey now how often do you think you

journey now how often do you think you breathe in one minute I’d like for the

breathe in one minute I’d like for the

breathe in one minute I’d like for the next minute to just focus on your breath

next minute to just focus on your breath

next minute to just focus on your breath please stand up and try to keep a slow

please stand up and try to keep a slow

please stand up and try to keep a slow but natural flow of your breath you may

but natural flow of your breath you may

but natural flow of your breath you may close your eyes now and you may start

close your eyes now and you may start

close your eyes now and you may start counting now

counting now

counting now [Music]

you may open your eyes again you can sit

you may open your eyes again you can sit down again how easy was it to just focus

down again how easy was it to just focus

down again how easy was it to just focus on one thing

on one thing

on one thing deep breathing usually only means four

deep breathing usually only means four

deep breathing usually only means four to five breath in one minute in the

to five breath in one minute in the

to five breath in one minute in the beginning it is usually more but soon

beginning it is usually more but soon

beginning it is usually more but soon five breath for one minute will be you

five breath for one minute will be you

five breath for one minute will be you new normal I’d like to invite you to

new normal I’d like to invite you to

new normal I’d like to invite you to join me on the journey fifty breath ten

join me on the journey fifty breath ten

join me on the journey fifty breath ten minutes every day for the next 56 days

minutes every day for the next 56 days

minutes every day for the next 56 days the stage is yours

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