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How failure feeling in my life was the best thing ever happened to me. | Muhammad Waqas | TEDxFAST


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[Music] hello Sala come everyone my name is

hello Sala come everyone my name is

hello Sala come everyone my name is Mohammad Acosta introduction has already

Mohammad Acosta introduction has already

Mohammad Acosta introduction has already been given and since the theme of TEDx

been given and since the theme of TEDx

been given and since the theme of TEDx fast is starting up the right way and

fast is starting up the right way and

fast is starting up the right way and being an entrepreneur myself and having

being an entrepreneur myself and having

being an entrepreneur myself and having started not one venture but multiple

started not one venture but multiple

started not one venture but multiple ventures I thought that the suitable

ventures I thought that the suitable

ventures I thought that the suitable topic for this would be to share my own

topic for this would be to share my own

topic for this would be to share my own past experiences so the topic that I am

past experiences so the topic that I am

past experiences so the topic that I am going to be talking about is how failure

going to be talking about is how failure

going to be talking about is how failure feeling in my life was the best thing

feeling in my life was the best thing

feeling in my life was the best thing that ever happened to me so before I

that ever happened to me so before I

that ever happened to me so before I begin I would like to ask all of you all

begin I would like to ask all of you all

begin I would like to ask all of you all of all of you sitting over here how many

of all of you sitting over here how many

of all of you sitting over here how many of you have failed in life it could be

of you have failed in life it could be

of you have failed in life it could be tests it could be relationship it could

tests it could be relationship it could

tests it could be relationship it could be failing at a competition failing at a

be failing at a competition failing at a

be failing at a competition failing at a sports event so by the raise of hands

sports event so by the raise of hands

sports event so by the raise of hands can I see how many of you have failed

can I see how many of you have failed

can I see how many of you have failed hmm so I can I can say that about 40% of

hmm so I can I can say that about 40% of

hmm so I can I can say that about 40% of you have raised your hands fact of life

you have raised your hands fact of life

you have raised your hands fact of life life is not simple it’s messy you always

life is not simple it’s messy you always

life is not simple it’s messy you always fail so 40% of the people have actually

fail so 40% of the people have actually

fail so 40% of the people have actually acknowledged that they have failed rest

acknowledged that they have failed rest

acknowledged that they have failed rest of the 60% have not acknowledged that

of the 60% have not acknowledged that

of the 60% have not acknowledged that they have failed and this is this is

they have failed and this is this is

they have failed and this is this is exactly what I’m here to talk about

exactly what I’m here to talk about

exactly what I’m here to talk about that’s it’s okay to fail in fact some of

that’s it’s okay to fail in fact some of

that’s it’s okay to fail in fact some of the greatest inventions some of the

the greatest inventions some of the

the greatest inventions some of the greatest people started off their career

greatest people started off their career

greatest people started off their career started of their inventions started off

started of their inventions started off

started of their inventions started off whatever they did with failure and this

whatever they did with failure and this

whatever they did with failure and this is exactly what I’m here to talk about

is exactly what I’m here to talk about

is exactly what I’m here to talk about and I’m going to start by giving my own

and I’m going to start by giving my own

and I’m going to start by giving my own example so let’s talk about vikas when

example so let’s talk about vikas when

example so let’s talk about vikas when he was little which is me in school I

he was little which is me in school I

he was little which is me in school I will wait you know when as they say

will wait you know when as they say

will wait you know when as they say about people their serial entrepreneurs

about people their serial entrepreneurs

about people their serial entrepreneurs their serial inventors their serial

their serial inventors their serial

their serial inventors their serial researchers I was a senior failure in my

researchers I was a senior failure in my

researchers I was a senior failure in my class and in in my school and I was very

class and in in my school and I was very

class and in in my school and I was very famous but not from top in

famous but not from top in

famous but not from top in from bottom and I wasn’t called by my

from bottom and I wasn’t called by my

from bottom and I wasn’t called by my name in fact people didn’t know my name

name in fact people didn’t know my name

name in fact people didn’t know my name and when you would say Kay do you know

and when you would say Kay do you know

and when you would say Kay do you know what Kassadin people would say Vikas who

what Kassadin people would say Vikas who

what Kassadin people would say Vikas who so my name was so Ste in Berea College

so my name was so Ste in Berea College

so my name was so Ste in Berea College and that’s that’s the name I was given

and that’s that’s the name I was given

and that’s that’s the name I was given because I was slow and I would graph

because I was slow and I would graph

because I was slow and I would graph things later on and students and

things later on and students and

things later on and students and teachers alike used to make a lot of fun

teachers alike used to make a lot of fun

teachers alike used to make a lot of fun of me and I was told by my peers by my

of me and I was told by my peers by my

of me and I was told by my peers by my by my family and friends and teachers

by my family and friends and teachers

by my family and friends and teachers that I was good for nothing and I would

that I was good for nothing and I would

that I was good for nothing and I would not be able to accomplish anything in

not be able to accomplish anything in

not be able to accomplish anything in life I persevered I said okay fine that

life I persevered I said okay fine that

life I persevered I said okay fine that might be true but I am a failure but yet

might be true but I am a failure but yet

might be true but I am a failure but yet I might be able to prove improve on it

I might be able to prove improve on it

I might be able to prove improve on it might be able to improve on it school

might be able to improve on it school

might be able to improve on it school passed I I’m a lousy llama shall I say I

passed I I’m a lousy llama shall I say I

passed I I’m a lousy llama shall I say I got 45 percentage in my board

got 45 percentage in my board

got 45 percentage in my board examination 45 if I had sorry 46 if I

examination 45 if I had sorry 46 if I

examination 45 if I had sorry 46 if I had 44 then I would have failed and I

had 44 then I would have failed and I

had 44 then I would have failed and I applied to a lot of universities fast

applied to a lot of universities fast

applied to a lot of universities fast Enedina some wanted to be an engineer

Enedina some wanted to be an engineer

Enedina some wanted to be an engineer but that never happened I clearly

but that never happened I clearly

but that never happened I clearly remembered that I went to which universe

remembered that I went to which universe

remembered that I went to which universe associate University and over there I

associate University and over there I

associate University and over there I said that yes I have this presentation

said that yes I have this presentation

said that yes I have this presentation can I get admission and the lady at the

can I get admission and the lady at the

can I get admission and the lady at the counter circus of Allah he by the author

counter circus of Allah he by the author

counter circus of Allah he by the author okay fine I moved on I started doing

okay fine I moved on I started doing

okay fine I moved on I started doing chartered accountancy to fail again yet

chartered accountancy to fail again yet

chartered accountancy to fail again yet twice not twice but thrice and then my

twice not twice but thrice and then my

twice not twice but thrice and then my parents had committed some sin Imani

parents had committed some sin Imani

parents had committed some sin Imani Allah chor though let’s go and then I’ve

Allah chor though let’s go and then I’ve

Allah chor though let’s go and then I’ve moved on to be doing BB and I did my BBA

moved on to be doing BB and I did my BBA

moved on to be doing BB and I did my BBA from a university that is now not known

from a university that is now not known

from a university that is now not known it’s a date might be be from DHS sorry

it’s a date might be be from DHS sorry

it’s a date might be be from DHS sorry DAC biet the offense at her authority

DAC biet the offense at her authority

DAC biet the offense at her authority College of Business which has now been

College of Business which has now been

College of Business which has now been transformed into DHS of our University

transformed into DHS of our University

transformed into DHS of our University so what happened was while I was failing

so what happened was while I was failing

so what happened was while I was failing again and again and again and while I

again and again and again and while I

again and again and again and while I was being ridiculed by the entire crowd

was being ridiculed by the entire crowd

was being ridiculed by the entire crowd by friends family peer and everyone I

by friends family peer and everyone I

by friends family peer and everyone I realized one thing that no matter what

realized one thing that no matter what

realized one thing that no matter what they say you know it’s me who decides

they say you know it’s me who decides

they say you know it’s me who decides whether or not I can make it or not and

whether or not I can make it or not and

whether or not I can make it or not and because I had faced all the ridicule and

because I had faced all the ridicule and

because I had faced all the ridicule and all the downs no ups but downs of the

all the downs no ups but downs of the

all the downs no ups but downs of the society and myself as well I

society and myself as well I

society and myself as well I failing anymore didn’t matter to me I

failing anymore didn’t matter to me I

failing anymore didn’t matter to me I was like okay fine I’ll fail again no

was like okay fine I’ll fail again no

was like okay fine I’ll fail again no big deal and that’s what I actually

big deal and that’s what I actually

big deal and that’s what I actually started to not give a heed what anybody

started to not give a heed what anybody

started to not give a heed what anybody everybody was talking about meet my

everybody was talking about meet my

everybody was talking about meet my family friends peers anyone and that’s

family friends peers anyone and that’s

family friends peers anyone and that’s when I started to take risks to think

when I started to take risks to think

when I started to take risks to think outside the box and I used to say to

outside the box and I used to say to

outside the box and I used to say to myself what’s the worst that can happen

myself what’s the worst that can happen

myself what’s the worst that can happen people will laugh at me so be it what’s

people will laugh at me so be it what’s

people will laugh at me so be it what’s the worst that can happen I’ll fail

the worst that can happen I’ll fail

the worst that can happen I’ll fail I have already failed so many times I

I have already failed so many times I

I have already failed so many times I don’t care so I started compare taking

don’t care so I started compare taking

don’t care so I started compare taking parts in debating competition I started

parts in debating competition I started

parts in debating competition I started event organizing and it wasn’t easy I’m

event organizing and it wasn’t easy I’m

event organizing and it wasn’t easy I’m gonna cut to the chase it wasn’t easy

gonna cut to the chase it wasn’t easy

gonna cut to the chase it wasn’t easy but somehow you know because I had that

but somehow you know because I had that

but somehow you know because I had that attitude that feeling doesn’t matter to

attitude that feeling doesn’t matter to

attitude that feeling doesn’t matter to me and I really want to learn and I

me and I really want to learn and I

me and I really want to learn and I really want to grow things started

really want to grow things started

really want to grow things started working in my favor and I had a very

working in my favor and I had a very

working in my favor and I had a very good university time I in school I was

good university time I in school I was

good university time I in school I was you know the famous from the bottom and

you know the famous from the bottom and

you know the famous from the bottom and in university and Hum Dil I was famous

in university and Hum Dil I was famous

in university and Hum Dil I was famous from the top and it started gradually

from the top and it started gradually

from the top and it started gradually because I was ridiculous I used to take

because I was ridiculous I used to take

because I was ridiculous I used to take risk I used to take chances and I used

risk I used to take chances and I used

risk I used to take chances and I used to tell people that you know failing is

to tell people that you know failing is

to tell people that you know failing is okay even in university when job started

okay even in university when job started

okay even in university when job started the same thing happened in my job when

the same thing happened in my job when

the same thing happened in my job when when you go for a job what happens is

when you go for a job what happens is

when you go for a job what happens is that you have a lot of pressure on you

that you have a lot of pressure on you

that you have a lot of pressure on you from friends and family and they say

from friends and family and they say

from friends and family and they say where are you working

where are you working

where are you working how much are you earning and that

how much are you earning and that

how much are you earning and that started with me as well but what I

started with me as well but what I

started with me as well but what I realized in my job that I wasn’t

realized in my job that I wasn’t

realized in my job that I wasn’t satisfied with my job that I was doing I

satisfied with my job that I was doing I

satisfied with my job that I was doing I switch quickly without even thinking

switch quickly without even thinking

switch quickly without even thinking about peer pressure or anything and that

about peer pressure or anything and that

about peer pressure or anything and that that worked in my favor

that worked in my favor

that worked in my favor I didn’t just switch one jobs but in a

I didn’t just switch one jobs but in a

I didn’t just switch one jobs but in a span of four months I switch for jobs

span of four months I switch for jobs

span of four months I switch for jobs and I was lucky enough to get those jobs

and I was lucky enough to get those jobs

and I was lucky enough to get those jobs by the way and then that then the moment

by the way and then that then the moment

by the way and then that then the moment happened that I wanted to start my own

happened that I wanted to start my own

happened that I wanted to start my own startup the entrepreneurial journey so I

startup the entrepreneurial journey so I

startup the entrepreneurial journey so I set up my own because I was working by

set up my own because I was working by

set up my own because I was working by previous in my previous job I was

previous in my previous job I was

previous in my previous job I was working in a digital marketing agency

working in a digital marketing agency

working in a digital marketing agency one of the top ones in Pakistan so I

one of the top ones in Pakistan so I

one of the top ones in Pakistan so I said why can’t I do this and I started

said why can’t I do this and I started

said why can’t I do this and I started that and from being broke to about

that and from being broke to about

that and from being broke to about earning in five digits in about 4 months

earning in five digits in about 4 months

earning in five digits in about 4 months we were doing really good we had

we were doing really good we had

we were doing really good we had international collaborations we were

international collaborations we were

international collaborations we were working on international projects we had

working on international projects we had

working on international projects we had international trying so everything was

international trying so everything was

international trying so everything was going smooth but then it hit me that I

going smooth but then it hit me that I

going smooth but then it hit me that I didn’t want it to do this and so the

didn’t want it to do this and so the

didn’t want it to do this and so the pressure was very strong on me whether I

pressure was very strong on me whether I

pressure was very strong on me whether I quit and I fail again

quit and I fail again

quit and I fail again and face the ridicule of the society

and face the ridicule of the society

and face the ridicule of the society again or I keep doing this keep moving

again or I keep doing this keep moving

again or I keep doing this keep moving forward so I took the harder decision

forward so I took the harder decision

forward so I took the harder decision and I failed again and I only failed

and I failed again and I only failed

and I failed again and I only failed again because I had the courage to

again because I had the courage to

again because I had the courage to because I had been so used to failure so

because I had been so used to failure so

because I had been so used to failure so I failed again and I started another

I failed again and I started another

I failed again and I started another venture by the name of wonder tree which

venture by the name of wonder tree which

venture by the name of wonder tree which was just mentioned over here so before

was just mentioned over here so before

was just mentioned over here so before this time everybody thought that I was

this time everybody thought that I was

this time everybody thought that I was nothing I was no one I was just a

nothing I was no one I was just a

nothing I was no one I was just a failure but after wonderful things

failure but after wonderful things

failure but after wonderful things started changing

started changing

started changing we like mentioned we won GIS Lee in 2016

we like mentioned we won GIS Lee in 2016

we like mentioned we won GIS Lee in 2016 GIC stands for global entrepreneurs

GIC stands for global entrepreneurs

GIC stands for global entrepreneurs global innovation through science and

global innovation through science and

global innovation through science and technology

technology

technology it happened in Stanford University out

it happened in Stanford University out

it happened in Stanford University out of one thousand and seventy two teams

of one thousand and seventy two teams

of one thousand and seventy two teams which were selected through worldwide

which were selected through worldwide

which were selected through worldwide worldwide we placed third and then we

worldwide we placed third and then we

worldwide we placed third and then we have been covered by Forbes magazine I

have been covered by Forbes magazine I

have been covered by Forbes magazine I have been published in Aurora

have been published in Aurora

have been published in Aurora so Aurora as a magazine that I used to

so Aurora as a magazine that I used to

so Aurora as a magazine that I used to read and I used to aspire that one day

read and I used to aspire that one day

read and I used to aspire that one day I’ll write for it so alhamdulillah I you

I’ll write for it so alhamdulillah I you

I’ll write for it so alhamdulillah I you know face got published in a row

and I was at a conference and there were

and I was at a conference and there were all these senior IT entrepreneurs and

all these senior IT entrepreneurs and

all these senior IT entrepreneurs and corporate professionals and one of them

corporate professionals and one of them

corporate professionals and one of them said that work asks Wow you know it

said that work asks Wow you know it

said that work asks Wow you know it normally takes people 25 years to get

normally takes people 25 years to get

normally takes people 25 years to get published in force and you have just

published in force and you have just

published in force and you have just done it in any year span so I didn’t

done it in any year span so I didn’t

done it in any year span so I didn’t answer him that at that very moment but

answer him that at that very moment but

answer him that at that very moment but what I thought was K this is not an air

what I thought was K this is not an air

what I thought was K this is not an air long journey this journey started from

long journey this journey started from

long journey this journey started from the very beginning you know is during my

the very beginning you know is during my

the very beginning you know is during my school life when I started this path of

school life when I started this path of

school life when I started this path of feeling and learning again and failing

feeling and learning again and failing

feeling and learning again and failing again and learning again and again and

again and learning again and again and

again and learning again and again and again so this was my short story but

again so this was my short story but

again so this was my short story but what do I want to convey to you guys

what do I want to convey to you guys

what do I want to convey to you guys what do you what do I want to take I

what do you what do I want to take I

what do you what do I want to take I want you to take out of it and go home

want you to take out of it and go home

want you to take out of it and go home with it is that failure is okay and I’m

with it is that failure is okay and I’m

with it is that failure is okay and I’m sure sitting in the audience some of you

sure sitting in the audience some of you

sure sitting in the audience some of you might want to might would might have

might want to might would might have

might want to might would might have vision to become or passion of becoming

vision to become or passion of becoming

vision to become or passion of becoming artists or musicians or sports player

artists or musicians or sports player

artists or musicians or sports player but yet you are in fast which is not a

but yet you are in fast which is not a

but yet you are in fast which is not a bad thing but you are in fast right and

bad thing but you are in fast right and

bad thing but you are in fast right and you’re doing CS and engineering why did

you’re doing CS and engineering why did

you’re doing CS and engineering why did you do this because of fear of failure

you do this because of fear of failure

you do this because of fear of failure because that you you thought that you

because that you you thought that you

because that you you thought that you know you’ll be disappointing your

know you’ll be disappointing your

know you’ll be disappointing your parents or your peers or your families

parents or your peers or your families

parents or your peers or your families or if you have if you had chosen arts

or if you have if you had chosen arts

or if you have if you had chosen arts what would your family say so that’s how

what would your family say so that’s how

what would your family say so that’s how you did it but and when you graduate and

you did it but and when you graduate and

you did it but and when you graduate and you go for jobs you’re going to

you go for jobs you’re going to

you go for jobs you’re going to inshallah you’re going to land a good

inshallah you’re going to land a good

inshallah you’re going to land a good job but you’re not going to switch it

job but you’re not going to switch it

job but you’re not going to switch it even when you’re unhappy why would that

even when you’re unhappy why would that

even when you’re unhappy why would that be fear of failure so this is what I

be fear of failure so this is what I

be fear of failure so this is what I want to convey to you that failing is OK

want to convey to you that failing is OK

want to convey to you that failing is OK and you can always switch because if you

and you can always switch because if you

and you can always switch because if you want to do something extraordinary in

want to do something extraordinary in

want to do something extraordinary in life you have to take the road that has

life you have to take the road that has

life you have to take the road that has been less traveled that means more risk

been less traveled that means more risk

been less traveled that means more risk that means failing and failing is OK as

that means failing and failing is OK as

that means failing and failing is OK as Weston Churchill said that success is

Weston Churchill said that success is

Weston Churchill said that success is failing from one point through the other

failing from one point through the other

failing from one point through the other point without losing enthusiasm and this

point without losing enthusiasm and this

point without losing enthusiasm and this is how the greatest inventions have been

is how the greatest inventions have been

is how the greatest inventions have been made this is how the world has moved

made this is how the world has moved

made this is how the world has moved forward

forward

forward you have very excellent and brilliant

you have very excellent and brilliant

you have very excellent and brilliant examples of people failing and then

examples of people failing and then

examples of people failing and then becoming something amazing steve job of

becoming something amazing steve job of

becoming something amazing steve job of one of them one of them he was a hippie

one of them one of them he was a hippie

one of them one of them he was a hippie he was a dropout

he was a dropout

he was a dropout he started Apple he got kicked out of

he started Apple he got kicked out of

he started Apple he got kicked out of Apple he started next he failed at next

Apple he started next he failed at next

Apple he started next he failed at next and then he comes back again into Apple

and then he comes back again into Apple

and then he comes back again into Apple and revolutionizes the entire industry

and revolutionizes the entire industry

and revolutionizes the entire industry and now Apple is one of the biggest

and now Apple is one of the biggest

and now Apple is one of the biggest American companies making the largest

American companies making the largest

American companies making the largest profit and changing the lives of

profit and changing the lives of

profit and changing the lives of millions same is the case with Einstein

millions same is the case with Einstein

millions same is the case with Einstein same is the case with Michael Jordan who

same is the case with Michael Jordan who

same is the case with Michael Jordan who was a famous basketball player all these

was a famous basketball player all these

was a famous basketball player all these they all these people had one thing in

they all these people had one thing in

they all these people had one thing in common they stood aside from the crowd

common they stood aside from the crowd

common they stood aside from the crowd they said then we want to take the high

they said then we want to take the high

they said then we want to take the high road and they failed but that didn’t let

road and they failed but that didn’t let

road and they failed but that didn’t let them stop in their tracks they want went

them stop in their tracks they want went

them stop in their tracks they want went on again and again and again did it and

on again and again and again did it and

on again and again and again did it and that succeeded and this is what I want

that succeeded and this is what I want

that succeeded and this is what I want to convey to you failing is OK if you

to convey to you failing is OK if you

to convey to you failing is OK if you have something else rod never mind go

have something else rod never mind go

have something else rod never mind go for it

for it

for it you will fail but that is only a

you will fail but that is only a

you will fail but that is only a learning curve once you are once you

learning curve once you are once you

learning curve once you are once you once you cross that learning curve

once you cross that learning curve

once you cross that learning curve you’re on your way to success and

you’re on your way to success and

you’re on your way to success and Pakistan needs this for too long we have

Pakistan needs this for too long we have

Pakistan needs this for too long we have been we have been stigma but stigmatize

been we have been stigma but stigmatize

been we have been stigma but stigmatize this notion of failing has been

this notion of failing has been

this notion of failing has been stigmatized even in your friends even

stigmatized even in your friends even

stigmatized even in your friends even your family and even in your peers when

your family and even in your peers when

your family and even in your peers when you fail a subject or you don’t learn a

you fail a subject or you don’t learn a

you fail a subject or you don’t learn a job or you get fired from a job the

job or you get fired from a job the

job or you get fired from a job the first thing that occurs in your mind is

first thing that occurs in your mind is

first thing that occurs in your mind is that what will the people think

that what will the people think

that what will the people think look your gang gear that is to be broken

look your gang gear that is to be broken

look your gang gear that is to be broken down and as the audience as friends or

down and as the audience as friends or

down and as the audience as friends or peers or family members of the people

peers or family members of the people

peers or family members of the people failing I would urge you not to

failing I would urge you not to

failing I would urge you not to criticize a person when they are failing

criticize a person when they are failing

criticize a person when they are failing in fact encourage them failure should be

in fact encourage them failure should be

in fact encourage them failure should be celebrated because after failure you get

celebrated because after failure you get

celebrated because after failure you get success fear is the first steps of

success fear is the first steps of

success fear is the first steps of success that will be all thank you

now before I leave this stage because I

now before I leave this stage because I really love this stage it’s really

really love this stage it’s really

really love this stage it’s really awesome really a nice design I want to

awesome really a nice design I want to

awesome really a nice design I want to take a selfie with all of you can I

take a selfie with all of you can I

take a selfie with all of you can I request the lights to be open

awesome ready can you close that light

awesome ready can you close that light okay awesome ready 1 2 3 you’re gonna

okay awesome ready 1 2 3 you’re gonna

okay awesome ready 1 2 3 you’re gonna scream 1 2 3

scream 1 2 3

scream 1 2 3 Wow now on the count of three we’re

Wow now on the count of three we’re

Wow now on the count of three we’re gonna shout failure 1 2 3

gonna shout failure 1 2 3

gonna shout failure 1 2 3 failure thank you

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