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How empathy can be cultivated between cultures | Lauren White | TEDxVCU


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[Applause] survival is defined by merriam-webster

survival is defined by merriam-webster

survival is defined by merriam-webster as the state or fact of continuing to

as the state or fact of continuing to

as the state or fact of continuing to exist in spite of difficult conditions

exist in spite of difficult conditions

exist in spite of difficult conditions survival is a human necessity and in a

survival is a human necessity and in a

survival is a human necessity and in a lot of ways it begins to shape the way

lot of ways it begins to shape the way

lot of ways it begins to shape the way that we choose to navigate the world for

that we choose to navigate the world for

that we choose to navigate the world for our ancestors survival look like coming

our ancestors survival look like coming

our ancestors survival look like coming to a new world

to a new world

to a new world maybe escaping a dangerous regime or

maybe escaping a dangerous regime or

maybe escaping a dangerous regime or restricting government in order to

restricting government in order to

restricting government in order to provide a positive future for their

provide a positive future for their

provide a positive future for their families for others it looked like being

families for others it looked like being

families for others it looked like being forced into that new world stripped of

forced into that new world stripped of

forced into that new world stripped of their previous way of life and being

their previous way of life and being

their previous way of life and being forced to create something out of

forced to create something out of

forced to create something out of nothing

nothing

nothing we can find the various tactics used by

we can find the various tactics used by

we can find the various tactics used by our ancestors for survival in the way

our ancestors for survival in the way

our ancestors for survival in the way that we live today whether or not the

that we live today whether or not the

that we live today whether or not the conditions they created them in exist

conditions they created them in exist

conditions they created them in exist for us today or not for example a strong

for us today or not for example a strong

for us today or not for example a strong work ethic could be traced back to the

work ethic could be traced back to the

work ethic could be traced back to the ones who came before us it had to build

ones who came before us it had to build

ones who came before us it had to build with their hands what we tend to have

with their hands what we tend to have

with their hands what we tend to have easy access to or the way that we spend

easy access to or the way that we spend

easy access to or the way that we spend money for instance could be traced back

money for instance could be traced back

money for instance could be traced back to that great-great-grandfather who had

to that great-great-grandfather who had

to that great-great-grandfather who had to provide for a family of 10 the

to provide for a family of 10 the

to provide for a family of 10 the tactics that we use every day for

tactics that we use every day for

tactics that we use every day for survival are designed to defend our

survival are designed to defend our

survival are designed to defend our culture our value our personal rights

culture our value our personal rights

culture our value our personal rights our traditions or ID or our ideals but

our traditions or ID or our ideals but

our traditions or ID or our ideals but there’s a very strange thing about

there’s a very strange thing about

there’s a very strange thing about survival if survival is defined as the

survival if survival is defined as the

survival if survival is defined as the state or a fact of continuing to exist

state or a fact of continuing to exist

state or a fact of continuing to exist in spite of then in spite of insinuates

in spite of then in spite of insinuates

in spite of then in spite of insinuates some sort of opposition some sort of

some sort of opposition some sort of

some sort of opposition some sort of opposing force that we have to defend

opposing force that we have to defend

opposing force that we have to defend ourselves from what happens then when

ourselves from what happens then when

ourselves from what happens then when what we use to defend our culture our

what we use to defend our culture our

what we use to defend our culture our values our traditions or our ideals

values our traditions or our ideals

values our traditions or our ideals begins to center in on the differences

begins to center in on the differences

begins to center in on the differences of those that we were designed to

of those that we were designed to

of those that we were designed to coexist with rather they defend

coexist with rather they defend

coexist with rather they defend ourselves from I want to tell you a

ourselves from I want to tell you a

ourselves from I want to tell you a story about a time that survival changed

story about a time that survival changed

story about a time that survival changed for me and my family was the summer of

for me and my family was the summer of

for me and my family was the summer of 2014 it was very shortly after the

2014 it was very shortly after the

2014 it was very shortly after the shooting death of

shooting death of

shooting death of 18 year old Michael Brown by a police

18 year old Michael Brown by a police

18 year old Michael Brown by a police officer my parents were preparing my

officer my parents were preparing my

officer my parents were preparing my younger brother here an avid runner and

younger brother here an avid runner and

younger brother here an avid runner and incoming college freshmen for his first

incoming college freshmen for his first

incoming college freshmen for his first semester at school so my mom sat him

semester at school so my mom sat him

semester at school so my mom sat him down and gave him a very strong list of

down and gave him a very strong list of

down and gave him a very strong list of suggestions that he was to take with him

suggestions that he was to take with him

suggestions that he was to take with him to his first semester like I’m sure many

to his first semester like I’m sure many

to his first semester like I’m sure many other mothers have done until she sat

other mothers have done until she sat

other mothers have done until she sat him down and she looked him in the eye

him down and she looked him in the eye

him down and she looked him in the eye and she said I want you to remember that

and she said I want you to remember that

and she said I want you to remember that your educational success is your first

your educational success is your first

your educational success is your first priority so that means not too much

priority so that means not too much

priority so that means not too much partying or none at all

partying or none at all

partying or none at all she said cultivate good study habits

she said cultivate good study habits

she said cultivate good study habits choose your friends wisely and boy you

choose your friends wisely and boy you

choose your friends wisely and boy you better manage that meal plan but then

better manage that meal plan but then

better manage that meal plan but then the conversation took a very interesting

the conversation took a very interesting

the conversation took a very interesting turn as she added and I know you’re a

turn as she added and I know you’re a

turn as she added and I know you’re a runner I know that you love running but

runner I know that you love running but

runner I know that you love running but please just don’t run with a hoodie on

be very careful around police be

be very careful around police be respectful but just try to steer clear

respectful but just try to steer clear

respectful but just try to steer clear of them if you have to walk around or

of them if you have to walk around or

of them if you have to walk around or during the day or at night to make sure

during the day or at night to make sure

during the day or at night to make sure that you’re walking with someone

that you’re walking with someone

that you’re walking with someone god forbid you get pulled over by an

god forbid you get pulled over by an

god forbid you get pulled over by an officer just keep your hands on the

officer just keep your hands on the

officer just keep your hands on the steering wheel and don’t you think about

steering wheel and don’t you think about

steering wheel and don’t you think about touching your wallet those are things a

touching your wallet those are things a

touching your wallet those are things a mother should never have to tell her son

mother should never have to tell her son

mother should never have to tell her son when preparing him to go to school I

when preparing him to go to school I

when preparing him to go to school I remember that moment like it was

remember that moment like it was

remember that moment like it was yesterday sitting at the kitchen table

yesterday sitting at the kitchen table

yesterday sitting at the kitchen table with my mother and my brother over

with my mother and my brother over

with my mother and my brother over listen over listening to their

listen over listening to their

listen over listening to their conversation and remembering how starkly

conversation and remembering how starkly

conversation and remembering how starkly different it was from the conversation

different it was from the conversation

different it was from the conversation that my mom and dad had with us just

that my mom and dad had with us just

that my mom and dad had with us just four years prior but this was our

four years prior but this was our

four years prior but this was our reality I was watching my mother look

reality I was watching my mother look

reality I was watching my mother look into the eyes of her only son and all of

into the eyes of her only son and all of

into the eyes of her only son and all of a sudden she wasn’t just preparing him

a sudden she wasn’t just preparing him

a sudden she wasn’t just preparing him for the best four years of his life as

for the best four years of his life as

for the best four years of his life as we like to label college or even to go

we like to label college or even to go

we like to label college or even to go out in the world and be an upstanding

out in the world and be an upstanding

out in the world and be an upstanding citizen I’m sure those were hopes that

citizen I’m sure those were hopes that

citizen I’m sure those were hopes that she did have for my brother but in this

she did have for my brother but in this

she did have for my brother but in this particular instance they seem so trivial

particular instance they seem so trivial

particular instance they seem so trivial as they took a back seat

as they took a back seat

as they took a back seat to what I’m sure was her ultimate hope

to what I’m sure was her ultimate hope

to what I’m sure was her ultimate hope that her son would survive I think the

that her son would survive I think the

that her son would survive I think the most disheartening thing about wasn’t

most disheartening thing about wasn’t

most disheartening thing about wasn’t what wasn’t quite a new reality for us

what wasn’t quite a new reality for us

what wasn’t quite a new reality for us as a black family but definitely

as a black family but definitely

as a black family but definitely becoming a more prevalent one was the

becoming a more prevalent one was the

becoming a more prevalent one was the lack of empathy the lack of empathy for

lack of empathy the lack of empathy for

lack of empathy the lack of empathy for what was a traumatic reality not just

what was a traumatic reality not just

what was a traumatic reality not just for my family but for african-american

for my family but for african-american

for my family but for african-american and minority families across the country

and minority families across the country

and minority families across the country you never quite get used to hearing name

you never quite get used to hearing name

you never quite get used to hearing name after name after name after name of a

after name after name after name of a

after name after name after name of a young woman or young man that looks just

young woman or young man that looks just

young woman or young man that looks just like you being killed for reasons that

like you being killed for reasons that

like you being killed for reasons that have yet to be proven constitutional yet

have yet to be proven constitutional yet

have yet to be proven constitutional yet with no consequence are the times that

with no consequence are the times that

with no consequence are the times that me and my brother would go to class

me and my brother would go to class

me and my brother would go to class after hearing about yet another death

after hearing about yet another death

after hearing about yet another death and it feels like that person was a

and it feels like that person was a

and it feels like that person was a close family member but because you’re

close family member but because you’re

close family member but because you’re the minority in your society everyone

the minority in your society everyone

the minority in your society everyone kind of goes on as normal not a

kind of goes on as normal not a

kind of goes on as normal not a professor not a friend acknowledges the

professor not a friend acknowledges the

professor not a friend acknowledges the pain that you feel in that moment I’d

pain that you feel in that moment I’d

pain that you feel in that moment I’d lose count if I had to tell you how many

lose count if I had to tell you how many

lose count if I had to tell you how many times I heard suggestions or excuses for

times I heard suggestions or excuses for

times I heard suggestions or excuses for what a victim could have done or should

what a victim could have done or should

what a victim could have done or should have done to stay alive yet I have too

have done to stay alive yet I have too

have done to stay alive yet I have too many fingers to list for you how many of

many fingers to list for you how many of

many fingers to list for you how many of those suggested survival tactics have

those suggested survival tactics have

those suggested survival tactics have actually worked so far so me being a

actually worked so far so me being a

actually worked so far so me being a young african-american young adult I

young african-american young adult I

young african-american young adult I realized that I’m only one person but I

realized that I’m only one person but I

realized that I’m only one person but I felt the strongest urge that I had to do

felt the strongest urge that I had to do

felt the strongest urge that I had to do something I’d spent the majority of my

something I’d spent the majority of my

something I’d spent the majority of my undergraduate design career trying to

undergraduate design career trying to

undergraduate design career trying to solve the questions that I had

solve the questions that I had

solve the questions that I had surrounding being an african-american in

surrounding being an african-american in

surrounding being an african-american in America questions about our visibility

America questions about our visibility

America questions about our visibility education or the way that we were

education or the way that we were

education or the way that we were portrayed in the media and the news

portrayed in the media and the news

portrayed in the media and the news outlet all on a quest to find what I

outlet all on a quest to find what I

outlet all on a quest to find what I realized was simply understanding

realized was simply understanding

realized was simply understanding empathy is defined as the ability to

empathy is defined as the ability to

empathy is defined as the ability to share in the feelings of someone else

share in the feelings of someone else

share in the feelings of someone else and so as I approached my final year of

and so as I approached my final year of

and so as I approached my final year of school and my senior capstone I just had

school and my senior capstone I just had

school and my senior capstone I just had one

one

one to answer and that was how do you

to answer and that was how do you

to answer and that was how do you cultivate empathy between different

cultivate empathy between different

cultivate empathy between different cultures for research I look to the

cultures for research I look to the

cultures for research I look to the history of the Jewish Holocaust as one

history of the Jewish Holocaust as one

history of the Jewish Holocaust as one who had grown up drawn to study the

who had grown up drawn to study the

who had grown up drawn to study the stories of the survivors of that

stories of the survivors of that

stories of the survivors of that horrible time I was really interested

horrible time I was really interested

horrible time I was really interested and seeing what new perspectives I will

and seeing what new perspectives I will

and seeing what new perspectives I will gather this time around however I don’t

gather this time around however I don’t

gather this time around however I don’t think I was prepared for the emotional

think I was prepared for the emotional

think I was prepared for the emotional difference that I experienced this time

difference that I experienced this time

difference that I experienced this time you see as I was surrounded by the

you see as I was surrounded by the

you see as I was surrounded by the stories of the horrors that they faced I

realized that there was something

realized that there was something starkly different about what I had

starkly different about what I had

starkly different about what I had experienced about my people you see in

experienced about my people you see in

experienced about my people you see in Jewish culture these stories are kept

Jewish culture these stories are kept

Jewish culture these stories are kept alive in order that they’ve not repeated

alive in order that they’ve not repeated

alive in order that they’ve not repeated and I couldn’t help but see the

and I couldn’t help but see the

and I couldn’t help but see the differences in how the centuries-old

differences in how the centuries-old

differences in how the centuries-old atrocities that my people had faced were

atrocities that my people had faced were

atrocities that my people had faced were looked at every quote and every story

looked at every quote and every story

looked at every quote and every story that was telling us to never forget only

that was telling us to never forget only

that was telling us to never forget only reminded me of how many times over the

reminded me of how many times over the

reminded me of how many times over the course of my life I was told to forget

course of my life I was told to forget

course of my life I was told to forget and so here I faced another problem I

and so here I faced another problem I

and so here I faced another problem I was looking at two beautiful groups of

was looking at two beautiful groups of

was looking at two beautiful groups of people who had faced atrocities that are

people who had faced atrocities that are

people who had faced atrocities that are really unthinkable and I had to discover

really unthinkable and I had to discover

really unthinkable and I had to discover what the difference was in the way that

what the difference was in the way that

what the difference was in the way that we were in the way that they were viewed

we were in the way that they were viewed

we were in the way that they were viewed and so there are a lot of different

and so there are a lot of different

and so there are a lot of different things that you could consider you could

things that you could consider you could

things that you could consider you could consider the different systems that our

consider the different systems that our

consider the different systems that our country was built on but I wanted to do

country was built on but I wanted to do

country was built on but I wanted to do something that really made sense for the

something that really made sense for the

something that really made sense for the context I was in so I came to the

context I was in so I came to the

context I was in so I came to the hypothesis that the atrocities of the

hypothesis that the atrocities of the

hypothesis that the atrocities of the Jewish Holocaust were looked at as

Jewish Holocaust were looked at as

Jewish Holocaust were looked at as atrocities to humankind which meant this

atrocities to humankind which meant this

atrocities to humankind which meant this that there was quite a possibility that

that there was quite a possibility that

that there was quite a possibility that if we took the time to look at one

if we took the time to look at one

if we took the time to look at one another and find what made us human

another and find what made us human

another and find what made us human what connected us together it can be

what connected us together it can be

what connected us together it can be much easier for us to empathize with one

much easier for us to empathize with one

much easier for us to empathize with one another if

another if

another if I’m different from you but I can see us

I’m different from you but I can see us

I’m different from you but I can see us both as being a human being then all of

both as being a human being then all of

both as being a human being then all of a sudden we enter the same playing field

a sudden we enter the same playing field

a sudden we enter the same playing field so then I had another question to answer

so then I had another question to answer

so then I had another question to answer what is one thing one thing that exists

what is one thing one thing that exists

what is one thing one thing that exists in all spheres of humanity that can

in all spheres of humanity that can

in all spheres of humanity that can connect us together well I went back to

connect us together well I went back to

connect us together well I went back to my mother and the day that she prepared

my mother and the day that she prepared

my mother and the day that she prepared my brother for school because at the

my brother for school because at the

my brother for school because at the cornerstone of every sphere of society

cornerstone of every sphere of society

cornerstone of every sphere of society exists mothers they’re the people who

exists mothers they’re the people who

exists mothers they’re the people who give us life they move mountains they

give us life they move mountains they

give us life they move mountains they can literally do anything you know your

can literally do anything you know your

can literally do anything you know your mother can get you to do anything

mother can get you to do anything

mother can get you to do anything and so then mothers with sons was born

and so then mothers with sons was born

and so then mothers with sons was born this was my capstone event that would

this was my capstone event that would

this was my capstone event that would gather mothers all from different

gather mothers all from different

gather mothers all from different backgrounds with the one commonality

backgrounds with the one commonality

backgrounds with the one commonality they all had sons between the ages of 15

they all had sons between the ages of 15

they all had sons between the ages of 15 and 25 I chose this particular

and 25 I chose this particular

and 25 I chose this particular demographic because from a minority

demographic because from a minority

demographic because from a minority perspective this is the demographic that

perspective this is the demographic that

perspective this is the demographic that is most targeted especially when it

is most targeted especially when it

is most targeted especially when it comes to instances of police brutality

comes to instances of police brutality

comes to instances of police brutality and so I gathered these mothers around

and so I gathered these mothers around

and so I gathered these mothers around the dinner table but before then I had

the dinner table but before then I had

the dinner table but before then I had to do a lot of research and in my

to do a lot of research and in my

to do a lot of research and in my research I talked to mothers from all

research I talked to mothers from all

research I talked to mothers from all different backgrounds white mothers

different backgrounds white mothers

different backgrounds white mothers black mothers Hispanic mothers but my

black mothers Hispanic mothers but my

black mothers Hispanic mothers but my most favorite conversation had to have

most favorite conversation had to have

most favorite conversation had to have been with a former professor professor

been with a former professor professor

been with a former professor professor Jamie Mahoney Jamie a mother herself had

Jamie Mahoney Jamie a mother herself had

Jamie Mahoney Jamie a mother herself had had the privilege of creating

had the privilege of creating

had the privilege of creating advertising and marketing campaigns for

advertising and marketing campaigns for

advertising and marketing campaigns for mothers against drunk driving so she

mothers against drunk driving so she

mothers against drunk driving so she knew of the kind of force that I was

knew of the kind of force that I was

knew of the kind of force that I was trying to pull on but I think out of all

trying to pull on but I think out of all

trying to pull on but I think out of all of the information that I gained from

of the information that I gained from

of the information that I gained from Jamie my most favorite thing that she

Jamie my most favorite thing that she

Jamie my most favorite thing that she told me was about the experience when

told me was about the experience when

told me was about the experience when she first had her child and so Jamie

she first had her child and so Jamie

she first had her child and so Jamie looked at me what’s here’s in her eyes

looked at me what’s here’s in her eyes

looked at me what’s here’s in her eyes and she said Lauren the most amazing

and she said Lauren the most amazing

and she said Lauren the most amazing thing happened to me when I became a

thing happened to me when I became a

thing happened to me when I became a mother something that I really can’t

mother something that I really can’t

mother something that I really can’t really can’t describe but I’m going to

really can’t describe but I’m going to

really can’t describe but I’m going to try my best to put it into words she

try my best to put it into words she

try my best to put it into words she said when I became a mother

said when I became a mother

said when I became a mother it was like I wasn’t just the mother of

it was like I wasn’t just the mother of

it was like I wasn’t just the mother of my child but it was like I became the

my child but it was like I became the

my child but it was like I became the mother of all children and this was a

mother of all children and this was a

mother of all children and this was a truth that I hoped

truth that I hoped

truth that I hoped what reigned through and the mothers

what reigned through and the mothers

what reigned through and the mothers that I gathered for this particular

that I gathered for this particular

that I gathered for this particular event so I gathered about six eight

event so I gathered about six eight

event so I gathered about six eight mothers around a dinner table a very

mothers around a dinner table a very

mothers around a dinner table a very intimate setting I wanted it to feel

intimate setting I wanted it to feel

intimate setting I wanted it to feel like a safe space of space for them to

like a safe space of space for them to

like a safe space of space for them to bond to grow and to connect and in this

bond to grow and to connect and in this

bond to grow and to connect and in this space they answered questions like what

space they answered questions like what

space they answered questions like what was the moment like when you first had

was the moment like when you first had

was the moment like when you first had your son what is your favorite memory of

your son what is your favorite memory of

your son what is your favorite memory of your son what was a moment when you were

your son what was a moment when you were

your son what was a moment when you were most proud of your son what was a moment

most proud of your son what was a moment

most proud of your son what was a moment when you were most afraid for your son

when you were most afraid for your son

when you were most afraid for your son what is your biggest fear for your son

what is your biggest fear for your son

what is your biggest fear for your son and if any of these women were to see

and if any of these women were to see

and if any of these women were to see your son walking across the street what

your son walking across the street what

your son walking across the street what is the first thing you would want them

is the first thing you would want them

is the first thing you would want them to know about him so I want to share

to know about him so I want to share

to know about him so I want to share with you really quickly one of the mini

with you really quickly one of the mini

with you really quickly one of the mini feedback that I got from the mothers at

feedback that I got from the mothers at

feedback that I got from the mothers at this particular dinner is it’s a

this particular dinner is it’s a

this particular dinner is it’s a situation is a problem and all of us all

situation is a problem and all of us all

situation is a problem and all of us all of us can relate to because I feel like

of us can relate to because I feel like

of us can relate to because I feel like being a mother is

being a mother is

being a mother is you black mother Hispanic mother or a

you black mother Hispanic mother or a

you black mother Hispanic mother or a jihad we are all mother and the cares

jihad we are all mother and the cares

jihad we are all mother and the cares things all others do is universal it

things all others do is universal it

things all others do is universal it doesn’t have raised admission

doesn’t have raised admission

doesn’t have raised admission intentionality even her mother my mom is

intentionality even her mother my mom is

intentionality even her mother my mom is pretty much have the same common

pretty much have the same common

pretty much have the same common denominator so it’s something that could

denominator so it’s something that could

denominator so it’s something that could should concern all of us as mother does

should concern all of us as mother does

should concern all of us as mother does matter where you’re from or what color

matter where you’re from or what color

matter where you’re from or what color your skin we should look at it as my

your skin we should look at it as my

your skin we should look at it as my mother spirit so it’s a concern that we

mother spirit so it’s a concern that we

mother spirit so it’s a concern that we should all have we should all be

should all have we should all be

should all have we should all be sensitive to be concern for this

sensitive to be concern for this

sensitive to be concern for this particular event we had a couple of

particular event we had a couple of

particular event we had a couple of different backgrounds present not as

different backgrounds present not as

different backgrounds present not as many as I would have hoped but what I

many as I would have hoped but what I

many as I would have hoped but what I loved so much about this particular

loved so much about this particular

loved so much about this particular event is that we didn’t host a pity

event is that we didn’t host a pity

event is that we didn’t host a pity party

party

party that wasn’t a was me sob story for the

that wasn’t a was me sob story for the

that wasn’t a was me sob story for the things that came out that maybe weren’t

things that came out that maybe weren’t

things that came out that maybe weren’t so pleasant but instead every woman left

so pleasant but instead every woman left

so pleasant but instead every woman left feeling empowered they left feeling

feeling empowered they left feeling

feeling empowered they left feeling charged and challenged believing that if

charged and challenged believing that if

charged and challenged believing that if mothers of our background could get

mothers of our background could get

mothers of our background could get together to stand up for it not just

together to stand up for it not just

together to stand up for it not just their children my children that look

their children my children that look

their children my children that look like them but for all in particular then

like them but for all in particular then

like them but for all in particular then maybe change could happen and and that

maybe change could happen and and that

maybe change could happen and and that was because they were able to

was because they were able to

was because they were able to acknowledge the validity of the humanity

acknowledge the validity of the humanity

acknowledge the validity of the humanity of one another and it also means that

of one another and it also means that

of one another and it also means that when those mothers left that event

when those mothers left that event

when those mothers left that event there’s a big possibility that they ran

there’s a big possibility that they ran

there’s a big possibility that they ran into a young man that maybe did it look

into a young man that maybe did it look

into a young man that maybe did it look like them but they thought oh what about

like them but they thought oh what about

like them but they thought oh what about his mother or maybe thought about the

his mother or maybe thought about the

his mother or maybe thought about the fact that he was a son there’s a quote

fact that he was a son there’s a quote

fact that he was a son there’s a quote by Professor Michael Eric Dyson that he

by Professor Michael Eric Dyson that he

by Professor Michael Eric Dyson that he gave after the death of Trayvon Martin

gave after the death of Trayvon Martin

gave after the death of Trayvon Martin and he said at the end of the day

and he said at the end of the day

and he said at the end of the day recognize that young black teens are

recognize that young black teens are

recognize that young black teens are children of God and deserve every

children of God and deserve every

children of God and deserve every protection because if the women on that

protection because if the women on that

protection because if the women on that jury

jury

jury were to be we’re have have been able to

were to be we’re have have been able to

were to be we’re have have been able to see Trayvon as their child they may have

see Trayvon as their child they may have

see Trayvon as their child they may have heard his blood calling from the ground

heard his blood calling from the ground

heard his blood calling from the ground where George Zimmerman laid him to rest

mothers with sons is an ongoing project

mothers with sons is an ongoing project it’s something that I hope continues to

it’s something that I hope continues to

it’s something that I hope continues to to grow and gain new life and gather

to grow and gain new life and gather

to grow and gain new life and gather mothers from all backgrounds not only

mothers from all backgrounds not only

mothers from all backgrounds not only nationally but maybe one day

nationally but maybe one day

nationally but maybe one day internationally I believe that the power

internationally I believe that the power

internationally I believe that the power that mothers have to become the village

that mothers have to become the village

that mothers have to become the village that our society needs is very strong

that our society needs is very strong

that our society needs is very strong and very possible but Professor Dyson’s

and very possible but Professor Dyson’s

and very possible but Professor Dyson’s quote doesn’t just apply to young black

quote doesn’t just apply to young black

quote doesn’t just apply to young black teens it applies to every human being

teens it applies to every human being

teens it applies to every human being what would happen if we took the time to

what would happen if we took the time to

what would happen if we took the time to acknowledge the humanity of everyone we

acknowledge the humanity of everyone we

acknowledge the humanity of everyone we came in contact with not just ones that

came in contact with not just ones that

came in contact with not just ones that looked like us not just ones from the

looked like us not just ones from the

looked like us not just ones from the backgrounds that we’re used to but

backgrounds that we’re used to but

backgrounds that we’re used to but understanding that there is a human

understanding that there is a human

understanding that there is a human thread because we breathe the same air

thread because we breathe the same air

thread because we breathe the same air and we coexist in the same society how

and we coexist in the same society how

and we coexist in the same society how positively then could we change not only

positively then could we change not only

positively then could we change not only our pattern of survival but the survival

our pattern of survival but the survival

our pattern of survival but the survival pattern of someone else thank you

pattern of someone else thank you

pattern of someone else thank you [Applause]

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