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How does charity bring happiness | Cindy Han | TEDxYouth@Suzhou


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[Music] hi everyone I’m Cindy and in 2015 I

hi everyone I’m Cindy and in 2015 I

hi everyone I’m Cindy and in 2015 I founded the crescendo project I got

founded the crescendo project I got

founded the crescendo project I got together with a couple of friends at

together with a couple of friends at

together with a couple of friends at school we brainstorm some ideas got in

school we brainstorm some ideas got in

school we brainstorm some ideas got in touch with others in a community and

touch with others in a community and

touch with others in a community and then filled out a proposal form to

then filled out a proposal form to

then filled out a proposal form to create a club on Thursdays after schools

create a club on Thursdays after schools

create a club on Thursdays after schools last year we fundraised to purchase 21

last year we fundraised to purchase 21

last year we fundraised to purchase 21 guitars for managing migrants goal and

guitars for managing migrants goal and

guitars for managing migrants goal and we now go to my crystals around pseudo

we now go to my crystals around pseudo

we now go to my crystals around pseudo to teach kids instruments on Saturday

to teach kids instruments on Saturday

to teach kids instruments on Saturday mornings sounds easy it was not I could

mornings sounds easy it was not I could

mornings sounds easy it was not I could talk for days about the challenge we

talk for days about the challenge we

talk for days about the challenge we face but know when things started to

face but know when things started to

face but know when things started to work I forgot all about them I was so

work I forgot all about them I was so

work I forgot all about them I was so proud of myself and excited I was like

proud of myself and excited I was like

proud of myself and excited I was like I’m making a difference for the migrant

I’m making a difference for the migrant

I’m making a difference for the migrant children teachers at school told me

children teachers at school told me

children teachers at school told me Cindy you’re doing great things for the

Cindy you’re doing great things for the

Cindy you’re doing great things for the community and for a while I thought it

community and for a while I thought it

community and for a while I thought it found so much meaning in life until a

found so much meaning in life until a

found so much meaning in life until a younger student looking to start service

younger student looking to start service

younger student looking to start service herself came and asked me why do you do

herself came and asked me why do you do

herself came and asked me why do you do service a profound question she wasn’t

service a profound question she wasn’t

service a profound question she wasn’t asking what change I’ve made in my

asking what change I’ve made in my

asking what change I’ve made in my community that gave me purpose but what

community that gave me purpose but what

community that gave me purpose but what motivates me what motivates Cindy Han to

motivates me what motivates Cindy Han to

motivates me what motivates Cindy Han to do service and I was dumbfounded because

do service and I was dumbfounded because

do service and I was dumbfounded because I was so stuck on this one question for

I was so stuck on this one question for

I was so stuck on this one question for the next few days I asked myself another

the next few days I asked myself another

the next few days I asked myself another profound question why do we live why do

profound question why do we live why do

profound question why do we live why do we rage against the darkness of the

we rage against the darkness of the

we rage against the darkness of the night when we know that with every step

night when we know that with every step

night when we know that with every step we’re leaving light further and further

we’re leaving light further and further

we’re leaving light further and further behind in one of my theory of knowledge

behind in one of my theory of knowledge

behind in one of my theory of knowledge classes as we were talking about the

classes as we were talking about the

classes as we were talking about the Greek mythology of Sisyphus I found my

Greek mythology of Sisyphus I found my

Greek mythology of Sisyphus I found my answer we live to find a reason to live

answer we live to find a reason to live

answer we live to find a reason to live Sisyphus was the king of Effra whose

Sisyphus was the king of Effra whose

Sisyphus was the king of Effra whose punishment for deceit was to push a

punishment for deceit was to push a

punishment for deceit was to push a large rock up a mountain and when he got

large rock up a mountain and when he got

large rock up a mountain and when he got to the top the rocker rolled down and

to the top the rocker rolled down and

to the top the rocker rolled down and Sisyphus would have to repeat the

Sisyphus would have to repeat the

Sisyphus would have to repeat the process again and again for eternity

process again and again for eternity

process again and again for eternity sounds silly but life is like that life

sounds silly but life is like that life

sounds silly but life is like that life is basically pushing this boulder up a

is basically pushing this boulder up a

is basically pushing this boulder up a hill meaningless unless you find meaning

hill meaningless unless you find meaning

hill meaningless unless you find meaning to it and that meaning could be anything

to it and that meaning could be anything

to it and that meaning could be anything as someone who loves

as someone who loves

as someone who loves music I could tell you that sometimes

music I could tell you that sometimes

music I could tell you that sometimes when life gets hard one of the only

when life gets hard one of the only

when life gets hard one of the only reasons I don’t go jumping off a roof

reasons I don’t go jumping off a roof

reasons I don’t go jumping off a roof other than it hurts is for breakfast the

other than it hurts is for breakfast the

other than it hurts is for breakfast the next day and for my mom who makes it for

next day and for my mom who makes it for

next day and for my mom who makes it for the rest of my family and friends and

the rest of my family and friends and

the rest of my family and friends and music we pushed that Boulder for what we

music we pushed that Boulder for what we

music we pushed that Boulder for what we love and then I realized doing service

love and then I realized doing service

love and then I realized doing service is the same thing except that rather

is the same thing except that rather

is the same thing except that rather than being born without a choice

than being born without a choice

than being born without a choice starting service acquires an impetus of

starting service acquires an impetus of

starting service acquires an impetus of it of quite selfish one you see we don’t

it of quite selfish one you see we don’t

it of quite selfish one you see we don’t donate to charities to make a difference

donate to charities to make a difference

donate to charities to make a difference but because making a difference can give

but because making a difference can give

but because making a difference can give us a sense of pleasure or leave a tower

us a sense of pleasure or leave a tower

us a sense of pleasure or leave a tower guilt or satisfy our vanity similarly I

guilt or satisfy our vanity similarly I

guilt or satisfy our vanity similarly I guess I also start a service for

guess I also start a service for

guess I also start a service for self-centered reasons to try something

self-centered reasons to try something

self-centered reasons to try something new while gaining leadership skills well

new while gaining leadership skills well

new while gaining leadership skills well the only good for being awesome well

the only good for being awesome well

the only good for being awesome well doing something that would look good on

doing something that would look good on

doing something that would look good on my university application so that was

my university application so that was

my university application so that was how I began pushing the boulder up the

how I began pushing the boulder up the

how I began pushing the boulder up the bumpy Mountain Road and at first it was

bumpy Mountain Road and at first it was

bumpy Mountain Road and at first it was boring and hard getting to the top each

boring and hard getting to the top each

boring and hard getting to the top each time offered some gratification but

time offered some gratification but

time offered some gratification but these feelings were instantly replaced

these feelings were instantly replaced

these feelings were instantly replaced by the dread of having to go up the hill

by the dread of having to go up the hill

by the dread of having to go up the hill again and so I went on a search for

again and so I went on a search for

again and so I went on a search for meaning with the hope that somehow it

meaning with the hope that somehow it

meaning with the hope that somehow it will alleviate my pain first of all

will alleviate my pain first of all

will alleviate my pain first of all doing something I loved helped a lot in

doing something I loved helped a lot in

doing something I loved helped a lot in grade 8 I worked a hundred hours at the

grade 8 I worked a hundred hours at the

grade 8 I worked a hundred hours at the douchey Lake library and then I quit

douchey Lake library and then I quit

douchey Lake library and then I quit because sorting books for a hundred

because sorting books for a hundred

because sorting books for a hundred hours is surprisingly boring it wasn’t

hours is surprisingly boring it wasn’t

hours is surprisingly boring it wasn’t that obvious at the time in grade nine I

that obvious at the time in grade nine I

that obvious at the time in grade nine I fundraised for an animal protection

fundraised for an animal protection

fundraised for an animal protection association in pseudo then I quit

association in pseudo then I quit

association in pseudo then I quit because I never visited the organization

because I never visited the organization

because I never visited the organization or petted animals or got to know the

or petted animals or got to know the

or petted animals or got to know the taming person in grade 10 I joined a

taming person in grade 10 I joined a

taming person in grade 10 I joined a Habitat for Humanity trip to Guangzhou

Habitat for Humanity trip to Guangzhou

Habitat for Humanity trip to Guangzhou and helped build houses in the tour now

and helped build houses in the tour now

and helped build houses in the tour now neighborhoods it was a nice trip and I

neighborhoods it was a nice trip and I

neighborhoods it was a nice trip and I learned a lot about poverty in the area

learned a lot about poverty in the area

learned a lot about poverty in the area but I never went again

but I never went again

but I never went again the lesson if you don’t like what you do

the lesson if you don’t like what you do

the lesson if you don’t like what you do you will quit so make life easier by

you will quit so make life easier by

you will quit so make life easier by starting with something you enjoy for me

starting with something you enjoy for me

starting with something you enjoy for me that was music so up came the crescendo

that was music so up came the crescendo

that was music so up came the crescendo project for you that could be movies or

project for you that could be movies or

project for you that could be movies or photography or reading or video games

photography or reading or video games

photography or reading or video games when you decide on your passion

when you decide on your passion

when you decide on your passion congratulations but you don’t make a

congratulations but you don’t make a

congratulations but you don’t make a change by sharing a hobby you do so by

change by sharing a hobby you do so by

change by sharing a hobby you do so by spreading a value so find out why you

spreading a value so find out why you

spreading a value so find out why you like what you like if you find yourself

like what you like if you find yourself

like what you like if you find yourself stuck use this technique developed by

stuck use this technique developed by

stuck use this technique developed by entrepreneurs the key to Toyota ask

entrepreneurs the key to Toyota ask

entrepreneurs the key to Toyota ask yourself five wise I like music why

yourself five wise I like music why

yourself five wise I like music why because playing music makes you happy

because playing music makes you happy

because playing music makes you happy makes me happy why because I do have my

makes me happy why because I do have my

makes me happy why because I do have my friends why because I connects us why

friends why because I connects us why

friends why because I connects us why because it helps us understand each

because it helps us understand each

because it helps us understand each other why because we can express

other why because we can express

other why because we can express ourselves in a better way through music

ourselves in a better way through music

ourselves in a better way through music bingo and that set the base for the

bingo and that set the base for the

bingo and that set the base for the crescendo project this is our logo

crescendo project this is our logo

crescendo project this is our logo composed of a crescendo and a music note

composed of a crescendo and a music note

composed of a crescendo and a music note in Chinese it looks like the word yeah

in Chinese it looks like the word yeah

in Chinese it looks like the word yeah which means music the same word could

which means music the same word could

which means music the same word could also be pronounced lua meaning happiness

also be pronounced lua meaning happiness

also be pronounced lua meaning happiness symbolizing or value of offering

symbolizing or value of offering

symbolizing or value of offering happiness through music our slogan is it

happiness through music our slogan is it

happiness through music our slogan is it only gets louder with emphasis on

only gets louder with emphasis on

only gets louder with emphasis on getting louder and gaining confidence as

getting louder and gaining confidence as

getting louder and gaining confidence as you’ve probably seen through the video

you’ve probably seen through the video

you’ve probably seen through the video at the beginning those children did not

at the beginning those children did not

at the beginning those children did not become professional guitar players or

become professional guitar players or

become professional guitar players or singers after crescendo workshops but

singers after crescendo workshops but

singers after crescendo workshops but instead they fostered a sense of

instead they fostered a sense of

instead they fostered a sense of community and understanding and

community and understanding and

community and understanding and self-realization and that’s what our

self-realization and that’s what our

self-realization and that’s what our success is measured by with a reason to

success is measured by with a reason to

success is measured by with a reason to move forward pushing the rock became

move forward pushing the rock became

move forward pushing the rock became much less tedious and I was able to

much less tedious and I was able to

much less tedious and I was able to observe my surroundings find an audience

observe my surroundings find an audience

observe my surroundings find an audience with which to share my values and search

with which to share my values and search

with which to share my values and search for connections my dad is from ningbo

for connections my dad is from ningbo

for connections my dad is from ningbo my mom grew up in such fine went to

my mom grew up in such fine went to

my mom grew up in such fine went to university of shanghai i was born in

university of shanghai i was born in

university of shanghai i was born in hangzhou emigrated to vancouver canada

hangzhou emigrated to vancouver canada

hangzhou emigrated to vancouver canada and is currently attending school here

and is currently attending school here

and is currently attending school here in sudo I’m a foreigner here in all

in sudo I’m a foreigner here in all

in sudo I’m a foreigner here in all respects just like the migrant children

respects just like the migrant children

respects just like the migrant children and after thinking about it it’s really

and after thinking about it it’s really

and after thinking about it it’s really surprising how many similarities we

surprising how many similarities we

surprising how many similarities we share we both go to and actually both of

share we both go to and actually both of

share we both go to and actually both of our parents are busy just that their

our parents are busy just that their

our parents are busy just that their parents are working in factories on

parents are working in factories on

parents are working in factories on Saturday mornings and my parents are on

Saturday mornings and my parents are on

Saturday mornings and my parents are on the phone during dinner both of us go to

the phone during dinner both of us go to

the phone during dinner both of us go to private schools and have to pay a higher

private schools and have to pay a higher

private schools and have to pay a higher tuition fee and yup they actually pay

tuition fee and yup they actually pay

tuition fee and yup they actually pay more money than do public school

more money than do public school

more money than do public school students because they are unable to go

students because they are unable to go

students because they are unable to go to public schools well my parents want

to public schools well my parents want

to public schools well my parents want me to get a better education than public

me to get a better education than public

me to get a better education than public schools can offer and then during the

schools can offer and then during the

schools can offer and then during the crescendo workshops i began to catch in

crescendo workshops i began to catch in

crescendo workshops i began to catch in my students small snippets of people

my students small snippets of people

my students small snippets of people around me chiselling is playful and

around me chiselling is playful and

around me chiselling is playful and dramatic and outspoken although

dramatic and outspoken although

dramatic and outspoken although sometimes too annoying point like my

sometimes too annoying point like my

sometimes too annoying point like my friend a gar yoshimura reminds me of my

friend a gar yoshimura reminds me of my

friend a gar yoshimura reminds me of my mom caring and hardworking she always

mom caring and hardworking she always

mom caring and hardworking she always cleans her finger board before returning

cleans her finger board before returning

cleans her finger board before returning her guitar and is always the one

her guitar and is always the one

her guitar and is always the one practicing on the rest are joking around

practicing on the rest are joking around

practicing on the rest are joking around my imagination of a little brother is

my imagination of a little brother is

my imagination of a little brother is transformed into reality by full own

transformed into reality by full own

transformed into reality by full own home a curious and affection of boy who

home a curious and affection of boy who

home a curious and affection of boy who throws the occasional tantrum and every

throws the occasional tantrum and every

throws the occasional tantrum and every time I see whaley I see myself a secret

time I see whaley I see myself a secret

time I see whaley I see myself a secret fighter quiet but always open to

fighter quiet but always open to

fighter quiet but always open to challenges you know that you’ve made a

challenges you know that you’ve made a

challenges you know that you’ve made a true difference when your audience

true difference when your audience

true difference when your audience started taking off their masks sharing

started taking off their masks sharing

started taking off their masks sharing their true identities you know that

their true identities you know that

their true identities you know that you’ve undergone metamorphosis yourself

you’ve undergone metamorphosis yourself

you’ve undergone metamorphosis yourself when you begin to notice all these

when you begin to notice all these

when you begin to notice all these little things and build connections

little things and build connections

little things and build connections between them so get to know those you’re

between them so get to know those you’re

between them so get to know those you’re helping in person communicate share your

helping in person communicate share your

helping in person communicate share your stories and your thoughts ask questions

stories and your thoughts ask questions

stories and your thoughts ask questions understand and empathize most

understand and empathize most

understand and empathize most importantly

importantly

importantly find out instead of just assumed that

find out instead of just assumed that

find out instead of just assumed that impacts of everything you do a lesson I

impacts of everything you do a lesson I

impacts of everything you do a lesson I learned was that sometimes when my

learned was that sometimes when my

learned was that sometimes when my students refuse to sing it’s not because

students refuse to sing it’s not because

students refuse to sing it’s not because they need me to teach them the notes but

they need me to teach them the notes but

they need me to teach them the notes but because they need guidance on how to

because they need guidance on how to

because they need guidance on how to become more confident only by becoming

become more confident only by becoming

become more confident only by becoming more aware of your surroundings can you

more aware of your surroundings can you

more aware of your surroundings can you truly understand the social cause you’re

truly understand the social cause you’re

truly understand the social cause you’re supporting you’re still pushing that

supporting you’re still pushing that

supporting you’re still pushing that rock up the mountain but this is when

rock up the mountain but this is when

rock up the mountain but this is when you’ll start noticing how beautiful the

you’ll start noticing how beautiful the

you’ll start noticing how beautiful the flowers are around you how warm the Sun

flowers are around you how warm the Sun

flowers are around you how warm the Sun is or how lovely the birds and distant

is or how lovely the birds and distant

is or how lovely the birds and distant sound and how you feel in the midst of

sound and how you feel in the midst of

sound and how you feel in the midst of all these wonderful sensations moving

all these wonderful sensations moving

all these wonderful sensations moving forward will not be getting about

forward will not be getting about

forward will not be getting about getting to the top anymore because the

getting to the top anymore because the

getting to the top anymore because the Rock will roll down anyways but about

Rock will roll down anyways but about

Rock will roll down anyways but about the journey itself start to explore take

the journey itself start to explore take

the journey itself start to explore take a different path up the hill when the

a different path up the hill when the

a different path up the hill when the weather gets bad relish the rain a lot

weather gets bad relish the rain a lot

weather gets bad relish the rain a lot of the advice we get when we first begin

of the advice we get when we first begin

of the advice we get when we first begin service is take a look as society around

service is take a look as society around

service is take a look as society around you see the problems and help those in

you see the problems and help those in

you see the problems and help those in need start from the top of the funnel

need start from the top of the funnel

need start from the top of the funnel and narrow down your choices according

and narrow down your choices according

and narrow down your choices according to your values but I truly believe that

to your values but I truly believe that

to your values but I truly believe that we need to start with a personal cause

we need to start with a personal cause

we need to start with a personal cause to be able to make a true difference

to be able to make a true difference

to be able to make a true difference triple society and ourselves start from

triple society and ourselves start from

triple society and ourselves start from the bottom of the funnel and you’ll find

the bottom of the funnel and you’ll find

the bottom of the funnel and you’ll find that there are unlimited possibilities

that there are unlimited possibilities

that there are unlimited possibilities for you to explore of course it will be

for you to explore of course it will be

for you to explore of course it will be hard you probably have 10 different

hard you probably have 10 different

hard you probably have 10 different ideas and 20 different plans with no

ideas and 20 different plans with no

ideas and 20 different plans with no idea where to start my last tip and I’m

idea where to start my last tip and I’m

idea where to start my last tip and I’m not advertising for nike just do it find

not advertising for nike just do it find

not advertising for nike just do it find the one thing you’d like to explore

the one thing you’d like to explore

the one thing you’d like to explore because this is this could push that

because this is this could push that

because this is this could push that rock forever we can’t thank you

rock forever we can’t thank you

rock forever we can’t thank you you

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