so I was I was talking about seven rules for outliers we will start off with rule
for outliers we will start off with rule
for outliers we will start off with rule number one
number one
number one removing the box now I’m not talking
removing the box now I’m not talking
removing the box now I’m not talking about those gigantic Amazon boxes that
about those gigantic Amazon boxes that
about those gigantic Amazon boxes that you get and you open it and there’s one
you get and you open it and there’s one
you get and you open it and there’s one tiny pen that comes out no I’m talking
tiny pen that comes out no I’m talking
tiny pen that comes out no I’m talking about the boxes that we all consciously
about the boxes that we all consciously
about the boxes that we all consciously or unconsciously create in our minds for
or unconsciously create in our minds for
or unconsciously create in our minds for each new experience or event that will
each new experience or event that will
each new experience or event that will come in touch with let me explain what I
come in touch with let me explain what I
come in touch with let me explain what I mean you see a certain type of person
mean you see a certain type of person
mean you see a certain type of person wearing certain types of clothes you put
wearing certain types of clothes you put
wearing certain types of clothes you put them in a box you see a man who loves
them in a box you see a man who loves
them in a box you see a man who loves cooking or loves the color pink put them
cooking or loves the color pink put them
cooking or loves the color pink put them in a box we see somebody who enjoys a
in a box we see somebody who enjoys a
in a box we see somebody who enjoys a girl who enjoys watching you know WWE or
girl who enjoys watching you know WWE or
girl who enjoys watching you know WWE or Game of Thrones we put them in a box so
Game of Thrones we put them in a box so
Game of Thrones we put them in a box so what are we doing here we stereotyping
what are we doing here we stereotyping
what are we doing here we stereotyping all of these different types of people
all of these different types of people
all of these different types of people I’m a Marwari whether be the you know
I’m a Marwari whether be the you know
I’m a Marwari whether be the you know community from Rajasthan and a
community from Rajasthan and a
community from Rajasthan and a stereotype that’s associated with us is
stereotype that’s associated with us is
stereotype that’s associated with us is there’s a box for us right which says
there’s a box for us right which says
there’s a box for us right which says early marriage CA or be calm and family
early marriage CA or be calm and family
early marriage CA or be calm and family business right there’s a box for that
business right there’s a box for that
business right there’s a box for that now I happen to be my body too and I’m a
now I happen to be my body too and I’m a
now I happen to be my body too and I’m a first generation entrepreneur I’m an
first generation entrepreneur I’m an
first generation entrepreneur I’m an engineer and in fact I am probably going
engineer and in fact I am probably going
engineer and in fact I am probably going to enter the Limca Book of World Records
to enter the Limca Book of World Records
to enter the Limca Book of World Records for being the oldest unmarried my body
for being the oldest unmarried my body
for being the oldest unmarried my body broken I don’t and when thank you so
broken I don’t and when thank you so
broken I don’t and when thank you so when you have these boxes for people and
when you have these boxes for people and
when you have these boxes for people and something or somebody doesn’t fit into
something or somebody doesn’t fit into
something or somebody doesn’t fit into it it makes you uncomfortable you don’t
it it makes you uncomfortable you don’t
it it makes you uncomfortable you don’t know what to do with that with something
know what to do with that with something
know what to do with that with something new that’s coming at you because you
new that’s coming at you because you
new that’s coming at you because you can’t box it and that is where let me
can’t box it and that is where let me
can’t box it and that is where let me tell you try this as an experiment
tell you try this as an experiment
tell you try this as an experiment remove the box you will see that
remove the box you will see that
remove the box you will see that suddenly when you stop using this box
suddenly when you stop using this box
suddenly when you stop using this box system in your mind you have this vast
system in your mind you have this vast
system in your mind you have this vast expanse of free-flowing thoughts and
expanse of free-flowing thoughts and
expanse of free-flowing thoughts and ideas which are ever-expanding like the
ideas which are ever-expanding like the
ideas which are ever-expanding like the universe and suddenly anything new
universe and suddenly anything new
universe and suddenly anything new that’s coming your way
that’s coming your way
that’s coming your way it is surprise you how much your own
it is surprise you how much your own
it is surprise you how much your own ability to digest that information is
ability to digest that information is
ability to digest that information is and I’ll give you another quick you know
and I’ll give you another quick you know
and I’ll give you another quick you know thought here
thought here
thought here so there’s a beautiful line that I am
so there’s a beautiful line that I am
so there’s a beautiful line that I am read which the purpose of an argument or
read which the purpose of an argument or
read which the purpose of an argument or a debate should not be to prove one
a debate should not be to prove one
a debate should not be to prove one person right one person wrong it should
person right one person wrong it should
person right one person wrong it should not be to force your opinion on the
not be to force your opinion on the
not be to force your opinion on the other person the purpose should be to
other person the purpose should be to
other person the purpose should be to expand the collective consciousness and
expand the collective consciousness and
expand the collective consciousness and that’s truly what is possible when your
that’s truly what is possible when your
that’s truly what is possible when your mind itself is limitless so that’s rule
mind itself is limitless so that’s rule
mind itself is limitless so that’s rule number one
number one
number one you move the Box you will number two now
you move the Box you will number two now
you move the Box you will number two now there are certain types of enterprising
there are certain types of enterprising
there are certain types of enterprising people who not only create these boxes
people who not only create these boxes
people who not only create these boxes for themselves very generously they
for themselves very generously they
for themselves very generously they distribute to all and sundry so not only
distribute to all and sundry so not only
distribute to all and sundry so not only am i boxing my own thoughts and making
am i boxing my own thoughts and making
am i boxing my own thoughts and making sure the people box these things – now
sure the people box these things – now
sure the people box these things – now have you become example so that that’s
have you become example so that that’s
have you become example so that that’s my cap with caps there is this
my cap with caps there is this
my cap with caps there is this stereotype that cats are selfish
stereotype that cats are selfish
stereotype that cats are selfish especially dog level love propagating
especially dog level love propagating
especially dog level love propagating these things catch the selfish they
these things catch the selfish they
these things catch the selfish they won’t come to you if you call their name
won’t come to you if you call their name
won’t come to you if you call their name they would play with you now my cat that
they would play with you now my cat that
they would play with you now my cat that that’s actually my arm
that’s actually my arm
that’s actually my arm he sleeps next to me at night he comes
he sleeps next to me at night he comes
he sleeps next to me at night he comes when I call his name and in fact he
when I call his name and in fact he
when I call his name and in fact he plays with these little balls which make
plays with these little balls which make
plays with these little balls which make sound and he picks them up in his mouth
sound and he picks them up in his mouth
sound and he picks them up in his mouth and gets them wherever he feels like
and gets them wherever he feels like
and gets them wherever he feels like playing
playing
playing he’s a cab and he does that and that
he’s a cab and he does that and that
he’s a cab and he does that and that that’s an assumption that’s a stereotype
that’s an assumption that’s a stereotype
that’s an assumption that’s a stereotype that’s being broken when you think about
that’s being broken when you think about
that’s being broken when you think about rule number two which says if it starts
rule number two which says if it starts
rule number two which says if it starts in the mind it can aim there – right so
in the mind it can aim there – right so
in the mind it can aim there – right so you see this image it’s a photo of samos
you see this image it’s a photo of samos
you see this image it’s a photo of samos muhammed escapes and it on each eye for
muhammed escapes and it on each eye for
muhammed escapes and it on each eye for those of you who are not familiar iran
those of you who are not familiar iran
those of you who are not familiar iran each eye is a very famous Hyderabad EVP
each eye is a very famous Hyderabad EVP
each eye is a very famous Hyderabad EVP which you get in a lot of these
which you get in a lot of these
which you get in a lot of these hole-in-the-wall cafes around the city
hole-in-the-wall cafes around the city
hole-in-the-wall cafes around the city so let me ask you a question with a
so let me ask you a question with a
so let me ask you a question with a quick show of hands how many of you have
quick show of hands how many of you have
quick show of hands how many of you have been to one of these hole-in-the-wall
been to one of these hole-in-the-wall
been to one of these hole-in-the-wall joints in all city and I see like two
joints in all city and I see like two
joints in all city and I see like two female hands okay while that now when I
female hands okay while that now when I
female hands okay while that now when I first came to Hyderabad I’m a tea
first came to Hyderabad I’m a tea
first came to Hyderabad I’m a tea aficionado I’m from Kolkata we all love
aficionado I’m from Kolkata we all love
aficionado I’m from Kolkata we all love was China so when I came
was China so when I came
was China so when I came I was told that term women don’t go to
I was told that term women don’t go to
I was told that term women don’t go to these Iraq making copies and they don’t
these Iraq making copies and they don’t
these Iraq making copies and they don’t go and I was told is the same thing so I
go and I was told is the same thing so I
go and I was told is the same thing so I asked why is there a sign outside which
asked why is there a sign outside which
asked why is there a sign outside which says dogs and women not allowed why can
says dogs and women not allowed why can
says dogs and women not allowed why can women not go so as an experiment one day
women not go so as an experiment one day
women not go so as an experiment one day I decided to walk into an Iraqi Shia
I decided to walk into an Iraqi Shia
I decided to walk into an Iraqi Shia cafe and order myself a cup of tea I
cafe and order myself a cup of tea I
cafe and order myself a cup of tea I half-expected
half-expected
half-expected somebody tell me tell me madam sorry you
somebody tell me tell me madam sorry you
somebody tell me tell me madam sorry you were not allowed here you can please
were not allowed here you can please
were not allowed here you can please leave didn’t happen what did happen was
leave didn’t happen what did happen was
leave didn’t happen what did happen was I was accosted it like the plague so on
I was accosted it like the plague so on
I was accosted it like the plague so on the table i sat and became anything in
the table i sat and became anything in
the table i sat and became anything in the wartime that’s a different story but
the wartime that’s a different story but
the wartime that’s a different story but nobody asked me to get out and then each
nobody asked me to get out and then each
nobody asked me to get out and then each time that in fact I have done this over
time that in fact I have done this over
time that in fact I have done this over the years
the years
the years I enjoy my cup of tea my go to lot of
I enjoy my cup of tea my go to lot of
I enjoy my cup of tea my go to lot of Villani chai cafes what I end up sitting
Villani chai cafes what I end up sitting
Villani chai cafes what I end up sitting at this having a little cup of solid
at this having a little cup of solid
at this having a little cup of solid kita nobody ever tells me to get out and
kita nobody ever tells me to get out and
kita nobody ever tells me to get out and what I have done here is I’ve actually
what I have done here is I’ve actually
what I have done here is I’ve actually challenged the current status cornet I
challenged the current status cornet I
challenged the current status cornet I have broken a stereotype I’ve broken the
have broken a stereotype I’ve broken the
have broken a stereotype I’ve broken the box because when people have confused
box because when people have confused
box because when people have confused can’t with don’t and then they see that
can’t with don’t and then they see that
can’t with don’t and then they see that there is this woman sitting here and
there is this woman sitting here and
there is this woman sitting here and having chime when they see more of it it
having chime when they see more of it it
having chime when they see more of it it becomes normal for them and then you
becomes normal for them and then you
becomes normal for them and then you change the thinking that okay women are
change the thinking that okay women are
change the thinking that okay women are not allowed in this place you know what
not allowed in this place you know what
not allowed in this place you know what it’s okay they are we were wrong and
it’s okay they are we were wrong and
it’s okay they are we were wrong and that’s how you break that assumption
that’s how you break that assumption
that’s how you break that assumption another thing that that you know for
another thing that that you know for
another thing that that you know for example you could hear people would say
example you could hear people would say
example you could hear people would say if you’re very angry there’s only one
if you’re very angry there’s only one
if you’re very angry there’s only one way to calm down take a deep breath
way to calm down take a deep breath
way to calm down take a deep breath count to 10 now it may work for you it
count to 10 now it may work for you it
count to 10 now it may work for you it may not I decided that that’s not
may not I decided that that’s not
may not I decided that that’s not something that works for me so all I
something that works for me so all I
something that works for me so all I need to do is look at a photo of my cat
need to do is look at a photo of my cat
need to do is look at a photo of my cat and that’s enough you know and I’m
and that’s enough you know and I’m
and that’s enough you know and I’m happier you know I count down that works
happier you know I count down that works
happier you know I count down that works for me whatever works for you so that
for me whatever works for you so that
for me whatever works for you so that brings you to rule number three it’s
brings you to rule number three it’s
brings you to rule number three it’s very easy when you think about it the
very easy when you think about it the
very easy when you think about it the one person who knows you the best who
one person who knows you the best who
one person who knows you the best who knows all your deepest darkest secrets
knows all your deepest darkest secrets
knows all your deepest darkest secrets and you know all of the embarrassing
and you know all of the embarrassing
and you know all of the embarrassing thoughts you ever had all of the peggy
thoughts you ever had all of the peggy
thoughts you ever had all of the peggy thoughts you had that one person is you
thoughts you had that one person is you
thoughts you had that one person is you yourself and very often this person
yourself and very often this person
yourself and very often this person comes up with them with the worst time
comes up with them with the worst time
comes up with them with the worst time mind you know remind you of all of these
mind you know remind you of all of these
mind you know remind you of all of these things you’ve done or have spent I mean
things you’ve done or have spent I mean
things you’ve done or have spent I mean that so mean right coming here and
that so mean right coming here and
that so mean right coming here and talking on the stage that’ll be a little
talking on the stage that’ll be a little
talking on the stage that’ll be a little you know voice inside me saying he
you know voice inside me saying he
you know voice inside me saying he remember the last time you fell off the
remember the last time you fell off the
remember the last time you fell off the stage hey remember the last time that
stage hey remember the last time that
stage hey remember the last time that you were here and you cracked that lame
you were here and you cracked that lame
you were here and you cracked that lame joke nobody laughed at its almost
joke nobody laughed at its almost
joke nobody laughed at its almost masochistic right we do this to
masochistic right we do this to
masochistic right we do this to ourselves
ourselves
ourselves so I’m saying instead of being your
so I’m saying instead of being your
so I’m saying instead of being your worst enemy
worst enemy
worst enemy since you know yourself so well try
since you know yourself so well try
since you know yourself so well try being your own best friend the best
being your own best friend the best
being your own best friend the best friend who encourages you the best
friend who encourages you the best
friend who encourages you the best friend who empowers you who lifts you up
friend who empowers you who lifts you up
friend who empowers you who lifts you up when you’re down the best friend will
when you’re down the best friend will
when you’re down the best friend will support you so if I have to come here my
support you so if I have to come here my
support you so if I have to come here my my voice should tell me you know what
my voice should tell me you know what
my voice should tell me you know what today you will be you’ll be speaking so
today you will be you’ll be speaking so
today you will be you’ll be speaking so well your diction will be so great you
well your diction will be so great you
well your diction will be so great you will enunciate everything so clearly
will enunciate everything so clearly
will enunciate everything so clearly anybody in the audience will get what
anybody in the audience will get what
anybody in the audience will get what you’re saying or your job if your jokes
you’re saying or your job if your jokes
you’re saying or your job if your jokes are going to make people um follow the
are going to make people um follow the
are going to make people um follow the chairs laughing write something nice
chairs laughing write something nice
chairs laughing write something nice that’s coming up so try this as an
that’s coming up so try this as an
that’s coming up so try this as an experiment
experiment
experiment try being your own best friend right not
try being your own best friend right not
try being your own best friend right not the mean person who uses those nasty
the mean person who uses those nasty
the mean person who uses those nasty secrets at the wrong times but being the
secrets at the wrong times but being the
secrets at the wrong times but being the best friend that you can to yourself
best friend that you can to yourself
best friend that you can to yourself that brings me to my fourth point once
that brings me to my fourth point once
that brings me to my fourth point once bitten once shy why is this important
bitten once shy why is this important
bitten once shy why is this important now a lot of us here especially in the
now a lot of us here especially in the
now a lot of us here especially in the Indian context we feel that failure is
Indian context we feel that failure is
Indian context we feel that failure is an impediment nobody wants to have a
an impediment nobody wants to have a
an impediment nobody wants to have a backlog it’s like the end of the world
backlog it’s like the end of the world
backlog it’s like the end of the world nobody wants to get one mark less than
nobody wants to get one mark less than
nobody wants to get one mark less than an exam because mom is going to make
an exam because mom is going to make
an exam because mom is going to make Hell at home if you start up and it
Hell at home if you start up and it
Hell at home if you start up and it fails well you know suddenly everybody
fails well you know suddenly everybody
fails well you know suddenly everybody will be like I told you so
will be like I told you so
will be like I told you so yeah the Vinaya this had to happen so
yeah the Vinaya this had to happen so
yeah the Vinaya this had to happen so this act of not using that failure to
this act of not using that failure to
this act of not using that failure to your advantage it’s actually
your advantage it’s actually
your advantage it’s actually disadvantages for us because each time
disadvantages for us because each time
disadvantages for us because each time that you’re bitten if you feel that
that you’re bitten if you feel that
that you’re bitten if you feel that that’s enough to deter you from ever
that’s enough to deter you from ever
that’s enough to deter you from ever doing it again you’re using out you so
doing it again you’re using out you so
doing it again you’re using out you so much I’ll give you my example I started
much I’ll give you my example I started
much I’ll give you my example I started my company moshus six years ago
my company moshus six years ago
my company moshus six years ago bootstrapped no daddy’s money and we
bootstrapped no daddy’s money and we
bootstrapped no daddy’s money and we started working with
started working with
started working with maintain and virtual reality now as you
maintain and virtual reality now as you
maintain and virtual reality now as you can imagine first things we heard were
can imagine first things we heard were
can imagine first things we heard were you’re in the wrong country they’re in
you’re in the wrong country they’re in
you’re in the wrong country they’re in the wrong space in the wrong time it too
the wrong space in the wrong time it too
the wrong space in the wrong time it too early and all of these different things
early and all of these different things
early and all of these different things that happened now we could have taken
that happened now we could have taken
that happened now we could have taken each of these critiques and feedback and
each of these critiques and feedback and
each of these critiques and feedback and shut shop in three years and we would
shut shop in three years and we would
shut shop in three years and we would have become a statistic ninety-five
have become a statistic ninety-five
have become a statistic ninety-five percent of startups shut down in the
percent of startups shut down in the
percent of startups shut down in the first three years right that’s what we
first three years right that’s what we
first three years right that’s what we would have gotten to but because we
would have gotten to but because we
would have gotten to but because we learned from each experience each
learned from each experience each
learned from each experience each failure each time that we stumbled and
failure each time that we stumbled and
failure each time that we stumbled and fell is why today we have been able to
fell is why today we have been able to
fell is why today we have been able to create a virtual reality software with
create a virtual reality software with
create a virtual reality software with which anybody can create their own we
which anybody can create their own we
which anybody can create their own we are without any need for coding and
are without any need for coding and
are without any need for coding and that’s something that’s redefining
that’s something that’s redefining
that’s something that’s redefining access of VR to the normal person and we
access of VR to the normal person and we
access of VR to the normal person and we wouldn’t have been able to do this six
wouldn’t have been able to do this six
wouldn’t have been able to do this six years ago we’ve been able to do it
years ago we’ve been able to do it
years ago we’ve been able to do it because this is the summation of all the
because this is the summation of all the
because this is the summation of all the things that have happened till now which
things that have happened till now which
things that have happened till now which is why it’s so important that if you’re
is why it’s so important that if you’re
is why it’s so important that if you’re bitten once maybe be smarter the next
bitten once maybe be smarter the next
bitten once maybe be smarter the next time but make sure that you limit it to
time but make sure that you limit it to
time but make sure that you limit it to once bitten once shine right which
once bitten once shine right which
once bitten once shine right which brings me to the next point and I don’t
brings me to the next point and I don’t
brings me to the next point and I don’t know if any of you can read that it will
know if any of you can read that it will
know if any of you can read that it will take courage to to get up maybe and come
take courage to to get up maybe and come
take courage to to get up maybe and come here and read it I’m talking about
here and read it I’m talking about
here and read it I’m talking about having the courage to be shameless why
having the courage to be shameless why
having the courage to be shameless why now all of us have this button in our
now all of us have this button in our
now all of us have this button in our minds which is constantly active if
minds which is constantly active if
minds which is constantly active if we’re in a public situation right we’re
we’re in a public situation right we’re
we’re in a public situation right we’re thinking oh I’m dancing like everybody
thinking oh I’m dancing like everybody
thinking oh I’m dancing like everybody must be staring at me I must look so
must be staring at me I must look so
must be staring at me I must look so ridiculous there’s a pimple on my face
ridiculous there’s a pimple on my face
ridiculous there’s a pimple on my face today everybody’s just staring at that
today everybody’s just staring at that
today everybody’s just staring at that there’s a there’s a tear in my dress I
there’s a there’s a tear in my dress I
there’s a there’s a tear in my dress I you know I got out of a cab and I have
you know I got out of a cab and I have
you know I got out of a cab and I have done that everybody must be looking at
done that everybody must be looking at
done that everybody must be looking at that heel constantly self-conscious
that heel constantly self-conscious
that heel constantly self-conscious you’re constantly thinking of being
you’re constantly thinking of being
you’re constantly thinking of being embarrassed or being you know feeling
embarrassed or being you know feeling
embarrassed or being you know feeling guilty about something then button it
guilty about something then button it
guilty about something then button it just refuses to turn off and the problem
just refuses to turn off and the problem
just refuses to turn off and the problem with that is sometimes and I’m wondering
with that is sometimes and I’m wondering
with that is sometimes and I’m wondering you know maybe with the show of hands
you know maybe with the show of hands
you know maybe with the show of hands you can tell me how many of you have
you can tell me how many of you have
you can tell me how many of you have hesitated in asking for your old money
hesitated in asking for your old money
hesitated in asking for your old money back from a friend because you’re like
back from a friend because you’re like
back from a friend because you’re like well everybody like why it’s your money
well everybody like why it’s your money
well everybody like why it’s your money your friends take in
your friends take in
your friends take in instead this one completely returned it
instead this one completely returned it
instead this one completely returned it right why we have to think about asking
right why we have to think about asking
right why we have to think about asking because we’re thinking you know they’ll
because we’re thinking you know they’ll
because we’re thinking you know they’ll feel offended they’ll think I’m not
feel offended they’ll think I’m not
feel offended they’ll think I’m not being a friend enough there’s so many
being a friend enough there’s so many
being a friend enough there’s so many cuts that come right now
cuts that come right now
cuts that come right now there’s a simple thing that I would say
there’s a simple thing that I would say
there’s a simple thing that I would say here I would say ask anyway because the
here I would say ask anyway because the
here I would say ask anyway because the end of the day if you ask and if there’s
end of the day if you ask and if there’s
end of the day if you ask and if there’s an O that comes in you’re back to the
an O that comes in you’re back to the
an O that comes in you’re back to the same spot that you anyways were at right
same spot that you anyways were at right
same spot that you anyways were at right you’ve not lost anything there’s nothing
you’ve not lost anything there’s nothing
you’ve not lost anything there’s nothing that you’ve lost but if there’s a yes
that you’ve lost but if there’s a yes
that you’ve lost but if there’s a yes you could actually end up getting
you could actually end up getting
you could actually end up getting something which you wanted and it’s very
something which you wanted and it’s very
something which you wanted and it’s very important if you talk about negotiations
important if you talk about negotiations
important if you talk about negotiations and business for instance there’s a
and business for instance there’s a
and business for instance there’s a there’s a there’s a concept around
there’s a there’s a concept around
there’s a there’s a concept around leaving too much at the table and that
leaving too much at the table and that
leaving too much at the table and that happens when you just don’t ask there’s
happens when you just don’t ask there’s
happens when you just don’t ask there’s no harm in asking
no harm in asking
no harm in asking but from losing a little bit of your ego
but from losing a little bit of your ego
but from losing a little bit of your ego what else you have to lose right and so
what else you have to lose right and so
what else you have to lose right and so I would say ask anyway in fact I would
I would say ask anyway in fact I would
I would say ask anyway in fact I would say that if it’s serving your purpose
say that if it’s serving your purpose
say that if it’s serving your purpose there’s nothing wrong with asking for
there’s nothing wrong with asking for
there’s nothing wrong with asking for those of you who are sleeping now
those of you who are sleeping now
those of you who are sleeping now I’m telling you you should be looking
I’m telling you you should be looking
I’m telling you you should be looking here and I have no poems with making
here and I have no poems with making
here and I have no poems with making complete off myself if it serves my
complete off myself if it serves my
complete off myself if it serves my purpose and if that still doesn’t work
purpose and if that still doesn’t work
purpose and if that still doesn’t work I’m telling you I’m gonna start dancing
I’m telling you I’m gonna start dancing
I’m telling you I’m gonna start dancing right now like right here but everybody
right now like right here but everybody
right now like right here but everybody needs to look at it’s not cool if you
needs to look at it’s not cool if you
needs to look at it’s not cool if you don’t do that you see what I did that
don’t do that you see what I did that
don’t do that you see what I did that you need to make sure that if it serves
you need to make sure that if it serves
you need to make sure that if it serves your purpose
your purpose
your purpose go ahead put yourself out there that
go ahead put yourself out there that
go ahead put yourself out there that brings you my next point being powerful
brings you my next point being powerful
brings you my next point being powerful now some of the people not sure why the
now some of the people not sure why the
now some of the people not sure why the images are not showing but so there’s a
images are not showing but so there’s a
images are not showing but so there’s a photo of Marine Ramadi on the screen
photo of Marine Ramadi on the screen
photo of Marine Ramadi on the screen there and you know in Donald Trump and
there and you know in Donald Trump and
there and you know in Donald Trump and Jack Ma add value I’ll define being
Jack Ma add value I’ll define being
Jack Ma add value I’ll define being powerful first so the dictionary says
powerful first so the dictionary says
powerful first so the dictionary says being powerful means having great
being powerful means having great
being powerful means having great strength or great power or having
strength or great power or having
strength or great power or having control and influence over people and
control and influence over people and
control and influence over people and events or having an effect on people’s
events or having an effect on people’s
events or having an effect on people’s thoughts and feelings now with the show
thoughts and feelings now with the show
thoughts and feelings now with the show of hands please answer how many of you
of hands please answer how many of you
of hands please answer how many of you think that each of these three men on in
think that each of these three men on in
think that each of these three men on in on the screen right
on the screen right
on the screen right have these effects on at least one
have these effects on at least one
have these effects on at least one person the influence of their thoughts
person the influence of their thoughts
person the influence of their thoughts of feelings at least one person
of feelings at least one person
of feelings at least one person everybody agrees great so going forward
everybody agrees great so going forward
everybody agrees great so going forward do you think she’s powerful with the
do you think she’s powerful with the
do you think she’s powerful with the same definition show of hands
same definition show of hands
same definition show of hands great she isn’t already is one
great she isn’t already is one
great she isn’t already is one thing now by the second definition all
thing now by the second definition all
thing now by the second definition all of you are powerful too because you you
of you are powerful too because you you
of you are powerful too because you you totally completely have influence over a
totally completely have influence over a
totally completely have influence over a single person’s life your own you are
single person’s life your own you are
single person’s life your own you are not someone right you have so much power
not someone right you have so much power
not someone right you have so much power over your own life one life on this
over your own life one life on this
over your own life one life on this earth we have the power today to be who
earth we have the power today to be who
earth we have the power today to be who we are and to become who we really want
we are and to become who we really want
we are and to become who we really want to be they say that one of the true
to be they say that one of the true
to be they say that one of the true hell’s on earth is when you end up
hell’s on earth is when you end up
hell’s on earth is when you end up meeting the person you could have become
meeting the person you could have become
meeting the person you could have become so what’s stopping us from getting there
so what’s stopping us from getting there
so what’s stopping us from getting there we are powerful there is no point in
we are powerful there is no point in
we are powerful there is no point in waiting for someone else to come and say
waiting for someone else to come and say
waiting for someone else to come and say that to you who has your best interest
that to you who has your best interest
that to you who has your best interest at heart you can say you know boyfriend
at heart you can say you know boyfriend
at heart you can say you know boyfriend girlfriend mother husband father dog cat
girlfriend mother husband father dog cat
girlfriend mother husband father dog cat okay but they would still not have as
okay but they would still not have as
okay but they would still not have as much of your best interest at heart as
much of your best interest at heart as
much of your best interest at heart as you yourself would so they say if not
you yourself would so they say if not
you yourself would so they say if not you then who
you then who
you then who and so it’s up to us to be able to
and so it’s up to us to be able to
and so it’s up to us to be able to achieve our true potential looking
achieve our true potential looking
achieve our true potential looking inside by feeling powerful because we
inside by feeling powerful because we
inside by feeling powerful because we are powerful so any somebody the rules
are powerful so any somebody the rules
are powerful so any somebody the rules so far we will actually talk about this
so far we will actually talk about this
so far we will actually talk about this in a minute so so let me talk about the
in a minute so so let me talk about the
in a minute so so let me talk about the so many so far right the rules so far
so many so far right the rules so far
so many so far right the rules so far remove the box if it starts in the mind
remove the box if it starts in the mind
remove the box if it starts in the mind you can end it there right
you can end it there right
you can end it there right that’s rule number two and that’s very
that’s rule number two and that’s very
that’s rule number two and that’s very very important right
very important right
very important right you’re your own enemy be your best
you’re your own enemy be your best
you’re your own enemy be your best friend it’s important once written once
friend it’s important once written once
friend it’s important once written once shy have the courage to be shameless be
shy have the courage to be shameless be
shy have the courage to be shameless be powerful six so far right now last but
powerful six so far right now last but
powerful six so far right now last but not the least we come to the seventh
not the least we come to the seventh
not the least we come to the seventh rule which is stoking the fire stoking
rule which is stoking the fire stoking
rule which is stoking the fire stoking the fire in your belly now
the fire in your belly now
the fire in your belly now or that fire no I’m not even talking
or that fire no I’m not even talking
or that fire no I’m not even talking about the kind of fire that makes you
about the kind of fire that makes you
about the kind of fire that makes you run to the bathroom I am talking about
run to the bathroom I am talking about
run to the bathroom I am talking about Tron your life energy your life force
Tron your life energy your life force
Tron your life energy your life force picture it as this this spot of fire
picture it as this this spot of fire
picture it as this this spot of fire which is burning this magic fire you
which is burning this magic fire you
which is burning this magic fire you know those annoying but they candles
know those annoying but they candles
know those annoying but they candles that we have to huff and puff out and
that we have to huff and puff out and
that we have to huff and puff out and they just do not go off there’s this
they just do not go off there’s this
they just do not go off there’s this fire that we are born with it starts
fire that we are born with it starts
fire that we are born with it starts from the moment that we hit earth till
from the moment that we hit earth till
from the moment that we hit earth till the moment that we leave it it’s always
the moment that we leave it it’s always
the moment that we leave it it’s always burning even in your darkest times it’s
burning even in your darkest times it’s
burning even in your darkest times it’s still there might be down to embers but
still there might be down to embers but
still there might be down to embers but it’s still there
it’s still there
it’s still there it’s your core driving force it was it’s
it’s your core driving force it was it’s
it’s your core driving force it was it’s what gives rise to your passion your
what gives rise to your passion your
what gives rise to your passion your perseverance your ambitions it’s why
perseverance your ambitions it’s why
perseverance your ambitions it’s why you’re alive right and if you think
you’re alive right and if you think
you’re alive right and if you think about it in your darkest moments even
about it in your darkest moments even
about it in your darkest moments even when the fire is low you have it in your
when the fire is low you have it in your
when the fire is low you have it in your control to stoke that fire to be able to
control to stoke that fire to be able to
control to stoke that fire to be able to use your power and get it to a merrill
use your power and get it to a merrill
use your power and get it to a merrill adoring point so going back to the image
adoring point so going back to the image
adoring point so going back to the image you saw just before this of me in a
you saw just before this of me in a
you saw just before this of me in a hospital bed that was taken a couple of
hospital bed that was taken a couple of
hospital bed that was taken a couple of hours after I was hospitalized with
hours after I was hospitalized with
hours after I was hospitalized with multiple fractures in my spine
multiple fractures in my spine
multiple fractures in my spine this photo is less than two years old I
this photo is less than two years old I
this photo is less than two years old I had an accident road accident I was
had an accident road accident I was
had an accident road accident I was between you know the riverbed and a
between you know the riverbed and a
between you know the riverbed and a vehicle and I factored multiple
vehicle and I factored multiple
vehicle and I factored multiple vertebrae so now that’s something that I
vertebrae so now that’s something that I
vertebrae so now that’s something that I didn’t have power over it happened but
didn’t have power over it happened but
didn’t have power over it happened but my reaction and how I dealt with this
my reaction and how I dealt with this
my reaction and how I dealt with this situation was in my control so here this
situation was in my control so here this
situation was in my control so here this is the photo that I shared with friends
is the photo that I shared with friends
is the photo that I shared with friends because I didn’t want to make it worse
because I didn’t want to make it worse
because I didn’t want to make it worse than it was it was really bad and then
than it was it was really bad and then
than it was it was really bad and then the next two years have been so
the next two years have been so
the next two years have been so difficult for me because I have been
difficult for me because I have been
difficult for me because I have been battling with the bedrest issues that
battling with the bedrest issues that
battling with the bedrest issues that followed I was bedridden for almost four
followed I was bedridden for almost four
followed I was bedridden for almost four months you know and now if you look at
months you know and now if you look at
months you know and now if you look at my MRIs of the back it’s like it’s like
my MRIs of the back it’s like it’s like
my MRIs of the back it’s like it’s like an unknow world woman’s I mean there’s
an unknow world woman’s I mean there’s
an unknow world woman’s I mean there’s so much stuff there but I was able to
so much stuff there but I was able to
so much stuff there but I was able to realize at every point that I have the
realize at every point that I have the
realize at every point that I have the power to be able to react and do what I
power to be able to react and do what I
power to be able to react and do what I need to let me tell you a quick secret
need to let me tell you a quick secret
need to let me tell you a quick secret ten days ago and there’s something again
ten days ago and there’s something again
ten days ago and there’s something again I have not shared on a public platform
I have not shared on a public platform
I have not shared on a public platform so far so giving Ted its importance ten
so far so giving Ted its importance ten
so far so giving Ted its importance ten years ago
years ago
years ago I fell down a flight of wet stairs and I
I fell down a flight of wet stairs and I
I fell down a flight of wet stairs and I fractured my back again this time just
fractured my back again this time just
fractured my back again this time just one vertebra but I did and you know what
one vertebra but I did and you know what
one vertebra but I did and you know what was the first thing I asked the doctor
was the first thing I asked the doctor
was the first thing I asked the doctor when he told me this amazing news I
when he told me this amazing news I
when he told me this amazing news I asked but I have a TEDx talk in less
asked but I have a TEDx talk in less
asked but I have a TEDx talk in less than two weeks I want to go for it how
than two weeks I want to go for it how
than two weeks I want to go for it how will you make that happen and that’s by
will you make that happen and that’s by
will you make that happen and that’s by the way me being quite sheer bliss and
the way me being quite sheer bliss and
the way me being quite sheer bliss and asking him anyway
asking him anyway
asking him anyway you could have said he was going on with
you could have said he was going on with
you could have said he was going on with his three-week bedrest blonde when he
his three-week bedrest blonde when he
his three-week bedrest blonde when he said oh okay well we have a few days for
said oh okay well we have a few days for
said oh okay well we have a few days for it we’ll make it happen
it we’ll make it happen
it we’ll make it happen but that was again me stoking my fire I
but that was again me stoking my fire I
but that was again me stoking my fire I have just found out that this crap
have just found out that this crap
have just found out that this crap happened again and I’m like no I’m not
happened again and I’m like no I’m not
happened again and I’m like no I’m not going to let that take me down and I’m
going to let that take me down and I’m
going to let that take me down and I’m here today literally with her with a
here today literally with her with a
here today literally with her with a 10-day old crack in my spine because I
10-day old crack in my spine because I
10-day old crack in my spine because I followed all of these rules I have
followed all of these rules I have
followed all of these rules I have removed the box where you’re thinking
removed the box where you’re thinking
removed the box where you’re thinking about a fractured bed rest removed that
about a fractured bed rest removed that
about a fractured bed rest removed that box
box
box I ended assumptions in the mind where
I ended assumptions in the mind where
I ended assumptions in the mind where you like can I should I has it been done
you like can I should I has it been done
you like can I should I has it been done can it be done it’s like you know it’s
can it be done it’s like you know it’s
can it be done it’s like you know it’s like Serena Williams she was she was
like Serena Williams she was she was
like Serena Williams she was she was pregnant when she won this year at the
pregnant when she won this year at the
pregnant when she won this year at the Australian Open and what the federal who
Australian Open and what the federal who
Australian Open and what the federal who became the oldest man to win his you
became the oldest man to win his you
became the oldest man to win his you know Wimbledon grams LA Grand Slam these
know Wimbledon grams LA Grand Slam these
know Wimbledon grams LA Grand Slam these people weren’t thinking that just
people weren’t thinking that just
people weren’t thinking that just because it hasn’t been done it can’t be
because it hasn’t been done it can’t be
because it hasn’t been done it can’t be done so that assumption was ended there
done so that assumption was ended there
done so that assumption was ended there right I became my own best friend so
right I became my own best friend so
right I became my own best friend so when I decided that I want to come here
when I decided that I want to come here
when I decided that I want to come here I supported myself and put my energy
I supported myself and put my energy
I supported myself and put my energy behind that decision I was able to do
behind that decision I was able to do
behind that decision I was able to do that once written once shy I made sure
that once written once shy I made sure
that once written once shy I made sure that you know just because I have a bad
that you know just because I have a bad
that you know just because I have a bad staircase experience maybe next time
staircase experience maybe next time
staircase experience maybe next time I’ll be smarter I’ll make sure I’ll hold
I’ll be smarter I’ll make sure I’ll hold
I’ll be smarter I’ll make sure I’ll hold the railing or I’ll have some you know
the railing or I’ll have some you know
the railing or I’ll have some you know handsome guy here to help me out or you
handsome guy here to help me out or you
handsome guy here to help me out or you know I’ll make sure that my hands are
know I’ll make sure that my hands are
know I’ll make sure that my hands are free so I don’t fall again right make
free so I don’t fall again right make
free so I don’t fall again right make sure that happened I had the courage to
sure that happened I had the courage to
sure that happened I had the courage to be shameless you know like I said
be shameless you know like I said
be shameless you know like I said whatever that whatever is the worst that
whatever that whatever is the worst that
whatever that whatever is the worst that can happen I’ll deal with it I’m putting
can happen I’ll deal with it I’m putting
can happen I’ll deal with it I’m putting myself out there if I trip and fall
myself out there if I trip and fall
myself out there if I trip and fall right now because you know because I
right now because you know because I
right now because you know because I can’t stand well unless make some lame
can’t stand well unless make some lame
can’t stand well unless make some lame old lady joke and that’s it right
old lady joke and that’s it right
old lady joke and that’s it right and I am powerful I’m here because I
and I am powerful I’m here because I
and I am powerful I’m here because I feel powerful and you know last but not
feel powerful and you know last but not
feel powerful and you know last but not the least
the least
the least I’m stoking the fire within me I’m
I’m stoking the fire within me I’m
I’m stoking the fire within me I’m making sure that it burns bright and is
making sure that it burns bright and is
making sure that it burns bright and is going to keep burning till the last
going to keep burning till the last
going to keep burning till the last breath leaves my body
breath leaves my body
breath leaves my body so let’s you know change the world start
so let’s you know change the world start
so let’s you know change the world start with self thank you
with self thank you
with self thank you [Applause]
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