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How a Hospitality Mindset Can Set the Table for Learning | Kendall Massett | TEDxWilmingtonED


every day in every school every

every day in every school every administrator faces enormous challenges

administrator faces enormous challenges

administrator faces enormous challenges coming from every conceivable angle

coming from every conceivable angle

coming from every conceivable angle aging school buildings chronic

aging school buildings chronic

aging school buildings chronic absenteeism early dropout teacher

absenteeism early dropout teacher

absenteeism early dropout teacher burnout you know the list to be clear I

burnout you know the list to be clear I

burnout you know the list to be clear I do not have solutions to these problems

do not have solutions to these problems

do not have solutions to these problems if I did seriously Hey – give me 18

if I did seriously Hey – give me 18

if I did seriously Hey – give me 18 minutes

minutes

minutes not just eight but even as all of

not just eight but even as all of

not just eight but even as all of society’s woes show up at the

society’s woes show up at the

society’s woes show up at the schoolhouse doors every morning we know

schoolhouse doors every morning we know

schoolhouse doors every morning we know that there are some schools that aren’t

that there are some schools that aren’t

that there are some schools that aren’t just succeeding but are thriving and I

just succeeding but are thriving and I

just succeeding but are thriving and I believe all of those schools have

believe all of those schools have

believe all of those schools have something in common before I tell you

something in common before I tell you

something in common before I tell you some stories about schools and the

some stories about schools and the

some stories about schools and the opportunity that I see for education

opportunity that I see for education

opportunity that I see for education let me explain where my perspective

let me explain where my perspective

let me explain where my perspective comes from today I’m the executive

comes from today I’m the executive

comes from today I’m the executive director of the Delaware Charter Schools

director of the Delaware Charter Schools

director of the Delaware Charter Schools Network I have the benefit of advocating

Network I have the benefit of advocating

Network I have the benefit of advocating for those fabulous girls you got to see

for those fabulous girls you got to see

for those fabulous girls you got to see up here earlier but I did not start my

up here earlier but I did not start my

up here earlier but I did not start my career inside a school building I

career inside a school building I

career inside a school building I started working inside restaurants

started working inside restaurants

started working inside restaurants inside hotels and occasionally inside

inside hotels and occasionally inside

inside hotels and occasionally inside bunny suits inside bunny suits

for those of you that have never seen

for those of you that have never seen the inside of a bunny suit it’s exactly

the inside of a bunny suit it’s exactly

the inside of a bunny suit it’s exactly what you think hot sweaty it’s totally

what you think hot sweaty it’s totally

what you think hot sweaty it’s totally fun when you work in hospitality and

fun when you work in hospitality and

fun when you work in hospitality and you’re doing it well you do whatever it

you’re doing it well you do whatever it

you’re doing it well you do whatever it takes to go above and beyond the guests

takes to go above and beyond the guests

takes to go above and beyond the guests expectations whether that’s cleaning up

expectations whether that’s cleaning up

expectations whether that’s cleaning up a mess or living a kid sitting on your

a mess or living a kid sitting on your

a mess or living a kid sitting on your lap and pull on your ears when I began

lap and pull on your ears when I began

lap and pull on your ears when I began my career as an education advocate my 20

my career as an education advocate my 20

my career as an education advocate my 20 years in the hospitality industry

years in the hospitality industry

years in the hospitality industry allowed me to see this schools that

allowed me to see this schools that

allowed me to see this schools that follow a classic hospitality mindset are

follow a classic hospitality mindset are

follow a classic hospitality mindset are thriving

thriving

thriving this is true in all kinds of schools

this is true in all kinds of schools

this is true in all kinds of schools I’ve seen in charter schools in district

I’ve seen in charter schools in district

I’ve seen in charter schools in district schools and in private schools across

schools and in private schools across

schools and in private schools across Delaware and around the United States in

Delaware and around the United States in

Delaware and around the United States in many cases I’m not even sure that the

many cases I’m not even sure that the

many cases I’m not even sure that the leaders of these schools would use the

leaders of these schools would use the

leaders of these schools would use the language of hospitality to describe what

language of hospitality to describe what

language of hospitality to describe what they’re doing to these people good

they’re doing to these people good

they’re doing to these people good hospitality just comes naturally you all

hospitality just comes naturally you all

hospitality just comes naturally you all know people like this that friend or

know people like this that friend or

know people like this that friend or family member who sets you at ease when

family member who sets you at ease when

family member who sets you at ease when you come to visit get you a drink makes

you come to visit get you a drink makes

you come to visit get you a drink makes you feel comfortable and cared for

you feel comfortable and cared for

you feel comfortable and cared for that’s a hospitality mindset from the

that’s a hospitality mindset from the

that’s a hospitality mindset from the beginning of my career I instinctively

beginning of my career I instinctively

beginning of my career I instinctively understood that mindset but it wasn’t

understood that mindset but it wasn’t

understood that mindset but it wasn’t until I worked for my very first

until I worked for my very first

until I worked for my very first Marriott food and beverage doctor

Marriott food and beverage doctor

Marriott food and beverage doctor Curtsinger that I had words for it he

Curtsinger that I had words for it he

Curtsinger that I had words for it he taught me his mantra and it has stayed

taught me his mantra and it has stayed

taught me his mantra and it has stayed with me since take care of the guests

with me since take care of the guests

with me since take care of the guests took care of the equipment take care of

took care of the equipment take care of

took care of the equipment take care of each other taking care of the guests

each other taking care of the guests

each other taking care of the guests anticipate their needs make them feel

anticipate their needs make them feel

anticipate their needs make them feel comfortable make them feel cared for

comfortable make them feel cared for

comfortable make them feel cared for whatever it takes

whatever it takes

whatever it takes taking care of the equipment how your

taking care of the equipment how your

taking care of the equipment how your space looks and feels is vitally

space looks and feels is vitally

space looks and feels is vitally important and taking care of each other

important and taking care of each other

important and taking care of each other the staff are the most important aspect

the staff are the most important aspect

the staff are the most important aspect of any operation

of any operation

of any operation if they aren’t happy aren’t trained

if they aren’t happy aren’t trained

if they aren’t happy aren’t trained aren’t prepared that they aren’t going

aren’t prepared that they aren’t going

aren’t prepared that they aren’t going to want to or be able to take care of

to want to or be able to take care of

to want to or be able to take care of the guests

the guests

the guests some what does this have to do with

some what does this have to do with

some what does this have to do with education let me tell you three stories

education let me tell you three stories

education let me tell you three stories where I’ve seen hospitality in action in

where I’ve seen hospitality in action in

where I’ve seen hospitality in action in our schools few years ago I had the

our schools few years ago I had the

our schools few years ago I had the opportunity to attend an end-of-the-year

opportunity to attend an end-of-the-year

opportunity to attend an end-of-the-year celebration

celebration

celebration the school was celebrating the

the school was celebrating the

the school was celebrating the incredible growth that their students

incredible growth that their students

incredible growth that their students had achieved that year one student fifth

had achieved that year one student fifth

had achieved that year one student fifth grade boy had gone from the absolute

grade boy had gone from the absolute

grade boy had gone from the absolute bottom of his class to the top in just

bottom of his class to the top in just

bottom of his class to the top in just one year happy to be sitting next to one

one year happy to be sitting next to one

one year happy to be sitting next to one of his teachers and turned to her and

of his teachers and turned to her and

of his teachers and turned to her and asked how her answer we went to his

asked how her answer we went to his

asked how her answer we went to his ballgames those teachers and that

ballgames those teachers and that

ballgames those teachers and that principal realized that what this boy

principal realized that what this boy

principal realized that what this boy needed most was an instruction it was

needed most was an instruction it was

needed most was an instruction it was encouragement and that’s what they gave

encouragement and that’s what they gave

encouragement and that’s what they gave him in the stands on the weekend on the

him in the stands on the weekend on the

him in the stands on the weekend on the classroom cheering him on his

classroom cheering him on his

classroom cheering him on his self-confidence improved and his grades

self-confidence improved and his grades

self-confidence improved and his grades followed that’s taking care of the guest

followed that’s taking care of the guest

followed that’s taking care of the guest doing whatever you need to do to get it

doing whatever you need to do to get it

doing whatever you need to do to get it done in another school a new principal

done in another school a new principal

done in another school a new principal opened to cause the door one day and

opened to cause the door one day and

opened to cause the door one day and found her knight in shining armor her

found her knight in shining armor her

found her knight in shining armor her literal knight in shining armor the

literal knight in shining armor the

literal knight in shining armor the school’s mascot standing guard behind

school’s mascot standing guard behind

school’s mascot standing guard behind closed doors when she asked why was

closed doors when she asked why was

closed doors when she asked why was there she was told if we put it out the

there she was told if we put it out the

there she was told if we put it out the kids might destroy it she refused to

kids might destroy it she refused to

kids might destroy it she refused to believe that and put him right in the

believe that and put him right in the

believe that and put him right in the main hallway at the front door

main hallway at the front door

main hallway at the front door she even dressed him for the seasons a

she even dressed him for the seasons a

she even dressed him for the seasons a pumpkin a Halloween a scarf in the

pumpkin a Halloween a scarf in the

pumpkin a Halloween a scarf in the winter the night became a focal point

winter the night became a focal point

winter the night became a focal point for the kids who greeted him every

for the kids who greeted him every

for the kids who greeted him every morning a rallying point for that school

morning a rallying point for that school

morning a rallying point for that school that’s taking care of the equipment and

that’s taking care of the equipment and

that’s taking care of the equipment and pride it’s contagious and well it’s

pride it’s contagious and well it’s

pride it’s contagious and well it’s common practice in elementary schools

common practice in elementary schools

common practice in elementary schools for students to stay with the same

for students to stay with the same

for students to stay with the same teacher for all course subjects until

teacher for all course subjects until

teacher for all course subjects until about the fourth grade in one school too

about the fourth grade in one school too

about the fourth grade in one school too third-grade teachers went to their

third-grade teachers went to their

third-grade teachers went to their principal and asked if they could change

principal and asked if they could change

principal and asked if they could change the way they taught their classes they

the way they taught their classes they

the way they taught their classes they told him that they believed they could

told him that they believed they could

told him that they believed they could create better student outcomes if they

create better student outcomes if they

create better student outcomes if they were able to concentrate on the subjects

were able to concentrate on the subjects

were able to concentrate on the subjects that they were strongest in you see one

that they were strongest in you see one

that they were strongest in you see one amazing with English and social studies

amazing with English and social studies

amazing with English and social studies while the other whiz in math and science

while the other whiz in math and science

while the other whiz in math and science the principal listened and it worked he

the principal listened and it worked he

the principal listened and it worked he gave them the space to go against

gave them the space to go against

gave them the space to go against tradition this the teachers were able to

tradition this the teachers were able to

tradition this the teachers were able to use their strengths wisely and the

use their strengths wisely and the

use their strengths wisely and the students excelled that’s taking care of

students excelled that’s taking care of

students excelled that’s taking care of each other

each other

each other making sure that your staff is happy

making sure that your staff is happy

making sure that your staff is happy valued and listened to that’s what

valued and listened to that’s what

valued and listened to that’s what everyone wants from their chosen career

so how do you create a hospitality

so how do you create a hospitality mindset you can’t just tell people be

mindset you can’t just tell people be

mindset you can’t just tell people be friendly be helpful and move on I know I

friendly be helpful and move on I know I

friendly be helpful and move on I know I tried it did not work but if you start

tried it did not work but if you start

tried it did not work but if you start with actions intentional actions

with actions intentional actions

with actions intentional actions designed to get people thinking how can

designed to get people thinking how can

designed to get people thinking how can I do better and how can I do more that

I do better and how can I do more that

I do better and how can I do more that can lead to a shift in mindset like in

can lead to a shift in mindset like in

can lead to a shift in mindset like in the three stories I just told you those

the three stories I just told you those

the three stories I just told you those administrators were intentional about

administrators were intentional about

administrators were intentional about taking care of their students their

taking care of their students their

taking care of their students their building and their teachers your actions

building and their teachers your actions

building and their teachers your actions can lead to attitude and your consistent

can lead to attitude and your consistent

can lead to attitude and your consistent attitude infuses into your culture and

attitude infuses into your culture and

attitude infuses into your culture and becomes your hospitality mindset where

becomes your hospitality mindset where

becomes your hospitality mindset where you start will be different from school

you start will be different from school

you start will be different from school to school

to school

to school elementary school students have

elementary school students have

elementary school students have different needs than high school

different needs than high school

different needs than high school students a large school in a large

students a large school in a large

students a large school in a large school district is going to have

school district is going to have

school district is going to have different challenges and resources than

different challenges and resources than

different challenges and resources than a small charter school just starting up

a small charter school just starting up

a small charter school just starting up all hotels are different – Ritz Carlton

all hotels are different – Ritz Carlton

all hotels are different – Ritz Carlton has more chandeliers in the days in

which you can provide good Hospit

which you can provide good Hospit tality regardless of the amount of money

tality regardless of the amount of money

tality regardless of the amount of money that you have it’s not about what you

that you have it’s not about what you

that you have it’s not about what you have it’s about what you do with what

have it’s about what you do with what

have it’s about what you do with what you have wherever I went no matter the

you have wherever I went no matter the

you have wherever I went no matter the place if things were going wrong I would

place if things were going wrong I would

place if things were going wrong I would always ask are we taking care of the

always ask are we taking care of the

always ask are we taking care of the guests are we taking care of the

guests are we taking care of the

guests are we taking care of the equipment are we taking care of each

equipment are we taking care of each

equipment are we taking care of each other if things aren’t working I can

other if things aren’t working I can

other if things aren’t working I can guarantee you that the answer to the at

guarantee you that the answer to the at

guarantee you that the answer to the at least one of those is no and wherever

least one of those is no and wherever

least one of those is no and wherever that is that is where you start I know I

that is that is where you start I know I

that is that is where you start I know I told you that I don’t have the answers

told you that I don’t have the answers

told you that I don’t have the answers to all of the challenges in education

to all of the challenges in education

to all of the challenges in education today but could a hospitality mindset be

today but could a hospitality mindset be

today but could a hospitality mindset be part of the solution an environment

part of the solution an environment

part of the solution an environment where good hospitality is the norm

where good hospitality is the norm

where good hospitality is the norm creates an environment where problems

creates an environment where problems

creates an environment where problems can be solved if we are constantly and

can be solved if we are constantly and

can be solved if we are constantly and intentionally looking for ways to make

intentionally looking for ways to make

intentionally looking for ways to make our families and our students feel

our families and our students feel

our families and our students feel welcomed and cared for could that affect

welcomed and cared for could that affect

welcomed and cared for could that affect absenteeism and I dropped out right

absenteeism and I dropped out right

absenteeism and I dropped out right maybe if we believed in our schools so

maybe if we believed in our schools so

maybe if we believed in our schools so much that our pride is obvious in every

much that our pride is obvious in every

much that our pride is obvious in every hallway in every classroom could that

hallway in every classroom could that

hallway in every classroom could that create a school where kids are thriving

create a school where kids are thriving

create a school where kids are thriving learning and yearning to come to school

learning and yearning to come to school

learning and yearning to come to school every day maybe and if we are pushing

every day maybe and if we are pushing

every day maybe and if we are pushing alongside of our colleagues to improve

alongside of our colleagues to improve

alongside of our colleagues to improve listening to them pushing them to reach

listening to them pushing them to reach

listening to them pushing them to reach their full potential could that affect

their full potential could that affect

their full potential could that affect teacher retention maybe small changes

teacher retention maybe small changes

teacher retention maybe small changes based in hospitality can make a big

based in hospitality can make a big

based in hospitality can make a big difference in our students lives all you

difference in our students lives all you

difference in our students lives all you have to do stick the knight in shining

have to do stick the knight in shining

have to do stick the knight in shining armor out of the closet thank you

armor out of the closet thank you

armor out of the closet thank you you

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