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How a 48-Hour Digital Fast Can Change Your Life | Jeff Stern | TEDxPiscataquaRiver


I have always been a late adopter but

I have always been a late adopter but this is why I finally decided to get an

this is why I finally decided to get an

this is why I finally decided to get an iPhone so I could take pictures like

iPhone so I could take pictures like

iPhone so I could take pictures like these and yes leo has a flask in that

these and yes leo has a flask in that

these and yes leo has a flask in that picture I’ve always been somewhat

picture I’ve always been somewhat

picture I’ve always been somewhat skeptical about the latest technology

skeptical about the latest technology

skeptical about the latest technology and you can see I have passed my

and you can see I have passed my

and you can see I have passed my sceptical nature on to my children when

sceptical nature on to my children when

sceptical nature on to my children when I first got my new phone I was very

I first got my new phone I was very

I first got my new phone I was very disciplined about using it I would take

disciplined about using it I would take

disciplined about using it I would take it out take somewhere in the

it out take somewhere in the

it out take somewhere in the neighborhood of 5,000 pictures every day

neighborhood of 5,000 pictures every day

neighborhood of 5,000 pictures every day of my newborn son and then I would put

of my newborn son and then I would put

of my newborn son and then I would put it away and that’s all I used it for and

it away and that’s all I used it for and

it away and that’s all I used it for and I was lucky I had paternity leave which

I was lucky I had paternity leave which

I was lucky I had paternity leave which meant that I got to spend long days with

meant that I got to spend long days with

meant that I got to spend long days with Leo going on walks

Leo going on walks

Leo going on walks reading books going to the park it was

reading books going to the park it was

reading books going to the park it was great I really loved spending all that

great I really loved spending all that

great I really loved spending all that time with him but the thing about babies

time with him but the thing about babies

time with him but the thing about babies is they’re not great conversationalist

is they’re not great conversationalist

is they’re not great conversationalist so Leo and I would be at the park and he

so Leo and I would be at the park and he

so Leo and I would be at the park and he would be happily playing with a rock and

would be happily playing with a rock and

would be happily playing with a rock and I would sometimes wish I had someone to

I would sometimes wish I had someone to

I would sometimes wish I had someone to talk to who had who knew more than two

talk to who had who knew more than two

talk to who had who knew more than two words and that’s when I first began to

words and that’s when I first began to

words and that’s when I first began to fully appreciate the power of my new

fully appreciate the power of my new

fully appreciate the power of my new phone and I was immediately sucked in

phone and I was immediately sucked in

phone and I was immediately sucked in you you’ve all been there

you you’ve all been there

you you’ve all been there it provided companionship news

it provided companionship news

it provided companionship news entertainment anything I could want and

entertainment anything I could want and

entertainment anything I could want and what was wrong with that Leo and I were

what was wrong with that Leo and I were

what was wrong with that Leo and I were both happy he had his smooth shiny rock

both happy he had his smooth shiny rock

both happy he had his smooth shiny rock and I had my smooth shiny phone but one

and I had my smooth shiny phone but one

and I had my smooth shiny phone but one day I looked up from my phone and Leo

day I looked up from my phone and Leo

day I looked up from my phone and Leo was gone I had gone down the rabbit hole

was gone I had gone down the rabbit hole

was gone I had gone down the rabbit hole I didn’t know how long I didn’t know how

I didn’t know how long I didn’t know how

I didn’t know how long I didn’t know how much time has passed

much time has passed

much time has passed fortunately Leo had just crawled to

fortunately Leo had just crawled to

fortunately Leo had just crawled to another part of the playground where I

another part of the playground where I

another part of the playground where I couldn’t see him but this was alarming

couldn’t see him but this was alarming

couldn’t see him but this was alarming to say the least I had been experiencing

to say the least I had been experiencing

to say the least I had been experiencing what media scholar Douglas rushkoff

what media scholar Douglas rushkoff

what media scholar Douglas rushkoff calls digi free Nia which means being in

calls digi free Nia which means being in

calls digi free Nia which means being in two places at the same time but actually

two places at the same time but actually

two places at the same time but actually being neither place how often was I

being neither place how often was I

being neither place how often was I doing this what kind of a driver had I

doing this what kind of a driver had I

doing this what kind of a driver had I become what kind of a dinner companion

become what kind of a dinner companion

become what kind of a dinner companion what kind of an employee I realized that

what kind of an employee I realized that

what kind of an employee I realized that I had taken my relationship with my

I had taken my relationship with my

I had taken my relationship with my phone to the next level I brought it to

phone to the next level I brought it to

phone to the next level I brought it to bed with me every night it was the first

bed with me every night it was the first

bed with me every night it was the first thing I checked in with in the morning

thing I checked in with in the morning

thing I checked in with in the morning this

this

this thing that was supposed to just fill in

thing that was supposed to just fill in

thing that was supposed to just fill in the empty spaces between important

the empty spaces between important

the empty spaces between important events had instead become all I did I

events had instead become all I did I

events had instead become all I did I was ready to admit that I had a problem

was ready to admit that I had a problem

was ready to admit that I had a problem and I wanted to do something about it so

and I wanted to do something about it so

and I wanted to do something about it so my first thought was to go cold turkey I

my first thought was to go cold turkey I

my first thought was to go cold turkey I would build a big bonfire and just burn

would build a big bonfire and just burn

would build a big bonfire and just burn all my devices and a big ceremonial fire

all my devices and a big ceremonial fire

all my devices and a big ceremonial fire I would go back to using landlines and

I would go back to using landlines and

I would go back to using landlines and payphones I would dust off my my crank

payphones I would dust off my my crank

payphones I would dust off my my crank record player and go off the grid but

record player and go off the grid but

record player and go off the grid but I’m not a Luddite technology is part of

I’m not a Luddite technology is part of

I’m not a Luddite technology is part of my job and what I really wanted was just

my job and what I really wanted was just

my job and what I really wanted was just to experience life without this digital

to experience life without this digital

to experience life without this digital stuff to be reminded what that was like

stuff to be reminded what that was like

stuff to be reminded what that was like and so I settled on this idea of a fast

and so I settled on this idea of a fast

and so I settled on this idea of a fast concentrated break from all my devices

concentrated break from all my devices

concentrated break from all my devices and because I’m a teacher I decided I

and because I’m a teacher I decided I

and because I’m a teacher I decided I wanted to explore this through a class

wanted to explore this through a class

wanted to explore this through a class so I designed this class and I was

so I designed this class and I was

so I designed this class and I was curious what millenials thought about

curious what millenials thought about

curious what millenials thought about this did they struggle with addiction

this did they struggle with addiction

this did they struggle with addiction the way I did did they did it have

the way I did did they did it have

the way I did did they did it have negative effects on their relationships

negative effects on their relationships

negative effects on their relationships so first day of class I gave him the

so first day of class I gave him the

so first day of class I gave him the syllabus and I introduced them to this

syllabus and I introduced them to this

syllabus and I introduced them to this central project of our class which was

central project of our class which was

central project of our class which was gonna be this thing the digital fast and

gonna be this thing the digital fast and

gonna be this thing the digital fast and I laid out the ground rules for them

I laid out the ground rules for them

I laid out the ground rules for them starting on Friday evening going until

starting on Friday evening going until

starting on Friday evening going until Sunday evening they would disconnect all

Sunday evening they would disconnect all

Sunday evening they would disconnect all devices and screens all this stuff and

devices and screens all this stuff and

devices and screens all this stuff and there was this panic there they they

there was this panic there they they

there was this panic there they they they they freaked out I mean it was you

they they freaked out I mean it was you

they they freaked out I mean it was you could feel it in the air and I really

could feel it in the air and I really

could feel it in the air and I really felt and I never felt this before as a

felt and I never felt this before as a

felt and I never felt this before as a teacher like they were moments away from

teacher like they were moments away from

teacher like they were moments away from just packing up their bags and walking

just packing up their bags and walking

just packing up their bags and walking out the door and dropping the class

out the door and dropping the class

out the door and dropping the class because they were gonna refuse to do

because they were gonna refuse to do

because they were gonna refuse to do this and they explained their panic to

this and they explained their panic to

this and they explained their panic to me how are we supposed to stay in touch

me how are we supposed to stay in touch

me how are we supposed to stay in touch with our parents how’re we supposed to

with our parents how’re we supposed to

with our parents how’re we supposed to make plans with our friends how are we

make plans with our friends how are we

make plans with our friends how are we gonna know what’s going on in the world

gonna know what’s going on in the world

gonna know what’s going on in the world what about Netflix music boredom this is

what about Netflix music boredom this is

what about Netflix music boredom this is gonna be impossible professor Stern why

gonna be impossible professor Stern why

gonna be impossible professor Stern why are you making us do this why do you

are you making us do this why do you

are you making us do this why do you hate us and I really think there was for

hate us and I really think there was for

hate us and I really think there was for some of them this sense that I was

some of them this sense that I was

some of them this sense that I was punishing them because I wanted them to

punishing them because I wanted them to

punishing them because I wanted them to experience the kind of boring childhood

experience the kind of boring childhood

experience the kind of boring childhood that I had without snapchat and

that I had without snapchat and

that I had without snapchat and and YouTube and I explained to them that

and YouTube and I explained to them that

and YouTube and I explained to them that even though they’re digital natives and

even though they’re digital natives and

even though they’re digital natives and I’m not that I was addicted just like

I’m not that I was addicted just like

I’m not that I was addicted just like them and they really didn’t like that

them and they really didn’t like that

them and they really didn’t like that word addicted that really struck a nerve

word addicted that really struck a nerve

word addicted that really struck a nerve with them how can you be addicted to

with them how can you be addicted to

with them how can you be addicted to something that is so essential to your

something that is so essential to your

something that is so essential to your life can you be addicted to air but to

life can you be addicted to air but to

life can you be addicted to air but to their credit they went on the digital

their credit they went on the digital

their credit they went on the digital fast

fast

fast the Boston Globe wrote an article about

the Boston Globe wrote an article about

the Boston Globe wrote an article about us well I should say that some of them

us well I should say that some of them

us well I should say that some of them went on the digital fast about 2/3 of my

went on the digital fast about 2/3 of my

went on the digital fast about 2/3 of my students successfully went screen and

students successfully went screen and

students successfully went screen and device free for the whole 48 hour period

device free for the whole 48 hour period

device free for the whole 48 hour period along with me another handful failed

along with me another handful failed

along with me another handful failed within the first hour they just failed

within the first hour they just failed

within the first hour they just failed miserably didn’t even try

miserably didn’t even try

miserably didn’t even try and then another small group were able

and then another small group were able

and then another small group were able to give up certain aspects of their

to give up certain aspects of their

to give up certain aspects of their devices but but not others and

devices but but not others and

devices but but not others and ultimately I decided that it was all a

ultimately I decided that it was all a

ultimately I decided that it was all a really good experience for us because

really good experience for us because

really good experience for us because even failing even preparing to go on a

even failing even preparing to go on a

even failing even preparing to go on a digital fast really helps you learn what

digital fast really helps you learn what

digital fast really helps you learn what your digital habits are and that’s

your digital habits are and that’s

your digital habits are and that’s valuable information of course it is

valuable information of course it is

valuable information of course it is much better to actually go on a digital

much better to actually go on a digital

much better to actually go on a digital fast I think so I really like this

fast I think so I really like this

fast I think so I really like this experience and I wanted to kind of keep

experience and I wanted to kind of keep

experience and I wanted to kind of keep it going so I gave some talks here in

it going so I gave some talks here in

it going so I gave some talks here in Portsmouth about the digital fast and

Portsmouth about the digital fast and

Portsmouth about the digital fast and there started to be some interest in

there started to be some interest in

there started to be some interest in doing a seacoast version of it so

doing a seacoast version of it so

doing a seacoast version of it so together with a great group of people

together with a great group of people

together with a great group of people we created the seacoast digital fast

we created the seacoast digital fast

we created the seacoast digital fast which has now happened the past two

which has now happened the past two

which has now happened the past two August’s some of you may have

August’s some of you may have

August’s some of you may have participated in it and it’s been it’s

participated in it and it’s been it’s

participated in it and it’s been it’s been great and we’re gonna continue

been great and we’re gonna continue

been great and we’re gonna continue doing it so what happens when you shut

doing it so what happens when you shut

doing it so what happens when you shut down your screens for a weekend well the

down your screens for a weekend well the

down your screens for a weekend well the first thing that happens is that you

first thing that happens is that you

first thing that happens is that you immediately want to document this really

immediately want to document this really

immediately want to document this really cool thing that you’re doing so for the

cool thing that you’re doing so for the

cool thing that you’re doing so for the Seacoast digital fast this past August

Seacoast digital fast this past August

Seacoast digital fast this past August we had a kickoff party here right here

we had a kickoff party here right here

we had a kickoff party here right here at 3s so participants could gather and

at 3s so participants could gather and

at 3s so participants could gather and we could all kind of communally shut

we could all kind of communally shut

we could all kind of communally shut down our devices together and so many of

down our devices together and so many of

down our devices together and so many of us have the same experience as we were

us have the same experience as we were

us have the same experience as we were shutting down our phones we wanted to

shutting down our phones we wanted to

shutting down our phones we wanted to use those phones to take pictures of

use those phones to take pictures of

use those phones to take pictures of ourselves shutting down our phones which

ourselves shutting down our phones which

ourselves shutting down our phones which we could then post to social media and

we could then post to social media and

we could then post to social media and talk about this really cool thing we

talk about this really cool thing we

talk about this really cool thing we were doing and wait for the likes and

were doing and wait for the likes and

were doing and wait for the likes and comments to roll in and that’s one of

comments to roll in and that’s one of

comments to roll in and that’s one of many things that you are kind of a

many things that you are kind of a

many things that you are kind of a tune – when you’re on a digital fast you

tune – when you’re on a digital fast you

tune – when you’re on a digital fast you notice every time you have that twitchy

notice every time you have that twitchy

notice every time you have that twitchy urge to check your phone it’s so much

urge to check your phone it’s so much

urge to check your phone it’s so much like the urge to smoke another cigarette

like the urge to smoke another cigarette

like the urge to smoke another cigarette when you’re trying to quit or have a

when you’re trying to quit or have a

when you’re trying to quit or have a drink or eat another potato chip even

drink or eat another potato chip even

drink or eat another potato chip even though you’re not hungry

though you’re not hungry

though you’re not hungry it’s not that often associated to an

it’s not that often associated to an

it’s not that often associated to an actual need but it’s more often

actual need but it’s more often

actual need but it’s more often associated with some kind of vague time

associated with some kind of vague time

associated with some kind of vague time filler or crutch and a lot of times you

filler or crutch and a lot of times you

filler or crutch and a lot of times you just do it because someone else took out

just do it because someone else took out

just do it because someone else took out their phone another thing you notice is

their phone another thing you notice is

their phone another thing you notice is it feels really good to do one thing at

it feels really good to do one thing at

it feels really good to do one thing at a time

a time

a time a woman who participated in the digital

a woman who participated in the digital

a woman who participated in the digital fast told me that she felt like she was

fast told me that she felt like she was

fast told me that she felt like she was a much better parent during that weekend

a much better parent during that weekend

a much better parent during that weekend because she was more calm and present

because she was more calm and present

because she was more calm and present with her kids she wasn’t constantly

with her kids she wasn’t constantly

with her kids she wasn’t constantly being pulled away by all these

being pulled away by all these

being pulled away by all these ultimately meaningless little tasks when

ultimately meaningless little tasks when

ultimately meaningless little tasks when you’re cooking you’re cooking when

you’re cooking you’re cooking when

you’re cooking you’re cooking when you’re having a conversation you’re

you’re having a conversation you’re

you’re having a conversation you’re having a conversation when you’re

having a conversation when you’re

having a conversation when you’re playing with your kids you’re playing

playing with your kids you’re playing

playing with your kids you’re playing with your kids without our screens we

with your kids without our screens we

with your kids without our screens we are more connected to the world without

are more connected to the world without

are more connected to the world without GPS we learn how to get around we learn

GPS we learn how to get around we learn

GPS we learn how to get around we learn more about where we live we inevitably

more about where we live we inevitably

more about where we live we inevitably spend more time outside you pay more

spend more time outside you pay more

spend more time outside you pay more attention to natural cycles like sunrise

attention to natural cycles like sunrise

attention to natural cycles like sunrise and sunset and what your body is telling

and sunset and what your body is telling

and sunset and what your body is telling you one of my students told me that the

you one of my students told me that the

you one of my students told me that the sleep that he got during the digital

sleep that he got during the digital

sleep that he got during the digital fast weekend was some of the best sleep

fast weekend was some of the best sleep

fast weekend was some of the best sleep he ever can remember getting our news

he ever can remember getting our news

he ever can remember getting our news feeds or all of our feeds news

feeds or all of our feeds news

feeds or all of our feeds news entertainment social twitter facebook

entertainment social twitter facebook

entertainment social twitter facebook instagram never end the feeds never end

instagram never end the feeds never end

instagram never end the feeds never end and yet when we’re scrolling through

and yet when we’re scrolling through

and yet when we’re scrolling through them in the back of our head we’re

them in the back of our head we’re

them in the back of our head we’re thinking I’m gonna get caught up I’m

thinking I’m gonna get caught up I’m

thinking I’m gonna get caught up I’m gonna get to the end of this story right

gonna get to the end of this story right

gonna get to the end of this story right but there is no end right

but there is no end right

but there is no end right Trump is never going to stop right so

Trump is never going to stop right so

Trump is never going to stop right so every once in a while it feels good to

every once in a while it feels good to

every once in a while it feels good to just acknowledge that the feeds will

just acknowledge that the feeds will

just acknowledge that the feeds will never end that you’ll never be caught up

never end that you’ll never be caught up

never end that you’ll never be caught up and step away from it you can always go

and step away from it you can always go

and step away from it you can always go back to it a digital faster observe to

back to it a digital faster observe to

back to it a digital faster observe to me that during that weekend if there was

me that during that weekend if there was

me that during that weekend if there was some kind of a world catastrophe he

some kind of a world catastrophe he

some kind of a world catastrophe he would hear people yelling in the street

would hear people yelling in the street

would hear people yelling in the street about it otherwise he was okay taking

about it otherwise he was okay taking

about it otherwise he was okay taking the chance of taking 48 hours away from

the chance of taking 48 hours away from

the chance of taking 48 hours away from the information and on Monday he could

the information and on Monday he could

the information and on Monday he could check back in

check back in

check back in probably get caught up inside of ten

probably get caught up inside of ten

probably get caught up inside of ten minutes and he was pretty confident that

minutes and he was pretty confident that

minutes and he was pretty confident that he wouldn’t have missed that much our

he wouldn’t have missed that much our

he wouldn’t have missed that much our devices allow us to constantly cancel

devices allow us to constantly cancel

devices allow us to constantly cancel and reschedule and live this sort of

and reschedule and live this sort of

and reschedule and live this sort of frantic non-committal life when I was

frantic non-committal life when I was

frantic non-committal life when I was doing the digital fast this past summer

doing the digital fast this past summer

doing the digital fast this past summer I made plans with my brother-in-law to

I made plans with my brother-in-law to

I made plans with my brother-in-law to go for a run and because we were on a

go for a run and because we were on a

go for a run and because we were on a digital fast I couldn’t text him about

digital fast I couldn’t text him about

digital fast I couldn’t text him about it we had to make the plans you know on

it we had to make the plans you know on

it we had to make the plans you know on Friday so we were gonna meet on Sunday

Friday so we were gonna meet on Sunday

Friday so we were gonna meet on Sunday afternoon at 3 p.m. at the corner of

afternoon at 3 p.m. at the corner of

afternoon at 3 p.m. at the corner of broad and middle and when I woke up on

broad and middle and when I woke up on

broad and middle and when I woke up on Sunday morning I didn’t feel like going

Sunday morning I didn’t feel like going

Sunday morning I didn’t feel like going for a run so I wanted to cancel my plans

for a run so I wanted to cancel my plans

for a run so I wanted to cancel my plans with Jake but that would have involved

with Jake but that would have involved

with Jake but that would have involved walking downtown somehow finding him and

walking downtown somehow finding him and

walking downtown somehow finding him and cancelling which seemed really difficult

cancelling which seemed really difficult

cancelling which seemed really difficult and kind of ridiculous and so I kept my

and kind of ridiculous and so I kept my

and kind of ridiculous and so I kept my plans and I went for the run and I’m

plans and I went for the run and I’m

plans and I went for the run and I’m better for it people are more

better for it people are more

better for it people are more complicated offline the internet

complicated offline the internet

complicated offline the internet presents a much more extreme version of

presents a much more extreme version of

presents a much more extreme version of everything it’s much easier to see

everything it’s much easier to see

everything it’s much easier to see people in black and white terms online

people in black and white terms online

people in black and white terms online it’s much easier to cast people as

it’s much easier to cast people as

it’s much easier to cast people as unredeemable

unredeemable

unredeemable but offline on a digital fast we return

but offline on a digital fast we return

but offline on a digital fast we return to the Messier and more complicated

to the Messier and more complicated

to the Messier and more complicated world of actual human beings no one is

world of actual human beings no one is

world of actual human beings no one is just a trump voter they might also be a

just a trump voter they might also be a

just a trump voter they might also be a trump voter who is your really nice

trump voter who is your really nice

trump voter who is your really nice neighbor who seems to love their kids as

neighbor who seems to love their kids as

neighbor who seems to love their kids as much as you do and loves flo rida as

much as you do and loves flo rida as

much as you do and loves flo rida as much as you do this one really hit home

much as you do this one really hit home

much as you do this one really hit home with me the power of doing nothing when

with me the power of doing nothing when

with me the power of doing nothing when I was in my early 20s I played in the

I was in my early 20s I played in the

I was in my early 20s I played in the band and I used to do all of my lyric

band and I used to do all of my lyric

band and I used to do all of my lyric writing during these little moments of

writing during these little moments of

writing during these little moments of downtime that I would have when I was

downtime that I would have when I was

downtime that I would have when I was when I was bored or spacing out riding

when I was bored or spacing out riding

when I was bored or spacing out riding the bus waiting in line for coffee with

the bus waiting in line for coffee with

the bus waiting in line for coffee with nothing to do at my job that was when I

nothing to do at my job that was when I

nothing to do at my job that was when I did my best creative thinking I never

did my best creative thinking I never

did my best creative thinking I never thought about it at the time but now I

thought about it at the time but now I

thought about it at the time but now I realize that that valuable in-between

realize that that valuable in-between

realize that that valuable in-between spacing out time is now filled with this

spacing out time is now filled with this

spacing out time is now filled with this mindless scrolling on my phone and when

mindless scrolling on my phone and when

mindless scrolling on my phone and when I went on the digital fast that time

I went on the digital fast that time

I went on the digital fast that time came back to me do you really need to

came back to me do you really need to

came back to me do you really need to share everything you do with everyone in

share everything you do with everyone in

share everything you do with everyone in the world every day all the time yes

the world every day all the time yes

the world every day all the time yes it’s great for the grandparents to see

it’s great for the grandparents to see

it’s great for the grandparents to see pictures from the first day of school

pictures from the first day of school

pictures from the first day of school and yes we all agree your new haircut

and yes we all agree your new haircut

and yes we all agree your new haircut looks great but how much is lost when we

looks great but how much is lost when we

looks great but how much is lost when we make everything public isn’t it nice to

make everything public isn’t it nice to

make everything public isn’t it nice to be able to say that you really did just

be able to say that you really did just

be able to say that you really did just have to be there besides how much of

have to be there besides how much of

have to be there besides how much of some once-in-a-lifetime gathering of old

some once-in-a-lifetime gathering of old

some once-in-a-lifetime gathering of old friends do you want to waste trying to

friends do you want to waste trying to

friends do you want to waste trying to document everything so on Sunday night

document everything so on Sunday night

document everything so on Sunday night or Monday morning when you power

or Monday morning when you power

or Monday morning when you power everything back on and reconnect you

everything back on and reconnect you

everything back on and reconnect you might realize some things and you might

might realize some things and you might

might realize some things and you might decide to make some changes they might

decide to make some changes they might

decide to make some changes they might be small changes you might decide to

be small changes you might decide to

be small changes you might decide to take facebook off your phone you might

take facebook off your phone you might

take facebook off your phone you might decide that you’re not gonna take it to

decide that you’re not gonna take it to

decide that you’re not gonna take it to bed with you anymore

bed with you anymore

bed with you anymore or that you’re gonna wait 15 minutes

or that you’re gonna wait 15 minutes

or that you’re gonna wait 15 minutes every morning before you turn it on and

every morning before you turn it on and

every morning before you turn it on and just enjoy your coffee and silence maybe

just enjoy your coffee and silence maybe

just enjoy your coffee and silence maybe you’ll decide you’re not going to bring

you’ll decide you’re not going to bring

you’ll decide you’re not going to bring it to the dinner table with you or

it to the dinner table with you or

it to the dinner table with you or you’re not gonna use it on Sundays you

you’re not gonna use it on Sundays you

you’re not gonna use it on Sundays you might realize what’s really sacred to

might realize what’s really sacred to

might realize what’s really sacred to you the point of the digital fast is to

you the point of the digital fast is to

you the point of the digital fast is to take back control in the relationship

take back control in the relationship

take back control in the relationship these devices that we carry around with

these devices that we carry around with

these devices that we carry around with us too often set the terms they dictate

us too often set the terms they dictate

us too often set the terms they dictate when we abruptly end a conversation they

when we abruptly end a conversation they

when we abruptly end a conversation they take our attention away from our kids

take our attention away from our kids

take our attention away from our kids and yes sometimes they even listen in on

and yes sometimes they even listen in on

and yes sometimes they even listen in on our conversations and keep track of

our conversations and keep track of

our conversations and keep track of where we are and how we’re spending our

where we are and how we’re spending our

where we are and how we’re spending our money when you go on a digital fast you

money when you go on a digital fast you

money when you go on a digital fast you are reminded that you have a lot more

are reminded that you have a lot more

are reminded that you have a lot more say in setting the terms than you might

say in setting the terms than you might

say in setting the terms than you might think my students are immersed in the

think my students are immersed in the

think my students are immersed in the digital world so am I most likely so are

digital world so am I most likely so are

digital world so am I most likely so are you so it’s not an option for most of us

you so it’s not an option for most of us

you so it’s not an option for most of us to opt out or disengage but that’s not

to opt out or disengage but that’s not

to opt out or disengage but that’s not what this is about either this is about

what this is about either this is about

what this is about either this is about examining our relationship to technology

examining our relationship to technology

examining our relationship to technology is it a healthy relationship

is it a healthy relationship

is it a healthy relationship these devices that we carry around our

these devices that we carry around our

these devices that we carry around our miraculous and powerful tools I realize

miraculous and powerful tools I realize

miraculous and powerful tools I realize that more profoundly than ever but they

that more profoundly than ever but they

that more profoundly than ever but they are tools and we typically put tools

are tools and we typically put tools

are tools and we typically put tools away when we’re done using them I think

away when we’re done using them I think

away when we’re done using them I think this is a great and valuable experience

this is a great and valuable experience

this is a great and valuable experience for everyone to try at least once a year

for everyone to try at least once a year

for everyone to try at least once a year and ask yourself if you can’t go 48

and ask yourself if you can’t go 48

and ask yourself if you can’t go 48 hours in a year without your devices and

hours in a year without your devices and

hours in a year without your devices and screens what does that say about your

screens what does that say about your

screens what does that say about your relationship to your family your work

relationship to your family your work

relationship to your family your work your community and the natural world so

your community and the natural world so

your community and the natural world so what do you say these guys might be

what do you say these guys might be

what do you say these guys might be skeptical but I think you can do it

skeptical but I think you can do it

skeptical but I think you can do it thanks

thanks

thanks [Applause]

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