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Help me! I want to DIE! | Paresh Gupta | TEDxJECRC


okay so the stock is going to be very

okay so the stock is going to be very interesting and it’s ironically not

interesting and it’s ironically not

interesting and it’s ironically not about sex it’s about something else

about sex it’s about something else

about sex it’s about something else because India is fantastic at sex we

because India is fantastic at sex we

because India is fantastic at sex we produce the maximum number of people we

produce the maximum number of people we

produce the maximum number of people we are the second highest populated country

are the second highest populated country

are the second highest populated country going to produce babies and babies and

going to produce babies and babies and

going to produce babies and babies and babies but it’s about V killing our

babies but it’s about V killing our

babies but it’s about V killing our babies too

babies too

babies too and that’s exactly what this talk is

and that’s exactly what this talk is

and that’s exactly what this talk is going to be about this talk is about

going to be about this talk is about

going to be about this talk is about asking you guys what are we doing with

asking you guys what are we doing with

asking you guys what are we doing with our younger generation what is it that

our younger generation what is it that

our younger generation what is it that you’re trying to do with the people who

you’re trying to do with the people who

you’re trying to do with the people who are produced in India can you tell me

are produced in India can you tell me

are produced in India can you tell me the country so we talk you’re number 2

the country so we talk you’re number 2

the country so we talk you’re number 2 in the number of in terms of population

in the number of in terms of population

in the number of in terms of population in the world but we’re number 1 at

in the world but we’re number 1 at

in the world but we’re number 1 at something and a number one at the number

something and a number one at the number

something and a number one at the number of suicides made in the world so we are

of suicides made in the world so we are

of suicides made in the world so we are the country which tops the list in terms

the country which tops the list in terms

the country which tops the list in terms of suicides made by the time this talk

of suicides made by the time this talk

of suicides made by the time this talk is going to get over by the way what’s

is going to get over by the way what’s

is going to get over by the way what’s going to happen is 80 people in India

going to happen is 80 people in India

going to happen is 80 people in India would have committed a try to attempt

would have committed a try to attempt

would have committed a try to attempt suicide worldwide 350 people would have

suicide worldwide 350 people would have

suicide worldwide 350 people would have tried to attempt suicide every 4 minute

tried to attempt suicide every 4 minute

tried to attempt suicide every 4 minute there is a person trying to commit

there is a person trying to commit

there is a person trying to commit suicide you guys think hiv/aids is

suicide you guys think hiv/aids is

suicide you guys think hiv/aids is important everybody talks about it you

important everybody talks about it you

important everybody talks about it you think it’s very important you know what

think it’s very important you know what

think it’s very important you know what there are two times more deaths

there are two times more deaths

there are two times more deaths happening out of suicides then against

happening out of suicides then against

happening out of suicides then against HIV and nobody talks about it

HIV and nobody talks about it

HIV and nobody talks about it congratulations all right there’s one

congratulations all right there’s one

congratulations all right there’s one thing more there are 20 times more

thing more there are 20 times more

thing more there are 20 times more people attempting suicide in this nation

people attempting suicide in this nation

people attempting suicide in this nation then people affected by HIV so only 2

then people affected by HIV so only 2

then people affected by HIV so only 2 times people actually die out of suicide

times people actually die out of suicide

times people actually die out of suicide but 20 times more people attempt it so

but 20 times more people attempt it so

but 20 times more people attempt it so it’s like 40 times more important than

it’s like 40 times more important than

it’s like 40 times more important than HIV but we have Holdings and posters

HIV but we have Holdings and posters

HIV but we have Holdings and posters talking about HIV we do not talk about

talking about HIV we do not talk about

talking about HIV we do not talk about suicides in the country in the last

suicides in the country in the last

suicides in the country in the last three years I have met more than 50,000

three years I have met more than 50,000

three years I have met more than 50,000 people in the younger generation and

people in the younger generation and

people in the younger generation and trust me I have really seeing that I

trust me I have really seeing that I

trust me I have really seeing that I have seen that in my life I have a crime

have seen that in my life I have a crime

have seen that in my life I have a crime chair in my office and whoever comes to

chair in my office and whoever comes to

chair in my office and whoever comes to me for counseling in there every ends up

me for counseling in there every ends up

me for counseling in there every ends up clown crying and in his ending that

clown crying and in his ending that

clown crying and in his ending that chair that’s very interesting I’ll also

chair that’s very interesting I’ll also

chair that’s very interesting I’ll also tell you something more

tell you something more

tell you something more so India is again very amazing because

so India is again very amazing because

so India is again very amazing because the world has an average suicide age of

the world has an average suicide age of

the world has an average suicide age of 65 years so worldwide people tried to

65 years so worldwide people tried to

65 years so worldwide people tried to commit suicide when they’re done with

commit suicide when they’re done with

commit suicide when they’re done with their lives and then they want to die do

their lives and then they want to die do

their lives and then they want to die do you know what age do people commit

you know what age do people commit

you know what age do people commit suicide in India 15 to 29

suicide in India 15 to 29

suicide in India 15 to 29 congratulations

congratulations

congratulations we are killing our Millennials we’re

we are killing our Millennials we’re

we are killing our Millennials we’re killing the best of the breed of the

killing the best of the breed of the

killing the best of the breed of the country and I’ll also tell you something

country and I’ll also tell you something

country and I’ll also tell you something that majority of the people who commit

that majority of the people who commit

that majority of the people who commit suicide are literate educated and come

suicide are literate educated and come

suicide are literate educated and come from vela families that’s exactly what

from vela families that’s exactly what

from vela families that’s exactly what India is producing today and what’s the

India is producing today and what’s the

India is producing today and what’s the prime reason and this is by the National

prime reason and this is by the National

prime reason and this is by the National Crime Records Bureau what’s the reason

Crime Records Bureau what’s the reason

Crime Records Bureau what’s the reason Society and family pressures our society

Society and family pressures our society

Society and family pressures our society we are killing the best of generation

we are killing the best of generation

we are killing the best of generation just because we don’t know I’ll give you

just because we don’t know I’ll give you

just because we don’t know I’ll give you examples I’ll give you two very classic

examples I’ll give you two very classic

examples I’ll give you two very classic examples which it just happen so there

examples which it just happen so there

examples which it just happen so there was this mom whom I met yesterday and

was this mom whom I met yesterday and

was this mom whom I met yesterday and she said that I’m really worried for my

she said that I’m really worried for my

she said that I’m really worried for my child studies and I’m gonna actually

child studies and I’m gonna actually

child studies and I’m gonna actually have my blood pressure tablets coming on

have my blood pressure tablets coming on

have my blood pressure tablets coming on because from next year my child studies

because from next year my child studies

because from next year my child studies are going to go increase and become

are going to go increase and become

are going to go increase and become multifold you know how old the child is

multifold you know how old the child is

multifold you know how old the child is six years right that’s exactly what’s

six years right that’s exactly what’s

six years right that’s exactly what’s happening

happening

happening Jaipur alone lasts 15 days three people

Jaipur alone lasts 15 days three people

Jaipur alone lasts 15 days three people have actually committed suicide in the

have actually committed suicide in the

have actually committed suicide in the Rajasthan University that was there in

Rajasthan University that was there in

Rajasthan University that was there in the news yesterday and we are not

the news yesterday and we are not

the news yesterday and we are not talking about it nobody wants to talk

talking about it nobody wants to talk

talking about it nobody wants to talk about it because it’s a taboo we really

about it because it’s a taboo we really

about it because it’s a taboo we really don’t want to talk about it if you talk

don’t want to talk about it if you talk

don’t want to talk about it if you talk about it yet anyway mentally ill right

about it yet anyway mentally ill right

about it yet anyway mentally ill right you can’t talk about it and this is for

you can’t talk about it and this is for

you can’t talk about it and this is for all the feminists right and all those

all the feminists right and all those

all the feminists right and all those who support that females are the

who support that females are the

who support that females are the sufferers right understand that the

sufferers right understand that the

sufferers right understand that the number of men committing suicide in the

number of men committing suicide in the

number of men committing suicide in the world is twice that of females and men

world is twice that of females and men

world is twice that of females and men can’t even talk about it

can’t even talk about it

can’t even talk about it because if they do seriously is they –

because if they do seriously is they –

because if they do seriously is they – they are not men anymore

we are not supporting they actually are

we are not supporting they actually are living in the shell because they’re not

living in the shell because they’re not

living in the shell because they’re not supposed to speak about it and that’s

supposed to speak about it and that’s

supposed to speak about it and that’s exactly what we are trying to do with

exactly what we are trying to do with

exactly what we are trying to do with our people and I’m really sad to see

our people and I’m really sad to see

our people and I’m really sad to see that I’ll also tell you the problem so

that I’ll also tell you the problem so

that I’ll also tell you the problem so what’s going on what’s going on and

what’s going on what’s going on and

what’s going on what’s going on and what’s actually perpetrating the whole

what’s actually perpetrating the whole

what’s actually perpetrating the whole story of suicides in the country this is

story of suicides in the country this is

story of suicides in the country this is something which is happening you are

something which is happening you are

something which is happening you are really special that’s exactly what we

really special that’s exactly what we

really special that’s exactly what we tell our kids the day they are born I’ve

tell our kids the day they are born I’ve

tell our kids the day they are born I’ve seen mom’s coming and telling me and

seen mom’s coming and telling me and

seen mom’s coming and telling me and telling the kids you’re the best child I

telling the kids you’re the best child I

telling the kids you’re the best child I have you’re the only child also I have

have you’re the only child also I have

have you’re the only child also I have so so what you are trying to do you’re

so so what you are trying to do you’re

so so what you are trying to do you’re trying to tell that child you are the

trying to tell that child you are the

trying to tell that child you are the best you are amazing you’re going to the

best you are amazing you’re going to the

best you are amazing you’re going to the school and actually give him awards and

school and actually give him awards and

school and actually give him awards and awards and awards because every child is

awards and awards because every child is

awards and awards because every child is born special you know what I try to

born special you know what I try to

born special you know what I try to attempt suicide three times and I should

attempt suicide three times and I should

attempt suicide three times and I should think I’m a big man right I’ve tried

think I’m a big man right I’ve tried

think I’m a big man right I’ve tried three times you know what then I

three times you know what then I

three times you know what then I actually see this I am no longer special

actually see this I am no longer special

actually see this I am no longer special I should have attempted at least 20

I should have attempted at least 20

I should have attempted at least 20 times to actually die

times to actually die

times to actually die so you actually the ratio is it’s your

so you actually the ratio is it’s your

so you actually the ratio is it’s your attempt twenty times then you die once

attempt twenty times then you die once

attempt twenty times then you die once so so for me to die I had to actually

so so for me to die I had to actually

so so for me to die I had to actually try it twenty times and that’s what

try it twenty times and that’s what

try it twenty times and that’s what makes me special

makes me special

makes me special til all other times I am not special I

til all other times I am not special I

til all other times I am not special I keep telling I keep seeing this

keep telling I keep seeing this

keep telling I keep seeing this happening around me everybody’s telling

happening around me everybody’s telling

happening around me everybody’s telling you are special you are special your

you are special you are special your

you are special you are special your special by fifteen you are just the most

special by fifteen you are just the most

special by fifteen you are just the most special child and then suddenly you come

special child and then suddenly you come

special child and then suddenly you come to a competitive world where you’re

to a competitive world where you’re

to a competitive world where you’re sitting for an iid exam and you realize

sitting for an iid exam and you realize

sitting for an iid exam and you realize you are just not special anymore

you are just not special anymore

you are just not special anymore it’s

it’s

it’s [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] every single competition in the country

every single competition in the country

every single competition in the country the success rate is only one to two

the success rate is only one to two

the success rate is only one to two percent 98% people fail that competition

percent 98% people fail that competition

percent 98% people fail that competition 125 million people living in tastic 125

125 million people living in tastic 125

125 million people living in tastic 125 crore people living in this country and

crore people living in this country and

crore people living in this country and that’s why nothing nothing makes you

that’s why nothing nothing makes you

that’s why nothing nothing makes you special you are just another person

special you are just another person

special you are just another person start accepting that and then this was

start accepting that and then this was

start accepting that and then this was amazing okay we actually start creating

amazing okay we actually start creating

amazing okay we actually start creating biases we start creating we put people

biases we start creating we put people

biases we start creating we put people into you are a boy you’re not supposed

into you are a boy you’re not supposed

into you are a boy you’re not supposed to cry and you’re a girl you’re supposed

to cry and you’re a girl you’re supposed

to cry and you’re a girl you’re supposed to cry that’s exactly what we do and if

to cry that’s exactly what we do and if

to cry that’s exactly what we do and if you’re confused you’re LGBTQ that’s

you’re confused you’re LGBTQ that’s

you’re confused you’re LGBTQ that’s exactly what you are you cannot actually

exactly what you are you cannot actually

exactly what you are you cannot actually understand a three-year-old kid

understand a three-year-old kid

understand a three-year-old kid understands that he has to a boy has to

understands that he has to a boy has to

understands that he has to a boy has to live in a blue room and a girl has to

live in a blue room and a girl has to

live in a blue room and a girl has to live in a pink room I don’t know why we

live in a pink room I don’t know why we

live in a pink room I don’t know why we are creating that we are creating that

are creating that we are creating that

are creating that we are creating that gender bias and that’s exactly when a

gender bias and that’s exactly when a

gender bias and that’s exactly when a boy tries to shake hands with a girl

boy tries to shake hands with a girl

boy tries to shake hands with a girl he’s trembling I had this right because

he’s trembling I had this right because

he’s trembling I had this right because I don’t know how to react right because

I don’t know how to react right because

I don’t know how to react right because she’s a girl I’m a boy right I don’t

she’s a girl I’m a boy right I don’t

she’s a girl I’m a boy right I don’t have any differentiations and if I’m

have any differentiations and if I’m

have any differentiations and if I’m somewhere in the middle I’m going it’s

somewhere in the middle I’m going it’s

somewhere in the middle I’m going it’s completely deadly story for me crazy and

completely deadly story for me crazy and

completely deadly story for me crazy and that’s exactly what he end up creating

that’s exactly what he end up creating

that’s exactly what he end up creating the gender bias in this nation and then

the gender bias in this nation and then

the gender bias in this nation and then I hate that Sharma on Cokie daughter and

I hate that Sharma on Cokie daughter and

I hate that Sharma on Cokie daughter and Sherman coca beta because they are the

Sherman coca beta because they are the

Sherman coca beta because they are the ones who are actually killing the

ones who are actually killing the

ones who are actually killing the society Sharma uncle’s son is doing this

society Sharma uncle’s son is doing this

society Sharma uncle’s son is doing this why are you not doing this I don’t care

why are you not doing this I don’t care

why are you not doing this I don’t care about Sharma how can i care about me

about Sharma how can i care about me

about Sharma how can i care about me when i want to talk about me please

when i want to talk about me please

when i want to talk about me please don’t tell me about sir my uncle because

don’t tell me about sir my uncle because

don’t tell me about sir my uncle because he’s doing it i don’t really want to do

he’s doing it i don’t really want to do

he’s doing it i don’t really want to do this i have been on the other side of

this i have been on the other side of

this i have been on the other side of the battle honestly because i was

the battle honestly because i was

the battle honestly because i was another topic i materials or all the

another topic i materials or all the

another topic i materials or all the other people would go and tell the kids

other people would go and tell the kids

other people would go and tell the kids be like this guy and those all people

be like this guy and those all people

be like this guy and those all people would hate me because i was doing good

would hate me because i was doing good

would hate me because i was doing good imagine now doing good as well and doing

imagine now doing good as well and doing

imagine now doing good as well and doing bad is in your mind right so where

bad is in your mind right so where

bad is in your mind right so where should somebody go and then you’re

should somebody go and then you’re

should somebody go and then you’re completely confined into a room and you

completely confined into a room and you

completely confined into a room and you say oh my life is over and that’s

say oh my life is over and that’s

say oh my life is over and that’s exactly what the problem is you have to

exactly what the problem is you have to

exactly what the problem is you have to start thinking no comparisons yes this

start thinking no comparisons yes this

start thinking no comparisons yes this way you’re different you’re not special

way you’re different you’re not special

way you’re different you’re not special please

please

please right there’s a difference you’re not

right there’s a difference you’re not

right there’s a difference you’re not supposed to build that ego and say I am

supposed to build that ego and say I am

supposed to build that ego and say I am the best in the world you’re not the

the best in the world you’re not the

the best in the world you’re not the best there is somebody better than you

best there is somebody better than you

best there is somebody better than you every

every

every tiny humble be modest but yes you have

tiny humble be modest but yes you have

tiny humble be modest but yes you have born different there is something within

born different there is something within

born different there is something within you which actually defines you as an

you which actually defines you as an

you which actually defines you as an individual right just be that and then

individual right just be that and then

individual right just be that and then this is this amazing sense of instant

this is this amazing sense of instant

this is this amazing sense of instant gratification which you have produced in

gratification which you have produced in

gratification which you have produced in this country so what you do is

this country so what you do is

this country so what you do is everything comes with a snap of a finger

everything comes with a snap of a finger

everything comes with a snap of a finger you don’t know anything go to Google you

you don’t know anything go to Google you

you don’t know anything go to Google you get it right you don’t know the

get it right you don’t know the

get it right you don’t know the pronunciation type you don’t know which

pronunciation type you don’t know which

pronunciation type you don’t know which place to birth I do whatever everything

place to birth I do whatever everything

place to birth I do whatever everything is available I know people in this

is available I know people in this

is available I know people in this country and across the world who

country and across the world who

country and across the world who actually say it for the whole series to

actually say it for the whole series to

actually say it for the whole series to get over and then they have the whole

get over and then they have the whole

get over and then they have the whole bunch and then they would actually watch

bunch and then they would actually watch

bunch and then they would actually watch it because instant gratification I can’t

it because instant gratification I can’t

it because instant gratification I can’t be it instant gratification I always

be it instant gratification I always

be it instant gratification I always wanted I want to the time I wanted you

wanted I want to the time I wanted you

wanted I want to the time I wanted you say mom I want this thing mom would get

say mom I want this thing mom would get

say mom I want this thing mom would get you you want dial I on this you get it

you you want dial I on this you get it

you you want dial I on this you get it if that’s what is happening we have lost

if that’s what is happening we have lost

if that’s what is happening we have lost the whole control of not getting things

the whole control of not getting things

the whole control of not getting things and then when you see 98 percent first

and then when you see 98 percent first

and then when you see 98 percent first people failing in majority of the exams

people failing in majority of the exams

people failing in majority of the exams you do not get it and that’s the time

you do not get it and that’s the time

you do not get it and that’s the time when utilize oh I was getting it getting

when utilize oh I was getting it getting

when utilize oh I was getting it getting it getting it getting it without any

it getting it getting it without any

it getting it getting it without any work today I’m not getting it

work today I’m not getting it

work today I’m not getting it I am not getting it I’m just not getting

I am not getting it I’m just not getting

I am not getting it I’m just not getting it right and then this is the most

it right and then this is the most

it right and then this is the most amazing I tell you something which

amazing I tell you something which

amazing I tell you something which happened just about a week back I was

happened just about a week back I was

happened just about a week back I was seeing one couple fighting right and

seeing one couple fighting right and

seeing one couple fighting right and there’s this honeymoon couple who was

there’s this honeymoon couple who was

there’s this honeymoon couple who was fighting and looking at each other

fighting and looking at each other

fighting and looking at each other whatever whatever and suddenly this girl

whatever whatever and suddenly this girl

whatever whatever and suddenly this girl had an idea let’s do a selfie suddenly

had an idea let’s do a selfie suddenly

had an idea let’s do a selfie suddenly both of us started smiling kick

both of us started smiling kick

both of us started smiling kick fantastic amazing you go to Facebook

fantastic amazing you go to Facebook

fantastic amazing you go to Facebook everybody is happy in this world man

everybody is happy in this world man

everybody is happy in this world man right nobody’s sad nobody talks about

right nobody’s sad nobody talks about

right nobody’s sad nobody talks about being sad

being sad

being sad I have not seen and if you post that

I have not seen and if you post that

I have not seen and if you post that you’re sad then your anyway out of the

you’re sad then your anyway out of the

you’re sad then your anyway out of the world they’re they’re crazy not you’re a

world they’re they’re crazy not you’re a

world they’re they’re crazy not you’re a mental fellow who does not understand

mental fellow who does not understand

mental fellow who does not understand how to live in this world actually right

how to live in this world actually right

how to live in this world actually right and if that’s what you’re trying to do

and if that’s what you’re trying to do

and if that’s what you’re trying to do we are creating a fake social identity

we are creating a fake social identity

we are creating a fake social identity and we don’t know what we are we are a

and we don’t know what we are we are a

and we don’t know what we are we are a person who supposed to smile because

person who supposed to smile because

person who supposed to smile because they are on selfie we are on camera and

they are on selfie we are on camera and

they are on selfie we are on camera and then we go back home I say where to cry

then we go back home I say where to cry

then we go back home I say where to cry on whose shoulder do I cry I have nobody

on whose shoulder do I cry I have nobody

on whose shoulder do I cry I have nobody because I am telling the world I’m doing

because I am telling the world I’m doing

because I am telling the world I’m doing rocking my wife is rocking but my life

rocking my wife is rocking but my life

rocking my wife is rocking but my life is actually not rocking and I need these

is actually not rocking and I need these

is actually not rocking and I need these people every single day of my life 50

people every single day of my life 50

people every single day of my life 50 people I am NOT a counselor I am just a

people I am NOT a counselor I am just a

people I am NOT a counselor I am just a regular finance professional people come

regular finance professional people come

regular finance professional people come to me for career advice I ended up

to me for career advice I ended up

to me for career advice I ended up giving end up giving them life advice

giving end up giving them life advice

giving end up giving them life advice because that’s what is important in my

because that’s what is important in my

because that’s what is important in my life

life

life right and that’s exactly what I have

right and that’s exactly what I have

right and that’s exactly what I have started to resolve now that’s exactly

started to resolve now that’s exactly

started to resolve now that’s exactly what I’m trying to do my objective in

what I’m trying to do my objective in

what I’m trying to do my objective in life is try to help as many people your

life is try to help as many people your

life is try to help as many people your age all educated people to please start

age all educated people to please start

age all educated people to please start living a good life I try to attempt

living a good life I try to attempt

living a good life I try to attempt suicide three times I don’t want you to

suicide three times I don’t want you to

suicide three times I don’t want you to do it ever

do it ever

do it ever alright that’s exactly what what I would

alright that’s exactly what what I would

alright that’s exactly what what I would do I have my own story which is

do I have my own story which is

do I have my own story which is different but let’s talk about solving

different but let’s talk about solving

different but let’s talk about solving the problem

the problem

the problem the first problem and the first solution

the first problem and the first solution

the first problem and the first solution please do not shy of taking help it’s

please do not shy of taking help it’s

please do not shy of taking help it’s okay to take help you know what I have

okay to take help you know what I have

okay to take help you know what I have seen places and I’ve seen people so

seen places and I’ve seen people so

seen places and I’ve seen people so there was this mother in Delhi who was

there was this mother in Delhi who was

there was this mother in Delhi who was actually her daughter was struggling

actually her daughter was struggling

actually her daughter was struggling with mental pressure and they could not

with mental pressure and they could not

with mental pressure and they could not take her to a doctor in the compound

take her to a doctor in the compound

take her to a doctor in the compound because the society would know that she

because the society would know that she

because the society would know that she is actually having mental disorder boss

is actually having mental disorder boss

is actually having mental disorder boss that’s out of questions if you go to a

that’s out of questions if you go to a

that’s out of questions if you go to a counselor you already declared mentally

counselor you already declared mentally

counselor you already declared mentally ill and trust me

ill and trust me

ill and trust me it P person people have mental anxieties

it P person people have mental anxieties

it P person people have mental anxieties available every single point of time I

available every single point of time I

available every single point of time I can guarantee every single person in

can guarantee every single person in

can guarantee every single person in this room has had problems and he had

this room has had problems and he had

this room has had problems and he had nobody to go to right your parents would

nobody to go to right your parents would

nobody to go to right your parents would say you are anyway the best right and

say you are anyway the best right and

say you are anyway the best right and somebody else would probably say you are

somebody else would probably say you are

somebody else would probably say you are the worst there’s nobody to really tell

the worst there’s nobody to really tell

the worst there’s nobody to really tell you the right thing in this world there

you the right thing in this world there

you the right thing in this world there is somebody who’s there who’s knelt

is somebody who’s there who’s knelt

is somebody who’s there who’s knelt knowledgeable sensible being through the

knowledgeable sensible being through the

knowledgeable sensible being through the whole thing please take help from that

whole thing please take help from that

whole thing please take help from that person that’s very very important if

person that’s very very important if

person that’s very very important if you’re not willing to take health you

you’re not willing to take health you

you’re not willing to take health you will not get it just it’s okay it’s your

will not get it just it’s okay it’s your

will not get it just it’s okay it’s your life actually live it because if you

life actually live it because if you

life actually live it because if you can’t live it you’re the one who is

can’t live it you’re the one who is

can’t live it you’re the one who is going to die no all right so what’s the

going to die no all right so what’s the

going to die no all right so what’s the point of actually not living at all just

point of actually not living at all just

point of actually not living at all just go take out help it’s absolutely all

go take out help it’s absolutely all

go take out help it’s absolutely all right just let that happen and this is

right just let that happen and this is

right just let that happen and this is the best you know what I love failures I

the best you know what I love failures I

the best you know what I love failures I have lived through a life of failures

have lived through a life of failures

have lived through a life of failures I’ve enjoyed failures in my life and

I’ve enjoyed failures in my life and

I’ve enjoyed failures in my life and failures are the best teachers in this

failures are the best teachers in this

failures are the best teachers in this world we are taught not to fail I tell

world we are taught not to fail I tell

world we are taught not to fail I tell you I love every single student who

you I love every single student who

you I love every single student who fails and sale early fail fast and fail

fails and sale early fail fast and fail

fails and sale early fail fast and fail often the more you say the better you

often the more you say the better you

often the more you say the better you will do in your life I guarantee that

will do in your life I guarantee that

will do in your life I guarantee that you know when I

you know when I

you know when I turn back from London and I came back I

turn back from London and I came back I

turn back from London and I came back I retired and I came back to Jaipur I

retired and I came back to Jaipur I

retired and I came back to Jaipur I started my business and I lost a lot of

started my business and I lost a lot of

started my business and I lost a lot of money and everybody told me that you

money and everybody told me that you

money and everybody told me that you know you are the biggest fool on this

know you are the biggest fool on this

know you are the biggest fool on this earth right and I was really struggling

earth right and I was really struggling

earth right and I was really struggling with my life I was really thinking what

with my life I was really thinking what

with my life I was really thinking what have I done

have I done

have I done I was also going through medical process

I was also going through medical process

I was also going through medical process I was Abed for nine months lost business

I was Abed for nine months lost business

I was Abed for nine months lost business lost my career and I was really

lost my career and I was really

lost my career and I was really struggling and then things started

struggling and then things started

struggling and then things started happening and when things started

happening and when things started

happening and when things started happening things started happening

happening things started happening

happening things started happening fantastically well today I happen to

fantastically well today I happen to

fantastically well today I happen to have a lot of people liking me right I

have a lot of people liking me right I

have a lot of people liking me right I am this is my third TED talk now right

am this is my third TED talk now right

am this is my third TED talk now right and if that’s my third TED talk the same

and if that’s my third TED talk the same

and if that’s my third TED talk the same people who would come and tell me you

people who would come and tell me you

people who would come and tell me you are a failure they come and tell me this

are a failure they come and tell me this

are a failure they come and tell me this is the best decision that you could take

is the best decision that you could take

is the best decision that you could take in your life right

in your life right

in your life right failures are fantastic fail fail fail

failures are fantastic fail fail fail

failures are fantastic fail fail fail the more you say and the fast you fail

the more you say and the fast you fail

the more you say and the fast you fail the better you will do is my promise to

the better you will do is my promise to

the better you will do is my promise to you guys and then I have a question and

you guys and then I have a question and

you guys and then I have a question and that’s a very interesting question how

that’s a very interesting question how

that’s a very interesting question how many of you know the best pediatrician

many of you know the best pediatrician

many of you know the best pediatrician in the world who’s the best pediatrician

in the world who’s the best pediatrician

in the world who’s the best pediatrician in India congratulations

in India congratulations

in India congratulations who’s the best gynecologist who’s the

who’s the best gynecologist who’s the

who’s the best gynecologist who’s the best coder in the country best coder in

best coder in the country best coder in

best coder in the country best coder in the world congratulations you guys don’t

the world congratulations you guys don’t

the world congratulations you guys don’t know it I’ll tell you what who’s the

know it I’ll tell you what who’s the

know it I’ll tell you what who’s the best actor who’s the best actress who’s

best actor who’s the best actress who’s

best actor who’s the best actress who’s the best author who’s the most most

the best author who’s the most most

the best author who’s the most most famous politician

famous politician

famous politician who’s the best thing girl who’s the best

who’s the best thing girl who’s the best

who’s the best thing girl who’s the best writer we all know right I can see all

writer we all know right I can see all

writer we all know right I can see all happy smiling faces around and then you

happy smiling faces around and then you

happy smiling faces around and then you are pushing a child to be a pediatrician

are pushing a child to be a pediatrician

are pushing a child to be a pediatrician to be a gynecologist to be a coder do

to be a gynecologist to be a coder do

to be a gynecologist to be a coder do not become popular why be somebody who’s

not become popular why be somebody who’s

not become popular why be somebody who’s known so rather tell your kids tell

known so rather tell your kids tell

known so rather tell your kids tell yourself to be a painter to be an artist

yourself to be a painter to be an artist

yourself to be a painter to be an artist to be an alternate career guide to rock

to be an alternate career guide to rock

to be an alternate career guide to rock your life I do something amazing with

your life I do something amazing with

your life I do something amazing with your life right that’s exactly what you

your life right that’s exactly what you

your life right that’s exactly what you have to start doing don’t worry about oh

have to start doing don’t worry about oh

have to start doing don’t worry about oh I have to become an engineer and do what

I have to become an engineer and do what

I have to become an engineer and do what and actually get lost in this whole

and actually get lost in this whole

and actually get lost in this whole world you’d rather be a politician and

world you’d rather be a politician and

world you’d rather be a politician and probably shine and rock like a rock star

probably shine and rock like a rock star

probably shine and rock like a rock star it’s a great option actually let do that

it’s a great option actually let do that

it’s a great option actually let do that do that for everybody that you know in

do that for everybody that you know in

do that for everybody that you know in your life please allow alternate careers

your life please allow alternate careers

your life please allow alternate careers in this world and then have patience

in this world and then have patience

in this world and then have patience I’ll give you a very classic example of

I’ll give you a very classic example of

I’ll give you a very classic example of this entrepreneurs are amazing I love

this entrepreneurs are amazing I love

this entrepreneurs are amazing I love entrepreneurs I’ll tell you why I took a

entrepreneurs I’ll tell you why I took a

entrepreneurs I’ll tell you why I took a retirement decision at the age of 30 32

retirement decision at the age of 30 32

retirement decision at the age of 30 32 and I thought oh five years of struggle

and I thought oh five years of struggle

and I thought oh five years of struggle and that’s going to be very difficult

and that’s going to be very difficult

and that’s going to be very difficult for me why is the struggle fantastic now

for me why is the struggle fantastic now

for me why is the struggle fantastic now imagine a regular employee will work

imagine a regular employee will work

imagine a regular employee will work till what age 60 years you know what

till what age 60 years you know what

till what age 60 years you know what till what is I’ll work at least 75

till what is I’ll work at least 75

till what is I’ll work at least 75 unless something happens to me I get 15

unless something happens to me I get 15

unless something happens to me I get 15 years extra 10-yards net patients and

years extra 10-yards net patients and

years extra 10-yards net patients and it’s actually good to be rich at an old

it’s actually good to be rich at an old

it’s actually good to be rich at an old age rather than being rich early right

age rather than being rich early right

age rather than being rich early right when you’re or then you need all the

when you’re or then you need all the

when you’re or then you need all the nurses around you and you want to live a

nurses around you and you want to live a

nurses around you and you want to live a good life and that’s exactly what you

good life and that’s exactly what you

good life and that’s exactly what you want be patient be nice be humble be

want be patient be nice be humble be

want be patient be nice be humble be polite and then please know the people

polite and then please know the people

polite and then please know the people who care for you just go to them if you

who care for you just go to them if you

who care for you just go to them if you are really struggling just understand

are really struggling just understand

are really struggling just understand there are only three four five people in

there are only three four five people in

there are only three four five people in this world who care for you

this world who care for you

this world who care for you number one parents I applaud to all the

number one parents I applaud to all the

number one parents I applaud to all the all the parents who actually take care

all the parents who actually take care

all the parents who actually take care of us I really respect them I love them

of us I really respect them I love them

of us I really respect them I love them they are the only ones who love you

they are the only ones who love you

they are the only ones who love you irrespective of anything that she do in

irrespective of anything that she do in

irrespective of anything that she do in this world okay your brothers and sister

this world okay your brothers and sister

this world okay your brothers and sister unless you quarrel with them so be nice

unless you quarrel with them so be nice

unless you quarrel with them so be nice to them your best friend one or two

to them your best friend one or two

to them your best friend one or two maximum trust me and there’s one more

maximum trust me and there’s one more

maximum trust me and there’s one more your mentors and teachers right trust me

your mentors and teachers right trust me

your mentors and teachers right trust me their success depends on your success

their success depends on your success

their success depends on your success and if their success depends on your

and if their success depends on your

and if their success depends on your success

success

success they’ll always wish good for you

they’ll always wish good for you

they’ll always wish good for you everybody else is not there to wish good

everybody else is not there to wish good

everybody else is not there to wish good for you don’t go to anybody else all

for you don’t go to anybody else all

for you don’t go to anybody else all right if you are in any trouble in this

right if you are in any trouble in this

right if you are in any trouble in this world go to these five people that’s

world go to these five people that’s

world go to these five people that’s about it they’ll be the people who will

about it they’ll be the people who will

about it they’ll be the people who will be there to support you help you guide

be there to support you help you guide

be there to support you help you guide you at every single point any time and

you at every single point any time and

you at every single point any time and this is my last please understand we are

this is my last please understand we are

this is my last please understand we are not human resources we are humans stop

not human resources we are humans stop

not human resources we are humans stop calling people human resources right we

calling people human resources right we

calling people human resources right we are not machines that’s exactly what a

are not machines that’s exactly what a

are not machines that’s exactly what a company does they say you are an human

company does they say you are an human

company does they say you are an human resource I am NOT a resource I’m an

resource I am NOT a resource I’m an

resource I am NOT a resource I’m an individual who has a life who wants to

individual who has a life who wants to

individual who has a life who wants to live who wants to do some

live who wants to do some

live who wants to do some great in this world I’m an individual

great in this world I’m an individual

great in this world I’m an individual start spreading the message of love

start spreading the message of love

start spreading the message of love please start helping people the moment

please start helping people the moment

please start helping people the moment you help somebody the health will come

you help somebody the health will come

you help somebody the health will come back to you people who love you back

back to you people who love you back

back to you people who love you back give to give back get back and I think

give to give back get back and I think

give to give back get back and I think that’s the only message I’m gonna end

that’s the only message I’m gonna end

that’s the only message I’m gonna end with thank you so much

with thank you so much

with thank you so much [Applause]

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