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Height, Hype, and Huge Hopes | Samuel Abrams | TEDxMaysHighSchool


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imagine yourself just four foot nine in

imagine yourself just four foot nine in a world of giants where whatever you

a world of giants where whatever you

a world of giants where whatever you think about going you’re afraid of being

think about going you’re afraid of being

think about going you’re afraid of being stepped on or whenever you think about

stepped on or whenever you think about

stepped on or whenever you think about talking to someone you’re afraid of

talking to someone you’re afraid of

talking to someone you’re afraid of being talked about or whenever you think

being talked about or whenever you think

being talked about or whenever you think about talking to a girl that’s really

about talking to a girl that’s really

about talking to a girl that’s really really pretty you’re afraid of rejection

really pretty you’re afraid of rejection

really pretty you’re afraid of rejection every time you might not think about it

every time you might not think about it

every time you might not think about it like this but height affects all aspects

like this but height affects all aspects

like this but height affects all aspects of your life whether it’s your social

of your life whether it’s your social

of your life whether it’s your social life your relationships or even your

life your relationships or even your

life your relationships or even your sports and athletics when it comes to

sports and athletics when it comes to

sports and athletics when it comes to your social life it feels like you

your social life it feels like you

your social life it feels like you aren’t welcome it feels like you’re in

aren’t welcome it feels like you’re in

aren’t welcome it feels like you’re in an oily little bug that won’t stay out

an oily little bug that won’t stay out

an oily little bug that won’t stay out of their ear and won’t leave them alone

yeah it hurts inside and every day in

yeah it hurts inside and every day in the hallway a different person will say

the hallway a different person will say

the hallway a different person will say Oh Sam you’re so short Sam you’re so

Oh Sam you’re so short Sam you’re so

Oh Sam you’re so short Sam you’re so small Sam you haven’t grown since middle

small Sam you haven’t grown since middle

small Sam you haven’t grown since middle school when are you gonna grow and this

school when are you gonna grow and this

school when are you gonna grow and this is always happen to me where I’ve been

is always happen to me where I’ve been

is always happen to me where I’ve been made fun of my height or I’ve always

made fun of my height or I’ve always

made fun of my height or I’ve always looked younger than my age my younger

looked younger than my age my younger

looked younger than my age my younger brother my he’s two years younger than

brother my he’s two years younger than

brother my he’s two years younger than me younger than me I have to look up to

me younger than me I have to look up to

me younger than me I have to look up to him

him

him holiday me and every time we got in

holiday me and every time we got in

holiday me and every time we got in public they would think he’s older I

public they would think he’s older I

public they would think he’s older I have to say I’m older I’m older than him

have to say I’m older I’m older than him

have to say I’m older I’m older than him I’m the older brother so one time I was

I’m the older brother so one time I was

I’m the older brother so one time I was at a basketball game I wasn’t dressed up

at a basketball game I wasn’t dressed up

at a basketball game I wasn’t dressed up or anything because I wasn’t playing

or anything because I wasn’t playing

or anything because I wasn’t playing that game but I’ll sit on the bench and

that game but I’ll sit on the bench and

that game but I’ll sit on the bench and there was a girl in the stands and she

there was a girl in the stands and she

there was a girl in the stands and she said L oh boy

are you in eighth grade I didn’t I

are you in eighth grade I didn’t I wasn’t really listening at the time but

wasn’t really listening at the time but

wasn’t really listening at the time but I finally realized what she said after

I finally realized what she said after

I finally realized what she said after the game and I thought people really

the game and I thought people really

the game and I thought people really think that I’m just a little kid and I’m

think that I’m just a little kid and I’m

think that I’m just a little kid and I’m a junior in high school I think that I

a junior in high school I think that I

a junior in high school I think that I speak for all of the short boys out

speak for all of the short boys out

speak for all of the short boys out there that are scared to talk to girls I

there that are scared to talk to girls I

there that are scared to talk to girls I mean I can talk to a girl like just

mean I can talk to a girl like just

mean I can talk to a girl like just having one-on-one conversation with them

having one-on-one conversation with them

having one-on-one conversation with them it’s no big deal

it’s no big deal

it’s no big deal it’s taking it to the next level that

it’s taking it to the next level that

it’s taking it to the next level that we’re scared of we’re scared of being

we’re scared of we’re scared of being

we’re scared of we’re scared of being shut down so quick we’re scared of being

shut down so quick we’re scared of being

shut down so quick we’re scared of being rejection it scared of being rejected

rejection it scared of being rejected

rejection it scared of being rejected because of how tall we are we shouldn’t

because of how tall we are we shouldn’t

because of how tall we are we shouldn’t be punished for things that we can’t

be punished for things that we can’t

be punished for things that we can’t control so I was in the class with this

control so I was in the class with this

control so I was in the class with this girl and I had liked her but she was

girl and I had liked her but she was

girl and I had liked her but she was significantly taller than me

so I knew that I had no chance at all so

so I knew that I had no chance at all so I kept thinking Sam don’t do it she’s

I kept thinking Sam don’t do it she’s

I kept thinking Sam don’t do it she’s gonna say no but all my friends they

gonna say no but all my friends they

gonna say no but all my friends they would just say Sam said she’s gonna say

would just say Sam said she’s gonna say

would just say Sam said she’s gonna say yes she won’t care how tall you are

so I’m having mixed emotions about what

so I’m having mixed emotions about what I should say to this girl so the next

I should say to this girl so the next

I should say to this girl so the next day I walk into class she sent by

day I walk into class she sent by

day I walk into class she sent by herself Sam you could do this then I

herself Sam you could do this then I

herself Sam you could do this then I said no I can’t

said no I can’t

said no I can’t I look at my friends they’re giving me

I look at my friends they’re giving me

I look at my friends they’re giving me thumbs up they’re giving me the green

thumbs up they’re giving me the green

thumbs up they’re giving me the green light to go and do this I walked over to

light to go and do this I walked over to

light to go and do this I walked over to her I forgot what I said but it wasn’t

her I forgot what I said but it wasn’t

her I forgot what I said but it wasn’t how I wanted it to be

how I wanted it to be

how I wanted it to be she said Sam you’re not tall enough I

she said Sam you’re not tall enough I

she said Sam you’re not tall enough I was heartbroken I was hurt I don’t want

was heartbroken I was hurt I don’t want

was heartbroken I was hurt I don’t want to talk to anybody else for the rest of

to talk to anybody else for the rest of

to talk to anybody else for the rest of the day not my friends my teachers my

the day not my friends my teachers my

the day not my friends my teachers my parents my brothers nobody and I don’t

parents my brothers nobody and I don’t

parents my brothers nobody and I don’t see what all the hype is about tall

see what all the hype is about tall

see what all the hype is about tall people when tall people just look down

people when tall people just look down

people when tall people just look down but short people we always looking up

because height doesn’t affect my success

because height doesn’t affect my success it didn’t affect spur well five seven

it didn’t affect spur well five seven

it didn’t affect spur well five seven slam dunk champion

slam dunk champion

slam dunk champion it didn’t affect Kevin Hart probably one

it didn’t affect Kevin Hart probably one

it didn’t affect Kevin Hart probably one of the best comedians in the world

of the best comedians in the world

of the best comedians in the world it didn’t affect Napoleon Bonapart a

it didn’t affect Napoleon Bonapart a

it didn’t affect Napoleon Bonapart a French conqueror who conquered several

French conqueror who conquered several

French conqueror who conquered several countries on the planet because of their

countries on the planet because of their

countries on the planet because of their success I have a dream that one day I

success I have a dream that one day I

success I have a dream that one day I will wake up in a world where I am no

will wake up in a world where I am no

will wake up in a world where I am no longer judged by my height but the

longer judged by my height but the

longer judged by my height but the content of my character thank you

content of my character thank you

content of my character thank you [Applause]

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