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hi everybody this is uh this is my son

hi everybody this is uh this is my son Jayden and before we get started

Jayden and before we get started

Jayden and before we get started Jayden is going to say a quick hello to

Jayden is going to say a quick hello to

Jayden is going to say a quick hello to you all and when he does you have to

you all and when he does you have to

you all and when he does you have to applaud for him so now Jaden’s gonna

applaud for him so now Jaden’s gonna

applaud for him so now Jaden’s gonna help me out a bit today he’s gonna be my

help me out a bit today he’s gonna be my

help me out a bit today he’s gonna be my my page turner here and we practiced

my page turner here and we practiced

my page turner here and we practiced this talked several times together so

this talked several times together so

this talked several times together so that so that he can follow along like

that so that he can follow along like

that so that he can follow along like most people with autism Jayden is a very

most people with autism Jayden is a very

most people with autism Jayden is a very concrete thinker he can write but he

concrete thinker he can write but he

concrete thinker he can write but he largely thinks and communicates in nouns

largely thinks and communicates in nouns

largely thinks and communicates in nouns he loves basic order and structure and

he loves basic order and structure and

he loves basic order and structure and he also loves to hear stories about his

he also loves to hear stories about his

he also loves to hear stories about his life he doesn’t talk but based on his

life he doesn’t talk but based on his

life he doesn’t talk but based on his response to these stories we all have a

response to these stories we all have a

response to these stories we all have a pretty good idea what he understands if

pretty good idea what he understands if

pretty good idea what he understands if I tell you right now about his love for

I tell you right now about his love for

I tell you right now about his love for dogs or ice cream or skittles he’s very

dogs or ice cream or skittles he’s very

dogs or ice cream or skittles he’s very happy obviously and I’m pretty sure he’s

happy obviously and I’m pretty sure he’s

happy obviously and I’m pretty sure he’s his senses are kicking into gear as he

his senses are kicking into gear as he

his senses are kicking into gear as he smells or pictures or feels those things

smells or pictures or feels those things

smells or pictures or feels those things in his mind when things are a little bit

in his mind when things are a little bit

in his mind when things are a little bit more abstract like emotions pain or

more abstract like emotions pain or

more abstract like emotions pain or danger Jaden struggles to understand his

danger Jaden struggles to understand his

danger Jaden struggles to understand his expression of feeling is incredibly

expression of feeling is incredibly

expression of feeling is incredibly honest he’ll smile or giggle when he’s

honest he’ll smile or giggle when he’s

honest he’ll smile or giggle when he’s happy but when he’s sad he’ll cry and

happy but when he’s sad he’ll cry and

happy but when he’s sad he’ll cry and when he’s anxious he’ll get very tense

when he’s anxious he’ll get very tense

when he’s anxious he’ll get very tense or shaky when he’s sick it’s a very hard

or shaky when he’s sick it’s a very hard

or shaky when he’s sick it’s a very hard to to tell unless you read his skin tone

to to tell unless you read his skin tone

to to tell unless you read his skin tone watch his eyes really read his mane and

watch his eyes really read his mane and

watch his eyes really read his mane and mannerisms to try to understand what it

mannerisms to try to understand what it

mannerisms to try to understand what it is that’s going on inside him they con

is that’s going on inside him they con

is that’s going on inside him they con the concept of danger is particularly

the concept of danger is particularly

the concept of danger is particularly elusive for Jaden his obsession with

elusive for Jaden his obsession with

elusive for Jaden his obsession with dogs means that if he sees a strange pit

dogs means that if he sees a strange pit

dogs means that if he sees a strange pit bull or a German Shepherd he’ll get

bull or a German Shepherd he’ll get

bull or a German Shepherd he’ll get super excited and he’ll run up to them

super excited and he’ll run up to them

super excited and he’ll run up to them usually squealing very loudly his senses

usually squealing very loudly his senses

usually squealing very loudly his senses are keenly attracted to the smell of the

are keenly attracted to the smell of the

are keenly attracted to the smell of the dog’s breath and the feeling of its

dog’s breath and the feeling of its

dog’s breath and the feeling of its tongue so he’ll immediately go nose to

tongue so he’ll immediately go nose to

tongue so he’ll immediately go nose to nose with them and he loves the feel of

nose with them and he loves the feel of

nose with them and he loves the feel of the squishiest parts of the dog

the squishiest parts of the dog

the squishiest parts of the dog so he’ll squeeze them very very hard

so he’ll squeeze them very very hard

so he’ll squeeze them very very hard obviously quite dangerous traffic is

obviously quite dangerous traffic is

obviously quite dangerous traffic is also a challenge for Jade

also a challenge for Jade

also a challenge for Jade you can teach him to look both ways but

you can teach him to look both ways but

you can teach him to look both ways but it’s just a routine for him he has real

it’s just a routine for him he has real

it’s just a routine for him he has real real trouble trying to figure out when

real trouble trying to figure out when

real trouble trying to figure out when it’s safer when it’s not safe to cross

it’s safer when it’s not safe to cross

it’s safer when it’s not safe to cross those are things that are just too

those are things that are just too

those are things that are just too abstract for him to understand now

abstract for him to understand now

abstract for him to understand now today’s theme is autism and innovation

today’s theme is autism and innovation

today’s theme is autism and innovation and innovation I’m going to talk about

and innovation I’m going to talk about

and innovation I’m going to talk about today is a bit different it’s innovation

today is a bit different it’s innovation

today is a bit different it’s innovation in the way that we think about the

in the way that we think about the

in the way that we think about the people around us all around us at a

people around us all around us at a

people around us all around us at a global level and I’m going to use a

global level and I’m going to use a

global level and I’m going to use a seemingly unrelated yet very familiar

seemingly unrelated yet very familiar

seemingly unrelated yet very familiar event from the past to help us frame

event from the past to help us frame

event from the past to help us frame that thinking on September 12th 1962

that thinking on September 12th 1962

that thinking on September 12th 1962 President John F Kennedy delivered a

President John F Kennedy delivered a

President John F Kennedy delivered a speech to a crowd of 35,000 people at

speech to a crowd of 35,000 people at

speech to a crowd of 35,000 people at Rice football stadium in that speech he

Rice football stadium in that speech he

Rice football stadium in that speech he said these words we choose to go to the

said these words we choose to go to the

said these words we choose to go to the moon in this decade and do the other

moon in this decade and do the other

moon in this decade and do the other things not because they are easy but

things not because they are easy but

things not because they are easy but because they are hard because that goal

because they are hard because that goal

because they are hard because that goal will serve to organize and measure the

will serve to organize and measure the

will serve to organize and measure the best of our energies and skills because

best of our energies and skills because

best of our energies and skills because that challenge is one that we are

that challenge is one that we are

that challenge is one that we are willing to accept one we are unwilling

willing to accept one we are unwilling

willing to accept one we are unwilling to postpone and one we intend to win of

to postpone and one we intend to win of

to postpone and one we intend to win of course we know that in 1969 man did

course we know that in 1969 man did

course we know that in 1969 man did reach the moon something seemingly

reach the moon something seemingly

reach the moon something seemingly impossible less than a decade earlier

impossible less than a decade earlier

impossible less than a decade earlier and quite honestly hard to imagine even

and quite honestly hard to imagine even

and quite honestly hard to imagine even today but in challenging his country to

today but in challenging his country to

today but in challenging his country to reach the unreachable Kennedy’s vision

reach the unreachable Kennedy’s vision

reach the unreachable Kennedy’s vision led to innumerable other inventions that

led to innumerable other inventions that

led to innumerable other inventions that we take for granted in our lives today

we take for granted in our lives today

we take for granted in our lives today things like CT scans shoe insoles

things like CT scans shoe insoles

things like CT scans shoe insoles cordless tools artificial limbs smoke

cordless tools artificial limbs smoke

cordless tools artificial limbs smoke detectors and ear thermometers are

detectors and ear thermometers are

detectors and ear thermometers are things that have come out over the years

things that have come out over the years

things that have come out over the years through the exploration of space and led

through the exploration of space and led

through the exploration of space and led to the development of those things

to the development of those things

to the development of those things Kennedy’s vision of landing a man on the

Kennedy’s vision of landing a man on the

Kennedy’s vision of landing a man on the moon provides us a wonderful metaphor

moon provides us a wonderful metaphor

moon provides us a wonderful metaphor for what’s going on in the world of

for what’s going on in the world of

for what’s going on in the world of international development today in 2015

international development today in 2015

international development today in 2015 the world came together around what’s

the world came together around what’s

the world came together around what’s called the sustainable development goals

called the sustainable development goals

called the sustainable development goals or SDGs these 17 goals seek to mobilize

or SDGs these 17 goals seek to mobilize

or SDGs these 17 goals seek to mobilize efforts to end all forms of poverty and

efforts to end all forms of poverty and

efforts to end all forms of poverty and inequality ensuring no one is left

inequality ensuring no one is left

inequality ensuring no one is left behind like the lunar mission the SDGs

behind like the lunar mission the SDGs

behind like the lunar mission the SDGs have a timeline to meet the goals by

have a timeline to meet the goals by

have a timeline to meet the goals by 2030 and these goals will all

2030 and these goals will all

2030 and these goals will all so serve to organize and measure the

so serve to organize and measure the

so serve to organize and measure the best of our energies and skills the

best of our energies and skills the

best of our energies and skills the world’s language around the SDGs is very

world’s language around the SDGs is very

world’s language around the SDGs is very consistent with Kennedy’s challenge we

consistent with Kennedy’s challenge we

consistent with Kennedy’s challenge we are willing to accept unwilling to

are willing to accept unwilling to

are willing to accept unwilling to postpone and intend to win

postpone and intend to win

postpone and intend to win but what I want to zero in on today is

but what I want to zero in on today is

but what I want to zero in on today is the is the reason Kennedy chose his

the is the reason Kennedy chose his

the is the reason Kennedy chose his goals not because they are easy but

goals not because they are easy but

goals not because they are easy but because they are hard

because they are hard

because they are hard in 1962 the moon seemed nearly

in 1962 the moon seemed nearly

in 1962 the moon seemed nearly unreachable today in the International

unreachable today in the International

unreachable today in the International Development world there’s a common

Development world there’s a common

Development world there’s a common consensus that we also need to focus on

consensus that we also need to focus on

consensus that we also need to focus on the hardest to reach or the most

the hardest to reach or the most

the hardest to reach or the most vulnerable there’s much discussion about

vulnerable there’s much discussion about

vulnerable there’s much discussion about whom those most vulnerable are for

whom those most vulnerable are for

whom those most vulnerable are for example some might think of a young boy

example some might think of a young boy

example some might think of a young boy in a refugee camp in Syria overcrowded

in a refugee camp in Syria overcrowded

in a refugee camp in Syria overcrowded and lacking security and the basic

and lacking security and the basic

and lacking security and the basic necessities of life others might

necessities of life others might

necessities of life others might envision a young teenage girl in rural

envision a young teenage girl in rural

envision a young teenage girl in rural Africa where early forced marriage is

Africa where early forced marriage is

Africa where early forced marriage is common and many girls are not allowed

common and many girls are not allowed

common and many girls are not allowed even a pup even a primary education both

even a pup even a primary education both

even a pup even a primary education both are obviously extremely difficult

are obviously extremely difficult

are obviously extremely difficult circumstances but let’s think about

circumstances but let’s think about

circumstances but let’s think about these situations for a moment what if on

these situations for a moment what if on

these situations for a moment what if on top of these difficult circumstances or

top of these difficult circumstances or

top of these difficult circumstances or virtually any other you can imagine you

virtually any other you can imagine you

virtually any other you can imagine you were to add autism to the mix what would

were to add autism to the mix what would

were to add autism to the mix what would that mean to the nine-year-old boy in a

that mean to the nine-year-old boy in a

that mean to the nine-year-old boy in a refugee camp I think about Jaden when he

refugee camp I think about Jaden when he

refugee camp I think about Jaden when he was nine one time we were at an Edmonton

was nine one time we were at an Edmonton

was nine one time we were at an Edmonton Oilers Edmonton Oilers hockey game you

Oilers Edmonton Oilers hockey game you

Oilers Edmonton Oilers hockey game you remember this yeah the type of fun event

remember this yeah the type of fun event

remember this yeah the type of fun event that many of us take for granted in

that many of us take for granted in

that many of us take for granted in North America and we were sitting in the

North America and we were sitting in the

North America and we were sitting in the seats and suddenly Jaden giggles and

seats and suddenly Jaden giggles and

seats and suddenly Jaden giggles and squeals and I know something’s on his

squeals and I know something’s on his

squeals and I know something’s on his mind and without warning he reaches over

mind and without warning he reaches over

mind and without warning he reaches over the shoulder of the five year old girl

the shoulder of the five year old girl

the shoulder of the five year old girl in front of him and he grabs the ice

in front of him and he grabs the ice

in front of him and he grabs the ice cream right off the top of her cone and

cream right off the top of her cone and

cream right off the top of her cone and he holds it like you’d hold a snowball

he holds it like you’d hold a snowball

he holds it like you’d hold a snowball and he starts to eat it with all the ice

and he starts to eat it with all the ice

and he starts to eat it with all the ice cream dribbles through his fingers and

cream dribbles through his fingers and

cream dribbles through his fingers and of course I quickly say to the data you

of course I quickly say to the data you

of course I quickly say to the data you know whisper that he has autism and of

know whisper that he has autism and of

know whisper that he has autism and of course the dad understands right away

course the dad understands right away

course the dad understands right away the five-year-old girl did not

the five-year-old girl did not

the five-year-old girl did not understand at all

understand at all

understand at all but we got her some more ice cream in

but we got her some more ice cream in

but we got her some more ice cream in the intermission and everything was okay

the intermission and everything was okay

the intermission and everything was okay another time we were at McDonald’s West

another time we were at McDonald’s West

another time we were at McDonald’s West Edmonton Mall the busiest McDonald’s

Edmonton Mall the busiest McDonald’s

Edmonton Mall the busiest McDonald’s probably in the world between Christmas

probably in the world between Christmas

probably in the world between Christmas and New Year’s and I had my hands full

and New Year’s and I had my hands full

and New Year’s and I had my hands full so I couldn’t hold Jaden’s hand and like

so I couldn’t hold Jaden’s hand and like

so I couldn’t hold Jaden’s hand and like I normally do you remember this and

I normally do you remember this and

I normally do you remember this and suddenly he gets that same squeal that

suddenly he gets that same squeal that

suddenly he gets that same squeal that same excited squeal and he runs back to

same excited squeal and he runs back to

same excited squeal and he runs back to the counter and I I know I’m in trouble

the counter and I I know I’m in trouble

the counter and I I know I’m in trouble at this point and he when he gets to the

at this point and he when he gets to the

at this point and he when he gets to the counter he reaches into the bin where

counter he reaches into the bin where

counter he reaches into the bin where they hold the crush Smarties for the

they hold the crush Smarties for the

they hold the crush Smarties for the McFlurry z– and he grabs a handful of

McFlurry z– and he grabs a handful of

McFlurry z– and he grabs a handful of crushed Smarties and he shoves them in

crushed Smarties and he shoves them in

crushed Smarties and he shoves them in his face and he has the biggest smile

his face and he has the biggest smile

his face and he has the biggest smile you’ve ever seen now these stories are

you’ve ever seen now these stories are

you’ve ever seen now these stories are kind of funny and because we live in a

kind of funny and because we live in a

kind of funny and because we live in a part of the world where there’s a decent

part of the world where there’s a decent

part of the world where there’s a decent understanding of autism with a quick

understanding of autism with a quick

understanding of autism with a quick explanation everybody chuckles and we we

explanation everybody chuckles and we we

explanation everybody chuckles and we we just move on with our lives but imagine

just move on with our lives but imagine

just move on with our lives but imagine you have to get the train there you go

you have to get the train there you go

you have to get the train there you go but imagine instead a boy like Jayden

but imagine instead a boy like Jayden

but imagine instead a boy like Jayden living in a crowded refugee camp with

living in a crowded refugee camp with

living in a crowded refugee camp with tensions high and everyone struggling

tensions high and everyone struggling

tensions high and everyone struggling just to survive imagine that instead of

just to survive imagine that instead of

just to survive imagine that instead of understanding autism as a complex

understanding autism as a complex

understanding autism as a complex neurological disorder it’s viewed with

neurological disorder it’s viewed with

neurological disorder it’s viewed with the stigma of some sort of curse or the

the stigma of some sort of curse or the

the stigma of some sort of curse or the result of bad parenting this boy who

result of bad parenting this boy who

result of bad parenting this boy who looks like any other boy runs up

looks like any other boy runs up

looks like any other boy runs up suddenly shrieking startlingly and grabs

suddenly shrieking startlingly and grabs

suddenly shrieking startlingly and grabs food out of a five-year-olds hand and

food out of a five-year-olds hand and

food out of a five-year-olds hand and immediately consumes it possibly the

immediately consumes it possibly the

immediately consumes it possibly the first food that child’s had in days

first food that child’s had in days

first food that child’s had in days how would that end for that boy with

how would that end for that boy with

how would that end for that boy with autism now let’s consider the 13-year

autism now let’s consider the 13-year

autism now let’s consider the 13-year old girl in rural Africa there are many

old girl in rural Africa there are many

old girl in rural Africa there are many reasons why girls in parts of rural

reasons why girls in parts of rural

reasons why girls in parts of rural Africa and much of the developing world

Africa and much of the developing world

Africa and much of the developing world are vulnerable to start with all too

are vulnerable to start with all too

are vulnerable to start with all too often at just 13 girls have been denied

often at just 13 girls have been denied

often at just 13 girls have been denied even a basic education forced to marry

even a basic education forced to marry

even a basic education forced to marry men many years older or been sexually

men many years older or been sexually

men many years older or been sexually exploited in other ways but now imagine

exploited in other ways but now imagine

exploited in other ways but now imagine a 13 year old girl living with autism on

a 13 year old girl living with autism on

a 13 year old girl living with autism on top of all of that people with autism

top of all of that people with autism

top of all of that people with autism may or may not like strangers to the

may or may not like strangers to the

may or may not like strangers to the extreme but one thing very common is a

extreme but one thing very common is a

extreme but one thing very common is a difficulty in reading situations

difficulty in reading situations

difficulty in reading situations comprehending something as abstract as

comprehending something as abstract as

comprehending something as abstract as human interaction or intention people

human interaction or intention people

human interaction or intention people with autism can be very trusting whether

with autism can be very trusting whether

with autism can be very trusting whether they know you or not how much more would

they know you or not how much more would

they know you or not how much more would this

this

this girl suffer from her lack of education

girl suffer from her lack of education

girl suffer from her lack of education how much more vulnerable would she be to

how much more vulnerable would she be to

how much more vulnerable would she be to those who would take advantage of her or

those who would take advantage of her or

those who would take advantage of her or are more exposed to danger in a world

are more exposed to danger in a world

are more exposed to danger in a world devoid of the safety standards we’re

devoid of the safety standards we’re

devoid of the safety standards we’re accustomed to in our lives now one of

accustomed to in our lives now one of

accustomed to in our lives now one of the things I always try to avoid is an

the things I always try to avoid is an

the things I always try to avoid is an endless debate about who in the world is

endless debate about who in the world is

endless debate about who in the world is the most vulnerable or likely to be left

the most vulnerable or likely to be left

the most vulnerable or likely to be left behind

behind

behind vulnerability has many forms and there

vulnerability has many forms and there

vulnerability has many forms and there are many people around us even in this

are many people around us even in this

are many people around us even in this room who are vulnerable the things that

room who are vulnerable the things that

room who are vulnerable the things that may be invisible to the rest of us too

may be invisible to the rest of us too

may be invisible to the rest of us too often these types of debates impede our

often these types of debates impede our

often these types of debates impede our most important missions over half a

most important missions over half a

most important missions over half a century ago JFK could have gotten caught

century ago JFK could have gotten caught

century ago JFK could have gotten caught up in a debate about whether to invest

up in a debate about whether to invest

up in a debate about whether to invest in the lunar mission or instead invest

in the lunar mission or instead invest

in the lunar mission or instead invest in other smaller innovations that could

in other smaller innovations that could

in other smaller innovations that could change our lives like CT scans

change our lives like CT scans

change our lives like CT scans artificial limbs or thousands of other

artificial limbs or thousands of other

artificial limbs or thousands of other things instead by focusing on the thing

things instead by focusing on the thing

things instead by focusing on the thing hardest to reach his vision helped the

hardest to reach his vision helped the

hardest to reach his vision helped the world to discover so much more than we

world to discover so much more than we

world to discover so much more than we believed we were capable of we’re faced

believed we were capable of we’re faced

believed we were capable of we’re faced with a similar decision now at a global

with a similar decision now at a global

with a similar decision now at a global level if we can wire our hearts to reach

level if we can wire our hearts to reach

level if we can wire our hearts to reach every girl with autism or another

every girl with autism or another

every girl with autism or another developmental disability in rural Africa

developmental disability in rural Africa

developmental disability in rural Africa it will change the way we think about

it will change the way we think about

it will change the way we think about the rights and education of every girl

the rights and education of every girl

the rights and education of every girl in Africa or every girl in the world if

in Africa or every girl in the world if

in Africa or every girl in the world if we can find a way to reach that little

we can find a way to reach that little

we can find a way to reach that little boy with autism or another developmental

boy with autism or another developmental

boy with autism or another developmental disability in a refugee camp in Syria it

disability in a refugee camp in Syria it

disability in a refugee camp in Syria it will change the way we see all boys it

will change the way we see all boys it

will change the way we see all boys it will change the way we see all refugees

will change the way we see all refugees

will change the way we see all refugees too close I want to share it share a

too close I want to share it share a

too close I want to share it share a story about a trip that I took last year

story about a trip that I took last year

story about a trip that I took last year to Tanzania we were visiting a village

to Tanzania we were visiting a village

to Tanzania we were visiting a village where a group of teenage boys were

where a group of teenage boys were

where a group of teenage boys were mesmerized by my iPad I showed them a

mesmerized by my iPad I showed them a

mesmerized by my iPad I showed them a picture of my my daughter janae then 15

picture of my my daughter janae then 15

picture of my my daughter janae then 15 years old she’s nice one of them said in

years old she’s nice one of them said in

years old she’s nice one of them said in Swahili I agreed she is really nice then

Swahili I agreed she is really nice then

Swahili I agreed she is really nice then I showed them this picture of Jayden and

I showed them this picture of Jayden and

I showed them this picture of Jayden and explained that he has autism and what

explained that he has autism and what

explained that he has autism and what he’s like

he’s like

he’s like the boys listened intently and then the

the boys listened intently and then the

the boys listened intently and then the boy on the right with the black and

boy on the right with the black and

boy on the right with the black and yellow shirt looked me in the eye and

yellow shirt looked me in the eye and

yellow shirt looked me in the eye and said again in Swahili I like him

said again in Swahili I like him

said again in Swahili I like him he’s beautiful I’ll pray for him with

he’s beautiful I’ll pray for him with

he’s beautiful I’ll pray for him with just a little bit of understanding that

just a little bit of understanding that

just a little bit of understanding that 15 year-old boy’s heart became attached

15 year-old boy’s heart became attached

15 year-old boy’s heart became attached to a very special in a very special way

to a very special in a very special way

to a very special in a very special way to another young person with autism half

to another young person with autism half

to another young person with autism half a world away from him we are right now

a world away from him we are right now

a world away from him we are right now in the early stages of a global

in the early stages of a global

in the early stages of a global partnership to reach every person in the

partnership to reach every person in the

partnership to reach every person in the world living with autism in a way that

world living with autism in a way that

world living with autism in a way that will immediately improve their lives

will immediately improve their lives

will immediately improve their lives this will not be easy in fact it will be

this will not be easy in fact it will be

this will not be easy in fact it will be incredibly hard if we choose to do it

incredibly hard if we choose to do it

incredibly hard if we choose to do it this goal will serve to organize and

this goal will serve to organize and

this goal will serve to organize and measure the very best of our energies

measure the very best of our energies

measure the very best of our energies and skills

and skills

and skills if we accept it and embrace it it will

if we accept it and embrace it it will

if we accept it and embrace it it will change the world not only for people

change the world not only for people

change the world not only for people with autism but for every single one of

with autism but for every single one of

with autism but for every single one of us thank you so much for taking the time

us thank you so much for taking the time

us thank you so much for taking the time to listen to us today and as always I’m

to listen to us today and as always I’m

to listen to us today and as always I’m going to give Jayden last words

[Music]

[Music] [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] [Music]

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