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Greatness is a decision, but it’s okay, not to be okay | Jordan Nata’e | TEDxBakersfield


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greatness is a decision but it’s okay

greatness is a decision but it’s okay did not be okay on your journey to

did not be okay on your journey to

did not be okay on your journey to greatness when I was three years old I

greatness when I was three years old I

greatness when I was three years old I decided that I want to be a star that I

decided that I want to be a star that I

decided that I want to be a star that I want to be great I didn’t know how I was

want to be great I didn’t know how I was

want to be great I didn’t know how I was going to do it but I knew I was going to

going to do it but I knew I was going to

going to do it but I knew I was going to do it I wanted to be great and greatness

do it I wanted to be great and greatness

do it I wanted to be great and greatness as a decision so often people get lost

as a decision so often people get lost

as a decision so often people get lost in the notion that others are meant for

in the notion that others are meant for

in the notion that others are meant for greatness others were made for success

greatness others were made for success

greatness others were made for success and others have the opportunities that

and others have the opportunities that

and others have the opportunities that they themselves were never given I’ve

they themselves were never given I’ve

they themselves were never given I’ve come from a background that you would

come from a background that you would

come from a background that you would not imagine me dancing all over the

not imagine me dancing all over the

not imagine me dancing all over the world on So You Think You Can Dance when

world on So You Think You Can Dance when

world on So You Think You Can Dance when I was accepted on the show I was

I was accepted on the show I was

I was accepted on the show I was homeless and that’s not a foundation for

homeless and that’s not a foundation for

homeless and that’s not a foundation for greatness

greatness

greatness my mom and I traveled to the show we

my mom and I traveled to the show we

my mom and I traveled to the show we didn’t have enough money to actually be

didn’t have enough money to actually be

didn’t have enough money to actually be able to go but I put all my stress in a

able to go but I put all my stress in a

able to go but I put all my stress in a box and I refused to deal my reality

box and I refused to deal my reality

box and I refused to deal my reality because I made the decision to be great

because I made the decision to be great

because I made the decision to be great on my journey I realized that others

on my journey I realized that others

on my journey I realized that others aren’t special it doesn’t matter if you

aren’t special it doesn’t matter if you

aren’t special it doesn’t matter if you have rock star DNA or if you have

have rock star DNA or if you have

have rock star DNA or if you have special gene coats those who like myself

special gene coats those who like myself

special gene coats those who like myself are able to live a great life of

are able to live a great life of

are able to live a great life of greatness are able to experience life in

greatness are able to experience life in

greatness are able to experience life in what many would consider surreal ways

what many would consider surreal ways

what many would consider surreal ways are doing so because they made a

are doing so because they made a

are doing so because they made a decision even though my circumstances

decision even though my circumstances

decision even though my circumstances could have easily overwhelmed me and

could have easily overwhelmed me and

could have easily overwhelmed me and some days it did I made the decision to

some days it did I made the decision to

some days it did I made the decision to be great even when I wasn’t okay to be

be great even when I wasn’t okay to be

be great even when I wasn’t okay to be great you have to decide to be great no

great you have to decide to be great no

great you have to decide to be great no one becomes great by accident greatness

one becomes great by accident greatness

one becomes great by accident greatness requires time effort patience and

requires time effort patience and

requires time effort patience and strength but it begins with the decision

strength but it begins with the decision

strength but it begins with the decision to become great what’s that decisions

to become great what’s that decisions

to become great what’s that decisions made the game changes the hustle is

made the game changes the hustle is

made the game changes the hustle is different the determination the

different the determination the

different the determination the focus the willingness to make sacrifice

focus the willingness to make sacrifice

focus the willingness to make sacrifice I missed Christmas I didn’t have a lot

I missed Christmas I didn’t have a lot

I missed Christmas I didn’t have a lot of presents because my present was dance

of presents because my present was dance

of presents because my present was dance my sacrifices are the price I pay for

my sacrifices are the price I pay for

my sacrifices are the price I pay for dishes and I made to be great even if I

dishes and I made to be great even if I

dishes and I made to be great even if I was dancing with Debbie Allen or Chris

was dancing with Debbie Allen or Chris

was dancing with Debbie Allen or Chris Brown my journey dancing has been

Brown my journey dancing has been

Brown my journey dancing has been dreamlike the people I’ve met the places

dreamlike the people I’ve met the places

dreamlike the people I’ve met the places I have gone the dance opportunities the

I have gone the dance opportunities the

I have gone the dance opportunities the joy the pleasure the stress the days

joy the pleasure the stress the days

joy the pleasure the stress the days when I just wasn’t okay so I had to be

when I just wasn’t okay so I had to be

when I just wasn’t okay so I had to be okay when I wasn’t okay

okay when I wasn’t okay

okay when I wasn’t okay because experiences on my journey to

because experiences on my journey to

because experiences on my journey to greatness and my determination as molded

greatness and my determination as molded

greatness and my determination as molded me into the person who I worked like a

me into the person who I worked like a

me into the person who I worked like a champion and during like a queen I could

champion and during like a queen I could

champion and during like a queen I could taste my greatness and a bitter sweet

taste my greatness and a bitter sweet

taste my greatness and a bitter sweet savory flavor to be great you have to

savory flavor to be great you have to

savory flavor to be great you have to simply make a decision to stop listening

simply make a decision to stop listening

simply make a decision to stop listening to the junk in your head choose to

to the junk in your head choose to

to the junk in your head choose to continue with your journey even when it

continue with your journey even when it

continue with your journey even when it gets rocky in the storms crack your

gets rocky in the storms crack your

gets rocky in the storms crack your foundation you have to weather every

foundation you have to weather every

foundation you have to weather every storm every road bump and every obstacle

storm every road bump and every obstacle

storm every road bump and every obstacle will persistence consistency and

will persistence consistency and

will persistence consistency and dedication and anyone has the ability to

dedication and anyone has the ability to

dedication and anyone has the ability to make the choice but the thing is not

make the choice but the thing is not

make the choice but the thing is not everyone will it doesn’t matter if you

everyone will it doesn’t matter if you

everyone will it doesn’t matter if you have advanced education or advanced

have advanced education or advanced

have advanced education or advanced training when greatness is your standard

training when greatness is your standard

training when greatness is your standard you do everything to the best of your

you do everything to the best of your

you do everything to the best of your ability there’s no downside to the

ability there’s no downside to the

ability there’s no downside to the decision even when it seems like it is

decision even when it seems like it is

decision even when it seems like it is staying with the host family being away

staying with the host family being away

staying with the host family being away from my grandpa and my mom seems like a

from my grandpa and my mom seems like a

from my grandpa and my mom seems like a downside but I have the opportunity to

downside but I have the opportunity to

downside but I have the opportunity to attend one of the top performing arts

attend one of the top performing arts

attend one of the top performing arts schools in Los Angeles which will

schools in Los Angeles which will

schools in Los Angeles which will prepare me for better opportunities on

prepare me for better opportunities on

prepare me for better opportunities on my journey I made the decision to be

my journey I made the decision to be

my journey I made the decision to be great and I give my mom hugs and kisses

great and I give my mom hugs and kisses

great and I give my mom hugs and kisses when I see her on the weekends the world

when I see her on the weekends the world

when I see her on the weekends the world is full of people who accept mediocrity

is full of people who accept mediocrity

is full of people who accept mediocrity as their standard not deciding to be

as their standard not deciding to be

as their standard not deciding to be great puts you on the masses of just

great puts you on the masses of just

great puts you on the masses of just being average I was not born to be

being average I was not born to be

being average I was not born to be average it puts you on the easy road not

average it puts you on the easy road not

average it puts you on the easy road not the hard road choose the road to

the hard road choose the road to

the hard road choose the road to greatness even when it’s not ok with

greatness even when it’s not ok with

greatness even when it’s not ok with what it takes to get there to be great

what it takes to get there to be great

what it takes to get there to be great you have to decide to be happy happiness

you have to decide to be happy happiness

you have to decide to be happy happiness is a choice not a pursuit I say this

is a choice not a pursuit I say this

is a choice not a pursuit I say this because I personally know that to be

because I personally know that to be

because I personally know that to be true on this journey there are many days

true on this journey there are many days

true on this journey there are many days that I made the decision to be happy

that I made the decision to be happy

that I made the decision to be happy because at age 13 I had to be

because at age 13 I had to be

because at age 13 I had to be professional and I expect just

professional and I expect just

professional and I expect just expectations were placed on me to be

expectations were placed on me to be

expectations were placed on me to be happy the camera was rolling and there

happy the camera was rolling and there

happy the camera was rolling and there was no one to be sad

was no one to be sad

was no one to be sad Jeff Thacker producer of so you think he

Jeff Thacker producer of so you think he

Jeff Thacker producer of so you think he dance used to always say that you chose

dance used to always say that you chose

dance used to always say that you chose to be here so you should always be happy

to be here so you should always be happy

to be here so you should always be happy most people chase the things that they

most people chase the things that they

most people chase the things that they think will make them happy like a new

think will make them happy like a new

think will make them happy like a new phone or dance award or whatever they

phone or dance award or whatever they

phone or dance award or whatever they don’t realize happiness is a decision at

don’t realize happiness is a decision at

don’t realize happiness is a decision at any moment you can choose to be happy no

any moment you can choose to be happy no

any moment you can choose to be happy no matter what your circumstances are when

matter what your circumstances are when

matter what your circumstances are when I was being judged because I wasn’t a

I was being judged because I wasn’t a

I was being judged because I wasn’t a Nome dancer or I didn’t have the

Nome dancer or I didn’t have the

Nome dancer or I didn’t have the intention in like my other co-stars or

intention in like my other co-stars or

intention in like my other co-stars or even the

even the

even the that I wasn’t a popular person I could

that I wasn’t a popular person I could

that I wasn’t a popular person I could have been sad about those things but I

have been sad about those things but I

have been sad about those things but I made the decision to be great so I made

made the decision to be great so I made

made the decision to be great so I made the decision to be happy

the decision to be happy

the decision to be happy many things in my personal and

many things in my personal and

many things in my personal and professional life could have torn me

professional life could have torn me

professional life could have torn me down but I made the decision and my

down but I made the decision and my

down but I made the decision and my decision was to be great even when I was

decision was to be great even when I was

decision was to be great even when I was not okay I realized early on that my

not okay I realized early on that my

not okay I realized early on that my decisions are what created or prevented

decisions are what created or prevented

decisions are what created or prevented the outcome called happiness positive

the outcome called happiness positive

the outcome called happiness positive decisions lead to positive outcomes

decisions lead to positive outcomes

decisions lead to positive outcomes negative decisions lead to negative

negative decisions lead to negative

negative decisions lead to negative outcomes a positive mindset is

outcomes a positive mindset is

outcomes a positive mindset is foundational the positive decision

foundational the positive decision

foundational the positive decision making I chose to communicate positively

making I chose to communicate positively

making I chose to communicate positively with myself during my tough days on So

with myself during my tough days on So

with myself during my tough days on So You Think You Can Dance I had to act

You Think You Can Dance I had to act

You Think You Can Dance I had to act myself are you your greatest critic or

myself are you your greatest critic or

myself are you your greatest critic or are you you greatest cheerleader I made

are you you greatest cheerleader I made

are you you greatest cheerleader I made the decision to be happy which allowed

the decision to be happy which allowed

the decision to be happy which allowed me to be create create a positive outset

me to be create create a positive outset

me to be create create a positive outset for most times i unlock my greatness I

for most times i unlock my greatness I

for most times i unlock my greatness I talked to myself like a champion because

talked to myself like a champion because

talked to myself like a champion because I am a champion

life has not felt me the story but cars

life has not felt me the story but cars to play this thing called life but the

to play this thing called life but the

to play this thing called life but the cards I dealt don’t matter how I play

cards I dealt don’t matter how I play

cards I dealt don’t matter how I play the game is what counts to be great you

the game is what counts to be great you

the game is what counts to be great you have to decide to get coached we all

have to decide to get coached we all

have to decide to get coached we all know that having a mentor or coach we

know that having a mentor or coach we

know that having a mentor or coach we all have the opportunity to be better

all have the opportunity to be better

all have the opportunity to be better when we were yesterday by making the

when we were yesterday by making the

when we were yesterday by making the decision we get dealt coached being a

decision we get dealt coached being a

decision we get dealt coached being a coach or a mentor propels your greatness

coach or a mentor propels your greatness

coach or a mentor propels your greatness they hold you accountable to the

they hold you accountable to the

they hold you accountable to the commitment and empower you to move

commitment and empower you to move

commitment and empower you to move forward receiving coaching shortened

forward receiving coaching shortened

forward receiving coaching shortened your slurred learning curve by helping

your slurred learning curve by helping

your slurred learning curve by helping you avoid mistakes you would otherwise

you avoid mistakes you would otherwise

you avoid mistakes you would otherwise switch your time energy and resources

switch your time energy and resources

switch your time energy and resources making a coach will show you how to do

making a coach will show you how to do

making a coach will show you how to do things right dramatically improving your

things right dramatically improving your

things right dramatically improving your results in the shorter period of time

results in the shorter period of time

results in the shorter period of time with the guidance of having someone who

with the guidance of having someone who

with the guidance of having someone who has already traveled to path you are on

has already traveled to path you are on

has already traveled to path you are on you can accomplish in five years while

you can accomplish in five years while

you can accomplish in five years while others have accomplished in twenty

decide to be great even when you’re not

decide to be great even when you’re not okay greatness is not an event it is a

okay greatness is not an event it is a

okay greatness is not an event it is a process a series of small steps repeated

process a series of small steps repeated

process a series of small steps repeated daily improving yourself leads to

daily improving yourself leads to

daily improving yourself leads to greatness focus on improving every area

greatness focus on improving every area

greatness focus on improving every area of your life a little bit every day if

of your life a little bit every day if

of your life a little bit every day if you keep that consistent for long enough

you keep that consistent for long enough

you keep that consistent for long enough eventually you enjoy the greatness that

eventually you enjoy the greatness that

eventually you enjoy the greatness that is byproducts of sacrifice

is byproducts of sacrifice

is byproducts of sacrifice it’s constant and never-ending

it’s constant and never-ending

it’s constant and never-ending improvement join me on this journey to

improvement join me on this journey to

improvement join me on this journey to be great even when you’re not okay

be great even when you’re not okay

be great even when you’re not okay because it’s okay to not be okay when

because it’s okay to not be okay when

because it’s okay to not be okay when you are great

you are great

you are great [Applause]

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