you [Applause]
the society I am building loves a woman
the society I am building loves a woman who said yes to daydream but this life
who said yes to daydream but this life
who said yes to daydream but this life and challenges a woman who says yes to
and challenges a woman who says yes to
and challenges a woman who says yes to her dreams and then often say these
her dreams and then often say these
her dreams and then often say these girls today they want to study they want
girls today they want to study they want
girls today they want to study they want to work this was unheard of in our times
to work this was unheard of in our times
to work this was unheard of in our times these educated girls draped families
these educated girls draped families
these educated girls draped families they neglect the most important duty
they neglect the most important duty
they neglect the most important duty they ask why does she need to study more
they ask why does she need to study more
they ask why does she need to study more she has done her basics well why does
she has done her basics well why does
she has done her basics well why does she need to work it on her husband her
she need to work it on her husband her
she need to work it on her husband her father her son are there to support her
father her son are there to support her
father her son are there to support her why does she need an identity of her own
why does she need an identity of her own
why does she need an identity of her own she is the daughter of so-and-so the
she is the daughter of so-and-so the
she is the daughter of so-and-so the wife of so-and-so the mother of
wife of so-and-so the mother of
wife of so-and-so the mother of so-and-so and 23 a woman may say yes and
so-and-so and 23 a woman may say yes and
so-and-so and 23 a woman may say yes and find the man of her dreams all say yes
find the man of her dreams all say yes
find the man of her dreams all say yes to becoming the woman of her dreams she
to becoming the woman of her dreams she
to becoming the woman of her dreams she often has to choose what she’s told find
often has to choose what she’s told find
often has to choose what she’s told find the man of your dreams and then become
the man of your dreams and then become
the man of your dreams and then become the woman of your dreams
the woman of your dreams
the woman of your dreams Oh society’s dream now then the dilemma
Oh society’s dream now then the dilemma
Oh society’s dream now then the dilemma here what if I died while I was single
here what if I died while I was single
here what if I died while I was single and young like my neighbor and relative
and young like my neighbor and relative
and young like my neighbor and relative did what if I have none successful
did what if I have none successful
did what if I have none successful managed due to any reason like my friend
managed due to any reason like my friend
managed due to any reason like my friend did what is the person I love dies like
did what is the person I love dies like
did what is the person I love dies like my grandfather passed away leaving my
my grandfather passed away leaving my
my grandfather passed away leaving my grandmother in great misery do I have no
grandmother in great misery do I have no
grandmother in great misery do I have no purpose in life
purpose in life
thinking about all these stories the
thinking about all these stories the story of the relative who died in her
story of the relative who died in her
story of the relative who died in her early 20s I wondered about all the
early 20s I wondered about all the
early 20s I wondered about all the dreams that she may have had the dream
dreams that she may have had the dream
dreams that she may have had the dream of the man of her dreams
of the man of her dreams
of the man of her dreams the dream of becoming the woman of her
the dream of becoming the woman of her
the dream of becoming the woman of her dreams all buried thinking about the
dreams all buried thinking about the
dreams all buried thinking about the friend who had undergone an unsuccessful
friend who had undergone an unsuccessful
friend who had undergone an unsuccessful marriage made me think about the torture
marriage made me think about the torture
marriage made me think about the torture that she must be going through now
that she must be going through now
that she must be going through now thinking about those beautiful moments
thinking about those beautiful moments
thinking about those beautiful moments that she had to spend with her husband
that she had to spend with her husband
that she had to spend with her husband recalling the conversation that I had
recalling the conversation that I had
recalling the conversation that I had with my grandmother while she was here a
with my grandmother while she was here a
with my grandmother while she was here a few months back and she used to say late
few months back and she used to say late
few months back and she used to say late at night Medina your grandfather was a
at night Medina your grandfather was a
at night Medina your grandfather was a great man he loved me a lot at night
great man he loved me a lot at night
great man he loved me a lot at night even he would see that my fingernails
even he would see that my fingernails
even he would see that my fingernails were white he would tell me that he
were white he would tell me that he
were white he would tell me that he would bring her hand up on the next day
would bring her hand up on the next day
would bring her hand up on the next day just so I could be happy with my red
just so I could be happy with my red
just so I could be happy with my red nails why why do I need to get married
nails why why do I need to get married
nails why why do I need to get married first to be able to find my life’s
first to be able to find my life’s
first to be able to find my life’s purpose I realized that there were to be
purpose I realized that there were to be
purpose I realized that there were to be two challenges that were faced by the
two challenges that were faced by the
two challenges that were faced by the people around me when they lost someone
people around me when they lost someone
people around me when they lost someone that they loved either due to death or
that they loved either due to death or
that they loved either due to death or distance first depression love and
distance first depression love and
distance first depression love and ultimately losing a sense of purpose and
ultimately losing a sense of purpose and
ultimately losing a sense of purpose and second society’s thorns
second society’s thorns
second society’s thorns early on in my life I understood the
early on in my life I understood the
early on in my life I understood the importance of learning and funny when I
importance of learning and funny when I
importance of learning and funny when I was 23 two years back the female elders
was 23 two years back the female elders
was 23 two years back the female elders in my family would say that I need to
in my family would say that I need to
in my family would say that I need to learn cooking I need to learn sewing and
learn cooking I need to learn sewing and
learn cooking I need to learn sewing and I need to learn how to raise kids I had
I need to learn how to raise kids I had
I need to learn how to raise kids I had to be the complete package well when it
to be the complete package well when it
to be the complete package well when it came to booking I could cook average
came to booking I could cook average
came to booking I could cook average food as edible when it came to so
food as edible when it came to so
food as edible when it came to so I didn’t like sitting close but I
I didn’t like sitting close but I
I didn’t like sitting close but I decided to go for it because my purpose
decided to go for it because my purpose
decided to go for it because my purpose was to change lives of women and if I
was to change lives of women and if I
was to change lives of women and if I only stayed in the intellectual crowd
only stayed in the intellectual crowd
only stayed in the intellectual crowd how would I know what these women were
how would I know what these women were
how would I know what these women were learning sewing going through raising
learning sewing going through raising
learning sewing going through raising kids recently when my brother was
kids recently when my brother was
kids recently when my brother was kidnapped a nine-year-old boy and he
kidnapped a nine-year-old boy and he
kidnapped a nine-year-old boy and he returned back after 19 hours I reflected
returned back after 19 hours I reflected
returned back after 19 hours I reflected back on the five years that I spent on
back on the five years that I spent on
back on the five years that I spent on his education thinking about what helped
his education thinking about what helped
his education thinking about what helped him to come back two key factors first
him to come back two key factors first
him to come back two key factors first positive self-talk and second reflection
positive self-talk and second reflection
positive self-talk and second reflection and connection these two are traits
and connection these two are traits
and connection these two are traits which I won’t very here my personal life
which I won’t very here my personal life
which I won’t very here my personal life and my brother invite those why he was
and my brother invite those why he was
and my brother invite those why he was away 19 hours he’s otherwise the boy who
away 19 hours he’s otherwise the boy who
away 19 hours he’s otherwise the boy who fears people who feels all these
fears people who feels all these
fears people who feels all these hooligans in his head and you mix up
hooligans in his head and you mix up
hooligans in his head and you mix up stories and he fears it but those 19 are
stories and he fears it but those 19 are
stories and he fears it but those 19 are he was a brave boy he kept a mixing
he was a brave boy he kept a mixing
he was a brave boy he kept a mixing himself you find a woman to escape and
himself you find a woman to escape and
himself you find a woman to escape and God will help you he did come back
God will help you he did come back
God will help you he did come back second duel which helped him to catch
second duel which helped him to catch
second duel which helped him to catch the kidnapper was reflection and
the kidnapper was reflection and
the kidnapper was reflection and connection all the impurities that I did
connection all the impurities that I did
connection all the impurities that I did with him during those last five years of
with him during those last five years of
with him during those last five years of his life he would recall the incidents
his life he would recall the incidents
his life he would recall the incidents he could put them together he could
he could put them together he could
he could put them together he could narrate means returning from the
narrate means returning from the
narrate means returning from the kidnapper I would not want to just be
kidnapper I would not want to just be
kidnapper I would not want to just be good at these three skills all my life
good at these three skills all my life
good at these three skills all my life when it came to earning two years back I
when it came to earning two years back I
when it came to earning two years back I was totally financially dependent on the
was totally financially dependent on the
was totally financially dependent on the male members of my family and that will
male members of my family and that will
male members of my family and that will be not appreciate their efforts that
be not appreciate their efforts that
be not appreciate their efforts that means me what are the more demanding
means me what are the more demanding
means me what are the more demanding that is when I realized that all these
that is when I realized that all these
that is when I realized that all these concerns that the elders
concerns that the elders
concerns that the elders Society had when I wanted to learn or
Society had when I wanted to learn or
Society had when I wanted to learn or all what it really justified they have
all what it really justified they have
all what it really justified they have concerns about boys whether if I could
concerns about boys whether if I could
concerns about boys whether if I could have important relationships with
have important relationships with
have important relationships with relationships with them or unproductive
relationships with them or unproductive
relationships with them or unproductive interactions with boys
interactions with boys
interactions with boys they have affinity issues what why do
they have affinity issues what why do
they have affinity issues what why do you have to go out to such fun of places
you have to go out to such fun of places
you have to go out to such fun of places for study for work for events these
for study for work for events these
for study for work for events these places are out of state only your hobby
places are out of state only your hobby
places are out of state only your hobby when Meredith asked what is it that your
when Meredith asked what is it that your
when Meredith asked what is it that your daughter or granddaughter or me so
daughter or granddaughter or me so
daughter or granddaughter or me so whoever does and they would say oh it’s
whoever does and they would say oh it’s
whoever does and they would say oh it’s just a hobby
just a hobby
just a hobby maybe I wasn’t good enough at what I did
maybe I wasn’t good enough at what I did
maybe I wasn’t good enough at what I did permission needed why didn’t you seek a
permission needed why didn’t you seek a
permission needed why didn’t you seek a permission before enrolling obedience
permission before enrolling obedience
permission before enrolling obedience you are so good outside people praise
you are so good outside people praise
you are so good outside people praise you but to get you at home you’re so
you but to get you at home you’re so
you but to get you at home you’re so disrespectful and disobedient towards
disrespectful and disobedient towards
disrespectful and disobedient towards your elders
your elders
your elders well what it give to boys we can’t have
well what it give to boys we can’t have
well what it give to boys we can’t have an all-female world
an all-female world
an all-female world that’s impossible when it came to safety
that’s impossible when it came to safety
that’s impossible when it came to safety how safe are our homes and schools when
how safe are our homes and schools when
how safe are our homes and schools when it gave to just a hobby well I would
it gave to just a hobby well I would
it gave to just a hobby well I would learn and I would show them permission
learn and I would show them permission
learn and I would show them permission needed when the people who indulged in
needed when the people who indulged in
needed when the people who indulged in unethical practices could use their
unethical practices could use their
unethical practices could use their brains and big brain for the wrong that
brains and big brain for the wrong that
brains and big brain for the wrong that did it
did it
did it why couldn’t I use my brain and be brave
why couldn’t I use my brain and be brave
why couldn’t I use my brain and be brave for my life’s purpose obedience well
for my life’s purpose obedience well
for my life’s purpose obedience well that’s a cultural thing I do not need
that’s a cultural thing I do not need
that’s a cultural thing I do not need permission to follow to obey God and
permission to follow to obey God and
permission to follow to obey God and obey he created me and I had to obey Him
obey he created me and I had to obey Him
obey he created me and I had to obey Him and by how would I do that
and by how would I do that
and by how would I do that I was fulfilling my life’s
I was fulfilling my life’s
I was fulfilling my life’s so what is it that I wanted two years
so what is it that I wanted two years
so what is it that I wanted two years back I did not know what was it that I
back I did not know what was it that I
back I did not know what was it that I did what I knew I knew I didn’t want to
did what I knew I knew I didn’t want to
did what I knew I knew I didn’t want to be that woman who spent her days
be that woman who spent her days
be that woman who spent her days thinking about what food to make and so
thinking about what food to make and so
thinking about what food to make and so I think what do we learn too much who
I think what do we learn too much who
I think what do we learn too much who spent her days finally arguing with my
spent her days finally arguing with my
spent her days finally arguing with my parents with my in-laws with my spouse
parents with my in-laws with my spouse
parents with my in-laws with my spouse children neighbors I didn’t want to be
children neighbors I didn’t want to be
children neighbors I didn’t want to be that no one
that no one
that no one although like those women whom I saw at
although like those women whom I saw at
although like those women whom I saw at the airport while I was traveling to
the airport while I was traveling to
the airport while I was traveling to sooner my room table all night knows
sooner my room table all night knows
sooner my room table all night knows women that I found that the gym were
women that I found that the gym were
women that I found that the gym were only talking about which market you
only talking about which market you
only talking about which market you would go to which offer they would drag
would go to which offer they would drag
would go to which offer they would drag hold of which fashion trends they would
hold of which fashion trends they would
hold of which fashion trends they would follow I didn’t want to be that one who
follow I didn’t want to be that one who
follow I didn’t want to be that one who would give that excuse to the next
would give that excuse to the next
would give that excuse to the next generation the world is like that this
generation the world is like that this
generation the world is like that this is how it has always been no average is
is how it has always been no average is
is how it has always been no average is boring and that is not going to be me
boring and that is not going to be me
boring and that is not going to be me that is what I have decided
I am NOT going to repeat history I know
I am NOT going to repeat history I know it myself
it myself
it myself history was my favorite subject at
history was my favorite subject at
history was my favorite subject at school
school
school and I believe that history is about
and I believe that history is about
and I believe that history is about stories stories of people stories of
stories stories of people stories of
stories stories of people stories of people who impacted other people and I
people who impacted other people and I
people who impacted other people and I have to change history but changing
have to change history but changing
have to change history but changing history require changing stories and I
history require changing stories and I
history require changing stories and I at 23 or even now at 25 I can change all
at 23 or even now at 25 I can change all
at 23 or even now at 25 I can change all the stories of people but yes I can
the stories of people but yes I can
the stories of people but yes I can change my story and if I change my story
change my story and if I change my story
change my story and if I change my story the world will know a new story here
the world will know a new story here
the world will know a new story here this dilemma was mainly due to the
this dilemma was mainly due to the
this dilemma was mainly due to the family and the friends that I was
family and the friends that I was
family and the friends that I was surrounded by the family and friends
surrounded by the family and friends
surrounded by the family and friends somehow a modern and some who were
somehow a modern and some who were
somehow a modern and some who were religious modern religious those who are
religious modern religious those who are
religious modern religious those who are modern practiced those who are religious
modern practiced those who are religious
modern practiced those who are religious preached those who are modest will look
preached those who are modest will look
preached those who are modest will look down upon as those test him for him
down upon as those test him for him
down upon as those test him for him those who are religious dreamt of heaven
those who are religious dreamt of heaven
those who are religious dreamt of heaven and paradise I wanted to lead by example
so the last two years that I spent on
so the last two years that I spent on learning helped me acquire skills and
learning helped me acquire skills and
learning helped me acquire skills and today I have talent manager at the
today I have talent manager at the
today I have talent manager at the us-based virtual company chief
us-based virtual company chief
us-based virtual company chief strategist at an educational
strategist at an educational
strategist at an educational organization with my partners in Noida
organization with my partners in Noida
organization with my partners in Noida CEO and a social enterprise that
CEO and a social enterprise that
CEO and a social enterprise that empowers others to need a heading as a
empowers others to need a heading as a
empowers others to need a heading as a local expert in Delta and if no American
local expert in Delta and if no American
local expert in Delta and if no American collaboration that promotes women in
collaboration that promotes women in
collaboration that promotes women in STEM studies the personal development
STEM studies the personal development
STEM studies the personal development courses that I took
courses that I took
courses that I took help me to say sorry sorry I was wrong
help me to say sorry sorry I was wrong
help me to say sorry sorry I was wrong I’ve not to admit my mistakes and learn
I’ve not to admit my mistakes and learn
I’ve not to admit my mistakes and learn from them and to be better each day than
from them and to be better each day than
from them and to be better each day than I was the day before these courses
I was the day before these courses
I was the day before these courses learning helped me to get clarity of
learning helped me to get clarity of
learning helped me to get clarity of purpose and my mind opened up two years
purpose and my mind opened up two years
purpose and my mind opened up two years back I was earning around 6,000
back I was earning around 6,000
back I was earning around 6,000 individual peas small amount but that
individual peas small amount but that
individual peas small amount but that gives me that little economic
gives me that little economic
gives me that little economic independence that I needed I insisted to
independence that I needed I insisted to
independence that I needed I insisted to my father that I would pay at least one
my father that I would pay at least one
my father that I would pay at least one billet just to give out the message that
billet just to give out the message that
billet just to give out the message that my money is ours too
what I wanted to years back wasn’t clear
what I wanted to years back wasn’t clear to me as I told you two years back what
to me as I told you two years back what
to me as I told you two years back what I was looking for wasn’t very clear to
I was looking for wasn’t very clear to
I was looking for wasn’t very clear to me if I had married two years back I
would have found the man of my dreams
would have found the man of my dreams dead but how can I know who the man of
dead but how can I know who the man of
dead but how can I know who the man of my dreams is if I do not know and I have
my dreams is if I do not know and I have
my dreams is if I do not know and I have not become the woman of my dreams by
not become the woman of my dreams by
not become the woman of my dreams by saying no to man of my dreams two years
saying no to man of my dreams two years
saying no to man of my dreams two years back I said yes to me
back I said yes to me
back I said yes to me I said yes to becoming the woman of my
I said yes to becoming the woman of my
I said yes to becoming the woman of my dreams and that changed everything
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[Applause] and get better the world will get better
and get better the world will get better
and get better the world will get better and evolve I am going to keep striving
and evolve I am going to keep striving
and evolve I am going to keep striving to be that empowered woman of my dreams
to be that empowered woman of my dreams
to be that empowered woman of my dreams who will create a world where I can
who will create a world where I can
who will create a world where I can raise and empowered generations to come
raise and empowered generations to come
raise and empowered generations to come and in case in case my time is up on the
and in case in case my time is up on the
and in case in case my time is up on the earth choose any reason at least I can
earth choose any reason at least I can
earth choose any reason at least I can face God and tend him god I did my best
face God and tend him god I did my best
face God and tend him god I did my best with every talent every gift every
with every talent every gift every
with every talent every gift every blessing that you gave me before I leave
blessing that you gave me before I leave
blessing that you gave me before I leave I asked you this question what are you
I asked you this question what are you
I asked you this question what are you going to say to yourself before you say
going to say to yourself before you say
going to say to yourself before you say that to those you love yes or no thank
that to those you love yes or no thank
that to those you love yes or no thank you
you
you [Applause]
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