[Applause] okay okay
okay okay
okay okay ho hi everyone my name is Josh and I’m
ho hi everyone my name is Josh and I’m
ho hi everyone my name is Josh and I’m gonna actually start this talk with an
gonna actually start this talk with an
gonna actually start this talk with an apology up to you
– Josh wedlock’s English class niihama
– Josh wedlock’s English class niihama Japan 2002 you see I started my teaching
Japan 2002 you see I started my teaching
Japan 2002 you see I started my teaching career and Eisley teaching in the
career and Eisley teaching in the
career and Eisley teaching in the loosest of ways actually I did stop my
loosest of ways actually I did stop my
loosest of ways actually I did stop my teaching career in 2000 doing in Japan
teaching career in 2000 doing in Japan
teaching career in 2000 doing in Japan and I was so so bad that my children
and I was so so bad that my children
and I was so so bad that my children went out of my class with lists English
went out of my class with lists English
went out of my class with lists English and when they came in I was so bad as a
and when they came in I was so bad as a
and when they came in I was so bad as a teacher that if you have children in
teacher that if you have children in
teacher that if you have children in Mahama
Mahama
Mahama Japan 2002 you look better off letting
Japan 2002 you look better off letting
Japan 2002 you look better off letting them do anything else other than come to
them do anything else other than come to
them do anything else other than come to my class if you want them to learn
my class if you want them to learn
my class if you want them to learn English sit down watch the grass grow
English sit down watch the grass grow
English sit down watch the grass grow look at the wall you’re going to learn
look at the wall you’re going to learn
look at the wall you’re going to learn more by doing that so I’m going to
more by doing that so I’m going to
more by doing that so I’m going to address mm – Josh red looks English Pass
address mm – Josh red looks English Pass
address mm – Josh red looks English Pass I’m sorry
I’m sorry
I’m sorry I did you a disservice by D teaching you
I did you a disservice by D teaching you
I did you a disservice by D teaching you I was a D teacher I was a teacher
I was a D teacher I was a teacher
I was a D teacher I was a teacher educator it was really bad so why am I
educator it was really bad so why am I
educator it was really bad so why am I here with a room full of close friends
here with a room full of close friends
here with a room full of close friends telling you all of this most because it
telling you all of this most because it
telling you all of this most because it was this event not this event are saying
was this event not this event are saying
was this event not this event are saying the event in maharaja pan which is the
the event in maharaja pan which is the
the event in maharaja pan which is the genesis of this talk as you know this
genesis of this talk as you know this
genesis of this talk as you know this book is called it real this talk is pop
book is called it real this talk is pop
book is called it real this talk is pop personal anecdotes its part based on
personal anecdotes its part based on
personal anecdotes its part based on experience of being a personal trainer
experience of being a personal trainer
experience of being a personal trainer and fitness tracker instructor an
and fitness tracker instructor an
and fitness tracker instructor an English teacher communication coach for
English teacher communication coach for
English teacher communication coach for 18 years in five different countries
18 years in five different countries
18 years in five different countries and I think one just come up here and
and I think one just come up here and
and I think one just come up here and give you a pinions I’m going to come up
give you a pinions I’m going to come up
give you a pinions I’m going to come up here and give you some information and
here and give you some information and
here and give you some information and some ideas based on research and as I
some ideas based on research and as I
some ideas based on research and as I look out I can see we’ve got people from
look out I can see we’ve got people from
look out I can see we’ve got people from all over the truly international
all over the truly international
all over the truly international community here today in TEDx boom
community here today in TEDx boom
community here today in TEDx boom dangling
talking about in joke okay so I can see
talking about in joke okay so I can see truly international audience so what I’m
truly international audience so what I’m
truly international audience so what I’m going to give you doesn’t matter where
going to give you doesn’t matter where
going to give you doesn’t matter where you are what culture what context you’re
you are what culture what context you’re
you are what culture what context you’re in most of these ideas are applicable so
in most of these ideas are applicable so
in most of these ideas are applicable so what is get real what is get real well
what is get real what is get real well
what is get real what is get real well the Cambridge dictionary says that get
the Cambridge dictionary says that get
the Cambridge dictionary says that get real is a phrase we utter when we tell
real is a phrase we utter when we tell
real is a phrase we utter when we tell me someone to look at the true facts of
me someone to look at the true facts of
me someone to look at the true facts of a situation
a situation
a situation get real but we know it’s more than that
get real but we know it’s more than that
get real but we know it’s more than that we know that getting real is emotional
we know that getting real is emotional
we know that getting real is emotional engagement when you sit down you have a
engagement when you sit down you have a
engagement when you sit down you have a really good conversation with a friend
really good conversation with a friend
really good conversation with a friend and you break down the walls and
and you break down the walls and
and you break down the walls and emotional barrier goes down and if
emotional barrier goes down and if
emotional barrier goes down and if you’re a guy at the end of that sort of
you’re a guy at the end of that sort of
you’re a guy at the end of that sort of conversation you do the man hug but we
conversation you do the man hug but we
conversation you do the man hug but we also know it’s more than that it’s not
also know it’s more than that it’s not
also know it’s more than that it’s not action all the speakers here it’s easy
action all the speakers here it’s easy
action all the speakers here it’s easy to say hey I’m gonna do a 10x talk
to say hey I’m gonna do a 10x talk
to say hey I’m gonna do a 10x talk that’s easy to say when you come here
that’s easy to say when you come here
that’s easy to say when you come here and you’re out there or gets real it’s
and you’re out there or gets real it’s
and you’re out there or gets real it’s getting real I tell ya what okay sir get
getting real I tell ya what okay sir get
getting real I tell ya what okay sir get real real genuine not fake that’s real
real real genuine not fake that’s real
real real genuine not fake that’s real so this one’s all about getting real and
so this one’s all about getting real and
so this one’s all about getting real and the next five or seven minutes is not
the next five or seven minutes is not
the next five or seven minutes is not really for you cuz I can tell we’ve been
really for you cuz I can tell we’ve been
really for you cuz I can tell we’ve been educated crab in him
educated crab in him
educated crab in him Linux five to seven minutes more for the
Linux five to seven minutes more for the
Linux five to seven minutes more for the youtubers okay because you know you know
youtubers okay because you know you know
youtubers okay because you know you know this they get real is actually based on
this they get real is actually based on
this they get real is actually based on something we use in education or in
something we use in education or in
something we use in education or in psychology which
psychology which
psychology which already know it’s all about locus of
already know it’s all about locus of
already know it’s all about locus of control
control
control yeah I got that it’s all about
yeah I got that it’s all about
yeah I got that it’s all about engagement okay it’s all about self
engagement okay it’s all about self
engagement okay it’s all about self awareness self efficacy even the Bears
awareness self efficacy even the Bears
awareness self efficacy even the Bears going yeah and it’s it’s about
going yeah and it’s it’s about
going yeah and it’s it’s about responsibility okay so six five minutes
responsibility okay so six five minutes
responsibility okay so six five minutes let me break down the five steps of get
let me break down the five steps of get
let me break down the five steps of get Riddle get real is actually old school
Riddle get real is actually old school
Riddle get real is actually old school advice for a musical generation softer
advice for a musical generation softer
advice for a musical generation softer isn’t it drink get real old school drink
isn’t it drink get real old school drink
isn’t it drink get real old school drink for a new school first there’s no soft
for a new school first there’s no soft
for a new school first there’s no soft drink
drink
drink it’s these fine things I’m telling you
it’s these fine things I’m telling you
it’s these fine things I’m telling you about okay
about okay
about okay let’s break it down for the people above
let’s break it down for the people above
let’s break it down for the people above we have got what do we say anyone paying
we have got what do we say anyone paying
we have got what do we say anyone paying attention good yes excellent let’s
attention good yes excellent let’s
attention good yes excellent let’s pretend you pull something else look
pretend you pull something else look
pretend you pull something else look okay focus on the control are you
okay focus on the control are you
okay focus on the control are you responsible for what happens in your
responsible for what happens in your
responsible for what happens in your life your successes and failures or is
life your successes and failures or is
life your successes and failures or is it someone else or something else that
it someone else or something else that
it someone else or something else that stopped you achieving okay what’s going
stopped you achieving okay what’s going
stopped you achieving okay what’s going to do is what I have if you can develop
to do is what I have if you can develop
to do is what I have if you can develop a locus of control which is an internal
a locus of control which is an internal
a locus of control which is an internal locus of control as teachers well I’m a
locus of control as teachers well I’m a
locus of control as teachers well I’m a teacher
teacher
teacher you guys teachers somebody oh yeah and
you guys teachers somebody oh yeah and
you guys teachers somebody oh yeah and don’t all answer at once oh yeah as a
don’t all answer at once oh yeah as a
don’t all answer at once oh yeah as a teacher we see this I see this all the
teacher we see this I see this all the
teacher we see this I see this all the time ah if I Josh Phegley damn will fail
time ah if I Josh Phegley damn will fail
time ah if I Josh Phegley damn will fail something because the test was too hot
something because the test was too hot
something because the test was too hot okay well Mary passed and John passed so
okay well Mary passed and John passed so
okay well Mary passed and John passed so if the test wasn’t too hard I think you
if the test wasn’t too hard I think you
if the test wasn’t too hard I think you just didn’t study hard enough that would
just didn’t study hard enough that would
just didn’t study hard enough that would be an internal locus of control
be an internal locus of control
be an internal locus of control you take responsibility okay I didn’t
you take responsibility okay I didn’t
you take responsibility okay I didn’t lose weight I didn’t get fit because my
lose weight I didn’t get fit because my
lose weight I didn’t get fit because my trainer wasn’t very good
trainer wasn’t very good
trainer wasn’t very good external I haven’t lost weight I haven’t
external I haven’t lost weight I haven’t
external I haven’t lost weight I haven’t really achieved my goal because I really
really achieved my goal because I really
really achieved my goal because I really love chicken and beer okay
love chicken and beer okay
love chicken and beer okay that’s thinking when we call the
that’s thinking when we call the
that’s thinking when we call the internal locus of control
internal locus of control
internal locus of control taking responsibility so the next one is
taking responsibility so the next one is
taking responsibility so the next one is engagement but okay it’s when you truly
engagement but okay it’s when you truly
engagement but okay it’s when you truly care about what you’re doing when you
care about what you’re doing when you
care about what you’re doing when you truly care about why and what you are
truly care about why and what you are
truly care about why and what you are doing so I urge you to get real about
doing so I urge you to get real about
doing so I urge you to get real about caring we all have seen politicians
caring we all have seen politicians
caring we all have seen politicians they’re done engagement care about what
they’re done engagement care about what
they’re done engagement care about what they’re doing we don’t work with people
they’re doing we don’t work with people
they’re doing we don’t work with people in the office just don’t really even
in the office just don’t really even
in the office just don’t really even know why they’ve been there it’s a
know why they’ve been there it’s a
know why they’ve been there it’s a spread sheet they’re going to do
spread sheet they’re going to do
spread sheet they’re going to do something and really engage don’t
something and really engage don’t
something and really engage don’t believe me what I want you to do what I
believe me what I want you to do what I
believe me what I want you to do what I really want you to do this is think of a
really want you to do this is think of a
really want you to do this is think of a teacher a mentor a coach a person a
teacher a mentor a coach a person a
teacher a mentor a coach a person a friend a family member who has had a
friend a family member who has had a
friend a family member who has had a huge positive impact on you truly think
huge positive impact on you truly think
huge positive impact on you truly think about it’s not like one of those things
about it’s not like one of those things
about it’s not like one of those things I think about I don’t even know who this
I think about I don’t even know who this
I think about I don’t even know who this person is that’d be impossible but I can
person is that’d be impossible but I can
person is that’d be impossible but I can tell you I’m 100% sure then that person
tell you I’m 100% sure then that person
tell you I’m 100% sure then that person was engaged they cared about you they
was engaged they cared about you they
was engaged they cared about you they care about what that we’re doing that’s
care about what that we’re doing that’s
care about what that we’re doing that’s why they have me now so get real about
why they have me now so get real about
why they have me now so get real about engaging self awareness even the people
engaging self awareness even the people
engaging self awareness even the people you to like I know self-awareness
you to like I know self-awareness
you to like I know self-awareness strengths weaknesses why I do what I do
strengths weaknesses why I do what I do
strengths weaknesses why I do what I do understanding myself well if this is
understanding myself well if this is
understanding myself well if this is true we all know what salut well now
true we all know what salut well now
true we all know what salut well now might help and I coach people about
might help and I coach people about
might help and I coach people about doing English interviews to get a job
doing English interviews to get a job
doing English interviews to get a job maybe international company or a Korean
maybe international company or a Korean
maybe international company or a Korean company they name English and these
company they name English and these
company they name English and these people know themselves can I say to them
people know themselves can I say to them
people know themselves can I say to them it’s a question what is your weakness
I’m a perfectionist okay so then I go
I’m a perfectionist okay so then I go you know what Josh you’re right you’re
you know what Josh you’re right you’re
you know what Josh you’re right you’re right you’re right I was lying to you I
right you’re right I was lying to you I
right you’re right I was lying to you I take on too much responsibility okay so
take on too much responsibility okay so
take on too much responsibility okay so get real about understanding your
get real about understanding your
get real about understanding your strengths weaknesses motivations and
strengths weaknesses motivations and
strengths weaknesses motivations and values etc get real okay what have we
values etc get real okay what have we
values etc get real okay what have we done control no okay so because this one
done control no okay so because this one
done control no okay so because this one it’s believing that you have the ability
it’s believing that you have the ability
it’s believing that you have the ability to accomplish something believing in
to accomplish something believing in
to accomplish something believing in yourself but it’s not just blindly
yourself but it’s not just blindly
yourself but it’s not just blindly believing something that you said on
believing something that you said on
believing something that you said on something so little successes coaches
something so little successes coaches
something so little successes coaches they help you develop parents friends
they help you develop parents friends
they help you develop parents friends they help you so if you gotta have to
they help you so if you gotta have to
they help you so if you gotta have to run 10 kilometers just gonna believe in
run 10 kilometers just gonna believe in
run 10 kilometers just gonna believe in yourself you don’t believe you can run
yourself you don’t believe you can run
yourself you don’t believe you can run 10 kilometers tomorrow you just gotta
10 kilometers tomorrow you just gotta
10 kilometers tomorrow you just gotta believe eventually you can so you can
believe eventually you can so you can
believe eventually you can so you can put in steps to do this okay and
put in steps to do this okay and
put in steps to do this okay and responsibility responsibility is what we
responsibility responsibility is what we
responsibility responsibility is what we all have we have a responsibility to
all have we have a responsibility to
all have we have a responsibility to teach people that’s me you might be a
teach people that’s me you might be a
teach people that’s me you might be a student you have a responsibility to
student you have a responsibility to
student you have a responsibility to learn you may be a police officer you
learn you may be a police officer you
learn you may be a police officer you have a responsibility to serve and
have a responsibility to serve and
have a responsibility to serve and protect but many of us don’t take the
protect but many of us don’t take the
protect but many of us don’t take the responsibility there’s a big difference
responsibility there’s a big difference
responsibility there’s a big difference between having a responsibility and the
between having a responsibility and the
between having a responsibility and the responsibility to
responsibility to
responsibility to teach you whether I do that or not
teach you whether I do that or not
teach you whether I do that or not that’s whether I take responsibility so
that’s whether I take responsibility so
that’s whether I take responsibility so get real about taking responsibility not
get real about taking responsibility not
get real about taking responsibility not just having responsibility okay that you
just having responsibility okay that you
just having responsibility okay that you will use that yes yeah I knew remind you
will use that yes yeah I knew remind you
will use that yes yeah I knew remind you all that and you’re thinking hold on
all that and you’re thinking hold on
all that and you’re thinking hold on doesn’t that spell el focus of the
doesn’t that spell el focus of the
doesn’t that spell el focus of the engagement as self-aware as
engagement as self-aware as
engagement as self-aware as self-efficacy and our responsibility
self-efficacy and our responsibility
self-efficacy and our responsibility does this isn’t that like let’s our this
does this isn’t that like let’s our this
does this isn’t that like let’s our this hardware is it get real see ones get
hardware is it get real see ones get
hardware is it get real see ones get real because if some people come to me
real because if some people come to me
real because if some people come to me since Josh I I failed the exam because
since Josh I I failed the exam because
since Josh I I failed the exam because it’s too hard like a hey man let’s are
it’s too hard like a hey man let’s are
it’s too hard like a hey man let’s are not so cool well if they fail the exam I
not so cool well if they fail the exam I
not so cool well if they fail the exam I was too bad my hand get real I’m cool
was too bad my hand get real I’m cool
was too bad my hand get real I’m cool okay
okay
okay it’s a little thing you can save
it’s a little thing you can save
it’s a little thing you can save yourself so you look too harsh on
yourself so you look too harsh on
yourself so you look too harsh on yourself it’s sometimes with too harsh
yourself it’s sometimes with too harsh
yourself it’s sometimes with too harsh on ourselves because we’re not actually
on ourselves because we’re not actually
on ourselves because we’re not actually understanding the true fact of a
understanding the true fact of a
understanding the true fact of a situation okay so get real is just so
situation okay so get real is just so
situation okay so get real is just so much cooler the same then less are but
much cooler the same then less are but
much cooler the same then less are but try out whichever one you like okay you
try out whichever one you like okay you
try out whichever one you like okay you know we can whatever you guys want
know we can whatever you guys want
know we can whatever you guys want really okay so that’s the theory but
really okay so that’s the theory but
really okay so that’s the theory but theory without practice and application
theory without practice and application
theory without practice and application is just a dusty book okay roll got these
is just a dusty book okay roll got these
is just a dusty book okay roll got these books of theories but we don’t actually
books of theories but we don’t actually
books of theories but we don’t actually apply them so let’s go back in time
apply them so let’s go back in time
apply them so let’s go back in time let’s do some time traveling that’s not
let’s do some time traveling that’s not
let’s do some time traveling that’s not real time traveling if I could really
real time traveling if I could really
real time traveling if I could really time travel I would have started with
time travel I would have started with
time travel I would have started with that okay that really cool dental
that okay that really cool dental
that okay that really cool dental all right months pretty cool but time
all right months pretty cool but time
all right months pretty cool but time travel oh my bad I went to ten and I
travel oh my bad I went to ten and I
travel oh my bad I went to ten and I look back in time that Trump’s what I’m
look back in time that Trump’s what I’m
look back in time that Trump’s what I’m saying okay but I can’t so we’re gonna
saying okay but I can’t so we’re gonna
saying okay but I can’t so we’re gonna pretend this is me niihama 2002 what you
pretend this is me niihama 2002 what you
pretend this is me niihama 2002 what you need to do is figure out let’s our get
need to do is figure out let’s our get
need to do is figure out let’s our get real advice I should have got 15 years
real advice I should have got 15 years
real advice I should have got 15 years ago
ago
ago you tell me where it fits in okay back
you tell me where it fits in okay back
you tell me where it fits in okay back in time
that’s fine travel okay with time travel
that’s fine travel okay with time travel [Music]
wake up every day they get up listen to
wake up every day they get up listen to me I can teach them to work and kids
me I can teach them to work and kids
me I can teach them to work and kids come in then add this sugar and
come in then add this sugar and
come in then add this sugar and definitely had this sugar and the
definitely had this sugar and the
definitely had this sugar and the school’s decided we gonna put all the
school’s decided we gonna put all the
school’s decided we gonna put all the bad kids into my class other they’ve
bad kids into my class other they’ve
bad kids into my class other they’ve done that’s very try some games and
done that’s very try some games and
done that’s very try some games and lesson planning I mean I do dance don’t
lesson planning I mean I do dance don’t
lesson planning I mean I do dance don’t judge me I did it okay
judge me I did it okay
judge me I did it okay well Mary did it Mary did it and I took
well Mary did it Mary did it and I took
well Mary did it Mary did it and I took Mary’s Mary’s Japanese and I don’t
Mary’s Mary’s Japanese and I don’t
Mary’s Mary’s Japanese and I don’t understand what she said but it’s not
understand what she said but it’s not
understand what she said but it’s not some words that how much the kids must
some words that how much the kids must
some words that how much the kids must learn so I try to teach your kids don’t
learn so I try to teach your kids don’t
learn so I try to teach your kids don’t get it it’s you know you know kids I
get it it’s you know you know kids I
get it it’s you know you know kids I don’t listen I did my best thing the
don’t listen I did my best thing the
don’t listen I did my best thing the principal called and he said Josh I
principal called and he said Josh I
principal called and he said Josh I think you should go to lunch day as fast
think you should go to lunch day as fast
think you should go to lunch day as fast because you know just be good sharing
because you know just be good sharing
because you know just be good sharing ideas yep helping Dave out so my
ideas yep helping Dave out so my
ideas yep helping Dave out so my teaching ideas how much day this guy he
teaching ideas how much day this guy he
teaching ideas how much day this guy he went in he kids loved him he had two
went in he kids loved him he had two
went in he kids loved him he had two good kids kids what he days see this
good kids kids what he days see this
good kids kids what he days see this change or playing games and the game
change or playing games and the game
change or playing games and the game didn’t work they didn’t get stretched
didn’t work they didn’t get stretched
didn’t work they didn’t get stretched they just went and change the game
they just went and change the game
they just went and change the game because he trying to build up their
because he trying to build up their
because he trying to build up their confidence in the end of the class sort
confidence in the end of the class sort
confidence in the end of the class sort of
of
of getting some advice turned out he gave
getting some advice turned out he gave
getting some advice turned out he gave me advice
me advice
me advice he asked me Josh do you like teaching I
he asked me Josh do you like teaching I
he asked me Josh do you like teaching I said no but I do like getting paid
so you said well just putting senescent
so you said well just putting senescent can’t have what you do read a book or
can’t have what you do read a book or
can’t have what you do read a book or two about teaching it we’ll watch other
two about teaching it we’ll watch other
two about teaching it we’ll watch other people’s classes video your bowing class
people’s classes video your bowing class
people’s classes video your bowing class and watch it and it was here that the
and watch it and it was here that the
and watch it and it was here that the genesis of get real began so can you see
genesis of get real began so can you see
genesis of get real began so can you see where we can apply this let’s go back
where we can apply this let’s go back
where we can apply this let’s go back and listen to my words
and listen to my words
and listen to my words it was locus of control didn’t have it
it was locus of control didn’t have it
it was locus of control didn’t have it thank with all the bad kids in my class
thank with all the bad kids in my class
thank with all the bad kids in my class okay
okay
okay I’m blaming them okay easy fall and get
I’m blaming them okay easy fall and get
I’m blaming them okay easy fall and get each meant okay
each meant okay
each meant okay I wasn’t engaging yeah I didn’t try and
I wasn’t engaging yeah I didn’t try and
I wasn’t engaging yeah I didn’t try and put it I said it sucks I can’t do this
put it I said it sucks I can’t do this
put it I said it sucks I can’t do this why do I even care dang on the other
why do I even care dang on the other
why do I even care dang on the other hand was awesome okay so we got
hand was awesome okay so we got
hand was awesome okay so we got self-efficacy I didn’t believe in myself
self-efficacy I didn’t believe in myself
self-efficacy I didn’t believe in myself couldn’t do it yesterday what can I do
couldn’t do it yesterday what can I do
couldn’t do it yesterday what can I do it tomorrow then self-awareness I didn’t
it tomorrow then self-awareness I didn’t
it tomorrow then self-awareness I didn’t know that I didn’t know how bad I was
know that I didn’t know how bad I was
know that I didn’t know how bad I was that’s how bad I was that’s how bad I
that’s how bad I was that’s how bad I
that’s how bad I was that’s how bad I was so have to become more self-aware
was so have to become more self-aware
was so have to become more self-aware and responsibility I had to take
and responsibility I had to take
and responsibility I had to take responsibility for knowing or not
responsibility for knowing or not
responsibility for knowing or not knowing something doing or not doing at
knowing something doing or not doing at
knowing something doing or not doing at that time I chose not to do not to get
that time I chose not to do not to get
that time I chose not to do not to get real so as I said this book based on
real so as I said this book based on
real so as I said this book based on research go and look up the LTSs are for
research go and look up the LTSs are for
research go and look up the LTSs are for yourselves I urge you to do that don’t
yourselves I urge you to do that don’t
yourselves I urge you to do that don’t trust me on this one but look it up okay
trust me on this one but look it up okay
trust me on this one but look it up okay it will help you and I hope you enjoy
it will help you and I hope you enjoy
it will help you and I hope you enjoy the rest of the talk thank you for
the rest of the talk thank you for
the rest of the talk thank you for listening
listening
listening [Applause]
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