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Fuga da Matrix. Uscire dall’inautentico‎ e dare senso al tempo | Simone Perotti | TEDxCesena


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then let’s start with a little anecdote

a staff that I have reported there

I report more in which of the books but that

It is very important in the history of which

we’re talking about

I was 29 years old working in the company

I did a stretch as explained

even as a freelancer who was the

cute name that in the eighties

gave precarious because in the 80s there

we all gave quite a tone and then

I had become employed then later

some used the most sophisticated

framework is even at 29 years are

became a manager I had set myself to

get there at 30 so I remember the day

when coming back from the room

of the CEO in his hand

This letter I crossed the corridor

I entered my room and I am

sitting down and I reread this letter of

whose content he naturally knew

who appointed me as a manager

I remember precise of the feeling that

try that it was not one

unique feeling is a sensation

half-breed on one side was obviously

satisfied is my father had done

a similar company path then

somehow I reflected in his

career and black very satisfied with

to have succeeded in the intent that I was

prefixed but of course not to find me

in a state of perfect harmony

of perfect well-being he suffered me

suspicious I should have like everyone

those that are to say fully in the

place where they must be and do that

that feels like I should do

please me with trying a

great pleasure and the instant after fix

again a goal man so do

the ambitious I was an ambitious I was

one who wanted to grow wanted to learn

he wanted to make his way

instead I felt a sensation

very strong very clear that you berlin them

they managed to decode but then

over time I understood to be

the certainty that I would not do that

all life, that is, in the moment in which

I had to accept the bar again

I thought that sport was not one

what I would have done all the time

this feeling is said so

lignified rooted in my mind

in my heart I continued for the

I work very hard with a lot of work

things have gone well

I was lucky I did good things

it was a period when I was working in the

world of communication and things

they were good, I was good

I was very busy too

lucky I had good masters though

things have remained in a sense

hanging there and that feeling is

stayed inside of me

and there is another anecdote that in some

way closes the circle between two

feelings that have been recalled between

they have determined an action is

been many years later I was on the siding

Rome’s ring had lived at the time

it was half past seven in the morning

we were already all closed inside theirs

machine each one those mobile phones

turned on it was very hot it was 4

July for curious coincidence

and that day I told myself it was not so

I can not live all my life like that

I can go out when everyone goes out not

I can come back when everyone returns not

I can do the things that everyone does not

I want to live according to patterns that are

been set by someone else a who

we are saying the result of a standard

which has established itself as the priority

the winning that homologation

that being all in the same

condition seemed to me

unbearable and then I went out

from the highway as soon as I could from the

ring road which is a kind of

highway and I remember I tried for

the streets of a place I did not know

because it was an area of ​​Rome

where I could never have looked for a bar

that he had a pergola possibly

being able to stand out in the shade taken one

coffee and I sat at the table with

the idea of ​​studying a solution that does not

I though I knew how to do and it took

all I knew was to do just that

I did not have a plan b I did not

I had a solution I had not thought of

other and I remember that day I am

I took a piece of paper from a pen

I’m going to think or I put myself to

analyze all the managers

present know what that stuff is for

which you make a series of columns of minds

what you have what you do not have that

that you need what you should have

to do what you’d like to do and do it

column of things I needed was

very rich those I had were few

they were good for doing what I had

always done but not beyond

and from that moment I started working

I started working or a project that

it was a project of liberation

let’s say so of authenticity audit

authentication

I was born to write and surf

each of us was born to do something

and many people write to me you are

lucky because you know how to navigate, you know

You can write as if I were born with

rudder in hand with pen in hand but

in short, of course, as you can

imagine it’s not like that I can not do

anything

this obviously is not true jack

London said something very beautiful

he wrote that if each of us like

a ball placed on a staggered plane

if we leave you that ball does

a trajectory that if you do not break them

the soul along the way is certain

trajectories he called this the line

of lower resistance ie that which

we would do well

feeling good while doing it

if we could do it my line of

less resistance in this I have been

lucky I was clear enough that is

me since I was a child

I knew that I felt because then I knew

an issue that comes with the

awareness but I felt that I had to

writing surfing was mine

line of less resistance in that

moment is fulfilled in my life I have

very important fact from knowing that

what was the free from that it’s a thing

very widespread, everyone knows what he wants

say free from the capice

free from the rhythms the book from the le

responsibilities from the responsibility of the

heavy heart by the mortgage

compulsory relationships not chosen by theme

a director of staff who for

definition a crazy as we know if you

he put a desk like next to him

your colleague from that awareness

very widespread I acquired in that

moment another awareness that is

that of what I had to become

free which is part of the other half

but of the matter

most people when they talk

of freedom is clear what it means

free from but not what he would like

he should feel that he would like to be

free I left work from

so I changed my life I have it

changed by doing a project though

around this being a writer

having always been and being then

become more professional

more methodological a project that has a

what to do with another way to live

because I discovered after so many fears since

first example we made of 29

years to when I changed my life there

12 have passed because I had to

win all the fears of the case is

I had to ask myself all the questions and find

an original answer at the time of

these things were not talked about was

2008 when I changed my life the

January 2008 for curious coincidence

for September the Lehman crisis

brothers tried me in spite of each

any doubt that I had done well

from that moment on the project yes

It is enriched and has become something

that I could have the courage

finally to try to live I was

terrified of course not to have

salary are also the son of one

Genoese lineage so the matter is

also quite serious and above all

I was terrified of interrupting one

career had arrived in a good one

location for me by my means and

I knew that from the age of 40 I would have

I could gather all that

I had sown the job that is called

public relations takes a lot

to build these relationships though

afterwards they produce their fruits I did

public relations communication

etc

everything that would come after me

I would not have lived it then I was

losing the fear of losing what

you have

I realized with time it was the

major brake because it was not there

awareness of everything I would not have

had if I had not tried this it is

a very important thing

the years that followed were

happier than my life naturally

how easy to imagine why I am

lived doing exactly what for which

I was born I lived trying to

be what I knew I could

being and what I knew I had to do

to attempt

of course to do this the project

is due particularly good in a series

of very concrete things

I have spent from January 2008 to today

74 thousand euros overall that lived with

8,500 euros per year

but you can do a lot more than the average

is affected by the first years I was

little used to a house where I live one

stone house a barn of the end of the

six hundred who are also cool if you say so

a girl who, however, was restructured

everything from me this part less pussy in

which is better does not involve the

girl who had never made a roof of

a stone wooden house and then the

wooden roof nobody naturally well

me too

which has tragically seen the first one

winter when I had 36 waterways in the

roof

I slept with the whole wax less

bad that they have equipped with the drop

on the shoulder that came down

I had forgotten to put the card

tarred thinking that the slope

enough is only one mistake I made

many

I absolutely understood however that one

person who makes the life that everyone does

us every day so complicated at all

the resources to confront the

problems and try to solve them in

very creative way once in a manner

even a little bankrupt but anyway

very satisfactory I discovered that yes

it may have produced most of the

things we need

I have myself killed rather than

buy something this the fact of

being of Genoese origin helps but ma

but it is not enough we also need a little bit

invent things right here every thing

that I need to use or to

re-use I consider a kind of

inner death when a

home appliance I can not fix it

I have to change it though in all this

there is a great possibility it is

absolutely possible to live

otherwise absolutely possible

indeed it is necessary to get out of the

placing of thought out of the

homologation of lifestyles because

the first we heard one thing first

very interesting of an activist for i

human rights

that’s really a question

important not to help people ad

be healthier to live more

etc. but there is something that I believe

deeply

that comes before that one

the heroes do what they do

special people, many of us could

do it certainly but I’m sure it is

something really beyond the bar for

many of us but there is one thing instead

we can all do and is that of

contribute to society by trying to

live authentically trying to

really be what you were born for

to stop pretending to do

trades that do not belong to you

they are often harmful to the

society

stopping having 29 degrees at home

mine is only heated with wood

that I split burn if you leave the

cigarettes on the sofa at the end of October

start smoking again in March because

clearly you do not get away from the

fireplace, however, how to say this

high point contributes to the killing

of costs

but now the lines start now

that can really be done a lot

what’s this

a lot of things, very, very, very much

simple much within our reach that

they make our life terribly

adventurous without then going to

see into the wild c motions I love for

what we see we can live it

we also without those excesses and

especially started to really do

what I felt I wanted to do with

I can do that to write surfing I can

to help society with that

that I write and my research

of authenticity to determine something

of value because I have around for whom

he can read something interesting

for those who can

find a solution through a

example a testimony this is

certainly something that must be done

certainly when what we do if

writing it on a piece of paper is too much

different the signs are too different from the

signs we’ve got on maybe that

that we are writing is not literature

but it’s just fiction and this is one thing

that we should remember it takes one

certain consistency and a certain identity

between what we do and what we do

let’s say that often there is not

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