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From Victim to Victor | Paresh Patel | TEDxSomaiyaVidyavihar


good evening everyone how are you all

good evening everyone how are you all doing tonight great this is my first

doing tonight great this is my first

doing tonight great this is my first time in so my University and I must say

time in so my University and I must say

time in so my University and I must say it is a beautiful campus I have a

it is a beautiful campus I have a

it is a beautiful campus I have a question for you all how many of you

question for you all how many of you

question for you all how many of you like to travel

like to travel

like to travel raise your hands please now how many of

raise your hands please now how many of

raise your hands please now how many of you have travelled to two or more

you have travelled to two or more

you have travelled to two or more countries quite a few how many of you

countries quite a few how many of you

countries quite a few how many of you have taken a family vacation or taken a

have taken a family vacation or taken a

have taken a family vacation or taken a road trip or sea voyage

road trip or sea voyage

road trip or sea voyage wow what a wonder less crowd let me take

wow what a wonder less crowd let me take

wow what a wonder less crowd let me take you through a journey of Kabir’s who had

you through a journey of Kabir’s who had

you through a journey of Kabir’s who had an action-packed vulture of his life as

an action-packed vulture of his life as

an action-packed vulture of his life as a teenager he travelled from South India

a teenager he travelled from South India

a teenager he travelled from South India to Sri Lanka to Switzerland to Canada

to Sri Lanka to Switzerland to Canada

to Sri Lanka to Switzerland to Canada and so on he Travers continents and

and so on he Travers continents and

and so on he Travers continents and oceans mountains and forests swamps and

oceans mountains and forests swamps and

oceans mountains and forests swamps and jungles

jungles

jungles now don’t get idea of Tarzan or a Mowgli

now don’t get idea of Tarzan or a Mowgli

now don’t get idea of Tarzan or a Mowgli from Jungle Book but he sure did take a

from Jungle Book but he sure did take a

from Jungle Book but he sure did take a road less traveled let’s take a look at

road less traveled let’s take a look at

road less traveled let’s take a look at it

they kind of do they how much imagine

they kind of do they how much imagine you happy too

[Music]

[Music] Ganesh your penis okay yeah making her

Ganesh your penis okay yeah making her

Ganesh your penis okay yeah making her each other a little

each other a little

each other a little [Music]

[Music]

[Music] Costa Rica Romania okay sorry

come

come [Music]

[Music]

[Music] Hey

Hey

Hey [Music]

not the picture in mind right who could

not the picture in mind right who could have thought how could an action-packed

have thought how could an action-packed

have thought how could an action-packed vulture shrink to a deadly Cobb chase a

vulture shrink to a deadly Cobb chase a

vulture shrink to a deadly Cobb chase a bodily matter of life and death

bodily matter of life and death

bodily matter of life and death he did visit Sri Lanka in all the other

he did visit Sri Lanka in all the other

he did visit Sri Lanka in all the other places but only as a victim of human

places but only as a victim of human

places but only as a victim of human trafficking why he was lucky enough to

trafficking why he was lucky enough to

trafficking why he was lucky enough to be trafficked on a borrowed identity

be trafficked on a borrowed identity

be trafficked on a borrowed identity there was immense possibility that who

there was immense possibility that who

there was immense possibility that who he could be sold into a prostitution or

he could be sold into a prostitution or

he could be sold into a prostitution or child labor and hence at a tender age he

child labor and hence at a tender age he

child labor and hence at a tender age he was deprived of a sound mental and

was deprived of a sound mental and

was deprived of a sound mental and physical existence and that Kabir is

physical existence and that Kabir is

physical existence and that Kabir is here with you all today thank you I was

here with you all today thank you I was

here with you all today thank you I was beaten into a new identity

beaten into a new identity

beaten into a new identity I was molded into a new face

I was molded into a new face

I was molded into a new face I was scribbled into a new name and I

I was scribbled into a new name and I

I was scribbled into a new name and I was marked into a new body my life’s

was marked into a new body my life’s

was marked into a new body my life’s purpose was reduced to merely another

purpose was reduced to merely another

purpose was reduced to merely another man’s passport I landed on American soil

man’s passport I landed on American soil

man’s passport I landed on American soil why a global racket set up by mafia what

why a global racket set up by mafia what

why a global racket set up by mafia what followed was familiar faces were

followed was familiar faces were

followed was familiar faces were replaced by strangers books were

replaced by strangers books were

replaced by strangers books were replaced by brooms and plungers memories

replaced by brooms and plungers memories

replaced by brooms and plungers memories were replaced by pure and fragile trust

were replaced by pure and fragile trust

were replaced by pure and fragile trust soft hands toughen to feed empty stomach

soft hands toughen to feed empty stomach

soft hands toughen to feed empty stomach and the dubbing village boy now

and the dubbing village boy now

and the dubbing village boy now was pushed into his own cocoon as I’m

was pushed into his own cocoon as I’m

was pushed into his own cocoon as I’m speaking this very minute eleven

speaking this very minute eleven

speaking this very minute eleven children are being trafficked into a

children are being trafficked into a

children are being trafficked into a life of uncertainty traffickers exploits

life of uncertainty traffickers exploits

life of uncertainty traffickers exploits the sense of desperation of the poor of

the sense of desperation of the poor of

the sense of desperation of the poor of the uneducated unaware and the deprived

the uneducated unaware and the deprived

the uneducated unaware and the deprived in my case they gave me an impression

in my case they gave me an impression

in my case they gave me an impression that my family will follow me into a

that my family will follow me into a

that my family will follow me into a better future

while both boys and girls are considered

while both boys and girls are considered victims girls are considered objects of

victims girls are considered objects of

victims girls are considered objects of desire with their fate only worsening as

desire with their fate only worsening as

desire with their fate only worsening as they grow older it is not hard to see

they grow older it is not hard to see

they grow older it is not hard to see that these factors and their interplay

that these factors and their interplay

that these factors and their interplay has led to human trafficking which is a

has led to human trafficking which is a

has led to human trafficking which is a sad reality after getting tormented for

sad reality after getting tormented for

sad reality after getting tormented for three years I escaped into a land where

three years I escaped into a land where

three years I escaped into a land where the soil smelt of freedom and hence the

the soil smelt of freedom and hence the

the soil smelt of freedom and hence the absence of money or home did not matter

absence of money or home did not matter

absence of money or home did not matter in front of this I was fortunate enough

in front of this I was fortunate enough

in front of this I was fortunate enough to get odd jobs at a hotel but I started

to get odd jobs at a hotel but I started

to get odd jobs at a hotel but I started cleaning rooms cleaning toilets doing

cleaning rooms cleaning toilets doing

cleaning rooms cleaning toilets doing maintenance and housekeeping in the day

maintenance and housekeeping in the day

maintenance and housekeeping in the day the hotel became my school where I

the hotel became my school where I

the hotel became my school where I learned new tasks and gained knowledge

learned new tasks and gained knowledge

learned new tasks and gained knowledge and at night it became my home with each

and at night it became my home with each

and at night it became my home with each passing day I learned to value my life

passing day I learned to value my life

passing day I learned to value my life more and to work harder with each

more and to work harder with each

more and to work harder with each passing day I became more independent

passing day I became more independent

passing day I became more independent more determined and more fearless and

more determined and more fearless and

more determined and more fearless and with each passing day the thought of

with each passing day the thought of

with each passing day the thought of owning my own hotel became my dream the

owning my own hotel became my dream the

owning my own hotel became my dream the fear of losing control of my life

fear of losing control of my life

fear of losing control of my life drove me to achieve my dreams all I

drove me to achieve my dreams all I

drove me to achieve my dreams all I wanted was to own a hotel the only

wanted was to own a hotel the only

wanted was to own a hotel the only problem was that I had no money no bank

problem was that I had no money no bank

problem was that I had no money no bank account no social security number no

account no social security number no

account no social security number no driver license I was not even legal what

driver license I was not even legal what

driver license I was not even legal what I was I was an amazing toilet cleaner

I was I was an amazing toilet cleaner

I was I was an amazing toilet cleaner and I can show you many innovative ways

and I can show you many innovative ways

and I can show you many innovative ways of how to clean them but I was clueless

of how to clean them but I was clueless

of how to clean them but I was clueless about owning a hotel as I learned the

about owning a hotel as I learned the

about owning a hotel as I learned the tricks and trades of owning a hotel or

tricks and trades of owning a hotel or

tricks and trades of owning a hotel or running as a business I faced rejection

running as a business I faced rejection

running as a business I faced rejection time and again in fact I’ve been

time and again in fact I’ve been

time and again in fact I’ve been rejected by so many people so many times

rejected by so many people so many times

rejected by so many people so many times that being rejected by a women does not

that being rejected by a women does not

that being rejected by a women does not hurt anymore finally on July 4th while

hurt anymore finally on July 4th while

hurt anymore finally on July 4th while the United States was celebrating their

the United States was celebrating their

the United States was celebrating their Independence Day I celebrated my years

Independence Day I celebrated my years

Independence Day I celebrated my years of sweat with tears of joy I had

of sweat with tears of joy I had

of sweat with tears of joy I had acquired my first hotel and then there

acquired my first hotel and then there

acquired my first hotel and then there was no looking back

was no looking back

was no looking back thank you I ensured that this circle of

thank you I ensured that this circle of

thank you I ensured that this circle of life didn’t end here that each hotel

life didn’t end here that each hotel

life didn’t end here that each hotel should have a worthy successor which led

should have a worthy successor which led

should have a worthy successor which led to a foundation of Oasis enterprise now

to a foundation of Oasis enterprise now

to a foundation of Oasis enterprise now having portfolio of luxury hotels

exercising hospitality through my hotels

exercising hospitality through my hotels is an exciting experience but exercising

is an exciting experience but exercising

is an exciting experience but exercising hospitality through my nonprofit arm

hospitality through my nonprofit arm

hospitality through my nonprofit arm helping

helping

helping and truly makes a difference local

and truly makes a difference local

and truly makes a difference local churches foster cares organizations for

churches foster cares organizations for

churches foster cares organizations for homeless these are the places where

homeless these are the places where

homeless these are the places where service is not restricted to only rooms

service is not restricted to only rooms

service is not restricted to only rooms and goes beyond to the people people

and goes beyond to the people people

and goes beyond to the people people like Omar who had to leave Africa as a

like Omar who had to leave Africa as a

like Omar who had to leave Africa as a refugee people like Sarah who had to

refugee people like Sarah who had to

refugee people like Sarah who had to leave Syria as a widow and people like

leave Syria as a widow and people like

leave Syria as a widow and people like beresch who had to leave his family and

beresch who had to leave his family and

beresch who had to leave his family and country as a smuggled and trafficked

country as a smuggled and trafficked

country as a smuggled and trafficked victim everyone has a gift and creating

victim everyone has a gift and creating

victim everyone has a gift and creating opportunities for the needful will lead

opportunities for the needful will lead

opportunities for the needful will lead to their rightful and bright future and

to their rightful and bright future and

to their rightful and bright future and I reiterate that only man himself is the

I reiterate that only man himself is the

I reiterate that only man himself is the master of his own fate beat any

master of his own fate beat any

master of his own fate beat any situation take charge over it shape your

situation take charge over it shape your

situation take charge over it shape your own way walk your own walk however the

own way walk your own walk however the

own way walk your own walk however the situation paralyzed you over comment

situation paralyzed you over comment

situation paralyzed you over comment that Oasis innovators our startup

that Oasis innovators our startup

that Oasis innovators our startup incubator we shape young thoughts

incubator we shape young thoughts

incubator we shape young thoughts leaders to pave the way for change and

leaders to pave the way for change and

leaders to pave the way for change and transform the world I would like to

transform the world I would like to

transform the world I would like to conclude with a thought

this hundred-dollar bill will not lose

this hundred-dollar bill will not lose its value if I fold it scrambled it

its value if I fold it scrambled it

its value if I fold it scrambled it crumble it or stomp it the same way this

crumble it or stomp it the same way this

crumble it or stomp it the same way this hundred dollar holds value so do all of

hundred dollar holds value so do all of

hundred dollar holds value so do all of us so do all of you no matter how many

us so do all of you no matter how many

us so do all of you no matter how many times life shatters you or life smack

times life shatters you or life smack

times life shatters you or life smack you down or life will try you or

you down or life will try you or

you down or life will try you or challenges you your value will always be

challenges you your value will always be

challenges you your value will always be with you the spark within you will never

with you the spark within you will never

with you the spark within you will never be taken away your value is not created

be taken away your value is not created

be taken away your value is not created your value is not destroyed your value

your value is not destroyed your value

your value is not destroyed your value it your value is infinite and immortal

it your value is infinite and immortal

it your value is infinite and immortal and your value is within you thank you

and your value is within you thank you

and your value is within you thank you [Applause]

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