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so we’ve all had those conversations at

so we’ve all had those conversations at the kitchen table with our friends you

the kitchen table with our friends you

the kitchen table with our friends you know the one that starts with I wonder

know the one that starts with I wonder

know the one that starts with I wonder what would happen if or wouldn’t it be

what would happen if or wouldn’t it be

what would happen if or wouldn’t it be great if well now imagine if we actually

great if well now imagine if we actually

great if well now imagine if we actually did something with those ideas my name

did something with those ideas my name

did something with those ideas my name is una Begley and I’m going to talk

is una Begley and I’m going to talk

is una Begley and I’m going to talk today about volunteering with first

today about volunteering with first

today about volunteering with first fortnight Ireland’s mental health arts

fortnight Ireland’s mental health arts

fortnight Ireland’s mental health arts charity has taught me I’ve learned four

charity has taught me I’ve learned four

charity has taught me I’ve learned four main lessons about the strengths of

main lessons about the strengths of

main lessons about the strengths of volunteers who aim to act on those

volunteers who aim to act on those

volunteers who aim to act on those kitchen-table ideas to have a positive

kitchen-table ideas to have a positive

kitchen-table ideas to have a positive impact on social behaviors and how they

impact on social behaviors and how they

impact on social behaviors and how they can make their volunteering even more

can make their volunteering even more

can make their volunteering even more effective and those four lessons are

effective and those four lessons are

effective and those four lessons are voluntary does not mean amateur

voluntary does not mean amateur

voluntary does not mean amateur volunteers are the social change makers

volunteers are the social change makers

volunteers are the social change makers the individual volunteers are as

the individual volunteers are as

the individual volunteers are as important as the organisation they

important as the organisation they

important as the organisation they volunteer with and there’s strength in

volunteer with and there’s strength in

volunteer with and there’s strength in numbers but sometimes if you will do I

numbers but sometimes if you will do I

numbers but sometimes if you will do I volunteer with first fortnight which was

volunteer with first fortnight which was

volunteer with first fortnight which was born of a conversation between two

born of a conversation between two

born of a conversation between two friends at a kitchen table in a

friends at a kitchen table in a

friends at a kitchen table in a semi-detached house in Tyler Dublin now

semi-detached house in Tyler Dublin now

semi-detached house in Tyler Dublin now I wasn’t one of the two people at that

I wasn’t one of the two people at that

I wasn’t one of the two people at that table

table

table unfortunately so I can’t claim credit

unfortunately so I can’t claim credit

unfortunately so I can’t claim credit the two friends in question were the

the two friends in question were the

the two friends in question were the charity’s founders JP Swain and David

charity’s founders JP Swain and David

charity’s founders JP Swain and David Keegan first fortnight is an

Keegan first fortnight is an

Keegan first fortnight is an organization that aims to reduce mental

organization that aims to reduce mental

organization that aims to reduce mental health stigma through the arts and

health stigma through the arts and

health stigma through the arts and cultural action it’s run almost entirely

cultural action it’s run almost entirely

cultural action it’s run almost entirely by volunteers it consists of a mental

by volunteers it consists of a mental

by volunteers it consists of a mental health teamed arts festival that runs

health teamed arts festival that runs

health teamed arts festival that runs each January in addition to being a

each January in addition to being a

each January in addition to being a service provider with a professional

service provider with a professional

service provider with a professional year-round creative therapy service that

year-round creative therapy service that

year-round creative therapy service that provides free art and music therapy to

provides free art and music therapy to

provides free art and music therapy to people experiencing mental ill-health

people experiencing mental ill-health

people experiencing mental ill-health and who are homeless or at risk of

and who are homeless or at risk of

and who are homeless or at risk of homelessness the festival itself aims to

homelessness the festival itself aims to

homelessness the festival itself aims to capture that buzz that happens in an

capture that buzz that happens in an

capture that buzz that happens in an audience at the end of a creative or

audience at the end of a creative or

audience at the end of a creative or cultural event whether that’s music

cultural event whether that’s music

cultural event whether that’s music theatre film spoken word dance sports

theatre film spoken word dance sports

theatre film spoken word dance sports events and focus that energy and

events and focus that energy and

events and focus that energy and discussion in one particular direction

discussion in one particular direction

discussion in one particular direction onto one particular topic specifically

onto one particular topic specifically

onto one particular topic specifically mental health and where do I fit into

mental health and where do I fit into

mental health and where do I fit into all this

all this

all this well I’m one of the volunteers who

well I’m one of the volunteers who

well I’m one of the volunteers who helped to make first fortnight happen I

helped to make first fortnight happen I

helped to make first fortnight happen I should probably point out that until

should probably point out that until

should probably point out that until four years ago I’d never volunteered in

four years ago I’d never volunteered in

four years ago I’d never volunteered in my life my world didn’t expand that far

my life my world didn’t expand that far

my life my world didn’t expand that far beyond myself my friends and my family

beyond myself my friends and my family

beyond myself my friends and my family and the occasional donation of money to

and the occasional donation of money to

and the occasional donation of money to one cause or another or to someone I saw

one cause or another or to someone I saw

one cause or another or to someone I saw a living on the streets

a living on the streets

a living on the streets I loved live music and I enjoy going to

I loved live music and I enjoy going to

I loved live music and I enjoy going to gigs and music festivals when I wasn’t

gigs and music festivals when I wasn’t

gigs and music festivals when I wasn’t working in my full-time job as a speech

working in my full-time job as a speech

working in my full-time job as a speech and language therapist I was also one of

and language therapist I was also one of

and language therapist I was also one of those people who rarely acted on those I

those people who rarely acted on those I

those people who rarely acted on those I wonder what would happen if or wouldn’t

wonder what would happen if or wouldn’t

wonder what would happen if or wouldn’t it be great if ideas presuming that

it be great if ideas presuming that

it be great if ideas presuming that someone else could do them better or

someone else could do them better or

someone else could do them better or just being too lazy to put them into

just being too lazy to put them into

just being too lazy to put them into action but over the last four years I’ve

action but over the last four years I’ve

action but over the last four years I’ve learned so much about the real tangible

learned so much about the real tangible

learned so much about the real tangible change that we can all make to the world

change that we can all make to the world

change that we can all make to the world through volunteering and I’m going to

through volunteering and I’m going to

through volunteering and I’m going to share some of that learning with you as

share some of that learning with you as

share some of that learning with you as I tell my story I came across first

I tell my story I came across first

I tell my story I came across first fortnight in 2011 one year after its

fortnight in 2011 one year after its

fortnight in 2011 one year after its inaugural event as an avid gate goer who

inaugural event as an avid gate goer who

inaugural event as an avid gate goer who wanted to see a band who happened to be

wanted to see a band who happened to be

wanted to see a band who happened to be playing at first for tonight’s flagship

playing at first for tonight’s flagship

playing at first for tonight’s flagship finale gig if I’m honest I wasn’t aware

finale gig if I’m honest I wasn’t aware

finale gig if I’m honest I wasn’t aware it was a charity event until I was there

it was a charity event until I was there

it was a charity event until I was there when the conversation about mental

when the conversation about mental

when the conversation about mental health was triggered in a gentle way

health was triggered in a gentle way

health was triggered in a gentle way through the use of brief speeches audio

through the use of brief speeches audio

through the use of brief speeches audio visuals and the band’s themselves

visuals and the band’s themselves

visuals and the band’s themselves talking about why they wanted to be

talking about why they wanted to be

talking about why they wanted to be involved in first fortnight and its

involved in first fortnight and its

involved in first fortnight and its mental health stigma reduction aims the

mental health stigma reduction aims the

mental health stigma reduction aims the fact that the event was run by

fact that the event was run by

fact that the event was run by volunteers wasn’t apparent in any aspect

volunteers wasn’t apparent in any aspect

volunteers wasn’t apparent in any aspect of the night and it competed favorably

of the night and it competed favorably

of the night and it competed favorably with any professional gig I’d ever

with any professional gig I’d ever

with any professional gig I’d ever attended the idea that volunteers could

attended the idea that volunteers could

attended the idea that volunteers could come together to stage large-scale

come together to stage large-scale

come together to stage large-scale high-quality events astounded me and

high-quality events astounded me and

high-quality events astounded me and looking back it was at this point that I

looking back it was at this point that I

looking back it was at this point that I learned that first volunteering lesson

learned that first volunteering lesson

learned that first volunteering lesson voluntary does not mean amateur I

voluntary does not mean amateur I

voluntary does not mean amateur I realized that nice that first

realized that nice that first

realized that nice that first fortnight’s volunteers were staging

fortnight’s volunteers were staging

fortnight’s volunteers were staging events to engage festival participants

events to engage festival participants

events to engage festival participants in frank discussion about mental health

in frank discussion about mental health

in frank discussion about mental health in a stigma free space the idea that d

in a stigma free space the idea that d

in a stigma free space the idea that d stigmatizing mental health could be as

stigmatizing mental health could be as

stigmatizing mental health could be as easy as staging an arts or cultural

easy as staging an arts or cultural

easy as staging an arts or cultural event surprised me but the conversations

event surprised me but the conversations

event surprised me but the conversations I heard that night

I heard that night

I heard that night unlike any I had heard in their openness

unlike any I had heard in their openness

unlike any I had heard in their openness and honesty but in order to be taken

and honesty but in order to be taken

and honesty but in order to be taken seriously those events need to be of a

seriously those events need to be of a

seriously those events need to be of a high enough quality to have an impact

high enough quality to have an impact

high enough quality to have an impact and low quality events risk having an

and low quality events risk having an

and low quality events risk having an even more stigmatizing effect so as

even more stigmatizing effect so as

even more stigmatizing effect so as volunteers we need to aim as high as

volunteers we need to aim as high as

volunteers we need to aim as high as possible in the two years after I

possible in the two years after I

possible in the two years after I discovered first fortnight I went

discovered first fortnight I went

discovered first fortnight I went through periods of being mentally

through periods of being mentally

through periods of being mentally unhealthy and I was surprised at how

unhealthy and I was surprised at how

unhealthy and I was surprised at how hard I found it to reach out for support

hard I found it to reach out for support

hard I found it to reach out for support or to talk to anyone in my life about

or to talk to anyone in my life about

or to talk to anyone in my life about how I was feeling in a reversal of how

how I was feeling in a reversal of how

how I was feeling in a reversal of how first fortnight was born of a kitchen

first fortnight was born of a kitchen

first fortnight was born of a kitchen table conversation my involvement was

table conversation my involvement was

table conversation my involvement was born of my complete inability to talk to

born of my complete inability to talk to

born of my complete inability to talk to the people I cared about about what I

the people I cared about about what I

the people I cared about about what I was going through my self-confidence

was going through my self-confidence

was going through my self-confidence nosedived and my negative self-talk

nosedived and my negative self-talk

nosedived and my negative self-talk reached a point where was impacting

reached a point where was impacting

reached a point where was impacting daily on my self-esteem each January I

daily on my self-esteem each January I

daily on my self-esteem each January I went to more and more first fortnight

went to more and more first fortnight

went to more and more first fortnight music theater film and spoken word

music theater film and spoken word

music theater film and spoken word events finding strengths and their easy

events finding strengths and their easy

events finding strengths and their easy openness about all things mental health

openness about all things mental health

openness about all things mental health and by talking to people about my

and by talking to people about my

and by talking to people about my attendance at these events I was able to

attendance at these events I was able to

attendance at these events I was able to open the conversations that I needed to

open the conversations that I needed to

open the conversations that I needed to have but that I was struggling to find

have but that I was struggling to find

have but that I was struggling to find the words for by talking to people about

the words for by talking to people about

the words for by talking to people about the events I was going to I was actually

the events I was going to I was actually

the events I was going to I was actually able to talk about what I was going

able to talk about what I was going

able to talk about what I was going through in 2014 as a result of that

through in 2014 as a result of that

through in 2014 as a result of that direct personal effect of attending

direct personal effect of attending

direct personal effect of attending first fortnight events in those previous

first fortnight events in those previous

first fortnight events in those previous two years I volunteered for the festival

two years I volunteered for the festival

two years I volunteered for the festival for the first time it was at this point

for the first time it was at this point

for the first time it was at this point that I learned my second volunteering

that I learned my second volunteering

that I learned my second volunteering lesson volunteers are the social change

lesson volunteers are the social change

lesson volunteers are the social change makers although the tasks I was given

makers although the tasks I was given

makers although the tasks I was given were fairly easy I realized that I had a

were fairly easy I realized that I had a

were fairly easy I realized that I had a far reaching roll across the festival as

far reaching roll across the festival as

far reaching roll across the festival as a visible representative of first

a visible representative of first

a visible representative of first fortnight by showing a willingness to

fortnight by showing a willingness to

fortnight by showing a willingness to engage with audience members in

engage with audience members in

engage with audience members in conversations about mental health I was

conversations about mental health I was

conversations about mental health I was setting the tone for those first

setting the tone for those first

setting the tone for those first fortnight events and my role as a

fortnight events and my role as a

fortnight events and my role as a volunteer

volunteer

volunteer actually went far further I learned from

actually went far further I learned from

actually went far further I learned from volunteering with first fortnight to go

volunteering with first fortnight to go

volunteering with first fortnight to go on as an advocate for mental health

on as an advocate for mental health

on as an advocate for mental health stigma reduction through all facets of

stigma reduction through all facets of

stigma reduction through all facets of my life by my behaviors when mental

my life by my behaviors when mental

my life by my behaviors when mental health is on the table volunteering in a

health is on the table volunteering in a

health is on the table volunteering in a real way changed me and how I interact

real way changed me and how I interact

real way changed me and how I interact with the world and the fact that I’m a

with the world and the fact that I’m a

with the world and the fact that I’m a volunteer and not an activist is also an

volunteer and not an activist is also an

volunteer and not an activist is also an important point research has shown that

important point research has shown that

important point research has shown that that individuals can resist social

that individuals can resist social

that individuals can resist social change due to negative stereotypes about

change due to negative stereotypes about

change due to negative stereotypes about activists regardless of the domain of

activists regardless of the domain of

activists regardless of the domain of activism viewing them as militant and

activism viewing them as militant and

activism viewing them as militant and eccentric but as a volunteer

eccentric but as a volunteer

eccentric but as a volunteer I’m the colleague friend family member

I’m the colleague friend family member

I’m the colleague friend family member peer who just happens to be volunteering

peer who just happens to be volunteering

peer who just happens to be volunteering with a mental health arts charity and

with a mental health arts charity and

with a mental health arts charity and trying to demonstrate D stigmatizing

trying to demonstrate D stigmatizing

trying to demonstrate D stigmatizing behaviors that first year I also learned

behaviors that first year I also learned

behaviors that first year I also learned my first lesson but in my third lesson

my first lesson but in my third lesson

my first lesson but in my third lesson that individual volunteers are as

that individual volunteers are as

that individual volunteers are as important as the organization they

important as the organization they

important as the organization they volunteer with first fortnight gets its

volunteer with first fortnight gets its

volunteer with first fortnight gets its share of media and social media coverage

share of media and social media coverage

share of media and social media coverage and its upcoming 2018 festival has an

and its upcoming 2018 festival has an

and its upcoming 2018 festival has an expected audience of over a thousand

expected audience of over a thousand

expected audience of over a thousand people but one of the most significant

people but one of the most significant

people but one of the most significant and far-reaching effects of my

and far-reaching effects of my

and far-reaching effects of my volunteering role is the trickle-down

volunteering role is the trickle-down

volunteering role is the trickle-down effect I’ve created countless

effect I’ve created countless

effect I’ve created countless opportunities to talk about mental

opportunities to talk about mental

opportunities to talk about mental health through my discussion of my

health through my discussion of my

health through my discussion of my involvement with the organization I’ve

involvement with the organization I’ve

involvement with the organization I’ve had conversations with friends family

had conversations with friends family

had conversations with friends family colleagues and even strangers that I

colleagues and even strangers that I

colleagues and even strangers that I wouldn’t have had if it wasn’t for first

wouldn’t have had if it wasn’t for first

wouldn’t have had if it wasn’t for first fortnight I’ve been told things and I’ve

fortnight I’ve been told things and I’ve

fortnight I’ve been told things and I’ve shared things that I never would have

shared things that I never would have

shared things that I never would have had the opportunity to otherwise if I’m

had the opportunity to otherwise if I’m

had the opportunity to otherwise if I’m honest at the end of that festival in

honest at the end of that festival in

honest at the end of that festival in January 2014 I thought my involvement in

January 2014 I thought my involvement in

January 2014 I thought my involvement in the organisation was over if I had time

the organisation was over if I had time

the organisation was over if I had time I plan to volunteer again for the

I plan to volunteer again for the

I plan to volunteer again for the following year’s festival but I’d

following year’s festival but I’d

following year’s festival but I’d largely forgotten about first fortnight

largely forgotten about first fortnight

largely forgotten about first fortnight when I was approached in April 2014 to

when I was approached in April 2014 to

when I was approached in April 2014 to get involved as a volunteer fundraiser

get involved as a volunteer fundraiser

get involved as a volunteer fundraiser in the space of a year I went from

in the space of a year I went from

in the space of a year I went from volunteering with the festival for the

volunteering with the festival for the

volunteering with the festival for the first time to becoming a fundraiser to

first time to becoming a fundraiser to

first time to becoming a fundraiser to taking on the festival volunteer

taking on the festival volunteer

taking on the festival volunteer coordination role all as a volunteer

coordination role all as a volunteer

coordination role all as a volunteer myself it was as part of this

myself it was as part of this

myself it was as part of this coordination role that I learned my

coordination role that I learned my

coordination role that I learned my fourth volunteering lesson there’s

fourth volunteering lesson there’s

fourth volunteering lesson there’s strength in numbers

strength in numbers

strength in numbers but sometimes if you will do the

but sometimes if you will do the

but sometimes if you will do the festival volunteer group has grown from

festival volunteer group has grown from

festival volunteer group has grown from about 50 in the first year that I

about 50 in the first year that I

about 50 in the first year that I volunteered to about 150 in January 2017

volunteered to about 150 in January 2017

volunteered to about 150 in January 2017 trying to wrangle a group of that size

trying to wrangle a group of that size

trying to wrangle a group of that size as a volunteer myself was no easy feat

as a volunteer myself was no easy feat

as a volunteer myself was no easy feat but I’ve loved it

but I’ve loved it

but I’ve loved it and over the last three years have

and over the last three years have

and over the last three years have managed to develop a successful festival

managed to develop a successful festival

managed to develop a successful festival volunteer coordination system that I’m

volunteer coordination system that I’m

volunteer coordination system that I’m now handing on to others to manage I’ve

now handing on to others to manage I’ve

now handing on to others to manage I’ve put in place induction for them

put in place induction for them

put in place induction for them including suicide awareness safe talk

including suicide awareness safe talk

including suicide awareness safe talk training to empower the volunteers for

training to empower the volunteers for

training to empower the volunteers for the festival

the festival

the festival and I always remember how I felt when I

and I always remember how I felt when I

and I always remember how I felt when I volunteered for the first time and the

volunteered for the first time and the

volunteered for the first time and the nerves that went with it it was a bit

nerves that went with it it was a bit

nerves that went with it it was a bit like that feeling on the first day of

like that feeling on the first day of

like that feeling on the first day of school when you walk into class and you

school when you walk into class and you

school when you walk into class and you don’t know anyone and in my development

don’t know anyone and in my development

don’t know anyone and in my development of the coordinator role I’ve tried to

of the coordinator role I’ve tried to

of the coordinator role I’ve tried to remember that feeling because it reminds

remember that feeling because it reminds

remember that feeling because it reminds me how important it is for volunteers to

me how important it is for volunteers to

me how important it is for volunteers to feel part of a cohesive group our

feel part of a cohesive group our

feel part of a cohesive group our volunteers are very diverse from those

volunteers are very diverse from those

volunteers are very diverse from those who just like volunteering with arts

who just like volunteering with arts

who just like volunteering with arts festivals to those with personal

festivals to those with personal

festivals to those with personal experience of mental ill-health to those

experience of mental ill-health to those

experience of mental ill-health to those who just want to support the first

who just want to support the first

who just want to support the first fortnight’s mental health stigma

fortnight’s mental health stigma

fortnight’s mental health stigma reduction aim but it’s very important

reduction aim but it’s very important

reduction aim but it’s very important for them to feel a sense of camaraderie

for them to feel a sense of camaraderie

for them to feel a sense of camaraderie and belonging I’ve seen the strength of

and belonging I’ve seen the strength of

and belonging I’ve seen the strength of that larger volunteer group in the

that larger volunteer group in the

that larger volunteer group in the friendships that form and the fun they

friendships that form and the fun they

friendships that form and the fun they have while they’re fulfilling their

have while they’re fulfilling their

have while they’re fulfilling their festival roles but when I say sometimes

festival roles but when I say sometimes

festival roles but when I say sometimes if you will do I’m talking about us

if you will do I’m talking about us

if you will do I’m talking about us volunteers who work throughout the year

volunteers who work throughout the year

volunteers who work throughout the year on the running of the organization and

on the running of the organization and

on the running of the organization and the programming of the festival I’m

the programming of the festival I’m

the programming of the festival I’m involved in fundraising volunteer

involved in fundraising volunteer

involved in fundraising volunteer coordination as I’ve mentioned and since

coordination as I’ve mentioned and since

coordination as I’ve mentioned and since 2015 as a volunteer member of the board

2015 as a volunteer member of the board

2015 as a volunteer member of the board of directors of the charity there’s

of directors of the charity there’s

of directors of the charity there’s about 20 of us who come together usually

about 20 of us who come together usually

about 20 of us who come together usually weekly to work on fundraising

weekly to work on fundraising

weekly to work on fundraising communications marketing web development

communications marketing web development

communications marketing web development and the programming of the festival

and the programming of the festival

and the programming of the festival which for January 2018 has seen the

which for January 2018 has seen the

which for January 2018 has seen the festival grow to over a hundred events

festival grow to over a hundred events

festival grow to over a hundred events across 17 counties in Ireland we come

across 17 counties in Ireland we come

across 17 counties in Ireland we come from a range of backgrounds some in

from a range of backgrounds some in

from a range of backgrounds some in mental health some in the arts some like

mental health some in the arts some like

mental health some in the arts some like myself working in unrelated fields

myself working in unrelated fields

myself working in unrelated fields and this group needs to have a smaller

and this group needs to have a smaller

and this group needs to have a smaller more focused number so that tasks can be

more focused number so that tasks can be

more focused number so that tasks can be completed and decisions made I remember

completed and decisions made I remember

completed and decisions made I remember to talk talking to one of the festival

to talk talking to one of the festival

to talk talking to one of the festival volunteers about this smaller group as

volunteers about this smaller group as

volunteers about this smaller group as volunteers and he said she are not

volunteers and he said she are not

volunteers and he said she are not really volunteers and at the time I

really volunteers and at the time I

really volunteers and at the time I didn’t understand what he meant and if

didn’t understand what he meant and if

didn’t understand what he meant and if I’m honest

I’m honest

I’m honest I kind of took offense at a statement

I kind of took offense at a statement

I kind of took offense at a statement but I think I do understand what he

but I think I do understand what he

but I think I do understand what he means now we do fulfill a different role

means now we do fulfill a different role

means now we do fulfill a different role to the festival volunteers who volunteer

to the festival volunteers who volunteer

to the festival volunteers who volunteer over a short but intense period of time

over a short but intense period of time

over a short but intense period of time I do see my role as a more long-term

I do see my role as a more long-term

I do see my role as a more long-term public spirited effort and we all commit

public spirited effort and we all commit

public spirited effort and we all commit significant amounts of time to us but it

significant amounts of time to us but it

significant amounts of time to us but it is still done on a voluntary basis and

is still done on a voluntary basis and

is still done on a voluntary basis and without it the charity would have been

without it the charity would have been

without it the charity would have been unable to develop we’ve come a long way

unable to develop we’ve come a long way

unable to develop we’ve come a long way the conversation about mental health and

the conversation about mental health and

the conversation about mental health and ill health in Ireland has begun but just

ill health in Ireland has begun but just

ill health in Ireland has begun but just as first fortnight began as a kitchen

as first fortnight began as a kitchen

as first fortnight began as a kitchen table conversation until the

table conversation until the

table conversation until the conversation about mental health is a

conversation about mental health is a

conversation about mental health is a safe conversation to have a kitchen

safe conversation to have a kitchen

safe conversation to have a kitchen tables across Ireland across Europe and

tables across Ireland across Europe and

tables across Ireland across Europe and around the world then the need to push

around the world then the need to push

around the world then the need to push for social change and stigma reduction

for social change and stigma reduction

for social change and stigma reduction will continue I don’t know about you but

will continue I don’t know about you but

will continue I don’t know about you but I used to be one of those people that

I used to be one of those people that

I used to be one of those people that when I found myself saying I wonder what

when I found myself saying I wonder what

when I found myself saying I wonder what would happen if or wouldn’t it be great

would happen if or wouldn’t it be great

would happen if or wouldn’t it be great if I was guilty of leaving those

if I was guilty of leaving those

if I was guilty of leaving those thoughts there at the kitchen table with

thoughts there at the kitchen table with

thoughts there at the kitchen table with the dirty cops and moving on without

the dirty cops and moving on without

the dirty cops and moving on without ever doing anything about the idea but

ever doing anything about the idea but

ever doing anything about the idea but now I think about what would have

now I think about what would have

now I think about what would have happened if those two lads had done that

happened if those two lads had done that

happened if those two lads had done that first fortnight wouldn’t exist and

first fortnight wouldn’t exist and

first fortnight wouldn’t exist and wouldn’t be making a meaningful change

wouldn’t be making a meaningful change

wouldn’t be making a meaningful change to mental health stigma reduction in

to mental health stigma reduction in

to mental health stigma reduction in this country and from a selfish point of

this country and from a selfish point of

this country and from a selfish point of view if they hadn’t acted on their idea

view if they hadn’t acted on their idea

view if they hadn’t acted on their idea and found at first fortnight then I

and found at first fortnight then I

and found at first fortnight then I wouldn’t be on this stage today talking

wouldn’t be on this stage today talking

wouldn’t be on this stage today talking to you about volunteering it’s here I’m

to you about volunteering it’s here I’m

to you about volunteering it’s here I’m gonna sneak in a bonus fifth lesson that

gonna sneak in a bonus fifth lesson that

gonna sneak in a bonus fifth lesson that I’ve learned from volunteering you will

I’ve learned from volunteering you will

I’ve learned from volunteering you will always gain more from volunteering than

always gain more from volunteering than

always gain more from volunteering than you put in

you put in

you put in it might sound grandiose but

it might sound grandiose but

it might sound grandiose but volunteering has changed my life

volunteering has changed my life

volunteering has changed my life it’s given me a great group of friends

it’s given me a great group of friends

it’s given me a great group of friends it’s challenged me to do things outside

it’s challenged me to do things outside

it’s challenged me to do things outside of my comfort zone it’s helped me to

of my comfort zone it’s helped me to

of my comfort zone it’s helped me to develop my skills

develop my skills

develop my skills and to do things that I perceive to be

and to do things that I perceive to be

and to do things that I perceive to be outside of my skill set it’s given me

outside of my skill set it’s given me

outside of my skill set it’s given me back my self-confidence and it’s helped

back my self-confidence and it’s helped

back my self-confidence and it’s helped me to act on those kitchen table

me to act on those kitchen table

me to act on those kitchen table conversations like I wonder what would

conversations like I wonder what would

conversations like I wonder what would happen if I applied to be a TEDx speaker

happen if I applied to be a TEDx speaker

happen if I applied to be a TEDx speaker so if you have one of those kitchen

so if you have one of those kitchen

so if you have one of those kitchen table light bulb moments do something

table light bulb moments do something

table light bulb moments do something with the idea and find the people who

with the idea and find the people who

with the idea and find the people who can help you to make it happen just like

can help you to make it happen just like

can help you to make it happen just like first fortnight’s founders did because

first fortnight’s founders did because

first fortnight’s founders did because with people donating their time skills

with people donating their time skills

with people donating their time skills and effort as volunteers

and effort as volunteers

and effort as volunteers it’s truly humbling what you can achieve

it’s truly humbling what you can achieve

it’s truly humbling what you can achieve so don’t expect someone else to do it

so don’t expect someone else to do it

so don’t expect someone else to do it get up from the kitchen table and make

get up from the kitchen table and make

get up from the kitchen table and make it happen thank you

it happen thank you

it happen thank you [Applause]

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