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[Music] good evening a few months ago I did a

good evening a few months ago I did a

good evening a few months ago I did a middle school chapel and the next day

middle school chapel and the next day

middle school chapel and the next day the shirt was in by Fox along with an

the shirt was in by Fox along with an

the shirt was in by Fox along with an anonymous note and the note was from a

anonymous note and the note was from a

anonymous note and the note was from a middle school teacher who I still do not

middle school teacher who I still do not

middle school teacher who I still do not know what was and hopefully you’re she

know what was and hopefully you’re she

know what was and hopefully you’re she will watch this TED talk and I go oh

will watch this TED talk and I go oh

will watch this TED talk and I go oh he’s thanking you cos I wanted to thank

he’s thanking you cos I wanted to thank

he’s thanking you cos I wanted to thank this person he or she mentioned that she

this person he or she mentioned that she

this person he or she mentioned that she really enjoyed the messages that i was

really enjoyed the messages that i was

really enjoyed the messages that i was giving the middle school chapel and in

giving the middle school chapel and in

giving the middle school chapel and in that particular travel and reverenced ET

that particular travel and reverenced ET

that particular travel and reverenced ET so let me begin by referencing ET yet

so let me begin by referencing ET yet

so let me begin by referencing ET yet again towards the end of the film 3 goes

again towards the end of the film 3 goes

again towards the end of the film 3 goes up to say good body TV for he goes on in

up to say good body TV for he goes on in

up to say good body TV for he goes on in the station and she’s got that pot of

the station and she’s got that pot of

the station and she’s got that pot of planets so symbolic throughout the film

planets so symbolic throughout the film

planets so symbolic throughout the film and she lays it down ET speed and stands

and she lays it down ET speed and stands

and she lays it down ET speed and stands up and and she says goodbye and he t

up and and she says goodbye and he t

up and and she says goodbye and he t sort of puts his hand up you know how

sort of puts his hand up you know how

sort of puts his hand up you know how the guys he says he good she responds

the guys he says he good she responds

the guys he says he good she responds give me yes well I’m afraid that when I

give me yes well I’m afraid that when I

give me yes well I’m afraid that when I was her age up and threw about 2 100 17

was her age up and threw about 2 100 17

was her age up and threw about 2 100 17 18 years old my answer would have been a

18 years old my answer would have been a

18 years old my answer would have been a definitive no because I was not good I

definitive no because I was not good I

definitive no because I was not good I was good at being bullying but I was not

was good at being bullying but I was not

was good at being bullying but I was not good anyway

good anyway

good anyway and my bullying came out greatly at the

and my bullying came out greatly at the

and my bullying came out greatly at the summer camp in my parents sent me to

summer camp in my parents sent me to

summer camp in my parents sent me to from the age 9 to 15 and i have since

from the age 9 to 15 and i have since

from the age 9 to 15 and i have since that time been very sensitive to

that time been very sensitive to

that time been very sensitive to bullying and sensitive that it’s

bullying and sensitive that it’s

bullying and sensitive that it’s important to build community so that

important to build community so that

important to build community so that bullies do not feel welcome there and

bullies do not feel welcome there and

bullies do not feel welcome there and all so my bowing began as a 11 year old

all so my bowing began as a 11 year old

all so my bowing began as a 11 year old when I was a captain of our color war

when I was a captain of our color war

when I was a captain of our color war team so happy lemon roles were on the

team so happy lemon roles were on the

team so happy lemon roles were on the ground impact on printing and we play

ground impact on printing and we play

ground impact on printing and we play games of each other’s 45 points five

games of each other’s 45 points five

games of each other’s 45 points five valuable points also along and I wanted

valuable points also along and I wanted

valuable points also along and I wanted my team to win not only was i bully I

my team to win not only was i bully I

my team to win not only was i bully I was also really competitive and I pushed

was also really competitive and I pushed

was also really competitive and I pushed my team and we didn’t work hard but I

my team and we didn’t work hard but I

my team and we didn’t work hard but I worked them hard and I was divisive

worked them hard and I was divisive

worked them hard and I was divisive towards the other team and eventually

towards the other team and eventually

towards the other team and eventually they had counselor venom uncle better

they had counselor venom uncle better

they had counselor venom uncle better Myers needed to call me into his office

Myers needed to call me into his office

Myers needed to call me into his office episode of that going to the Dean of

episode of that going to the Dean of

episode of that going to the Dean of boys with Dean of speaking to that

boys with Dean of speaking to that

boys with Dean of speaking to that person about door behavior and it was

person about door behavior and it was

person about door behavior and it was writing for 11 year old to go into this

writing for 11 year old to go into this

writing for 11 year old to go into this office and uncle then said to me now

office and uncle then said to me now

office and uncle then said to me now chillin all people called me king Jimmy

chillin all people called me king Jimmy

chillin all people called me king Jimmy your teammates have been really

your teammates have been really

your teammates have been really concerned and spoken to me about how the

concerned and spoken to me about how the

concerned and spoken to me about how the trigger and they feel like you’re

trigger and they feel like you’re

trigger and they feel like you’re pulling them and you’re not giving them

pulling them and you’re not giving them

pulling them and you’re not giving them an opportunity to play the positions

an opportunity to play the positions

an opportunity to play the positions they want and I say but I’ll go then we

they want and I say but I’ll go then we

they want and I say but I’ll go then we haven’t lost a game all season of course

haven’t lost a game all season of course

haven’t lost a game all season of course that was not the point II was trying to

that was not the point II was trying to

that was not the point II was trying to make but that was the end of my

make but that was the end of my

make but that was the end of my leadership roles

leadership roles

leadership roles yeah no longer did any camera think that

yeah no longer did any camera think that

yeah no longer did any camera think that I see any type of leadership role at all

I see any type of leadership role at all

I see any type of leadership role at all and I spent the rest of my ears not

and I spent the rest of my ears not

and I spent the rest of my ears not leading groups or teams at what happened

leading groups or teams at what happened

leading groups or teams at what happened but I i turn my bullying towards what

but I i turn my bullying towards what

but I i turn my bullying towards what I’ve told a target boat where I would

I’ve told a target boat where I would

I’ve told a target boat where I would target kids account gly felt were not as

target kids account gly felt were not as

target kids account gly felt were not as we’re garment or not as even the safety

we’re garment or not as even the safety

we’re garment or not as even the safety net the adults or other kids so that I

net the adults or other kids so that I

net the adults or other kids so that I could sort of get away with my belly and

could sort of get away with my belly and

could sort of get away with my belly and in one particular incident I was sitting

in one particular incident I was sitting

in one particular incident I was sitting with a good friend of mine is still a

with a good friend of mine is still a

with a good friend of mine is still a good friend of mine up on a volleyball

good friend of mine up on a volleyball

good friend of mine up on a volleyball referee stand and this boy Steve came up

referee stand and this boy Steve came up

referee stand and this boy Steve came up to start walking up to join us on this

to start walking up to join us on this

to start walking up to join us on this referee standard and my friend next to

referee standard and my friend next to

referee standard and my friend next to be sort of felt it coming he fronted

be sort of felt it coming he fronted

be sort of felt it coming he fronted nudge me has stopped but I looked down

nudge me has stopped but I looked down

nudge me has stopped but I looked down and I said to him you are not coming up

and I said to him you are not coming up

and I said to him you are not coming up here get as far away from us as possible

here get as far away from us as possible

here get as far away from us as possible I said that too and he walked away back

I said that too and he walked away back

I said that too and he walked away back to room sitting and started crying and

to room sitting and started crying and

to room sitting and started crying and my friend looked at me like I should go

my friend looked at me like I should go

my friend looked at me like I should go gallon talk to them but that was not the

gallon talk to them but that was not the

gallon talk to them but that was not the audacity to do my friend a wonderful

audacity to do my friend a wonderful

audacity to do my friend a wonderful solid did go down and comfort this boy

solid did go down and comfort this boy

solid did go down and comfort this boy sort of let me off the hook and I didn’t

sort of let me off the hook and I didn’t

sort of let me off the hook and I didn’t stop there I mentioned my headedness and

stop there I mentioned my headedness and

stop there I mentioned my headedness and there was a game where we lost clearly

there was a game where we lost clearly

there was a game where we lost clearly it was the umpire swallow well small

it was the umpire swallow well small

it was the umpire swallow well small wooded bigger and the umpire to be sure

wooded bigger and the umpire to be sure

wooded bigger and the umpire to be sure buzz it’s all on him and we were all

buzz it’s all on him and we were all

buzz it’s all on him and we were all sitting in a bomb waiting for second

sitting in a bomb waiting for second

sitting in a bomb waiting for second call to go through to dinner and Ronnie

call to go through to dinner and Ronnie

call to go through to dinner and Ronnie that was the camera walked in and we

that was the camera walked in and we

that was the camera walked in and we called him not so nicely das because he

called him not so nicely das because he

called him not so nicely das because he had a lot of moles on his his arms

had a lot of moles on his his arms

had a lot of moles on his his arms interspace and I guess the bunk that 12

interspace and I guess the bunk that 12

interspace and I guess the bunk that 12 of the sitting there just waiting for me

of the sitting there just waiting for me

of the sitting there just waiting for me to

to

to often I didn’t disappoint home later

often I didn’t disappoint home later

often I didn’t disappoint home later define disappointment in this and I SAT

define disappointment in this and I SAT

define disappointment in this and I SAT das just turn yourself around cost you

das just turn yourself around cost you

das just turn yourself around cost you that game and I don’t want to see you

that game and I don’t want to see you

that game and I don’t want to see you ever and he didn’t turn around till he

ever and he didn’t turn around till he

ever and he didn’t turn around till he started crying and he walked out now

started crying and he walked out now

started crying and he walked out now I’ll fast forward a few years where our

I’ll fast forward a few years where our

I’ll fast forward a few years where our camp a lot of alumni come back to be

camp a lot of alumni come back to be

camp a lot of alumni come back to be counselors and pretty much it’s a rubber

counselors and pretty much it’s a rubber

counselors and pretty much it’s a rubber stamp application you are a camper camp

stamp application you are a camper camp

stamp application you are a camper camp one of the counselor poof you’re a

one of the counselor poof you’re a

one of the counselor poof you’re a counselor I didn’t get the rubber stamp

counselor I didn’t get the rubber stamp

counselor I didn’t get the rubber stamp proof not by any means I learned later

proof not by any means I learned later

proof not by any means I learned later that the only reason I was granted the

that the only reason I was granted the

that the only reason I was granted the job was that the owner director had

job was that the owner director had

job was that the owner director had asked a number of councillors who I have

asked a number of councillors who I have

asked a number of councillors who I have to touch with if I was worth giving a

to touch with if I was worth giving a

to touch with if I was worth giving a job too if I would be worthy of being a

job too if I would be worthy of being a

job too if I would be worthy of being a camp counselor like ham and they

camp counselor like ham and they

camp counselor like ham and they unbeknownst need out today and I went to

unbeknownst need out today and I went to

unbeknownst need out today and I went to camp to be a counselor and we have of

camp to be a counselor and we have of

camp to be a counselor and we have of course the classic orientation we learn

course the classic orientation we learn

course the classic orientation we learn about being a house learn how to be

about being a house learn how to be

about being a house learn how to be going to be good to your kids how to

going to be good to your kids how to

going to be good to your kids how to forward community and it really went

forward community and it really went

forward community and it really went completely over my head and then we had

completely over my head and then we had

completely over my head and then we had the famous meeting where the health

the famous meeting where the health

the famous meeting where the health direct camp director lays out who’s in

direct camp director lays out who’s in

direct camp director lays out who’s in each bomb and the younger counselors are

each bomb and the younger counselors are

each bomb and the younger counselors are usually in the small box with two or

usually in the small box with two or

usually in the small box with two or three other counselors and become poor

three other counselors and become poor

three other counselors and become poor boys and I’m waiting for my name in the

boys and I’m waiting for my name in the

boys and I’m waiting for my name in the call and I’m waiting and I’m waiting and

call and I’m waiting and I’m waiting and

call and I’m waiting and I’m waiting and I figure this is the way they’re telling

I figure this is the way they’re telling

I figure this is the way they’re telling me I didn’t cut mustard 100 have delayed

me I didn’t cut mustard 100 have delayed

me I didn’t cut mustard 100 have delayed they finally get to bomb 12 from 12 and

they finally get to bomb 12 from 12 and

they finally get to bomb 12 from 12 and they said Jimmy Ezra I’m 12 which is a

they said Jimmy Ezra I’m 12 which is a

they said Jimmy Ezra I’m 12 which is a pretty plum assignment for a young

pretty plum assignment for a young

pretty plum assignment for a young counselor bomb 12 was pretty much out of

counselor bomb 12 was pretty much out of

counselor bomb 12 was pretty much out of the bag writing stage

the bag writing stage

the bag writing stage and the boys were 10 11 years old and

and the boys were 10 11 years old and

and the boys were 10 11 years old and been to camp before so I was pretty much

been to camp before so I was pretty much

been to camp before so I was pretty much in house in good shape so I read up on

in house in good shape so I read up on

in house in good shape so I read up on the boys and fortunately none of them

the boys and fortunately none of them

the boys and fortunately none of them had been in camp three years previous

had been in camp three years previous

had been in camp three years previous when Jimmy’s reign of terror was going

when Jimmy’s reign of terror was going

when Jimmy’s reign of terror was going on so they did not go of my priorities

on so they did not go of my priorities

on so they did not go of my priorities and the strange things happen that first

and the strange things happen that first

and the strange things happen that first day if you think camp know that the kids

day if you think camp know that the kids

day if you think camp know that the kids get out of the buses and they run for

get out of the buses and they run for

get out of the buses and they run for the bumpiness to see who’s in your

the bumpiness to see who’s in your

the bumpiness to see who’s in your pocket whose bunk they’ve got they all

pocket whose bunk they’ve got they all

pocket whose bunk they’ve got they all that they find the counselor in all the

that they find the counselor in all the

that they find the counselor in all the sudden preparing for duffel bags back

sudden preparing for duffel bags back

sudden preparing for duffel bags back then I can care for mental tax and dimes

then I can care for mental tax and dimes

then I can care for mental tax and dimes the bottom we make our beds we get

the bottom we make our beds we get

the bottom we make our beds we get everything set up we went to dinner

everything set up we went to dinner

everything set up we went to dinner after dinner if we had assembly and at

after dinner if we had assembly and at

after dinner if we had assembly and at the assembly greeted all from campers

the assembly greeted all from campers

the assembly greeted all from campers and then tattoo pose and we go back to

and then tattoo pose and we go back to

and then tattoo pose and we go back to our moment with the boys to sleep and

our moment with the boys to sleep and

our moment with the boys to sleep and the boys went up to the greenhouse to

the boys went up to the greenhouse to

the boys went up to the greenhouse to the bathroom teeth came back and they’re

the bathroom teeth came back and they’re

the bathroom teeth came back and they’re getting their pajamas and I’m sitting on

getting their pajamas and I’m sitting on

getting their pajamas and I’m sitting on my bed which is no further away than you

my bed which is no further away than you

my bed which is no further away than you are all sitting right here in smaller

are all sitting right here in smaller

are all sitting right here in smaller bunk and I realized that there was some

bunk and I realized that there was some

bunk and I realized that there was some into this camp counselor that I know I

into this camp counselor that I know I

into this camp counselor that I know I could be Ginny the book and being a

could be Ginny the book and being a

could be Ginny the book and being a bouncer because what wash all of you

bouncer because what wash all of you

bouncer because what wash all of you wanted these were my boy this was my

wanted these were my boy this was my

wanted these were my boy this was my pond and putting them to sleep telling

pond and putting them to sleep telling

pond and putting them to sleep telling the story was a soothing to me that’s a

the story was a soothing to me that’s a

the story was a soothing to me that’s a closed event and early on that summer I

closed event and early on that summer I

closed event and early on that summer I was asleep one tight young camp Josh was

was asleep one tight young camp Josh was

was asleep one tight young camp Josh was actually doing it some sleep and I felt

actually doing it some sleep and I felt

actually doing it some sleep and I felt something on my teeth and I sort of

something on my teeth and I sort of

something on my teeth and I sort of looked up and a app was perched on my

looked up and a app was perched on my

looked up and a app was perched on my name its add a couple of quick options I

name its add a couple of quick options I

name its add a couple of quick options I could have freaked out which everyone

could have freaked out which everyone

could have freaked out which everyone and then or knows what would happen with

and then or knows what would happen with

and then or knows what would happen with my four boys in the book so I I as

my four boys in the book so I I as

my four boys in the book so I I as quietly as I Kevin and his salt bicycle

quietly as I Kevin and his salt bicycle

quietly as I Kevin and his salt bicycle grabbed

grabbed

grabbed flashlight and I showed it into andy and

flashlight and I showed it into andy and

flashlight and I showed it into andy and andrew david Todd’s eyes to wake them up

andrew david Todd’s eyes to wake them up

andrew david Todd’s eyes to wake them up and I got them all to get their

and I got them all to get their

and I got them all to get their flashlights out and dated closer to the

flashlights out and dated closer to the

flashlights out and dated closer to the door grabbed his brooms were in the bed

door grabbed his brooms were in the bed

door grabbed his brooms were in the bed so open the door and I say we even

so open the door and I say we even

so open the door and I say we even though only heal or we open that door

though only heal or we open that door

though only heal or we open that door and we all have shown our flashlights

and we all have shown our flashlights

and we all have shown our flashlights out I moved my dating that back leg

out I moved my dating that back leg

out I moved my dating that back leg straight up so without knowing it i

straight up so without knowing it i

straight up so without knowing it i created this community where we all

created this community where we all

created this community where we all faults felt safe comfortable in 112 and

faults felt safe comfortable in 112 and

faults felt safe comfortable in 112 and I thought really good about that and

I thought really good about that and

I thought really good about that and each value can we have an assembly and

each value can we have an assembly and

each value can we have an assembly and at the end is a boy scout and at the end

at the end is a boy scout and at the end

at the end is a boy scout and at the end of each nut assembly we sing a song sort

of each nut assembly we sing a song sort

of each nut assembly we sing a song sort of a low of my where the whole camp gets

of a low of my where the whole camp gets

of a low of my where the whole camp gets up and the boys and councils are put

up and the boys and councils are put

up and the boys and councils are put their arms around one another and we

their arms around one another and we

their arms around one another and we sing a song saying goodnight to camp and

sing a song saying goodnight to camp and

sing a song saying goodnight to camp and the first line goes goes like this huh

the first line goes goes like this huh

the first line goes goes like this huh excuse my voice goodnight Winnebago we

excuse my voice goodnight Winnebago we

excuse my voice goodnight Winnebago we will always be true and i took that line

will always be true and i took that line

will always be true and i took that line about always be true to my boys to my

about always be true to my boys to my

about always be true to my boys to my camp to the community that we created

camp to the community that we created

camp to the community that we created and as calstrs isn’t years went by we

and as calstrs isn’t years went by we

and as calstrs isn’t years went by we would need a college or people’s homes

would need a college or people’s homes

would need a college or people’s homes we would have our own community and I

we would have our own community and I

we would have our own community and I realized that once we were together we

realized that once we were together we

realized that once we were together we were always together and having taken

were always together and having taken

were always together and having taken Latin in high school

Latin in high school

Latin in high school we’ll say a study of having taken Latin

we’ll say a study of having taken Latin

we’ll say a study of having taken Latin restroom I knew what always was said

restroom I knew what always was said

restroom I knew what always was said pair but I needed to know what once was

pair but I needed to know what once was

pair but I needed to know what once was and we were the University of

and we were the University of

and we were the University of Pennsylvania of one one time and I sort

Pennsylvania of one one time and I sort

Pennsylvania of one one time and I sort of ran off for my friends went to the

of ran off for my friends went to the

of ran off for my friends went to the library and I want that dictionary and I

library and I want that dictionary and I

library and I want that dictionary and I found once sanel and since that time

found once sanel and since that time

found once sanel and since that time I’ve held that phrase very close to me

I’ve held that phrase very close to me

I’ve held that phrase very close to me semental is impaired once always once

semental is impaired once always once

semental is impaired once always once you are in a community once you are with

you are in a community once you are with

you are in a community once you are with me you’re always with me and I worked a

me you’re always with me and I worked a

me you’re always with me and I worked a camp for thirty two summers and I ended

camp for thirty two summers and I ended

camp for thirty two summers and I ended up being head counselor and being of a

up being head counselor and being of a

up being head counselor and being of a bed buyers as Uncle Jimmy for my camp

bed buyers as Uncle Jimmy for my camp

bed buyers as Uncle Jimmy for my camp and I made my son character of a pound

and I made my son character of a pound

and I made my son character of a pound somewhere planning that for a seat for

somewhere planning that for a seat for

somewhere planning that for a seat for me and I stopped going to camp and the

me and I stopped going to camp and the

me and I stopped going to camp and the only thing that made that possible was

only thing that made that possible was

only thing that made that possible was being extinct captions and having a

being extinct captions and having a

being extinct captions and having a gospel having a group of girls and I

gospel having a group of girls and I

gospel having a group of girls and I remember the first year I had advised

remember the first year I had advised

remember the first year I had advised ray and I talked about this last year

ray and I talked about this last year

ray and I talked about this last year when they were seniors and I asked me so

when they were seniors and I asked me so

when they were seniors and I asked me so what you think when you heard the famous

what you think when you heard the famous

what you think when you heard the famous little smoke all out of who you were not

little smoke all out of who you were not

little smoke all out of who you were not those of you who knows that were talking

those of you who knows that were talking

those of you who knows that were talking about and they were a little weirded out

about and they were a little weirded out

about and they were a little weirded out about that because they knew I’ve never

about that because they knew I’ve never

about that because they knew I’ve never been an advisor before and they know me

been an advisor before and they know me

been an advisor before and they know me isn’t a technology guy so they weren’t

isn’t a technology guy so they weren’t

isn’t a technology guy so they weren’t really sure where things were going to

really sure where things were going to

really sure where things were going to go and I very intentionally named by

go and I very intentionally named by

go and I very intentionally named by advisory as I name each advisory on this

advisory as I name each advisory on this

advisory as I name each advisory on this advisory was called the 14 burgers as we

advisory was called the 14 burgers as we

advisory was called the 14 burgers as we were all a different River coming down

were all a different River coming down

were all a different River coming down into become bed or a building months

into become bed or a building months

into become bed or a building months whereas the girls called it on their own

whereas the girls called it on their own

whereas the girls called it on their own or safe harbor and that room became

or safe harbor and that room became

or safe harbor and that room became however and then advisory was our

however and then advisory was our

however and then advisory was our advisory and I love those girls

advisory and I love those girls

advisory and I love those girls still do and those families I feel a

still do and those families I feel a

still do and those families I feel a part of to this day and the simple

part of to this day and the simple

part of to this day and the simple routines we did whether it was just

routines we did whether it was just

routines we did whether it was just sitting around in our circle talking for

sitting around in our circle talking for

sitting around in our circle talking for writing postcards home every week those

writing postcards home every week those

writing postcards home every week those were great value to us in creating that

were great value to us in creating that

were great value to us in creating that community in the next year I had a

community in the next year I had a

community in the next year I had a fourth where we needed to make sure that

fourth where we needed to make sure that

fourth where we needed to make sure that every tree was healthy in that forest so

every tree was healthy in that forest so

every tree was healthy in that forest so the whole forest could be strong and the

the whole forest could be strong and the

the whole forest could be strong and the year after that had the 14 Islands

year after that had the 14 Islands

year after that had the 14 Islands because the island is all are connected

because the island is all are connected

because the island is all are connected data button so we all were one together

data button so we all were one together

data button so we all were one together and then and then I planted a garden

and then and then I planted a garden

and then and then I planted a garden it’s a wonderful girl

it’s a wonderful girl

it’s a wonderful girl we make sure our soil and stretch we

we make sure our soil and stretch we

we make sure our soil and stretch we make sure we would tension about what we

make sure we would tension about what we

make sure we would tension about what we planted and that is still a beautiful

planted and that is still a beautiful

planted and that is still a beautiful dark metal all such great mountain I

dark metal all such great mountain I

dark metal all such great mountain I went off to the sky we after that

went off to the sky we after that

went off to the sky we after that because we remember this in our reach

because we remember this in our reach

because we remember this in our reach and this year got have an awesome

and this year got have an awesome

and this year got have an awesome frontier we’re not afraid to go places

frontier we’re not afraid to go places

frontier we’re not afraid to go places and do things so every Thursday before

and do things so every Thursday before

and do things so every Thursday before the router coastguards we go somewhere

the router coastguards we go somewhere

the router coastguards we go somewhere new on campus and take a picture of

new on campus and take a picture of

new on campus and take a picture of ourselves well I can picture and these

ourselves well I can picture and these

ourselves well I can picture and these communities that I created I tell the

communities that I created I tell the

communities that I created I tell the girls whether it’s simple some hair or

girls whether it’s simple some hair or

girls whether it’s simple some hair or it’s now and forever I am there for them

it’s now and forever I am there for them

it’s now and forever I am there for them and our communities still exist even if

and our communities still exist even if

and our communities still exist even if we grow apart in ears I tell them as

we grow apart in ears I tell them as

we grow apart in ears I tell them as they get older they keep me young and

they get older they keep me young and

they get older they keep me young and there are communities we create on our

there are communities we create on our

there are communities we create on our bait right where we go to different

bait right where we go to different

bait right where we go to different islands and we get unplugged for three

islands and we get unplugged for three

islands and we get unplugged for three days and when we say more on island time

days and when we say more on island time

days and when we say more on island time it’s not because of Chester Bay people

it’s not because of Chester Bay people

it’s not because of Chester Bay people don’t one of your questions got whatever

don’t one of your questions got whatever

don’t one of your questions got whatever you be next where we going to go when we

you be next where we going to go when we

you be next where we going to go when we get into it with you it’s so that our

get into it with you it’s so that our

get into it with you it’s so that our Island time is time for us to be

Island time is time for us to be

Island time is time for us to be together as a group and bring back

together as a group and bring back

together as a group and bring back together and I are Dominican Republic

together and I are Dominican Republic

together and I are Dominican Republic mission scripts while we are serving a

mission scripts while we are serving a

mission scripts while we are serving a community most importantly we are

community most importantly we are

community most importantly we are between community bonds that would

between community bonds that would

between community bonds that would continue now every year school once a

continue now every year school once a

continue now every year school once a year I go to chapel and I do a chapel

year I go to chapel and I do a chapel

year I go to chapel and I do a chapel that’s called the island and I believe

that’s called the island and I believe

that’s called the island and I believe that everybody carries an island and I

that everybody carries an island and I

that everybody carries an island and I first experienced this at camp where dr.

first experienced this at camp where dr.

first experienced this at camp where dr. Bamba it’s like ologist we visit can

Bamba it’s like ologist we visit can

Bamba it’s like ologist we visit can talk to him pastors about how do we

talk to him pastors about how do we

talk to him pastors about how do we foster intentionally a community how do

foster intentionally a community how do

foster intentionally a community how do we make sure the people

we make sure the people

we make sure the people same company everyone has a lesson you

same company everyone has a lesson you

same company everyone has a lesson you all have like these every day you wake

all have like these every day you wake

all have like these every day you wake up and everyday things into this aisle x

up and everyday things into this aisle x

up and everyday things into this aisle x line sometimes it’s a no fault of anyone

line sometimes it’s a no fault of anyone

line sometimes it’s a no fault of anyone that sometimes and other times it’s a

that sometimes and other times it’s a

that sometimes and other times it’s a direct result of somebody to assemble so

direct result of somebody to assemble so

direct result of somebody to assemble so for instance you hit that snooze button

for instance you hit that snooze button

for instance you hit that snooze button one more topical when you come down to

one more topical when you come down to

one more topical when you come down to breakfast there’s no more crunchy

breakfast there’s no more crunchy

breakfast there’s no more crunchy telecommute 83 breakfast and imported a

telecommute 83 breakfast and imported a

telecommute 83 breakfast and imported a lifetime I’m sorry you get to school

lifetime I’m sorry you get to school

lifetime I’m sorry you get to school you’re late you going over to the chapel

you’re late you going over to the chapel

you’re late you going over to the chapel and at the end someone calls out your

and at the end someone calls out your

and at the end someone calls out your name however he knows really you go to

name however he knows really you go to

name however he knows really you go to your next class the girls next we’re

your next class the girls next we’re

your next class the girls next we’re getting the quizzes back eight there’s

getting the quizzes back eight there’s

getting the quizzes back eight there’s your anyone if we didn’t stuff and as

your anyone if we didn’t stuff and as

your anyone if we didn’t stuff and as the day goes on there’s all these little

the day goes on there’s all these little

the day goes on there’s all these little mix of friends but we’ve got to make

mix of friends but we’ve got to make

mix of friends but we’ve got to make sure we’re not doing that to one another

sure we’re not doing that to one another

sure we’re not doing that to one another you’re about to get out for lunch one of

you’re about to get out for lunch one of

you’re about to get out for lunch one of your friends is coming to sit down

your friends is coming to sit down

your friends is coming to sit down that’s when you stay instead of getting

that’s when you stay instead of getting

that’s when you stay instead of getting up and leaving we make room for our

up and leaving we make room for our

up and leaving we make room for our communities to grow now the nice thing

communities to grow now the nice thing

communities to grow now the nice thing is at the end of the day thankfully

is at the end of the day thankfully

is at the end of the day thankfully you’ve got some of his left and you put

you’ve got some of his left and you put

you’ve got some of his left and you put it out here come on and in the morning

it out here come on and in the morning

it out here come on and in the morning when you get up it’s all back together

when you get up it’s all back together

when you get up it’s all back together look at that but there’s a piece of it

look at that but there’s a piece of it

look at that but there’s a piece of it and all the time as more more mrs. I’m

and all the time as more more mrs. I’m

and all the time as more more mrs. I’m gonna make sure that nobody can find

gonna make sure that nobody can find

gonna make sure that nobody can find then what kind of person to be presented

then what kind of person to be presented

then what kind of person to be presented to others so as I bullied my way through

to others so as I bullied my way through

to others so as I bullied my way through my adolescence I’m building my way from

my adolescence I’m building my way from

my adolescence I’m building my way from now on because it’s important that these

now on because it’s important that these

now on because it’s important that these are not pieces of armor this is just who

are not pieces of armor this is just who

are not pieces of armor this is just who we are you are comfortable week i’ll ax

we are you are comfortable week i’ll ax

we are you are comfortable week i’ll ax times where i am lovable which all of

times where i am lovable which all of

times where i am lovable which all of you want and capable which all one

you want and capable which all one

you want and capable which all one hundred percent now at the end of the

hundred percent now at the end of the

hundred percent now at the end of the tube beyond her de la comes to say

tube beyond her de la comes to say

tube beyond her de la comes to say goodbye and that’s a little more rough

goodbye and that’s a little more rough

goodbye and that’s a little more rough up good luck and ET wants Elliot to come

up good luck and ET wants Elliot to come

up good luck and ET wants Elliot to come with him so PT says go in Elliott

with him so PT says go in Elliott

with him so PT says go in Elliott tearfully says step and then et does out

tearfully says step and then et does out

tearfully says step and then et does out because because that hurts because

because because that hurts because

because because that hurts because they’re going to be a part and they hug

they’re going to be a part and they hug

they’re going to be a part and they hug and it’s time for et shift it up just is

and it’s time for et shift it up just is

and it’s time for et shift it up just is he about to walk away tease and goes out

he about to walk away tease and goes out

he about to walk away tease and goes out and the fingertip likes up he says I’ll

and the fingertip likes up he says I’ll

and the fingertip likes up he says I’ll here and that’s the community must be

here and that’s the community must be

here and that’s the community must be right here the incredible privilege we

right here the incredible privilege we

right here the incredible privilege we have to be here to be here to be on this

have to be here to be here to be on this

have to be here to be here to be on this planet what we have is a duty

planet what we have is a duty

planet what we have is a duty responsibility is in the old to be here

responsibility is in the old to be here

responsibility is in the old to be here and we most certainly are thank you very

and we most certainly are thank you very

and we most certainly are thank you very much

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