Germany you can me that
explain Mr. john yes I know her
are integrated but that’s me
Shit why all the syrers stay
not in syria why build ireland
they should also fight in the
war and all these refugees in the
mediterranean drown no wonder
then they just should not
no matter where you are
Islamists I’m not upset anymore
that shit i’m sure
we all read something like that or
have heard
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how would they react to something before
Two years I have to admit you
not like me should have reacted
I would be passus los that would have me
language devious
I’m sure we or that
most of them here in the room
people simply go out of the way
would
But we want to be in a society
we do not live together
We want to talk that this gap
getting bigger and bigger
as soon as someone disrespects us
somehow there is no answer
away to answer or to something
react
I want to live in a society
in which we meet each other respectfully
that’s a nice feeling that i have
not alone and people are
also like
Last year I had the hotline for
worried citizens just started with it
such caller can talk to me
this hotline is really that
is a bureau phone for all those
People worry or doubt
have around me the migrants of the
trust in an anonymous hotline
want to speak and where they are
ask questions
we know that many do not have access
have to muslim or to migrants or
Asylum seekers
but why am I doing that why am i doing
me something and hear disrespectful
disrespectful statements because of me
I am that we respect more
need landscape my name is ali
and my family and I are as
Asylum seekers came here I was
about as small and involved today
I am stronger than ever I want to be in
tell following as I respect
people who think differently
and bring you into the
next few minutes explain how to do that
can show how respect looks and
I would like to speak in three
Parties respects my opinion
after first on attitude
Second, respect for communication
and third, not to be underestimated
but sweet after that more so
We first come to a stop
I would like to thank you for that
tell favorite subject in school
I was twelve years old when I was that
first had philosophy teaching
in north rhine-westphalia we have
practical philosophy and was immediate
excited
the first time to ask about it
thinking like java are good values
what moral action and how to create
we peace in the world that has me
Immediately excited and me so
love to fold sometime has
The teacher once on the floor of a 6
made so to yourself in the six
but for us it was like
a 9
and that was totally interesting than her
then I saw I have a 6
drawn and we the little children
of course, no such a nee nee woman
müller they have drawn a new one
and then it says come here
over here because we got up to
in front and have looked at us once yes
now it looked like a 6 yes and that
was the first lesson with us in the
Teaching that it is not one
Perspective on the world gives for the
attitude for a respectful attitude
That’s why I want a little more
to enter into philosophy
Let’s have a typical one
philosophers imagine what a
pose when you think of one
typical philosophers think so as well
does it look like what exactly yes exactly the
why right here why so what looks
because if someone is like that most of the time
caress her beard like one
cat the philosopher is a thinker of
Of course, a typical philosopher
stereotype but who is who has one
attitude with whom he seeks and thinks
in the world the guy is philosopher
first lets other perspectives
It was always important to our teacher
that we are in the classroom even if we
disagreed and argued
have and have sometimes discussed
threw our trash that
We respectfully first of all
deal with each other and for them
this meant that we know there are
not a perspective but there are
different perspectives on one and
the same thing
that is very impressive to me
Reminisce this attitude because
It has made conversation possible between
thinking differently in which one came clear and
has agreed on certain rules
for the respectful attitude I take
So for me since that day with it
is good to approach people with
a certain open attitude because
this open attitude expresses that
is also other experiences and thoughts
give to the world we let others
perspectives requires too and stuff
of course, but also in real time so in
our fast paced time when is that
how it is that we can at someone
go and he says his opinion the us
do not like it and we say okay you
have indeed gave me
I kept telling him then yes
that happens philosophical
attitude relationship a respectful one
Attitude needs time so awesome is one
the greatest philosopher has
There was no real time
facebook profile had no cell phone that
ever could ring the bell when time
took
yes and the time is worth it too
We can take each other for example in one
Go cafe and have a nice coffee
but there is no constructive
conversation co
That takes time in English, I say
always respectful requires patience
that is just how it depends very much
together because if I am me
time for the opinion of a human
take then I press mine
Appreciation from Albert Schweitzer
once every one of us said goodbye
human beings something and that means if you
I can take my time behind the
Parole look behind what he first
garnished this has the attitude we come
to the next point of communication
we’re coming to the ten all the time
so if we use discuss
language and there is in my last
year commitment greatly failed
For example, when I was in talk shows
or even podium discussions that you
The speakers themselves are very sympathetic
were or the moderate moderation though
I am very much in the discussions
felt uncomfortable and at some point it has
clicked on me why I had
often the feeling that is a verbal
fight was like we were against each other
I’ll discuss that at some point
Committed as a moderator to me
said mister john will tell her her
shoot shoot
Let’s go because we know them
redewendung does is catch it out
but let’s shoot or others
sayings he blared his
opinion never since he hit the black
let’s go one piece further
because of politics again
if we escaped over people
talk or about immigration
sometimes come up with such terms as
refugee wave or asylum flood
Here you go, that would be here
inception and here would be such a flood
come in
what does flood mean that is almost only
natural disaster which flooded but
when we talk about asylum tide talk about what
we’re actually talking about talked-up 0
we of water new appliances of
But people would also have one
where is the respect if we are such
use terms
that’s why it’s important every now and then
to reflect on itself
the man speaks and to see what the
words one uses as well baby and to
to wash
so we wash because the
find body hygiene very important why
we did not speak hygiene for
example self-reflection that we
Look what words we use
insofar as we have the right attitude
have and talk to and on
pay attention what we say is ever that
biggest done for a respectful
make respectful conversation
but then of course the problem is like
looks like a conversation so there is
yes a second person yes and there
I will always be back and workshops
Seminars on exactly these
I would like to talk about it from the sncf
have passed checklist
designed for a respectful
conversation that can help you in all
possible discussions that can
example say that you are vegetarian or
are vegan and they want someone
on his excessive meat consumption
sensitize or have you
some forgiveness asshole in
operation and you want to show the
sexist of it anyway
is it worth this checklist too
use
First of all, listen carefully
means give space
I often feel so if not listen
I catch myself doing that
just wait and see
to be on it
it’s ok but you too
really means to give space
that’s a bit like cooking
So since I was a student when the
Cooked so often, but when I am
have boiled potatoes I had such a
top yes it has commandments the water has
potatoes were in there were offered
lid on it and at some point I have the
Cover taken away and suddenly came like that
a steam out it has steam released
and of course I could get the potato
not touch yet and see that because
it came out first steam I’m
gone back this steam had room
occupied
this is a symbolic example
that we have to give some space
and until the steam is gone we have to
wait and eventually the water
clear and that ‘s how the thoughts go
this most important step is allowed
that somebody explains us first
but this checklist is the second
point just once to say thank you when
Let’s say someone thank you for that
to talk with us about taking time
you can, for example, the smallest
common denominator highlight as in
the caller on which there is really the
has said the same thing and just as similar
the first thing I said
thanks i find these topics so important
and nice that we are together
thoughts about immigration
escaped people that we
together about this challenge
Talk that was already a togetherness
third, ask more questions than
to give answers
Think of the philosopher then come
you do not teach over it you can rather
Put thought into action if you ask
represents as data that one gives answers
because then the other one feels
roll well and reflects your own
attitude you can also own four
anecdotes tell so personally
Emotionally and fifth, you should go up
something easy to come and talk
end the conversation with
something nice, something emotional again
makes happy because politics is always
very hot and that’s how I get along
my third in the last point namely
sweet, when do we give someone
coffee or a beer and that he himself
Talk to us often
At the time we are consciously very heavy
So for example we could just do it
Give it a treat
I always say who sweet is that
speaks so sweetly because of that
I just here so sweet
things are distributed here who you like too
okay, here’s pretty ugly, I see that
So suddenly smile at a time like
you can here but right there
someone so happy about the
sweets you see what that does what
with a thing is we have to
more often for the frame conditions
make us open and for one
smile because then you can relax
easier argue so last
Should we respect each other
We wish and wish all of us
also show respect for yourself
they once said if you own the
change that you wish for
So let’s be respectful of this world
go out into the world and who
I still like sweets
thank you after-show party
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