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First Principle Thinking for Success and Innovation | Riddhi Mittal | TEDxNMIMSBangalore


this is a talk about possibilities what

this is a talk about possibilities what is possible right

is possible right

is possible right although when most people look at this

although when most people look at this

although when most people look at this question they start thinking of how they

question they start thinking of how they

question they start thinking of how they can do it so before I get there right

can do it so before I get there right

can do it so before I get there right how about we also talk about making

how about we also talk about making

how about we also talk about making things possible because not everything

things possible because not everything

things possible because not everything is possible today right can we see the

is possible today right can we see the

is possible today right can we see the same stuff differently what does it take

same stuff differently what does it take

same stuff differently what does it take to see the same stuff differently okay

to see the same stuff differently okay

to see the same stuff differently okay so like I said right most people when

so like I said right most people when

so like I said right most people when they think of possibilities and then you

they think of possibilities and then you

they think of possibilities and then you think of well I am the one who’s

think of well I am the one who’s

think of well I am the one who’s thinking so they think can I do this

thinking so they think can I do this

thinking so they think can I do this okay

okay

okay let me think what all can I do because

let me think what all can I do because

let me think what all can I do because you know that has to be a set and then

you know that has to be a set and then

you know that has to be a set and then you figure out whether or not can I do

you figure out whether or not can I do

you figure out whether or not can I do this whether this is part of your set of

this whether this is part of your set of

this whether this is part of your set of things you can do okay well that doesn’t

things you can do okay well that doesn’t

things you can do okay well that doesn’t always help right so then certain people

always help right so then certain people

always help right so then certain people who are slightly more evolved right for

who are slightly more evolved right for

who are slightly more evolved right for more risk takers think okay can I learn

more risk takers think okay can I learn

more risk takers think okay can I learn to do this like there’s already one step

to do this like there’s already one step

to do this like there’s already one step in the right direction so I can’t do it

in the right direction so I can’t do it

in the right direction so I can’t do it today can I learn to do this okay what

today can I learn to do this okay what

today can I learn to do this okay what if no one you know has ever done it

if no one you know has ever done it

if no one you know has ever done it before right that then becomes a mental

before right that then becomes a mental

before right that then becomes a mental block which you need to somehow get rid

block which you need to somehow get rid

block which you need to somehow get rid of okay so I’ll give an example when I

of okay so I’ll give an example when I

of okay so I’ll give an example when I came back to India after seven years in

came back to India after seven years in

came back to India after seven years in the US and my family’s in Delhi so I

the US and my family’s in Delhi so I

the US and my family’s in Delhi so I lived with them first I was scared and

lived with them first I was scared and

lived with them first I was scared and they were scared in suddenly the curfew

they were scared in suddenly the curfew

they were scared in suddenly the curfew started and you know I’m used to kind of

started and you know I’m used to kind of

started and you know I’m used to kind of living independently and suddenly you

living independently and suddenly you

living independently and suddenly you come back to your house and you’re

come back to your house and you’re

come back to your house and you’re moment are like be in you know be back

moment are like be in you know be back

moment are like be in you know be back by 10:00 p.m. max because it’s Delhi in

by 10:00 p.m. max because it’s Delhi in

by 10:00 p.m. max because it’s Delhi in safety and everything right so so this

safety and everything right so so this

safety and everything right so so this is the question I asked myself and I

is the question I asked myself and I

is the question I asked myself and I figured out I should start doing Krav

figured out I should start doing Krav

figured out I should start doing Krav Maga which is an Israeli combat martial

Maga which is an Israeli combat martial

Maga which is an Israeli combat martial art which really hurts other people if

art which really hurts other people if

art which really hurts other people if you learn to do it well right okay guess

you learn to do it well right okay guess

you learn to do it well right okay guess what the first answer from my parents

what the first answer from my parents

what the first answer from my parents was yep a girl over here

was yep a girl over here

was yep a girl over here so are you crazy right oh she’s become

so are you crazy right oh she’s become

so are you crazy right oh she’s become too American and and I wondered why

too American and and I wondered why

too American and and I wondered why trying to do something crazy meant well

trying to do something crazy meant well

trying to do something crazy meant well she just came back she’s become too

she just came back she’s become too

she just came back she’s become too American she’s gone mad

American she’s gone mad

American she’s gone mad right anyway when I finally was able to

right anyway when I finally was able to

right anyway when I finally was able to so three months in

so three months in

so three months in let’s just say the guys that glass did

let’s just say the guys that glass did

let’s just say the guys that glass did not like me and they got hurt a lot

not like me and they got hurt a lot

not like me and they got hurt a lot right so anyway but even today right

right so anyway but even today right

right so anyway but even today right unless I actually start showing it to

unless I actually start showing it to

unless I actually start showing it to people in action they won’t believe it

people in action they won’t believe it

people in action they won’t believe it and the very first thing I want to tell

and the very first thing I want to tell

and the very first thing I want to tell you is but that’s not possible and

you is but that’s not possible and

you is but that’s not possible and you’re tiny

you’re tiny

you’re tiny what if no one has done it before right

what if no one has done it before right

what if no one has done it before right so at least you know for the for the

so at least you know for the for the

so at least you know for the for the fighting thing you can look at a whole

fighting thing you can look at a whole

fighting thing you can look at a whole bunch of role models you can google

bunch of role models you can google

bunch of role models you can google people and you’re like well okay take

people and you’re like well okay take

people and you’re like well okay take aha someone in the world has done it

aha someone in the world has done it

aha someone in the world has done it not too bad right what if no one’s ever

not too bad right what if no one’s ever

not too bad right what if no one’s ever done it so leave us few examples red

done it so leave us few examples red

done it so leave us few examples red note how you should start thinking

note how you should start thinking

note how you should start thinking through it and recognize those mental

through it and recognize those mental

through it and recognize those mental blocks and then try and remove them okay

blocks and then try and remove them okay

blocks and then try and remove them okay so and also right I think the pattern

so and also right I think the pattern

so and also right I think the pattern you’re going to see is I believe while

you’re going to see is I believe while

you’re going to see is I believe while self-learning people while people who

self-learning people while people who

self-learning people while people who want to learn are already better than

want to learn are already better than

want to learn are already better than people who think that’s it and their

people who think that’s it and their

people who think that’s it and their current status quo is what they’re

current status quo is what they’re

current status quo is what they’re always going to be don’t try to learn so

always going to be don’t try to learn so

always going to be don’t try to learn so much that you forget to lead riot pick

much that you forget to lead riot pick

much that you forget to lead riot pick is again what if you want to do

is again what if you want to do

is again what if you want to do something which no one’s ever done so I

something which no one’s ever done so I

something which no one’s ever done so I won’t go into the story but I was 14 I

won’t go into the story but I was 14 I

won’t go into the story but I was 14 I was in 11th grade and I was in the

was in 11th grade and I was in the

was in 11th grade and I was in the science dream and suddenly after a year

science dream and suddenly after a year

science dream and suddenly after a year when I had come to twelfth I wanted to

when I had come to twelfth I wanted to

when I had come to twelfth I wanted to drop chemistry because I want to take up

drop chemistry because I want to take up

drop chemistry because I want to take up another subject let’s just say that’s

another subject let’s just say that’s

another subject let’s just say that’s possible and no one’s told anybody and

possible and no one’s told anybody and

possible and no one’s told anybody and it’s been 10 years already since I did

it’s been 10 years already since I did

it’s been 10 years already since I did that rights as a 14 year old you can you

that rights as a 14 year old you can you

that rights as a 14 year old you can you know if you if you’re annoyed enough you

know if you if you’re annoyed enough you

know if you if you’re annoyed enough you can go through CVS these rules and you

can go through CVS these rules and you

can go through CVS these rules and you can really figure out the whole stream

can really figure out the whole stream

can really figure out the whole stream concept and these boxes and constraints

concept and these boxes and constraints

concept and these boxes and constraints are what are imposed by us on ourselves

are what are imposed by us on ourselves

are what are imposed by us on ourselves right it’s not it’s nothing integral to

right it’s not it’s nothing integral to

right it’s not it’s nothing integral to the system right so okay here’s another

the system right so okay here’s another

the system right so okay here’s another thing right so again and I’ll talk about

thing right so again and I’ll talk about

thing right so again and I’ll talk about this in two contexts yourself your life

this in two contexts yourself your life

this in two contexts yourself your life and let’s say I’m running a startup as

and let’s say I’m running a startup as

and let’s say I’m running a startup as well a startups life and how it plans

well a startups life and how it plans

well a startups life and how it plans and problem solves and dreams and what

and problem solves and dreams and what

and problem solves and dreams and what it sets as the bar for itself so let’s

it sets as the bar for itself so let’s

it sets as the bar for itself so let’s say there’s a status quo right and a

say there’s a status quo right and a

say there’s a status quo right and a whole bunch of the other colors are

whole bunch of the other colors are

whole bunch of the other colors are other people or other startups it’s very

other people or other startups it’s very

other people or other startups it’s very analogous and there are different places

analogous and there are different places

analogous and there are different places if you start benchmarking yourself to

if you start benchmarking yourself to

if you start benchmarking yourself to them if you think by analogy you want to

them if you think by analogy you want to

them if you think by analogy you want to be where the dotted line is and you

be where the dotted line is and you

be where the dotted line is and you always talk in a rat race right just be

always talk in a rat race right just be

always talk in a rat race right just be free of that right because there is a

free of that right because there is a

free of that right because there is a possibility of being so much more Beyond

possibility of being so much more Beyond

possibility of being so much more Beyond and again later we’ll cover what makes

and again later we’ll cover what makes

and again later we’ll cover what makes us do that but the point is if you can

us do that but the point is if you can

us do that but the point is if you can think of there don’t limit don’t sell

think of there don’t limit don’t sell

think of there don’t limit don’t sell limit because there’s no point on that

limit because there’s no point on that

limit because there’s no point on that okay

okay

okay so this was a question we had to ask

so this was a question we had to ask

so this was a question we had to ask right can we change banking and to be

right can we change banking and to be

right can we change banking and to be very or is the first time a co-founder

very or is the first time a co-founder

very or is the first time a co-founder and I had coffee he was the one again

and I had coffee he was the one again

and I had coffee he was the one again cut it to him who who thought of this

cut it to him who who thought of this

cut it to him who who thought of this question and I was like are you retarded

question and I was like are you retarded

question and I was like are you retarded right this is just it’s too big award

right this is just it’s too big award

right this is just it’s too big award it’s too big a sector it’s too big a

it’s too big a sector it’s too big a

it’s too big a sector it’s too big a system it’s doing grain the system you

system it’s doing grain the system you

system it’s doing grain the system you don’t just start and say can I change

don’t just start and say can I change

don’t just start and say can I change banking although again the question

banking although again the question

banking although again the question asked is half the battle one you’ll

asked is half the battle one you’ll

asked is half the battle one you’ll figure out the answers right I’ll walk

figure out the answers right I’ll walk

figure out the answers right I’ll walk you through again ask the question then

you through again ask the question then

you through again ask the question then what okay so we have to say okay can we

what okay so we have to say okay can we

what okay so we have to say okay can we change lending right now again if you

change lending right now again if you

change lending right now again if you believe the PR hype in the sector it’s

believe the PR hype in the sector it’s

believe the PR hype in the sector it’s all about well you need to risk assess

all about well you need to risk assess

all about well you need to risk assess people because banks and traditional

people because banks and traditional

people because banks and traditional financial institutions don’t even begin

financial institutions don’t even begin

financial institutions don’t even begin to think of risk assessing the 1.3

to think of risk assessing the 1.3

to think of risk assessing the 1.3 billion minus 3 crore because they are

billion minus 3 crore because they are

billion minus 3 crore because they are too different and they need different

too different and they need different

too different and they need different mechanisms to solve that problem for

mechanisms to solve that problem for

mechanisms to solve that problem for them ok and again you know using

them ok and again you know using

them ok and again you know using buzzwords someone will say ok well you

buzzwords someone will say ok well you

buzzwords someone will say ok well you could use technology you could use data

could use technology you could use data

could use technology you could use data and both have limitations if you only

and both have limitations if you only

and both have limitations if you only think of that as your solution space so

think of that as your solution space so

think of that as your solution space so second thing right widen your solution

second thing right widen your solution

second thing right widen your solution space massively do that divergent

space massively do that divergent

space massively do that divergent thinking right you’ll converge later

thinking right you’ll converge later

thinking right you’ll converge later you’ll focus later but at the start

you’ll focus later but at the start

you’ll focus later but at the start don’t limit anything so widen your

don’t limit anything so widen your

don’t limit anything so widen your solution space we can use product we can

solution space we can use product we can

solution space we can use product we can use partnerships we can do collections

use partnerships we can do collections

use partnerships we can do collections differently we can do acquisition

differently we can do acquisition

differently we can do acquisition differently we can reimagine what the

differently we can reimagine what the

differently we can reimagine what the word lending means it no longer means a

word lending means it no longer means a

word lending means it no longer means a home loan car loan and the court was

home loan car loan and the court was

home loan car loan and the court was alone go learn oh yeah right it means a

alone go learn oh yeah right it means a

alone go learn oh yeah right it means a redistribution of wealth between two

redistribution of wealth between two

redistribution of wealth between two parties one had more one had less one

parties one had more one had less one

parties one had more one had less one you added value to the other person got

you added value to the other person got

you added value to the other person got interested so win

interested so win

interested so win if the reason countries grow their GDP

if the reason countries grow their GDP

if the reason countries grow their GDP that’s what lending is in Bangalore the

that’s what lending is in Bangalore the

that’s what lending is in Bangalore the fact that we need rent deposits for ten

fact that we need rent deposits for ten

fact that we need rent deposits for ten months

months

months security deposits on rentals for ten

security deposits on rentals for ten

security deposits on rentals for ten months and everybody I know there is

months and everybody I know there is

months and everybody I know there is crumbling around to gather that money

crumbling around to gather that money

crumbling around to gather that money could that be a loan product right can

could that be a loan product right can

could that be a loan product right can you design things because your customer

you design things because your customer

you design things because your customer first and you should be looking at when

first and you should be looking at when

first and you should be looking at when do people need money and what’s the

do people need money and what’s the

do people need money and what’s the easiest way to if they deserve it get

easiest way to if they deserve it get

easiest way to if they deserve it get them that right and then of course

them that right and then of course

them that right and then of course collected back ok see the problem

collected back ok see the problem

collected back ok see the problem differently that’s another one right

differently that’s another one right

differently that’s another one right what do I mean by that I have to start

what do I mean by that I have to start

what do I mean by that I have to start recruiting for the startup right guess

recruiting for the startup right guess

recruiting for the startup right guess what

what

what lending is so similar to recruiting

lending is so similar to recruiting

lending is so similar to recruiting quick show of hands as to who sees that

quick show of hands as to who sees that

quick show of hands as to who sees that or who can kind of sort of seed

or who can kind of sort of seed

or who can kind of sort of seed equivalency okay wonderful

equivalency okay wonderful

equivalency okay wonderful in both you’re betting on people you’re

in both you’re betting on people you’re

in both you’re betting on people you’re evaluating them you’re figuring out how

evaluating them you’re figuring out how

evaluating them you’re figuring out how to evaluate them faster they could be an

to evaluate them faster they could be an

to evaluate them faster they could be an idiot on paper and a wonderful person or

idiot on paper and a wonderful person or

idiot on paper and a wonderful person or vice versa

vice versa

vice versa they could turn out to be a bad

they could turn out to be a bad

they could turn out to be a bad investment in a bad debt and you’re

investment in a bad debt and you’re

investment in a bad debt and you’re doing it repeatedly and you get better

doing it repeatedly and you get better

doing it repeatedly and you get better with practice and there’s a feedback

with practice and there’s a feedback

with practice and there’s a feedback loop so yes there is data involved their

loop so yes there is data involved their

loop so yes there is data involved their resume and what you ask them through

resume and what you ask them through

resume and what you ask them through written answers but that’s not enough

written answers but that’s not enough

written answers but that’s not enough because the human touch is needed and

because the human touch is needed and

because the human touch is needed and you still figure out every single day

you still figure out every single day

you still figure out every single day what’s the best way of combining both to

what’s the best way of combining both to

what’s the best way of combining both to do it better every day right you’re

do it better every day right you’re

do it better every day right you’re betting on people you’re betting on

betting on people you’re betting on

betting on people you’re betting on their potential guess what in recruiting

their potential guess what in recruiting

their potential guess what in recruiting you are betting not just in their past

you are betting not just in their past

you are betting not just in their past but on their future you are betting on

but on their future you are betting on

but on their future you are betting on what they can change and evolve to be at

what they can change and evolve to be at

what they can change and evolve to be at your company not just okay take care

your company not just okay take care

your company not just okay take care you’ve done this before do the exact

you’ve done this before do the exact

you’ve done this before do the exact same shitty or be boring right you’re

same shitty or be boring right you’re

same shitty or be boring right you’re figuring out if you can be their first

figuring out if you can be their first

figuring out if you can be their first director for a different genre or their

director for a different genre or their

director for a different genre or their first director period if they’re

first director period if they’re

first director period if they’re freshers you don’t want to be the 20th

freshers you don’t want to be the 20th

freshers you don’t want to be the 20th director who gives them the same Rome

director who gives them the same Rome

director who gives them the same Rome Khan movie just because they got stuck

Khan movie just because they got stuck

Khan movie just because they got stuck in that rut and that’s the similarity

in that rut and that’s the similarity

in that rut and that’s the similarity over you’re right

over you’re right

over you’re right okay by the way we didn’t stop there

okay by the way we didn’t stop there

okay by the way we didn’t stop there right so okay can we change recruiting

right so okay can we change recruiting

right so okay can we change recruiting in India you know start up you have

in India you know start up you have

in India you know start up you have hashtag starter problems you have no

hashtag starter problems you have no

hashtag starter problems you have no money and everybody starts telling you

money and everybody starts telling you

money and everybody starts telling you well this is India worst words possible

well this is India worst words possible

well this is India worst words possible because people use it on

because people use it on

because people use it on self-deprecating way but okay this is

self-deprecating way but okay this is

self-deprecating way but okay this is India people you are don’t care about

India people you are don’t care about

India people you are don’t care about Aesop’s people you are care about that

Aesop’s people you are care about that

Aesop’s people you are care about that plus 50% industry hi extender day it’s

plus 50% industry hi extender day it’s

plus 50% industry hi extender day it’s you know you’re coming from the Sirius D

you know you’re coming from the Sirius D

you know you’re coming from the Sirius D company you’re coming from an MNC you’re

company you’re coming from an MNC you’re

company you’re coming from an MNC you’re coming to a start-up and you roll it

coming to a start-up and you roll it

coming to a start-up and you roll it what impact would matter and someone has

what impact would matter and someone has

what impact would matter and someone has the audacity to sit in front of you and

the audacity to sit in front of you and

the audacity to sit in front of you and say plus 30% height but industry

say plus 30% height but industry

say plus 30% height but industry standard right and you still figure out

standard right and you still figure out

standard right and you still figure out how on earth to get through another

how on earth to get through another

how on earth to get through another thing right our biggest cause of

thing right our biggest cause of

thing right our biggest cause of attrition I’m sorry

attrition I’m sorry

attrition I’m sorry parents who tell their children you need

parents who tell their children you need

parents who tell their children you need MBAs even though most MBAs are framework

MBAs even though most MBAs are framework

MBAs even though most MBAs are framework schools and you’re going to learn more

schools and you’re going to learn more

schools and you’re going to learn more at a rocket ship startup which is going

at a rocket ship startup which is going

at a rocket ship startup which is going to grow 100x in the next two years time

to grow 100x in the next two years time

to grow 100x in the next two years time by going and doing an MBA the amount of

by going and doing an MBA the amount of

by going and doing an MBA the amount of parents I have to count them on the

parents I have to count them on the

parents I have to count them on the phone and I can only stop 30% of the

phone and I can only stop 30% of the

phone and I can only stop 30% of the attrition so for the other 70% still go

attrition so for the other 70% still go

attrition so for the other 70% still go why because parents right okay all right

why because parents right okay all right

why because parents right okay all right here’s the thing though both lending and

here’s the thing though both lending and

here’s the thing though both lending and recruiting you have to simultaneously do

recruiting you have to simultaneously do

recruiting you have to simultaneously do two things have this beautiful

two things have this beautiful

two things have this beautiful unparalleled belief in the beauty of

unparalleled belief in the beauty of

unparalleled belief in the beauty of people in the beauty of the fact that if

people in the beauty of the fact that if

people in the beauty of the fact that if you just get out of their way and they

you just get out of their way and they

you just get out of their way and they get out of their own way they want to

get out of their own way they want to

get out of their own way they want to learn they want to be better they want

learn they want to be better they want

learn they want to be better they want to evolve they want to do more and be

to evolve they want to do more and be

to evolve they want to do more and be more in their life but with that you

more in their life but with that you

more in their life but with that you have to be massively paranoid trust but

have to be massively paranoid trust but

have to be massively paranoid trust but verify right and I actually was better

verify right and I actually was better

verify right and I actually was better at the first in a second and I have

at the first in a second and I have

at the first in a second and I have needed to check myself as well because

needed to check myself as well because

needed to check myself as well because irrespective of all the beauty people do

irrespective of all the beauty people do

irrespective of all the beauty people do cheat you and do fraud you and do lie

cheat you and do fraud you and do lie

cheat you and do fraud you and do lie about everything possible and somehow

about everything possible and somehow

about everything possible and somehow you’re still stuck doing both every

you’re still stuck doing both every

you’re still stuck doing both every single day because the latter life’s too

single day because the latter life’s too

single day because the latter life’s too cynical

cynical

cynical and I am NOT signing up for that and the

and I am NOT signing up for that and the

and I am NOT signing up for that and the former well you get burned and then the

former well you get burned and then the

former well you get burned and then the world is telling you and waiting every

world is telling you and waiting every

world is telling you and waiting every single day just to tell you you were

single day just to tell you you were

single day just to tell you you were for believing in people in lending or

for believing in people in lending or

for believing in people in lending or recruiting I see you have to do both

recruiting I see you have to do both

recruiting I see you have to do both okay now again the pattern you’re right

okay now again the pattern you’re right

okay now again the pattern you’re right why are people thinking 10x so we

why are people thinking 10x so we

why are people thinking 10x so we covered the first part because you can

covered the first part because you can

covered the first part because you can because why not right because life is so

because why not right because life is so

because why not right because life is so much better that way because you’re

much better that way because you’re

much better that way because you’re revolving every day but here’s the

revolving every day but here’s the

revolving every day but here’s the reality the most affordable luxury of a

reality the most affordable luxury of a

reality the most affordable luxury of a lala land to go through that

lala land to go through that

lala land to go through that problem-solving doubt most of us do it

problem-solving doubt most of us do it

problem-solving doubt most of us do it because we’re fighting for survival why

because we’re fighting for survival why

because we’re fighting for survival why do startups think 10x why why startups

do startups think 10x why why startups

do startups think 10x why why startups because you’re fighting for survival who

because you’re fighting for survival who

because you’re fighting for survival who among you has climbed a tree raise your

among you has climbed a tree raise your

among you has climbed a tree raise your hands oh damn wonderful ok if a lion was

hands oh damn wonderful ok if a lion was

hands oh damn wonderful ok if a lion was standing in front of you would you climb

standing in front of you would you climb

standing in front of you would you climb a tree which is nearby raise your hands

a tree which is nearby raise your hands

a tree which is nearby raise your hands whoever is not raising your hand right

whoever is not raising your hand right

whoever is not raising your hand right now I am very concerned right come on

now I am very concerned right come on

now I am very concerned right come on basic survival instinct we’re all born

basic survival instinct we’re all born

basic survival instinct we’re all born with that you’re fighting for survival a

with that you’re fighting for survival a

with that you’re fighting for survival a lion is in front of you and you climbed

lion is in front of you and you climbed

lion is in front of you and you climbed a tree and the second your brain can go

a tree and the second your brain can go

a tree and the second your brain can go there the second you know that is what

there the second you know that is what

there the second you know that is what you will do create you cross another

you will do create you cross another

you will do create you cross another mental block already why are we a

mental block already why are we a

mental block already why are we a judgmental society why are we trying to

judgmental society why are we trying to

judgmental society why are we trying to behavior assess why can’t you behavior

behavior assess why can’t you behavior

behavior assess why can’t you behavior change bungler what about behavior

change bungler what about behavior

change bungler what about behavior change and yes they hated it until they

change and yes they hated it until they

change and yes they hated it until they got some perspective but guess what just

got some perspective but guess what just

got some perspective but guess what just like your body which is a muscle the

like your body which is a muscle the

like your body which is a muscle the more you inflict on it the more it grows

more you inflict on it the more it grows

more you inflict on it the more it grows after pain same with your mind are you

after pain same with your mind are you

after pain same with your mind are you ready for that infliction of pain though

ready for that infliction of pain though

ready for that infliction of pain though and are you willing to thank those

and are you willing to thank those

and are you willing to thank those people who do that for you right

people who do that for you right

people who do that for you right adversity can be your biggest strength

adversity can be your biggest strength

adversity can be your biggest strength because one day you keep walking you

because one day you keep walking you

because one day you keep walking you keep walking you keep working one day

keep walking you keep working one day

keep walking you keep working one day you will be better right it adding to

you will be better right it adding to

you will be better right it adding to yourself you’re not doing anybody else a

yourself you’re not doing anybody else a

yourself you’re not doing anybody else a favor but they are doing one to you do

favor but they are doing one to you do

favor but they are doing one to you do you just have the sense to see that ok

you just have the sense to see that ok

you just have the sense to see that ok it is about reframing right ok now last

it is about reframing right ok now last

it is about reframing right ok now last thing so there’s three buckets a B and C

thing so there’s three buckets a B and C

thing so there’s three buckets a B and C how many of you have ever been in a and

how many of you have ever been in a and

how many of you have ever been in a and by the world I mean really any other

by the world I mean really any other

by the world I mean really any other boss in the world but yourself where

boss in the world but yourself where

boss in the world but yourself where someone else

someone else

someone else ever said or showed you that it was

ever said or showed you that it was

ever said or showed you that it was possible and you thought or said it

possible and you thought or said it

possible and you thought or said it wasn’t ever even once in your life okay

wasn’t ever even once in your life okay

wasn’t ever even once in your life okay exactly right so guess what by the way

exactly right so guess what by the way

exactly right so guess what by the way sound that crazy person who gives people

sound that crazy person who gives people

sound that crazy person who gives people feedback in interviews because if the

feedback in interviews because if the

feedback in interviews because if the Nagin if I either say yes or a end up

Nagin if I either say yes or a end up

Nagin if I either say yes or a end up giving them feedback rate 20 extra

giving them feedback rate 20 extra

giving them feedback rate 20 extra minutes sometimes they don’t like it

minutes sometimes they don’t like it

minutes sometimes they don’t like it though okay

though okay

though okay um so there was a guy who was very bad

um so there was a guy who was very bad

um so there was a guy who was very bad at one skill where you really wanted to

at one skill where you really wanted to

at one skill where you really wanted to be and I said okay you know what go

be and I said okay you know what go

be and I said okay you know what go become hundred X better in four months

become hundred X better in four months

become hundred X better in four months and then let’s talk again and keep in

and then let’s talk again and keep in

and then let’s talk again and keep in touch so he was in bucket a guess what

touch so he was in bucket a guess what

touch so he was in bucket a guess what bucket in bucket B is really easy right

bucket in bucket B is really easy right

bucket in bucket B is really easy right is it easier is it not the world is

is it easier is it not the world is

is it easier is it not the world is already saying it’s possible so all you

already saying it’s possible so all you

already saying it’s possible so all you have to do is be like yeah I just my

have to do is be like yeah I just my

have to do is be like yeah I just my comfort zone yeah I’m scared yeah I

comfort zone yeah I’m scared yeah I

comfort zone yeah I’m scared yeah I don’t know how to do this but someone

don’t know how to do this but someone

don’t know how to do this but someone else is saying it okay fine just move

else is saying it okay fine just move

else is saying it okay fine just move just it sits right there just shift a

just it sits right there just shift a

just it sits right there just shift a little bit okay all right so so finally

little bit okay all right so so finally

little bit okay all right so so finally after five minutes of convincing he

after five minutes of convincing he

after five minutes of convincing he shifted right because I showed them

shifted right because I showed them

shifted right because I showed them three buckets now guess what B to C is

three buckets now guess what B to C is

three buckets now guess what B to C is harder but we could take it on our ego

harder but we could take it on our ego

harder but we could take it on our ego to it okay

to it okay

to it okay so suddenly you’re saying it’s possible

so suddenly you’re saying it’s possible

so suddenly you’re saying it’s possible guess what your brain already believes

guess what your brain already believes

guess what your brain already believes it the second you say it’s possible you

it the second you say it’s possible you

it the second you say it’s possible you figure you’ve print your mind into at

figure you’ve print your mind into at

figure you’ve print your mind into at least starting to think that it’s

least starting to think that it’s

least starting to think that it’s possible okay now what now it believes

possible okay now what now it believes

possible okay now what now it believes it it is a little bit great now enter

it it is a little bit great now enter

it it is a little bit great now enter see the world is saying is not possible

see the world is saying is not possible

see the world is saying is not possible so I actually react on him but I was

so I actually react on him but I was

so I actually react on him but I was like well at first I had to convince him

like well at first I had to convince him

like well at first I had to convince him first 15 minutes you can do this here

first 15 minutes you can do this here

first 15 minutes you can do this here are ways you can do this last five

are ways you can do this last five

are ways you can do this last five minutes yeah I don’t think you can do it

minutes yeah I don’t think you can do it

minutes yeah I don’t think you can do it right hundred X in four months that’s a

right hundred X in four months that’s a

right hundred X in four months that’s a very very big improvement guess what

very very big improvement guess what

very very big improvement guess what bucket C is entrepreneurship well

bucket C is entrepreneurship well

bucket C is entrepreneurship well they’re saying it’s not possible and

they’re saying it’s not possible and

they’re saying it’s not possible and you’re the one who’s taking it in your

you’re the one who’s taking it in your

you’re the one who’s taking it in your ego and thinking it is so can you change

ego and thinking it is so can you change

ego and thinking it is so can you change every day to become a better version of

every day to become a better version of

every day to become a better version of yourself to be more built for success

yourself to be more built for success

yourself to be more built for success it’s not about the I sincerely believe

it’s not about the I sincerely believe

it’s not about the I sincerely believe right life is not about finding

right life is not about finding

right life is not about finding ourselves even though our generation the

ourselves even though our generation the

ourselves even though our generation the millennial one thinks that’s what life

millennial one thinks that’s what life

millennial one thinks that’s what life is about why don’t we create ourselves

is about why don’t we create ourselves

is about why don’t we create ourselves every single data it’s given the

every single data it’s given the

every single data it’s given the dichotomy between

dichotomy between

dichotomy between should I change I be myself create a

should I change I be myself create a

should I change I be myself create a whole new you

whole new you

whole new you [Applause]

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